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Keyet lijemr ene betam sew avoid aregalew alakim lemn endehone sew miwedegn kemeselegn wedalew endemiwedugn sinegrugn gn yastelagnal sile wend sayhon setochim bihonu alakim bicha kelibe yastelagnal kenesu ga mehon mnamn gn endaydebrachew eyalku abryachew siwil demo eyetenechanechku ena eyastelagn nw miwilew endegena demo madreg malfelgewin neger bemulu sew endaykefaw eyalku aregewalew kesew ga sawera rasu ke lebaw ga ende leba kechewawoch ga ende chewa ke ebdoch ga ende ebd nw miwilew endaydebrachew judge yarekuwachew endaymeslachew gn ahun lay enes man yasbilignal enes man alegn hule sew lemasdeset nw tirete andun lemasdeset sil lelawin egodalew keza enesu endaydebrachew demo rasen godalew gn yene tiyake ene mn yahil endekefagn destegna lihun alhun erasu gid misetew ale? Enesu endidesetu sil destayen ataw lerase mnm mareg alchalkum lik enen miyasdestegn neger sareg yehone sew askefalew ene demo esun alfelgim sew menged lay yegelametegn kemeselegn rasu sikefagn nw mowilew chohe yihun mnamn eyalku ena mn lilachu nw bekagn lerase endet lihun endet ras wedad lihun sewin salgoda zare ema betam keftognal tikit neger lerase silareku lela sew endebedelku nw act miyaregut bekagn ene endet lakum😭😭
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Selam Sumuma I needed your opinion on this ok umm me and my boyfriend has been dating 3 years and it has become so boring ok he does some cute things eko gin he doesn’t party and drink and I am such a party girl and really he is a boyfriend and husband material but I want more I wanna kiss random guys and have fun with my girlfriends without him saying don’t do this and that he is a really sweet boy and such amazing family they both know each other but I feel like I’m loosing myself being with him like something is missing so please give me your comments about this
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Wassup, folks. How are you all doing? Everything’s great on my end.
I’m B. I was a strict Christian until I experienced some things last year—which I’m not going to talk about—that completely severed my connection with God. Now I’m more inclined toward atheism; it seems more plausible. I genuinely want to believe that there’s a God out there who loves me unconditionally, but there’s literally no sign of Him.
How can you just blindly believe that He exists? Isn’t religion a human-fabricated concept that exists just to create these ‘righteous’ people? How can you be certain that God exists? Do you feel God, or is He just a product of your consciousness? You say God did this for you, God did that for you—but how are the things that happened anything more than a result of your hard work or mere coincidence?
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Hey guys I'm 24 kemn endemjemrlachu alakm betam hatsyategna sew negn l was 12 yehone sew tewawek just fun bye mawrat antewawekm keza sle smet mawrat mnamn naked photo melak jemerku fiten salasgeba keza engenagn ena sex enarg alegn eshi alkut birr mnamn transport lakelgn keza gn sebeb fetre kerew am virgin neberku keza negerochn lemakom wesenku ena atefafche tefaw esu gn hulum neger yzo neber yasferaragn neber mmarbet school group eyegeba lklachewalew mnamn enem mefrat jemerku endtewsh video awrign alegn enem mitewegn meslogn awerahut esun video recorded argo neber keza enem campus gebaw endezam hono altewegn negeroch eyekebedugn ene slken hulunm neger stefafa keyet endemiyameta yagegnegnal yalehubetn campus aweko ezam yasferaragn jemer beseatu fkegna neberegn gn yhen menger alchalkum bcha wesgne agegnehut eyayehut atefalgn ke bedn gar bihon mifelgewn arege gn endezam alakebam hulem yasferaragnal erasen lematfatm bzu mokriyalew ahun 5 amet malet new bezi neger ssekay hulum hiwote tebelashe bezi amet mejemeriya andis sew awekugn kemnegrachu belay new mwedew mafekrew lesu lememot erasu mnm aregalew lesu bye medanit erasu wesje neber esum betam new miwedegn yatawtn yabatnet fkr kesu new yagegnehut besew bezi lk mewedednm endezam gn kenu derso yhen neger ke slke lay aye hulum neger tebelashe esunm atawt begd enen tekebelegn malet alchlm eyewededegnm tewegn nege hiwotachn ybelashal leza kahunu ykum ale wesene esun atche menor kebdognal kerasegar mehon aktognal mn mareg endalebgn.alakm memot bcha new mfelgm keza sewm endet yann neger astefat endalebgn alakm mn larg please ardugn chenkognal memot weys yann sew endet endiyatefa larg fkrens endet memeles chlalew alakm kezi hula neger maref new mfelgew
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Hello.
