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Lately I was having suicidal thoughts, it's not like I will do it but it's the that comes to my mind when something goes wrong. I really tried opening up but either people don't really care or they don't understand me like I want them to, people think they have to say something or give advice but I just want them to listen. They will be like others had it worst 😭 for God sake I know and it took me forever to reach out to you and you decide to say that to me and I already feel like attention seeker for asking for help. But at the end of the day they don't owe me anything. But it would be really nice if they just listen.

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Sup yall i vent stn about my last time and the moment j wrote that vent i were in a deep shit like everything was dark and empty no help nothing at all now Tnx To God im 3 weeks clean all lust is gone like before I used to beat my meat smoke a lot shit now im weeks clean and happy until stn happens the guys i call brothers were talking shi behind me like a bitch uk and the only thing I realized we cant leave peacefully idk why

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ሴቶች በመንፈሳዊውም ይሁን በስጋዊው አለም በአፈጣጠራቸው የፍላጎታቸው ተገዢ ናቸው እንጂ አፍቃሪ አይደሉም። ይህን በምሳሌ ላስረዳቹ፦👇
አንዲት ሴት ከአንድ ወንድ ሀብቱን፣ ባህሪውን፣ የወሲብ ግንኙነቱን ወዘተ ከዛ ወንድ(ሰው) ስለምታገኝ ለፍላጎቱዋ ስትል ትወደዋለች እንጂ በነፃ ፍቃዱዋ አታፈቅረውም። የምታፈቅረው ግለሰቡ ጋር ያለውን #ፍላጎቱዋን ነው።

አንዳንድ ሴት እህቶቻችን #አፈቀርኩ ብለው የሚናገሩትና የሚያዝኑትም ግለሰቡ ጋር ያለውን ፍላጎታቸውን እንጂ ግለሰቡን አይደለም።

ሴት ልጅ በተፈጥሮዋ አንድ ሰው ብቻ ነው ምታፈቅረው እሱም #ልጇን ነው። እስቲ ሴት ልጅ ማፍቀር ተፈጥሮዋ እንዳልሆነና ለፍላጎቱዋ ተገዢ መሆኑዋን ከመፅሐፍ ቅዱስም ከታሪክም እያጣቀስን እንመልከት።

