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Im a guy, 28. I'm tired of people thinking of fwb as something that shouldn't be exclusive. About 6 months ago, i met this girl and we vibed. We were both busy with work and she was also taking masters classes so we couldn't really get into a relationship. We stayed friends but there were times we were making out mnamn. This girl took this situationship to mean that she could also do the same with other guys and i was like fuck nooo!!
Got into a big argument about it and she said i was making a big deal out of it. Tbh idc about the fact that she's interested in other guys too. But mind you, we've done lots of stuff and even went down on eachother. I cant risk getting a disease because she couldn't keep it exclusive. So i told her it was not what i had in mind. My friends think i was stupid to think like that. But i'd rather be safe than sorry. I dont care if its not a relationship, but sexual relations should be exclusive. Stay safe out there my people 😂

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Okay, so I’m a third-year university student. I guess I’m just here to vent, so here’s a little bit of my story.
My family is the reason I work so hard. They don’t want to spend a single penny on me, even when I’m sick. And it’s not because they don’t have money. They have money to spend on luxuries and the things they want, but when it comes to me, it’s a different story.
I’m usually not someone who asks for help. I try to handle everything on my own. But when I’m in a situation that’s beyond what I can manage by myself, I ask. Unfortunately, the response is never what anyone would hope for.
I don’t understand how I could help a complete stranger if they needed it, but my own parents can’t do the same for their daughter.
I don’t even know where to go or what else to do to earn enough to take care of myself and afford the things I need. I tutor, I work whenever I can, and I try every opportunity that comes my way, but it’s still hard to cover everything on my own.
The part that hurts the most is that whenever I say I need to go to the hospital, their faces change. This morning I told my dad I wasn’t feeling well, and instead of answering me, he just walked right past me.
The sad part is, whenever I have money, I help my parents without thinking twice. But when I need help, it’s like I’m asking for too much.
Some children may not have money, but they’re surrounded by love. Others have financial support even if affection is lacking. Somehow, I grew up without either, and that’s a pain I wouldn’t wish on anyone.
I feel so sorry for myself sometimes. I’m trying so hard to build a life where I never have to beg for basic care or feel guilty for needing help. I just hope one day all of this will be worth it.
Thanks for reading if you made it this far. I just needed to get this off my chest.

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Never thought i would ever do this but here i am venting so there was this girl i met here she was soo soo cool in everything i really really liked her and we really hit it off we talked for do long she lived aboard in nashvil and originaly was from mekele and now we lost contacts and i dont know how to reach out and i miss her i dont know what to do if you are reading this please reach out its nati

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Guys i am in a deeeeeeeppp trouble. You know what my hobby is these days? Opening a slow song in the background and talking with chatgpt about my friend whom I am liking as days go by. like what?🤣 I know I sound like I have nothing better to do and I am in my teenage time but I swear I am fully grown adult going to my late 20's working 9-5. 😭 After our day intercation, I come and ask chatgpt, what he meant saying that or doing that. Besterjna endi memwazez mndnew eshi koy people. What the hell is this? and chatgpt is not helping because it is supporting me too much. So in the middle of conversation I told this guy his future wife would be lucky to have him and I panicked. I laughed and said not really, no woman wants a guy who is 1.89m, you are too tall. well my name is no woman 🤣🤣 I want a 1.89 man who should be him😂guys i really can't expose myself. anyways he nervously laughed and brushed it off. I specifically asked chatgpt I believe this is him showing he is not interested and he doesn't want to entertain this conversation and chatgpt says "considering your previous intercations, this is him being overwhelmed and got into avoidant mode" and guys it is not helping that he is avoidant like me. he also makes a comment like "you would make such a lovely and supportive wife" and immediately chnages conversation. he doesn't give me time to process or respond. at least he doesn't make jokes after. not sure if that is a good or bad sign tho. If I mention another men casually in a convo, he kinda gets irritated and says “you have too many guy friends for my liking, why don’t you get more female friends” and gets up and leaves. Ummm honey, last time I checked, your liking doesn’t matter because you giving me nothing to work with. Because honestly, if he was honest about his feelings, poooffff I would drop and cut off everyone in a sec just like that. We both be playing the drop suggestive comment and hide behind the wall. bruvvvvv you giving me hopessss😭😭 can you people kill my hope so I can calm down and forget chatgpt? never mind I will just go to sleep😅