NEVER DATE MOMMA’S BOY
And believe that nigga when he said “ì am not a momma’s boy btw” without you asking him about anything.
They will never grow up, and if you do marry him you will raise a child without giving a birth (the child ìs your husband )
Goodbye😭.
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Yes i am 21M, and this is the truth. People think I'm experienced, and maybe I am in some ways, but that doesn't mean everything is easy. I've been hurt, and because of that, I don't really want to fall in love right now. I feel like relationships can take away my focus from the goals I'm trying to achieve. Sometimes I just wish I had someone who try new things to gain experience with out emotion who truly understands how I feel and doesn't judge me. That's all 💔😭
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Hey 25 f so how do you get out of burnout really I don't know anymore everything feels like huge mountain I can't Cross even the smallest of tasks feel huge nothing makes sense everything feels empty chasing the next step though would help new job new environment may help but at the end to burn out after 15 days and didn't want to do anything everyone feels like my enemy everything feels like draining me my energy my self esteem just want to sleep not get out of the house for while I don't know why I'm feeling that way is this what midlife crisis feels like I'm surrounded by people but no one to talk to no one to say I'm tired too tired of being the strongest one tired of being there for anyone but still showing up I Really don't know what to do how to get out of this loop can't leave this job because my parents are counting on me and logically the job is not the problem I just don't know what to do nothing makes me sense this days feels like I'm in the wrong episode and had to keep the mask on and keep playing
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Soo wassup my ppl😊
Honestly idk ket endet endemjemr so am in long distance relationship💆♀ I met him online Ena it have been 2 years mawrat kejemern Ena beza mehal ande be akal sangenagn befit relationship jemern🙂 then we broke up 💔keza ahun ke tnsh wer befit tegenagnen beakal temelesn ik the biggest problem is that ......going back with my ex 💃 gn atfredubgn he is my first Ena ene demo beka date yarekutn new magbat yefelekut coz teenager hogne aydelem date yarekut ...
So be akal yetegenagnenew bibesa 4te new Ena ene yalehun ke AA bibeza 2 seat menged new memtat ychlal🙂 gn anchi stmechi new tru ylegnal so ene sihed bcha new mngenagnw 🤐
Eshi esum eshi I told him bzu gize sex mareg alfelgm kemagbate befit biye eshi enem alteykshm alegn gn hulem werew esu new ehete nesh ende alegn🙆♀️ Honestly am really confused breakup enarg lilew elna eferalew I love him 👩🦼➡️ beza lay ldr new so bzuu commitment yfelgal biye new masbew gn wef ene negn text maregew hule kalareku ayaregm ydewlal semonun gn like 2 Samnt yalfenal be tkkl enkuan kaweran lemndnw mnamn slew hule chkchk tey ylegnal hule sawera lesu chkchk new hule🙂↕️😢 like tiktok likelet online tiktok eyaye endehone eyaweku ignore yaregegnal yehone fetena lay hogne mnamn good luck enkuan aylegnm amognal biyew mata benegataw teshalesh blo ayteykegnm 💆♀💆♀ lemn mnamn sl mndnw mtkebatriw ylegnal dewyelet slku tekuarto meslo aydewlm am the one melshem medewl yalebgn lemn tefak slew anchi lemn tefash ylegnal yet nek slew atakiwm bingrshm ylegnal 😕 card mulalgn biyew moltolgn keza huletegna endezi endateykign alegn😕mn wst negn be Mariam endet liwta bzu yalalkut ale ene vent mareg sew aydelewm gn mamakrew erasu ataw be mariam erdugn please 🥺🥺
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I miss my ex so badddd it's been a year since we broke up I really want to call him or text him but I can't really go back for the 4th time and get hurt , specially it's like chasing someone who doesn't even care about you, and smh he got a girlfriend and moved on his life actually couldn't blame him it's been a year but deep down tho I really couldn't get him out of my head even after all those things he did to me , i still love him like betam, deep down I feel like we're gonna find our way back to eachother .
