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Hey Unihorse 🦄
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i'm 24f and just asking for help if anyone is like me, how do u improve?...so here is the thing, when i start dating and things going good, then suddenly i want to avoid/ghost that person, i become an avoidant...idk how the thought comes but it is ALWAYS like that, if i feel sth real, or i started to catch feeling, boommmm...my avoidant ahh is gonna ghost them beka....then i feel the relief, and i get back to my personal space and i enjoy that a lottt,but deep down i also wanna feel loved, and love really.. ....and rn, it is to the point that i am not able to make any single real connection at all....how can i get out of this pleasee😭?? or is it just like this?is it my Nature or sth?
#MentalIllness #Relationship
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Hey Unihorse 🦄
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I need to vent
I mean idk if someone putted black magic on me but it's hard even to talk to a girl like it's the only thing in my life that I never achieved but I get compliments from both genders and it's not just compliments you know but wtf is going on to my world or it's just am not here anymore
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የማይሰጥ ደብዳቤ...2
አንቺ ሆይ! የነጻነትን ወሰን ታውቂያለሽ ወይ? እስከምን የሚዘረጋ ይመስልሻል?
እኔ ካንቺ ጋራ ገደብ የለሽ ነጻነትን ባገኝ ነው የምናፍቀው። የምሰውረው፣ የማላሳየው ባይኖር...መደባበቅ ባይለምድብን...ራሳችንን ብንሆን...ያለመተፋፋር...ያለመወሻሸት...እንዲያ እንዲያ ቢሆን...ለምን ብትዪ እኔ ያ የልቤ ገጣሚ ምግባር እንዳለው
"ዘመን አልፎ ፤
ሃጥዕ ወድቆ ጻድቅ ተርፎ ፤
ዲበኩሉ ፥ ምድርን ቀስፎ
ከሄደበት ፥ ባዶ ቦታ
ካንቺ ጋራ...ለብቻችን
ሳንተፋፈር ፤ ሳንፋራ ምን ሳንሰራ።
ወዮ!! ወዮ!!"
ብዬ "ዘመን ሄደ ቀን ተካደ" የሚል ጸጸት ለመጸጸት ስለማልመርጥ ፤ አንቺን ለማግኘት ስል ፥ ሕይወት ጊዜዬን ስለምሰጥ...ለዚህ ለዚህ እሳሳለሁ፣ ለዚህ ለዚህ እጓጓለሁ። "ትመጪ እንደው" የሚል ዘፈን እየሰማሁ እጠብቅሻለሁ። ስትመጪ ግን ፍጹም ሆነሽ፣ ፍጹም ሆኜ እንደምጠብቅሽ አምነሽ ከሆነ አትምጪ። አንቺን ሆነሽ ብቻ ነይ ፤ እኔን ሆኜ ልቀበልሽ። ራሳችንን ሆነን ጊዜን እንቀልብስ። አካላችን ቢራቆት እንኳን ነፍሳችንን ነጻነት እናልብስ። በመገላለጥ ውስጥ ሰውነት ሰባራነታችንን፣ ስንኩልነታችንን፣ ብሽቅነታችንን፣ እንነጋገር። መሆናችንን እንውደደው፣ መሆናችንን እንቀበል። ይሄን ልትሆኝ ከወሰንሽ፣ ይሄን ለመሆን ከወሰንሽ በመሐል የሚኖር እቡይነት(Egotism) አይኖርም።
ሀቀኝነት(Honesty )ማለትም እርቃንን መገላለጥ እንጂ ሌላ አይደለምና ለዚህ ቅዱስ ሥራ ራሳችንን እናብቃ። እርቃንን መግለጥ ማለት ደግሞ ራሳችን ብቻ የምናየውን ለሌላ የማናስደፍረውን፣ ለማንም ለምንም የማናሳየውን ግላዊ( Private)አካላችንን ለሌላ አካል አምነን መግለጥ፤ የነፍሳችንን፣ የልቡናችንን ጥልቅ ስሜቶች አሳልፎ መስጠት ነው። ይህንን ለማድረግ ደግሞ ታላቅ መተማመንን መገንባት ይገባል። ይህ መተማመን የሚገነባው ደግሞ በነጻነት ራሳችንን፣ ሀቀኛ መልካችንን በትይዩ ስንገላለጽ ነውና ለዚህ አይነት ንጹህ ሕሩይ ግብር መብቃት እንችል ይሆን?! እውነተኛ መተዋወቆች አያናንቁም፤ ይልቅ ያከባብራሉ። መነሻቸው ግን መተናነስ ከሆነ ብቻ!
ይሄንን አይነት ነጻነት ነው ነፍሴ የምትፈልገው። ቅር ይልሽ ይሆን?! እንጃ!
ቻው ቻው!!
#Melancholy
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Hey Unihorse 🦄
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I dont know maybe አይነ ጥላ ሊሆን ይችላል ወንድ ልጅ ሲያፈቅረኝ ጅል ነው ሚመስለኝ ያስጠላኛል even he is handsome wym tru personality yalwe behonm ከወደደኝ interste yeknsale
ምንድነው መፍትሄ ?በጣም ብዙ ሰው እየገፋው ነው
#MentalIllness #Relationship
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Hey Unihorse 🦄
I am Melat
I need to vent
Am 25 girl, please sisters I need your help dm me. My 8 weeks husband wants me to be a pro in the bedroom 🤦🏼♀️😫😫
My marriage is just 2 months old and I meet my husband last Christmas season when he visited his cousins.
