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01 April 2026 04:00

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Hi i am 24 Male
I have a job my payment after food and house rent cut it's 6300 i have a lot of problems in my life i can't name one thing which is going in the right way except my religion life in this time i have more than 8000 birr credit things don't go the way i expected them every month something will come and take all the money i even have family i can't support them periodically
I can't have another job because of some solid reasons what am i gone do i need help pls any advice guys

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31 March 2026 04:00

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I've heard people talk about manifestation. I'm here to desperately ask if there's a way to manifest this specific guy. We broke up 5 months ago but I literary couldn't function. I'm stuck.

I want you guys to help me manifest him. I know it works. I've heard people even in here talk about it.
Thanks in advance.

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31 March 2026 04:00

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I am man so tired of every conversation eventually circling back to the same thing. It’s like there’s a hidden timer on every interaction, and once it runs out, the pressure starts. Why is it so hard for some women to understand me that my value—and our connection—isn’t measured by how quickly I’m willing to give up my physical boundaries?
I want to be heard, not just handled. I want to be known for my thoughts, my humor, and my day-to-day life, without feeling like I have to constantly deflect or say 'no' in ten different ways just to keep things respectful. It’s exhausting to have to protect my space from someone who claims to care about me but ignores the one thing I'm asking for: time and respect and physical touch.i deserve the privilege of seeing me in different ways.

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31 March 2026 04:00

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am 21M ena our people says if you didn't broke your heart by a girl in 19-20 years(youth) you'll nerdy or yemijajal lover in 30s ylalu ene demo tesebre alawkm slzih endemilut ehonalew malet new? gn yetesebere close friend alegn yaw be esu temreyalew bye asbalew?

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31 March 2026 04:00

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Something is seriously wrong with me. I have this friend ( met her in high school) I used to love her so much like she was literally my sister. But now after some situations, I just started to hate her. Not just dislike..HATE.

Everything about her annoys me.The way she eats, breathes, talks .Like… even the smallest things she does make me irritated for no reason.And it’s getting worse because I’m starting to like seeing her fail and that’s what scares me the most. That is NOT me. I don’t even recognize this version of myself.
I’m an overthinker, so every single thing she does just keeps replaying in my head over and over again. I can’t stop it. It’s like my mind is stuck on her, picking aside everything 🫩.

And now I’m not even just hating her…
I’m starting to feel like I might end up hating myself for becoming like this

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31 March 2026 04:00

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this might be long but bear with me please…

i need some honest advice because i feel really confused and uncomfortable right now
so i’ve been with my boyfriend for over a year, and he has a girl best friend. from what i’ve seen she’s very close to him. i met her once before, and he told me she talks to other men romantically(bad mouthed her basically), so i didn’t really think there was something between them, but their r/nship has always made me a bit uneasy, he actually broke up with his ex because of this same girl. his ex felt uncomfortable with how close they were which caused arguments and he ended up choosing his best friend over her
there have been other things too. i’ve heard her yelling at him on the phone, and he was really concerned and said you should eat your lunch mnamn 🙄. i only met her once, it was at a hospital when her dad was sick, and her cousin was giving me really nasty looks the whole time ,even now she relies on him a lot. for example she doesn’t use mobile banking , so he handles a lot of her payments for her, which already felt like a bit too much to me.we’ve talked about this before, and his solution was basically arranging when they talk, so it seems like they talk less, but in reality they still talk regularly
now here’s what really triggered me i was at his office using his pc to listen to music. his telegram was open, and when he goes to toilet i ended up scrolling (i know it wasn’t right but i had a gut feeling and did it anyway). most chats were work stuff, but when i opened hers i saw that she sent him a porn video with a caption like “if this gets to 7000k i will release it” i don’t even know if it was her in the video or what she meant by that but i felt really uncomfortable and confused about why she would send him that and why he didn’t say anything about it.at this point i don’t know what to think. i feel like he is hiding something i also don’t want to seem insecure or controlling so what should i do, what is your advice for me ?

