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Hey guys, I'm 18 and I have a boyfriend I really, really like him and I think he likes me too😔At first he was sweet, but I tested him with a fake account twice and he fell for it both times 😭 😭 We broke up but he came back begged for another chance and I forgave him
After that he started ignoring me for days One time he didn't text me back for 2 days and when I asked why he said he wasn't online But I could see him posting stories on Instagram and still not texting me He did that a lot so we broke up again Then he got another girlfriend After they broke up he came back again and begged me a lot to take him back l accepted and now we're together again This time he was actually doing better He talked to me every day cared about me and things seemed good Then I saw one of his reposts that said something like "I don't need a relationship or a situationship. I need a friend who kisses me and hangs out with me."
I asked him about it, and he tried to tell me it was from when we were broken up But it wasn't, he reposted it this week He apologized but I was upset We said goodnight, and after that he stayed silent for 2 days The thing is I love him so much I ended up calling him and when he answered I asked what he was doing He said, "It's all your fault." I just said okay and hung up.
I texted him yesterday and we talked a little, but his attitude was really bad and he wasn't talking to me nicely huhh and also he have I think 2 or 3 girl bestfriends and he talk to many girls I didn't know him like they know him they are much closer than me with him but he didn't want me to have a guy best friend also 😭
Guys what should I do 😭😭😭
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Hey How u doing i have a big problem i have a gambling problem enam zare bcha 58, 000 birr lose argyalew ye wetat fetena betam bzu nw demo eko lemetfo negeroch exposed hunenal like le sus le gambling betam kelal nw megbatu mewtatu gn betam kebad nw bcha i don't know what am feeling kerase ga tetalichyalew i hate my self so muchh am only 23 gn betam tesfa korchyalew kemnm ngr belay demo i hate that le tinish gize i get better ena keza ke tewesene gize behuala am in the same situation how can i learn from my past mistakes am very smart person i have so much potential gn when it comes to my life gn am the most stupid person in the world how can someone repeat the same mistake again and again bcha ahun yalehubet situation i don't wish it even for my worst enemy bcha wetatoch kene temaru plss don't gamble life has no Mercy it will beat u up and makes u question everything bcha betam yastelal andande life is not fair sometimes people around u are getting rain all day but u don't get even for 1 hour bcha ke mechal wichis mn abate amarach alegn mn abates ametalew
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I am in state of emptiness .i feel alone.i do have a family tmsegen enat abat and everything bcha alakm i feel badonet i feel like i am an artist without an audience ...i wish if there was one person in this world that i can talk the way i talk to myself...i am confused this exact feeling misemaw sew bzu ale what's happening to us ...like why is this the most loneliest generation we do have btam bzu number of people demo ...ironic adel?
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ከፖለቲካና ፍልስፍና አንቺ ትበልጫለሽ ስልሽ ለምን አታምኝም? ከምናቧ Sylvia Plath አንቺ እንደምትበልጭ ታውቂያለሽ? ከኒቼ፣ ማርከስ፣ ሄግል፣ ዶስተቪስኪ ፍልስፍና የበለጠ አንቺን መረዳት እፈልጋለሁ። ከእነ ካሙ፣ ካፍካ፣ ሳርትረ፣ ሲመን፣ ኪርኬጋርድ፣ ኒቼ፣ ሄዲገር...የህላዌ ወለፈንዲነት ፍልስፍናና የህይወት ትርጉም አልባነት አሰስ ገሰስን ገፍቼ ለህይወቴ የሰጠሁሽ የህይወት ትርጉም ነሽ። ከቡድሃ፣ ከኦሾ፣ ከኦረሊየስ ተመስጦ የበለጠ አንቺን በማየት እመሰጣለሁ። ከፍሮይድ እና ዩንግ ይልቅ አንቺ የስነልቦና ሀኪሜ ነሽ። ከኦርዌል፣ ማቺያቬሌ፣ አርስቶትል፣ ፕሌቶ፣ ሚል፣ ሞንተስኪው፣ ማርከስ፣ሩሶ፣ ሎክ፣ ሆብስ.. የፖለቲካ እንቶ ፈንቶ ይልቅ የአንቺን ከንፈር መሳም ይበልጣል። ከግሪክ ፈላስፎች የበለጠ የግሪክ አማልክት ነሺ። በክርክር ጉንጬን ከማደክም አንዴ ብትስሚኝ እመርጣለሁ.....አንቺ ግን አታምኝኝም...ለምን...