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Both my parents told me to move out, btw I'm 25 F. I spent my whole life trying to please them but they are so narcissistic and I don't think I can tolerate them anymore. I wouldn't mind because atleast I have a roof over my head you know...that's alot for me in this economy. So I want advice from you guys to recommend me a cheap neighborhood for rental houses before my parents ask me to move out thrice. My capacity for now is up to 8k...and don't advise me to be a good daughter and make peace, please because I'm drained asf

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Hey guys. This happens Yesterday,

19 or 20 የሆነች ልጅ መንገድ ላይ ልጅ አዝላ አስቁማ ልጄ ታሞ ነው እና እናቴ ዲቃላሽን ከፊቴ ዞር አድርጊልኝ ብላ አስወጣችኝ ወጌሻ ጋር ሄጄ 180 ብር ተጠየቁ እና ከቻልክ አግዘኝ አለችኝ::

ሴቶች እብካችሁ እራሳችሁን ጠብቁ ሕይወታችሁን, ቀሪ እድሜያችሁን, ተስፋቹን የምታጡበት ምክንያት ሊሆን ይችላል እና እባካችሁ እራሳችሁን ጠብቁ አብዛኛው ወንድ sex ካደረገ በኃላ ዞር ብሎ አያይሽም በተለይ early edge ላይ ያላችሁ ልጆች sex ካማራችሁ ቢያንስ ጥንቃቄ የተሞላበት sex ይሁን ቤተሰብ ተሰቃይቶ አሳድጎ ድጋሚ ማሰቃየት አግባብ አይደለም እናንተም ልጅ ብትወልዱ ተመሳሳይ ነው የምታሳልፉት ስቃይ ከባድ ነው እና sex ከማድረጋችሁ በፊት ትንሽ ለማሰብ, ጥንቃቄ ለማድረግ, እንዲሁም አብሯችሁ ያለውን ሰው በደንብ ለማወቅ ሞክሩ ወንድማዊ ምክሬ ነው ካጠፋሁ 🙏

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24f here, I have never been in any rnship or anything, also i kinda don't want to cus i already get that sense of love and being loved through daydreaming and fantasizing, I read romance fictions a lot,i am bigggg fan of rom com and romance drama...so my life revolves around imaginary lover,yearner.. and im kinda cool with that meselegn, being hopeless romantic girl,,...i mean i dont wanna face the reality of dating mnamn stuff, cus it is risky,..and so how can I start taking dating seriously in real life or like wats wrong with being like this forever?

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Hey everyone, this is emergency