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30 March 2026 04:00

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Hey lovelies i just wanted to share this with you because i am so confused and feel lonely lately as i get older this feeling is growing day by day,since i mentioned my age i never experienced love and i grow up watching my friends being in love,getting attention by their loved once and i never get a chance for that i mean i am the type to fall in love but no one approached me.even if i end up having a chat it never last long the convo just fades ,the thing that makes me confused and questioned is that i get a lot of complements also i know that ofc i have a mirror but why...anyone who is going through this any thing to say

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30 March 2026 04:00

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Hello guys ere mekerugn sometimes when it became night all I think about is suicide I swear but I would think abt my dad he paid alot for me but all pains push me on that way sometimes I feel much more stressed and I wish I could escape from my mind for a sec am single and my fam wants me to marry lol he will be depressed because of me I swear beka i hate life plsss help me salmot

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30 March 2026 04:00

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I lost you in the times I needed you the most, U were all I had but still ion think it'll work out anymore, didn't even get proper explanation U just fade away, have time to send snap, go out with friends but too busy to even text me that Ur busy, shii jus hurt cuz i was blind the whole time, like forgave him for the third time and he still made sure to fuck it up and hurt me like bro , I didn't even do anything to him, I supported him thru his hard times, was there thru ups n downs , was there when he ghosted me saying he's in hospital while it was jus a reason to push me , talk shit behind my back and I still forgave him but still this nigga is selfish like what did I do to deserve this? He promised he'll change he promised not to do this stuff again but here I am dealing with this emotions and caring for someone who doesn't even give shit bout u is hard like it hurts, even tho I FS know being with him is wrong but some parts of me miss the times we had, all that attitude, all that "ewedhalew" " ewsdhalew" message, the lil thumb thing while I laid on his shoulder, lil lift while we hugged for the first time, listening to Ur heartbeat laying on Ur chest while U kissing my forehead, lil neck kisses during hugs, "ewdshalew" while hugging n wishing the time would slow down, but all that thing just to end it after 4 months...
Baby I love you so much more than U could think , more than U do, ewedhalew my baby , even tho things didn't work out I wish U all the best, hopefully god will help me on moving on,cuz FS if we were meant to be I wouldn't get hurt for the 3 time...
Maybe in another life, U would actually be mindful, smart, loyal , not dumb n dirty like U did me..
Maybe in another life U would actually love me for who I am
Maybe just maybe in another life I'll be Ur priority, before Ur female friends
Maybe in another life it'll be U and me only no body between us
Jus us.
Hope god will make you feel like you made me feel all the up n down that I went thru cuz of u, may god give you peace n love n blessings,i hope u'll achieve all Ur dreams, may god help U with the things U suffer alone, may god heal you, Ur soul , ewedhalew, for the good times we spend tg for the times we planned the future tg , for the times we spend hours on calls I forgave you not because the shii U did is forgave able, but fuck u

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30 March 2026 04:00

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So the thing is, I'm young, live alone in a good abode, earn a humble amount of money. I have friends, some girls I flirt with(not two timing), basically I have things going on for me. Dumb ahh me one instance at a Saturday night, I was alone after returning from a hang out with friends the whole day and I got really bored, I don't sleep early, the work's stress was catching up to me and I was feeling it since I was alone and all, in the end your genius boy decided to go to a hooker, mind you I'm a virgin who only has experience with make outs, and when I went there I only wanted some vanilla shit not the actual sex since I dont want my first to be with a hooker. So I went there and told her that I don't want the actual thing but only some light stuff, she agreed and we started but after some minutes she started insisting and I don't think even the devil is capable of persuading this much, I told her no more than I can count and in the end we didn't do it. What I regret deeply is me entertaining the idea and going to such a lowly place. Even tho I have not done it I still got myself traumatized and want to erase my memory of ever going there so if any of you is thinking of doing it please please don't it's NOT WORTH IT at all.

