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I think I’m honestly allergic to my own happiness. I laugh with someone for one day and then immediately feel this urge to ruin everything. It’s like I can’t stand seeing myself connected to people. I don’t know why. I just destroy it. So yaa I am that typical loner girl. I love it though.
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So YOU came to me yeah… sat me down all serious like it’s a board meeting and said:
“Listen… I want you to stay home, take care of the kids, while I go pursue my dream.”
I said rah… hold on… rewind that one more time 😭
YOU’RE telling ME… fresh after giving birth yeah… you don’t even wanna spend ONE day at home?? Not even a trial version of motherhood?? Man said you’re clocking out before the tutorial even finishes 💀
And I’m just sitting there thinking… didn’t God design certain things for a reason?? Like… breast milk isn’t some optional upgrade you ignore like “nah I’ll skip that feature” 😭 that’s literally built-in, factory settings!
But nah, you’re talking about “my career, my goals, my future” — cool cool, love the ambition… but what about the family?? What’s the point of chasing success outside when inside the house is running like a broken startup?? 😂
You really looked me dead in my eyes and said: “You can handle the home.”
Like I’m some certified nanny from or something 💀
Now I’m there imagining my life: Me → doing night shifts with bottles, singing lullabies off-key 🍼
You → out there networking, living your best life 💼✨
And the craziest part… you said it so calmly like it’s normal 😭
I’m not even saying don’t chase your dream yeah… go be great… but be serious man — family isn’t a side quest you just assign to me like: “Here bro, you handle this one, I’ll go unlock achievements.”
Because right now it’s looking like you’re building a whole career empire… while your own home base is unattended DLC 💀
Make it make sense.
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5th year arch temari negn ena im struggling with so many things right now ... to start of .. i dont hv dena pc and im struggling i cant even express it in words , i dont think i want to work with this degree i only do it for family and bcuz some part of me is afraid to quit now and also to hv the degree incase i dont know what to do with my life ... and the other part im struggling a lot abt is im in a breakup rn been 2 months but still cant get over it we r in same class also so i dont feel good when ever i see him hear his voice ... i just cant seem to get over him it physically hurts ... it hurts not able to do anything abt it becha i dont want to go in detail but words cant express the pain im feeling .. so what im saying is im thinking about withdrawing from school cus mesrat eyechalku aydelem school stuff and also when ever i see him the pain is not getting any better , it hurts me not being able to see him after i withdraw but i dont think i can do this anymore , im thinking abt learning other courses , focusing on forex trading courses,... any advice
