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I am male, and I have ADHD. I know most people say we all have that thing, but I have ADHD for real. It has been hard to focus and do something serious lately. However, this summer I want to change that and do something better. So, if there is someone who has been struggling with ADHD and procrastination, let's get better together.
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Hi guys im 23 M ive just graduated from some compass i can't name it and i have this girl bestfriend i love her more than anything but i never let her know I'm always by her side even through her relationships i advice and she mostly litsen to whay i say she respects me and know after graduation we travel to hawassa we were around 12 we had a lot of fun we stayed until 9:30 at the club then every start going to their room as a couple and that leaves to of us so we share the same room and we were both tired she was having a headache and we chatted a little and i dont even know why i fall asleep and know the problem start i slept at 11 and wake at 12 and i couldn't help but think about her then i hugged her get her close to me start kissing her for head and we started kissing and i thought she was in to me then she suddenly snapped and stoped every thing and to remind u she was telling me to stop again and again but there was no resistance and she told me we'll ruin our friendship and we talked a little then we decide to discuss further more after getting back to addis and know she told me she was drunk she would never do such a thing and now she's breaking our friendship what should i do
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I am interested in pursuing FWB with someone, but I want to focus on cuddling and making out before going to the more sexual stuff. I wanted to know where to find this kind of women, and anyone who ever did it, how was your experience
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ቦይፍሬንዴ ቲክቶክ inbox ላይ የማታረጉት ልብስ ስጡኝ ብዬ ለሆነች ቲክቶከር የላኩትን ቴክስት አይብኝ እና በጣም ደበርኝ እሱም ደበረው I think expect አላረገም መሰለኝ ከኔ turnoff arekut ምን ላርግ ሼም ያዘኝ
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Embracing the Unfiltered Truth
Life has an unforgiving way of proving just how fragile our illusions of control really are, stripping away our carefully constructed sanctuaries without a moment’s notice. We spend decades meticulously building our routines, anchoring our hearts to people, and anchoring our identities to a future that feels entirely guaranteed, only for a single phone call, a sudden betrayal, or a split second mistake to shatter everything we know into unrecognizable pieces. The true brutality of human existence isn’t just found in massive, historic tragedies; it is felt in the quiet, sudden disruptions, the medical diagnosis that arrives on an ordinary, sunny Tuesday, the partner who walks out without warning after a lifetime of promises, or the deeply unfair reality of watching malicious, arrogant people thrive while the kindest, most genuine souls are crushed by circumstance.This systemic blindness and unfairness mirror the exhausting battles we fight daily, where people routinely trade substance for surface level illusions. It is utterly draining to live in a world where you can do everything right, love fiercely, and still watch individuals tolerate absolute stupidity, superficiality, and backhanded manipulation from toxic partners who weaponize arbitrary traits to claim a false sense of superiority. True compatibility must rely on intelligence, emotional depth, and mutual respect, because no superficial standard can ever justify the hollow arrogance of ignorance, nor should anyone ever reduce another person to a mere "exception" to suit their fragile ego. Hopefully, as more people confront and heal from the profound impact of generational trauma, the cultural mindset will shift so that deep seated psychological wounds will no longer dictate how we value ourselves, and future generations will process their pain with absolute, unshakeable resilience. Until then, we carry the heavy weight of both personal grief and collective disappointment, navigating a chaotic reality that doesn't halt its pace just because our individual worlds have collapsed.Yet, the ultimate defiance against a brutal, biased world is waking up every morning, standing firm in your value, and refusing to let society dilute your magic. Like midnight skies that hold the stars, your skin is a canvas of quiet majesty, unbroken by the shallow shadows of a blinded world. Let the earth remember that darkness is where life begins, rich and deep, an unyielding grace that needs no permission to shine. Stand tall in that sacred glow, a masterpiece forged in resilience, until the world finally learns to see beauty not through the lens of a stolen mirror, but in the brilliant, unshakeable truth of who you are.
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I'm a 32M , currently im in talking stage with girl I liked much she is 23 , I want to fall in love harder and end up marrying her but the problem is she is just responding to my questions only it’s been 2 months and she shows no interest she doesn’t call but picks up when I call and talk for almost 2 hours daily yet never calls back if I don’t. She tells me many things but when I ask her out she says she can’t go out in date with someone she doesn’t know … should I continue my efforts or should i cut her down and move on .