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I don't think I've ever felt like shit before today.
Have you ever wanted to stop existing for a minute just so your thoughts go away? Not in a suicidal sense, just for some peace. That's what I am feeling today. Questioning the reasons why I exist in the first place. I haven't gotten an answer for it yet.
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Bit of a random vent, but I’m in my 20s and I’ve never actually dated anyone seriously before. Not because I never wanted to, it just kinda never happened. I spent a lot of time focused on other things, and now I’m at a point where I feel like I’m missing out on something everyone else seems to have figured out already.
The weird part is I don’t even know where people meet each other anymore. It feels like everyone is either already in a relationship, only talks to people they already know, or just stays online. I’d genuinely like to meet someone and see where things go, but I feel completely clueless about the basics. Where do people even meet these days? How do you know when to ask someone out? Where do you take them on a first date? What do you even talk about without making it awkward?
I’m not looking for some movie-style romance or anything. I’d just like to experience getting to know someone, going on dates, making memories, and seeing if there’s a real connection there. So if anyone has advice for someone who’s basically starting from zero, I’d love to hear it. Where did you meet your partner? What worked for you? Any tips are welcome because I genuinely have no idea what I’m doing.
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Hello there!
this is M
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Ik this is so long but bare it with me😅
For a long time I felt like something was wrong with me because I kept questioning things everyone else seemed so sure about. I tried to believe. I tried to make it make sense. But the deeper I looked the more confused I became.then one day I stopped fighting myself.
I accepted that I don't believe in religion. And honestly it felt like putting down a weight I had been carrying for years. I wasn't scared anymore. I wasn't forcing myself to fit into something that never felt true to me. For the first time I felt free. Free to be me.i still believe there's something bigger than us. Something we can't fully understand. A higher force. An energy. Something. And somehow that brings me more comfort than any religion ever did. I don't need all the answers anymore. I just want to experience life and wonder about it.When my mom found out she was shocked. It broke my heart seeing that look on her face. Other people felt sorry for me. Some judged me. Some acted like I had lost my way.
But deep down I felt sad for them too.Because I know what it feels like to be trapped between what you truly think and what you're told you're supposed to think. To be scared of asking questions. To silence parts of yourself just to belong.
Maybe I'm wrong. Maybe they're wrong. I don't know.but for the first time in my life I feel at peace with myself. And that feeling is worth more than pretending.sometimes I hope I find someone who understands. Someone who isn't afraid to question things. Someone who looks at the stars and wonders. Someone I can talk to for hours about life and existence and all the things we're told not to ask.
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June 15, 2026, is a day I will never forget.
My girlfriend and I had been together for 2.6 years. We had dreams, plans, and a future that felt certain. Six months ago, I made a decision that changed my life. I moved far away from my parents, my friends, and the familiar comfort of my community to be closer to her. I rented a two bedroom house, believing that one day we would build our life there together.
Little by little, we started preparing for that future. We bought things for the house. We imagined what our lives would look like. Although she did not live with me, she was a constant part of my daily life.
Living alone was not easy.
The distance from my family and friends left me isolated. Most days, the highlight of my life was seeing her after work. I would cook for her, we would eat together, talk, laugh, and spend time together before I walked her home.
Those moments became my refuge.
They became the way I coped with loneliness.
Without realizing it, she slowly became the center of my life.
Then life became difficult.
Financial pressures increased. Stress grew. Arguments that once would have been small became bigger. We had a few fights over the course of several months. Nothing seemed impossible to overcome, but eventually things reached a breaking point.
She asked for space.
Then she blocked me everywhere.
No calls.
No texts.
No way to reach her.
Suddenly, the person who had become my source of comfort disappeared from my daily life.
The silence was unbearable.
The loneliness became overwhelming.