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Hi I'm f and 19
Hello readers today I came to share sth here it goes.... so the thing is I'm a high-schooler and this year I have been getting lots of attention on my instagram at first I was enjoying it uk and replying to ppl cuz I had no relationship whatsoever so i thought it was okay to have some fun and ended up having situations situationships three to be exact and all of them thought we'd be able to have sth but i was very clear saying that I don't want a relationship and they say they understood but they keep doing the same things and it's not like I hid the fact I'm talking with other ppl in fact I was so clear abt it and after seeing them I stopped replying to anyone cuz I understood it can be very misleading so what I want to ask os what do u guys think I should do in this situation and please be nice
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የሴት አምባገነንነት እና የወንድ ሞኝነት
የዘመናችን ትልቁ አሳዛኝ ነገር የወንድ ሞኝነት እና የሴት ጥቅመኝነት ጋብቻ መፍጠራቸው ነው። አንተ ወንደ!.. ለማፍቀር መስፈርት የማታዋጣ ሞኝ ነህ! እሷ ግን የጥቅም መስፈርት (Criteria) አውጥታ የወንድን ልብ ሳይሆን የወንድን ኪስ ትመርጥለች!።
1, የሞራል ኪሳራ
— ጥቅመኝነት እና የውሸት ፍቅር ፤ ሴቲነተን በራስ ወዳድነት ( Ego ) ጥቅመኝነት (Advantageousness )እና አጋጣሚን በመጠቀም (Opportunistic)የተሞላ ነው።
— የጥቅም ጋብቻ፡ ሴቶች ወንድ የሚፈልጉት Economical ችግራቸው እንዲቀርፍላቸው ነው። ውላቸውን፣ ህይወታቸውን፣ ፍላጎታቸውን ይነግሩታል፤ የሱ ግን መስማት አይፈልጉም ይህ ፍቅር ሳይሆን የገንዘብ ዝርፊያ ነው።
— የውሸት ገጸ ባህሪ፡ (Artificial Character) ያላቸው Romantic የሚመስሉ አጭበርባሪ ወንዶች ይወዳሉ። ተግባር እና Serious የሆነ የሞራል ሰው አያደንቁም ይባስ ብለው ደባሪ እንደሆነ ያስባሉ። የወንድ ዝምታ ለነሱ አይናፋርነት ወይም ኩራት ነው፤ የባህሪው አካል መሆኑን አይረዱም።
— የጥላቻ ፍቅር፡ በሚያሳዩት የውሸት ፍቅር ውስጥ ጥልቅ ጥላቻ አለ። የወንድ ቤተሰብን እንደ ቤተሰባቸው አይቀበሉም ከልጃቸው ውጭ ያሉትን ልጆች እንደ ልጅ አያዩም። ሴት ለሴት ያላቸው እርስ በእርስ መናከስ አስመሳይነታቸውን ለማየት በቂ ነው።
2, የፌሚኒዝም እና የበታችነት ስሜት ፤ ፖለቲካ ፍልስፍና ሲወራ የሚደብራቸው ሴቶች
— የማይስማሙበት ነገር ከተናገርክ ይጠሉሃል በ logic አይሞግቱህም የ Dialectics አቅማቸው ሲበዛ ትንሽ ነው። ጠጠር ያለ ወሬ ሲወራ ያሳክካቸዋል Serious የሆነ ርእስ ሲነሳ ይደብራቸዋል።
— ( inferiority complex ) ትንሽ ፊደል ሲቆጥሩ ከጥራዝ ነጠቅነት አልፈው ፀረ-ወንድ ( feminism ) የዘመናዊነት አንዱ መገለጫ አድርገው ይወስዱታል። ይህ ሁሉ የሚመጣው ትልቅ የበታችነት ስሜት የተጠናወታቸው ስለሆኑ ነው ። አብዮተኞች (Revolutionary) አይደሉም ለውጥ አይወዱም!
3, የወንድ ስቃይ ትዳር ላይ ሲበዛ ያልተነቃበት ፤ አምባገነናዊ መንገድ ይከተላሉ።
— የወንዱን ሁለንተናዊ እንቅስቃሴ በቁጥጥራቸው ስር ለማድረግ በጣም ይጥራሉ። የወንድ ልጅ ስቃይ ለነሱ አንዳንዴ እንደ Orgasm ነው። ባገኙት ትንሽ አጋጣሚ እና ስልጣን ወንድን Abuse ለማድረግ ይፈልጋሉ።
— ልጆች አባት ላይ እንዲነሱ አባት ላይ ጥላሸት እየቀባች ልጆች ከአባታቸው እንዲርቁ እንዲሸሹ ታደርጋለች የወንድ የቤት ተፈጥሯዊ መሪነቱን ለመንጠቅ ይሻሉ።
—ወንድ ሁሌም Open የሆነው የወሲብ ፍላጎት ጆሮ ዳባ ብለው ባይተዋር አድርገው፣ አይኑ ሌላ ኮረዳ እንዲያማትር ይገፋፉታል። ይህ የወንድ ባህሪ ካለመረዳት የሚመነጭ ያልበሰለ አካሄድ ነው።
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አካላዊ፣ ሞራላዊ እና መንፈሳዊ ጥንካሬ በሚፈልገው ነባራዊ አለም፣ ስትወድቅ መነሳት በሚፈልገው የአለም ባህሪ የወንድ አሸናፊነት ግድ ይሆናል የሴት አምባገነንነት እና የወንድ ሞኝነት መቆም አለበት። ወንዶች አትሸወዱ!