He saw me while he was driving to an event and he approached me. From there we started talking and I fell for him.
After 3 month of talking on phone he decided to see my people and he paid my bride price.
The issue now is that, he expects me to be a champion and pro in the bedroom play.
I am a novice
He married me a v!rg!n
So I can’t turn pro overnight
There re some irritating things he wants me to do but I can’t 😭🤦🏼♀️
He said am still behaving like a child that I should give him the vibes he want 🤦🏼♀️
Me I don’t even like doing the do,
The thing is so tiring and I don’t seems to see any fun in it 😔.
Now he is saying to me that he will get himself a girl outside if I don’t step up my game 😫
Like how do I step up my game when he is always telling me to give him different styles, how do I know different styles
Hmmmmm
In fact am tired ooo I think I will go back to my parents till he is ready to take it easy on me 🤦🏼♀️
He doesn’t allow me to sleep
Every night, every night.
My VG is already paining me and already reddish 😭😭
Is this how marriage is?
Someone can’t sleep in peace?
What should I do?
Am too young for this stress
Help me please sisters🙏
#Friendship #Relationship #SexualAssault #Adult
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Hey Unihorse 🦄
I am THEO
I need to vent
የማይሰጡ ደብዳቤዎች...1
Jazz-inspired letter
"I heard your voice in the stillness of night." የምትል ድምጸ-መልካም ዘፋኝ ድምጽ ወደ ጆሮ ማዳመጫዬ ሲመጣ፥ ያንቺም ድምጽ ወደ ጆሮዬ እየመጣ 'አትርሳኝ' ይለኛል።
"The stars fell down to kiss the sea" ስትል ደግሞ ከንፈርሸን አልማለሁ። እኔ ካንቺ ጋር ቢኖረኝ የምለው አይነት የሰከነ፣ የለሰለሰ፣ የተረጋጋ ዓለም ላይ የተሳሉ ሁነቶችን የያዙ ለስላሳ ዘፈኖችን ነው እየሰማሁ ያለሁት።
"I write a letter never sent" ብላ ስትዘፍን ምን አይነት የሚጣፍጥ ሀዘን ውስጥ እንደምትዶለኝ ብታዪ! ችግሩ አንቺ ያለሽው ከአይኔ ርቀሽ፣ ለልቤ ቀርበሽ፣ ሆኖም የማልነካሽ ሆነሽ ነው። የማይላኩ ደብዳቤዎች ምን ሊመስሉ እንደሚችሉ አስቢው እስኪ!
የሚጽፋቸው ሰው ለጻፈለት ሰው አለመስጠትን ለምን መረጠ? ይሄን ለመምረጥ ሲጀመር ለምን ጻፈ? ልንል እንችላለን። ያ ውሳኔው መሰለኝ ነገሩን አሳዛኝም ቆንጆም የሚያደርገው። ልልሽ የምፈልገውን ሁሉ ልልሽ የማልችለው ፈሪ ስለሆንኩ አይደል? አንቺን ማጣት ስለምፈራ። ይሄንን ደብዳቤ እሰጥሻለሁ? አላውቅም! ስለምፈራ ብቻ ግን አይደለም። አለመስጠቱ ውስጥ የሚጥም፣ ሙቀት የሚፈጥር ስሜት ስላለ እንጂ። መመስጠር ውስጥ ያለ ውበት፣ አለመታወቅ ውስጥ ያለ ጉጉት፣ አለመብራራት ያለው አሻሚነት የሚሰጠው ሐሴት፣ እነዚህ እነዚህ....
"This room smells like regret" የሚል ዘፈን ላይ ደርሷል የከፈትኩት ሙዚቃ። ቀዝቃዛ ጸጸታም ዜማ ውስጡ ይደመጣል፤ ዝምታው ያስተጋባል፤ ጸጸቱ አንጀት ያባባል፤ ጸጸት ምን ምን ቢል ነው ግን ጸጸት ጸጸት ይሸታል የምትለው ዘፋኟ?! ጸጸት ይጣፍጣል? ጸጸት ያቃጥላል? ወይስ ጸጸት እያቃጠለ ይጣፍጣል፥ እንደ አረቄ፣ እንደሚጥሚጣ፣ እንደ ወሲብ። ጸጸት ምን ምን ይላል?! የኔ ጸጸት 'ምን ትለኝ'ን ፈርቼ፣ በማይረባ ቅድመ ግምት ተጠፍሬ፣ ልልሽ ሲገባ ስላልኩሽ ነገር ሁሉ ነው። ነጻ ሰው ነኝ ስል ስላለመሆኔ፣ ቆይ ስል ቀድቼ ሳልጠጣው እንደሚበርድ ቡና ስለበረደ ስሜቴ ነው።
"ጸጸት አለ ውስጤ
እሳተ ነለልባል
የለቀቅሁት እንደው ፥ እንኳን ሰውን ቀርቶ
መለኮት ያቃጥላል።" ያለው አይነት ገጣሚው።
የምኖረው ሕይወት አብዛኛው ጎኑ ናፍቆትና ትዝታ ነው። ትዝታ ውስጡ ናፍቆትን ይይዛልና ብዙ ላይራራቁ ይችሉ ይሆናል። እኔም እኔና አንቺ ወዳላሳለፍናቸው ትላንትናዎች፣ ወዳልኖርኩት ጊዜ በትዝታ እሄዳለሁ። ወዲህም ነገ ባሳልፍ የምለው ስለሆነ ወደ ነገ እና ወደ ትላንት የጊዜን ወሰን ጥሼ እረማመዳለሁ። ሁለቱንም በአንዴ! ተሳክቶልኛልና ደስ ይለኛል። ነገና ዛሬን አንድ ላይ ኖሬዋለሁና ሐሴት አደርጋለሁ።
የማይደርስሽ መሳም ይድረስሽ!