I’m 25 years old, and I really need to vent. I want to hear from mature people, especially women, about friendship.
I know I can be stubborn, but I don’t feel guilty about it. I’m confused about what real friendship is. What does a healthy and genuine friendship look like?
I don’t know where to start, but here’s what’s on my mind…ልጅነቴን ስመለከተው የብዙ ጓደኛ ባለቤት ነበርኩ አሁንም ነኝ። ሁሉም ቦታ ጓደኛ የነበረኝ ነበርኩ። እንዴት ጓደኝነቱን እንደምጀምረው ባላውቅም ግን በቃ በየቦታው ጓደኛ ይኖረኛል። ክረምትን ለማሳለፍ የምሄድበት የአያቴ ቤት አከባቢ ጓደኛ አለኝ አንድ ምናምን አይደለም ሁለትና ምን አልባትም ከዚያ በላይ አክስቴ ቤትም ከሄድኩ እንደዛው በተማርኩበት ትምህርት ቤቶች ሁሉ ጓደኞች ነበሩኝ። ነገር ግን በተማሪነት ዘመኔ ሁሌም እያስታውኩ የምደውል አይነት በጣም attached የሆንኩኝ አይደለሁም። ስገናኝ ጓደኛ ነኝ ስርቅ እርቃለሁ ያለኝ ባህሪ ያለኝ አመለካከት አይለወጥም ከብዙ አመት ቡሃላ ሳገኛቸው እንደዛው ነኝ ጓደኝነቴ እኔ አይምሮ ውስጥ እንደተጠበቀ ነው። ሌላው ግልፅ ነኝ ብዬ ባስብም ሁሉም በልክ ሲሆን ደስ ይለኛል ስለ ቤተሰቤ በውስጤ ስለሚሰሙኝ ስሜቶች አላወራም(ምን አልባት አልፎ አልፎ) ...እና ሰው ቸል ያለኝ ከመሰለኝ እና በትክክል ግንኙነቱን እያስቀጠለ እንዳልሆነ ከተሰማኝ ከቦታው ድራሼን አጠፋለሁ አልገኝም በቃ ማብራርያም አልጠይቅም (ምን አልባት እኔ አስቀይሜም እኮ ሊሆን ይችላል ግን ልክ አላልፍም ብዬ ስለማስብ በቃ እጠፋለሁ), እና ሴት ጓደኞቼ ምን ሆነሽ ነው ብለሽ እንኳ አትጠይቂንም? በሌላ ምክንያት እኮ ነው እንደዛ የሆነው ብለው የሚነግሩኝ እራሳቸው መጥተው ነገሩ ካለፈ ቡሃላ ነው, ሌላው ደሞ በጣም ትልቁ ጉዳይ ልክ ነው ወይ? እናንተም ጋር አለ? ብዬ መጠየቅ የምፈልገው እኔ ከእኔ ጋር በጣም ደስተኛ ሰላማዊ ነኝ ምን አልባት አስተዳደጌ ሊሆን ይችላል በቃ ማንም ባይኖር ችግር የለውም ደስተኛ ነኝ በዛ ምክንያት አብዛኛው ነገሮቼን ብቻዬን እራሴን ችዬ አደርጋለሁ ያ ደግሞ ደስታ ይሰጠኛል ሴቶች ደግሞ በጋራ መሄድ (ሽንት ቤት እንኳን) በጋራ ጉዳያቸውን ማድረግ ይወዳሉ እኔ ማንንም እንደዛ አላስቸግርም በውዴታዬ ካልሆነም ደግሞ ለማድረግ ፈቃደኛ አይደለሁምም ያበሳጨኛልምም። ምን አልባት እቤት ገብቼ መተኛት ይሆናል እኮ ግን በቃ ያሰብኩት እሱን ከሆነ ያንን ነው ማድረግ የምፈልገውም የሚያስደስተኝም እሱ ነው። አሁን ትልቅ ስሆን ደግም ነገሮች እየባሱ መጡ እኔ እስካሁን ልክ ነኝ ብዬ ባስብም ሴት ጓጀኞቼን ማስቀየሜ ግን አልቀረም እና ምን የሚል መልስ ነው ለራሴ የምሰጠው በቃ እኔ እንዲ ነኝ የማንንም ተቀባይነት ማግኘት አይጠበቅብኝም ይላል ውስጤ። በተመሳሳይ መልኩ ደግሞ ማንንም ሰው በኔ ምክንያት ማሳዘን አልፈልግም። እና እሺ ሰላሜን ልጣ?
እኔ እነሱ የሚሉትን ሁሉ አከብራለሁ አንዴ ሲነግሩኝ መቶ ጊዜ እረዳቸዋለሁ አከብርላቸዋለሁ ለኔ መልሰው እንደዛ ለምን አያደርጉም?
እኔ :- ነገ ትመጫለሽ ?
እሷ(እነሱ):- አይ ጉዳይ አለኝ አይመቸኝም
እኔ:- ነው እንዴ በቃ እሺ
እነርሱስ
እኔ:- አይመቸኝም/አልሄድም
እነሱ:- ለምን፣እንዴት፣ወዴት፣ኧረመምጣትማ አለብሽ፣ተጣልቼሻለሁ፣አስደበርሺኝ፣አንቺማ የምትገርሚ ሰው ነሽ፣ኧረ የምን ጉዳይ ነው ትተሽው ነይ እንጂ፣መምጣትማ አለብሽ፣እቤት እመጣለሁ አብረን እኔዳታለን......