Yes I'm being delusional but i can't really jus forget someone that I spent 3 yrs of my life.
Someone please tell him to call me cuz I'm going crazy 😭 please
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Honestly, I still don't get how not being 'experienced' can be a deal-breaker. What kind of generation are we living in? 😅 I could've easily lied and pretended I had experience, but that's not who I am. Being a virgin isn't a crime, right? We could've learned and explored things together. Instead, it feels like you walked away just because I was honest. I've been focused on real connection.It genuinely makes me a little sad that experience seems to matter more than honesty these days.
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Yealemaweq teg
Juice bet gebeche Strawberry mojito mil anebebku
Teyekwachew, Mojito yelal alcohol alew? Yelewum gen kefelek yezegajal
Keategeb yeteqemetew sewye, ay eswa ema Lene nat
Esu yetegenezebew, alcohol alew beye seteyeq endaynorew yefelekut meslot mehonu new. Macho lemehon demo, alcoholnes legna tewut neber ababalu
Mojito men endehone sayaq, keza ateyayeqe saygebaw erasun lemekab mokere. Yealemawequ teg.
Weynes, gebtot new still endezi yalew? Ene new yalawekut? Aymeslem gena?
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ሰውን judge አላደርግም ለዛም ይመስለኛል ብዙ አይነት ጓደኛ የነበረኝ ሱሰኛ አጫሽ ጠጪ ሌሎች ብዙ አመሎች ያሏቸው ነገር ግን እኔጋ መተው ሁሉንም ይነግሩኛል እነሱም እኔም ይገርመናል ለምን እንደሆነ ግን እኔም እነሱም አናውቅም የእውነት በውስጤም ቢሆን ኮንኛቸው አላውቅም። ልክ እንዳልሆነ እንደ ሚጎዳቸውና ማቆም እንዳለባቸው ከማበረታታት በቀር ..በዚህ ሁሉ ውስጥ ግን እኔ የተለየሁ እንደ ሆንኩ አስብ ነበረ እኔጃ ውስጥ ውስጡን መልአክ እንደሆንኩ ተሰምቶኝ ይሆናል😁, እናሳ አይደለሁም ለካ አንድ ጥግ ላይ እራሴን ወድቃ ባገኛትስ የከፋ አወዳደቅ እንደ ዲያቢሎስ ተፈጠፈጥኩኝ በጣም እንደማላደርገው እርግጠኛ የሆንኩበትን በሃሳቤ መቶ እንኳን የማያውቀውን ተግባር ፈፀምኩ..የተለየሁ መስሎኝ ነበረ ወይም የተለየ አኗኗር ያለኝ ግን ሳልሳሳት አልቀረሁም አዝናለሁ እንግዲህ ብዬ ነበር ያን ማታ የተኛሁት, guss What ደገምኩት
ድሮ ልጅ እያለሁ አስራዎቹ ውስጥ መፅሐፍ ቅዱስ ውስጥ ስለ ሳምሶን ሳነብ ሳምሶን ግን ጅል ነው እንዴ እንዳልኩ አስታውሳለሁ ድክመትህን ንገረኝ እንደ ሌሎች ሰዎች ተራ የምትሆንበት ሚስጥሩ ምንድነው ብላ ስትነዘንዘው አይገባውም እንዴ እያልኩ ሳምሶን ሞኝ ነው በቃ ብዬ ነበር, እኔም ደሊላዬ ጋ ላጥ ላጥ ብዬ እንደዚህ እንደ ቀልድ ልሄድ(ደሞ እኮ እንደ ሳምሶን ፍቅር ቢኖረኝ ጥሩ አልነበረ) ስለዚህ እኔ ከእርሱም የምብስ ጅላጅል መሆኔን አውቂያለሁ። ለሶስተኛ ጊዜ ሄጄ ሌላ የባሰ ችግር ከማምጣቴ በፊት እና ጅላጅልነቴ የማንነቴ አካል እንዳይሆን ሀጥያቴን አምኜ ሳለቅስና ስናዘዝ ስወስን ትዝ አለኝ 2አመት ሊሞላው ነው ይሄ ታሪክ። በእግዚአብሔር ፊት እንዴት እንደዚህ አይነት በደልን እሰራለሁ ብሎ ማንም በሌለበት ለእግዚአብሔር የታመነውን ዮሴፍን አስታውሼ ቀናሁበት , ዮሴፍ የሰውየውን ሚስት ሀሳብ ቢቀበልና አብሯት ቢተኛ ምን አልባት ንግስናው ቀርቶ ውሽማነት ይሆን ነበር መጨረሻው እናንተ አቋም ግን ከአቅም ይበልጣል አቋሙ አነገሰው ህልሙን ብቻ አጥብቆ ያዘ ፀዴ ፍፃሜ ሆነለት።