#Melancholy #Relationship
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Hey vent here subs,
25F
I’m writing this ke lelitu 9:00 because ye ewnet chenkognal. I got married a year and a half ago and had issues trying to get pregnant and finally after treatment I got pregnant. 4-5 wer eskihonegn deres gn high risk selneberku mulu gize hospital ena emergency kifil new yasalefkut. Beza mehal bale kemayakachew haylegna wenjelegnoch gar eka sheto le teyake eser bet yegebal bank account and ye sira fikadum yekelekelal. Thank God they let him go after a week of keeping him in jail but his account and work permit is still not approved. Eyelemenachew eyetemelalese yenem mewleja kene deresebegn. Ahun almost 9 wer legeba new. Le metebabekiya enkuan belen yaskemetnewen birr sayker new le kiray asbeza and hospital bills keflen yecheresnew. I haven’t been able to even afford meat let alone my cravings. Amrogn kebelaw sint werat alefegn. Esun tewut ena vitamin miwatewen enkuan afford mareg aketogn techewalew. I also don’t want to stress my husband out belelew genzeb complain eyareku. I spend most of my nights crying. So guys pls help me out with wtv you can. Thanks. 🙏
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Hey Unihorse 🦄
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I need to vent
Wanna ask ur opinion bezih lay
Is it normal sendin nudes ?
keep this qustion in mind and lemmi tell u the whole story.
Am 18 m and i need to vent .
I created new ig acc with fake picture and name (i dont wanna see ppl i know now a days and delete my ig acc(4.3k followers btw😭 ) and startin new journey with d/t personality )..
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Then ppls like my acc and withn a week i gain almost hundreds of followers...but then i saw a message of a person ena 😭
It says አውራኝ እባክህን kal be kal💔.enem i dont wanna be nonchalant mnamn eyaweran," send me pic" alech ena lakulat ...keza yesuan lakech ena..😭😭😭 she is 3X older than me ..... like older than my mom💀😭
And i asked my friend and he gimmi an idea abt makin her to send her nude pics 🙉and some flirty texts🙈 and after she send it u will teach her to not trust any person and make her feel guilty of what she did.
Menem yahel hasabu endemiiizega eyaweku gn arekut cuz zem beye yale masreja mastemar selemalchel😔.
Like u guess she send her puss and i cant 😭😭beka is it normal tng ahun lay ? Like she is 43 ts ena watchin this tng makes me feel bad😔
I told her to not trust any person ,like balua ena lejua biayu enddemiafrubat ,egziabher endemiaznbat mnamn and all she said was "am Sorry" .
Becha alabzaw ena whats ur thought on this?..is it normal tng
To talk that flirty, that much like sendin puss mnamn😭 chat pls tell me(this whole tng happend withn a day new btw gera endatgabu💀😭)
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Honestly, I’m at a point where I’d like to start dating with real intentions. I’ve never been in a serious relationship before, but it’s something I genuinely want. I’m not looking for games, mixed signals, or people who are just bored and looking for attention. I’d rather take my time getting to know someone who actually wants the same thing.
I’m not expecting everything to be perfect from day one, but I do want something real. Someone who values communication, effort, and building an actual connection. I think a good relationship starts with two people who enjoy talking to each other, can be themselves around each other, and are willing to see where things go.
So if you’re a girl who’s serious about getting to know someone and you’re looking for a genuine connection too, feel free to message me. Let’s have a conversation and see if we click. Life’s too short to keep wasting time on people who don’t know what they want.
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here's this type of guy who only starts making jokes when girls are around like Every time I speak, he tries to correct me. Every time he sees me comments about my looks, my body, or some random unnecessary joke.
Today he says u go to the gym but you still look skinny.
So I finally replied😊😁
...If we both run to the 4th floor you'll get there first Not because you're faster. Because I'll be dying laughing from hearing ur fat ass 🍑clapping all the way up the stairs when u ran
Bro instantly crashed out lidebedbegn mnamn😭😁
But on a serious note, if you're one of those people who only makes fun of others to look cool in front of girls or get attention that's not confidence. It's cringe. Making someone the punchline every time isn't funny, it's just annoying😒
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ከባድ ነው አዎን ከባድ ነው
መንገድህን የሚያጠብብህ ነገር ነፍ ነው ። ሳልነካካ ራሴን ችዬ እጓዛለሁ የምትለው ነገር አይደለም ። ያም እንዳይሆን መንገዱን የሚዘጉብህ ብሽቅ ሰዎችም ፥ አሰራሮችም ሀገሪቷ ላይ ዘጭ ናቸው አልነግርህም ።
ታዲያ በዚህ መሀል አልፈህ ተጋግጠህ ፥ ትንሽም ለራስህ ስኬት የምትለው ነገር ጋ ከደረስክ ፤ ቀላል አይደለምና እንዴት አባቴ እንደምኮራብህ ወንድሜ ! አንቺም እንዴት አባቴ እንደምኮራብሽ የኔ እህት !
ደግምም በርቺልኝ !
ደግምም በርታልኝ !
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What is wrong with Ethiopian currency?😡 Despite earning hundreds of thousands amonth I cant even afford to buy house? Is it mismanagement or what? I dont gamble, drink, party or go out with women. I live in small apartement, I dont live luxury life. Still I have no much saving in my bank account. This is so concerning.