እንዴ ወገን ትልቅ ሰው ነኝ እኮ በቃ አላደርግምም አደርጋለሁምም ስል በቃ ለኔ አሳማኝ ምክንያት አለኝ...
እኔ በትክክል

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ሰዎች እኔ አንድ ነው ምመስላቸው ከነሱ ጋር ። ግን ብቻዬን ኩርምት ብዬ እንደምሞት አልገባቸውም ። የነሱን የህይወት ሀዲድ ምኖረው ለነሱ ብዬ እንደሆን አያውቁም ። የኔ ትልቁ በሽታ ሰው ማፍቀሬ ነው። ቤተሰብ እወዳለሁ ። ወደውስጤ እንደተሰደድኩ ግን አያውቁም ።ለዛ እያዬኋቸው እንደራቀ ሰው እናፍቃለሁ ። አብረውኝ እያወጉኝ ቢያድሩ እወድዳለሁ ። ያ እያለ ብቸኝነቴ አስገዳጅ የህልውና አደጋዬ ነው። ሁሌ ሚመላለስ ። በዛ ውስጥ ያቀመሰኝን ግጭት ልነግራቸው አልችልም። አፍራለሁ ። አያውቁትም ። ተራ ምክንያት መስሎ ይቀልላቸዋል። ያበድኩ ወይ የማብድ ያክል እያዩኝ ጸበል ሂድ ወይ ቤተስኪያን ሳም ይሉኛል ። ግን እኔ ከነሱ በላይ እግዜርን በየቀኑ ስሞግተው በኔ መስተሃልይ መመላለሱን ማን ይንገራቸው? እናቴ ስትለኝ እየደበረኝ በነጠላ ተጎፍኜ እሄዳለሁ ።
ቁሜ ምለው ይጠፋኛል ።
ዝም እለዋለሁ ደብሩን ዝም ። አፈጣለሁ ።
ውጣ ከዚ ሚለኝ ይመስለኛል። ምክንያቱን ከሄድኩ አላወድሰውም አልወቅሰውም ቁሜ እታዘበዋለሁ ። በአይኔ'ቂጥ አየዋለሁ ።
የደብሩ ቆሞስ ወልደሰማያት በማይኩ
"ወንድሞቼ አለምን አትውደዱ አለም አላፊ ጠፊ ናትና!"
ስለሚለው የቅዳሴ ሱባኬ ይፈክራሉ ..

"አለም ስጋ ነው
የስጋ ስራ ነው መበስበስ ነው ትርፉ ፣
መዘሞት፣ መርከስ፣ ጣዖትን ማምለክ ፣ማሟረት፣ መጣላት ፣ መከራከር .."

".. አድመኝነት .." በፍጹም ልቤ አልሰማውም ።

ድንዱን ልብ ስላለኝ ሳይሆን ስለማውቀው ነው የምንበሰብስ ሙታኖች ካለነዚ መኖር እንደማንችል ። ተፈጥሮን በምን ይዋጉታል? በጠበል ፣ በዘምዘም? በጸሎት ወይስ በምን?
ግን ቢሆንም ጠበል እሄዳለሁ ። ልጅነቴ እዚያ ነው የቀረው ። ንጹህ እንደሆነ ያለው ገብሬል ጠበሉ ቦታ ነው። እዛ ብቻ ነው ገብሬል ያለው።
የህይወት ሰንከልካላው ሲበዛብኝ ደብር ወይ መስጊድ እሄዳለሁ ። እንድጽናና አደለም ዝም ያለ ንዴት ይዤ ልመጣ ነው ። ማይገነፍል ቁጣዬን አርግዤ ወጣለሁ ።

ህይወት ደንታ ስለማታውቅ እኔም የሷን አካሄድ እንደልጅ አስመስላለሁ ። የቄንጥ አይሉት ወይ የተቻኳይ እንደፋደፋለሁ ።
ስርዓት አታውቅም ጸሎት ዱዓ አታውቅም ጠበል አታውቅም ቁርዓን ማስቀራት አታውቅም ..
ሳታውቅ እንሰይምላታለን እኛ ሞኞቹ ..
በመለዬት በመዘወግ መጋኛ መች እንደተመታን ሳናውቀው ክፍልፋዩ ቁጥሩ የትዬሌሌ ገባ  ።
ምንድነው እኔን የለዬኝ ለማለት ማን ልብ ሰጠን?
ግን ቢሆንም ነፍሳችን እንደ ጉጉት በየፍርስራሹ በየጥጋጥጉ ለምትወሸቅ ለኛ ማን ይፈርድብናል?
እኛ ሳናውቀው ነው ነፍሳችን ተነጥሎ ሊሞት የደረስነው ።
ብቻውን በበረሃ ውሃ ጥም ሲመጠው ዝም እንዳንለው ነው ልዩ ነን ያልነው ። ውነታችንን ብቻችንን ነው አቡክተን የጋገርነው ። አደለም እንዴ?
እህ ሚስማማ የለም?
አያችሁ አደል ለምን ስለሆንኩት እንደማልነግራችሁ ዲንጋ ላይ ውሃ ማፍሰስ ስለኾነ ነው ፤
ቋንቋ አርቆ ስለቀበረኝ ወይ ስላሰደደኝ

