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Please address me as Ni. I am an eleventh-grade student, seventeen years of age, and female.

I experience significant hesitation regarding self-care and the effort required to improve my appearance. In contemporary teenage culture, it is common to utilize basic cosmetic products, such as lip gloss and eyeliner. While I recognize that these practices are widespread and appear to be a standard norm among my peers, I find myself unable to adopt them due to an unexplained sense of discomfort.

I observe that many of my classmates and neighbors utilize simple cosmetic combinations, which elicits feelings of envy. As the upcoming academic year approaches, I am eager to undergo a significant improvement in my appearance. Therefore, I respectfully request guidance from individuals under the age of twenty-five. Specifically, I seek confirmation that these practices are considered normal, as well as recommendations for essential materials suitable for a teenager to facilitate this transformation, excluding broader mindset considerations.

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Im 28M and i cannot get into a longterm relationship it seems. I'm white, 6'4, work out, and i do not think I'm below average looking. I worked pretty much day and night till i was 25 to get a well paying position, somehow made it (i realize I'm lucky) and am able to buy my own place and sustain a family. Before that i had two short relationships that went nowhere due to my work schedule. When i became 25 i got back into dating, and met several girls i really liked and didn't see any red flags in. Each time i took care of everything without second thought. The first one had high medical costs and needed a surgery. I immediate paid, stayed with her for 2 months after to help her, as soon as she was better she went back to an ex. The second one had debt, cleared it, a month later she broke up because "im looking for a more exotic situation" , whatever that means. Third one was the same, except she wanted to travel around the world, which will did for 6 weeks, much to the dismay of the second one. (I had no contact with her, she contacted my collegue.) Again, after traveling she told me my issue was "Everything is already taken care of, it feels too safe" i have now started looking around online, but i feel like im a walking temporary solution. Am i just doing it wrong, or do i need to start spraying tropicana parfume while running around with scissors.

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Hey guys endet nachu Please don’t just read and scroll I really need your advice
am 22F and a private university student so you probably know how expensive tuition can be in Addis ena I really want to support my mom especially ye tmhert bet kefeya lay ena i started home tutoring but the income isn’t enough to cover my tuition So I’m thinking about starting something else ke class gar abre mareg yemechlew nger ena am interested in events ,event planning and organizing gen I haven’t studied any courses related to events or worked in this field before so honestly endet ena yet edemejmer alakm So endze aynet nger lay experience yalachu sewoch please share your advice How did you get started? Where can I find opportunities in Addis as a student? And is it realistic to do this alongside university?
I’d really appreciate any advice ,experiences u can share Even if endze aynet nger lay yemesra sew yemtaku kehone please let me know thank you.

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31,F living abroad
It is been 3 month since am married but happiness mn malet endehone teftobgnal I LOVE HIM BETAM i am obssessed  destaye esu new hiwote wust alegn yemilew tilku neger esu new am afraid yalesu rasen maseb.
We have been in long distance last year he proposed and after 1 year married.do you know what happened i dont have a reason but i had no plan to marry now may be next year but when i went to ethiopia and shimagle lilak sil bezaw kelebet yemadreg hasab meta tewesene yaw long distance lay slalen shimagle telko kemikoy lela gize kemtibek megelagel yishalal bemilew.bcha eth kehedku behuala bekebabad tetaltenal yeneberegn gize achir slenebere arif gize basalf yshalal bemilew endelelaw gize alakorefkum tolo endininegager neber yefelekut bcha bemehede yetekochehubet gizem neber because leshimglna neber yhedkut familye aweke enji ykr beka shimglnaw yemil nidet agatmogn neber after all tegaban be kurban & i was v...after a week i found out he have been cheating on me,awkward!mn endetesemagn meglets kebad new ene malet hule sle cheating yemkeraker mechem ykr yemaybal sihtet bmot yeml sew neberku & i was deadly sure esu mechem cheat endemayareg set yemaymechew bige new hula masbew ene kostara endehone new makew anyhow.emagine 31 old female dekama enat yalat betesebochuan betam yasdesetech slagebach yhe neger siyagatmat kemnm belay yemtafekrut sew sikedachihu asbut,temtatabgn.i confronted him ykrta teyekegn temelesku wede wuch kene derso bchayen shon na negerun sasbew labd dereku ezi bchechinetu dbrtu ale enenja tesfa bis honku saleks neber mwulew fetarin endigedlegn tseleyku mnamn i know i am heart broken but esun yemetew akim demo yelegnm mnm aytayegnm tesfa 0.meleyayet asebku but guadegnoche yesew were ye family desta plus be kurban agbche mefatat lene betam kebad new betechemari akmen aladeberkum yalesu lifen lemaseb.
Ahun alakm mn endemasib hiwet ketloal gn endedro endalhonku ysemagnal afekrewalew ko gn beka endedro negn bye alasbm dro betaaaam destegna neberku besu esun bemagignete mdr lay edlegnawa set endehonku neber mikotrew kelbe astawsalew betaam des bilogn slesu misemagnin text mitsflet btayut God ahun esu yelem ena meles biye lemn endet agebahu elalew bizu sew slagebahu edlegna nesh yilegnal but i dont feel that way.the love of her life yagebach set betam destegna new mehon yeneberebat adel ena kagebahu behuala ezi smet wst new mehon yeneberebgn elalew.alakm mn endemareg abezawt sry

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I’m 24F, and let me tell u about my dream guy🤗