ዛሬ ይሄ ሁሉ ትዝ ያለኝ አንድ ፊልም አይቼ በሰውየው ድካም ውስጥ ሁሉ የኔ ድካም እንደ አዲስ ታየኝ, የስጋን ምኞት መከተል መጨረሻው አጉል ስብራት ነው አለ አይደል በቃ አጉል አጉል ለታሪክ የማያምር ሲታሰብ አንጀት የሚያበግን ብቻ ከህይወት ንፅህና ቅድስና ጋር ተያይዞ የእግዚአብሔርን ህግጋት ወደዋለሁ በጣም at the end እግዚአብሔር የለም ብባል (definitely አለ!) እራሱ እሱን አስቤ የኖርኩትን ህይወት ወደዋለሁ።
ግን በትልቁ ያስተዋልኩት እኔም እንደ ሳምሶን ደካማ ሰው መሆኔን በጉብዝናዬ የማልመካ እራሴን በጭራሽ የማላምን አንዳች ብቃት የሌለኝ የእግዚአብሔር ምህረት እና ፀጋ ላይ ወጣትነቴን የጣልኩ አደራ ያልኩኝ ዮሴፍን ሆኜ መጨረስን የምሻ ሰው መሆኔን ነው።
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I believe in Ghosts
Because unresolved things, ideas, passions are ghosts. They haunt me nearly everyday, and I visibly wince when they thrash in my mind.
They're literally abominations; undeveloped and decaying, they float in the void of the subconscious and occasionally break through into the conscious to take a gulp of air, and then they sink back again.
Sometimes they escape the gravity of the subconscious and come as a band of headless men and women, launching themselves against the inside of the skull.
For the sake of my sanity, I should probably give them good closure; it's not fun having a haunted mind.
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Mejemerya lay kemeret tenesta enleyay alech denegetku mnamn ene yane yehone suprise mnamn lareg tef tef eyalku neber bergit 1 -3ken ghost argiyat neber keza behuala lemn erefi blat alsemachim hedech keza block aregechegne behulum social media keza ke2 samnt mnamn behuala story areku slerase staff mnamn neger keza sewoch storye lay reply karegut ga flirty message melalak jemerku keza yesuwa guadegna weym esuwa endehonu betyakewechuwa leyehuwachew ena sle esua setykegne mnamn endebakene gize slekoterkut r/ship wust alneberkum mnamn beye bzu washew esuwan lemanaded keza guadegnawa negne atgebatm wusha mnamn yesdb aynet weredebgne koy esuwa kehedech kome melemen nw yalebgne move on mareg nw yalebgne message telakelgne awerahu bzu washehu demo mebte nw beguadegnochuwam mnamn enen block argewgnal mn atefaw koy kome lekr ede koy setoch alfelgm blachu kehedachu behuala lemndn nw drama mtserut???
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Yalagebachu wendoch like le tedar emotionally, financially zegeju honachu gn yalagebachu how do u get ur spouse ofc dua enargalen tahajjudm yenoral leyl ale gn kza betchemari in real life amd yagebachuts dua endaregachutlat aynet set new yagebachut?