"ሚዳንሱትን አይተው እብድ ናቸው ሚሉት ሙዚቃውን የማይሰሙት ናቸው።

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Need an advice Listening to Eyob Musika: yetweshgn bota lay yemilewn music Youtube lay enaaa lemn endehone erasu alawkm (awkalehu deep down) kefagn ena lemn altsfm biye new. edmeyachu sihed frachachun endet new yetelemamedachut? As a person in her early twenties betam new miferaw especially the fear of being unsuccessful ena alea useless hogne sra alagegn yihon mnamn eyalku asbalehu. I want to be this independent woman who has her shits figured out, I'm doing well academically in hopes to get a better future ena edmeyachu 27 ena keza belay yalachu sewoch especially women how are you guys figuring it out? How has life and your expectations been ? Thank you

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Hey y'all I'm 19 F
lowkey I’ve been feeling kinda lonely lately and I really miss having a close girl best friend I can talk to every day, hang out with, and just do life with 😭
if anyone here is also looking for a close friendship, I’d love to connect and see if we vibe 🫶
it would be even cooler if you’re from ASTU so we could actually hang out in real life too
Thank youuuuu ❤️

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Sup guys
Lately i became so delusional like i see myself way far from reality.
Ontop of that am using psychedelic drugs, am trippim so much 😭

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ትዝ ብሎኝ ነው እኮ

ልጅ እያለው እንደኔ የተቀጠቀጠ የለም በሲሊፐር , በ ቴፕ ሶኬት በ ልምጭ , በ ጭድ ከዛ ደሞ የፋዘር ጠረባ ምን ቀረ እንደ ቴኒስ ኳስ እያነጠሩ ያሳደጉኝ actually most በኛ እድሜ ያለ እንዲ ያደግነው እና ፋዘር እንዲ ከ ነብስ ማጥፋት መለስ ያሉ ቅጣት እየቀጣ አሳድጎኝ ቅድም ትንሿን sister ኮስተር ብዬ ስቆጣት
"ተው ለ ስነልቦናዋ ጥሩ አደለም" ቢልስ

Wdym ስነ ልቦና 😂😭😭 እኔ እንደራግቢ የተወረወርኩትስ

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Hi, can I get you guys opinion on something.
What could be a reason to stop dating someone? Cheating, lying, difference in opinion on important things like religion, financial problems, physical attraction?
Or being late 45 minutes for a date?

No huge context but I had a date scheduled before hand at mata 1:00. He always says why so late why can’t we meet keza befit but I had work and bet gebiche eskiweta 1:00 yihonal so we confirmed the date earlier in the day and I was caught up by work till 12:45 mnamn and I communicated that I was leaving work and am coming to the place. He also said he will go home and leave his car at home in case the place had no parking and we agreed to go be ride.
When I got home it was almost 1:30 but he’s also home so I called and tell him am leaving and we can drive by his house and pick him up and he got so angry that I don’t value his time and he left his friends coz he had a plan with me mnamn so all and all when I said am coming and ahun tiwetaleh alku he got angrier and anchin aydel mitebkew endiyawm almetam ciao ale. Mind you the ride is outside, am all dressed and he said he doesn’t wanna go out now. I literally begged him and he said no and not just to go out now but he doesn’t wanna see me again and we should end things right now over the phone. I pleaded with him beka yezarew plan yikir am sorry let’s try to fix it biye and he said he doesn’t want to date me anymore mayet alfeligm and strangers nen kahun wedi. Mind you it’s gena 1:45 at this point and sidewil silk yizegal and he literally said zimblesh nw mitlefiw am done and when I asked him if he wanted to talk tomorrow he said he has nothing left to talk about between us and aygebashim alfelgim malet ale.

Am I the only one who thinks this is over reacting? I mean late mehon liyabesach yichilal or betam tilik kehone yezan ken yaserizal enji overall yakorarital ende 45min late mehon? It’s not like in a restaurant bichawn eko bet tekemto 45min?? Oh and he said the reason is he doesn’t want anyone that has this much power to make him angry and disturb his peace.