#አለም በሴት ጠፍታ በሴት ብትድንም፣ እናትም እህቶቻችን ሴቶች ቢሆንም ተፈጥሯቸው ግን እጅግ አደገኛና ለማፍቀር ምቹ እንዳልሆነ መፅሀፍ ቅዱስም፣ የታሪክ መዛግብትም ይነግሩናል።
የጠቢቡ ሰለሞንን ያህል ማን ጥበበኛ አለ ግን በሴት ተሸነፈ። የዳዊትን ያህል በእግዚአብሔር ፊት የተወደደና ሞገስ ያገኘ ማን አለ ፈጣሪ እራሱ "እንደልቤ" ያለው ሰው ነበር ግን በሴት ተሸነፈ ወደቀ! የሳምሶንን ያህል ሀያል ማን አለ ግን "ደሊላ" በምትባል ባመናትና ባፈቀራት ሴት ሀይሉን አጣ። ወደ ሰው ልጆች የመጀመሪያውን#ሞት ማን አመጣ? ሴት አይደለችምን?! እንደ አምላክ ለመሆን ካላት ፍላጎት የተነሳ አትብሉ የተባለውን ፍሬ ቀጥፋ መብላቷ ሳያንስ ለአዳምም ሰጠችው ሞትንም አመጣች። የጥንቱ አለም ስልጣኔ በማን ፈራረሰ በሴት አይደለምን?! የአክሱም ስልጣኔ በማን ፈራረሰ በሴት አይደለምን?! በዮዲት ጉዲት...!
#ሳይንስ ሴቶችን ከወንዶች በተሻለ በማሰብ ክህሎት( IQ) 1.6% ይበልጣሉ ከወንዶች ይለናል!
የስነ-ልቦና አባት ተብሎ የሚታወቀው Sigmund Froide ለ36 ዓመት ስለሴት አጥንቶ በመጨረሻም አንድ ነገር ተናገረ "የሴትን ልጅ ትክክለኛ ስሜት ማወቅ አይቻልም 99 chamber አላቸው፤ አለን"! በአንድ ልባቸው 100 ሰው መውደድና ለእያንዳንዱም ተመሳሳይ የፍቅር ስሜትን ማሳየት ይችላሉ። ታዲያ ከመቶውም የሚፈልጉትን(ፍላጎታቸውን) ለማግኘት እንጂ ለመቶውም ፍቅር ኖሩዋቸው አይደለም። ይህን ለመረዳት queen of kiliopatra ማየት በቂ ነው። እያንዳንዱን የጦር ጄነራሎችና ባለጠጎች በፍቅሯና በውበቷ እየጣለች ፍላጎቶቹዋን ስታገኝ...የጦር ጄነራሎች ሳይቀሩ "ውበትሽ ከአንድ ባታሊዮን ጦር ይበልጣል" እያሉ በውሸት ፍቅሯ ሲማረኩ ይታያል። ታላቁን ባለቅኔ #ፑሽኪን እንኳን ለሚስቱ ሲል ከፈረንሳይ ልዑል ጋር ገጥሞ በመጨረሻም በልኡል ሰይፍ ከተቀላ በኋላ የፑሽኪን ሚስት በፍቅር አይን ልዑሉን አግባታዋለች። ሲግመንድ እንደሚለው የሴትን ስሜት መረዳት አትችልም 100 ወዳጆች ቢኖሩዋት ለመቶውም ተመሳሳይ የፍቅር ስሜትና ፍላጎት ማሳየት ትችላለች። ለየትኛው ጥሩ ስሜት እንዳላት ከእራሷ ውጪ ማንም በትክክል አያውቅም! የሴት ተፈጥሮ ለማወቅ የመፀሀፍ ቅዱስና የታሪክ መዛግብትን ማገላበጥ በቂ ነው!
ሰይጣንም ቢሆን አዳምን ያጠመደው #በሴት ነው! መጀመሪያውኑ አዳም ጋር መች መጣ?! የሴትን ተፈጥሮ የተረዳው የእስራኤሉ ሞሳድ እንኳን አብዛኛውን የስለላ ተቋም ምልምሎች #ሴቶች ናቸው። የእኛም ንጉስ አፄ ቴዎድሮስ ለስለላ ተግባር እንደ ታንጉት የአሉትን ሴቶችን ይጠቀሙ ነበር። እንደ #ጣይቱ ያሉት ነገስታት ደሞ በአድዋ ጦርነት እንዘምታለን እያሉ#ፈሪ ወንዶችን በስነልቦና አሳፍረው "ሴት ዘምታ" እኛ እንዴት እንሸሻለን እያስባሉ ከፊት ያዘምቱ ነበረ! ሴትን አትናቅ እየናካትም ከሆነ መናቅን አቁም! ሳቀችልኝ ብለህ ዝም ብለህ አትገልፍጥ እየሳቀችብህም ሊሆን ይችላል። ሰይጣን እንኳን ስለ ሴት ሲጠየቅ እኔ ስለ አለቆቼ ክፉ አልናገርም ብሏል አሉ።😄

ሴትን ለመጉዳት አትሞክር መቀበሪያን ነው ምትቆፍርልህ! አትናቃት ግን ተጠንቀቃት!!! በተረፈ ሴት ልጅ ጋር#ፍቅር ማለት ተረት ነው። ተፍጥሯቸው ያን አይፈቅድም። #ሴት አንድ ነገር ብቻ ያሸንፋታል እሱም የወለደችው #ልጇ ብቻ ነው!!!!!

