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Can We Try Not To Silence Ppl Who Are Fighting Against Sexual Violence Just Bcz Of The Hatred Towards Feminism Like Pls Pls Pls Ewnet Sgat Let Negn 😐

So yesterday i was talking to some old classmate of mine he sent me a reel about feminism and i told him that am a feminist and he was like " u r too pretty to be a feminist " was that supposed to be a compliment idk 😅 and read some vent kind of blaming feminism on some ridiculous thing and i was like come on people

Why do people have such a skewed view on it, i mean i get it the "western feminism" could have ideologies which doesn't sit right with the majority of us. But no the western feminists could be the ones running that movement but it doesn't መወከል the core idea of feminism which is equal rights and opportunities for men and women. And Afro feminism is more about that and fight against sexual violence what is there to hate about is then huh
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When i talk to ppl who are anti feminists tbh they all support the basic and core idea of feminism but idea of " western feminism" has blindsided them do i blame them NO bcz the media could be triggering the way the feminists convey their ideas in an aggressive manner, some of them have ጭፍን የወንድ ጥላቻ, and kind of unreasonable competition with men, all the hook up culture. so all these have ጥላሸት መቀባት on feminism but no it's not abt that alright, we gotta differentiate some feminists from feminism come on it's like hating the whole religion just bcz some religious figures are doing a thing in which the religion didn't stand for

Eshi for guys like i said i understand and try not to be judgmental, but girls who call themselves anti feminist.... What is that ewnet it makes me sad, I've a couple of friends who are betam anti feminists and their argument is it shakes the nuclear family, it's anti marriage, it creates a friction between men and women out there, and betammmm miyanadegn is when they say it has done it's part and now we don't need it it's getting destructive at this point mnamn, befetari sm 😫 what do u mean የተማርሽ ሴት የሆንሽው, እንደዚ ራሱ በነፃነት ምታወሪው is all due to feminism eko.

Personally snegrachu yes am a feminist but i like it when a guy leads, I'd like to cook and clean for my family, i want to take care of my kidss and husband, I'd like to do anything for him if that's going to make him feel like a wend i don't mind, i love men let alone hate them, life is so borrringggggg wz out u guys for us, we need u betam ewnet 😊 gn this all depends on the type of guy he is i mean if he got that I'm superior just bcz am a guy attitude then no. Let's just nake it a common sense dekmogn kegebahu from work እቃውን አጥበህ and ምግብ ሰርተህ ብጠብቀኝ i'd appreciate it and in this economy i don't expect u to be the sole bread winner and wpuld likw to help u out u know It's not ፉክክር here it's partnership and lelelaw maseb alright

So chgru just bcz people have forgotten the core idea of feminism and people who are fighting against sexual violence like jordi ( my baby❤️) mnamn are being silenced and negeru eyetedafene endayhed feralew ewnet😔 can we try to see the bigger pic here
ነገ እህትህ or ልጅህ ብትደፈር አንተ ዛሬ በመልካቸው እና በእድሜያቸው ምታሸማቅቃቸው feminists nachew wetew michohulh

So the point of my vent is
1 let's not forget the core idea of feminism
2 ladies try not to hate on it pls i swear it gives pick me 🙄

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Hey y’ll i really really need your help on this my mom died when i was 15 n before she died my dad was cheating on her n i saw all of things like all texts photos staff n she’s hurted too much n i was starting hating him and now she’s dead I’m 20 rn for the past 4y he’s doing same thing even not same rasu it’s worse when i see hes phone im gonna see d… pic a lot of girls chat staff weird texts malet weird slachu betam kefafi mibalu wetatoch rasu endezi aytsfum betam yemayhon yemayhon neger new mayew then my sister is epileptic i had a migraine panic attack n i hate him betam betaaaam yehone neger tefetro sinageregn i can’t handle it kbr yelegnm lesu bet wst sinor yichenkegnal I’ve to work ahun lay but 1 sra bcha mesrat alchlm I’ve to work bzu sra bzu biyans i can move out of this house but now I can’t help your girl pls idk what to do im stressed betam I want to die even bewnet😭

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I need to vent# 17M — need honest advice from older guys (school, life regrets, experiences) If you’re just older than me, please answer one or more of these: just want real talk from guys who’ve been where I am.

1,What’s your biggest regret about high school?

2,What do you wish you’d done differently at my age?

3,What’s one life experience you’re glad happened, even though it sucked at the time?

