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Today’s supposed to be our anniversary, I remember the first time we met and the things we talked about in detail. I remember our first date, our first kiss and everything we did when we were together. Few months ago things weren’t going well for me so I decided to break up hoping I will forget u and move on and focus on my career and helping my fam. Thanks to God I got better job and I am doing good and I started to miss u. I miss ur smile, the way u react, the way u hold me and everything. I know I could have handled things better when we break up and I am paying for it. It’s not fair for u if I ask u out again like nothing happened and I don’t want to ruin your last year in uni. Best of luck in everything and whatever happens I will never forget about.
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I don't think I've ever been this close off in my entire life. I don't even know what led to this. I'm graduating soon and this is definitely not how i imagined myself in my twenties. So growing up I was shy and extremely embarrassed of myself mainly because of my weight. In 7th grade, I randomly decided to lose weight, starving myself and shit but it was worth it. So in 8th grade was when people started noticing me, and I thought well this is nice. And the next day when I do something different with my hair, I'd hear people whisper oh she's not as pretty when her hair is like this. So I made sure not to do my hair like that. I didn't have time to work on my personality and social skills when I was busy trying to look pretty. Through out all my highschool years what i struggled most was making friends. Bca from 9 to 12 grade whenever a guy approach me, I would entertain it (the most I would do is talk to them over text). So in uni, same thing here, there was just more freedom. Honestly looking back it was the the best year, i was happy to be there. Until 2nd semester I met a guy on social media who lives abroad and we talked for 6 months or so. For some reason we stopped talking very randomly. We never met in person and we never dated. After we stopped talking, I genuinely don't know what happened I HATED any type of attention I got from guys. I stopped talking to men on social media. I avoided eye contact. I think that made me closed off even in friendships. I normally don't like physical touch. I don't like going out. I wasn't very close with my brother growing up and I suddenly find myself avoiding him even more. I was very close with my family and now my room is my favourite place. I still have body dysphoria. I don't like to do my hair anymore, I don't have a decent relationship with my classmates even tho I'm 3rd year. Everyday I get more closed off. Every day is like taking a step back. I can't get over my anxiety, fear, insecurity, can't even get over of how good of a person he was. But what I want most is to have conversation with people freely without worry. I envy people my age who are so free. I want to be free, think free, live free,love free. The one thing keeping me sane is my religion and my faith that things will work out.
And yeah ik this is very long but this isn't even long enough to express how I feel rn. Bca I needed to let it out
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ladies and gentlemens i want your experience and answer(honest) on these.
when you feel "horny", sexually aroused what will u do. I mean its our time, its natural to feel these way i know, but my question is for thos who is not in marriage, may be single or in relationship.
Unholy doings and actions are out of choice, coz we are not like those who dont have Father(God).
I mean its so hard u know. Being aware of your self, and controlling it.
For the context am 24m christian.
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Min meselachu I have a crush on this gorgeous girl and I told her that I am interested in her and we talked like half an our in gibi lounge after that I asked her phone no but she didn't want to give me is this the sign that she is not interested in me do I have to move on like nothing happened
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Selam mn meselachu ahun lay distance r/ship west negn tegenagnten anakm ena gn eyewededkut new malet ke mewdedm belay becha kezi befit yeneberkubet r/ship betam godtognal still sew mekreb endefera adrgognal becha ahun yalehubetn r/ship endalata mn ladrg mekrugn maryamn chenekegn zem beye ekenalew mnamn salgoda letewewm elalew andande please mkrachu yasfelgegnal
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Hi there. I am a 20 year old, soon to be 21 male. Lately I noticed myself idk feeling weird and like looking for a relationship. And that made me see how much people are in relationships. And those people seem interesting. Like everyone seems so...maybe their job, maybe their lifestyle, charisma or whatnot. But when it turn the camera to myself, I got nothing interesting going in my life. When hanging out with friends or coffee break, everyone has something to talk about except me. Ena that made me think if I ever... eventually approach a woman to ask her out, what would make me seem or be interesting. I've never been in a relationship before. I saw a woman on social media and she is gorgeous, knows God's word well... in general she has a feminine energy that interested me like any othe woman I've seen before.