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30 March 2026 04:00

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አታንብቡት ትጎዳላችሁ!!!!

1 ጊዜ አይቻት በጣም ነበር የወደድኳት ታውቃለህ?
ማሰብ እስካቆም ድረስ..ሁለመናዬ ነው የሞተላት
መላው እኔነቴን እንደ ስገጃ አነጠፍኩላት😭
ህጎቼን ሻርኩላት፣ ሲያማት ታመምኩላት።
አፍቃሪ ሞኝ አይደል?

እሷ ግን 'ተወኝ ትጎዳለህ' ነበር የምትለኝ.. እንድተዋት ብላ ስላለፉት የፍቅር ህይወቷ ነገረችኝ..'ኧረ እኔ ምን ገዶኝ፣ ፍቅርሽ አሳውሮኝ የለ'. ነበረ የኔ መልሰ..
ከዛም አስቀጥላ ባለፈ ህይወቷ ስለሰረቻቸው ሀጥያቶች ነገረቺኝ እና 'ተወኝ' አለቺኝ

እኔ ግን
'ቆዳዬ ተገፎ ይሁንልሽ ጫማሽ
ስጋዬም ይደገም ላንቺ ከተስማማሽ'
..ነበረ ምላሼ?😂

ዝም ብለህ ከምታነብ ደደብ አትለኝም?!

ከዚያም ፍቅር ተጀመረ..
ሞኙ እኔም እንደ ስልብ ሎሌ አድርግ የተባልኩትን አደርግ ጀመረ..
even ከጋብቻ በፊት በሚደረግ ነገር አላምንም ነበር...'እንፈፅም' አለቺኝ 'ፈፀምን'...
በዚህ ሁላ ውስጥ ግን ስለ ኤክሶቿ ማውራት አላቆመቺም ነበር...
ስለነበራት ትዝታዎች ታወራ እና
' እሱ?! ሰው እንዳይመስልህ! አውሬ! ሊያውም ዲያብሎስን የሚየሰቀና! በሚል መደምደሚያ ትዘጋዋለች

ተይ! ብል ሰሚ አጣሁኝ።

ጭራሽ አንድ ቀን room ዉሰጥ ሆነን ኤክሷ እንዴት እንደ ወሰባት ነገረቺኝ እና ሲደብረኝ ተረድታ..
"የነገርኩህ አንደ ባሌም እንደ ቤስቲዬም ስለማይህ ነው እንጂ ያነተ ቆለጥ ነው ትልቅ አልጋ ላይ ጀግናውም አንተ ነህ' አለቺኝ 😭

ውስጤ የሆነ ነገር ሲሞት ታወቀኝ..ከዛን ቀን ጀምሮ 1 ጊዜ እንኳን ደውዬላት አላውቅም ግን ሰበረቺኝ አንተዬ!
እንዳልለያት አንተን ካጣሁ እራሴን አጠፋለሁ ትለኝ ነበር...
ከምትሞቺማ ብዬ አብሬያት ሆንኩኝ...

አሁን ግን እንደሷ አባባል እኔ በደንበ ልወዳት ስላልቻልኩኝ ወደ ኤክሷ ተመልሳለች።

እኔም እንዳልኩት ቆዳዬ ተገፍፎ ወደ ኤክሷ የሚያደርስ ጫማ ሆኖ ቁጭ ብያለሁ።😊

እያየህ ባትራመድ እንኳን እያየህ አፍቅር!

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29 March 2026 04:00

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I am drunk. I live with my weird family of 3 me ,mom dad. Is it even possible to love people this much? I love them so much I pray that they live very long. I pray that they will never see my death cause I know who I am to them their only child, their joy.

I am so loved that I fear my death will cause their death.

I love them so much that I pray my life ends the day they die.