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I really wanna know what you do if you were in my spot
I really was in love with a single mom last whole 2 years who got 3 kids i know when we got in relationship that i know she had kids but i didn’t realized that i would fall in love deeper this much ….as a single mom she was so nice to me wifey material she take care of me a lot when i needed her she is always there for me …my sexual thing with her was wild asf we used to had sex ly 4-5 days per weeks and 4-5 round per day crazy shit tho as man being sexual interacted make u so comfortable and open up your self then i fall in love with her and my family found about us that she had kids mnamn they don’t wanna call me as their son if i got married to her and want me to break up with her i had a fight with my mom 2 month we didn’t talk becha i become conscious i had to put my family first then i break up with her everything is great now with fam the really problem is i really missed her so much hulem ke gone selnberche mesa yemebelat bota chill yemargebet bota my house sehed mnamn tez telgnalche …. Am trying to control my sexual desire since we had sex addict with her but beside sex i miss her i know this is not normal i don’t know what to do its been 4 month since we broke up ena family masazen yelebgem need your advice tho
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I just want to confess something on this vent channel.
A while ago, I posted about my dream guy, intimacy, and being single. Honestly, I never expected even one person to comment, "Ask my ID." I even said I wasn't posting to ask for men's IDs, but surprisingly, that luck came anyway. 😁
I tried to reply to everyone who asked for my ID. None of them actually approached me seriously. I wasn't expecting anything serious in the first place, but I still talked to all of them.
One thing I learned is that not everyone who's single and says they want a relationship is actually ready or committed to one. Sorry, but that's just what I experienced.
I'll keep posting here, but please... don't comment "Ask my ID" anymore. At all. 😂
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if i had to say anything i deserve it, i had no idea what i put you through, im very selfish and maybe its time that life teaches me that i should care deeply about peoples feelings as much as mine.I WILL FORGIVE YOU. ;)
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Hey everyone, I'm a 22M, and I've been struggling with masturbation for the past six years. During that time, I feel like I've lost many opportunities and important parts of my life. Right now, I'm feeling shocked, hopeless, and ready to give up.
I had big dreams when I was a child, but now I feel like they're slipping away. Has anyone been through something similar? What can I do to overcome this and get my life back on track? Any advice or encouragement would mean a lot to me.
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I'm 23F and I've never been in a relationship.
A few weeks ago I started talking to a guy, and for the first time I genuinely understand why people fall for someone. He's kind, emotionally available, funny, intelligent, patient, and we seem to share a lot of values. We talk almost every day and I honestly look forward to hearing from him.
The problem isn't him.
It's me.
I've spent most of my life avoiding dating because I always felt like I needed to "fix myself" first.
I have social anxiety. My confidence isn't where I want it to be. I'm only now starting my career and trying to build discipline, improve my appearance, take care of my health, strengthen my faith, and basically become the woman I've always wanted to be.
My biggest fear is that if I start a relationship now, all of my insecurities will come with me.
I'll compare myself. I'll need reassurance. I'll overthink. I'll worry that he'll eventually realize I'm not enough.
I don't think it's fair to expect a partner to heal insecurities that I should be working on myself.
So I'm stuck.
I like this man enough that I can genuinely imagine building a future with him if he continues being who he seems to be.
But I also don't want to unintentionally pull him into a situation where I'm emotionally unavailable or constantly afraid.
Has anyone else delayed dating because they thought they needed to become a better version of themselves first?
Did waiting actually help?
Or were you just postponing vulnerability?