4,What advice would you give your 17-year-old self if you could only say one sentence? No sugarcoating. I want the truth. Thanks✌🏼

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Hello I need to vent my dad is not good husband for my mom I didn’t know that much when I was a kid ,I used to heard them arguing of course but I always thought it’s normal thing that husband and wife do but when I grow older after I joined university mnamn I start to see his bad sides you know he is so manipulative , narcissistic and even a cheater I will never wish a man like him to be a husband to any woman , financially he is so good by the way We have a restaurant her brother ( my uncle) helped them to open it and she used to work with him before covid but after the pandemic she stays home and keza behuwala genzebun yemikotater esu new beka lemna teykaw beka endezh honom tnsh nger yemisetat andande gra ygebagnal esuwan mn endasnekat rasu alawukm
Legna lelijochum mnm nger madreg ayfelgm financial support aysetegnm lene le liju enuwan beka ene yesu mekina even betachn rasu yene endehone aysemagnm yelela sew new yemimeslegn ale a bekurat yedena beteseb lij negn bye awurche enkuwa alawukm because mnm nger slemayaderglgn bcha yene chgr yelewm gn when i think about her betam ykefagnal bzu gze awurtenewal enem ehtem gn mnm lewut yelem endalkuwachu he is so
manipulative ena esu rasun ende victim new yemiyayew beka bcha even esuwan divorce madreg ayfelgm besu kutiri sir hona beka yesun eji
eyayech endtnor new yemifelgew bcha bzu new lemetsaf ydekmal bcha enat ena abat yemaysmamubet bet wust yadegachihu tell me eski your experience and what shall I do

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አሁንኮ ድንገት ትዝ ብለኸኝ…እንዲሁ በኑሮ በኑሮ መሀል አንዳንዴ አስብሀለሁ።ትዝታ ግን አይገርምህም?
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ትዝታ ጎበዝ የሒሳብ ሊቅ ነው።
ይሔ ሲደመር ይሔ ..ሲደመር ይሔ…ነው እዚህ ያደረሳችሁ ይለኛል። እሺ እላለሁ።
ይሔ ሲቀነስ ይሔ…ሲቀነስ ይሔ ነው…ልብሽን ባዶ ያደረገው ይለኛል። እሺ እላለሁ።
ይሔ ሲባዛ ይሔ …ሲደመር ይሔ ..እኩል ይሆናል ይሔ መለያት ይለኛል። እሺ ነው መቼስ ለትዝታ ምን ይመልሱለታል?
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ትዝታ የአለም አንደኛ ዲፕሎማትም ነው። ይሔ ሆኗል ይሔም ተደርጓል ቢሆንም ፍቅርን የሚያህል የታል? ይላል። ያኔ ልብም አዕምሮም ለዘብ ረገብ ይሉለታል። የተኩስ አቁም ስምምነት ይፈርሙለታል። እንዲያ እያሞኘ ድል ይረታል። እንጂ እኔ አሁን አንተን ላስብ ይገባል? በፍፁም!
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ትዝታ እግዜር የጎበዝ ዕድሜ በደላችንን ያይደል የልጅነት የወተት ጥርሳችን እያሰበ ይቅር እንደሚለን ለማስታወስ በልብ ያስቀመጠው ህቡዕ ቋንቋም ይመስለኛል።

ለዛ ነው መሰል ሰው ነፍሱ ስጋውን ስትሰናበት ለሰከንድ በህይወት ሳለ የሰራው ዋና ዋና ነገር summary ይቀርብለታል አሉ። ችግሩ ያኔ ‘take me back to the night we met’ን እየዘፈኑ መመለስ የለም።
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ስለዚህ ዛሬ አስብሀለሁ። ወደተዋወቅንበት ፀደይ ዘመን እየሔድኩ ደግ ደግህን እደግማለሁ።

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for the sake of being accepted, for the sake of to appear as logical and cool, i had to abandon my emotions. he was the finally good thing that happened in my life. i don't know how to tell you guys. there is no i loves yous or the flowers or the gifts. there is just deep connection ... or so i think, may be that is just on myside.

the conversation we have, i have never opened up to anyone else, i mean 1+ hrs on the phone talking about everything? i used to roll my eyes in every person that does that. who does talk for 1+hrs? i do. i damn do!! i guess karma has a way of payback. every time i am in his presence, i can finally be me.... the vulnerable me, the me that no one has ever seen, the me that is out when no one is watching, when no one is there. no, it is not what you think; lose control, act clingy, dance crazy, whine baby, silly funny.... no the other me, the one who is fine with the things she doesn't know, the one who is calm, relaxed, my laugh comes naturally, my thought some how not filtered, my emotion not acted, the one who actually thinks is beautiful... the one that is not insecure, .......being with him just felt right. but that is just me i don't have the slightest clue what he feels when he is with me and that is the most scary thing.