ሐሳብ አስተያዬታችሁን " በተለመደዉ!! ኢትዮጵያዊ ጨዋነት! " አጋሩኝ።
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Keljnete jemro insecure neberkugn tlk shon yitewegna bye neber gn betam eyebasebgn meta. yehonech friend neberechgn be sewnete betam insecure aregechgn beyegizew tashemakekegn neber kechn negn gn bzum sayho mekakelegna neger negn ena betam insecure negn lela setochn gar compare aregalew ena yisemagnal. Sibeza over thinker
gn mnm bareg rasen lwed alchalkum mnm bmokr
Endet new setoch erasachun mtodut?
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Am 27M do good in my life i have question for married man if there r here and if u love ur wife.
But first let me say dome thing about my self. Never had sex,no alchol or drug......am good with women date some girl rejected by some but prefer by some to. The thing is don't beg (mababel) women if she say no or seems uninterested am out even if i like her. Since i don't desire the for temporary stuff i don't have to beg them but lately i see my friends most of them have GF i see them beging (i don't know what to call it..)
My question
1.do u thing lowering for women is necessary to get Wife?
2. If u married out of love did u put to much effert to get her was that worth it?
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What’s up? I really need advice on this. Maybe there’s someone in the same situation as me.
Here it goes: How do you show that you care about people? I mean, what does caring even mean in the first place?
I’m the type of girl who doesn’t care about other people’s business, and that behavior makes people misunderstand me. I don’t love people, but I do like them just because they’re human, not because of what they have or what they do for me. I give them the respect they deserve, but I don’t want to get deeply involved with them.
I like being alone. I like doing things by myself. It’s not that I’m introverted. I can connect with people easily but I just don’t feel the need to. When people talk about others, I lose interest. I hear them, but I don’t really listen, and later I don’t remember anything they said.
I’m always the last person to know about rumors. When people tell me things, I don’t react much, and they think I’m cold or emotionless. But that’s not how I feel inside. it’s just how I come across.
I’m very active in my work. I don’t like waiting or being late. I focus on what needs to be done and I do it well. If someone asks me for help, I help as much as I can. But after that, when they try to start a conversation, I just smile and leave. It’s not because I dislike them—I just get tired quickly.They think I’m weird.In short, I don’t enjoy long conversations, especially when they’re about other people. I don’t understand why people don’t just focus on their own lives. Why do they care so much about what others are doing. Why do they care about what I do, what I eat, or family issues? It feels so exhausting to me. Even when my mom talks about things, I just look at her without responding much, and she stops because she knows I’m not interested. But I want to care. I want to be better at connecting with people maybe it doesn’t come naturally to me. I’m also inconsistent with simple things like greeting people.Sometimes I pass by without noticing them. Other times, I say hi, but they question why I ignored them before. I honestly didn’t even see them. They tell me I should greet people, but I don’t feel like doing it. I don’t see the point of asking “How are you?” when I already know the answer will be “I’m good.” People tell me I should ask others how they are and show more interest. But to me, it feels repetitive and not meaningful. I don’t expect anything from anyone, so I don’t understand why they expect these things from me. Still, I can see that it affects them.They even get upset on my behalf when someone jokes about me, and when I don’t react, they get frustrated. I don’t understand why my reaction matters so much to them.My biggest issue is with my boyfriend. He wants me to show more emotions—like caring, jealousy, love, even anger. He says it’s part of being human. i know it is and i feel it too but my problem is showing . I think he’s getting tired of trying to change me, but he still hasn’t given up. He plans to marry me next year, if God wills it. But we are very different. He loves being around people and wants a home full of life and visitors. I, on the other hand, prefer peace, quiet, and space. I don’t hate people—I just don’t enjoy being around them for too long.