Now my question is, how can I be interesting while balancing it with my hustle to be great and change my life. God bless.
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You can skip this if you hate boring family drama. So my family situation is not normal, my parents are divorced but are living together for the sake of raising me until I graduate from uni, and I'm graduating this year so armageddon is near, my dad seems eager to finally be on his own and live the bachelor life without me and my mom getting in his way. I mean it is his right to find love but his problem is he is the type of man who looks for under privileged women to date and to "save" them, I've never seen him with a regular woman his age, he always looks for disowned young women to pray on ( he's a good person other than that) and the house we live in now is under his name so his casa but aint our casa so after my graduation he has the right to ask my mom to leave, and my mom is a woman who never had a childhood because she was married off at 14 since then her body suffered from pregnancy birth and miscarriages. She wasn't able to continue her education because of all of that, she makes a living by selling crafts she makes herself while fighting chronic illness and if we(me and my mom )have to leave it will be hard and All I want in this whole wide world is to provide for my mom so she doesn't have to worry about money or housing but the payment for my dumbass degree isn't really much. I wish genies were real, it's a lazy thing to say but I wish I could wish all these insecurities away and give my mom the house and life of her dreams to make up for the child she didnt get to be.
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I broke up with my ex about a year ago. After some time, I tried to date someone else. She was wonderful in every way, but the truth is, I couldn’t see myself with anyone but her. So I ended it before it could become something real. I guess I wasn’t healed. Maybe I still haven’t fully moved on.
Instead, I buried myself in work. I worked day and night, almost 24/7, with no breaks pushing my mind and body until there was nothing left to give. In many ways, it totally paid off. Now I’m doing well. I’m earning good money, and I have many of the things people my peers wish they had. But now that I finally have time and the means to enjoy it,I realize something strange. Instead of celebrating what I’ve built, I find myself missing her.
Sometimes I wish she were here, sharing these quiet moments with me sharing the life I worked so hard to create. It’s been over a year, and somehow the feeling still lingers. And yet, deep down, I know the truth some people remain a part of your heart, even when they can no longer be a part of your life. It's hard now than ever.
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Hey there i heard about a video that’s going viral on TikTok about men “can we got to know how you loved her?” And since i don’t use TikTok anymore here goes mine: . such a beautiful thing btw im here to talk about the comments on this vent where some guys where like oh if she knows u love her this much its done for mnamn type shit like where r yall getting this from is it from another man. like me personally ive never seen a relationship where the women dont love or gets tired of her partner who is truley in love loyal n open about it like if its a situation where the feelings where not mutual n one sided there is littrally nothing to do but in a relationship where the women feels loved n safe....like hello is this red pill guys?
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Hey am F protestant
College student, almost 23, and low-key looking for a bestie. Someone to go to church with, talk about school, work, and life, hang out, and laugh about random things. If you’re looking for a good friend(pretty bestie)too…dm me😛
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"We met too early because we were never meant to grow old together " sometimes life gives us a lesson need to learn early on in life to help propel us into the future
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Hey there i heard about a video that’s going viral on TikTok about men “can we got to know how you loved her?” And since i don’t use TikTok anymore here goes mine: Tbh idk if i even have words enough to explain her but she was a dream come true, she was the light in the dark, i knew that i loved her when i knew i was even scared of kissing her I didn’t want her to feel like i wanted her for other reasons cause i really wanted to love her and marry her the moment i saw her ig when uk uk… but yeah i wanted to be there for her as she was for me i was willing to lose my identity if she was at the end of the journey, my love for her was never limited it was truly from the bottom of my heart and never conditional i loved her through the fights through the disappointments and through everything in between she was my best friend, my lover, she was Gods blessing to me and i was hoping Egziabher fekdo she would’ve been my beloved wife and id get to make her happy for the rest of my life she made me feel complete, she made me become better in every way possible, i wanted to rush everything that i did in life so i could just skip to the part where we end up getting married and with kids… honestly i could keep going and write a whole book about her and that wouldn’t even be enough to describe a glimpse of her but yeah i loved her i loved her to the point where i even stopped praying for myself and would just pray all about her, and i still do tbh i still do love her very much its like shes a part of me not just someone that was a part of my life and idk if this type of love fades away or ever goes away ig i will keep reminiscing her for the rest of my life I love you so much my love please always be safe 💕
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Do you understand what death means? Yes, I am asking YOU, the one claiming someone should be punished for his wrongdoing by it. Can you tell us how it can cure your pain? Can you tell us how you can be sure it is a proportional act to the sin YOU are accusing?