For the first time in my life, I found myself thinking about suicide and looking at the 5 Litre በረኪና I bought with 600birr 2 months ago It made me think that how I got to this point the intention I had when I bought that item and the intention I have now are completely different, I thought if I drank a bunch of it right now that my body will be discovered probably after a couple of days since the only person near me has blocked me and the reason they might find out I'm dead is if I was critically needed at work and if my co-workers decided to reach out to family about me, and
I was sitting alone looking at it, carrying a weight so heavy that I could not imagine surviving it. The future I had sacrificed so much for seemed to be collapsing before my eyes. The woman I imagined spending the rest of my life with was gone.
As I sat there drowning in sorrow, I remembered a conversation we had earlier.
I had once told her that she was the most important thing in my life.
I told her that losing her would destroy me.
I told her that I could not imagine life without her.
Her response hurt me at the time.
She said that she should not be the center of my life.
She said that God should be.
I remember feeling frustrated when she said it. After everything I had sacrificed, after everything I had done for our future, it felt as if she did not understand where I was coming from.
But on this night, sitting alone with thoughts of ending my life, her words returned to me.
And for the first time, I understood them.
In desperation, I did something I had not planned to do.
I knelt down and prayed.
Not because I was certain something would happen.
Not because I expected a miracle.
I simply had nowhere else to turn.
I asked God to save my life.
I asked Him to lift the burden crushing my heart.
I asked Him that even if I lost the woman I loved, He would give me the strength to endure the pain, the embarrassment, the disappointment, and the endless "I told you so" that people might say.
Most of all, I asked Him to help me survive losing the person I believed I could not live without.
When I finished praying, nothing dramatic happened.
There was no overwhelming feeling.
No voice.
No sudden happiness.
The pain was still there.
The sadness was still there.
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Its been like 4 months now... im still the same , i did some stupid shits im not proud of ... when we were together we used to have sex and i think thats what made it harder for me to forget him ... and after the breakup i used to avoid him when ever i see him in class for sometimes , but kehone gize behuala mawrat jemeren abren ende group mewal jemeren and 1 thing led to another we started to sleep together again ... rasen mtelabet part is memeles alfelegem belo negrognal betedegagami but im the one eneder milewn teyake manesaw hula bcuz senader i see the person i fell i love with and he makes me feel like he loves me , even when we talk its like we're still together he tells me abt his family , friend every cheger yagatemewn ena yann kerbet eyefeleku nw eneder melew ena i hate my self for doing that .. ik he dont love me beka , he likes the freedom he hv now , going out to clubs, talking to new girls , following new girls on instagram ... i get mad at my self for not hating him eskahun .. i cry ken beken enezan hula werat cuz i miss him , keza class sagegnew senawera mnamn des belogn ewelena bet segeba i cry when i realize beka hes not mine, he is ths type of person i wanted to marry, i got attached to him , his family, his little brother , i already see them as part of my family , the thought of him being with someone else betam yamegnal . I dont want to love him anymore pls meftehe ngerugn raseshen distract argi , gize yfetawal mnamn aynet aydelem mfelegew tell me some other thing that really works pls im losing my self lerase keber eyataw nw i was not like this at all pls i dont want to love him , i dont want to feel anything for him even if i see him with other girl . Tell me sth that really works malkes asteletognal ken ben , i cant even eat keseche maleke nw meftehe ngerugn pls.
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I'm a first time writer. So i am about to write about my love life. When i was 3rd grade i had crushes on multiple guys the when i get it to 5th grade i fall inlove for one guy which was a lot of peoples crush idk if it's real love or i just loved him just because a lot of people loved him. The i forgot him and fall in love with a new comer student for another two years. Idk about this too if it's real love or i just loved him just because a lot of people loved him. But through elementary there were guys who asked me for relationship. And i was a little hurt with both of the guys. But then through highschool i didn't fall in love i just lived my life. Then i got in to uni and i used to think i would find my man in uni and i was looking for a guy my first year. But i realised i may not found in uni. So here started i met this guy. Liked him and started a relationship. But things didn't go well since it was long distance and also he kissed me the first day we met. That disappointed me. The i just let that go and try to make our relationship work. But it couldn't workout and i gave up early he also tried to much but i was done mind u he didn't cheat just we didn't get along it was 2 or 3 months (i don't regrate it). Then after a few months there was a guy that i had crush and he started talking to me and after about 2 or 3 weeks he asked me to be my bf not only ask (መጨቅጠቅ) but i didn't want to start early and get disappointed later. I said no few times(no means give me time to know u).The he said i'll give u time till next month and when we met i goes like relationship but he is tramatized with his friends relationship and scraed of his own he's controlling a lots of red flags. And i stoped that too after 2 or 3 month. Mind u those 3 months were abzagnawn yechekchek. So do i have problem? Why is relationship not lasting for long? I think i'm so scared to get hurt so if i see stg i stop relationship early. So please give me some advice.