I’m not a rude or bad person. I smile, I respect others, and I help when I can. But I have limits. Being around people for too long drains me.
So… do you have any advice on how I can change myself? any suggestion ?
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Hello everyone 27m
It has been a long time since I vented. I want to vent about the things am going through so the things I was in a relationship for about a year and we broke up I asked her if we can fix it she said no like I respected her respected her boundaries. I never asked anything of her but she left me without a reason blaming because we argued I argued with her because she became cold I just wanted to know why anyways I am sad about that it has been 2 month still not talking with anyone and becoming Isolated life is becoming a little bit depressing I do two jobs I am unsatisfied with that I am trying my best to change my circumstances but I don't know why between my break up and unsatisfying job life has becoming depressing and I have no energy now a days I don't show it but am struggling deep down I just need an advice how to be alright because it is difficult for me you know loving a person trusting hurts very much
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M25 just wana take it of my chest. It’s not even about love anymore—that’s the worst part.
I act like I’m in control, but really I just want to feel something real, even if it’s messy and temporary. No expectations, just chemistry.
But it’s never simple. People play games or want more than I can give. I’m stuck in between—wanting connection, but only on my terms.It’s frustrating. You start questioning yourself.
Because it’s not just lust—it’s wanting to be desired without complications.
Maybe it’s selfish. But at least it’s honest.
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Hey i just read a girl venting about emergency pills and i'm literally crying cuz i went through the exact same thing. My story was a bit different cuz i loved my ex so much and he was like we wouldn't stay together unless we had sex, so i just kept taking the pills. The irregular periods and mood swings were honestly a torture 😔
When I finally told him I couldn't take them anymore, he didn't give a damn. He just said 'No worries, just one more time.' that’s when i realized i was totally on my own. All the misery i brought to my life was from my own decisions and i was the only one who would suffer for it. I left him guess what called me an awful person.
A friend of mine also told me that even underage girls are using these pills a lot now like a lot within a week and guys are out here complaining about how 'expensive' the pills are... like really? 🙄 So girlies, take notes: no one is coming to save you. Even the guy you're with doesn't really care. At the end of the day, it’s just you, your decisions, and the emptiness you feel. You carry these wounds that you can't show anyone ❤️🩹 Don't fool yourself thinking this is love and know the fact if he really loves u, he’d never push you into this when he knows the side effects. Why would u do that to urself then? Doing this either for 'love' or pleasure is a terrible decision to make, and no one is going to save you from it 💯
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How can a girl like me survive in this country? I wanna stay virgin till I get married but I also wanna have fun and explore while still being a virgin. I don't know how that works. But yeah, that's my issue.
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Hello
20F
Am so in love with selte men like ds silu am half selte ena bka like eyadeku semta mnmn sehed hager bet they respect their women mnmn religious nachew wellahi bza becha enem selte magbate new ekede becha keep it up telyubgalachu ezim kalachu🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻
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hey yall F,27YR old ,Here iam running to my 27th year lsot in the middle not being lost but trying my best to not make regrets or mistakes that would bite me later.so speaking of my life i work in a good place thankful for it but we seek for something bigger and thing i can make my parents happy and help them live a happy life make my little siblings get a life tofether and iam applying somewhere i think i wanna see my self working i still didnt get accepted yet but itts under review but iam in the middle of it and if i get it trust me i know some part of me would be happy and i know i would make my fam happy and get them out of streess so what iam curios is that the fact i got this man i got in my life where i think no one handled my emotions ,my secrets my youth i dont know he made me feel comfort in the best way posible and i dont want to loose my best friend of long years and now my bf and we have plan on .....alot becha dont get me wrong he knows about this opportunity and he told me if i get accepted he will come with me and look for a job there but iam scared in away my gut feeling me weirdly getting abroad aint easy its something we cant just jump into for either of us and on his past his girl of 5 yrs was out for work they were talking to move there together but he didnt come to her ,he told me there werent meant for eachother and iam scared that he will again or i dont know i met his fam he met mine he came when i feel low on my happy days my worse days and i beilve i was there for him too gn yaw i dont know i have talked to him about it he obvuiosly didnt say i wont come there he said iam not leaving u anywhere so can you advise me if u were in my place.