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I don't know what I'm doing wrong I've always wanted something real ever since like 9th grade when other guys hormones were acting up and only had one thing in mind I was always thinking about how much love I'd shower my girl with. But I grew up had a horrible heartbreak in highschool became a player of sorts never did anything really but would always talk to girls up until the point where I knew they wanted me and just leave, maybe I was trying to numb the feeling of not being good enough for no one... but now am in uni and want something tangible a partner in life of sorts im not saying we spend every single minute together rather the person that I know will always be there for me at the end of the day.. my person, and it's legit been years since I stopped messing around and started living in solitude, not by choice.. but because I decided it wasn't fair to the girls dragging them along when I don't see myself going the distance with them, that led to me basically cutting out all female characters from my life, now am stuck in this loop, I don't really talk to random girls cuz first I have an insane fear of rejection and second in my mind I'd rather wait for the girl I'm going to go the distance with, but the thing is I've had this mindset for so long I legit forgot how to talk to girls I don't freeze up ik how to keep a convo going but I don't know how to get a girl to like me, ik it's not cuz of looks cuz girls kinda approach me here and there, but they wait for me to meet them halfway but I'm just the nice guy that can't get a girl to fall for him am I that boring😐idek at this point... maybe it's the fact that am a stoner, Ik it takes away my motivation on everything in general just wanna stay home all day watching sitcoms, becha idk why I'm writing this erasu maybe need to let it out gn ya... am screwed and there seems to be no end in sight.
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Hello y'all I'm female a 1st year student ast aastu if u know Addis abeba science and technology and I was thinking of choosing the electromechanical engineering(mechatronics)which is giving to about only 4 or 5 universities in ethiopia and is it worth it I was thinking to choose it as my department because I love robotics and machineries and as I have software knowledge I can build my skill but I was thinking wt oppotunities will I get and as I wanted to start the practical work from the starting point of 2nd year are there internships or any clubs or community in my field that I can grow even make astartup I wanted to work and to the side with software development amd also I want to build more on my skill of development in game development and apps anyone suggest me any traininngs or camps I actually already was in insa summer camp for this year I'm thinking diffrent and best training spots or internships .pls help ur girl out
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Am 26 M
So here is the thing i need advice, am 26 I got a job, still live with my parents, i have never been in a relationship, I am a religious person( senbet temari), am asking for girls to text me or what not but I want to ask, I feel incomplete like I am missing something or someone, I have friends , but not best friends, I feel like getting into a relationship( to marry) may fix that but I stopped and think, marriage is a big step and its not like you get right into marriage, you have to get a girlfriend first, am an introvert so you get my point, and so I need advice, what should I do? Fix myself first or look for that special person (if they exist).
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Male 28! So today I decided not to date, not to be in a relationship and not to get married! Men I’m so sick and tired of this capitalist society, the fuck is wrong with yall endee. Nowadays To be in a relationship I have to constantly fulfill your expectations, needs, wants, fantasies, desires! Demo the competition 🤦♂️ I have to always keep this act in order to be seen as a desired candidate to your cult. Yehen hulu adrege rasu “owww your not my type” mebalem ale hahahahaaa! I feel like we are becoming a product! “Pick me, I’m a very handsome man with a good smelling perfume”
“Pick me, I’m a smart dude with lots of degrees”
“Pick me, I’m rich. I own businesses”
“Pick me, I’m very religious and I’m very vulnerable”
“Pick me, I’m a bad boy. I even don’t believe in God”
Betam nw miyasazenew!
I don’t want to play this game of capitalism, I don’t want to be a product. I don’t want to suffer so I have stepped out of this nursery willingly and I hope y’all have a great life of pretending!