I’m genuinely attracted to a dominant man not in the BDSM sense or anything like that it’s completely d/t from what I mean(idk even how normal person enjoy this)🙄...I’m talking about a man who is strong, confident, influential, decisive ,capable of leading. A man who truly deserves to be ye bet ras …self respect yalew i find these things rly attractive😊
I’m a feminist, but I don’t personally believe that a marriage needs to have a 50/50 split in leadership where both are constantly competing over who gets the final say mnamn😒 I believe one person better than the other and personally I like when my man is better than me beastesasebm and also by age
And when i say a leader doesn’t mean being controlling🧐 I want a good leader someone who communicates, listens, takes responsibility and resilient. I don’t like a man when instructed by a girl to go here and there mnamn i feel like they lose masculine energy ena yemer yasaznugnal😢... demo I’m not looking for someone to take responsibility for my entire life…I’m smart, independent, hardworking, and confident in myself. I can handle my own life brag lemaderg aydelm i am like that..But having a man who is genuinely better will add sth on me

But nowadays gentle and emotionally mature men are hard to find many of them are either act like a girl💅 or they are ሽልጥልጥ 😭 ere be gentle give us አባውራ vibe... i am sure a lot of girls attract to this
Demo don say ask my id i am not here to find my man🙄
Thanks for reading

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ACCORDING TO THOSE PPL
Imagine a greedy CEO
...Well, I could hire a woman to do this job for 20,000, or I could hire a man to do the EXACT SAME WORK for 100,000... But because I love my fellow men so much, I am going to voluntarily burn 30,000 of my company's profits every single year just to keep a guy employed

AND THESE PEOPLE ARE VOTERS DEMO

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Guys, it didn’t get any better 😭 I still think about my ex, then I met someone who was nearly perfect and did everything a bf was supposed to do… and I CHEATED 😭 IKKK, don’t come for me.I broke up with him because he deserved better. Then the guy I cheated with and I agreed it was casual, but I caught feelings, asked “what if?” and he still didn’t want a relationship, so I left😭Now I can’t seem to like anyone. Nice guy? “He doesn’t have a car.” Guy with everything? “I don’t like him.” 😭 I want someone to grow with, but I also love my freedom and genuinely want to keep myself for me. But it’s nice to have someone too uk so what do I do or what’s my issue 😭

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M 22 So guys yhe new negeru ene eyob ebalalew ena i was in relationship for like 2 straight years ena so ahun break up adrgiyalew so the reason was esua betam social media stuff tabeza neber like eyetegelaletech mnamn at first normal neberku gn sayachew attention seeking yemeslal ena senegrat akumi bye tegachen mnamn keza erasu lemakom wesna kegna rship emdemaybelt amna tetaw neber yhe malet ke 4 month befit mnamn new ena beka selam nebern btw distance new rshipachn gn be amet west atleast 3 gize engenagnalen ena i was loyal asf maryamn 1d set awrche alawkm kene gar close yehonu sewoch yawkugnal ena this week i found out lela tik tok acc endalat ena block adrgagnalech ene endalay be jeles selk servhe sayew bezu vid lekalech almosk 1.6k follower yalew acc neberat ena i end our relationship ena esuam tekebelech ende normal ena betammmmmm new yetedeberkut like mawrat type maderg michl sew adelewm gn kene endetmaru ena eski bene bota bethonu mn decide tadergu neber

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Am i a bad or a good sister
I(25f) and my brother ( 18m) ሬዲት ስትይል 😁
We r very very very close some of the things could weird u out
I tell him about my masterbations and the guys i made out wz and all of my sexual histories
He tells me in his own word ሲጠበጥብ as well and abt all the girls that he talks to that he got rejected by and he rejected as well

We talk about anything and everything, i tell him things i don't want to admit even to myself and he gives me both the tough and the smooth love
He he so damn mature i can give him that even sometimes more than me i have moments that i act so childish ( in a fun way usually 😅 i just allow myself ) and he's the one who'd insult the fucking hell out of me and gets me back on track
Bcha the guy all he wants is to fuck he is 18 all his hormones are ganging up on him and tbh I'd like it if he can hold it to himself ( bcz i don't want him to catch an std or get some girl preg😭at this age ) atleast for a while but he told that i can go and fuck myself and that he would do it without my tips or helps so yeah what else can i do yesterday i bought him a condom and we went out to take a look at pensions that he could possibly bring the girl into 😂

So am i a bad sister or a good one
Yaw it's just to hear ur opinion enji i feel like am the best ( i mean he would have done it wz or wzout me so 🤷‍♀️)

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I think u will read this
I had to vent it out i can't hold it anymore

I wrote a long ass vent on what u r doing onto me but it got declined cz it was too graphic anyways I'll try to make this as less graphic as possible even tho it's hard

I touched myself thinking about u yesterday and i had that soul weakening orgasm ( in a very good way ) which i haven't had in in years
Simply put i want to have sex with you, like the actual real sex. lately it's all i think about. All i think abt is u getting on top of me kissing and licking every part of my body and eventually sliding it in slowly
For some reason i want to see myself bleed and feel the pain as u put it in.i want to see that cute caring side of u as u get inside me slowly making sure am not hurt ( how i love that side of u 🫶).