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Almost 22 and F
I can't stand myself I feel like a loser.
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I am drunk. I live with my weird family of 3 me ,mom dad. Is it even possible to love people this much? I love them so much I pray that they live very long. I pray that they will never see my death cause I know who I am to them their only child, their joy.
I am so loved that I fear my death will cause their death.
I love them so much that I pray my life ends the day they die.
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so here is the thing I meet this guy on a dating app and then we are in a relationship now so the problem is his ex was a psychologist and everything in the relationship was her role and this guy has become a littel boy cuz of her and he expects me to fix everything, he just loves himself too much he doesn't care at all so here is the problem we kinda did intimate things and im the kinda person who loves that person and thinks this is a serious relationship and it will go till marriage, so one day I was sick he didn't ask me at all and I asked him why he didn't even care to ask or care about me anf he was like did u ask me uf i ate luch and i told him he is self centered and I don't want him to call me back so this what he did he didn't call back and I didn't too for 2 days and I kinda needed an emotional validation cuz smtng bad happend in my life and he was like I will show u how I can not calling and i shuted the phone, and yesterday I got to an accident thank God I'm not hurt and u wouldn't believe me what this nigga said he said use ice for the wound y will be okay he didn't care a flinch, I'm sorry tho it's kinda long bare with me...so I told him he either act like a man or I'm out and he was like I'm not in the mood today this was yesterday so I told him to meet me today and he said ok so I called him and he was like I don't think I can today can't we talk on the phone and I'm kinda in the thought of I should cut him with out even talking or I should talk to him, I need ur opinio guys like asap he said he will call me back at night
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22 M , Do women actually fall in love ?? , See am not perfect the women I used to date say I am too nonchalant ( too mysterious) for them and stuff but I believe that’s the reason they get drawn to me even obsess over. Here’s the thing I actually fall in love deeply , very loyal but I don’t have the tendency of showing affection, I am easy to talk to am even a good flirt, but after all this and we break up and part ways they always end up being in loving relationship almost all of them , I feel like they never loved me in the first place and am the one who’s left waiting ( the man who can’t be moved 😂 ) waiting like damn loser !!!!
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I missed you so much that you can ever imagine😭😭😭 Ik you’ll never see this, even if you see it you’ll never know that it’s me. It’s been sooo long since we last talked but you’re always on my mind I’ve never slept without thinking about you. Our love was unbreakable, we used to talk 24/7, it was unique and pure, it was genuine, it was true love but we were forced to stop our relationship, i gave it all I have I’ve never loved anyone like you and will ever do in the future, I will never forget you NEVER EVER!!! You will be my one and only love till I die. I still love you so much and I hope you do too, I hope our problem is solved and GOD bring us together soon. I LOVE YOU ALWAYS AND FOREVER❤️
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I had this ex boyfriend, which I really loved, like he was my whole world , we dated for 2 years thru the years tho I feel like I was the one who was constantly chasing, putting effort while replying to my text was hard for him or he’s jus “ to busy “ to reply while sending snaps, and we eventually ended things cuz of his hg.
And it took me months to move on , and I did but then I saw on insta that he got new girl and all , they seems happy tg , he is treating her how I wanted him to treat me. I thought I moved on , I thought I don’t care but here I am with this feeling.
And I thought maybe I should try with other guy , so I did we went out, we communicated, for the first time after my ex i started to catch feelings, but the problem is he is not to open about he’s feelings, like if he’s mad he’ll just ignore me for days, and I started to feel like I’m chasing again, I don’t wanna be back to that cycle, the cycle that never ends, the cycle who drained me . I tried to tell him about it but he kept saying he’s busy .
