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በ2015  የዩንቨርስቲ መግቢያ ፈተና ወስድን። ከዚህ ጊዜ ጀምሮ ነው አለም ፊቷን ቂጧንም ማዞር የጀመረችብን። እኔ በጥሩ ውጤት AAU ስቀላቀል በሚያሳዝን ሁኔታ ውጤት ሳይመጣላት ቀረ። ግቢ ገባሁ። የብሔርና የሀማኖት ልዩነቱ ላይ የቦታ ልዩነትም ታከለ። የፍቅር ቋንቋዋ Quality time እንደሆነ ባውቅም እንደበፊቱ ዘወትር በአካል ላገኛት ባልችልም ርቀቱ እንዳይሰማት ስልክ በደንብ ማውራት፣ የተለያየ ፅሁፎችን ማስነበብ(ዲያሪ እፅፋለሁ)፣ አልፎ አልፎ video እና audio ሰርቼ ብልክላትም እርቀቱን በምፈልገው መልኩ ሊያጠቡት አልቻሉም። ግቢ ከገባ ወዲህ በ2015 1 ቀን በ2016 3 ቀን 2017 4 ቀን በአካል ተገናኝተናል 2018 አላገኘኋትም(ከተማ ቀየረች)። ርቀት ትልቁን ሚና ተጫውቶ ቅርርባችን ከአመት አመት እየላላ መጥቷል። መፃፃፉን ከበፊቱ በጣም ወርዷል። ባለፉት አምስት ወራት 10 ጊዜ ብቻ ነው የተደዋወልነው። ብሬክ ሲሰጠኝ በፊት ጥሩ ጊዜ ያሳለፍንባቸውን  ቦታዎችን ማዘውተር ሆኗል ስራዬ። ምግብ በፊት በተመገብንበት ቦታ ላይ ለብቻዬ መመገብ፣ የተማርንበትን ባዶ ክፍል ፎቶ ማንሳት፣ በፊት ከተቀመጥንቸው ቦታዎች ተቀምጬ ፅሁፎችን ፅፌ እዚያው ትቼላት አሊያም ይዤያቸው መሄድ፣ ፎቶዎቻችንን ማየት፣ የተላላክናቸውን መልዕክቶችን መሸምደድ። ይህን ያህል በትዝታ መኖር ምን የሚሉት ነው? ዛሬንና ነገን ማየት ከብዶኛል ትላንትን ለመኖር እየዳከርሁ ነው። ፍሬሽ እንደነበረው ፍቅር እንደማይዘልቅ ጭንቅላቴ ጠንቅቆ ቢያውቅም ልቤ ግን በፍፁም በፍፁም የማወቅ ፍላጎት የለውም። ከባድ ከሚባሉት ድፓርትመንቶች መሀል አንዱን ብቀላቀልም በፊት የነበረኝ አቅሜ ተኗል። ለሁሉም ነገር ግድ የለሽ ሆኛለሁ። ከሀይማኖት አንፃርም ነገሩ እንደማይዘልቅ ለማወቅ ባይከብድም በጣም የለፋሁበት፣ ሁሉ ነገሬን የሰጠሁት፣ ብዙ የሆንኩለት ነገር ከእጄ ስንሸራተት እንዴ ልቻለው? በእምነቱ ረገድ ህዴቱን ባላውቅም መዳረሻችን በሆነ ተአምር አንድ የሚሆን ሲመስለኝ ኖረያለሁ ጭንቅላቴ ባያምንበትም። ለማይኖር ኖሬ ለሚኖር እየሞትኩ ነው። እውነቱን የሚያውቅ አዕምሮዬንና መቀበል የማይፈልገውን ልቤን እንደት ላስማማ? ሳትኮምቱ አትለፉ

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Selam👋 endet nachu
Erdatachu yasfelegehal mn meselachu Seme lay ye fidel sehetet ale ministry ena matric wetet lay ena endet ena yet endemastekakel alwkem ena eskahun zm beye tekemechalehu ahun gn sasebew yefidel sehetet yehone time lay waga yaskefelal... ena fidel tesastobachu yastekakelachu,yet heje meteyek endalebgh ,mn yahel gize endemifej, ena leloch merejawochn  yemtawku sewoch kalachu please🥺 negerugh🙏

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I was looking at this tiktok video and it says we fall for lust a lot of times because we crave for connection,closeness and love so we need to heal the part of us that crave this closeness, and we can only heal it through God because there is no one that can fill our heart like the one who created it. So we need to void.