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My body and brain refused to respond to this guy I've been dating even if he's such a good guy, and I genuinely liked him. I was so stressed out the whole time and he can read it on my face, I didn't understand why until I wrote pros and cons to decide... And I understand why I'm like this...
1 : his head has a weird shape , like a baseball 🏈, and I imagined having a baby girl w a head like that ... 🥲🤧
2: wayyy too extroverted way too much energy to keep up w my introverted personality
3: way too open ... I just met him and I already know his shii
4: gets attached quickly
5: he snitches & gossip too , I don't think he noticed it but he is already talking about people's businesses...
6: his family, they are not the race and culture I want to be associated with, and they want a grand baby already bc he happened to be the only male who can make their bloodline continue...and I hated the Idea of having a baby .... ( Btw he told me that his parents nagg him a lot about this thing)
7: he does stupid dumb shit I find so lame and cringe on social media 🫠
8: he knows a lot of people and associated with a lot of people I know, or that knows me personally. And this kinda gives him some kind of power over me , I don't want him knowing my business or anything... Related to me Unless I told him myself.... The idea of him knowing things about me bothers me a lot
9: have toxic friends ( Bff's)
10,educational level, I'm respectful but he has a diploma from a random college... Not from university... And my family is all about education, they all are nerds including me , and we value education so much , to the list a bachelor degree is a must .
11: he plays victim , I think this is his way of making people feel sympathy for him so they could care more about him , I felt that for him ... Asap as we started talking I was so careful not to hurt him mnamn bcha I think it's all part of his game...
12: his job is not an ideal job , I don't like what he does for living rn...
13: he gives ደላላ
Vibes, talk wayyy too much
14: way into politics
14: he wants a bigger bulky body like those creepy guys with muscle... At this moment he is so sexy for me but... I imagined him w that bulky body , like a thick ass man ... And I'm skinny asf and I want it that way for the future too ... He'll probably kill me if we ever get married
15: he tends to understand things wrong, like negrochn belela melku metergom ... Last time I told him that I was thinking about him ... He said "you're in love with me" ( twejingalesh ) 🤧 wtfff!
16: he will have a lot of power over me if I give him a chance... This idea alone is scary
17: he doesn't have a good healthy habit. He has some serious health issues in his 20's already, imagine marrying him and ending up a widow or w some old guy who can't function AKA burden 🙄
18: he has an ex , she still calls trying to get back to him ...
19: terrible way of ማስመጥ, God bro is cringe asf wtff 😬, sometimes I Lough...
20: way too romantic, I heard that girls are the ones who romanticize their life, but this guy Is way too romantic... & He Romanticizes things And I'm not like that ... I'm more logical...
But I like that he's
1: hard worker, Hussle a lot
2: he understands girls pain , natural pain and struggles .