DEATH is irreversible, and the intensity of your hate, pain, and struggle could be beyond measure, but that didn’t stop YOU from living. YOU choose to live bearing all those pains. Because, as sane as a person is, you know we are not in charge of the ENDING. It is something beyond us. Only insane people do that to others. Sane people like me and YOU, writing that into law c’mon!
That is insanity.
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Hey y'all I hope you're doing well
I'm 22F and Here's the thing. Im so so so SO SO awkward. Like actually nerfed at social skills. I cannot sustain a conversation even if it costed my left pinky toe. Y'all idk what happened. Baby me was so extroverted like where did that go TT I'm blaming covid and all the bs dubbed anime I binge watched. I'm in my fourth year of college now and I only have close to 5 people I'd call my friends and that's because they forcefully adopted me into their group. someone needs to help me understand the missing component of charisma and being interesting or idk. I feel like an alien that snuck onto earth when I watch "how to talk to people" or "kill shyness instantly" videos on yt. And how does one meet new people ?? I don't mind challenging myself I'll do it !!
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I met this guy online we clicked I liked him he calls me everyday in the morning after lunch and we talked before going to sleep and I thought he liked me enji why would he waste his time and energy biye asebku, then after talking for while he asked me to meet up and I said ok but after deciding to meet the way he talked on the phone was like we are meeting in a hotel room and I was like no let’s meet in public place and he he called and try to convince me to meet in private and I said no after a lot of kirikir and he was like ok and then we meet we had a great time we grab a coffee and then after the date we continue talking like before keza he asked to meet up for a second date and I told him as long as we are meeting up in public let’s meet , so when he make sure I’m not meeting him in private he ghosted me for a week and called after a week and talked normally like he never ghosted me and he asked to meet again and I told him only if we are meeting in public place and after he make sure I’m not meeting him he ghosted me for good . Why does he do that if he is not interested in me why would he waste his energy, his time , his money I’m confused
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Hey so i would like to tell you that sometimes it's good to listen your inner thought because last time when my ex told she has a boy best friend i vent here and people push me to not make it a big thing and i give her my trust even if i know that he doesn't believe that a boy and a girl can't be friends ( if you need the full story inbox me) at the last when i diside i told her i wanna marry her she said heart broken thing and when i ask her to cut her relationship with him she said no 4th time and broke up with me out of nowhere ans my advice for you don't listen every thing what people tell you in this group and if you're a male don't ever have a girlfriend Which has a boy best friend and stop being best friend for a girl
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Hello I think my Ex is a cheater and I have no evidence and the fact that I hv no evidence is killing me so I want to see if anyone recognizes him here . He has a cursive A tattooed on his chest and he refused to take it of even tho it’s a tattoo of his EX . If you recognize him say his name below
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Hey y'all do you actually believe in the right person in the wrong time saying? I feel like there is no such thing because if they were the right person they would make it the right time. Timing is just an excuse for the wrong person because the right person doesn't come with a wrong time label. If the timing was wrong the person was too because the right person changes the schedule and makes the wrong time feel like the perfect moment. I really want to hear your perspective on this.