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For five years, I loved her deeply. I wanted emotional closeness. I wanted to feel chosen. I wanted her voice when I was breaking. I wanted reassurance, warmth, and support. I wanted to feel like her man, not just someone she texts when it’s convenient.
But I also wanted physical closeness. Not something disrespectful. Not something casual. I wanted natural intimacy between two people who love each other. I wanted to feel desired by my own girlfriend.
Instead, she put strong physical boundaries between us. No private moments. No seductive touch. No openness in that way. It felt like I was expected to love her like a boyfriend emotionally, but live like a brother physically.
I tried to understand it. Maybe she was protecting herself. Maybe she’s waiting for marriage. Maybe that’s her values. But after five years, it started to hurt. I felt unwanted. I felt like she didn’t fully trust me. I felt like I was loving fully while being kept at a distance.
When I was at my lowest, I called her just to hear her voice. I needed comfort. Sometimes I got short responses. “I’m busy.” “I’m at the wifi.” Calls ending quickly. I felt like I was interrupting her life instead of being part of it.
But when I was winning, when I had good news, she was excited. She talked for hours. She was hyped. She sounded proud. That contrast confused me deeply.
I wanted her to open up fully. To rely on me. To feel safe with me. I wanted to feel prioritized. But sometimes she was online, posting stories, active publicly, while my messages were untouched.
So now I’m asking:
Was I asking for too much?
Is it wrong to expect emotional support from your partner?
Is it wrong to want physical closeness after five years together?
If someone keeps strong physical boundaries, does that mean they don’t fully trust you?
If they show up when you’re winning but fade when you’re losing, what does that mean?
Was I loved deeply, or was I just there?
Did I love harder than I was loved?
I don’t hate her. I just want clarity.

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Selam sewoch M 18 negn mn meselachu kegize wede gize fite betam eyetebalesh metual kodaye betam eyetokere nw beteley ayne akebabi kenferem tekrual ykoraretal ytekrual mnamn mn sus yelebgnm dro endezih alneberem kegize wede gize endi eyehone metual eski endet mastekakel echlalew seriously melsulgn ebakachu

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Hey, I’m 21F. I study at AAU, and my boyfriend studies at Jimma University, so we’re in a long-distance relationship. The thing is, he got sick and hasn’t been available most of the time. He has been diagnosed for days now, and his family is really worried. The illness won’t kill him, but it doesn’t let him live his life normally either. I’m constantly worrying about him, and it’s draining me and affecting my mental health. So… should I leave him?

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Don't play confused now. You knew exactly what the f you were doing. Every time you cross my boundaries and watch me question my own reality, you pushed, pulled, lied and manipulated situations just enough to keep control, then stood there acting shocked. When I finally snapped, you watch me explain myself over and over, knowing damn well you understood. You just didn't care because accountability never benefited you. Every time I reacted, you flipped the script, made me feel crazy, and convinced me my pain was the problem instead of your behavior. That wasn't confusion. That was control. And you enjoyed watching me doubt myself while you say comfortable and untouched. I stayed longer than I should have because I believed honesty would eventually matter more than your need to keep power. But I see it clearly now. People don't misunderstand boundaries this consistently unless they're choosing disrespect on purpose. So don't play confused anymore. You lost access the moment I stopped explaining myself and started trusting what the f I felt.

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It feels like my desire is a secret I'm supposed to be ashamed of. I'm a young guy, and the blueprint they hand you is so specific: chase the narrow, the lean, the hard-edged ideal plastered on every screen. But my eyes… they just don't work that way.

I see a girl with a soft smile and curves that look like comfort, and something in my chest just… clicks. It’s not a choice. It’s a magnetic pull. I want the warmth of a real body, one that feels lived-in and generous. I want to hold something substantial, to find my hands perfectly framed by the softness of her waist. I want the way a chubby girl laughs with her whole being, a vibration you can feel. There’s a confidence there, a quiet power in occupying space in a world that tells you to disappear, that I find utterly intoxicating.