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I am sending notice to my Ethiopian weebs out there. Did I miss the plot or am I right for thinking that JJK and solo leveling are overrated. Not just overrated, almost batshit. I don't understand all them niggas that have satoru and itadori as their profile pictures. Girls with satoru profile pictures are understandable and if you are a guy with his picture, hey, it ain't too late to come out of the closet. Don't get me started on the jinwoo kids they are the worst. I struggled to watch anything past the first season of both anime and got peer pressured into watching them and continued with the second seasons and it just reinforced my hate for both. At first I was thinking they were just finding their identity in the first season which I thought was excusable but solo leveling somehow continued to be the MC just going in gooncaves guns blazing and coming out stronger with no story behind it and jjk just seems like it is trying to force grief and plot twist by killing off characters and desperately trying to make itself look good without any of the deaths making sense or adding anything. Just killing characters for the sake of killing them. I got through the second seasons and I told the dudes who recommended me to watch them to never give me anime recommendations again. It is not that I don't respect them or anything, it is that their opinions isn't worth respecting at all. These two anime taught me that even on topics that are considered subjective taste, your opinion can still be objectively wrong. Not just anime, I don't understand why so many motherfuckers like the GTA franchise of games too. Same game with different graphics recycled over and over again. Played GTA 5 for 20% completion and dropped it because of how boring it was. This seriously isn't a rage bait or me trying to be different. I just don't understand all them niggas tastes. I can sit here and talk about music but I think I am also going to upset Taylor swift glazers. Also, fuck y'all mfers who couldn't help riding Thanos' purple cock, he is the worst marvel villain. Prove me wrong, his motivation doesn't make sense and exposes the writers for being dumb.
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Hey, 19f here
So CAN I FKING HAVE SOME FRIENDS.
Like gender doesn't matter to me at this point you can even identify as I dog, we can go and take a walk together. I can communicate my feelings and thoughts, but if your head hard as a rock, I'm gonna smash that sht with a hammer.
I'm coming here because it's so damn tiring to "build" relationships now a days, that's why I'm coming clean. I really am an open person, weirdness, strange thoughts, or anything you think will drive people away, WILL MAKE ME WANT TO KNOW YOU BETTER.
you a woman? Hella good, let's do our makeup together, go out for drinks, gossip our ears out, do cooking classes and try new things and share weird sht together.
You a man? Let's go do some sports, give advice to each other on dating life, pour our heart and have like a genuine connection.
I can do both with anyone, but what's sad is, trying to find genuine people is so damn hard. Just take the risk, be yourself, and enjoy whatever there is. If not, just run away (I'll follow up dw lol).
This isn't some recruitment post or anything, tbh I take friendships seriously, more than any s3xual relationships and can think if you would REALLY value a friend it can last a life time of a beautiful life events that will last with you more than anything.
Soooooooooo wanna friend zone each other in the best way possible?🙄
And i live in d.d😭✌️
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It's incredibly frustrating for a 26-year-old dominant sadist man who can't seem to find women interested in BDSM. Despite putting in the effort to communicate clearly, establish trust, and understand the nuances of a healthy BDSM relationship, it often feels like a dead end. The dating scene can be tough already, but adding the layer of BDSM makes it even harder. There's a constant battle against stereotypes and misconceptions, and it's exhausting having to explain that dominance isn't about being abusive or controlling in a harmful way. Instead, it's about providing a safe space for a partner's desires and boundaries. It's disheartening to be misunderstood or judged before even getting a chance to show who you really are and what you stand for in a BDSM context. It often feels like there's a lack of understanding and acceptance, which only adds to the frustration and loneliness.
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Hey guys I'm 23 Female living in addis around Lambert
I used to have best friends but not anymore I wonder how people can be so close one day and then become distant the next without any clear reason
I've always been careful about who I invest my time and energy in yet but somehow i ended up feeling alone I'm okay with being by myself also I still have other peoples, family and cousins around me but it's not the same as having genuine female friends you can truly connect with
I miss having conversations that don't feel one sided and having someone I can randomly text laugh with or just spend time with I'm learning to accept that not every friendship is meant to last and that's okay but I'd still love to meet kind genuine people who value real friendship
If you're around my age and feel the same don't be shy to reach out 🤍
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I'm 25 F, and all I've ever wanted is a relationship where someone loves me for who I am, not just my body. I want a deep connection, honest communication, and someone who chooses me with respect and patience.
I still want my ex. We met again, and we kissed. He's calm, mature, and gentle, but we broke up because he wanted sex, and I wasn't ready. I'm still not.
When I asked why he wanted to see me, he said he wanted to make out and do other intimate things. Now I'm confused. I don't know if he wants me or just the physical side of me. I just want to be loved for who I am, without feeling like I have to give more than I'm ready to.
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I am addicted to researching where the prettiest hooker in Addis works. This started about 6 months ago when I realized almost all massage parlors around Bole and 22 are fronts for prostitution.