yeah, he is crazy, in the most amazing way possible.... there is this façade that i can see, the mask where he tries to hide himself! he got that killer smile that melts my hearts, they rare to see, but i don't mind paying the price... he is simply an angel...... how many time i have jokingly asked if he was hiding his wife or girlfriend from me because honestly guys.... who doesn't want a man like him...... ? i mean it is not like he doesn't want those things eko... it still shocks me

but yeah i can not say any of these things out in his face, i cannot act like his girlfriends.....i cannot say i love you ... because i don't know how he feels. and this is killing me. and don't get the wrong impression of my feminine ego keeping me from telling him. i did tell him... not on this detail or the million little things i feel.... it is the casual ever so "wedhalew"... i even got to point out i said it. and he gave me a very good reason for why he thinks that is not correct: timing is too soon. and he is right the timing was too soon! and now i killed my emotion and every little million feelings to be logical...... every expectation is out the door. hey, keep it cool!!

man, every end of my nerve is bussing trying to keep this cool, why didn't he text back? i don't know he is busy at work; he left me on read well, he must be tired, or he must be sleeping; phone busy when i call? hey, girl chill, he is definitely not talking to other girls hoo, he is on a phone with coworker or sth.... every inch of my nerve!!!! and by minute the day passes by minute i am losing hope.... i mean let's assume that we both feel the same way right? so what is holding him up not to say those magic words.... well, my mind is saying " why didn't he asked your hand in marriage" but we don't listen to my mind okay. may be it is still too early for him? may be he is finding a way to say it? i mean that takes time too right? may be he is till fishing.... who knows a lot of fish in the sea these days, there is nothing much more i can give him than my trust, and my love....i don't even wanna be financial independent or be an independent woman at all " my stupid conservative ass' to blame for this.... so yeah a loooot of bigger and better fish in the sea...

lord, this is not a way keeping it cool right? owww let's just blame it on my period .. or let's say that it is a butt vent, you know likehe butt dial one.... one last thing i want to say. to a feminism and modern dating shenanigans, thank you a million because amma lose a man that i love, and there iss nothing more i can do.

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From the moment I saw him, he caught my attention. That was a little over two months ago. I remember looking at him and thinking he was cute. I ended up getting a job where he worked, and he was one of the managers there.
What's strange is that he's not even my usual type. He's not someone I would normally go for. But there is something about him that I can't explain. Somehow, he found a way into my mind and decided to stay there.
It's been two months and eight days, and even though I only saw him about two days a week, I have thought about him every single day. I keep telling myself it's not that deep, but no matter how much I try, I can't stop thinking about him.
I've dreamed about him more than eight times. That's what confuses me the most. There have been people I thought I was in love with, and I never dreamed about them this much. Seeing the same person over and over in my dreams feels strange. Sometimes it makes me wonder if there is some kind of connection between us, some energy that I can't explain.
I constantly wonder what he thinks about me. Does he ever think about me? Does he feel anything when he sees me? I don't know.
The thing is, he gives mixed signals. There was another girl we worked with, and they would flirt, joke around, and play-fight. She told me herself that they flirted and that she kind of liked him too. She also said he gave her mixed signals. I never told her how I felt about him. I would just listen whenever she talked about him.
That's why part of me thinks maybe this is just how he is with everyone.
But when I saw them talking, I felt something. There were days when I would go into the restroom and cry because of it. I hated feeling that way.
What makes this even harder is how much his attention affects me. I could be having a great day, but if he was there and didn't come talk to me the way he usually did, my whole mood would change. Suddenly, I would feel this heavy feeling in my chest. It's like something was blocking my heart, and I couldn't shake it off.
I know thinking about him isn't changing anything, but somehow I always end up thinking about him again. I wish I could ask him directly: Why can't I stop thinking about you? Why are you always in my mind? Why are you in my dreams? Do you ever think about me too?
Yesterday was his last day. He didn't come talk to me the way he usually would. He felt distant, although maybe I'm overthinking it. I honestly don't know anymore.
I've cried a lot. I've tried distracting myself by talking to friends and focusing on other things, but even when I'm distracted, he's still somewhere in the back of my mind.
The truth is, I think part of me feels like I'm not good enough for him. I don't know why. I know better than that, but the feeling is still there. I don't think I'm his type, and maybe that's one reason his attention matters so much to me.
Now that he doesn't work there anymore, I don't know if I'll ever see him again. Part of me thinks he'll never reach out. Another small part of me, maybe 1%, believes that he might talk to me now that he's gone.
And that's what drives me crazy: not knowing.
Not knowing what he thinks. Not knowing what he feels. Not knowing if any of this was real for him too, or if it only existed inside my heart.