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Hey everyone, endet keremachu kremtu endet new? Yelelew tatbo let yehone life🤧
The thing is am obsessed with rejm tsegur beka yeset lj wbet sibal tsegur ena klat bcha new mitayegn idk why yetena new?
4yrs committed rln kemebarekachn (break-up) befit beka jeles rejm tsegur alat key nat kumet eskezihm gn beka yfeta kuaterow lante yalegn fkr aleke tebaln😁 haye blen fetan yhew snt enwled endaltebabaln lesergsh mnamm trign meta (Tsegaye Eshetu😁)
Ere demo wanaw yesua fam bemnm intervene mayaregubet rln ystegn tselot ena dua argulgn🤲 eski foo😮💨 "abatua yasebelat sew slale" lbal bemotheryewa🤣 4 amet ena ene ande pizza lela gize piassa eyewesedku sabi salchers aylum endezih🤭
Egzer ystat yhew mejenjenm teftobgnal 'temari nesh serategna' pickup line new yekeregn ahunma😒 ena bcha ande "ere anchi beka fchina gym, goal ena sabi lay fokshi beka ayteshwal eko lifeun" ylegnal minde ande demo "yanchi chwe eko lene success successful marriage new mnamn neber beka ltfechi?" ylegna ychawetbgn mnalebet esu eza black box wst hono😅 bcha ahun chrash betesebua intervene mayadergu bemnm (am traumatized as hellllll egzioo beka lndrat new card ylaklhal milugn new mimeslegn😭) motew yalekum bihon gd aysetegnm! ahun sry demo ezih kehonsh ye futureua baltebete...bichal ke 24 betach hona rasuan chla yewetach kaleshm ezih... kela yalsh ena rezem yale tsegur yalesh 'Ortho' weye beygn ena buna eyafelan yehod yehodachnn ensekakes kezich kremt jemren weym ende vaccancy በመስከረም መልዕክት ሰድብሃለህ ካልሽም ይሁና Gymachnn eyetebetebn kremtuan entebkshalen
Yhe 🪝-up mindset bezerem yelem fyi...
Ena mkr bite tal mtadegum kalachu alen ensemalen yaw yhen fta ezih lay tetabeki mnamnm kale😉
Ychamachu🙌
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Do I need to be skinny to be loved? Yall I tot being chubby was cute n all that I didn't expect these meany n cruel judgments 😭
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I need some real advice no judgment please from both genders
So here is the thing ,I'm uni student i will graduate next year when I was freshman i met someone we got closed mnamn keza bemekakel yehone chgr tefetere ena enleyay bye teleyayen keza 2nd year sanawera endetetalan aleke keza 3rd year lay he tried to approach me 2gna amet laym eyaderege neber gn fkregna yzhalehu mnamn byewu neber keza gn 3gna amet lay zendro simeles tekebelkut cuz ewedewalehu I feel comfortable with him sikefagn esu gar newu yemdewulewu mnamn neger keza ke 2nd semister buhala temelesn neger ena we got pretty much closer than last time mnamn we had makeout in room tamnolgn neber alnekagnm betam des blogn neber kalun sletebeke I'm v ena yawu felgo neber betam glts yehone flagot eyasayegn neber gn ene alfelekum ena mn meselachhu behymanot angenagnm so we both know we don't have future gn we still want to be together
I luv him I show him every version of me mnamn I feel betam comfortable like betam ena I'm thinking to have sex with him gn kerase gar chkchk wust gebahu demo I don't want to do it for him it is for me like I really want him
Gn kezas buhala lemilewu tyake mels atahu,kaderekuts buhala kbre litefa newu adel?
Yemimetawu bales lene kbr aynorewum adel?
Fetaris betfo menged ketto yastemregn yhonal adel?
Agbche hule esun bastawusewus sewoch endemilut??
Bcha yhe hulu tyake aymroye wust ymelalesal ena bezih menged yalefachhu sewoch beteley setoch hiwetachhu wust lewut fetrual wey yemilewun neger mkerugn please
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I wanna get married and have kids soooo bad bismillah and don’t get me wrong ezi esun felge adelem gn beka people around me semtewgn semtewgn slcht bluachewal🤭 leza new enantega yemetahut lemndnew gn mtfelgut neger betam misheshew hooo
24 Muslim girl btw
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ለራሴ የማዝነውን ያህል እዝነት ለማን ኖሮኝ ያውቃል?
ምናልባት ልጠብቃት ስላልቻልኩ ይሆናል! ከፍርሀቷ ላድናት ላረጋጋት ስላቃተኝ ይሆናል! ልወስንላት ፡ በምታውቀውና በቀለለው መንገድ ልመራት ስላልቻልኩ ይሆናል! ባላት እንዳትረጋጋ ፡ በሌላት ነገር በምኞት ስላሰቃየኋት ይሆናል።
ለሁኔታዎች ለገጠመኞች ስለተውኳት ነገን በእርግጠኝነት እንድትጠብቅ ስላላደረግኳት ይሆናል! የምትረጋጋበት ደህና የምትሆንበት መላ ስለሌለኝ ይሆናል።
አዎ ለግምትና ለመላምት አሳልፌ ስለሰጠኋት ታሳዝነኛለች። ባዶ ክፍት ቦታ ላይ እየተውኳት ምላሽ ባለመስጠት ስላሰቃየኋት ታሳዝነኛለች። አዎ ወይ አይ፣ እሺ ወይ እምቢ ሳልል መሀል መንገድ ላይ ስለተውኳት ታሳዝነኛለች! ያለ አቋም ያለ መድረሻ ስላንከራተትኳት ታሳዝነኛለች።
በመካድ ሳይሆን በማግለል ፡ ህይወቷ ላይ ስለነጠቅኳትና ስላራቅኩበት ነገር ሁሉ ታሳዝነኛለች!!