You pay around 800 for the house and 500–600 for extra, which technically means you can hit for the price of Amrogh chicken. My first time, I paid 600 birr for no sex, just a handjob and sucking tits to avoid STDs. Laying on my back flat-out naked, I never felt so vulnerable. Afterward, I felt disgusted—it was so empty compared to sex with my girlfriend.
That thought didn't last long. The girl was a total hypocrite: she gave me sisterly advice saying, "Tew, you seem like a good boy, endezih aynte neger ataderge," but right after told me to come back when I got money. Guilt kept me from her, but it triggered a total spiral. I walked 4 hours (5–10 km a day) checking over 50 parlors from Atlas to 22. 90% had repulsive women with bad makeup, so I never went through with it. It just became an addiction where my spidey senses forced me to scout.
Until today. I found a place overcrowded with young, pretty girls. One girl was a dead 10/10—about 20, light-skinned, petite, looked like a church girl, but her personality was pure "Super Freak".
I offered 1k for no sex. She cleaned me with baby oil and wipes, and almost gave me head before I stopped her ("No head, it's not safe"). I kept kissing her neck until she said it was off-limits cause guys try to choke her. I tried rubbing her clit, couldn't find it, and asked, "Yet debekeshew new?" She giggled, said her dabo is very small and way down, and told me to stop cause it heats her up.
Then she said, "Let me fuck you with my tits." She gave me a boob job and made me nut quick, wiped me down, giggled, and walked out naked.
Meeting her got me hooked like fucking meth. I've been giggling all day. Lord help me, I'm fully addicted. Has anyone else been hooked on this scouting cycle? Please share your experience on how you actually stopped.
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Selam and bother yaderegegn ngr ale relationship wst honachu betam kemtafekruat weym kemtoduat fkregnachu wey dmo ga three some tadergalachu i mean ya hasab alachu yemtoduatn set ye wendochn opinion mesmat felgalew
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This vent is specifically for those jobless men who terrorize girls; there is NO gender war here, so let's keep it peaceful and skip the arguments.‼️
Dealing with the taxi drivers, "ወያላ" guys, and jobless men in Addis is a daily nightmare that genuinely tests your patience, especially when their fragile, inflated male egos take over the entire space. It is sickening how two random guys can just block your way on the street, tossing out vile comments while you stand there furious but paralyzed, followed by another useless guy forcing a conversation on you when you are clearly silent, as if your existence belongs to him. Living under this suffocating patriarchy means women can't even walk a block without feeling a wave of pure terror because of these ill mannered men, completely trapped in a reality where men with absolutely nothing going for them use intimidation as a power trip. There is this exhausting brand of toxic masculinity here where men would rather waste an hour of your time, scream, and act out than admit they are wrong, and even if people tell them to stop, they get so aggressively defensive because their small minds cannot handle accountability. What do they even get out of this twisted power trip, and why are we girls supposed to coddle and explain basic decency to grown men like they are babies just to keep ourselves from being harmed? It leaves you looking at the chaos of this city and constantly wondering: when will it ever be safe for us to just exist, walk, and breathe without looking over our shoulders? It is utterly infuriating how these insecure boys wearing oversized egos expect absolute submission and respect while giving zero basic decency in return, forcing us to live in constant fear of the very streets we call home. How do girls even deal with such stuff on a daily basis without losing their minds, and what is the best advice for surviving this madness?
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Hello everyone,
I really need your advice because I'm struggling with something.
I love my girlfriend very much, and we have a good relationship. The problem is that I can't stop thinking about her past. Before we met, she had previous relationships. I asked her about them, and she was honest with me. I appreciate her honesty, but after hearing the details, I became deeply hurt.
Sometimes I hear people talking about her and her exes, and it makes me overthink even more. I keep asking her questions about her past, even though I know the answers only make me feel worse. I don't want to hurt her or damage our relationship, but I can't seem to stop thinking about it.
I don't want to leave her because I truly love her. I just want to find a way to accept her past and stop letting it control my thoughts and emotions.
Has anyone experienced something similar? How did you overcome these feelings? Any sincere advice would mean a lot to me.
Thank you for reading.
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I am afraid that the population difference between the male agnostics and female agnostics is too wide, I don't see myself married. I don't want to settle on a religious woman, definitely on an atheist tho. I can't sat this confidently but I don't think agnostic or athiest girls would even want to start a family and have kids.
Real concern
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Here to vent about my recent fumbling incident.