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ለኔ ግድ እንደሌለህ ወይም እኔን እንደማትወደኝ እርግጠኛ ነኝ...እድሜ ልክ በአንተ ትዕዛዝናት እና ህግጋት ጠብቄ በቻልኩት መጠን ኖርያለው። እኔ እንከን የማይወጣለት ወይ ደግሞ ኃጢአት ሰርቼ አላውቅም አላልኩም። ነገር ግን ሆን ብዬ አስቤ የሰራኹት ተንኮል እና ክፋት የለም! አንተ ግን እኔ ላይ መከራ ላይ መከራ, ችግር ላይ ችግር ከመደራረብ ውጪ ለኔ የፈየድከው ነገር ምን አለ? ነጋልኝ ስል ሁልጊዜ ራሴን ጨለማ ውስጥ አገኘዋለው። አንድ ቀን የአንተን መልካምነት የአንተን ፍቅር ውስጤ ተሰምቶኝ አያውቅም ። ስለ ሌለህ ላይሆን ይችላል ወይ ደግሞ ለኔ ግድ ስለሌለህ ነው። ወይ ደግሞ ስለምትጠላኝም ይሆናል። ከዚህ ሁሉ ገድለኸኝ ብትገላገል አይሻልም ነበር?? እኔ በዚህ ስቃይ ውስጥ እንደ ኢዮብ የምማረው ወይ ደግሞ አንተን የማመሰግንበትም ምክንያት የለኝም። እኔ ኢዮብ አይደለሁም። እኔ ሁሉ ነገር እንዲያበቃ በመጠባበቅ ላይ ነኝ። ፀሎቴን ሰምተህ እንደማትመልስ ይህንንም ደብዳቤ እንደማታነበው እርግጠኛ ነኝ። ምክንያቱም ለኔ ግድ የለህም።
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Selam everyone,
I really need some honest advice from people who understand this situation, especially medical students, doctors, or anyone who knows about EDU.
I am currently a 3rd-year medical student at a government university. Academically, I am doing well and I am among the top students in my class. But behind that, there is a struggle that many people do not see.
My family is facing serious financial problems. Every semester feels difficult. Even basic living expenses can become a burden. While I am trying to focus on my studies, I am always thinking about the sacrifices my family is making to keep me in school. Sometimes the pressure becomes very hard mentally and emotionally.
Recently, I saw the transfer opportunity to Ethiopian Defence University and applied online. Honestly, it felt like a great opportunity. The monthly allowance and guaranteed salary would reduce a huge burden on both me and my family. For the first time, I could stop worrying about basic expenses and maybe even help my family financially. I also respect the idea of serving my country.
However, one thing keeps bothering me: the 7-year mandatory military service after graduation.
If I transfer, I will be committing many years of my life to the military system. My dream has always been to go as far as possible in medicine, become a specialist, and build a better future for myself and my family. I worry that such a long service commitment might limit some opportunities in the future.
So now I feel stuck between two difficult choices:
Option 1: Stay at my current university, continue facing financial difficulties, but keep more freedom and flexibility after graduation.
Option 2: Transfer to Ethiopian Defence University, get financial stability and support now, but commit to military service for many years.
For those who know the reality of EDU, military medical training, or have faced a similar decision, what would you do if you were in my position?
Do you think it is better to continue struggling financially for a few more years and keep my future options open, or should I take the opportunity in front of me now and accept the long-term commitment?
I would truly appreciate any honest advice.
Thank you.
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I used to have friends who i like spending time with but now we are all in different path i guess . Im looking for women my age who are likeminded as me im 24F i would like to meet women only 24-27 genuine and kind person and are interested in making money trying to improve themselves financially and who like going out and having fun and making memories.