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saw a vent on this channel about a guy who respects his girlfriend’s decision to wait until marriage nd honestly… some of the comments from guys were so disappointing N DISGUSTING If someone is truly ur partner someone u claim is ur soulmate then her boundaries shouldn’t feel like a debate A “no” is not an invitation to NEGOTIATE It’s not something u ask again nd again until she’s tired or pressured enough to change her mind That’s not LOVE that’s FKN MANIPULATION
If u actually see a future with her if u’re serious abt making her ur wife then respecting her values is the bare minimum u can’t say “I love you” nd then try to push her into something she’s clearly not comfortable with That’s not love that’s selfishness nd to the girls… stop fooling yourselves በፈጣሪ Seriously Stop thinking “if I do this he’ll love me more” or “he’ll stay if I just give in” A guy who really respects u won’t need u to sacrifice ur boundaries to prove love specially if you're teens If he keeps asking after u said no that’s already your answer he’s not respecting you
Love is not pressure love is not CONVINCING lov is feeling safe in your “no”
If he can’t respect ur boundaries now he won’t magically respect you later

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Is cheating a fashion these days specially girls why aren't u satisfied with ur man when we treat u, u take it for granted and when we don't, u accused as for not treating u.
U don't even know what u want🥴 what do u want us to do?

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Hi i'm male and 22 years old, and i'm Orthodox..... so here is what i want i am not good on my religion right now and i want to back to that religious life that i was before...... and now i'm searching religious friends going to monasteries, learning about our religion. So pls contract me i really want to be your friend🙏

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I’m 22F I have a boyfriend almost 2years hononal he is working and I’m studying. The thing is I don’t feel like he loves me le bezu ngroch erasun yaskedmal even little things. Yhe yasdestatal yhen ladergelat aylm. Even temari edhonku eyawek birr yebedergnal aymlesem bka. Ewedshalw yelgnal gen mewdewn ngr rasu eynegerkut enkuan ayakm setota enkuan setogn ayawkem expensive luxury goods felge adelm ko metayet bcha nw mefelgew tnsheye edeyasbelgn edemoker malt at least besemagn jorown seto beyademtegn . Tensheye mewdededn beyasaygn, little things desta kermela ewedal belew yezo edememtat . Techegero wey maderg aketot adlm gen ayasblgnm ayasbmmm bka. Ayewdegnm yhon? Yemgmryaye nw , lastekaklew echel yehon? Ke ene yehon tefatu? Edmaywdgn edmayasblgn nw mesmagn even mesmagnen negrew meflgewnm aserdchew gen still yaw nen lerdawm mokerku alchalkum. Bzu metfo gizeyayeten asalfeyalw edzi treat mderg aygbagnm nbr he knows my story and everything whyyyyy . Break up alfelgem I want to fix things magebawm mewdewm sew 1 edehon nw mflgew. Gen idk howwww. Chegre ke kus sayhon kedmeya selmesetet be tegebar selmewded selmetaseb lek megmrya gurshan edmestet setamemu medanit mametat alakm tnshye metayetochn bchaaaa . Is that too much even to want to receive gifts like other girls

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Lately, I’ve been hearing people complain about others who haven’t been there for them, who haven’t helped them out, wiped their tears, or offered support. I believe that no one is obligated to be there for us , we r on our own. We should just appreciate those who do show up for us, as they r not required to do so, rather, they choose to be there.

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I'm 20 M n Freshman student Ahun hulum sew department choice lay yalebet time new ena lene gn it's complicated i don't feel learning anymore should i stop here? Kakomkus mn aynet sra mesrat echlalew please i need kind answers 🙏🏽

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Today’s supposed to be our anniversary, I remember the first time we met and the things we talked about in detail. I remember our first date, our first kiss and everything we did when we were together. Few months ago things weren’t going well for me so I decided to break up hoping I will forget u and move on and focus on my career and helping my fam. Thanks to God I got better job and I am doing good and I started to miss u. I miss ur smile, the way u react, the way u hold me and everything. I know I could have handled things better when we break up and I am paying for it. It’s not fair for u if I ask u out again like nothing happened and I don’t want to ruin your last year in uni. Best of luck in everything and whatever happens I will never forget about.

