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What up what up peeps. This isn't really a vent I think :-
Male, 24. I'm looking for people my age to go out partying with on Fridays/Saturdays. My social life is kinda fucked up atm cause I don't have friends that go out or work a similar job than me and I'd like to go out at least a couple of times a month.
I'd like to go out with people and make friends rather than going by myself.
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Hello there, I’m 30+ M Muslim, I’ve been feeling like I’m missing a genuine connection with someone I can talk to openly and comfortably. I’ve been carrying a lot of thoughts and emotions by myself, and sometimes I just wish I had someone who could listen without judging me.
I value trust, honesty, privacy, mutual respect, and meaningful conversations. I’m not looking to rush anything or force a particular kind of relationship. I simply miss having someone I can talk to, understand, and connect with on a deeper level.
Sometimes it feels difficult to find people with whom you can genuinely be yourself. I just wanted to get that feeling off my chest.
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I got a question on how you can desexualize yourself cause my sexual appetite is getting out of hand idk if it’s weird but im super attracted to huge clits i get so fucking hard for them i love sucking on them and i know how to work them ,i have a massive oral fixation i love anything oral especially when i am the one giving it ,i like eating a girls out if she has a big clit demo that’s a jackpot. Even when i watch porn i only watch girls with massive clis that’s the only thing that gets me hard. I have such a foul mouth and im very spontaneous and unpredictable most of the girls i have been with have told me that it is an exciting trait.
I really need to feel like it’s real i feel like it will make euphoria with my future intimacy.
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Hey,
is it normal that whenever I start developing feelings for someone yewededkewu yemeselgn, and then when they tell me they’re in love Wiz or fkr siyabezubegn mideberugn, ymr felegiwu adelm gn chenekegn? I don’t know why this happens to me. ymr I don’t want to hurt anybody gn, but I can’t control yehen sebayen. I genuinely don’t want to hurt anyone or lead anyone on, but somehow, once they start feeling the same way about me, I lose the feelings I had for them. Please, what can I do about this? How can I control it?
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Hello there, I’ve been feeling like I’m missing a genuine connection with someone I can talk to openly and comfortably. I’ve been carrying a lot of thoughts and emotions by myself, and sometimes I just wish I had someone who could listen without judging me.
I value trust, honesty, privacy, mutual respect, and meaningful conversations. I’m not looking to rush anything or force a particular kind of relationship. I simply miss having someone I can talk to, understand, and connect with on a deeper level.
Sometimes it feels difficult to find people with whom you can genuinely be yourself. I just wanted to get that feeling off my chest.
#Friendship #Adult
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hey እንዴት ናችሁ i think ይሄ ሁለተኛ vente መሰለኝ i don't know how to start ግን ዝም ብዬ ከመሀል ልጀምር it's been 13 years since my trauma begin እና እስከ ዛሬ ድረስ አለ ውስጤ ምንም እንኳን ረጅም ጊዜ ቢሆንም ልረሳው አልቻልኩም i wish የሆነ አደጋ ደርሶብኝ ሁሉንም ነገር ረስቼ ህይወቴን እንደ አዲስ መጀመር ብችል በጣም ፀዴ ነበረ የሚሆነው እንደ Normal ሰው ሁኜ መኖር ነው ምኞቴ ይሄንን ስል ሰዎች ፈጣሪህን አመስግን ካንተ በላይ ስንት የተጎዳ አለ ሀኪም ቤት ተኝቶ የሚሰቃይ አለ ምናምን ይላሉ yeah ይገባኛል ልክ ናቸው እኮ ግን ሁሉም ሰው እኩል አደለም አንዳንዱ ጠንካራ ነው አንዳንዱ ደግሞ በጣም sensitive ነው ለዛም ነው መሰለኝ አንዳንድ ሰው ትንሽ ነገር ሲሆን በጣም የሚጎዳው i think ችግርን የምንቋቋምበት አቅማችን ይለያያል መሰለኝ እንደ እድል ሆኖ በጣም sensitive ነኝ እኔ ለዛም ነው መሰለኝ እንደዚ የሆንኩት ። እውነት