3: he cares about his family, and people around him
4: tall , have thick beard and perfect teeth 🤗
5: he's actually a good man , one that can treat a girl like a princess or a queen 👑, a real keeper
6: he's strong, and I bet he has a good one🥵, and good at it too 🫣
7: he respects boundaries, and kinda funny too ... And the way he looks at me , idk ... That's so sexy... I just wanted to kiss him ... But nahhh .... 😂
But yeah... I'm probably going to end this...I can't see a future with him 😞,
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While we were a fresh man in uni I had a bestie ( የኔ ፍቅር ) i said had bcz she is abroad now enji she still my #1
Bcha we were in different campus and she met other friends ( enen baytekum😁) the they started over mewtat mnamn and bcha one day she was out drinking wz her friends and got drunk and called her bf of that time and yeah took her to his house and they had sex. He kinda knew her stance on no actual sex before marriage mnamn bcha after that it took her a very long time to be her self again she was depressed yelele, gained 10+ kg due to that, was sucidal and attempted suicide due to the virginity thing and after that am scarred for life, she was sucidal not only bcz she lost it in an unfavorable way but also even tho she might be a girl of the party she grew up thinking if a girl lost her V she is basically valueless type of none senses and yeah she is rly smart and outside of the box mtasb sew but she couldn't deal wz it gn thanks to God she is fine now🥰
Like i said that thing had scarred the hell out of me, i might want to do every sexual thing gn absolutely no when it comes to penetrative sex owwww hell nawwww. Ena ewnet when i read vents of girls having Sex with their bf mnamn honestly it's beyond my mind like how, how, how malet endet new mn slehone new le and wend V msetew bye new masbew
Am not saying am having sex for the sake of a guy in fact we can be equally driven mnann gn if u have noticed it's they guy that persuades the girl to sleep wz him mnamn ena like who are u ewnet 🙄
Girls pls don't ካልፈለጋችሁ am not saying eyefelegachu atargu gn if that's stg that u don't want then don't beka. Idk why but or maybe i might know bcha gn i like the power of not having sex gives me, i can easily or relativel easily walk away from a troubled guy but no matter how much of a feminist I'm and i wish for a world in which a woman isn't measured by her piece of tissue that's not the reality and erase ley makbed alfelgm hyweten so i refuse to do that and i honestly want to beg younger girls not to do it like plsssss if u r 1000% sure u r doing it for ur self and urself alone endeza kehone tsede new😁
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እንደ በረዶ የነጹ እጆቿን በኃጢአተኛና በአመንዝራ እጆቹ ይዳስሳታል። ኅይወቴን በሙሉ አንቺን በሃሳብ ስዳስስ ነው የኖርኹት። ሽታሽ ዕለት ዕለት ከማለዳ ዕንቅልፌ ይጠራኛል ። አንቺ የንጋት ብርሃኔ ነሽ። በማለዳ ውስጥ ሰርቀሽ የምትመጪ ጮራዬ፣ በሌሊት የምትዘምሪ ወፌ ፣ ከእርጥብ ዛፍ ስር የምትወጪ ሽታዬ ነሽ። አይጦች በጥድፊያ እንደሚራወጡ ፤ ነፍሴ ወዳ'ንቺ ለመምጣት ትራወጣለች። በማለዳ ቆመሽ እንደምትጠብቂኝ አውቃለሁ። ውዴ ከእስራት ላወጣሽ ከእስር ቤቱ ጋር እንደታገልኩ ታውቂያለሽ? ብርሃን ሊበራ በደጅ ነው ። በሌሊት ከሚጮኸው የወፍጮ ድምጽ እሰውርሻለሁ፣ ከሌሊት ብርድ እጠብቅሻለሁ። ከንጋት ወፎች ጋር አብረን እንዘምራለን ፣ ከጠዋት ☀️ ጋር ተወርውረን እንነጋለን። በጨረሩ ውስጥ እንበርራለን። በርግቦቹ ክንፍ ላይ ተቀምጠን ፍቅራችንን እንሰራለን። ውዴ ጠረንሽ ተራራውን ሁሉ ያጠግበዋል። በሸለቆ ውስጥ ከሚፈስሱት ወንዞች ጋር መዓዛሽ ይፈስሳል። ጠረንሽ ለአትክልቶቹ መለያቸው ነው።
አበቦች የሚቀልሙበት ቀለማቸው ነሽ። ሲነጋ ከዚያ.... እጅ አስጥልሻለሁ። የልቤ ምሰሶው አንቺ ነሽ የእግሮቼ ብርታት አንቺ ነሽ። የንጋት ተስፋዬ አንቺ ነሽ። እነሆ በደጅ ነኝ። ብርሃናችን ቀርቧል። በኀጢአት እጁ እንዳይነካሽ፣ በአመንዝራ ከንፈሩ እንዳይስምሽ ። እንቡጥ ጽጌረዳ ከናፍርት ይዤልሽ መጥቻለሁ ። እነሆ በደጅ ነኝ፣ ሲነጋ እንገናኛለን። ድምጽሽ ከተራሮች ጀርባ እንደሚመጣ የተሰረቀ ድምጽ ሹክ ይለኛል። ርግቤ ድምጽሽን የምሰማበት ቀን ሩቅ አይደለም።
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Selam semonun aynene kegn iyamemegn nw besu bekul eras mtat alew gnbare lay wede afncaye bekul yale ye ayne kfl ykelal kelelaw antsar tayche neber dry eye nw alugn ena artificial tear azolgnn yhe wer honew aleke bottlu gn smetu kensuwal gn ahunm ale migraine(kebad eras mtta)yzogn nbr yane nw yejemeregn Le ayn dtket mfhthe mtawkut kale home madem bihon plsss
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sup guys just wanna say some shi im 23 M and as all guys i really want a stable life uk i grow up with my grand ma my mom and dad always in fight that never affects me i just wanna have my own things tnx to God i have stn for my own the problem is i really wanna have kid ik thats so wild but i want to have a kid but coudnt find the right girl like i met some girl we talke or hooked up mnamn keza sayat she aint for good i cant find the right one every rs i been is just sexual thing nothing for good idk why but i just wanna have one good girl i mean that i can have real life with her