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I don't think I've ever been this close off in my entire life. I don't even know what led to this. I'm graduating soon and this is definitely not how i imagined myself in my twenties. So growing up I was shy and extremely embarrassed of myself mainly because of my weight. In 7th grade, I randomly decided to lose weight, starving myself and shit but it was worth it. So in 8th grade was when people started noticing me, and I thought well this is nice. And the next day when I do something different with my hair, I'd hear people whisper oh she's not as pretty when her hair is like this. So I made sure not to do my hair like that. I didn't have time to work on my personality and social skills when I was busy trying to look pretty. Through out all my highschool years what i struggled most was making friends. Bca from 9 to 12 grade whenever a guy approach me, I would entertain it (the most I would do is talk to them over text). So in uni, same thing here, there was just more freedom. Honestly looking back it was the the best year, i was happy to be there. Until 2nd semester I met a guy on social media who lives abroad and we talked for 6 months or so. For some reason we stopped talking very randomly. We never met in person and we never dated. After we stopped talking, I genuinely don't know what happened I HATED any type of attention I got from guys. I stopped talking to men on social media. I avoided eye contact. I think that made me closed off even in friendships. I normally don't like physical touch. I don't like going out. I wasn't very close with my brother growing up and I suddenly find myself avoiding him even more. I was very close with my family and now my room is my favourite place. I still have body dysphoria. I don't like to do my hair anymore, I don't have a decent relationship with my classmates even tho I'm 3rd year. Everyday I get more closed off. Every day is like taking a step back. I can't get over my anxiety, fear, insecurity, can't even get over of how good of a person he was. But what I want most is to have conversation with people freely without worry. I envy people my age who are so free. I want to be free, think free, live free,love free. The one thing keeping me sane is my religion and my faith that things will work out.

And yeah ik this is very long but this isn't even long enough to express how I feel rn. Bca I needed to let it out

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ladies and gentlemens i want your experience and answer(honest) on these.


when you feel "horny", sexually aroused what will u do. I mean its our time, its natural to feel these way i know, but my question is for thos who is not in marriage, may be single or in relationship.

Unholy doings and actions are out of choice, coz we are not like those who dont have Father(God).

I mean its so hard u know. Being aware of your self, and controlling it.

For the context am 24m christian.

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Min meselachu I have a crush on this gorgeous girl and I told her that I am interested in her and we talked like half an our in gibi lounge after that I asked her phone no but she didn't want to give me is this the sign that she is not interested in me do I have to move on like nothing happened

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Selam mn meselachu ahun lay distance r/ship west negn tegenagnten anakm ena gn eyewededkut new malet ke mewdedm belay becha kezi befit yeneberkubet r/ship betam godtognal still sew mekreb endefera adrgognal becha ahun yalehubetn r/ship endalata mn ladrg mekrugn maryamn chenekegn zem beye ekenalew mnamn salgoda letewewm elalew andande please mkrachu yasfelgegnal

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Hi there. I am a 20 year old, soon to be 21 male. Lately I noticed myself idk feeling weird and like looking for a relationship. And that made me see how much people are in relationships. And those people seem interesting. Like everyone seems so...maybe their job, maybe their lifestyle, charisma or whatnot. But when it turn the camera to myself, I got nothing interesting going in my life. When hanging out with friends or coffee break, everyone has something to talk about except me. Ena that made me think if I ever... eventually approach a woman to ask her out, what would make me seem or be interesting. I've never been in a relationship before. I saw a woman on social media and she is gorgeous, knows God's word well... in general she has a feminine energy that interested me like any othe woman I've seen before.



Now my question is, how can I be interesting while balancing it with my hustle to be great and change my life. God bless.

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I want to be alive. I want to feel energy in my body again. Right now… I can’t even shower. I can’t sleep. I can’t sit properly. I can’t even stand. Everything feels heavy, like I’m trapped inside myself. My brain won’t stop spinning, but my body won’t move. I have plans, I have things I should do… but I just sit, and the days disappear.

I’m frustrated. I’m tired. I’m scared I’m wasting time. I want to feel awake. I want to move. I want to exist fully, not just float through life.