ለመናገር በህይወቴ ምንም ደስተኛ አደለሁም ምንም ነገር ላሳካ አልቻልኩም ትምህርት ላይም እንዲሁም ደህና ጓደኛ በማግኘት ላይም ይመስለኛል አሁን ላይ ሁሉም የራሴ የሚለው ሰው አለው ፤ ከባድ ነው ደግሞ best friend ካለው ሰውጋ ጓደኛ መሆን እንደኔ ሀሳብ ሁለት ሰዎች ጓደኛ መሆን የሚችሉት ሁለቱም ተመሳሳይ ባህሪ ሲኖራቸው እና ሁለቱም ማንም ከሌላቸው ነው እንደዚ ሲሆን ይመስለኛል አሪፍ ጓደኝነት ይፈጠራል ብዬ ማስበው እና ብቻ ጓደኛ ማግኘት ለኔ አይሆንም ብዬ ትቼዋለሁ I've tried so many things to be happy ግን non of them doesn't work እና ምናልባት ስራ ባገኝ ስራ ላይ ትኩረት ስለማረግ ያለብኝን ነገር እረሳለሁ ብዬ አስቤ ከስንት ልፋት በኋላ ስራ አግኝቼ ጀምሬ ነበረ ግን ውስጤ ያለው ስሜት ሊለቀኝ አልቻለም እኔንጃ እውነት ምን ማረግ እንዳለብኝ በጣም ደካማ ሰው ነኝ ትንሽ ነገር ነው የሚጎዳኝ i know ገና ወጣት ነኝ ብዙ ፈተና እና ችግር ይጠብቀኛል ግን አልችልም እውነት ይሄም ከብዶኛል አደለም ሌላ ችግር ለመጋፈጥ ። ልክ Fight ላይ choke ስንደረግ ወይንም ደግሞ Fight ን መቀጠል ሲያቅተን tap አርገን Fight ን ማስቆም እንችል የለ ህይወታችን ላይም እንደዚ ቢቻል ፀዴ ነበረ እውነት እንደ መጠበቅ የሚከብድ ነገር የለም በዛ ላይ ምንም ለማይሻሻል ነገር መጠበቅ ያስጠላል ። አንድ ሳምንት ሞላኝ 21 ከያዝኩኝ ገና ብዙ ነገር እንደሚጠብቀኝ አውቃለሁ ግን ገና ከአሁኑ ደክሞኛል እና ልጠይቃችሁ የፈለኩት ነገር they say time heal your
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I need to vent. This is for the men who are 30+ and genuinely ready to settle down. I’m Muslim, 26 F, ambitious, smart, and confident. I’m an outgoing, home-loving hybrid, I enjoy my peace at home just as much as a great day out shopping or catching up with my favorite people. I bring genuine intentions, brains, beauty, and zero desire to play mind games. I am 100% ready for a serious, grounded relationship that leads to marriage. I’m looking for a Muslim: A Provider & Protector: A truly masculine, tall, and good-looking man who knows how to take care of his woman in every sense, someone who makes me feel safe, cherish, and completely secure. Stability & Emotional Maturity: Financially stable, career-focused, and emotionally grounded. The Vibe: Smart, sharp, and confident. Completely loyal and dedicated to your woman. Generous & Attentive: A man who understands thoughtfulness, appreciates quality, and knows how to treat his partner like a queen. I just want to find my person, build something meaningful, and be at peace with my man.
If this sounds like you and you are ready for marriage, leave a comment below. (And please make sure your profile picture is visible if we move to DMs and exchange IDs!)
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I always think it is better to decide big decisions in front of an audience because they will spot the emotional component out and help you be logical. Can anyone please help me decide some career decision? I can continue working under my proffession and have a stable life or i can try and make it from the scratch on a business idea. Im male 28 bzw
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21 Woman
Idk what I'm doing asking it here but I desperately need help so if there are doctors or maybe women who are going thru the same experience as me, HEAR MEOWT
So I've had my first period when I was 11 and I've been blessed with painless (literally only notice it was here when I notice stain) period. But God decided to cancel my premium subscription when I was 16 years old. That day everything was painful and I was vomiting literal blood. I had cramps to the point I thought I'd pass out and meet my creator. And I live in a family where medicine is the very very last choice so they bought me ibuprofen when I was on the verge of dying. And I dared to think that was the verge of death but every month after that it kept proving me wrong got worse than ever. And I took ibuprofen every single month. But this year was specifically hard. My dosage to ibuprofen went up because only one pill wasn't enough. I started taking two. But yk even when I took the ibuprofen it only lessened the symptoms. Cramps and everything were still there but it helped me stop the nausea and vomit.
And the weirdest part is, my period is NEVER late. To the point I remember the instances it was 29 days(3 times) and once 34 days. My cycle is 28 days long.