So I decided to check if he even cares, so I stopped texting first, here we are it’s been days since we talked, but the thing is I’m already inlove with him, I admire him, I thought we were something , I feel drained, but I don’t wanna lose him at same time.
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hey, this is for women's. YOU did you have any fucking idea how much we work for you to be happy, not for us, for you ungrateful bitches, did you ever try to understand the level of frustration and hustle we go through to be seen enough in your eyes, no you fucking don't. we raise in the same house in the same environment and guess what we expected to be the man who know everything, the man who fix everything, the man who shows you everything, the man who answers every stupid fucking question you ask, we have to be a God fearing gentlemen, while having numerous degenerate stories, to be seen as experienced, we have to be work our ass off to provide for our family and to be the man of the house while giving you enough time listening to you whining's and naggings we have to be a great dad, knowing everything about a child raising and being a second mom changing dippers while you sleep like a mf, we have to be all of this while gaining respect from our friends and coworkers, and did you see any man complaining about it NO, you DON'T, cuz guess what we have to be also emotionally stable and stone called hearted. i see the way all the women's in the social media act's like and you makes it like the world and all the man is against you and nobody cares about the man's. this is to remind you that you have we also have huge burdens and responsibilities that makes our brain explode, thank God for the way you are and stop complaining about everything, uhh.
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1 month of no contact
I can't understand why I can't let him go. The pain feels less intense now when I think about him and remember how he wronged me. It's as if holding onto this hurt is the only way to keep him in my thoughts, and a part of me isn't ready to release that. Letting go of the pain feels like it would mean forgetting him, and I don't think I'm prepared for that. It seems like I've chosen to cling to the hurt, replaying memories in my mind just to ensure I remember him well enough.
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22 f here did you guys feel like eyadegachu stmetu abatachun eyetelachu memtat i mean metlat eko aydelem gn mn endemlew yhenn feeling alawkm like eyadeku bemetaw kutr ye enaten ye fit tkuret ማዲያት bayew kutr abaten eweksewalew like esu ye wendnet halafinetun biweta nuro enate endezi athonm neber like set endemehonem betam yanadegnal esu gn mnm endalatefa new act yemiyadergew i mean lene eko metfo abat honobgn aydelem gn lenate mnm tru bal aydelem i mean yaw legnam bihon he just exist enji enatachn nat both side most of the time halafinet yemtwetaw ena ahun lalenbet dhnet ena chgr andande beka esun bcha eweksewalew like esu senef bayhon noro esu ጠጪ bayhon noro at least endezi anhonm neber yemr bcha eski mn yderegal eyemokern new lemenor
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I just need to write something for him ....There were so many difficulty's in our relationship yet I still tried my best to keep us but I realized u can't force what God hasn't planned so I'm just glad about the time we had tho I wish we had more , but anyways I know things won't be like the begining I still love you and I never blamed u for us not working out maybe in another life🫶🥹
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Pls i need to change my physical body but i don't have a money to pay a gym ena pls agzugn biyans 1month cover adrgulgn
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Hi everyone.
I want to ask you a question. You know how we usually judge people for leaving their partners when they are ill? Imagine hearing a story where you heard someone left their partner cause they had cancer. Horrible right? I know. I might think that too.
But what if they were mentally ill? Because it really doesn't mean they've lost their minds. It might mean they are depressed. The person you called your world is now not picking up your phone, not answering your texts, and partying with friends,for you- (especially us girls) this is a sign that you are not loved anymore. For him- he is acting out. Escaping from all his dark thoughts and he just doesn't want to drag you in.
I can understand this world do contain evil and toxic people but, trust me, sometimes people are just tired. Therefore we are often faced with 2 decisions.