The thing that i can't stop thinking abt is u cumming inside me istg i want that soooooo badddddddd
I want to make love wz u ( i know it won't be some random fucking wz u) , i crave u, i want my first time to be with you if i can't get over the urge and decide to do it

My body is getting weak just by the thoughts of u, it's all i think about i zone out in the middle of a serious conversation and suddenly the image of ur Dk getting inside my puss slowly appears i can't even help it.በቃ በጣም ነው ምፈልግህ እግዚአብሔርን 😭😭. I want u to get inside me and release all of what u got ( ur cum🥹) till it's full i swear that's all what's on my mind i picture it, i fantasize abt it, i really want ur unborn microscopic babies wz in me beka 😭 ere wooooooooo
I've never been tempted in my life to have sex. what did u do to me, I've always said no to sex it was the easiest thing in my book no matter how horny i might appear to be... But now it's all i think abt i just don't want to have sex i want to have it with you and just you and just you and you only
It's soooo hard. U make my body physically weak like literally
Ufffff beka i want u inside me ahun rasu am burning, my body is on fire, my boobs, my pus everything is ready for u I'd melt and just die if u were here i don't even know if i have the stamina bcz like i said beka ሰውነቴ ባንተ ስሜት ደክሟል ( i had to say it in amharic )

But i know this is not right am fighting wz myself hard. my brain or whatever it is..is making an excuse after excuse on why i should do it wz u, sending me pictures of our privates intermingled

I have always been content that I'm a virgin, i can truly say no one has made me wish that i wasn't one till now ( this sounds so crazy coming from me 🤯 i don't recognize myself istg)

Am literally praying to God to make my temptations lower betam betam kebdogbal i swear to the living God

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….ወደ ህንፃው የመጨረሻ ወለል መቃረብ ስጀምር አንድ ሰው በቅርበት ሆኖ ይከተለኝ ጀመር። እንዳየኝ እና ሊከተለኝ እንደሆነ ሲገባኝ ፍጥነቴን ጨመርኩ እና በዱብ ዱብ ደረጃውን መውጣት ጀመርኩ። ሁለታችንም ወደ “ቴራዙ” የሚያደርሰውን ደረጃ ሩጫ በመሰለ ሶምሶማ ወጥተን ከጫፍ ደረስን። እንዴት እንደተከተለኝ ገርሞኛል። ምን አውቆ ? ማን ምን ነግሮት ተከተለኝ እያልኩኝ ውስጤን እየጠየቅሁ ደረጃውን ጨረስኩኝ። በእኔ እና በመጨረሻዋ ውሳኔዬ መካከል ጥቂት ሩጫዎች ብቻ ቀርተውኛል። የዚህ ሰው ድምፅ ግን አሁንም ይሰማኛል።

“አንተ ሰው ቁም….” ትንፋሹ ትቆራረጣለች ፤

“አንተን እኮ ነው! አትሰማኝም እንዴ ? ቁም እኮ ነው የምልህ”

“እባክህን እንዳታደርገው”

እኔ እና እሱ ከተገናኘንባት የህንፃው ወለል ጀምሮ ይህንን ድምፅ እየሰማሁ ትንፋሹ ቁርጥ ቁርጥ እያለ ከጫፍ ደረስን።

እረፍት መስሎ ከታየኝ ውሳኔዬ ለመድረስ የቀረችኝን ጥቂት እርምጃ በሩጫ ፈፅሜ ከፎቁ ዘለልኩኝ…

አንዳች አይነት ዝቅታ ልቤን ተሰማት ፤ ነፍሴ ሆዴ ውስጥ ተቀምጣ የነበረ ይመስል በዘለልኩኝ ቅፅበት እንግዳ ነገር ከሆዴ ተነስቶ በአፌ ሊወጣ ይመስል ተናነቀኝ…ከመሬት ደርሼ እረፍቴን እስክቀምስ ድረስ ቸኮልኩኝ….ሞቴን ናፈቅሁኝ

አሁንም ግን ከፍታ ላይ ነኝ…የጨፈንሁትን አይኔን ገለጥኩኝ ፤ አየር ላይ ነው ያለሁት። ከበላዬ አንድ ድምፅ ይሰማኛል።

“ቆይ ምን ስትል አደረግኸው?” እያለ ይጮሀል!

የቅድሙ ሰውዬ ነው! የቀኝ እጄን ጥፍንግ አርጎ ይዞ! ይጮሀል! የሁለታችንም እጆች በላብ ረጥበዋል! ቀና ብዬ ተመለከትኩኝ “እንዴት ደረስክብኝ” ጠየቅሁት

….. አልመለሰልኝም!

አይኔን ከእሱ ነቅዬ ወደ ታች ስመለከት የአያሌዎች የጩኸት ድምፅ ሰማሁኝ።

“ያኔ ሰው ናፈቀኝ ብዬ ስቃትት ይሄ ሁሉ ህዝብ ምን ውስጥ ነበር ? አድኑኝ እያልኩኝ ስጣራ የት ነበራችሁ ? ደከምኩ በርታ በሉኝ እያልኩኝ በአጠገቤ ሰው ያለ እንደሆን ስመለከት ምን ውስጥ ተወሽቃችሁ ነበር ? ጥሩ በሰራሁ ጊዜና አጨብጭቡልኝ ፣ ጎበዝ በሉኝ ብዬ ከፊታችሁ ብቆም አንዳችሁም አልነበራችሁም! አሁን ምን ፍለጋ ትጮሀላችሁ ?
አስመሳይ ሁላ!

እኔ ድካም ተጫጭኖኝ ለራሴ ማሰብ አቁሚያለሁ ፤ ራሴን ከነበርኩበት ሁኔታ ለማውጣት ይህ እጄን የያዘኝን ሰው ያህል እንኳ አልጣርኩም። ራሴን ከእኔ ለማዳን ይህ ሰው የሞከረውን ያህል እንኳ አልሞከርኩኝም። እኔ ራሴን የከዳሁት ከህንፃው ለመዝለል የሞከርኩ ቀን ሳይሆን ጠንከር ብዬ ከነበርኩበት ሁኔታ ለማውጣት መሞከር ያቆምኩ ቀን ነው። ያኔ ታድያ ትረዱኝ ዘንድ ወደ እናንተ ዞርኩኝ ፣ ትናጌ እስኪቆስል ጮህኩኝ። ግን ምን ሊረባኝ? ራሱን የከዳን ሰው ማንስ አምኖ ሊቀርበው ? በእናንተ በፈሪሳዊያኑ ዘንድ እኔ ቦታ አልነበረኝም ያኔ መሄድ አቁሜ እዚህ ያለሁበት ሁኔታ ላይ ተገኘሁ…”

ከራሴ ጋር ያደረግሁትን ንግግሬ አብቅቼ የያዘኝን ሰው ለመመልከት ቀና ብል…..የለም!
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በድጋሜ አይኔን ስገልጥ ነፍሴ ከእኔ ተለይታ ወድቆ በደም የተለወሰውን በድኔን ለአፍታ ተመለከተች።

“ራሱን ለምንም ሲል የከዳ በድን!” ይህንን ብላ ወዲያው ተነጠቀች!