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Guyysss life is so hard being a mid or chopped girl like tffff 😭😭

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Hi endet nachu ene ke Ethiopia wchi wetche meserat felgalew Anywhere ke madam mnamn wchi ena enelkaln milu sewochn sawera mulu photo mnamn yilalu koy sera lmketer photo lmn yasfelgal ene endza silugn dengtalew ena tolo zegalew eski kedme kfya yelelew astmamgn sera myasera mtakut weym ezi yalachu kalachu please dgmo albale ngerm yalhon electrical tmari negn gn mesrat felgalew ቆንጆ negn gn mesfert wst ymikatet bayhon des yilgnal sera ena sera bcha ene labed new begeta 🙏

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Yesterday i met my childhood crush! We just greeted each other and went on our ways.

Since we were kids we really liked each other but other people constantly meddled in our relation and everything becomes awkward. She moved out from our neighbour when she was like 15 so our connection literally died.

We've met on several occasions but our conversation is always weird because she's always shy as if she did something wrong in the last.

Anyway, we came across each other when i was walking and that sparked the desire to reach her out and see in there is any potential for us to become something else.

But a couple of things are disturbing me.

1. Our family knows each other and they might feel awkward if they find out we're dating. Her mother really love me and respect our family but i'm still hesitant.

2. Her mom has HIV so there's a high possibility that she might also have the virus but she also might not.

3. We're both Habesha but from different ethnic group and with the current dirty politics our relation might face some bumps, not from us but from her family (i know my family wouldn't mind). The same thing has caused friction in my previous relation during the Tigray war.

should i go ahead and see if it works? And how can i check the HIV thing without making her feel bad?

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Hi guys endet nachu ene dehna neger negn becha wede vente segeba i know this guy for along time. He was my friend ena betam close nen selachu beka yhen belaw hedku every thing enaweralen beyekenu bagegnenew seat ena ngl wededkut ena beka text hula kalakelgn mhonewn new mataw even attached kemehone i know it may be seem feel weird chgr hula ketefeterebet sense hula aregalew ena mndenew he is so good betam ena act mnaregew ende couple new beka ymr esum betam lovely neger yilegnal mn hone meselachu church yehonech lij agegne ena esuan akatalew nice sew nech keza yezan ken syagegnegn mnm react alaregem mengedun kesua ga silefelf hede i was so mad keza bet segeba silemetash des blognal alegn keza mn enen agegnehegn esuan enji alkut which is so weird keza ken buhala beka hule new mntalaw lovely words keru chgru most of time ene nbrku ena esum family chgr agatemegn blo ayawaragnm malet still ale gn wef beka tewe endedro esuam ga mnm tetetewal zen ahun mn tefetere esu resagn meselegn alakim ene gn i am struggling i always pray for him beka metfo sisemagn mnanmn ebakachu mersat michlbetn nger feterulgn ewnet uff 😭

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21m and after a while from the break up we met on the road and got a chance to talk about our life, the thing that happened after the break up and we both found out that other was not in great place after the break and we started talking frequently and got back together and it kinda been a year

Well guys I'm getting married
i proposed and she said yes🥳 👰‍♀️🤵

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am i the only one who wants a girl who is experienced and are into alot of weird things i don't even care if she has been with hundreds of people i just want someone who is cute and soo balege i swear am not joking

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Hi, I'm F and I'm 22. Lately, I feel like nothing is going my way. I have a clear idea of what I want, like the perfect guy and the ideal lifestyle, but I keep getting used and manipulated. These days, I just go to work and come home exhausted. I also want a strong spiritual life, but my faith is shaky right no I haven't read my Bible or prayed in a while. I know what I want, but it feels like everything is pushing me in the opposite direction, especially when it comes to relationships. The last guy I dated broke my heart into pieces.