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Have u ever thought if this one doesn't work then am gonna be a nun or a monk 😅 oh well am in that position
So it's been a few days since we gave it a name but boyyyy😄 idk never felt like this before i swear i mean i always knew that I'm a hopless romantic but this one is killing me, the way he looks at me በስስት , the way he touches me like I'm some delicate package that he has to care for, the way he shows me that he wants to listen about my days, my weird thoughts, my fantasies, my dreams, we said i love you with in a week of talking and የወደፊቱን balakm it seemed and is genuine, the way he is 100% willing to keep up with my pace sexually it was not even upto any discussion unlike many of my encounters, the way he makes me feel I'm the most beautiful woman to exist, idk am falling for him each day. No one has ever made me this loved. The way he kisses my chubby cheeks 😅 መቼም ነው ማልጠግባቸው ( his words ), he makes me feel like all he wants is me and me and me, the way he compliments me and my soul 😭 bcha alakm ferchalew
I had some on and off crush for him for the past 4 years. I even remember the weird incident that made me see him in a romantic light.... We were both heading towards cesarean section room as medical students and i asked him if he still wants a child seeing how messy the whole gyni thing is he i was just making convos tbh😅 but he was like hellll nawww i don't that's when i was like " omg soulmate " and after that time there was no going back even tho I've dated some and forgot abt him u know that guy that is always at z back of ur mind 🥰..... There is also a specific incident for him that he started seeing me in a different way it was a white coat day ( almost half of med school ) that we celebrate and everyone was talking pics here and there then let me tell you in his own words 😂" ከሁላ ፀጉሯ እና shapeua በጣም ሚያምር ሴት አየን then even ከፊት ስትዞርም በትክክል አላወቅናትም ( u know i had my glasses off😂 and my hair ተለቁአል had no makeup but some lipstick, kul mnamn ) ከዛ መታ ፎቶ እንነሳ አለችኝ that's when i recognized it was u i mean alferdbetm😂 i was always nerdy with my ugly glasses on, ዝርክርክ outfit and my hair always tied up so bcha yea also for him after that time there was no going back😊
Idk why tf am yapping tbh gn beka my mind is running high on the chemicals of love am just sooo in love I've always been a lover girl but this hits different to the point of making me scared am really scared 😐 idk tbh i had given up hope on my love life i mean i meet guys here and there for some reason am approached a lot but then there is always like ምን ልበላቹ alwaysssss something to break us apart idk i swear there were times that made me ask myself am i cursed or stg bye so whenever a guy enters into my life I'll tell myself that there is 80% chance that it'd fail so I'll always be disappointed but not surprised u know but this one 😅 we even gave it name and Everything is just too good to be true like literally .... Our same sense of humor dark and dirty, our stance on religion ( esu he doesn't care ene am Agnostic), our similar future path / goal but yeah, we just can't stop talking esp in person when we meet it's just i can say we r bestfriends
So why am i venting..... Feraw 😅 this felt too good to be true for my experience betam
Day by day it's getting deeper and am falling in love ( I've never been in love fyi )
So my Q is, is it normal to feel so frightened when things seem to be perfect
Anyone with similar experience?.
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It is so exhausting constantly hiding my high sex drive and feeling like I have to apologize for a normal desire just so I don't get labeled a creep. I am completely over walking on eggshells, filtering my passion, and dealing with constant rejection from women who treat sex like a chore or pull a total bait-and-switch after a few weeks. It’s honestly infuriating to feel isolated and shamed just because I want a girl who actually pursues me and matches my energy step-for-step, instead of making me feel guilty for craving a real connection. Getting through this frustration is rough, but learning about handling desire discrepancies is helping me keep my confidence up while I search for someone who actually matches my pace
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Istg am done with relationships ende why are ya’ll girls this toxic koy ong ,
Everybody says spend money on your girl I said okay , treat her like a lady I said okay , feed the ho I said okay ,take a good care of her emotionally done and done still not enough the only thing I got out of relationship is a good cuddling and making out that’s it ntn else fr ,
And I can get that without doing all those things ho
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I am a male, specifically twenty-nine years of age. Are you aware of the difficulty inherent in being a virtuous man in contemporary society? Do you comprehend the profound loneliness and sorrow experienced by men? This sentiment is particularly acute for men who are honest, kind, and loving. It remains unclear why many women claim to desire such a man yet reject him upon approach. I assert that most women actually desire a troubled, chaotic man who causes them distress and whom they cannot control, only to fall in love with the very inability to control him, despite their continued attempts. They merely wonder and ponder. Consider the man who avoids drama, shares everything about himself, listens attentively, and expresses love; he often receives the worst treatment and may even be cheated upon. Why is this the case? Ladies, what is the issue? Are you well? Must we be toxic? Please examine yourself and conduct a background check on your own narrative; you are aware of your actions. Furthermore, you know I am correct. Peace ✌️
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Why are we here👀
I mean exist maregachen tergum alew?