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ድህነት ጎልብቶ ቢጸንስ እርዛት
ወረርሽኝ ሰፍቶ አካሎ ግዛት
ተመላልሶ ድርቅ አያሌ ጊዜያት
ምስኪን አለምን ረግጦ ቢገዛት
ቢያረግፍ ፍጥረትን የባህር አሸዋ ብዛት
አውሎንፋስ አስከትሎ ጎርፍን ይዞት
ሲከምሩ ሰውነትን ከጨለማው ግዞት
የተፈጥሮ እክል ሰው ሰራሹንም እርሳ
ማህበረሰብ ነው ትልቁ ነቀርሳ

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Yo guys so I was talking to this 1 girl we weren't in a relationship but we were very close to each other at first i used to pull back because she was all over me and that felt weird how fast she became attached to me then after a while i let my guard down and became attached to her too to the point that she's always in my mind but after some time she jus started getting colder and colder towards me she replies to my message after a day or two i called her yesterday and she literally hang up on me but everytime i say I'm done and i leave her alone she texts me and calls out of nowhere ..i always keep thinking of what exact moment lead to this what did i do wrong but i don't get it she probably an avoidant that's what im thinking I'm not sure tho

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Heyy,I need to vent
I'm Highschool student n I'm kinda sekay kemibalu iska 10th class n 10th lay i started enjoyn n chilln life wz them n sus mna mn wustm gebiche tebeleshaw fr😭 n now I'm 12 i wanna prepare exactly for entrance, but i can't study, alchalkum after yehone minute wede scrolln wey demo lela negr lay i waste ma time, plzzzzzz help me🥲

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Im female 26 and written by gpt but the idea is mine 😭
So here’s the thing… I really like this man It’s been a year since we’ve known each other, and I’m really comfortable with him. He’s amazing tall, handsome, attractive, hardworking literally everything But the problem is, I feel like I can’t be as open with him as I want to be
It’s not that I don’t enjoy being around him or that I don’t like talking to him. I just don’t know… I’m like that in my head. In my mind, I know what I want and what I feel, but when it comes to actually expressing it, I struggle so much. I don’t know if it’s a communication problem or what sometimes I just don’t have the energy, and sometimes I genuinely don’t know what to talk about.
I’m not even shy, that’s the funny part. I just don’t know how to be social or how to keep a conversation going. I’m really not that sociable, and I hate that sometimes because I know I have so much in my head, I just don’t know how to get it out.
And honestly, I don’t wanna lose him because of this. I can tell he’s getting annoyed because he’s always the one carrying the conversation and keeping things going. I really do understand why that would be frustrating for him, and I wish I knew how to help. It’s not because I don’t care or I’m not interested. I really do want to change and get better at communicating with him. I just don’t know how to start 😭

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I grew up in addis ababa with a single mom my parents divorced when I was 12, and my mom struggled financially, sacrificing almost everything she had to raise me and support my education.
Thank God, I recently graduated, but I’m currently struggling to find a job plus rent fee is getting out of hand and my mom is still strugling to feed us i can't handle the stress So I’m considering working as a club waitress for now
People around me say that working in clubs in Addis around bole can earn around 50K birr per month, including tips. Is that actually true?
For those who have experience or someone you know what are the pros and cons? Is 50K realistic, and what should I know before starting?

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Almost 24 F
I love him, he treats me well, he is fine shyt, he is good at everything, he accepts criticism openly whenever he gets wrong and apologizes , he is also not hesitant to point out my mistake ,.... He totally what I could ask for

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Looking for an online friend who’s actually down for random conversations 😭
Like, you should be okay with me randomly texting “WAIT, I JUST THOUGHT OF SOMETHING” and then asking the most unnecessary question ever 💀 I want someone I can joke around with, talk about life, share random thoughts with, gossip a little, have deep conversations one minute and be completely stupid the next 😭
You don’t have to be super talkative or anything. Just be yourself, have a sense of humor, and actually enjoy talking. Please don’t be the type to reply “haha” and disappear for a week 😭
Basically, I just want someone I can talk to about literally anything—random thoughts, dumb jokes, late-night conversations, weird questions, little life updates, or those random moments when we suddenly start questioning our entire existence 💀
If you can match my energy and don’t mind a little chaos, I think we’ll get along pretty well 👀

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am 19🙄 12 ahun new yechereskut egzyabher ymesgen sra alegn☺️ ena ahun lay fkregna felgalehu cuz yewedefit balen kahunu bawkew btewawekew gizew eskiders be emnet befkr bekbr bnkoy elalehu🙄 ena wdu baltebete😌 yet endehonk balakm🤔 entewawek😌😌 (arfesh srashn sri kes blo ydersl mil mkr ltmekrugn tchlalachuh gn beka alakm lemetewawek tkklegnaw sat new bye asbalehu)...............lefkregnnet mtteykegn set mn aynet thon kalk tamagn akbari sew wedad techawach kena lb yalat sew negn🤔 negeregnam ehonalehu andande🙂 ena ebd negn des bemayl menged sayhon ebdet myamrbat set negn ebd negn blm gn😌 yemadergewn awkalehu lelawn sntewawek☺️................