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29 March 2026 04:00

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Admin please prove this asap 🙏 I'm Female.
so here is the thing I meet this guy on a dating app and then we are in a relationship now so the problem is his ex was a psychologist and everything in the relationship was her role and this guy has become a littel boy cuz of her and he expects me to fix everything, he just loves himself too much he doesn't care at all so here is the problem we kinda did intimate things and im the kinda person who loves that person and thinks this is a serious relationship and it will go till marriage, so one day I was sick he didn't ask me at all and I asked him why he didn't even care to ask or care about me anf he was like did u ask me uf i ate luch and i told him he is self centered and I don't want him to call me back so this what he did he didn't call back and I didn't too for 2 days and I kinda needed an emotional validation cuz smtng bad happend in my life and he was like I will show u how I can not calling and i shuted the phone, and yesterday I got to an accident thank God I'm not hurt and u wouldn't believe me what this nigga said he said use ice for the wound y will be okay he didn't care a flinch, I'm sorry tho it's kinda long bare with me...so I told him he either act like a man or I'm out and he was like I'm not in the mood today this was yesterday so I told him to meet me today and he said ok so I called him and he was like I don't think I can today can't we talk on the phone and I'm kinda in the thought of I should cut him with out even talking or I should talk to him, I need ur opinio guys like asap he said he will call me back at night

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29 March 2026 04:00

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22 M , Do women actually fall in love ?? , See am not perfect the women I used to date say I am too nonchalant ( too mysterious) for them and stuff but I believe that’s the reason they get drawn to me even obsess over. Here’s the thing I actually fall in love deeply , very loyal but I don’t have the tendency of showing affection, I am easy to talk to am even a good flirt, but after all this and we break up and part ways they always end up being in loving relationship almost all of them , I feel like they never loved me in the first place and am the one who’s left waiting ( the man who can’t be moved 😂 ) waiting like damn loser !!!!

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28 March 2026 04:00

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I missed you so much that you can ever imagine😭😭😭 Ik you’ll never see this, even if you see it you’ll never know that it’s me. It’s been sooo long since we last talked but you’re always on my mind I’ve never slept without thinking about you. Our love was unbreakable, we used to talk 24/7, it was unique and pure, it was genuine, it was true love but we were forced to stop our relationship, i gave it all I have I’ve never loved anyone like you and will ever do in the future, I will never forget you NEVER EVER!!! You will be my one and only love till I die. I still love you so much and I hope you do too, I hope our problem is solved and GOD bring us together soon. I LOVE YOU ALWAYS AND FOREVER❤️

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31 March 2026 04:00

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Heyyy how are u ppls eshi i need ur help i am 20F and uni student and there is this guy who shows me that he is interested in me and i see that he is by his somehow actions at first and we kinda talk mnamn then there is a gurl he hates btam and suddenly they got along and with in couple of days they start talking he always came to me and says she said this that and all and i say okay but still he is giving her a chance to talk to him and by her side her friends came just to talk they are talking and disappear , i got it they wannna see my reaction but I’m neutral and i’m also feeling i’m in the middle who is some how a barrier for them not to be more close if they are wanting ik she wants himm btamm gn i’m not sure his i heard to different types of stories so if u also think i’m in the middle what shouldi have to do to be out of this shit ????

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31 March 2026 04:00

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It’s not even about sex. Honestly, I’d trade a hookup for three hours of just lying on a couch with someone who actually wants to be there. I’m so tired of the 'touch starvation'—that physical ache in your chest when you realize it’s been months since you’ve even felt a hand on your arm, let alone a real embrace.
I see people acting like men only want one thing, but all I want is to feel someone’s weight against me, to breathe in their scent, and to feel that 'click' when you’re making out and the rest of the world just goes quiet. Instead, I’m stuck in this endless cycle of dating apps that feel like job interviews or 'situationships' where no one wants to be vulnerable enough to just hold each other.
It’s exhausting to have all this affection to give and nowhere for it to go. You start wondering if you’re invisible, or if wanting something so simple is somehow asking for too much. I just want to be someone’s 'safe place,' and I want them to be mine. But right now, it’s just me and an empty spot on the bed, and it’s getting really hard to keep pretending I’m okay with it.