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So here is the thing. I have been on no contact with my ex for 3 or 4 months and i saw his tg profile and it seems like he is not okay(ofcourse i didn't block him😬). Should i break no contact and talk to him or just keep no contact. I was in hell during our break up but i feel like I'm okay now. Some part of me tells me to text him and ask him what's going on, may be he wants someone to talk to....and some part of me tells me he is good on his own. He doesn't need my help or anything. Contacting him is gonna cause me more pain. So i don't know what to do😰 i need ur help
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Hello, I am 22F. So long story short, I think I need to make friends. The thing is friendship really matters to me, more than relationships actually. And hence I am really picky about people I get close too. I enjoy my company and my peace (or lack thereof 😂 I got my own chaos don't need anybody else's ). Being in medicine and the fact that I don't have time for anything. I don't even feel it it's just at those specific moments where I am done with exams or when on a random Tuesday I just want to walk and have coffee, there is not a singular person that I want to go with, I usually end up going alone or meet with my sister if she is free. And I still don't want the everyday texting and calling and going everywhere type of friends but a lowkey friendship where we discuss stuff and that can offer me an escape of the boredom of routine, ones in a while would be amazing. I have my best friend but she is in another city, and yes talking to her for 2 hours is my therapy but I feel like I need to make friends here and now. I will try to be less closed off and open, assume the best in people for now despite what I know. If anyone wants to be friends, maybe grab a coffee sometime let me know, it could be a fun ride :)
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what would you call a person who never learns from their mistake? how do you make them understand, that they would never be good enough, they are not to be loved, or appreciated, or that nobody cares about them. that they have no one to lean on...... yes, they might argue that this time is different, this time the person is really looking out for them, this time they are human enough they don't need to ask for attention, how do you make them understand that every other person is with them because of the convenience, because of the void they fill, because of what they give....but when it time to receive when they ask for the return..... and suddenly everyone got problems like Kilimanjaro that needs to be dealt with.... they are not ready.... they are hurt and scared.......and yeah they are not that good enough
i need to learn and accept that i will never be good enough. that i am not worth of any fight....any commitment, i am not worth anything... that fucking sucks
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Has anyone ever felt really numb? Like so numb you dont even see how depressed you are, it's like your body got used to the sadness and loneliness. And it's not cause you stopped feeling these feelings it's because your body got tired of acknowledging it every time you feel them, which is always. It got bored by the repetition.
I've always been good at keeping things to myself, its like if I push them down far enough I'll stop thinking about it and eventually it'll go away. Makes perfect sense right?? And it's not cause I dont have any friends, I do , I just dont wanna burden them with all of my baggage. They have their own so why should I add more to it. It's not like my problems are special in any way but still a burden nonetheless. And how can I even begin to explain my feelings, if my entire system is set to ignore them.
I've been seeing alot of vents about love and how everyone is kinda yearning to find someone. Got me thinking if we're all lonely.
I realised the loneliness i feel isnt fixed by the presence of people. I used to think if I meet the right guy then maybe I'll see myself in a better light but that was before I realized I cant be in a relationship. People give what they receive and I cant give what I dont have. If I cant even love myself how can I love someone else or even better how can they love me.