ይህች እኔ ደግሞ ነፍሴ ናት !🎴
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Hi I am 25yo F ..I just give birth recently my baby is about six months old.. I have almost perfect relationship with my husband he is so nice, loving , rich and spoil me in every way ..but recently I noticed he doesn’t have any interest for sex. I found my self begging him to do it every night but he always says “i am tired or I am not in the mood .. and before i gave birth we were so fuckin crazy about making love there was even days we have done it three times a day .. it was our love language😔 when we comes to looks I am beautiful and sexy to be honest and I take care of myself but his actions are making me question my self which part of me changed , I really became insecure .. to make things worse I found porn history in his phone and the browsing history goes back to when I was pregnant and it was I always at the same hour which means he is masturbating , that broke my heart now I am thinking he might even start cheating on me I don’t know what to do
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I just saw some pathetic vent from a sum dude who clearly hasn't recovered from being rejected one too many times. The sheer amount of resentment you lot carry towards women is actually embarrassing besmam. Tell me, how many women bruised your ego before you decided to make "hating "women your entire personality?
You keep barking, "Women only want money." Right and you only want women you're physically attracted to. You stare at ahh and tits till yo eyes fell out, we value stability and ambition. Don't start crying because women are just as selective as you are. If you're allowed standards, so are we,
And don't even start preaching about personality when half of you couldn't hold a decent conversation if your lives depended on it. Your entire personality revolves around self pity, podcasts, and blaming women for every disappointment you've ever experienced. That's not masculinity it's insecurity wrapped in arrogance.
Then you have the audacity to ask why women don't want you. Maybe because u broke and ugly. Maybe because entitlement isn't charming. Maybe because walking around convinced women owe you affection is the biggest red flag imaginable.
SO SPAREEE ME the lectures about women. You don't hate women you hate the fact that women can say no, and your fragile little ego can't cope with it.
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በጾታ እኩልነት አምናለሁ ግን በልዩነት ወንድ ልጅ ወንድ ሲሆን ደስ ይላል ሽልጥልጥ ሲል ድብር ነው የሚለኝ። ብዙውን ጊዜ በጾታ እኩልነት ጽንሰ ሃሳብ ላይ የሚፈጠር ትልቅ መደናገር አለ። እኩልነት ማለት ወንድና ሴት በባህሪ፣ በስሜት አገላለጽ ወይም በተፈጥሮአዊ ዝንባሌ አንድ አይነት ይሁኑ ማለት አይደለም። ማን እኔ በበኩሌ ሽልጥልጥ ወንድ የሌለ ነው የሚሸክከኝ ።
እኩልነት የሚያተኩረው በማህበራዊ፣ ኢኮኖሚያዊ፣ ህጋዊ እና ፖለቲካዊ መብቶች ላይ ነው። ሁለቱም ጾታዎች በእኩልነት የመማር፣ የመስራት፣ የመከበርና የራሳቸውን ህይወት የመምራት ነፃነት ሊኖራቸው ይገባል የሚለው ላይ ነው።
ይህ መብት እንደተጠበቀ ሆኖ በወንድና በሴት መካከል ያለው Biological እና Psychological ልዩነት የህይወት ማጣፈጫና የተፈጥሮ ህግ ነው። ወንድ እንደሴት ሲሆን ይደብረኛል የምልህ ከሴት ጥላቻ ሳይሆን ተፈጥሮውን እየሳተ በመሆኑ ነው። ምን አልባት የወታደር ልጅ ስለሆንኩም ይሆናል ሽልጥልጥ ያለ ወንድ ሳይ ደሜ ነው ሚፈላው 🤷♂️
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I see so many posts about people facing issues with pornography that they are addict
If you'r really want to quit plz comment i will help you by the way that helped me to stop porn
It's really amazing to be free
Also also if ur porn user react to this post for my research how much user are please react
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This is a loser’s confession, something I’ve been holding in for a while and it’s going to be a painfully long one. I’m 26M, graduated 3 years ago from computer science and I wanted to share how much of a loser I am. 3 years since graduation and I am barely holding an internship, which I got through my parents’ effort more than mine. I don’t know how to drive a car or generally many of the life skills you expect from an adult at my age. I haven’t grown past a certain time years ago and have been stuck with that level of maturity since then. In school and early semesters of college, my performance was promising enough that most people would have expected me to be living outside this country with a good job, maybe even with a wife by now and a bright future ahead of me. You already know good academic performance doesn’t necessarily translate to good life skills but forget that, even my excellent academic standing didn’t survive past the first year of college. I can’t say anything in my defense but I can explain what happened. There are times I wonder if it ultimately came down to simple laziness and everything else is an excuse but that probably isn’t the case because I know what I felt and thought when I acted the way I did. But the mind sometimes works in mysterious ways so I’m not ruling it out.