A. Choosing yourself
B. Choosing your loved ones.
Now I have tried option B before and it almost killed me. But different person different story. ( I know you think you see a pattern here but trust me it's not :) that's an entirely different situation) but the pattern here is me, not wanting to 'fix' people, I hate that term, but not being willing to leave when things get hard. Right now, I am trying so hard to move on from a man I truly love, just because he has been acting out for months. Most days, I felt like I can't really help him no matter how much I contact him,he just wants to party out with his friends, he wants to avoid home because of what he is going through.
I don't drink or do any drugs and I really don't want to be with a person who does those things. But, how can I be supportive without sinking to that world myself? Because then I would also be a burden to him, my family and my friends. I really thought I would marry this guy but God had other plans I guess... let me know your thoughts.
And if anyone knows any rehab centers or good place for therapy, please let me know on the comments.
Thank you
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I have been dating a guy for almost two months now and he seems very attracted to me and he's not Ethiopian. The thing is I feel like he's too obsessed with himself and his nationality that he doesn't want to admit that he's attracted to me (an Ethiopian girl ) and he looks down on all other nationalities , he never directly compliments me , even though I know he finds me very beautiful and he does such a great effort just to meet me and see me and continuously asks me for photos . I have never felt like this before, I never doubted my beauty. I don't know what to do it's really bothering me .
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Please post for me, I wish I could even record.... The ladies out there, in the name of God, no matter what happens, do not, I repeat, do not take emergency contraceptives more than twice a year.... One thing they won't tell you, one thing your bad bitches and spoilt friends won't tell you is "emergency contraceptives is different from birth control", if you're not ready to get pregnant, please find birth control pills and not emergency contraceptives..... As I'm texting, I feel like ending my life, I know suicide isn't an option, but staying alive and knowing I'm going to get married one day but wouldn't be able to give my husband children is like a knife being pierced into my heart... Ladies please, no matter what, EC's aren't the option.... Not like I've taken it 4 or five times, just thrice guys just thrice and this happens.... I am just starting life yeah, I have the most strict parents, not a dbee but I have strict parents and siblings so when I get the chance to go out, i go and have fun... Not like sex, but go out buy a drink or two and come back home quietly I've just had sex twice, the first time was actually a mistake but the second time wasnt, I wanted to know why i felt pain in my abdomen the first time i had sex,not like hymen cut pain but abdominal pain,more like in being hit by something in my abdomen,took EC after the act as well,the third time wasn't sex but the guy mistakenly wiped my v with his p ,so me been scared,i took the pill again.... So recently I was bathing when I felt this sharp abdominal pain again, followed by bleeding, honestly I couldn't cry because I couldn't tell my parents the bad stuff I had done... I wore pad and told my bf, we went to the hospital together and that's where I found out I've always had an issue with my womb and with the least mistake I may suffer from etopic or miscarriage.... Hmm, according to the doctor if I've took an EC before having the sharp pain and bleeding then my womb has become vulnerable it wouldn't be able to hold a seed 💔,yes I couldn't tell him I took it.... We left the hospital after being given drugs... But I know it's the end for me, my dream of being a mother has just been spoilt by my stubborn self, my bf is acting all nice and he's going to be there bla bla, but I know when it gets critical, he'll leave, I've already prepared myself for that, yes Arnold , you're here I know you'll leave me soon, Even if you marry me out of pity you'll cheat.... Hmm, after all this , I decided to do a research on EC , that's where I found the difference between emergency contraceptives and birth control pills💔💔💔, according to my research one EC is equal to 30 birth control pills... So the two in postinor pack is actually equal to 60 birth control pills, so something someone would take in 60 days , you take in a day..... Imagine taking it continuously ladies😭💔,just thrice and I've lost the strength of my womb, what if I had taken it 4 or 5 times? Ladies please, and please, don't follow pleasure and spoil your future like I've spoilt mine. If the guy doesn't have condoms, don't let him eat, if he rapes you, report him, because when it becomes critical and you can't have kids , he'll cheat and leave you... No matter what, don't take EC pills, Even with the birth control pills, the more you take the higher your chances of becoming infertile is... Ladies I beg you.... Don't follow pleasure and kill your future kids