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Hey everyone! A 22f curious to aks how do u all manage to live with other people? Yeah, everyone got flaws, but what do u do about those who pretend to be friends 👫 while backstabbing, smile at u with bad intentions 😈 or seem calm and composed but turn out to be trash? How do u keep smiling back when you know their true motives? How do you tell who’s genuinely kind and who’s fake, and how do you deal with the anger 😤and hurt after being betrayed by someone who always seemed sincere? The thing is i always struggle with this if i detach n stay by myself it feels like it’s not human to do so if I get closer, my energy just can’t lie tho n i end up drained and hurt also hate the fact that their after all is just attention 🤬

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Hello, no judgment please.

I’m a 26 M. There’s one girl I’ve been casually involved with we’ve been seeing each other and sleeping together on and off for over 5 years. There’s another girl I have a similar situation with in the past, and i still meet occasionally with both of them.

Recently, I met someone new. We mostly talk on the phone, and I really enjoy our conversations. She’s intellectual, understands my humor, and I genuinely like talking to her. I haven’t met her in person yet, but she seems serious and more relationship-oriented.

The thing is, I’m not sure I’m ready for something serious right now. At the same time, I can see her as someone I could be with in the future, at least personality-wise. I’ve been thinking about ending things with the other two girls, but I feel conflicted.

I’d appreciate any advice.

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It's been more than two weeks since I last had contact with him. I tried to go without reaching out a couple of times, but I always ended up texting him. This time, however, I thought I finally made it I managed two weeks straight. Every day feels like hell. Not talking to him and not seeing his name in my DMs is unbearable. I thought I was done with him until my friend asked me, "What if he texted you? What if he said he wanted to get back together?" In that moment, I realized I still want him back.

Mind you, I was feeling suicidal, and every single day felt like I was burning in hell. I was fighting to live, but after all this, I still want him back. I still love him and I don't think I'll ever love anyone like him. Sometimes I wonder why he wants to play this game with me, he knew i was navie, and was honest. Last night, I woke up after midnight with the urge to text him. I'm not going to do it, though, because he knows I love him so much and that I'm hurting. He knows I would reply if he reached out.

Sometimes, it feels like he put a spell on me. How can you love someone this much despite all the pain? My Goodness, you have no idea how much I love him. I refuse to accept that all those moments we spent together were a lie. If I had the chance to get back together and rewrite our story, I don’t think I would change anything, knowing it would end up hurting like this. Mariyamen, I love him so much, and I don’t think I will ever stop loving him.

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I wanna get back with my ex help me

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It’s a night without the moon. I am staring at the sky, searching for my lost soul and also the lost moon. It describes me; a light that suddenly disappears, a light needed by many, but also forgotten that it must shine for itself. I see that it’s better to be gone; the sky doesn’t fall, and the stars don’t sleep because it’s gone. I want to leave, to escape from reality. But it scares me. What waits for me on the other side? I don’t know what I’ll see, but that makes it interesting. If we knew for sure what life after leaving Earth is like, would we still want to go? Or would we prefer this Earth? What if death is a way out, not a doomed reality? There will be an end to our life; someday, being gone won’t be a choice, it's where we have to go. So, why do we choose to leave before that time arrives? Is the pain too much to bear, and we want to escape? Is it too much for us to exist? Sometimes I wonder; what if I was never born, never here? Where would I be? Unconscious forever, ceasing to be a creation, or never having known this world? Or does everyone have a time to be born? What if birth is inevitable? If I didn’t exist now, I would surely exist at another time if not from my mom, then another one from a different time. So, existing becomes essential; my breath is always meant to be. Am I really meant to take it? I believe if I just die now, I will feel better. But what if I don’t? What if I regret it? What if it becomes irreversible? How will I know if that is truly peaceful? Or if I will ever rest? How do I know if I have never gone? How do I know the moon is really at peace or if it’s even gone? I wonder if my soul will find its home. But when I am gone, the stars keep shining, the sky doesn’t fall, the sun will come up, and tomorrow night the moon will be back.