And as I told you, now even 4 pills are not helping me. I keep taking more and more but it's not helping me function much. And I've tried every remedy ginger, fixing your diet.... you name it. And....what worried me is I have history of uterus related problem in my family. My 2 aunts had surgery that almost led to hysterectomy were they a little late. Some kind of tumor in their uterus they said. And I'm getting deep into the web search that it's starting to worry me.
Now you might ask, why not visit a doctor??? I told u the kind of family I live in and even my aunts who experienced and went thru whole surgery are insisting it's only natural. And I'm being paranoid and I should stop with the medicine I'm taking every month. I'm being told "if there will ever be a problem it will be because of this medicine you are taking every month" so....there is that. But now I've made up my mind to get it checked once I leave for uni so if there is a good and affordable place I can get that done pleaseeeee recommend me!!! But til then, is this okay? Am I being paranoid?? Thank u for staying and reading allat
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Hello guys
I'm 21F ena i need friends up to 25 yalachu setoch ብትሆኑ it's preferable I didn't mind if you are males too ሰፈራቹ ወደ mexico & lideta ያላቹ Tik tolk መስራት ማይደብራቹ having fun ማረግ ምችሉ መቃለድ መዞር አዲስ ሰፈር መሄድ ሚፈልግ real friendship ሚፈልግ we hangout share አርገን ብርር ማለት ነው ask my ID
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I want to meet some new friends i want to talk lately i feel alone. So if anyone intrestd just talking i can use your help
. I am male btw.
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I am 26F. And i just want u guys to give me ur honest opinion about sth i have been thinking lately.
I genuinely want to be in a committed meaningful serious relationship. I have been in a relationship for 2 yrs.. he was abusive liar narcissistic. So after that i had fwb(i did it to forget my ex). And then for 3yrs I wasn’t dating or anything but i was depressed betam and i started dating after some time. Ena honestly almost every guy I’ve gone on date seems to eventually interested in sth sexual. When i tell them i am not ready . They disappear bka. It’s making me question whether it’s even possible to find someone who genuinely wants to know me, love me, and build something meaningful with me. And whenever that thought comes into my mind, I start asking myself “ if i am already losing hope of that kind of relationship then why not to have fun, have sex enjoy myself,and stop talking relationship seriously. I’m honestly confused because one part of me still wants something genuine and meaningful, while another part of me is starting to think, “Maybe I should just stop hoping for it and enjoy life instead.”
1.What do you guys think? Have you ever felt this way?
2. What do u think about body counts?
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Hey guys,
I’m 22 (M). Posting anonymously because I need your brutal, unfiltered feedback on my life right now. Don't hold back.
At 18 I joined a sales company. I gave it everything—18-hour days, sleeping on office floors, and building my own sells company which grows too120+ employees . I thought I made it i have everything in life i stop my frsh man class at university i start to live by my self .
Then the sales model completely crashed. At 21, I was hit with 3,000,000 Birr debt, got arrested multiple times, and the people who used to applaud me started laughing behind my back.
The shame destroyed me. I locked myself in a room for months with severe depression and social anxiety. I couldn't look at myself, so I literally wore a cap and a face mask inside my room, and one night in a breakdown, I shaved off my hair with a knife. I felt completely worthless and wanted to end it all.
A few months ago, I realized that while the sales company failed, my leadership, drive, and communication were 100% real. I stopped waiting for a miracle and started taking small 1% daily steps:
Finished 2 months of driving school and got comfortable behind the wheel.
Helping my family like going arround carrying things
• Business & Degree: Moved to Adama under my uncle (who owns pharmacies, a gym, and a petrol station). I’m will start too l enrolling in a Business/Management
Also trying to do some contents too
My questions for you guys:
I went from 3,000,000 debt, arrests, and hiding under a mask in a dark room, to finishing driving school, tutoring my cousin, enrolling in a business class , and managing gym content at 22.
1. How do you judge my path and mindset? Am I moving right?
2. If you were in my shoes at 22, what would your next move be?
Is it to let too start class at the age of 22
Be brutally honest.
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Me and my man have been together 5 years. Last time I vented about him (I think 4 years ago), I talked about how I was basically a nymphomaniac about him. Somehow it’s worse now 😭 He’s the sweetest. I thought by now my feelings would have stagnated, but the better he treats me, the more attached I become. I LOVE him more every day, I’m more attracted to him every day, and I always want to be around him.
But I’ve become genuinely codependent, and it scares me because I used to be VERY independent. I loved doing things alone, going places by myself, having my own routine and doing things my way. I feel like I’ve lost that person.