It’s a semester in my second year that things turned shit and the timeline took a turn that lead the path to this day. I basically failed almost all of my final exams and my final grades were mostly Cs and some Bs. I have put in some effort in my studies but obviously not enough and that was the case for most students in my batch with some exceptions. Some of the exams required simple memorization but others involved coding and maths, which even if you knew the rules, you’d need enough aptitude/practice to comfortably answer the questions and those were what really hurt at the time. It seemed I wasn’t smart enough. I’ve been insecure about my intelligence and potential since even before I became a teenager. And I was afraid of being ordinary as much as I was afraid of being sub-intelligent. Across school days and early college, I have done well enough to believe I’d soar to where I want, and even if I haven’t scored excellently well on every subject every time, I’d have done well enough to hold on to the illusion that I was special. But the results of that college semester were pure humiliation. Most students across my batch rebounded by the next semester but me, I basically gave up after that and have resorted to wasting my time with escapist distractions. It’s like my fears have been validated and I didn’t want to try any more. Of course, I still managed to put in the effort enough to survive semester after semester but that doesn’t get you anywhere significant. I know how irrational all this sounds. People don’t usually collapse after finding out they’re not special but I have collapsed anyway. I despised my ordinariness so much that I stopped bothering to put the effort in and grow as a person and now, I’m far worse than ordinary. I don’t have any motivation, ambitions, goals or anything to look forward to. I could pretend for a while that I have one and tell them what it is when I’m asked but I don’t care for it. My social life is non-existent. I am neither charismatic nor good looking. I’m not special and I don’t have anything special to give in this world. Anything I might do, countless others could do it just as well or far better. I am painfully redundant. It’s a weird way of putting it but it’s not even just that I don’t have much use for society, I don’t have much use for me if that makes any sense.
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It feels like my desire is a secret I'm supposed to be ashamed of. I'm a young guy, and the blueprint they hand you is so specific: chase the narrow, the lean, the hard-edged ideal plastered on every screen. But my eyes… they just don't work that way.
I see a girl with a soft smile and curves that look like comfort, and something in my chest just… clicks. It’s not a choice. It’s a magnetic pull. I want the warmth of a real body, one that feels lived-in and generous. I want to hold something substantial, to find my hands perfectly framed by the softness of her waist. I want the way a chubby girl laughs with her whole being, a vibration you can feel. There’s a confidence there, a quiet power in occupying space in a world that tells you to disappear, that I find utterly intoxicating.
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I learned that ignoring my signs/symptoms of illness and not taking care of myself isn't normal from her✨.
Growing up mom used to ignore if we were feeling ill. She cares but no money so no clinic...we weren't that poor tbh she just gave priority for other stuff rather than health. Including herself.
Anddd yeahhh when ever I(we) got sick she said eat ነጭ ሽኩርት.
Man i hateeee ነጭ ሽኩርት i hate the name i don't want to make it sound better by calling it garlic
I HATE ITTT A LOTTTT
Mom i got stomach ache eat ነጭ ሽኩርት
Mom i got head ace eat ነጭ ሽኩርት
There was a time when i got severe coughing i was coughing all night all day and she'll be like yeah u guessed it right eat ነጭ ሽኩርት🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
Andd then ignore it i know it is useful but it can't cure everything it should be the additional thing we do to take care of our health not the main thing.
My dad was the same tbh... (Slightly better maybe) he used to tell me abt uses of ነጭ ሽኩርት list😭😭 little me suffered in the world of ነጭ ሽኩርት lovers
Anddd finally i came to uni...andd one time i got coughing that comes after cold and i wasn't giving attention to it... Anddd she(my dorm mate) was like heyyy u r coughing a lott u should see a doc and i was like nahh it's just a cold... She insisted that we should go and i asked my self i was coughing a lot ende biye andd yeah i was
It still amazes me how i didn't know it was bad but she did. U see how much ignoring my health affected me.
Andd i noticed how she takes care of her and she tells her mom whenever she got sick.
I don't tell my mom even in the worst cases cuz i don't want to hear about fking ነጭ ሽኩርት😭
Istgg this weak i got a cold and my voice gave her a hint and i said yeahh i got cold and yeahhh she said it😭😭
I know it helps ekoo gn i just hate it i hate to even to think about it i was eating that shit for every fuking disease i got uhhh
So this is the end story of me and my hate for ነጭ ሽኩርት. I hope there'll be no enemies to lovers shit cuz i want to hate it till i dieee.
so don't ignore ur health, take care of ur self, and don't take lot of pills...