In theory, I should over correct here, with the amount of self hate I have, I should be obsessed with the thought of love. But I dont see how dragging an other person into my life is gonna fix it. We should stop thinking people are more than people. They can't save us from ourselves or fix whatever is broken inside us.
Idk what point I was trying to make here but before I go, is loneliness just yearning in disguise? A penny for your thoughts.
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Hello, kings. I'll keep this short.
Y'all know Ross Jeffries? The OG PUA (pick-up artist)? He's good, G. No kidding, he's good.
I used to really struggle when it came to communicating with girls, but then I started reading his books around two years ago. A few months later, I bought his course mnamn. Ena most of what I learned has been working like a charm, man. I've got laid quite a few times thanks to that nigga.
Anyway, if y'all keep fumbling mnamn, I suggest checking him out.
Fuck 'em and tell 'em to vanish, and stay safe, playboys 🫡
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ሳወራሽ እና ስጫወት ጤነኛ እመስልሻለሁ አይደል። ስትስቂ ለማየት ብዬ እንደምቀባጥር ታውቂያለሽ? አሁን ከአሁን ንግግሬ ያስከፋት ይሆን እያልኩ እንደምሳቀቅ ልብ ብለሽ ይሆን? ዝምታዬ የበዛው ለምን ይመስልሻል? ጨለማ ነፍሴ እንዳይበክልሽ ሸሸሁሽ። የማስበውን እንዳታውቂ፤ የነፍሴን ጥለሸት እንዳታይ እፈራለሁ። የእውነተኛ ማንነቴን እደብቃለሁ።
እንቆቅልሽ እየሆንኩ ይመስልሻል? ምን እንደሆንኩ፣ ምን እንደማስብ ማወቅ ትፈልጊያለሽ። ይህን ፍላጎትሽን ባለማሟላቴ እናደዳለሁ። ከአንዴም ሁለት ሶስቴ እኮ የውስጤን ልነግርሽ ወስኜ ነበር። ምን እንደሚይዘኝ ግን አላውቅም።
ንፁህነትሽ ያሳሳኛል። ፈገግታሽ ተስፋ ይሰጠኛል። የውስጤን ጨለማ ካወቅሽ ንፁህነትሽ እና ፈገግታሽ እንደሚጠወልግ አውቃለሁ። ብቻ እፈራለሁ። ወድጄሽም እኮ እንደምወድሽ አልነግርሽም። ጨካኝ ሁኜ ነዋ የሚመስልሽ?
ኒቼ ምን ይላል መሰለሽ "If you gaze into an abyss, the abyss also gazes into you" ሲመስለኝ ግን ጨለማው እኔ እራሴ ነኝ።
ኒቼን quote ማድረጌ እንደሚያናድሽ አውቃለሁ.....
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But something had changed.
For the first time that night, I no longer wanted to die.
I realized there were people who loved me.
People who needed me.
People whose lives would be shattered if I chose to leave this world.
I realized that ending my life would not end the pain,it would simply transfer it to those who cared about me.
And then something unexpected happened.
At 8:42 PM—2:42 in Ethiopian time—I received a message from her.
She asked me to wait for her until she got home so we could talk.
To many people, it may have seemed like an ordinary text message.
But to me, it felt like hope.
It felt like an answer arriving at the exact moment I needed it most.
Maybe the relationship will survive.
Maybe it won't.
I do not know what the future holds.
But this night taught me something I will carry for the rest of my life:
Love deeply, but never build your entire existence around another human being.
People are precious, but they are not meant to carry the weight of being your reason for living.
When we place one person at the center of our universe, we risk losing ourselves when they leave.
That night, I learned that my life was bigger than my relationship.
I learned that there was still purpose beyond my pain.
And most importantly, I learned that sometimes the first answer to a desperate prayer is not the removal of suffering.
Sometimes it is simply the strength to make it through one more night.
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My favorite porn channels on TG got banned, but i've saved all of the videos and photos earlier 😈thousands of pics and vids... over 10GB ! so even if they deleted those channels, i didn't get upset that much. In fact i can send some of it for the channel owners🤣 ironically i don't even remember the last time i watched them. All of that video is just sitting on my PC. Ppl pls don't ask me to send you the vids or my id i just came here to vent not share. I probably will end up deleting all of it in the near future.