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I don't know what I'm doing wrong I've always wanted something real ever since like 9th grade when other guys hormones were acting up and only had one thing in mind I was always thinking about how much love I'd shower my girl with. But I grew up had a horrible heartbreak in highschool became a player of sorts never did anything really but would always talk to girls up until the point where I knew they wanted me and just leave, maybe I was trying to numb the feeling of not being good enough for no one... but now am in uni and want something tangible a partner in life of sorts im not saying we spend every single minute together rather the person that I know will always be there for me at the end of the day.. my person, and it's legit been years since I stopped messing around and started living in solitude, not by choice.. but because I decided it wasn't fair to the girls dragging them along when I don't see myself going the distance with them, that led to me basically cutting out all female characters from my life, now am stuck in this loop, I don't really talk to random girls cuz first I have an insane fear of rejection and second in my mind I'd rather wait for the girl I'm going to go the distance with, but the thing is I've had this mindset for so long I legit forgot how to talk to girls I don't freeze up ik how to keep a convo going but I don't know how to get a girl to like me, ik it's not cuz of looks cuz girls kinda approach me here and there, but they wait for me to meet them halfway but I'm just the nice guy that can't get a girl to fall for him am I that boring😐idek at this point... maybe it's the fact that am a stoner, Ik it takes away my motivation on everything in general just wanna stay home all day watching sitcoms, becha idk why I'm writing this erasu maybe need to let it out gn ya... am screwed and there seems to be no end in sight.

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Hello y'all I'm female a 1st year student ast aastu if u know Addis abeba science and technology and I was thinking of choosing the electromechanical engineering(mechatronics)which is giving to about only 4 or 5 universities in ethiopia and is it worth it I was thinking to choose it as my department because I love robotics and machineries and as I have software knowledge I can build my skill but I was thinking wt oppotunities will I get and as I wanted to start the practical work from the starting point of 2nd year  are there internships or any clubs or community in my field that I can grow even make astartup I wanted to work and to the side with software development amd also I want to build more on my skill of development in game development and apps anyone suggest me any traininngs or camps I actually already was in insa summer camp for this year I'm thinking diffrent and best training spots or internships .pls help ur girl out

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Am 26 M

So here is the thing i need advice, am 26 I got a job, still live with my parents, i have never been in a relationship, I am a religious person( senbet temari), am asking for girls to text me or what not but I want to ask, I feel incomplete like I am missing something or someone, I have friends , but not best friends, I feel like getting into a relationship( to marry) may fix that but I stopped and think, marriage is a big step and its not like you get right into marriage, you have to get a girlfriend first, am an introvert so you get my point, and so I need advice, what should I do? Fix myself first or look for that special person (if they exist).

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Male 28! So today I decided not to date, not to be in a relationship and not to get married! Men I’m so sick and tired of this capitalist society, the fuck is wrong with yall endee. Nowadays To be in a relationship I have to constantly fulfill your expectations, needs, wants, fantasies, desires! Demo the competition 🤦‍♂️ I have to always keep this act in order to be seen as a desired candidate to your cult. Yehen hulu adrege rasu “owww your not my type” mebalem ale hahahahaaa! I feel like we are becoming a product! “Pick me, I’m a very handsome man with a good smelling perfume”
“Pick me, I’m a smart dude with lots of degrees”
“Pick me, I’m rich. I own businesses”
“Pick me, I’m very religious and I’m very vulnerable”
“Pick me, I’m a bad boy. I even don’t believe in God”
Betam nw miyasazenew!
I don’t want to play this game of capitalism, I don’t want to be a product. I don’t want to suffer so I have stepped out of this nursery willingly and I hope y’all have a great life of pretending!

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ይድረስ ለእግዚአብሔር
ለኔ ግድ እንደሌለህ ወይም እኔን እንደማትወደኝ እርግጠኛ ነኝ...እድሜ ልክ በአንተ ትዕዛዝናት እና ህግጋት ጠብቄ በቻልኩት መጠን ኖርያለው። እኔ እንከን የማይወጣለት ወይ ደግሞ ኃጢአት ሰርቼ አላውቅም አላልኩም። ነገር ግን ሆን ብዬ አስቤ የሰራኹት ተንኮል እና ክፋት የለም! አንተ ግን እኔ ላይ መከራ ላይ መከራ, ችግር ላይ ችግር ከመደራረብ ውጪ ለኔ የፈየድከው ነገር ምን አለ? ነጋልኝ ስል ሁልጊዜ ራሴን ጨለማ ውስጥ አገኘዋለው። አንድ ቀን የአንተን መልካምነት የአንተን ፍቅር ውስጤ ተሰምቶኝ አያውቅም ። ስለ ሌለህ ላይሆን ይችላል ወይ ደግሞ ለኔ ግድ ስለሌለህ ነው። ወይ ደግሞ ስለምትጠላኝም ይሆናል። ከዚህ ሁሉ ገድለኸኝ ብትገላገል አይሻልም ነበር?? እኔ በዚህ ስቃይ ውስጥ እንደ ኢዮብ የምማረው ወይ ደግሞ አንተን የማመሰግንበትም ምክንያት የለኝም። እኔ ኢዮብ አይደለሁም። እኔ ሁሉ ነገር እንዲያበቃ በመጠባበቅ ላይ ነኝ። ፀሎቴን ሰምተህ እንደማትመልስ ይህንንም ደብዳቤ እንደማታነበው እርግጠኛ ነኝ። ምክንያቱም ለኔ ግድ የለህም።