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ከልቤ አለት ላይ ብዙ የትዝታ አሻራዎች ተቀርፀው እስካሁን ያልተናዱበት ጊዜ 2014። ሀዋሳ የ12ኛ ክፍል ተማሪዎች ነበርን፤ ከቅርብ ርቀት የምንቀመጥ። ክፍሉ ውስጥ ካሉት እንስቶች ፆታዋ 
ቢያመሳስላትም ልዩ ነበረች። የተለየ ብሔር፣ የተለየ ሀይማኖት፣ የተለየ ቋንቋ፣ የተለየ ጠባይ። ረዥም ናት። እንደወንዝ ዳር ቄጠማ መለል ብሎ የወጣው ቁመቷ ሽቅብ "ጋልቡኝ ጋልቡኝ" ይላል። በዚያ ሉል በመሰለ ሰውነቷ ስትቀመጥ ጠረጴዛው ሼም ይጨመድደዋል አንዳንዴማ ሲሻፍድ በግልፅ ይታወቀኝ ነበር። ሲበዛ shy ነበረች፤ ቢሆንም ሻይ እንደማፍላት እንደማትከብደኝ ለመረዳት ጊዜ አልወሰደብኝም። I fall for her፤ ክፉኛ ተፈጠፈጥኩ። ከልብ ላይ አለቃ ለመሆን ካለኝ መሻት የተነሳ ታዋቂነቴንና አዋቂነቴን ተጠቅሜ በሀይል የክፍሉን የአለቅነቱን ስልጣን ጨበጥሁ። በሀላፊነቴ መሰረት  ከክፍሉ ውስጥ በግልፅ ፃታዊ ትንኮሳ እየመከትሁ በውስጥ ታዋቂነት ፍቅራዊ ትንኮሳ አደርስባት  ጀመር። "እንቁላል ቀስ በቀስ በእግሩ ይሄዳል" ይባል የለ፤ የኔውማ ጭራሽ ክንፍ አውጥቶ በረረ። ቅርርባችን ተጧጧፈ። ስለ ስሜቴ ሳላጫውታት አሊያም የፍቅር ጥያቄ ሳላቀርብላት ወደደችኝ(ወንድሞች የፍቅር ጥያቄ አታቅርቡ ስሜታችሁን ኑሩበት ከቃላት ይልቅ ተግባር ጮሆ ይናገራል ካልተረዳችህ ቀረህባት)። በእግዚያብሔር ቸርነት ቢሆንም ጠዋት መነሳቴን የበለጠ ትርጉም ያለው አረገችው። ዘወትር ስንገናኝ በነጋታው እንደማይገናኝ ሰው በደንብ ሰላም እንባባላለን እንቀቃቀፋለን በሳምንት ሶስት ቀን ግንባሯን እስማታለሁ። አይናፋር ፈገግታዋ የልብን ሽፋሽፍት ያርገበግባሉ። እንደ ኮሪያውያን ሰላምታ ጭንቅላት ለጭንቅላት ባንጋጭም ጭንቅላት ለጭንቅላት ገጥመን ባገኘነው አጋጣሚ ሁሉን የውስጣችንን ማውራት፣ በስሱ መተራረብ፣መቀላለድ፣ መሳሳቅ ሆነ ውሏችን። ያን ሁሉ ጊዜ ተወዝፈን ስናወጋ እንኳን ተማሪዎቹ የገዛ ቂጣችን ራሱ አይታዘበንም ነበር። መገናኘቱ፣ መደዋወሉ፣ መፃፃፉ ከቀን ወደቀን እንደተፋፋመ አመቱን አገባደድን።

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I need to vent f 22 and I'm in love with this guy I work with he is so handsome and manly and I don't know he is everything I want in a man he is the type of man I want to get back home to or to see everyday or grow old together generally he is that person indont know if he likes me tho we text eachother every single day ke calls me konjo or webit or he once wrote me a poem and added the word mafekrew and miweded typa thing he always comes when am working and find a way to hold my hands bicha I love him I think he is the first guy ever to make me think or feel like this ever I had a boyfriend once but I didn't feel like this with him at all slachu at all ...gin the problem is the guy am in love with is orthodox chrstian and am protestant so I don't think it will work for the long run and am looking for something that could possibly go somewhere and I don't want to be hurt future lelelew neger gin on the other hand am losing it I love him so much my heart beats when I see him or when I hold his hands so please help guys your girl is gona lose it