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Was sitting in the library, by the window. A book i am reading taking my soul and heart to another place and time, outside every one is in their marry way( well, their faces is solmen like they are on their way to hell) heavy gray clouds are rolling trying to hide, to tame the sun people go up and down the road, a gardner trimming the grass like he is making art, trimming the edges, picking out trash he is so focused that what he doing is the most important thing in the world.
A bookstore opened , a man around his mid 30s rolling up the shatter, book already shelfed up and ready to be sold. He started bringing out new books from his car(inventory) ... stacking them up high to his chin and taking them to the shop again and again.... how long did it take till it grabbed my attention?? How many time did he take the books back forth.
My first instinct was to help him, take of some of the load, shorten the time, lessen the weight, and i wondered (well a full on cinematic experiance of the following:)yeah by helping a small conversation would start and would tell him about how i enjoy books, how i want to have a book store sometime in the future that will strack up another topic on how he maintained the shop and the challenge, and in all that an opportunity would rise to work there and see the experience and the market ....
I just sat there, half my mind enjoying this HD scenario, half my mind was telling me to go, to run and see the outcome, be a little daring, even if i don't get to have my daydream at least i helped a man, and half of me is grabbed in fear of all the impossible outcomes( what if he take me for a theif, what if he simply dismiss me with a no, what if he is rude, what if i ruined the books while trying to carry them, what if i fall and they got mudded, what if what if what if) it is paralyzing, it didn't snatch away my capability i know i am not really paralyzed and if i wanted to i can move... but something was tied around that left me breathelss and unable to move .... by the time i worte this, all books are inside and the guy is gone inside ..... missed opportunity ማለት ይሄ ነው
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Hey guys 23M here
I think I need aggressive women that mistreat me a lot
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Why don't we normalize online dating in Ethiopia i swear it's considered as a taboo eko and why is that esp in the girls community. For eg me i can say am relatively an open minded person gn on the dating bots and apps mnamn I'll never ever put my pic on it and even if i match wz people i won't send my pic easily, I'll send it after making sure we didn't go to the same highschool or University mnamn ena why is it like that, i wish online dating was normalized here in Ethiopia kemr
Tbh i really prefer inperson dating to online dating bcz in my little experience of online dating mostly the people are asses🙄 so currently i don't u use any app or bot i stopped using it long before i met my bf bcz the guys are honestly disappointments ifk if that's my experience or guys act like that bcz it's online mnamn bcha it'd have been really good if it was normalized esp with in our( girls ) community bcz kemr my friends mnamn endet endemitelut 😂 like hatyat new miyasmeslut ena bcha idk😂
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So here is the thing
Whenever i tell people what my ethnicity is they get flabbergasted 😂 saying all things like " what u don't look like ur ብሔር " esp when they r ppl that know my family mnamn like i remember one girl she was walking me back from church and she literally jumped on the street saying how could u be that ethnicity when u and ur fam is all this pretty and lightskinned mnamn 😂
I also told a guy friend of mine and he couldn't believe it mnamn saying how are u like this then mnamn 😂
Another friend of mine also couldn't believe her ears when i told her
So yeah i take no offense to it i know they meant well when they say that and i really don't care and don't take it personal tbh gn sasbew yaskegnal beka there is a stereotype to it malet new bcha germogn let me share bye new 😂
Anyone similar experience yalew?
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Call it desperation or what so ever but ima lay it here hi im kalu 25 male i usually spend most of my time alone i like reading and exploring hidden knowledges like astrology mysticism and meta physics and stuff now a days i became so incubated in my solitude i notice i dn have people around me that i can converse with about those topics its just feels discomforting not to have someone to talk about vibe with the same stuff i am not religious at all none the less not an athiest either i have my own concept of life and how it all started but at the end of the day there is still a void deep with in me that craves communication and connection maybe idk what this vent will bring about but lets see where it goes
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I Missed his voice so bad,i missed the thing that we had,how he sees me, how he tries to control me,the way he confesses he's love......ayi
I genuinely missed him!!!!!!!
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