#School #Family #HealthComplications
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Hey Unihorse 🦄
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why does thing go upside down i mean the thing am gonna talk the gossips about my bf makes u judge and do it
1) ኮራ ያለ ዝምተኛ ወንድ ከቅርብ ሰዎቹ ጋር ጋር ብቻ የሚጫወት ሰው ነበር የምፈልገው but what በየሄደበት አባ እገልዮ እንትና እያለ የሚጯጯህ ወንድ ገጠመኝ 😭
አጉል ተጫዋች ያደርገዋል ቀልዱ እንጨት እንጨት ነው የሚለው ለምሳሌ:- I wanna live like royals ብል Royal የቱ ከረሜላው ነው አይነት I cringe sometimes በስመአብ 😭😭
2)ሌላ Relationship ነበረኝ እና He is so careless በቃ እኔ ነኝ ያን ይሄን የምለው ግን ሴት አያያዝ ያውቅበታል i expect this man to be like him comeon 7 አመት ይበልጠዋል እኮ nat crule to expect ግን በቃ ሴት አያያዝ አይችልም ሁሌ ስንገናኝ ጫማችን አስኪጨስ ወክ እናድርግ ይለኛል
የጉልበት ስራዎች ስለምሰራ ይደክመኛል መዞር አልችልም ቁጭ እንበል ስለው ይሰለቻል
3) የማልክደው እጅግ ቁም ነገረኛ ሰው ነው ህይወቴን በብዙ መልኩ አስተካክሎታል ግን በቃ ይሰለቸኛል ቶሎ (Distance ነው አሁን ያለንበት ግን አሁን አንድ ቦታ ለመሆን ሳምንታት ናቸው የቀሩን ግን ሳስበው ገና ይደክመኛል
4) He thinks በጣም የተረጋጋ ምናምን ሰው እንደሆነ ግን He is very insecure ሰው ወንድ አወራሽ ብሎ ጭቅጭቅ And his ማስተባበያ ከባድ ሴት ነሽ 😭
5) የጌታ ሰው ነኝ ቅብርጥስዮ ይላል ግን ቤቴ ነይ private ቦታ እንገናኝ ለማለት የሚችለው ሰው የለም And guess what የሆነ ጊዜ እንደቀልድ ሳይታወቀኝ ሳይገባኝ He took my V ከዛ ደግሞ ምንም የማድረግ ፍላጎት አጣሁ i want to leave him ከዛ አንድ አመት የኔን ነገር ለማስተካከል የደከመውን ሳስብ መልሼ ሃሳቡን አባርረዋለሁ
6) i want someone finiancially stable ቤተሰቦች ፀዴ ሁኔታ ላይ ስለሆኑ በቃ ሳገባም at least በዛ standard መሆን አለበት ብዬ አስባለው ግን he is very poor and ኩራቱና ጉራው አንደኛ ነው
ብቻ አሁን አንድ አመት ሆነ ነገሩ እና እየሰለቸኝ መጣ What shall i do😭
#Relationship #Adult
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ውስጤን የሚያውከው አውሬ ለጊዜውም ቢሆን በዜማ እሹሩሩ አንቀላፍቷል። አሁን ሙሉ በሙሉ ተረጋግቻለሁ። ማዳመጫውን ከጆሮዬ ነቅዬ የምሽቱን ጸጥታ ለማድመጥ ሞከርኹ። ነፋሱ ፊቴ ላይ እንዲጫወት ጋበዝኩት። ደህና ሆኛለሁ...አእምሮዬ ግን አሁንም የጠራ ምስል የለውም። ብዥታ ተከናንቧል።
በጣም እየመሸ ነው። ቅድም በየአቅጣጫው የሚተምመው የሰው ጎርፍ ተመናምኖ መንገዱ ላይ የተበታተኑ የግንባታ እቃዎች እና ጎዳና ተዳዳሪዎች ከጎዳና ውሾቻቸው ጋር ቀርተዋል። መኪኖች በሰው እና በአሸዋ ክምር መሐል እንደጉንዳን ሰራዊት መርመስመሳቸውን ትተው አስፋልቱ ላይ በዝግታ ይፈስሳሉ። ጆሮዬ ከሙዚቃው የሚሰማቸውን ድምጾች ቀድሞ መገመት ሲጀምር አሳለፍኩት።
"He never meant it, but he did..." ነፍሴ ሌላ እንባ የምሸከምበት ትከሻ ስላልነበራት አሳለፍኩት።
ሚኒሊክ ወስናቸው - እንጆሪ
መሐሙድ አህመድ - ትዝታ
ካሳ ተሰማ - ውብዬ...
የሚሰማኝን አይደለም የማስበውን ፤ የማስበውን አይደለም የማየውን አጥርቼ መለየት በማልችልበት እንዲህ ባለ ሰአት ግጥም ያለው ሙዚቃ የውስጤን ረብሻ ይበልጥ ያባብሰዋል። የማደምጠው ነገር ታንቡሬ ላዬ ነጥሮ ይመለሳል እንጂ ወደውስጤ ሰርጎ የልቤን ስር አያረሰርስም። ለተገኘሁበት እውነት ፤ ላለሁበት ሁነት በውስጤም እንደነፋስ ዳና ሳይተዉ አመሰቃቅለውኝ ለሚያልፉት እንግዳ ስሜቶች ስም መስጠት እና የሃሳብ ወይም የቋንቋ ቋት ውስጥ ከትቼ መቀንበብ ተስኖኝ በግራ መጋባት ስዋልል ግልጽ ሃሳብ እና ቋንቋ ያለው ሙዚቃ በፍጹም ሊወክለኝም ሆነ ከነፍሴ ውል የለሽ ቅኝት ጋር ሊሰምር አይችልም። ስለዚህ ጥሩ የሙዚቃ መሳርያ (instrumental music) ማድመጥ አለብኝ። የለም...ውስጤን የሚመስል የዘባረቀ ስምረት ( chaotic Harmony) ነው የምፈልገው። ጃዝ ማድመጥ ይገባኛል። በዚህ ሰአት እሳት እንደላሰው ላስቲክ የተኮማተረ መንፈሴን ከጃዝ ውጪ አንዳችም ነገር ሊያፍታታው አይችልም። ጃዝ ከለክ እና ስህተት ባሻገር ያለ የነጻነት ሜዳ ነው። ጃዝ ሕይወት ነው። ይሄ ነው የሚባል ትርጉም ባይኖረውም እስከመጨረሻው ቅጽበት በውበቱ አባብሎ ነፍሳችሁን ያቆያታል። ውክልና የማገኝበት ብቸኛው ምድራዊ ጥበብ ጃዝ ብቻ ነው። ውስጤ ለሚመላለሱት እንግዳ ድምጾች ስልት ስጣቸው ብባል በእርግጠኝነት ጃዝ ነው የሚሆኑት።ትዕግስቱ ስላልነበረኝ የስልኬ የሙዚቃ ማፋለግያ ስፍራ ላይ jazz ብዬ ጻፍኩ።
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አሁን ጉዞዬን መቀጠል እችላለሁ...ከስልኬ ልብ የሚነሳ መለኮታዊ ንዝረት በእዝኔ በኩል አልፎ ሰውነቴን እየወረረኝ ነው። በቆዳዬ ቀዳዳዎች በኩል ላብ እና ጥቁር ፈሳሽ እየወጣ ያለ ይመስለኛል። ምናልባት ሰውነቴ ውስጥ እየተገላበጠ የሚያውከኝ ይህ ሳይሆን አይቀርም። ልጅ ሆኜ ጸበል ገብተው ከሆዳቸው እባብና ጋዝ መሰል ጥቁር ዝልግልግ ፈሳሽ ስለወጣላቸው በሽተኞች እሰማ ነበር። በጆሮዬ የሚንቆረቆረው ፈጣን ዜማ አቅለሽልሾኝ በየእለቱ እንዳ'ውሬ ውስጤ የሚያድጉ እና የሚራቡ ዘግናኝ ሃሳቦቼን አስታውኬያቸው ቢወጡልኝ እንዴት ጥሩ ነበር። እየተጓዝኩ ነው...የድራሙ ጠነን ያለ ምት ልቤ ላይ የተጋገረውን የመከራ ዓለት ሲያፈራርሰው እና ገላዬ እንደላባ ሲቀለኝ ይታወቀኛል ፥ አንዳች ብርሃን እና ነበልባላዊ እሳት ልቤን ቀርድዶ ገብቶ በሑለመናዬ ሲሰራጭ ፥ ከውስጤ አንዳች ገፊ ማዕበል ሲነሳ እና በደስታ ሲንጠኝ...እየደነስኩ ነው። እንደግሪኩ ዞርባ እግሮቼን በቄንጥ እያነጠርኩ ፥ እንደሱፊ ዴርቪሽ በራሴ ዛቢያ እየተሽከረከርኩ....እየደነስኩ ነው።