2 weeks ago ,I was at the bank and I was kind of vibing with the mobile banking lady. She was giving me special treatment and all. And at the end she slips me a paper with a number with her name on it. My dumb ass figured she wanted me to repay her kindness and I end up sending her some cash on telebirr. I figure today she wanted me to ask her out😅.
Might as well die virgin at this point.
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Hey guys,I'm 27 F ,I really need your advice to make a decision ,ena tarikun asatre snegrachihu kelju gar abren new yemnseraw betegenagnen be 3 werachin fkr jemern ena ahun amet limolan new ene lesu yefkr smet endalegn awkalehu gnnn ye edme gap alen esu 41 ametu new ena yhe neger yrebshegnal esum yeteredagn ymeslegnal gn be edme mknyat titeshign kehedsh egodalehu ylegnal esu betam yewah tru afkari ena smeten yemiyakebr melkam sew new esun sasib degmo edmewun eresalehu gn ahun lay gra gebtognal pls mn endemtasbu ngerugn 🙏
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When writing the vent, I did not expect that I would be inviting all the wannabe psychotherapists to throw around all the buzz-words they know yet can not explain any further, to try psycho-analyze me. I mean y'all tried sooooooooooooo hard😭 I will not bother myself with this anymore. God damnnnnn...
And funny to think black people themselves calling me insecure and shit while I was there to try and express the beauty in their color... Go deal with that giant on your own, but please don't smear that shit on me.
Yeah, I might have sounded I have some hate towards LS people, but if you could process more than 3 lines of thought at a time(why I break my writing into paragraphs btw😂), it was very evident that I loved them as much as DS people. White boys coming in my comment section and being whiny bitches is all on you.
I tried very hard to not make things personal. I felt the need to be humble. But to hell with that since I am being accused of insecurity and since everyone was trying to make me feel that way. I got no reason to be, never been concerned about my appearance. I have always been beautiful, it is something I knew and heard all my life since childhood; dimples, big eyes, beard, jawline, dark curly hair, smart brain, sense of humor, and cherry on top, I am 6 foot 3! I am down-right a charming person who is automatically admired by women and men wherever I go. I am a socially high-performance person who command and cultivates respect, love and admiration wherever I go with whomever I end up with, old or young. Never felt like anyone was better than me(I am sure you will still keep seeing insecurity, only because that is what you want to see and you have your own stuff to deal with). I am just acting this way to drive a point home enji, I never think anyone is lesser than me, I am actually an empathic and kind person who helps people feel beautiful, appreciated and loved; that is my personality. Simply beautiful inside and outside with absolutely no reason to hate myself and all the reasons to be mad in love with myself.
As someone who views my color as beautiful as any other, and as someone who has accepted himself as who he is for who he is outside his physical appearance, my sentiment towards myself would have been exactly the same, whether if I was lighter or darker.
And the way y'all took the line about my mom "ruining" my dads "black genes", it might be just a miscommunication or a concerning peek towards your very limited context windows. It was taking my next generation in to consideration, and I have expressed it will be great either way right then and there. I love any woman the same just for who she is regardless of her color and the color of the kids we can have.
My only concern, if it can even be classified as one, was that other DS people did not share such a sentiment. After reading the og vent, it made me look back at my own dating history and everyone that expressed their interests. It made me realize most of them were highly LS girls, even arabs and caucasians. I admired everything about them, our color did not matter the least in our relationship. But this history also made me think, compared to what I have with the LS girls, the chemistry I have with DS girls was almost non-existent. It made me feel like the sentiment described in that girl's vent might be shared by more people than I realized, or maybe I am just not their type, and guess what? I AM OK WITH IT! May be ample amount of DS girls feel like they are lesser and feel the need to "fix" their children with a LS person, and I was trying to point the wrong in that, trying to help them find their own beauty and love it.
Anyways, what a futile attempt, am I right?
Final assignment, define slave mentality; without ChatGPT, of course. By that, I also don't mean you can use another chatbot, use your brains please.
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Hey guys i hope y'all are doing good. What im about to say is kinda selfish and i might maybe doesn't make a sense but please let's keep it positive and try to understand me a lil bit. And ladies i want you opinion on it.