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31 March 2026 04:00

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People with racing minds ግን how are you guys reading hundreds of pages a day? 😭

Like seriously, how do you do it?

Me, I can’t even go past 50 pages, and my brain is already jumping everywhere.

If you’re one of those people, talk to me what’s your secret? I really need advice

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31 March 2026 04:00

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This is my first time venting, and here is what I want to say.
I met a girl on Instagram, and we started talking every day. We really connected because of our good communication. I like her personality and her sense of humor.
Now it has been 9 months like this, but we have only met twice. We kissed on the first date and also on the second date.
Here is the problem: after 9 months, meeting only two times feels difficult for me. I want to have sex with her, but she told me she is a virgin and that she doesn’t want to.
The reason I don’t fully trust her is because before, she told me I was the first person to kiss her, but I didn’t feel like that during our first kiss. Because of that, I started doubting what she says.
So now I’m confused. I want to be with her physically, but she doesn’t want to, and I don’t know what to think or do.

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31 March 2026 04:00

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20F
I'm kind of ambivert and i got depressed too many times..... because i can't make friends like other did it makes feel like I'm alone and think like people hate me and also
i make images on my mind and feel like the person i want to be who is happy and sociable....... and i don't know how to communicate with people around me i want to make friend but idk how
i always think these ideas please tell me what to do

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30 March 2026 04:00

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Hey there
24 female...I want to ask some questions if yall are struggling like this or u exprinced it u see I'm 24 and I have never been in any relationships,kissed or never been huged I know this sounds makes me horny😂 but I am not koy endet new sew bezi edmew date adergo enkuan mayakew I get complements every day eko gen I don't know why eskahun lemn endekoyehu ...just tell me ur honest response guys

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30 March 2026 04:00

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When I was younger I used to hate school because there was this one girl who’s always jealous of me in any possible way. She had everything I wanted yet she’s jealous of me? You’re legitimately prettier than me and you have people loving you?? So why are you still talking and speaking shits about me? Mind you it’s been a decade. I cared for her and when we were in elementary school, she’d always be the one to bully me yet I still wanted to be her friend, I even became her first real friend after her old ‘Best Friend’ talked shit about her, refused to hang out with her and made her cry and she’s still acting like this?

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30 March 2026 04:00

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My elderly relative's teased me at wedding saying "you'll be next "
Then soon stopped as I started doing the same to them at funerals

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30 March 2026 04:00

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I love my bf but I’m so freaking tired of his lust. I don’t even know if he actually loves me at this point. It’s just so draining. I just wanna be alone. I don’t see the point of rship except making me feel guilty and forced every single time ugh

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30 March 2026 04:00

Hey Unihorse 🦄
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We broke up but she's in my mind i'm trying to forget her but it's not working i don't know how she is , we're friends we've talked about many unforgettable stories she's the best of the people i know,...etc but now everything is over i think if we don't stop talking like that i hope we will be back one day but i know it won't be soon

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29 March 2026 04:00

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I think I’m honestly allergic to my own happiness. I laugh with someone for one day and then immediately feel this urge to ruin everything. It’s like I can’t stand seeing myself connected to people. I don’t know why. I just destroy it. So yaa I am that typical loner girl. I love it though.