በመሐል ከልቤ የሚነሳ ሳቅ የከንፈሬን ደፍ አልፎ ያመልጠኛል።... በሁኔታዬ ግራ የተጋቡ የሚመስሉ የጎዳና አዳሪዎች በተቀመጡበት ሆነው ያዩኛል ፥ እብድ እንዳዩ ሁሉ የጎዳና ላይ ውሾች እየተከተሉኝ ይጮኸሉ....አሁን እብድ ለመምሰልም እብድ ለመባልም እብድ ለመሆንም ደንታ ያጣሁበት የነጻነት አለም ውስጥ ነኝ። እንደድር የተወታተቡ ሃሳቦቼን በጣጥሼ ገላዬን እንደጨርቅ ቀዳድጄ ስወጣ አድማሱን አልፌ ከብርሃን ፈጥኜ ስወነጨፍ ይታወቀኛል። ስጋዬን አውልቄ ጥዬው ነፍሴ ስትከንፍ ይታወቀኛል። በዚህች ቅጽበት ምድር ላይ ሁለት ሓያላን ብቻ ናቸው ያሉት! እኔና ሙዚቃ!....
¹ አለማየሁ ገላጋይ - ሐሰተኛው (በእምነት ስም)
² Fernando pessoa - book of disquiet
³ Mohammed darwish
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Erasachhun kesew gar anetsatsrachhu yebetachnet tesemtochhu yakal?
Kebetesebe bchegna yetemarkut ene negn Kesamnt behuala lmerek new, beteseboche yeminorut geter new... mn yahl endekorubgn menager aytebekbgnm. Neger gn bemn yahl chgr endalefku ayawkum. Mkniatum birr lkewlgn ayakum smeta kemisetugn tnsh birr wchi, temeraki sthonu demo yalewn wechi takalachu. Eskezare memariayen kezam kezihm bye yamualahut ene negn...ahun gn alchalkum wechi bezabgn, defence rasu yakerebkut be habesha kemis new😅. Yhen hula amet lefche endemangnaw temari graduation day salsakek masalef betam new yemfelgew😕
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I genuinely have a question, in order for a relationship to workout yegd sex medereg alebet ende? Mn malet nw? Ena demo what if i wanna keep my virginity until i get married? Is that a crime? Ik am attractive and shit gn every guy i meet wants to have sex, like bro😭 go find a stripper
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I was in a relationship for over a year, and honestly? We barely had problems. No constant arguments, no toxic back and forth, nothing that made me think the relationship was dying.
That’s why the breakup confused me so much.
During the last month, she suddenly became distant. Cold. Weird. I kept asking her what was wrong, and every time she’d just say, “Yeah, I changed,” but never explained why. No communication, no real conversation, nothing.
I was trying to fix something I didn’t even understand.
Then one day she finally said:
“My decision was wrong from the start.”
And that line genuinely messed me up.
Because how do you spend over a year with someone, act normal the whole time, make memories with them, let them love you fully… then suddenly say the entire relationship was a mistake from the beginning?
That’s the part I still can’t process.
If there were problems, why never communicate them?
Why stay that long?
Why wait until the very end to become emotionally unavailable?
And the craziest part?
After the breakup, I found her active on a dating app.
That’s when everything hit me at once. It felt like while I was still trying to understand what happened, she had already moved on mentally long before the relationship even ended.
I think the hardest pain isn’t always getting left.
Sometimes it’s realizing someone slowly detached from you in silence while you were still loving them genuinely.
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