I can’t sleep if he’s not in bed. I don’t want to eat unless he’s eating. I call him constantly, sometimes every hour. I don’t want to go out without him, and even when I do, I don’t enjoy it as much. He takes care of me so much that I’ve also become lazy and dependent on him for things I used to do myself.
The biggest problem is that my happiness is becoming dependent on his presence. Sex addiction is one thing, but now I feel addicted to HIM. If he’s not around, everything feels less enjoyable. What happens if, we have a serious fight, or something changes between us? The idea of my entire emotional stability being tied to him genuinely scares me.
It makes me wonder what I’d become if he ever stopped wanting me. I don’t mean “I’d be so heartbroken.” I genuinely worry I’d lose my mind.
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This for the male gaze
Hey so I love my partner and we do have the best sex so my question is currently we are in different places so we sex chat a lot and when I send him pictures I feel a little insecure and overthink a lot what if he doesn't like what he sees menm he is always happy and glad how do you guys feel about discoloration struchmarks loosing weight
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honestly just need to vent for a minute.
23m Lately I’ve been feeling like I don’t really want a traditional, serious relationship. I’m not necessarily looking for someone to immediately call my partner or make huge promises with. I think I just want someone I genuinely connect with—someone I can talk to, laugh with, hang out with, and feel comfortable around.
I miss having someone who actually wants to spend time together without everything becoming complicated. Someone who can respect boundaries, communicate honestly, and enjoy each other’s company without unnecessary drama or pressure.
Maybe I’m just tired of relationships where everything has to be so serious all the time. I want something simple and honest. If we enjoy talking, we talk. If we want to hang out, we hang out. If we need space, we give each other space. No pretending, no games, and no making promises we aren’t ready to keep.
I know this probably sounds confusing because I don’t even completely understand what I want myself. 😅 Maybe I’m just looking for companionship and a connection that feels natural instead of forced.
I also don’t want to lead anyone on. I’d rather be honest from the beginning about what I’m looking for and let the other person decide whether they’re comfortable with it.
I guess I just want to meet someone who gets that sometimes you can care about someone and enjoy their company without immediately knowing where everything is going.
Am I the only one who feels like this? 😭
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Please don't judge me. I met a girl older than me last year while working on a charity project. When we returned to university this year, we started talking often. I noticed she wasn't doing well, so I reached out first. I fell in love with her in a deep, best-friend way and wanted to treat her better than anyone else. I am quiet by nature, but talking to her felt easy. I admired her from afar, but when I teased her about missing her, she said she wanted my loyalty. I told her I cared about her deeply and wasn't joking. She struggles to express feelings, so she didn't say it back, but I didn't mind. I was always the one reaching out, waiting for replies, and calling first. Whenever she initiated contact, it was usually just about charity work. I always felt nervous around her.
Over semester break, she stopped replying for days, which was unusual. I felt like I was being too much, so I backed off. When I stopped texting, she asked why I was ignoring her. Her noticing made me feel like she cared, so I resumed normal contact. Back at uni, I would stay up during dorm sleepovers just to keep her company while she studied. But I was constantly hurt when she ignored my texts or didn't visit, even though we lived on the same floor. Over the next break, I realized I was double-texting just to get a reply. She claimed she forgot, but feeling ignored killed me. I tried to excuse it because she has six or seven siblings and a busy life, but when I finally went home and stopped texting, ten days passed before she noticed.
When she finally called, I couldn't act normal because I struggle to be myself around family. I started calling her rarely. She invited me to a friend's wedding, but I declined using my dad as an excuse because I didn't want to see her. She just said "okay," and we stopped talking. Later, when she checked in, I mentioned needing time for myself, and she went completely silent. I felt guilty and texted her a week later. Recently, she asked if I could take her ID and register for her at uni. I didn't want to, and my dad would be upset, so I asked if someone else could do it. She replied, "It's okay, I'll ask someone else." I panicked and sent messages saying I loved her and would do anything for her, but she didn't reply. I feel unworthy and confused about how to handle seeing her back on campus without making things awkward.and am i exaggerating?
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I’m 28M and I’ve never been in a relationship.
Most of my life these past few years has basically been work, learning and trying to figure out my future. I’m into AI and tech, so I spend a lot of time learning, listening to podcasts, reading books and articles, and going down random rabbit holes about things I find interesting.
I live alone too, so I’m pretty used to doing things by myself. Coffee alone, eating alone, watching something, reading, thinking about life, then doing it all again the next day.
And honestly, I don’t hate it. But sometimes it gets lonely.