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Selam everyone,

I really need some honest advice from people who understand this situation, especially medical students, doctors, or anyone who knows about EDU.

I am currently a 3rd-year medical student at a government university. Academically, I am doing well and I am among the top students in my class. But behind that, there is a struggle that many people do not see.

My family is facing serious financial problems. Every semester feels difficult. Even basic living expenses can become a burden. While I am trying to focus on my studies, I am always thinking about the sacrifices my family is making to keep me in school. Sometimes the pressure becomes very hard mentally and emotionally.

Recently, I saw the transfer opportunity to Ethiopian Defence University and applied online. Honestly, it felt like a great opportunity. The monthly allowance and guaranteed salary would reduce a huge burden on both me and my family. For the first time, I could stop worrying about basic expenses and maybe even help my family financially. I also respect the idea of serving my country.

However, one thing keeps bothering me: the 7-year mandatory military service after graduation.

If I transfer, I will be committing many years of my life to the military system. My dream has always been to go as far as possible in medicine, become a specialist, and build a better future for myself and my family. I worry that such a long service commitment might limit some opportunities in the future.

So now I feel stuck between two difficult choices:

Option 1: Stay at my current university, continue facing financial difficulties, but keep more freedom and flexibility after graduation.

Option 2: Transfer to Ethiopian Defence University, get financial stability and support now, but commit to military service for many years.

For those who know the reality of EDU, military medical training, or have faced a similar decision, what would you do if you were in my position?

Do you think it is better to continue struggling financially for a few more years and keep my future options open, or should I take the opportunity in front of me now and accept the long-term commitment?

I would truly appreciate any honest advice.

Thank you.

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I used to have friends who i like spending time with but now we are all in different path i guess . Im looking for women my age who are likeminded as me im 24F i would like to meet women only 24-27 genuine and kind person and are interested in making money trying to improve themselves financially and who like going out and having fun and making memories.

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Disclaimer..... I've a man 😅
So when i was a freshman at Uni which is 7 yrs ago i guess🤔, i had this guy friend and አብረን ካላጠናን blo asmetagn 😁and we did upto ምሳ ሰዓት then while we were eating he showed me a movie and in that movie the girl was tied by a rope and i think he was making her beg to go all in and ልጁ siyasayegn i was like በየሱስ ስም አላይም😂 mnamn bye gefahut slkun but i did see some part of it and at that time i was really innocent i didn't even have my first kiss keza gn leka አምሮዬ ለይ ተቀርሷል ena after sometime i started fantasizing abt it and i discovered it's some BDSM mnamn thing, yes in general am a submissive woman i know that gn i don't see myself getting chocked, slapped, spitted on owwww hell naw 🙄 but i think i like the soft things meselegn and recently i was reintroduced by a guy to the idea ena i was thinking...... Hmmm i think I'd like it bye gn i swear i tried to google it google ley the hard things nachew yalut
So i was like better ask ppl in this channel, what are the non aggressive things in a submissive dominant sexual relationship

Ena tyaqewoche are
1 endezi aynet dynamic ley yalu ppl generally in z relationship new or just in the bedroom or it depends? Like does it include weird shits like the guy choosing what the girl eats, does, wears mnamn

2 endalkuachu tell me the soft things to do in the bedroom or outside ( u know choking and slapping are rly hard for me and i can't get myself to do even the slightest thing if i don't feel loved) and can u choke a slap her while u love her

3 sub-dom mnamn malet isn't it cringe for u guys or is it just me am generally cringe tolerant gn i can't yhenn 😅

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Hello,20F
Lately I've been thinking a lot about marriage. Not the wedding, not the photos, not any of the flashy stuff people usually focus on. Just the idea of having someone by your side who fears Allah, has a kind heart, and brings peace into your life.