So im 25 yo guy kinda of a hard worker but couldn't be able to save a penny because of helping my parents. It's been almost 2 year since i started working but i have nothing saved on my acc. So let's get back to what i wanna say, i had a girlfriend, she wasn't my type or a girl that i thought would be my friend let alone be with her, we become friends an expectedly, i was super into gambling and stuff back then and she used to send me money and stuff and like i would ask her whatever i want and she will do that so i thought to my self if i make her my girlfriend i won't even think about money or things anymore and i asked her ti be my gf and she said yes. I was so shocked i mean i wasn't expecting her t say yes because i was like not in a good place back then, i was kinda depressed too and that was why i wanna her to be with me more then money because she keeps me company and after that yes it was hard for me i was even thinkingabout a way of breakingup with her without hurting her because she was all in and i couldn't love her even the smallest bit. But i used to care for her because she was 17-18 and i was 21.Some way a long the way my love for her got like crazier level like i couldn't even spent a day without talking to her like man the way she misses me like the way i imagine us in the future together, i basically day dream about her( ik it weird of me saying this, some guys might see me as this simp but man when i miss her it'll make me cry like i couldn't control my self) and we used to get into a fight because of that i mean she used to cry whenever i didn't picked up the phone or something but when i loved her harder her love seemed like nothing for me like i started getting mad and stuff, it seemed like she doesn't love me anymore. I even told her that and she said that i don't believe her and i have a trust issues. Becha fast forward we are no longer together anymore, i broke up with her because i was mad, because i thought i meant nothing to her compered to what i was doing to be with her. but i really really love her very much, all of my girl friends friends(2) we were friends like childhood friends they don't want her for me they kept telling me that she isn't beautiful bech the kept tellme her flaws loke how her hands aren't clean or how a girls hand should looks like and hiw short she is.( guys please please im not body shaming or idk what it's called but im not saying anything bad 😔) i mean i loved her still do with all of those flaws. I kinda looks good compered to her i even had beautiful ex's but man idk what she did to me i couldn't stop thinking about her( imagine she is the total opposite of someone i thought i would end up with) but lately i kept thinking that i might find someone more beautiful and my type but uff man that's so scary because i don't wanna lose her i wanna marry her( this other finding a beautiful girl feeling came because whenever we break up she wouldn't do anything about it, i mean if i say let's break up she'd say okay, and when i ask her to get back she'd say okay, like that got me worried you know what uf she doesn't love me anymore. Our love is full depends on my want and i didn't like that, imagine i have a chance of being with someone else but i kept breaking up with her then getting back together
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Hey Dad,
I know you'd probably never read this, and even if you did, I don't think you'd care. So I'll just say it here.
For 24 years, all I ever wanted was for you to love me the way you loved my sisters. Everything I did was to make you proud. I even studied the degree you wanted because I thought maybe then you'd finally see me.
Maybe being the only child you had out of wedlock was enough for you to decide I wasn't worth much. But I never asked to be born.
I still remember being at university, so sick I couldn't eat for days. My friend had to call you because I couldn't even help myself. I'll never forget that day.
You had money. You still do. You spoiled my four sisters, drove them to college every morning, gave them everything they needed. Meanwhile, I couldn't even afford a taxi. Sometimes I'd beg you for money, and if you sent anything, it'd be a little once in a while just to get by.
It's been a year since I graduated. I'm still unemployed. I'm sleeping on someone else's couch. I never thought I'd know what it feels like to be broke while having a rich father.
The crazy part is you could never deny I was your son. I look exactly like you.
Maybe that's why I've promised myself something. When I have a family, my kids will never have to wonder if their dad loves them. They'll never have to earn my attention or beg for my approval. My wife will never feel alone while I'm still alive. I'll give them everything I spent my whole life looking for.
I'll make it out of this. I have to.
I just wish I knew what it felt like to have a father.
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Hey everyone um I need you guys to help me out on something. First time venting and I'm an IT 3rd yr student ena I don't code mnm malet nw ena I'm not even trying and I'm starting to get stressed dmo bahun seat rasu ala temre bcharis will I get sra even internship? Idk ena mn lmar like cyber security eyasebku nw cuz bzu sew vibe coder eyehone silehone ena gn idk from where to start idk my interest bka hule mechenek bcha nw sraye dmo since its IT people always say ur gonna be a teacher ena pls cyber security mimar sew or slesu miyak sew pls let me know in the comments. I really need this help me yemtchlu
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