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የምር ግን አንዳንዴ መኖር ምንድነው... በጥያቄ የተሞላ የህይወት ጉዞ? ወይ ደግሞ በሄድንበት ሌላ መሄጃ ምንፈልግለት ኑሮ! ሽሽት ነው? እስከ እርጅና ማይድን ቁስል መሸከም ነው? ወይስ ልጅነትን ሳይኖሩ ሌሎች በፈጠሩት ዝባዝንኬ ራስን መዝፈቅ ነው! መኖር ምንድነው? መኖር ከመሞት የተሻለ ነው ብዬ አስብ ነበር ግን ሁኔታዎች ያንን ያስቀይሩኛል፣ ምናለ እግዜሩ ደስታን ባይሰጠኝ እስከ ወድያኛው ቢያስርፈኝ... መስማት ማንፈልጋቸው ድምጽ መኃል መኖር... ማንወደውን ህይወት ማየት.... ይህ መኖር ነው? ይህ መኖር ከሆነ ይሁን ካልሆነ ግን ሞችያለው

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Hey My husband and I have been together for 4 years, and we’ve been married for 1 year now. But there’s something I’m really struggling with, and I honestly don’t know what to do.

He never listens to other people or accepts that he might be wrong. In his mind, he is always right, and his family is always right or perfect. I don’t understand why.

Before I got married, my whole family—my dad and my mom—always told me that I was a good cook and that they loved my food. But my husband always makes fun of my cooking and tells me that I’m a terrible cook. I’ve tried to change and improve myself because of what he says, but he still finds things to criticize.

He also shouts at me a lot, but he acts like it’s just a joke. I’ve told him many times that I don’t like it and asked him to stop, but he never does. He keeps doing it.

Sometimes he acts in ways that I find really foolish or embarrassing, and I honestly don’t understand him. He was born and raised in Addis, but sometimes he acts like someone who is trying too hard to act like an "አራዳ" trying to look smart,cool, street smart and he does things that make no sense to me.

The confusing part is that at the same time, he treats me like a princess and can be very good to me. That’s why my mind is so confused. I don’t know if I’m overreacting, if this is normal in a marriage, or if there is something wrong with the way he treats me.

I really need honest advice from people who have experienced something similar. What should I do? Malet chger yemaymesel chger new maryamn betam eyaschnekegn new endet new yemnketlew ene comfort eyataw even I don't have friends he hate them 2 neberu enesum yelum jeloch nachu wereyachu hulu negerachu eyale yenen neger yatatlal hule betam yekefagn demo my mom ke ruk hager legna bla yametachewn neger yihe bakesh ayrebam wedeza argiw megbunm aybelam
Le sra botaw megb sekuatrelet eshi egziabhern berbere 1 kilo le huletachyn ke 20 ken ayasalfegnm ene yagegnehutn ebelalew yelegnal gn seseralet ere wedeza yilal😭emebeten eyekefagn new lemn selew hulunm wedene yazorewal

Ene yemamakrew sew yelegnm
yerasen food house mekfet felge gn ..... maryamn yalegnen hulu muya yatahu yahel tesemagn

Eshi endet lasdestew hule enatu nat lek hule ehtu nat lek hule yesu yeguadegna mistoch nachew lek enena bezuryaye yalut dedeboch nen lesu he think ye hiwetn menged ejen yizo yemimeragn 😭😭eski baletedaroch yehone neger belugn

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23F giving this a shot because apparently this isn’t where u find your person but there are a lot of people here so why not 😭 I’m not the most social person and I’ll probably be awkward at first so it takes me a while to really get comfortable with someone but once I do they’re hearing every stupid thought that crosses my mind I joke a lot and I care a lot too I want someone I can do all the silly married couple things with watch an anime or some random movie at 2am and somehow end up talking about life for hours but when life gets heavy I want him to know he has someone he can come home to someone he can count on even on the days when he feels like he has nobody... I want to learn a lot from the person I love especially in deen and I’d love for him to be my teacher while we keep growing together maybe Rumi was right about what is meant for us finding its way to us and maybe there’s something beautiful about being understood deeply and still being chosen freely I’m trying to become a better version of myself too so maybe we can figure out the rest together

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Hey 😊 I’m 21 F and looking for a guy friend around 20–25, but just for a genuine friendship I’m an introvert at first but once I get to know you, I open up more I’m not interested in anything sexual or that kind of relationship I’d love to have someone to talk to joke around with, share random thoughts and build a genuine, respectful friendship If you’re looking for the same feel free to message me 🤍

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እሺ፣ ሰሞኑን I have been thinking about our communities views on sex እና ምንም ያህል እንደ ሀገር ብንሽኮረመምም ጉዳዩ ሲነሳ፤ we all in tho that shit I mean listen to the music and the movies! ውስጣችን ነው! Anyways I recently read something online about how woman who waited for marriage and I think it was like a survey or something anyways they said the men had less libido than the woman! And that was so crazy to me I mean do older men feel like this uk after the whole fire age thing!? What about girls who waited? Was it all you ever expected? Or was it awkward? I am in a toss up should I wait or should I not, I generally don’t care about the whole virgin infatuation but I am curious to know if there are any other benefits to waiting or if there are any consequences? It’s kinda of a tough decision when you don’t care about social norms or the religion aspect of it so what should I do?