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I’m 22 f and sometimes I just sit and wonder 🤔 how did we become this selfish? It feels like somewhere along the way, we failed each other as a society. People walk around so wrapped up in their own insecurities that they look at others like stranger species 👿to avoid, not humans to care about. Empathy feels rare. Everyone seems numb to other people’s pain, but quick to expect service, attention, and validation for themselves also feels like the idea of winning has changed. Now it’s like if somebody wins, somebody else has to lose. Even love has started to feel like an ego contest ⚔️ the one who cares less, the one who gives a shit, somehow “wins.” As if indifference became a badge of honor and vulnerability became weakness. And what worries me most is seeing it in people my age. We talk about changing the world, but when things get hard, many of us are ready to save ourselves first and take the easiest way out. Shortcuts everywhere. Do what’s convenient, not what’s right.
But principles…?? principles should matter more than quick gains. Because shortcuts might feel like winning in the moment, but there’s no real victory in them. Eventually they cost us something deeper.
Maybe the real change doesn’t start with pointing fingers. Maybe it starts when we’re brave enough to look at ourselves and ask the uncomfortable question
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So guys I really need your help in decision making and tell me what to do it's about my rship so I met this girl online she's ethiopian but in England we met on a game and we were friends at first just normal but after 4 months we started dating I really liked her she's soooo out of my leauge & all her friends were againist us saying am dissapointed in u I think it's bc am in ethiopa or am not rich idk but yeah and she got so mad at them told them to shut up and comforted me and reassured me she was kinda the one who initiated the relationship and she's soo nice that's why I loved her she cared bout my feelings and she wants to be loved too that's what I liked about her tiny details like she dosent like it when I say good morning or night to her with out ♥ emojies the point anyways is she cares this much and I was so happy and now it's my 4th month dating her and am in 🔥HELL🔥 helppp she has changed completely and am already too attached she is a nice person but a bad girlfriend maybe am crazy it's like am not her boyfriend but just a random guy in her dms I say good morning and she dosent even say hey good morning she just goes straight to conversation only says gn at night imagine this is the girl who hated if I don't add emojies in my textes she is soo dry always mostly leaving with just a liked messge I say have a good day and not even a you too she's just likes it and in short if u look at our dms it just looks like a guy begging a random girl to date him not a bf and a gf talking and most of what I hate is she gets mad easily out of no where for no reason and becomes rude sometimes she does something bad and I get mad and be like why? Guess what she gets mad at me for getting mad at her even tho it's her fault and gives me silent treatment and torture me even tho it's her fault this is crazy am getting tierd I even hate her sometimes I swear am starting to belive that she has no feeling for me anymore she treats me really badly (btw am a really nice guy maybe thats the problem) and so i asked her multiple times if she's bord and if she wants to break up she gets mad and says I would have if I wanted stop asking this questions and she gets jealous or mad when she sees I follow pretty girls and stuff so am so fuckimg confused I don't think she knows it but she's treating me really poorly why not break up with me?? I swear am 90% always feeling down in this rship not a single joy and we were supposed to meet this summer when she comes to ethiopa and I can keep sucking it up and be with her until she dumps me or I can just walk away but I want to keep being in this rship and how how can I fix this broken rship what do i doooo how do i fix her what happend
its her first rship btw if that's true
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It's me again i just like to yap and who to yap to better than vent here. Am I right?
Becha the boy that wanted to be FWB with me i stopped talking to him it's been 2 weeks i think,and now everywhere i go he's there cafe,class... He's just there and he doesn't even look away when i get in the room he stares into my soul and that I don't like besides I'm starting to think the girl i met in class has a crush on him or something she cannot stop talking about him,even i told her that he isn't the person i thought at first, it's like she doesn't care
+ They r both protestant and she's like I'll pray for him mnamn like gurl please 😒 becha idk what to say to her anymore i have decided not to Mendel in her business she can do whatever she wants
Tnx for reading 🤭🩷
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am not being a racist or choosy but i prefer to marry a gurage muslim women...unfortunately all i happen to come across are not. what did you guys suggest
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Hey there
So I hope y'all are fine.