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Hey guys bewnet balefew vent baderekut be dedebna fkregnae kenega endthun slemnat ende neber teredchalw ena zare Mar 25 26 couragun aginche one final message mn yahl dedeb endehonkugn ena meketel endemtfelgi weyim endematfelgi negerign "anketlm beteyi you're not something different enketl kalsh gn I'll make sure to make u feel different" beye be secondary accounte text lakulat bcha bezawm profiluan be accountu check sareg yehone ye gibiwan(university) wend post argalech story lay "HBD BOSS" bela mind u guys on my BD she didnt even wished me a hbd by a dm 😆😆😅 she didnt said anything to me be main accounte alayeutm hide arga nw leka post yaderegechiw 😁 textun lakulat ena she said ok let's end it here 🤷♂️🤷♂️ I said okay it doesnt matter keza tseloten tseleyku keza yihew metche vent argealw life goes on she's not my ex I dont wanna count a mistake 😁✌️ ena thank you lelachu felge nw guys yall really opened my eyes lenem lesuam breakup maregachn ye geta fkad nw smu yibarek 🙏
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This is a rant/question from 27 year old woman. As a feminist I’m so ashamed of myself and quite frankly angry at myself too. I never thought that I have internalized misogyny the way I have , I used to think i was clean of the blood so righteous that i used to boast about how I’m not mentally chained like the other male centered women are but turns out we have a lot in common than i thought. Saw a guy on here boastfully talking about how women in my age group are difficult to date because they have a lot of ”baggage” and they just love sticking it on every partner they meet. Well I understand that one should not even begin a new relationship if still wounded and hurt because it will affect the quality of the next relationship for the person and the person they’re with , throwing shade on women on their obsessive “trust issues” when it comes to being objectified and later on try to justify your objectification of women by saying “since the other ones had your body it’s only fair that I have it” as if it’s your God given right and her abstaining herself is above her because she’s not a “virgin “ anymore implying that’s just because this woman has had HUMAN experiences with other men she’s not worthy and deserving of that respect . Jeeez I wonder why these women have trust issues eh 🤔 ? Anywho the sad reality is that is how most men think in a highly patriarchal society like ours. I’m not trying to throw habesha men under the bus I wish it wasn’t true and this can also be seen by how the male centered ,men worshiping women view themselves and other women around them again just a lump of meat for a men’s desire and a baby machine. If a man does not “pick” you to give you the most mediocre sex of your life and fill your bellies up with babies every two years while he’s probably cheating on you and living his life to the fullest, then welp you have failed as woman in this society. Now imagine having these two groups of people in one setting ,now imagine existing in them , you can’t fathom the amount of internalized misogyny you have absorbed throughout your entire life especially on your early important developmental ages. Don’t get me wrong the older I’ve become the more I have started to see and really appreciate a women’s ability to create life it’s one of the most beautiful things to ever exist. And the nuclear family format sounds so good on paper but in reality it’s quite the opposite. So women I need you to understand that the bullshit that we have been fed ever since we were little kids is absolute BULLSHIT! I’m not saying you’re not going to find love but attraction and love is so much more complicated than you think, I’m not saying you can’t be a wife & mother I’m just saying those are BIG and life altering responsibilities and you should ask yourself why you want to be them so bad? Is it because you’re aging and you’re scared you’re not going to be desired by pedophiles who like underage girls ? Why do you want to me desired by men who think a woman’s value depends on her age in the first place ?? Why do we want that to be THE FATHER OF OUR CHILDREN ERE TEWUUU!!! Let me calm down…. As women we get so caught in these stupid societal delegations that we miss out on our lives and our true desires. Do you know how important it is to make money as a human being?? No you don’t you’re too busy chasing Abebe because you want to be a baby mama “atleast” eshhh 🤦🏾♀️!
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