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ሰላም እንዴት ናቹ ሰለ ቤተሰቤ ላማክራቹ ነው እቤት ውስጥ 5 ነን እና እኔ የመጀምሪያ ነኝ ከ እኔ በታች ወንድሜ ነው ያለው እና ትምርቱን ያቶዋረጠው 8ኛ ክፍል ነው እኔ ደሞ በ marketintg ልጨርስ ነው እና ምን ልላቹ ነው እኛ ቤት ባህድ አምልኮ አለ በ አያቴ በኩል እና am ሰንበት ተማሪ እና ማለት እቤት ውስጥ ሁሌ ጭቅጭቅ ነው ምንም ሰላም የለም ማርያምን ነው ምላቹ ታናናሾቼ ካወራዋቸው 8 አመቴ አንድ ቤት እየኖርን እኔን ካወሩ ይመታቸዋል በዛ ላይ አባቴ የለም እናቴ ነች እና እኔ እላውቅም ታገለኛለች በቃ በመንም ንገር ወንድሜን ነው ምደግፈው ምግብ እራሱ ብቻዬን ነው ምበላም እና ደሞ ምንም የቤት ስራ አልሰራም እያሰሩኝማ በዛ ላይ የ ታናናሾቼ ንቀት ወንድሜ በ physically Tenker yale new በቃ ቤቱን ሚያስተዳድረው እናቴም እሱን ነው ምሰማው

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ቀኑ ፀሀያማ ነው:)

ሞትን ለረጅም ግዜ አልተረዳሁትም ነበር። ምናልባት እስከባለፈው ሳምንት... ሊያሳንሰን እንደመጣ፣ ከምቾታችን ሊያፈናቅለን፣ ስማችንን ሳናስጠራ ከአላማችን ሊያሰናክለን እየመሰለኝ፤ ክፉውን ብቻ እያየሁ ሞት ቤሽቲያ ነው ብያለሁ::

ውጪው ሙቅ ቢሆንም ቀዝቃዛ ውሀ ገላዬን እንዲነካው አልፈለኩም:: ሙቅ ገላዬን ቀዝቃዛ ውሀ ውስጥ መክተት ክፋቱ እንጂ ርካታው አይታየኝም፤ ሰዎች በጩቤ ተሰቅስቆ ከመሞት በሽጉጥ መገላገልን ይመርጣሉ፤ ከሞትን አይቀር ሂደቱን ማጣጣም የለብንም? ስቃዩ ለምን ይሸሻል? ቢያንስ ቢያንስ "ውሻዬን አደራ" የምንልበት ግዜ አያስፈልገንም? ህመሙን የማጣጣሚያ ደቂቃዎች፣ ልፋታችን ላይ የለግጥ ሳቅ የመሳቂያ ሰከንድ አያሻንም?

ሰፈሬ ውስጥ በቅርብ ርቀት የተዘረጉ ሁለት ድንኳኖችን አቋርጬ ሳልፍ ከንፈሬን አልመጠጥኩም፤ ፊቴ አልተረበሸም፣  ንፅህናቸው እንደማይበረክቱ ያጠራጥረኝ ነበርና... ሞትም ንፁህ ነገር ይወዳል ወይንም የክፉ ልብ ሸክሙ ከባድ ይሆናል።

ሰይጣን ነበረበት አሉ፤ ፀበል ሄዶ ሁለት ሳምንት ቆየ ... ፀበል የማይፈራ ሰይጣን ከፈገግተኛ ልጅ እግር ባለሱቅ  ከሁለት ሳምንት በፊት ያየሁትን ፈገግታ ሰረቀው። ምናልባት ሰይጣን እንዳላደለ? በሰይጣን ስም የተከለለ ጅራታም ድብርት ሁሌ ከሚስቀው ጥርሱ ጀርባ አድብቶ ቆይቶ ሆኖስ ቢሆን? እኛ ሀገር ድብርትም ሰይጣን ነው።
<<ሰን ቺብስ አምጥቻለሁ እኮ>> ብሎ እንደስጦታ ተሽቀዳድሞ ሰቶኝ ያንከረፈፍኩትን ብሬን <<እምቢ>> ሲለኝ፣ ሌላ ግዜ ጎሎኝ <<ተይው ሌላ ቀን ታመጫለሽ >> ሲለኝ ነጋዴ መሆን እንደሌለበት ይሰማኝ ነበር፣ ምናልባትም አንድ ቀን በምሽት ድንብር ድንብር እያልኩ በሰቁ ያለሰላምታ ሳልፍ የእጅ ባትሪውን እስከሚታየኝ ድረስ ሲያበራልኝ አብራ በየዋህ ከንፈሮቹ መሀል በቀጭኑ የምትወጣ ፉጨት ቤቴ መዳረሻ ድረስ ሸኝታኝ ታውቅ ነበርና ሁሉን ትቶ ቢዘፍን ብዬ ነበር። <<ድምፅ አለህ እንደፉጨትህ እና ነፍስህ የሚያምር?>> ብዬ ሳልጠይቀው  ሞተ...