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Hi, my name is coby(ilia). I had this gc and all my friends in it. I created it and was like the center of attention or smth and it was way too fun. It was all i had and tbh i had no other friends other than them. Now, they all kinda hate me and being passive aggressive towards me. I believe the reason to be they found someone wayy more fun than me. I even tried to vent to them about this and they just didnt care. I dont know what to do anymore. I have a lot of work around(exams,money problems,family problems) and im losing my "friends" too. I really feel like im not a good human being and i cant have a stable friendship with people. I feel like the reason they hate me is i care too much and lovedump them too much that i become boring and hateful. I dont know what to do anymore

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Hello
26f rent mekfel alchalkum mn ende madrg gera gebagn im panicking godana wetahu k hawas ke betsebe rasech echlalhu beya arif lay nebrku emsra yenbrew work tezgto melaw tefagn ena merdat yemtflgu degag ppl kalachu ye ezin 2 month bagne cv bezu bota asgbchalhu ke fetari gar yesakal.. thank you for your time...

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Female here

I finally stopped being a golden child and dropped the bomb saying that I wanna live alone and be independent. Now my overprotective parents can’t let it go especially my mom, all her siblings are involved in this and they are calling me nonstop and I am sick and tired explaining why I did what I did.

Why did I decided that?

It’s not out of nowhere or not because I am ungrateful child, it’s because growing in a strict family that they don’t realize you’ve grown pushes you to the limit to decide what nobody expects.

I just want to know will it get better or will I forever be stressed and drained due to the constant pressure of my family to make me go back home.

P:S ì am a female, 26 and I know I should’ve done this sooner. But I was scared and coming to think of it it’s not scary at all. I didn’t die 🙂

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Hi am 20 years old women and i have question to ask is it only me or other women i love to pegg men and treat them like trash and when i do this i feel so horny than having normal sexually stuff with men

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Im 23 i need to vent i think we are cursed or something as a family maybe I’m cursed . Like I have never got mefelgewn ngr ena metselyelten ngr hula atawalew how could prayer hule be tekaraniw mehonew . We lost our mom she died and after that nothing seems to workout in life . Yefelg baneb belefam beterem megbagnen wetet alaggnm or yhon ngr ybelashal im smart ngr and I failed grade 12 then after reexam I failed on department choice myhon dep gebaw never met good people . My bf is immature doesn’t know how to treat me yo give me gifts or somethings like tnansh ngroch I didn’t even got gift for my graduation and I feel like nobody wants to do good things for me even the universe or god I used to study The Whole day and night try my best but I didn’t get the result i deserve, bmalfelgew department behonm even in class grade I don’t get what I deserve yhon ngr yetemal, my dad sold his house and moved out of ADISs , my biggest sis never got a real job or got married my little sis failed in her studies more than 3times . Im always the one to take my whole family burden gen aytayachewm. My relatives, my friends my family my bf doesn’t treat me well and the world is so unfair. The people around me fet the things they want , it’s not like I want some expensive shits i just wanted a little love and I feel something when I saw some people around me getwhat they wanted alakem kenatem syhon yhon ngr . Something is off yhon sew bezi lek ngroch hule letemubet aychelm special yhon ngr felge if I pray on that or wanted it so bad I will never get it kmnm belay dmo yelefawbeten almagegnt hule meketelgn ngr I tried to stop praying or asking God but I can’t. I feel cursed I don’t whyyyy teru ngroch yalfugnal no one wants to do anything for me even God ????¿ my bf my fam idk . It might seem normal but it’s not yhon ngre ale bezi lek hulum ngr leblash unlucky unloved lehon alchlm. My whole family ly there’s something edzi meyargen a Maryamn ahun ahun seriously feel eyarkut nw mndn nw what can I do I just graduated gen I need to fix this a edza nw mesmagn I trust my gut dmo idk there’s something edzi meyargen pls help what shall I do ??? Is it normal we don’t have stable life end family

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24M here, I've been struggling from acne last 5 years then I got big scar or I don't know what to call bcha it is big swollen things in my face that is almost permanent for 4 years mnamn (I think it is not rid off unless surgery happens and it is VERY WEIRD staff , like i don't know anybody with this situation and I've been very insecure bcoz of this thing, and the very difficult thing is people looks me and ask me what is that and I don't know what to answer (nigga Ion even know either) , I'm student and I can't afford to go to dermatologist and my family doesn't care. I'm just thinking having plastic surgery when I get money in the future but Idk how I'll live until then