‘Yetftrnlet ngr ale’ or Lelam meknyat yenoral gn esu meaning berasu yerasachen aydlem
Exist aregen suffer aregen success agegnen or suffer eyaregen motn then what? Ik n I believe in genet and seol but what the point
Ene huletunm I mean broke season Ena stable yehonkubachew season och alu ahun yemsgen wede broke temelshalew🤭 but tbh kom blachu as achu tawkalachu
Sometimes bzu tebazu medrenm muluat milew wede mergemt yazenblebgnal
Bezan👩🏾❤️💋👨🏾 tebazan 👨👩👦 medren Molanat Ena mn teftre?🤦🏾♂️
Our parents lenesu future life(ለመጦ’ር) weledun then yegna life berasu confuse argon enesu belje yalflegnal blew yasbalu enesun blame eyareku aydlem but exist yemadreg yemasdereg hasabu Mnm sense aysetm it’s so boringgg🥴
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For God, for St. Gabriel,
Your son is unwell, uncomfortable here, living in struggle. I want to change myself and try to write my future with my own hands, but I feel trapped here, surrounded by haters trying to bring me down. I am circled by devils and hatred, and I have no clue how to defend myself.
I tried everything. I called upon the names of all the angels, even You, God, but no one seems to reply. It has been four years. You know I have no one to rely on, but You left me alone, and my life completely changed. I experienced deep trauma that may stay with me for a lifetime.
Now I feel like I am at the end of everything. Every hope I had in You is vanishing. If You are not around when I need You the most, then why is Your presence in this world?
St. Gabriel, I do not want to speak badly about God for the rest of my life, but I am losing everything. I am losing myself every day, digging my own funeral deeper every day, and my time feels like it is getting closer to the finish line.
There will be no cross on my neck. There will be no God’s name in my mouth. There will be nothing at all.
But before that happens, please save me. Help me. Time is running.
One day, I may decide.
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Hey, I just wanna vent about something that’s been lowkey bothering me. I’m 21F, almost 22, and I’m a university student. I still have a long way to go in my career, so I’ve been trying to focus on that and sacrifice other things, you know?
The thing is, I’ve never been in a real relationship. And before anyone assumes stuff, it’s not like I’m lonely or that no one’s interested in me 😭 I do get approached in real life, and I’ve had crushes and talking stages before, but nothing ever became serious.
I remember one talking stage where this guy was begging me to be his girlfriend even though we never went on a date or even talked in person. He just saw me at church. And honestly, I don’t really trust online guys like that, and meeting someone I only know from chatting terrifies me.
I know it’s not because of my looks, because guys do approach me in public sometimes. One time I was walking to gebi and this guy said, “ለከፋ አይደለም ግን honestly you’re so pretty,” and I literally thought it was lakefa at first 😭 I got nervous and tried to change direction he didn't follow or try anything never saw him again.
I also think I have avoidant issues. Like one time I had a huge crush on this guy, and after a while I think I started giving signals or energy or whatever 😭 then he started getting closer to me… and what did I do? I ran every time I saw him. Maryamen 😭
I genuinely don’t know what’s wrong with me. I want a relationship, but at the same time I avoid every chance I get . Sometimes I wonder if it’s insecurity or fear or something deeper. Like… who am I waiting for exactly?
Even people in my neighborhood have started making “you’re next” wedding jokes, saying maybe next year and stuff. And I’m just there like 🤨
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Hi
So, i know this guy for 3 years mnmn ena he's married gn married endehone sew behave ayaregm i know his wife on tiktok ena hes been asking me tp become hes 2nd wife ena i said no obviously gn bka sera guday yagnagenal ena gedeta bka mistun sayat tasazngalech balfew she reposted a post that says " cheers balachen kerasu belay lemiweden ena lemiyakbren" mtsm hes 35 and am 20 imagine and ofc be 16 or 17 amet jemro new makew gn bka yedewlal setota yelkal mnserabt bota (family business) atakm esua bengrat dmo tedarachews becha wellahu ya'elm.
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