Sometimes I just want someone I can talk to about random stuff. Not work, not career, not what I’m learning. Just normal conversations. Maybe go for coffee, walk around, joke about stupid things and get to know each other.
I’ve never actually asked a girl out before 😅. I guess I was always thinking I had to get my life together first, and dating could come later.
Now I’m starting to think maybe that’s not how it works.
So yeah, I’m not really looking to force anything. I’d just like to meet someone and see if we get along. Friendship is completely fine too.
I’m in Addis Ababa. If you can relate to any of this, feel free to message me
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Definition - Dating anyone above 4- 5 years give and take is dating an older guy
The libido just isn’t there in that age gap maybe? Or am I hyper sexual? Maybe he is just not attracted to me anymore? I have never been one to invest in my looks but I have been told I look good, my skin and eyes help but maybe I should work on my posture and get a bit more muscle, be more flexible! Idk but it’s not like his going to the gym or getting his hair done for me but I understand him uk then what is it! Why aren’t we fucking like bunnies right now! Why you asleep?! We never go out anymore, not that we really did before! You never initiate stuff! I feel old I am not that old lol! Do I not strive in committed relationships!? Can I not commit? Why am I so scared? What if he proposes? I am bored! It’s kinda peaceful now we don’t fight as much but I am kinda just bored! I need more in my life, and I am trying to do shit but I kinda feel like you drag me down! Like get out the house sometime! I sound crazy because I knew he was an introvert and he is productive even at home but like I wanna do shit in the relationship then watch a movie while he sleeps mid film! But like is that cause he is older? He is just seen it all neger? I do go out with my friends and shit but like I want flavor in my relationship you know what I mean! Eyekebetku new ?! I mean we have a pretty good life thank God buttttt also like what do you say? How do you communicate this?! It feels lacking? Also he said he would get married if I died so that’s a red flag, and he also was hollering at some girl he had “drinks” with telling her she fine or whatever in her DMs but then I went on a dating app so we both kinda fucked up anyway!
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Just putting this out there: I’m a woman into findom and the femdom dynamic.I think I’m genuinely getting addicted to femdom and financial domination at this point 😭 It’s been consuming way too much of my brain lately. I keep telling myself I’ll chill out, but apparently that’s not happening. If anyone here has advice, experience, or knows how to deal with this obsession, I’m listening...And if you think you can actually handle my energy… prove it.
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I need to vent b/c I want friends who I can talk them abt things like international politics, some conspiracy theories, abt God, logic, reason, history, countries history…..so if any one who is interested with this ask my id or account and we will share some idea TikTok videos and file or articles so pls I don’t have this kinda friend so…….🤗
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21 F i need me a tall and handsome and dark skin man. Whyy is it so hard to find one likeee whyyyy
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Okay guys gather up I guess this is an audition for guys who are 30 & above and is in a place to be married
26 f smart , beautiful, sexy , ambitious, very confident.. out going fun , in place for serious relationship/ marriage and a genuine person looking for aman who is very stable , tall,good looking smart knows what he wants ( emotionally matured), a little bit dirty minded ( kind of a reformed playboy 😄), knows how to take care of a woman and is a masculine man who is ready for marriage… I am very much tired of this dating thing our generation has and I just want to find my place and be in peace with my man so if you are whom I expressed and is interested comment below I guess and please make your profile picture visible when I ask your ID and you permit
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Man here is the thing am sadist person and it came very hard to find masochistic girl and could not be in relationship help if uk the way to find
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I found the perfect guy, but I'm terrified my past will ruin our chance at a Teklil marriage. 😭I (22F) am in a situation that is literally keeping me awake at night, and I just need to get this off my chest.A while ago, my dorm mates and I were talking about relationships, and one of them told us about this Habesha Christian dating bot on Telegram called @KidanBot . We all joined for fun, and on my bio, I wrote that my ultimate dream is to get married in a Teklil ceremony.(I font know why I wrote that🙄) 🙏🏽Well, I ended up matching with this absolute gentleman. We started chatting, then moved to phone calls, and finally met up since we go to the same university. He is everything I’ve ever prayed for. He is deeply rooted in his faith, very active in Gibi Gubae, and treats me so well.The problem? He keeps bringing up how much he wants a Teklil marriage, and every time he mentions it, my heart drops into my stomach. 💔Before him, I had an ex who pushed my boundaries. One day, things went too far, and he rubbed against me. I panicked and stopped him immediately before any penetration happened, but the guilt has haunted me ever since. Medically, I know I am still a virgin, but spiritually and emotionally, I feel like a fraud every time my current guy talks about our "pure" future.I am so incredibly scared of losing him. Part of me just wants to confess everything so I don't feel like I'm hiding a secret, but I'm terrified he'll judge me or leave because his standards are so high. I really don't want to mess this up, but the anxiety of not being "perfect" enough for him is suffocating. Has anyone else navigated this kind of guilt in a Habesha Christian relationship? What do I do? Should I make him make a mistake with me before marriage(he is not diakon so, it wont harm him but could ruining his dream will haunt me?😔🧠