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29 March 2026 04:00

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So YOU came to me yeah… sat me down all serious like it’s a board meeting and said:
“Listen… I want you to stay home, take care of the kids, while I go pursue my dream.”
I said rah… hold on… rewind that one more time 😭
YOU’RE telling ME… fresh after giving birth yeah… you don’t even wanna spend ONE day at home?? Not even a trial version of motherhood?? Man said you’re clocking out before the tutorial even finishes 💀
And I’m just sitting there thinking… didn’t God design certain things for a reason?? Like… breast milk isn’t some optional upgrade you ignore like “nah I’ll skip that feature” 😭 that’s literally built-in, factory settings!
But nah, you’re talking about “my career, my goals, my future” — cool cool, love the ambition… but what about the family?? What’s the point of chasing success outside when inside the house is running like a broken startup?? 😂
You really looked me dead in my eyes and said: “You can handle the home.”
Like I’m some certified nanny from  or something 💀
Now I’m there imagining my life: Me → doing night shifts with bottles, singing lullabies off-key 🍼
You → out there networking, living your best life 💼✨
And the craziest part… you said it so calmly like it’s normal 😭
I’m not even saying don’t chase your dream yeah… go be great… but be serious man — family isn’t a side quest you just assign to me like: “Here bro, you handle this one, I’ll go unlock achievements.”
Because right now it’s looking like you’re building a whole career empire… while your own home base is unattended DLC 💀
Make it make sense.

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29 March 2026 04:00

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5th year arch temari negn ena im struggling with so many things right now ... to start of .. i dont hv dena pc and im struggling i cant even express it in words , i dont think i want to work with this degree i only do it for family and bcuz some part of me is afraid to quit now and also to hv the degree incase i dont know what to do with my life ... and the other part im struggling a lot abt is im in a breakup rn been 2 months but still cant get over it we r in same class also so i dont feel good when ever i see him hear his voice ... i just cant seem to get over him it physically hurts ... it hurts not able to do anything abt it becha i dont want to go in detail but words cant express the pain im feeling .. so what im saying is im thinking about withdrawing from school cus mesrat eyechalku aydelem school stuff and also when ever i see him the pain is not getting any better , it hurts me not being able to see him after i withdraw but i dont think i can do this anymore , im thinking abt learning other courses , focusing on forex trading courses,... any advice

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29 March 2026 04:00

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Hi I'm f and 19
Hello readers today I came to share sth here it goes.... so the thing is I'm a high-schooler and this year I have been getting lots of attention on my instagram at first I was enjoying it uk and replying to ppl cuz I had no relationship whatsoever so i thought it was okay to have some fun and ended up having situations situationships three to be exact and all of them thought we'd be able to have sth but i was very clear saying that I don't want a relationship and they say they understood but they keep doing the same things and it's not like I hid the fact I'm talking with other ppl in fact I was so clear abt it and after seeing them I stopped replying to anyone cuz I understood it can be very misleading so what I want to ask os what do u guys think I should do in this situation and please be nice

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28 March 2026 04:00

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የሴት አምባገነንነት እና የወንድ ሞኝነት
የዘመናችን ትልቁ አሳዛኝ ነገር የወንድ ሞኝነት እና የሴት ጥቅመኝነት ጋብቻ መፍጠራቸው ነው። አንተ ወንደ!.. ለማፍቀር መስፈርት የማታዋጣ ሞኝ ነህ!  እሷ ግን የጥቅም መስፈርት (Criteria) አውጥታ የወንድን ልብ ሳይሆን የወንድን ኪስ ትመርጥለች!።

1, የሞራል ኪሳራ

— ጥቅመኝነት እና የውሸት ፍቅር ፤ ሴቲነተን በራስ ወዳድነት ( Ego ) ጥቅመኝነት (Advantageousness )እና አጋጣሚን በመጠቀም (Opportunistic)የተሞላ ነው።

— የጥቅም ጋብቻ፡ ሴቶች ወንድ የሚፈልጉት Economical ችግራቸው እንዲቀርፍላቸው ነው። ውላቸውን፣ ህይወታቸውን፣ ፍላጎታቸውን ይነግሩታል፤ የሱ ግን መስማት አይፈልጉም ይህ ፍቅር ሳይሆን የገንዘብ ዝርፊያ ነው።