Maybe it's because of the things I've seen around me, but it feels like genuine intentions are becoming harder to find. Sometimes I wonder if I'm old-fashioned for wanting something simple and halal. I'd rather wait for the right person than spend years getting attached to people who were never serious to begin with.

Maybe I'm overthinking it, but am I the only one who feels this way?

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Have you ever wondered who you would call even though you know people?
Today,that was what happened to me. I was struggling financially( as many campus students) and guess what ? Parents are out of question and I had to go out of my way to call some people only to be meet with rejection.

Poverty sucks and I got none on my account. Easier to say it here

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Hi 25 f so I was wondering lately want to settle down not want to advance in my Carrier just want to get merried have kids and watch them grow the plot twist is I hate dating and not even on relationship is this thing come with age I really want to be named some one wife some one mother I know it's not up to me but after my last relationship failed just want one person to date and Marry no drama just simple life but don't know how to get out of my head this days to trust someone and everyone feels like they are going to be my soul mate has any one felt like this or my mind is creating a dellimma I can't escape

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This morning I woke up and felt the same as I was feeling when I went to bed hours ago, yaw linega sil sletegnahu. And I wanted to vent, cuz I have thought of every single way I could break this pattern and didn't seem to be able to get up and do any of them. Soo.... I just thought of typing this shit on my pc and sharing it with this ton of ppl then I would be relieved. But then I remembered I deleted this channel months ago cuz I felt like I met the one person that I could be friends with, that could understand me and is going through the same shit like me, and I didn't want to talk to anyone new. But now he is not here, and I am grieving even if I just knew him for what? 3 months maybe..


Anyways... that's not what I want to talk about to be honest. So... I joined the channel again and started typing this letter to the unknown whole grp of ppl....... and then I couldn't seem to write more than a sentence, and the deleting and typing cycle started and I found myself where I am overthinking again, I said why I am even here? Wtf am I thinking? will this ppl really help me? will they show me a real trick how to get out of this? Ik there are some real advices ppl share here and those really help, I am not denying the fact that talking to ppl helps a lot. But its not that I don't know what to do its just I don't have the courage to do it.... I am trapped with my insecurities, the thought that no body cares and I need to get my shit together and get out of this lonely, depressed phase of my life and just live a little. The fact that depression is invisible to ppl who don't feel it is just so hard cuz everyone wants you to function normally.


I am yapping all over again right? Sorry guys, anyways I stopped typing and deleted everything and started to read vents and comments (bet most of you had done that asp) then I kept looking for answers in those pieces of writings, commented on some, read some to the end and skipped a lot.

So when I at last get to the point why I decided to vent.... Its because many of us are in the same phase, depressed af, lonely, confused and lost.... They say 20's are when you'll feel so lost cuz you'll be trying to figure things out, but this is fucked up, why are we all circling in the same fucking loop and could not get out of our heads, at first I thought I needed someone to help me but then I realised there is no one capable of doing that cuz everyone is trapped in the same fucking feeling, why is it all the same, every single vent I went to (ofc those related to depression) were the same, its so obvious that it has a pattern and its some kind of power over us that makes us feel the same.

Am I going insane?😅😅

What am tryina say is that we need to fucking wakeup and see its not about us, its not about how our life is and how our mind is wired. Its just us not holding onto God, and losing faith in what we had once. This digital addiction, ppl becoming more selfish and we, not knowing how to cope up.. My grandma always used to say get up and do something when I said I was bored, I mean keeping yourself busy might seem distracting urself, not a solution, but sitting down and just ruminating is also not the solution.


I wish there would be some kinda way we could help each other.... but what I've found out is that we can't, everyone has to fix this in his own cuz we're different ppl and our needs and thoughts and everything are all different.

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Hey guys 23 F ena mn meselachu bezi amet msc echersalew ena from my past relation i swore not to date until i graduate. Ahun gn eyeferahu nw like kezi behuala manm miwedegn mnamn aymeslegnim. I am a bit religious( like senbet temari) manm ena kezi behuala fikregna minoregn eyemeselegn aydelem like manm miwodegn eyemeselegn aydelem mn temekrugnalachu

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Title: I am a fresh graduate and I feel like I am losing myself

I do not even know where to start. I am a fresh graduate. I have a degree in Accounting and Finance with a 3.84 GPA. I worked hard. I thought that would be enough.

I moved to Addis Ababa alone because there are no opportunities in my hometown. I thought if I went to the capital, I would find something. I was wrong.

I have been applying to jobs for weeks. HEINEKEN. UNDP. Dashen Bank. Abay Bank. CCCCC. Dodai. Yegna. Ayuda en Acción. So many applications. I have lost count. I built my CV from nothing. I wrote cover letters. I filled out endless forms. I did everything right.