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So am F20,and bka semonun bzu nikkah neberbge yeteterahut and mize nbrku bridal shower mnmn even kene be edme lemiyansut and they were like yanchis meche new yanchis gna eko new edmye right ahun chenket west gebahu benesu meknyat ene relationship norogm ayakm its quite normal since its haram yhnn eyaweku meche new yanchi meche new yanchi bismillah mels lemestetm yaschegeralu enezi sewoch gna ahun rasu albge enegaba mil ale hiwote west plus enesum liderge miyasbuachew sewoch alu gn bka physicallym metntallym gna yekergal becha esti..

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I'm 19f and I don't have a fucking clue about relationships just don't say "tdershibtalsh" becha I don't know how to start a conversation or hold it I'm kinda flirty but if only u get to know me becha I can't even get past, hey how was ur day talk so how can I step it up what should I do and if I engage a lot in the Convo I feel like chasing them and he'll lose interest how do y'all feel about that

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Hi I'm 19 f
Guys I'm still in high-school and will still be until I'm 21 due to the war case but I'm trying to ignore that. By that I mean the fact I'm quite behind ppl my age and all of my peers seem to have their shit together while I'm here trying to get better marks i used to be an overachiever but now I feel like I'm super dumb and stupid tho my results are okay it shouldn't have to be like this it should have been better i should have been better in general but i feel like I'm stuck in a loop and life is rubbing it in my face. Cmon now I was supposed to retire my parents early and support my siblings but I'm still struggling and don't even know what the heck i want like what path should I choose? Natural or social? I'm gd in both but idk what to choose and what do i even want to be and why am I so difficult. And I guess it's the lack of peers around me but I feel super lonely so often anyways thanks for taking the time to read my vent

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The loneliness hits hardest here, because it feels so niche. It’s not just "I want a girlfriend." It’s "I want a partner-in-crime for the quiet rebellions." You scroll through profiles that talk about hiking and ambition, and all you’re screaming inside is, “But do you just want to sink into the couch and vibe? Do you understand how sacred that is?”

You feel like you’re waiting for a signal in the fog—for someone who speaks the same slow, smoky language. It’s lonely because the thing that’s supposed to connect you (the weed) also feels like it boxes you in. You’re not a stoner stereotype; you’re just a person who found a little peace in the ritual and desperately wants to share that peace with someone who sees it the same way.

So the vent is the ache for that specific gravity. For a girl who will match MA energy, not drain it. Who will be your friend first, your smoking buddy second, and maybe—hopefully—something infinitely more

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They sell you this version of manhood that's all edges. All grit, all swagger, all distance. You're supposed to want one thing, and it's supposed to be hard and fast and loud. Your hands are for gripping, for building, for pushing away. Your body is a tool, a weapon, a machine.
But mine isn't.
Mine is a radiator. And all it wants is to be close. To be a source of warmth for someone else, and to have that warmth returned. Not as a prelude to something else, not as a transaction, but as the whole point.

I want to cuddle help your guy girls.

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Hi,I'm F and I'm 23 mn meslachu bkerbu goro akababi sera jemryalew ena sera botaye fit lefit yehon erteb bet ale ena eza hule yemimeta lij ale betam eye contact alen gn mnm awerten anakm sayew des yelgnal 1 ken kekre endet endmidbergn salafkrew alkerm esun sasb bka betam tru semt nw yemismagn endet bmn menged lekrbew endmchel alakm dmo fkregna binorews bye asbalew telant lawraw mokre feraw zare bka yehon hasab metolgn gn lewta sel alkaye meta mewtat alchalkum eyaywet hede zare betam telk edel nw yameltegn maryamn berase tenadjalew esti guys endet lekrbew