— የውሸት ገጸ ባህሪ፡ (Artificial Character) ያላቸው Romantic የሚመስሉ አጭበርባሪ ወንዶች ይወዳሉ። ተግባር እና Serious የሆነ የሞራል ሰው አያደንቁም ይባስ ብለው ደባሪ እንደሆነ ያስባሉ። የወንድ ዝምታ ለነሱ አይናፋርነት ወይም ኩራት ነው፤ የባህሪው አካል መሆኑን አይረዱም።

— የጥላቻ ፍቅር፡ በሚያሳዩት የውሸት ፍቅር ውስጥ ጥልቅ ጥላቻ አለ። የወንድ ቤተሰብን እንደ ቤተሰባቸው አይቀበሉም ከልጃቸው ውጭ ያሉትን ልጆች እንደ ልጅ አያዩም። ሴት ለሴት ያላቸው እርስ በእርስ መናከስ አስመሳይነታቸውን ለማየት በቂ ነው።

2, የፌሚኒዝም እና የበታችነት ስሜት ፤ ፖለቲካ ፍልስፍና ሲወራ የሚደብራቸው ሴቶች

— የማይስማሙበት ነገር ከተናገርክ ይጠሉሃል በ logic አይሞግቱህም የ Dialectics አቅማቸው ሲበዛ ትንሽ ነው። ጠጠር ያለ ወሬ ሲወራ ያሳክካቸዋል Serious የሆነ ርእስ ሲነሳ ይደብራቸዋል።

— ( inferiority complex ) ትንሽ ፊደል ሲቆጥሩ ከጥራዝ ነጠቅነት አልፈው ፀረ-ወንድ ( feminism ) የዘመናዊነት አንዱ መገለጫ አድርገው ይወስዱታል። ይህ ሁሉ የሚመጣው ትልቅ የበታችነት ስሜት የተጠናወታቸው ስለሆኑ ነው ። አብዮተኞች (Revolutionary) አይደሉም ለውጥ አይወዱም!

3, የወንድ ስቃይ ትዳር ላይ ሲበዛ ያልተነቃበት ፤  አምባገነናዊ መንገድ ይከተላሉ።

— የወንዱን ሁለንተናዊ እንቅስቃሴ በቁጥጥራቸው ስር ለማድረግ በጣም ይጥራሉ። የወንድ ልጅ ስቃይ ለነሱ አንዳንዴ እንደ Orgasm ነው። ባገኙት ትንሽ አጋጣሚ እና ስልጣን ወንድን Abuse ለማድረግ ይፈልጋሉ።

— ልጆች አባት ላይ እንዲነሱ አባት ላይ ጥላሸት እየቀባች ልጆች ከአባታቸው እንዲርቁ እንዲሸሹ ታደርጋለች የወንድ የቤት ተፈጥሯዊ መሪነቱን ለመንጠቅ ይሻሉ።

—ወንድ ሁሌም Open የሆነው የወሲብ ፍላጎት ጆሮ ዳባ ብለው ባይተዋር አድርገው፣ አይኑ ሌላ ኮረዳ እንዲያማትር ይገፋፉታል። ይህ የወንድ ባህሪ ካለመረዳት የሚመነጭ ያልበሰለ አካሄድ ነው።


ማጠቃለያ
አካላዊ፣ ሞራላዊ እና መንፈሳዊ ጥንካሬ በሚፈልገው ነባራዊ አለም፣ ስትወድቅ መነሳት በሚፈልገው የአለም ባህሪ የወንድ አሸናፊነት ግድ ይሆናል የሴት አምባገነንነት እና የወንድ ሞኝነት መቆም አለበት። ወንዶች አትሸወዱ!
ሐሳብ አስተያዬታችሁን " በተለመደዉ!! ኢትዮጵያዊ ጨዋነት! " አጋሩኝ።

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