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F23 I need help I'm missing the one man that made me feel loved and at the same time worthless when I remember the days he made me think I was over reacting for his mistakes the way he didn't want to change I keep thinking why couldn't he love me I tried my best but it'll never be enough gn I just feel like I'm unlovable every guy that talks to me only is interested in sexual intimacy but why do we love the things we know aren't meant to be? He made me feel unloved 99% of the time yet I still love him all his words say I love u yet his actions show me that I'm nothing to him I keep trying to let go but the memories of him when he kept me like his treasure wouldn't lie nor make me feel unwanted keep flashing in my mind before he started to be this cruel hearted man I kept trying and trying so much that my mental health started to become worse I lost weight because of the stress I know I have to let him go but why is it so hard why did he make everything seem so perfect till the point I couldn't return to myself ......I love u but know u have broken me and taken advantage of my love just to feel wanted by someone

Pls help me guys I just feel this weight in my heart whenever i remember i just break down i need advice on how to get him out of my head😭!

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hello, so am 25 F 5th yr medicine student so these days am feeling lonely and i wish to have a good friend who i can share thoughts and ideas with with prefferably someone around medicine so anyone interested in new friendship?

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Hello, I’m a 26-year-old guy and, to be honest, a bit of a workaholic. I work almost all the time. Back in the day I dated quite a bit, but nothing serious it was mostly just being goofy and talking to different girls. I’m actually a pretty quiet person, but somehow I’ve always ended up connecting and sharing a lot with women in the past. Even now, from time to time, I might meet up or grab a drink with a couple of girls I’ve known for years, though most of the time I’m busy with work.

Recently, I met a girl on Facebook, of all places. We started chatting on Telegram and eventually moved to phone calls. I usually don’t like talking on the phone, but with her we can talk for hours and it feels like only a few minutes pass. I know that might sound like exaggeration, but that’s genuinely how it feels. In the beginning it was really nice we were getting to know each other and had a lot in common.

Lately though, I feel like something has changed. I’m not sure if she’s getting bored or if I’m the one starting to feel different. She seems a bit more distant than before. She’s a serious person, and I think the stage of life her age doesn’t allow her to waste time on small things. It feels like she’s looking for something serious. I don’t necessarily mind that, but sometimes it feels like everything is a bit too calculated, and I’m not sure how I feel about that. She has also experienced a lot in the past, and I think she might be judging things based on those experiences.

I’m someone who prefers when things develop naturally. Feelings aren’t really something you can calculate. At the same time, I also get the sense that she might get bored easily. It sometimes feels like she’s looking for a relationship maybe even a kind of love story that feels like it came straight out of a book.

So I guess my question is: should I stop pursuing her?

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I met this guy online we clicked I liked him he calls me everyday in the morning after lunch and we talked before going to sleep and I thought he liked me enji why would he waste his time and energy biye asebku, then after talking for while he asked me to meet up and I said ok but after deciding to meet the way he talked on the phone was like we are meeting in a hotel room and I was like no let’s meet in public place and he he called and try to convince me to meet in private and I said no after a lot of kirikir and he was like ok and then we meet we had a great time we grab a coffee and then after the date we continue talking like before keza he asked to meet up for a second date and I told him as long as we are meeting up in public let’s meet , so when he make sure I’m not meeting him in private he ghosted me for a week and called after a week and talked normally like he never ghosted me and he asked to meet again and I told him only if we are meeting in public place and after he make sure I’m not meeting him he ghosted me for good . Why does he do that if he is not interested in me why would he waste his energy, his time , his money I’m confused

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Hey so i would like to tell you that sometimes it's good to listen your inner thought because last time when my ex told she has a boy best friend i vent here and people push me to not make it a big thing and i give her my trust even if i know that he doesn't believe that a boy and a girl can't be friends ( if you need the full story inbox me) at the last when i diside i told her i wanna marry her she said heart broken thing and when i ask her to cut her relationship with him she said no 4th time and broke up with me out of nowhere ans my advice for you don't listen every thing what people tell you in this group and if you're a male don't ever have a girlfriend Which has a boy best friend and stop being  best friend for a girl