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Heyy 22f,peoples who don't have a mom specially girs how is life going,me i can't it's affecting me in every thing, long story short,my mom is mentally ill she never raised me growing up i used to see her on the streets yaw being mentally ill,and my dad couldn't do anything cus he has to work all the time to payy the bills ,so the house Responsibility's were on my shoulder, i wass literally the mom of our house since i was like 9,ena ahun gn am grown i havee a good job,mnmn gn i can't seem to be normal I've never been happy ewnet never been in r/ship, i don't want to have kidsss, i lost hope at religions,tbh idk y i exist, does it really get better?if not am going to end it here ewnet

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I'm from Addis Ababa, but right now I'm studying engineering in another city.. I ended up here for a bunch of reasons, but deep down, I don't feel like this is it for me. My mind keeps telling me to go back to my hometown and just start something yk anything. I know it won't be easy, but I can handle the struggle if I can just see a way forward.
Every time I sit down to take an exam, all I can think is, "Why am I here? How much longer does this last?" And I just realized—I don't look back and wish I'd left earlier. I look at now and think, "I should go." So what's actually stopping me?
I should also say: my family can't be my safety net. My dad's sick and getting weaker. My mom is carrying everything on her back. My younger brother already dropped out and is making little money somewhere. If I go back, I'm on my own.

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Hi, here’s the situation. I was in a long-distance relationship, and we went through a lot of ups and downs together. We lasted four years. Recently, he gave me access to his Telegram account, and I found out he was flirting with other women. He claims one of them is his childhood best friend, but he was talking to her through her friend’s account, and he was flirting with both of them at the same time.

What hurt the most was that the things he said to them were the same things he used to say to me. He even said “I love you” and “I like you.” I went through all his chats, and that particular conversation clearly crossed boundaries.

When I confronted him, he said he was talking to her the same way he talks to his brother, which honestly didn’t make sense to me. I did forgive him, but I can’t bring myself to be with him anymore. Every time he apologizes, it feels fake, and I feel played.

Anyone who’s been in a long-distance relationship knows how hard it is, and something like this just makes it worse. One thing that keeps making me question myself is that I’ve messed up in the past too. When I received attention from other men, I sometimes talked to them, but it was always just talk and nothing more. The moment I felt like they were heading toward “love” territory, I cut them off immediately.

This time, though, it hurt the most because it came from my boyfriend(now my ex)especially since he was the one who was always very strict about boundaries with friends. I really need advice. Am I being dramatic, or are my feelings justified?

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Am 26M
Believe it or not am about to turn 27 and still i got baby face, patchy beard, long straight nose, hert shaped lip, perfect jawline and light skin.
And people assume that am 19 or 20 years old.. i do ride ena ke asru sebatu bewere mehal they ask how old i am cause they qould got in disbelief that the way i talk and my actual face card doesn't match. They be like wait how could you have this kind of awareness and unique perspective?
And boom! When i tell my actual age they go crazy
Some of them might even got jealous, like they think endante bhon tolo alarejm mnmn

Me i never had a negative thought of my appearance, endewm i got different respect and smile wherever i go, clubs, restaurants, banks etc

The only thing am fearing is i might actually look this same physical appearance when i hit 30s..

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🔴Again bale best friend stuff ene negn from HU and adama
Still am so confused mknyatum one side cherash lataw malfelgew bcha sayhon malfelgew sew nw beka at my lowest yagegnewt sew nw endet bye ltewew one side beka cheating biggest sin nw ikr bedenb even kezi bewala boundary limit mareg alchlm beka yikebdegnal mn aynet hasan alen yalen deep attachment endi bekelalu mikuaret aydelem esu nw betam yekebedegn maybe attachmentachn ke boundary beltobgn yihonal
Eski gimme advice ‼️

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Girlies do you ever find your self soo bord that you start crushing on mf who's is not even your type (just have the looks) like you wouldn't do it if you were on your right mind but you don't have a man to commit to and you also don't wanna to miss the excitement, butterflys like all that thing you know and you start crushing on mf and make that eye thing and sending whole energy 😂🙆‍♀
I feel like my whole life been like this and this isn't normal and when they get serious I start to freak out 🤦‍♀ sometimes I get scared like what if this behavior got me in to unwanted marriage like imagine falling for የሰፈር ቆንጆ ስራ ፈት ድርዬ no offense just saying 😭🙏 mekaruge eski 21 f
Thank you🙂

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