No one calls.

I have no money. I have no place of my own. I have been staying with relatives, but they keep kicking me out. One day I am welcome. The next day I am a burden. I have been thrown out before. I am about to be thrown out again.

And then someone called me. A man. He said he would get me hired. He met me at a café. He made me believe. He said "wait for me." I waited. He disappeared. He never came back. He did not even send a message.

I feel so stupid. I trusted him. I let myself hope. And now I cannot even start my Monday. I had a plan. I had an imagination of how my week would go. He ruined it. He ruined my courage.

I am tired. I am not just tired of being hungry or tired of being broke. I am tired of being strong. I am tired of smiling and saying "I am okay" when I am breaking inside.

I feel like I am losing myself. The girl who graduated with a 3.84 GPA is still in there somewhere, but I cannot find her anymore.

I do not know who to trust. I do not know if anyone will ever keep their word. I do not know how much longer I can keep going.

I just needed to say this somewhere. Thank you for listening.

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Keyet lijemr ene betam sew avoid aregalew alakim lemn endehone sew miwedegn kemeselegn wedalew endemiwedugn sinegrugn gn yastelagnal sile wend sayhon setochim bihonu alakim bicha kelibe yastelagnal kenesu ga mehon mnamn gn endaydebrachew eyalku abryachew siwil demo eyetenechanechku ena eyastelagn nw miwilew endegena demo madreg malfelgewin neger bemulu sew endaykefaw eyalku aregewalew kesew ga sawera rasu ke lebaw ga ende leba kechewawoch ga ende chewa ke ebdoch ga ende ebd nw miwilew endaydebrachew judge yarekuwachew endaymeslachew gn ahun lay enes man yasbilignal enes man alegn hule sew lemasdeset nw tirete andun lemasdeset sil lelawin egodalew keza enesu endaydebrachew demo rasen godalew gn yene tiyake ene mn yahil endekefagn destegna lihun alhun erasu gid misetew ale? Enesu endidesetu sil destayen ataw lerase mnm mareg alchalkum lik enen miyasdestegn neger sareg yehone sew askefalew ene demo esun alfelgim sew menged lay yegelametegn kemeselegn rasu sikefagn nw mowilew chohe yihun mnamn eyalku ena mn lilachu nw bekagn lerase endet lihun endet ras wedad lihun sewin salgoda zare ema betam keftognal tikit neger lerase silareku lela sew endebedelku nw act miyaregut bekagn ene endet lakum😭😭


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Selam Sumuma I needed your opinion on this ok umm me and my boyfriend has been dating 3 years and it has become so boring ok he does some cute things eko gin he doesn’t party and drink and I am such a party girl and really he is a boyfriend and husband material but I want more I wanna kiss random guys and have fun with my girlfriends without him saying don’t do this and that he is a really sweet boy and such amazing family they both know each other but I feel like I’m loosing myself being with him like something is missing so please give me your comments about this

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Wassup, folks. How are you all doing? Everything’s great on my end.

I’m B. I was a strict Christian until I experienced some things last year—which I’m not going to talk about—that completely severed my connection with God. Now I’m more inclined toward atheism; it seems more plausible. I genuinely want to believe that there’s a God out there who loves me unconditionally, but there’s literally no sign of Him.

How can you just blindly believe that He exists? Isn’t religion a human-fabricated concept that exists just to create these ‘righteous’ people? How can you be certain that God exists? Do you feel God, or is He just a product of your consciousness? You say God did this for you, God did that for you—but how are the things that happened anything more than a result of your hard work or mere coincidence?

Honest answers only, please.

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Hey guys I'm 24 kemn endemjemrlachu alakm betam hatsyategna sew negn l was 12 yehone sew tewawek just fun bye mawrat antewawekm keza sle smet mawrat mnamn naked photo melak jemerku fiten salasgeba keza engenagn ena sex enarg alegn eshi alkut birr mnamn transport lakelgn keza gn sebeb fetre kerew am virgin neberku keza negerochn lemakom wesenku ena atefafche tefaw esu gn hulum neger yzo neber yasferaragn neber mmarbet school group eyegeba lklachewalew mnamn enem mefrat jemerku endtewsh video awrign alegn enem mitewegn meslogn awerahut esun video recorded argo neber keza enem campus gebaw endezam hono altewegn negeroch eyekebedugn ene slken hulunm neger stefafa keyet endemiyameta yagegnegnal yalehubetn campus aweko ezam yasferaragn jemer beseatu fkegna neberegn gn yhen menger alchalkum bcha wesgne agegnehut eyayehut atefalgn ke bedn gar bihon mifelgewn arege gn endezam alakebam hulem yasferaragnal erasen lematfatm bzu mokriyalew ahun 5 amet malet new bezi neger ssekay hulum hiwote tebelashe bezi amet mejemeriya andis sew awekugn kemnegrachu belay new mwedew mafekrew lesu lememot erasu mnm aregalew lesu bye medanit erasu wesje neber esum betam new miwedegn yatawtn yabatnet fkr kesu new yagegnehut besew bezi lk mewedednm endezam gn kenu derso yhen neger ke slke lay aye hulum neger tebelashe esunm atawt begd enen tekebelegn malet alchlm eyewededegnm tewegn nege hiwotachn ybelashal leza kahunu ykum ale wesene esun atche menor kebdognal kerasegar mehon aktognal mn mareg endalebgn.alakm memot bcha new mfelgm keza sewm endet yann neger astefat endalebgn alakm mn larg please ardugn chenkognal memot weys yann sew endet endiyatefa larg fkrens endet memeles chlalew alakm kezi hula neger maref new mfelgew