ረጅም ታክሲ ሰልፍ ላይ መኪናውን አምጥቶ ግር ብለው ሊገቡ ያሉትን ሌሎች ሰዎች <<ሰርቪስ ነው!>>እያለ እየመለሰ ከሰው መሀል እንድገባ ያቆምልኛል:: <<አሁን ምናለ ቢገቡ >> ስለው <<ስትገዢ ታሳፍሪያቸዋለሽ፣ እነዚህ ቀብሮ አሚ ሁላ! ይኳትኑ!>> ይለኝ ነበር። ክፉ አይደለም ለክፉ ክፉ እንጂ። እግሬን አመመኝ ብሎ ቤቱ በቀረ በሶስተኛው ቀን ሞተ። እነዛ ሁሉ ሰልፈኞች ጆሮዬ ያልደረሰ <<እሰይ !>> በለሆሳስ እንዳልጎመጎሙ እጠረጥራለሁ... ሳውቅ አይወደድም ነበር። ትንሽ ቢቆይ ራሳቸው በድንጋይ ህዝብ ፊት ወግረው የሚገሉት አይነት ነበር። ለወግ ለባህሉ የማይመች ለተጠቃ ቋሚ ደፋር ተጋፋጭ ነበር።

ይሄ ሁሉ ከደጃፌ የሃያ እና ሰላሳ ሜትር ርቀት ነው... ሞት ተርታ አለው ሁሌም፤ ሰፈሬ ላይ እናቶች የሉም ሞተዋል። መቼ ቢባልአመተ ምህረቱ አንድ ነው::  እየመጣ ከሆነስ?

ገላዬን ልታጠብ ሙቁ ውሀ እስኪወርድ ራቁቴን ረጅም ሰአት መስታወቱ ፊት በቆምኩበት ሰውነቴን አስተውላለሁ:: ቀኝ ጡቴ ላይ ሸንተረሮች ይታዩኛል፣ለምን ጡቶቼን እሸሽጋለሁ? ከመሞቴ በፊት ጡቶቼን ማሳየት አለብኝ፤ ለማን? አላውቅም።

ጡቶች ውበት ናቸው፤ ታሪክ አላቸው::
ታሪካችንን ስንጠየቅ ወደአእምሮአችን ማሰላሰል ትተን ወደጡታችን ብንሄድ ስንቱን ይነግሩናል። ከመቆም እስከ መርገብ እስከ መድከም። መቼም ባንድ ሌሊት ዱብ ብሎ ያደረ ጡት የለም፣ አካሄድ አለው። ካፈቀረን እስከ በወንድማዊ አቀፋ ውስጥ ፍንጫችንን በቀስታ እስከቆነጠጠን፣ በስሜት ከስሜት እስክንወጣ ካሸን አባብሎ እስከሳመን እስከላሰን፤ እንደንብረቱ ጎትቶ እስከጠባን፣ እንቅልፍ ጥሎን ካፉ ቢያመልጥ በገዛ ጡታችን እሪሪሪሪ ብሎ እስከጮኸብን ጨቅላ፤  ፒ ኤች ዲ ያለው ታሪክ ለምን ይደበቃል? ምናልባት ስሞት ስለጡቴ እንዲወራልኝ እፈልጋለሁ። ስለ ሸንተረሮቹ  ስለአፈጣጠራቸው፣ በእጆቼ ስነካቸው ስለሚሰማኝ ስሜት..

ደረተ ግልጥ ልብስ ያምረኛል፣ የሚወደኝ ፊት ልገልጣቸው እሻለሁ። አንዳንድ ከሰአቶች ከወገቤ በላይ ራቁቴን ልረማመድ እፈልጋለሁ፤ ግን አላደርገውም። በቤቴ ውስጥ ሆኜ እንኳ ራሴን አፍራለሁ። በታሪኬ በኑሮዬ አፍራለሁ? ቢያንስ ቢያንስ ማንም በሌለበት እነዚህ የምወዳቸው የነበሩ ሰዎች መቃብር ጋር ሄጄ ጡቶቼን ገልጬ ፍቅሬን ብገልፅ ብችል?

አባ የሞቴ ለት ለሰርጌ የባሌን ከንፈር ስስም አይኔን ጨፍኜ <<ምን ይል ይሆን ?>> ብዬ ያሰብኩት አባቴ ፊት ከፈለጉ እንደ አቡነዘበሰማያት ጮክ ብለው ጀምረው በእፍረት በውስጣቸው ያነብንቡት.. የሞትሁ ለት ስለጡቶቼ እንዲወራ በኑዛዜዬ አኖራለሁ።

ልጅ ሆኜ ከቤታችን ደረጃ ላይ ተንሸራትቼ በፊቴ ጭቃ ውስጥ ዘፍ ስል ውስጥ ያደፈጠ አልጌ ሹልነቱን ያለሰለሰለት መሰሪ ድንጋይ ከጉንጮቼ አንስቶ ጆሮዬ ድረስ ሲፍቀኝ ሰው ሁሉ <<ቱ ቱ አይንሽን አተረፈሽ>> አለኝ :: አመትስ አልፎታል <<ይሄ ጠባሳ ነው እንጂ ..>> ብለው የሚሉትን ሲሉ፣ አፎች ምን የየዋህ ሰው ንብረት ቢሆኑ ከለታት ባንድ ቀን መሳታቸው አይቀርም። ያኔ ያሳምማሉ፤ በዛ ጠባሳ ስር ስንት ግዜ ከግን'ኣቸው በፊት ሞትኩ? ቅፅል ስም እስኪወጣልኝ፣አብሮኝ ባልተወለደ ነገር እስክሰየም፣ አምኜ "አቤት" ማለት እስክጀምር ስንት እምባ አነባሁ? ስሜቴ ልክ ጠባሳው ቦታ ላይ እንዳለው ቆዳ በድን እስኪሆን ድረስ ቀድሜያቸው <<ስሜታዊ አስተማሪ ያረመው ደብተር መሰልኩ አይደል>> ማለት እስክጀምር ድረስ ተጠረቋቆስኩ... ውስጤ ከውጪው የበለጠ ጠባሳ ሰራ?
ይሄን አይተው ዝም ያሉ ሰዎች ስንት ናቸው? ከአምስት ጣቴ ሁለቱን ባጥፍ እነሱም ሞቱ።

ቀኝ ፊቴ በጣባሳው ምክንያት ትንሽ ተሰብስቧል፤ ከግራዬ ትንሽ ረገብ ብሏል ሁለት አይነት ሰው እመስላለሁ...