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Here is one of the most challenges im facing lately being highly aware of the surroundings and your self comes with its own blessings and curse i tend to quickly notice patterns and in some matter read peoples intentions that seems like psychic abilities and its entertaining to be like that no confusions you know before it even happens thats the blessing and on the other hand that had affected my dating and rship search meaning im a person that dn say just in case this fails ima have a back up i a 100 percent invested and brutally honest and add pattern recognition to it i see when the girl im talking to have backups or puts me in a competition status with all the candidates i notice that with just chatting stage and that causes me too losse interest immediately i wokt ghost but ill state my reasons for why im nof interested and so and finally this my question is there any girl that is mature enough to know what she's looking for and also can answer a simple yes or no question and thats all i guess

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Hey guys. So I'm 22 F, a virgin and I wanna start having sex with my bf. But the thing is I have irregular cycke and idk how to track my ovulation. So postpill might still not eork if i ovulate. So I want to ask girls with irregular cycle how you guys do it. Any tips?

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Hi. I'm a 22 year old girl who has somehow gone her entire life without having a neighborhood bestie. Like... how is that even possible? 😭

If you live in Bole Arabsa and you're in your early to mid 20s, please come collect me. I'm tired of romanticizing solo walks and pretending I don't wish I had someone to randomly grab coffee or ertib with, gossip, go on late night snack runs, or just rot together with.

No weird vibes, just looking for a genuine friend because apparently im going nuts here alone. 💀

If this sounds like you, feel free to reach out. 🤍

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ከጎኔ ድራፍት እየጠጣ 30 ደቂቃ አካባቢ ስልክ እያወራ ነዉ ይሄን ሁሉ ደቂቃ ቆይ እሺ አንዴ እኔን ስሚኝ ነዉ የሚለዉ
እስካሁን እሷ ብቻ ናት የምታወራዉ 😂😂😂😂😂
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22M

Hey guys, I really need your inputs in this because it is bothering me so much.

I don't know if it is something other guys experience too but even otherwise a really calm dude, I am noticing myself feeling this hidden and buried rage and it started in my early 20 and am carrying it now too. I would see another dude and I immediately start sizing him up and wonder if I could beat the ever living shit out of eachother in a fight. The scariest part is most times in these scenarios, people generally imagine themselves being the one doing the blows but in my case it goes either way. It is not just letting the rage out and beating someone else that motivates me but it is the overall theme of being in a fight that does.

I think it has something to do with how I grew up and how I was easy to pick on when I was a kid where I used to get bullied because I was scrawny and you know how puberty works, suddenly my balls got larger, so did my muscles and now I feel this sudden spark of beating respect into someone who might pick on me.

I admit, I have hardly ever been in a fight even as a kid but now I think I am "dematuring" (don't know if it is a real world) into a child at a time where my life and social skills have genuinely improved. I also think that it is because I see the need to size someone up and prepare in case I need to defend myself against them (even when they are completely friendly). I don't go out looking for trouble with them but I really can't stop myself from wondering if I could beat them up if they picked on me.

Anyways, this is a really random vent and I let my intrusive thoughts win, do any of you get the same urges?

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Hey everyone👋 I’m a 24 F and V and I’ve never had a boyfriend. I haven’t even kissed anyone or makeout . It’s kind of funny to see 17 and 18 yrs worrying about r/n ship status 😁indeed  I believe that everything happens in its own time. I'm focused on working on myself for now.
Some of the reasons are my problem🫣 like getting easily bored when talking to someone, not initiating conversations, and struggling to show commitment. Plus "if you want to leave, you can" attitude, and I am somehow overthinker,  I want to work on these issues and improve myself.

On the other side, some guys really make me lose interest. I can't refer to them as guy1, 2, 3. Instead, I'll describe their behaviors and the way they approached me initially, as we don't have any established r/n🤭 Who z hell r u to judge mnamn endatlugn just kagetemegn new i am sure a lot of girls face this kinda situation

1. The to the point guy - These guys are all about sex and try to kiss on the 1st or 2nd day they met🙄 (idk if i call it date).....it may be ok for some girls but not for me and some other coz  i wanna do this after marriage ..so 1 st u hav to know her intention and understand her feeling before jumping to the point
These guys also want to marry v 🤧

2. The over flirty guy: They talk in a way that’s just too much everything is an exclamation like 'cherekawan sayat teza alshign'😏 I don’t know what kind of girl finds that impressive, but it really drains my energy. Kezi yezendro pickupline yeshalal😂

3. The ''i am rich" guy: This guy constantly brags about his money and tries to show off in every situation. Conversations with him is really boring🥱 as he often focuses solely on material possessions. Some even act like they can buy you, bro go and buy a bitch. Honestly, they are not my type😒

4. The poor mentality guy : This type keeps reminding me that he’s poor Like, dude, I get it! u don’t have to say it every day🙄 'ik i can't give u the life u desrve '  well go and leave me alone If you’re already losing hope for ur future, don’t dim mine too. awkeh rich negn kalalk besteker ik so don't have to say u can't just  akmh michelewen adrg
When i say rich guys are not my type i don't mean sira maysera sew yemechegnal 😒 it is a huge red flag. he have to be hard worker and hustle to change his future and I prefer someone who earns more than I do, as this creates a better balance and matching energy between us.