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Hello I think my Ex is a cheater and I have no evidence and the fact that I hv no evidence is killing me so I want to see if anyone recognizes him here . He has a cursive A tattooed on his chest and he refused to take it of even tho it’s a tattoo of his EX . If you recognize him say his name below

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Hey y'all do you actually believe in the right person in the wrong time saying? I feel like there is no such thing because if they were the right person they would make it the right time. Timing is just an excuse for the wrong person because the right person doesn't come with a wrong time label. If the timing was wrong the person was too because the right person changes the schedule and makes the wrong time feel like the perfect moment. I really want to hear your perspective on this.

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I’m 22 f and sometimes I just sit and wonder 🤔 how did we become this selfish? It feels like somewhere along the way, we failed each other as a society. People walk around so wrapped up in their own insecurities that they look at others like stranger species 👿to avoid, not humans to care about. Empathy feels rare. Everyone seems numb to other people’s pain, but quick to expect service, attention, and validation for themselves also feels like the idea of winning has changed. Now it’s like if somebody wins, somebody else has to lose. Even love has started to feel like an ego contest ⚔️ the one who cares less, the one who gives a shit, somehow “wins.” As if indifference became a badge of honor and vulnerability became weakness. And what worries me most is seeing it in people my age. We talk about changing the world, but when things get hard, many of us are ready to save ourselves first and take the easiest way out. Shortcuts everywhere. Do what’s convenient, not what’s right.

But principles…?? principles should matter more than quick gains. Because shortcuts might feel like winning in the moment, but there’s no real victory in them. Eventually they cost us something deeper.

Maybe the real change doesn’t start with pointing fingers. Maybe it starts when we’re brave enough to look at ourselves and ask the uncomfortable question

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So guys I really need your help in decision making and tell me what to do it's about my rship so I met this girl online she's ethiopian but in England we met on a game and we were friends at first just normal but after 4 months we started dating I really liked her she's soooo out of my leauge & all her friends were againist us saying am dissapointed in u I think it's bc am in ethiopa or am not rich idk but yeah and she got so mad at them told them to shut up and comforted me and reassured me she was kinda the one who initiated the relationship and she's soo nice that's why I loved her she cared bout my feelings and she wants to be loved too that's what I liked about her tiny details like she dosent like it when I say good morning or night to her with out ♥ emojies the point anyways is she cares this much and I was so happy and now it's my 4th month dating her and am in 🔥HELL🔥 helppp she has changed completely and am already too attached she is a nice person but a bad girlfriend maybe am crazy it's like am not her boyfriend but just a random guy in her dms I say good morning and she dosent even say hey good morning she just goes straight to conversation only says gn at night imagine this is the girl who hated if I don't add emojies in my textes she is soo dry always mostly leaving with just a liked messge I say have a good day and not even a you too she's just likes it and in short if u look at our dms it just looks like a guy begging a random girl to date him not a bf and a gf talking and most of what I hate is she gets mad easily out of no where for no reason and becomes rude sometimes she does something bad and I get mad and be like why? Guess what she gets mad at me for getting mad at her even tho it's her fault and gives me silent treatment and torture me even tho it's her fault this is crazy am getting tierd I even hate her sometimes I swear am starting to belive that she has no feeling for me anymore she treats me really badly (btw am a really nice guy maybe thats the problem) and so i asked her multiple times if she's bord and if she wants to break up she gets mad and says I would have if I wanted stop asking this questions and she gets jealous or mad when she sees I follow pretty girls and stuff so am so fuckimg confused I don't think she knows it but she's treating me really poorly why not break up with me?? I swear am 90% always feeling down in this rship not a single joy and we were supposed to meet this summer when she comes to ethiopa and I can keep sucking it up and be with her until she dumps me or I can just walk away but I want to keep being in this rship and how how can I fix this broken rship what do i doooo how do i fix her what happend
its her first rship btw if that's true

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