ሙቅ ውሀ ውስጥ ብርድ ሀሳብ እና ኑሮ ያደከመው ሰውነቴን ስከት የሆነ እፎይታ ተሰማኝ፤ ጉልበቴ ላይ ተደግፌ በቀኝ እጄ በቀኝ እግሬ ላይ ከጉልበቴ በታች በጎን በኩል ከቁርጭምጭሚቴ አንስቶ እስከ ባቴ መሀል የተከፈለውን ጠበሳ አሸሁት... እንደ ቦይ ነበር ...የጣቶቼ ጫፍ ቦርጮች በጎድጏዳው ላይ ሆዳቸውን ጥለው ሲንሸራሸሩ እነሱ ላይ ስሜት አለው እንጂ ጠባሳው ላይ አሻራዬ አይሰማኝም... ትንሽ ትንሽ መሞት እንዲህ ይሆን?  ሳላውቅ እየሞትኩ ይሆን?
በቀኝ በኩል ቀድሜ እየሞትኩ ይሆን? ሞት እያንቆላፐሰኝ ይሆን? ምናልባት አለሁ እያልኩ መሞት፤  እያወራሁ መሀል ላይ ፀጥ ፤ የያዝኩት ብርጭኮ ሽርትት፤ ሳቅ ብዬ ዝም..

በመኖር እና በባለመኖር መሀል ያለው ምንድን ነው?

ማወቅ?
መኖርን ማወቅ?

ምናልባት ከሞት ወዲያ የሚሉት አይነት ፋንታሲ ከሌለ... ሞት ከዚህ ከሙቅ ውሀ ኢንፊኒቲ እጥፍ እረፍት አለው። ወዳጆቼ በእዛ እረፍት እረፍታቸውን ሳያውቁ እያረፉ እንዲሆን ምኞቴ ነው።

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We broke up, still loving each other. Has anyone been here?

I'm 25. I fell in love with a woman who, like me, grew up without her whole family around her. I didn't either. I grew up without the full family behind me, learning early to stand on my own and build things with no one to catch me if I fell. She came from the same kind of emptiness. And somehow, that made us love each other harder, two people who'd never been fully held, finally holding someone.

But here's the twist. From the exact same wound, we drew opposite conclusions.

I decided: I'll build the safety net myself. Love me through the hard years, and we'll be safe on the other side.

She decided, "I'll never stand somewhere I could fall with nothing beneath me." Build it first, and then I'll step in.

I offered her the climb. She needed the summit. I was still building when she needed it already built. So we let each other go. Not because the love died; it didn't. But because two people shaped by the same emptiness had learned to survive it in opposite ways.

She wasn't too much. I wasn't too little. We were just the same storm, breaking in different directions.

And now the hope is the part that's killing me. Not the anger, not the closure, but the hope. The part that still whispers, maybe.

Has anyone else been through this? Two people who both grew up without their whole family, who loved each other, and who still had to let go? How did you survive the hope?

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I am just curious: what percentage of women do not want to have children?I want a couple to spend all their time, energy, and money on each other. I want the relationship to be the most important thing. I do not want parenting to change that. Simply put, I want the honeymoon phase to last forever.I dated a girl. We met because of a friend I met on a bus. I do not know all the details, but that friend said great things about me to her group. The girl I dated became curious and messaged me online. She was very bold, and we were intimate on our second date. She told me to stop talking to her friend, so I blocked the friend.At that time, I felt she was exactly what I wanted. I was totally focused on her. I texted her "good morning" and "good night" every single day. I replied to her messages in less than a minute. I complimented her in person and on every photo she posted. I called her more than four times a day, and I always wanted to see her. However, I am not always this romantic. I become cold when she does not want to have sex. But she never received this much attention from other guys, so she always came back to me.During sex, I was always very careful. I always used a condom. I have never had unprotected sex in my life because I am deeply afraid of making someone pregnant. I was so careful that after sex, I filled the condom with water and squeezed it to check for tiny holes.After three years, her parents started pressuring her to get married and move out. During our three years together, her family did not know I existed. We kept our relationship a secret. She pressured me to marry her, but I said no. She loves kids very much, and I do not like kids at all. That is when our arguments started. The fights got worse, and we finally broke up.I did everything I could to keep her, so I do not regret anything. I only wanted to give her my all and wanted her to do the same for me. I did that, but I could not make it last for the long term because of these differences.

#Relationship #Adult
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Hello guys
21F, So the thing is ig leloch setochm relate yaregutal yhen neger like kebet senota mnmn taxi west menged lay mnmn senhed leloch setoch gelmetmet miyaregun lmndnew endee whats wrong with you guys metgelamtu setoch mn aregnachu new yetlye yetganene neger salbes enkuan ayaders new as a muslim women hijab ale kemis ale mnmn fite bitay new nothing special gn gelmchaw betely muslim set le muslim set mnale selam alykum benbabal kmngelmamet lmangawm adebu!!!

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Hey lovely people. If you’re anyone who’s had any mental health struggles please read this. I moved to the US for my studies years ago and i’m graduating with a psychology degree. My dream is to make mental health more accessible and less stigmatized in our community and i’m interested in researching how our community deals with these issues to better provide support. I’ve experienced first hand how our society invalidates, shames, and disregards mental health issues. For those of you living in Ethiopia, have you found any professional support like therapy, counseling, or medications? what are some of the barriers you’re facing regarding getting support? are people more open to hearing you out or is it still hostile? what do you think would help you feel more supported?

#MentalIllness #Melancholy #SexualAssault
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