5. The many girls like me guy - Idk what he expects me to say. Am I supposed to be happy that I have a chance to be one of them?🤔 He makes me assume that he is typical player

6. The 'ur my gf' guy - If u give them ur number or talk to them once, they act like ur in a r/n already. They expect u to treat them like a boyfriend right away, even sending fake “I love u , i miss u” texts to show commitment. Like wtf🤦‍♀

Becha these thing rly makes me lose interest and don't take it personal ..i am just reflecting my feelings
what do u all think ?  I rly wanna hear
Sry for z long text😊

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I made myself a promise on my last birthday: I wouldn't turn 24 without having sex.

Months passed. Nothing changed.

At some point, desperation replaced pride, and my search led me to sex workers.

I was nervous. Embarrassed, even. It felt like I was stepping into a world where I didn't belong. At least, that's what I believed.

The strange part is, I'm not a bad-looking guy. I've seen men with no jobs, no ambition, and half the self-awareness find relationships without trying. Watching that happen over and over created a kind of internal confusion. If they could, why couldn't I?

After work one day, I finally went.

They were everywhere—standing in doorways, leaning against poles, waiting on street corners. Every time I walked past one, I couldn't even look her in the eyes. They felt too close. I panicked and started walking away.

Then I saw one woman standing alone. No crowd around her. No passersby. Just silence.

I walked past her.

Stopped.

Turned around.

Greeted her.

Asked how much.

From that moment on, it was strange. It felt like I had detached from myself. Instead of living the experience, I was watching myself go through it, like I was observing someone else.

She led me inside.

We did what I had spent years imagining.

I paid.

I left.

The entire time, I wasn't chasing pleasure. I was analyzing. Watching. Comparing reality to years of expectation.

And that's when I realized something.

Sex isn't what I imagined it to be.

For years, my mind had built it into this almost mythical experience because of desire, curiosity, and anticipation. I thought it would change something inside me.

It didn't.

In the end, it felt surprisingly ordinary. Physically, it wasn't much different from masturbation.

Maybe the mystery was better than the answer.

People spend so much time chasing sex as if it's the peak of human existence.

After finally experiencing it, my conclusion is simple.

It's overrated.

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Hello
I 22f desperately need friends. I always thought I had friends leka I hv acquaintances,classmates or old high-school friends who I meet once a yr or stb... notice saderg weekend lay enkuan dewye enchebs or buna aflche sew enma yemelew sew yelem😂jk jk I don't even hv smn to go out for a walk with lol

I need yeset jema of 5 or 6..u hv no idea how jealous I am when I see group of gurls laugh hangout mnamn😭....we'll hv big plans like birthdays, galentines, cinemas, bowling,posting cute stories , try new trends, hangout at eachother's place mnamn...also ppl who aren't scared of exploring the nyt life like bermel fest or concerts mnamn once we trust and get to know eachother well ofc...bcha am in desperate need of friends who wants to hv fun...if u are interested and a girl above 20 ..ask my id belugn...we'll form a group ketemechachen within a week mnamn we'll plan a fun hangout😁if we all vibe ofc

Gn demo hule yetekabede nefs yemiaschenk hangouts mnamn alfelegm..sth casual yaltasebe ketero yelem after class mnamn catchup madreg or weekend lay big plan baynorm abro kuch blo medeber...am usually alone so I'd love any type of company at any time 😂ena bchegnet bekremt defa kena yaregachu ehtoche let's gather here😂ena mela mela enbelew..please dm if u are as desperate as I am hehe

Thnxx xoxo

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So I'm a guy, 26.
I'm into both dominating and being submissive but both has limit. Bezum deep algebam, I just want the energy and the intimacy. My role will depend on the girl but sometimes I can be dominant if teased.
Also I never had sex but did oral stuff .
The question is, what do girls think about a guy being both dominant and submissive..

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