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Hello.

NEVER DATE MOMMA’S BOY

And believe that nigga when he said “ì am not a momma’s boy btw” without you asking him about anything.

They will never grow up, and if you do marry him you will raise a child without giving a birth (the child ìs your husband )

Goodbye😭.

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Yes i am 21M, and this is the truth. People think I'm experienced, and maybe I am in some ways, but that doesn't mean everything is easy. I've been hurt, and because of that, I don't really want to fall in love right now. I feel like relationships can take away my focus from the goals I'm trying to achieve. Sometimes I just wish I had someone who try new things to gain experience with out emotion who truly understands how I feel and doesn't judge me. That's all 💔😭

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Hey 25 f so how do you get out of burnout really I don't know anymore everything feels like huge mountain I can't Cross even the smallest of tasks feel huge nothing makes sense everything feels empty chasing the next step though would help new job new environment may help but at the end to burn out after 15 days and didn't want to do anything everyone feels like my enemy everything feels like draining me my energy my self esteem just want to sleep not get out of the house for while I don't know why I'm feeling that way is this what midlife crisis feels like I'm surrounded by people but no one to talk to no one to say I'm tired too tired of being the strongest one tired of being there for anyone but still showing up I Really don't know what to do how to get out of this loop can't leave this job because my parents are counting on me and logically the job is not the problem I just don't know what to do nothing makes me sense this days feels like I'm in the wrong episode and had to keep the mask on and keep playing

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Soo wassup my ppl😊
Honestly idk ket endet endemjemr so am in long distance relationship💆‍♀ I met him online Ena it have been 2 years mawrat kejemern Ena beza mehal ande be akal sangenagn befit relationship jemern🙂 then we broke up 💔keza ahun ke tnsh wer befit tegenagnen beakal temelesn ik the biggest problem is that ......going back with my ex 💃 gn atfredubgn he is my first Ena ene demo beka date yarekutn new magbat yefelekut coz teenager hogne aydelem date yarekut ...
So be akal yetegenagnenew bibesa 4te new Ena ene yalehun ke AA bibeza 2 seat menged new memtat ychlal🙂 gn anchi stmechi new tru ylegnal so ene sihed bcha new mngenagnw 🤐
Eshi esum eshi I told him bzu gize sex mareg alfelgm kemagbate befit biye eshi enem alteykshm alegn gn hulem werew esu new ehete nesh ende alegn🙆‍♀️ Honestly am really confused breakup enarg lilew elna eferalew I love him 👩‍🦼‍➡️ beza lay ldr new so bzuu commitment yfelgal biye new masbew gn wef ene negn text maregew hule kalareku ayaregm ydewlal semonun gn like 2 Samnt yalfenal be tkkl enkuan kaweran lemndnw mnamn slew hule chkchk tey ylegnal hule sawera lesu chkchk new hule🙂‍↕️😢 like tiktok likelet online tiktok eyaye endehone eyaweku ignore yaregegnal yehone fetena lay hogne mnamn good luck enkuan aylegnm amognal biyew mata benegataw teshalesh blo ayteykegnm 💆‍♀💆‍♀ lemn mnamn sl mndnw mtkebatriw ylegnal dewyelet slku tekuarto meslo aydewlm am the one melshem medewl yalebgn lemn tefak slew anchi lemn tefash ylegnal yet nek slew atakiwm bingrshm ylegnal 😕 card mulalgn biyew moltolgn keza huletegna endezi endateykign alegn😕mn wst negn be Mariam endet liwta bzu yalalkut ale ene vent mareg sew aydelewm gn mamakrew erasu ataw be mariam erdugn please 🥺🥺

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