What I want to write about today is , how it sometimes I am feeling lonely after reading a book without having to share it with someone. Like-minded, people. Yes, I tried joining book clubs, but not satisfying. So I guess it is going to be me and my book journal for a while.
Just wanted to vent.
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I have a question for the men out there who have dated older women. Recently, I was dating a guy who is younger than me, and we had amazing chemistry; we clicked immediately. We used to talk for hours every day, and he always made sure to call or text me, even when he was busy. One time during our conversation, he mentioned that I am so naive and that I'm not like other girls my age. I was happy to hear that, but at the same time, I got confused, assuming he had dated an older woman before.
He is smart, handsome, and charismatic, and sometimes I wonder why he wants to be with me. He knew about our age difference from the moment we met, and we were cool with it and continued seeing each other. After a while, I started to fall in love, and it became obvious to him. Then, he began to pull away. One time, I asked him what was going on and confronted him about whether he wanted to be with me or not. He said that this relationship wasn't right for either of us due to the age difference. He mentioned that he couldn't introduce me to his family and that even if he did, they wouldn't accept it.
I reminded him that he knew about the age difference from the beginning, but he said he thought it could work out. Ultimately, he concluded that it would be better for both of us to end the relationship. And said we can be just friends. So my question is: do you guys date older women for fun, or have there been times when you had real feelings? I'm confused because I thought what we had was real.
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Hello guys I’m female
I’ve been in a relationship for about a month now gn something has been bothering me. We don’t communicate that much, and He’s a very introverted person, so he doesn’t call every day maybe every two or three days and our texts can feel dry. I’m not really sure what to do about it. Gn demo endaltewew he treats me well bedemb spoils yaregegnal and he has a lot of good qualities. It’s just this lack of communication that’s confusing me and making me feel unsure sometimes what do u guys think eyekeledebgn nw wys mn larg I want genuine opinion
Thank you😊
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Hey endat nacu first time venting let me get to my point am M23 .... i used to go out mnmn befit ena ahun i am trying to cut the circle i have and trying to focus on my self. i get to gym beca am trying to focus on my self and ahun lay i got no one i cut all my jeles b/c i have to do i want to change kalwbet nger mewtat albge so ahun betam like i need yhone mawraw sew as a frd eflgalew kenberkubt nger bande sewta i got bord i think. ena if there is any one or any idea share that will be good for me tnx ..
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Hello
Have you ever want some one to talk about any thing in life . Nothing romantic just some one you can flirt with , talk and act Goofy with them . Some one that can listen to you about ur day and complain .let's not forget no judgment😊. Someone who can have coffee with you, go to cinema or hiking . Don't get me wrong am not a coffee or cinema person 😂 but want to have one. Someone who can motivate u and keep you accountable to your goals. Like someone who can grow with you .who i share my happiness or stupid days . I want some one i can talk to 24hr . Someone i can cry with. Nothing romantic or sexual just someone that can be their self around me and me feeling safe with them.
I don't know if it is because am getting old 🤔 .
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I Need help with my faith
I grew up orthodox Christian. I attended mass, did all the fasting and all that but It was never me it was just something I had to do because my mom said so not because I wanted to, which made me drift away from the church. Now I want to discover the faith on my own but I dont where to start, what to do or say. I have forgotten most of the liturgy stuff. I dont even remember basic worship hymns anymore. The bible seems so huge to unpack and all the liturgy books are all in geez which is also intimidating. I need to relearn everything from scratch. But Im literally in my 20s. I'm lowkey embarrassed to attend sunday school at my big age. I'm also scared of being judged by people for forgetting basic things. Its all in my head I know and you'll probably think its silly or stupid to say this but I'm really worried about this stuff. its something I struggle with everyday. I want know about the Lord but I feel like there is a huge mountain in front of me and I dont know how to climb it. Any suggestion is helpful.
Thx💞
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