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Guys I really need your honest advice
My mom has a friend in Sweden He came here for new yr and my mom told him that she has a daughter He contacted me we started talking and last night he told me that he loves me and wants to marry me He’s 36 and I’m 21, and he’s also a diaspora and apparently very wealthy He basically told me to say yes and marry him honestly I’m really confused because everything happened so fast I don’t even know him that well and the truth is I’ve never really wanted marriage or kids for myself i feel like I’m enough on my own and I don’t want to sacrifice myself or the life I’m building just because this opportunity came but my mom has been through a lot She was living in Dubai, got arrested, and eventually came back here, and I know she has her own struggles so now I’m confused about whether I’m thinking about myself or feeling pressured because of what my mom has been through I don’t want to make a decision out of guilt, money, or pressure At the same time I don’t know if I’m being too closed-minded about it Please tell me honestly what you think Should I even consider this, or should I step back and take my time? I really don’t want to sacrifice myself for something I’m not sure about
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Hey:)it's been 5 months since the problem occur when i play skate i fall by my right buttock and right hand i just sit by that side first then after 4 day i got severe one sided headache with eye pain (right side) and severe light sensitivity i go to 3 hospital and i checked my eye they all said me your eye normal just mild dryness. I forget the day i fall and when i read on reddit he say may be the problem on ur eye will be past injury. Anyone who experience like this and how i correct my posture(pic on comment section )
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Just found my bestfriends post on a platform. she doesn't know I follow her on it since my account is anonymous. I'm in tears rn. Gonna copy and share it here as lord knows I'm in no position to help.
"Should I attend my graduation?
23 y.o. Just completed my degree. Graduation takes place in about a week.
I am so so grateful to God for this milestone. I've been through a lot, especially since highschool and genuinely didn't believe I would make it this far. My family is elated about it too. We've went through so much as a family and I know that this win probably means more to them than it does to me.
Here's the problem. I am utterly unprepared for all the expenses that come with it. And no I don't mean graduation parties with a ድግስ at home. I mean the basics like A dress to wear(wardrobe is full of pants and shirts), taking pictures or even renting the graduation gown. Everyone around me is prepared with their nails done, professional photo shoots, human hair bought, makeup booked and stuff. I'm not even sure I'll make it to the schools year book photo shoot.
This summer has taken a hit on us with parents medical expenses and rent going up, i can't rely on them for any of these expenses. I told them not to worry when they asked about it, saying i woukd probably borrow a dress from a friend (i can't cause I'm a bit too chubby for that). I even managed to get a part time job temporarily during my last exam season, all i could buy in the end was one shoe. The goal of taking my family to graduation በራይድ and treating them to lunch went down the drain.
I don't want to ruin it for my family as they are already preparing to attend the ceremony, but I'm thinking why even bother going. I should just turn my phone off and let the next two weeks pass, just pick up my papers from the college when the buzz dies down.
One, I don''t even think I made the honors graduate list, I'm 0.something short. (Though i don't take my current graduation for granted, it's a miracle that I even went to college after health issues that nearly ended my academic path after hughschool).
Two, what would I be doing? Showing up in casual wear and getting into pictures. Feels like setting up myself for a humiliation ritual.
I don't even know what to do right now. Some of my aunts from the country side had pooled together 20k ETB and sent it for me through mom, but we used it for groceries (long story but dad wasn't getting paid for 2-3 months and we needed the money to survive as a family).
I'm currently out of solutions and sitting here trying not to spiral as I read my school's post calling us to pay for the graduation gowns tomorrow and pick them up on Wednesday.
Don't get me wrong I am grateful but also sad... two things can coexist ig.
I know skipping the graduation stuff would break my family's heart and probably be a loss of a memory of this chapter in life. But I also know I can't do anything about it. I don't even know why I'm writing this. I just needed to get it off my chest.. somewhere to let the pathetic thoughts out safely ig, cause the people around me think I have it all figured out and the last thing I want to do is vent to them.
Thanks for reading. Good night."
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