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04 March 2026 04:00

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I'm curious about something intimate and hope to understand it better. Are there women out there who enjoy being dominant in relationships and exploring more adventurous, passionate experiences with their partner? I'm wondering about those who appreciate a dynamic where they can take the lead and explore desires that might be considered outside the ordinary.

I'd love to know if there are gentle souls with a wild side, who find beauty in both tenderness and intensity. The kind of women who might enjoy a playful, trusting connection where both partners feel safe to explore their deepest fantasies together.

Is there a place where caring hearts and adventurous spirits meet? I'm trying to understand this better with an open and respectful mind."

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04 March 2026 04:00

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My Dearest Future Wife,

Tonight, as I sit quietly with my thoughts, I find myself writing to you, wherever you are, under whatever sky you stand. There is a gentle anticipation in my heart, a calm certainty that one day our paths will meet and all this waiting will make sense.

I imagine a simple night with you beneath a field of stars. No noise. No rush. Just the soft silence of the world resting around us as I hold you close. I imagine us breathing in the same cool air, feeling small under the vast sky yet completely at home in each other’s arms. Those are the moments I long for, not grand displays, but quiet, sacred togetherness.

There are melodies inside me that haven’t yet found their true listener. Songs half-written, lyrics waiting for meaning. I believe they are meant for you. One day, I will sing to you, not perfectly, but honestly. Every note will carry the story of who I was before you and who I became because of you.

My past has shaped me in ways both beautiful and painful. I have known fractures and healing, loss and growth. But through it all, I have chosen to remain soft. I have chosen to remain hopeful. I refuse to let the world harden my heart. I want to meet you as a whole man, not perfect, but sincere, not untouched by life, but refined by it.

In a world that often celebrates what is temporary, I am waiting for something lasting. I don’t want a love built on convenience or surface-level affection. I want depth. I want loyalty. I want partnership. I want to build something steady and sacred, something that doesn’t shake when storms come.

When I say I want to love you, I mean it in the quiet, daily ways. Choosing you in small moments, listening when you speak, protecting your peace, celebrating your victories, and holding your hand through every uncertainty. I don’t want you to be the center of my world in a way that replaces everything. I want us to build a world together, side by side, grounded in faith, respect, and mutual devotion.

I want to guard your dreams as carefully as my own. I want to be the place you feel safe. I want our home, wherever it may be, to feel warm because of the love we cultivate inside it.

Until the day we meet, I will keep becoming the man you deserve. I will keep growing. I will keep believing. I will keep that quiet flame alive in my heart, not desperate, not impatient, but faithful.

If destiny is kind, and if God wills it, one day we will look back at all the waiting and smile. And when that day comes, I will take your hand not as a fantasy fulfilled, but as a promise honored.

Until then, my love, wherever you are, I am preparing for you.

Yours.

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04 March 2026 04:00

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Okay here is the thing fam. I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for two and a half years. Currently, we are in a long-distance relationship, and we are planning to get married next year. He is a loving person, but he has anger issues. He gets mad very easily, and he doesn’t have much patience. I have told him many times that I don’t like how quickly he gets angry. Even if I make a small mistake, he cannot let it go. He always tells me that I did something wrong or that I hurt him. I try to understand him because he was raised in Dire Dawa, and maybe that’s part of the culture there. I was raised here in Addis Ababa, and sometimes the way he talks sounds rude or mean to me & this behavior has become more noticeable. For the first two years, he was not like this. We talked about it, and we agreed that he would try to fix his anger, and I would try to be more understanding. I thought maybe I just need to be more patient here right?
Now, here is the main issue. There is a person I knew before my boyfriend(We were just friend) there was never anything romantic between us. Recently, he contacted me on Telegram. He told me he is now living in Qatar and i ask him how and he explained how he moved there. Also i ask him if there is a chance for me there and he send me links to apply also He asked for my CV and said that if things work out, he would talk to his supervisor about possible job opportunities for me.
I sent him my CV. I also told my boyfriend everything about it. However, he was not okay with it. We argued, and even though I was honest, he called me a liar and a cheater. He asked for my Telegram account password, and I gave it to him. It didn’t work on his phone for some reason, so we just left it there.
Later, I ask the friend from Qatar about my CV. He said he had spoken to his supervisor and that I just needed to wait until things settled. Because of the current situation and war in the region, I also asked him how things were there and When my boyfriend asked what I did how things are in morning, I told him honestly that I had spoken to my friend from Qatar and asked how things were going & He got very angry, hung up the phone on me , and later sent me messages with bad words. Then he told me to choose between him and the friend from Qatar. There is nothing to choose in the first place eko. I am not choosing between two. I only spoke to that person because of a job opportunity. I want to use every opportunity I get and do whatever I can to support my family. I am not doing anything wrong. But my boyfriend says he doesn’t care about the opportunity and wants me to cut contact with him. I feel confused because I have been honest from the beginning, yet he still doesn’t listen or try to understand my intentions the only thing he say is me or him and i told him multiple times i choose him over and over but it has nothing to do with him still it doesn't work so my question is did i do something wrong ? if so how can i deal / fix it ? i really need something to change the situation that i am now a need a really good income to help my family any way ......give some advice to your girl

ps. 24 years old

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04 March 2026 04:00

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Seeking for remedy for a broken heart
I’m 27 soon I’ll be 28 I broke up with my very first boyfriend after 6 month I’m the type of girl who was never out with her friends just the type of home girl and it’s been so hard for me I gave him all thinking he was gonna marry me because the hope and the promises he made make me think he was the one so I slept with him and gave him all my heart all I do was care about him but out of no where without giving me enough reasons he vanished he ghosted me he don’t answer my phone calls and don’t reply to my messages and it’s been so hard for me and I know nothing bad happens to him he just want it to end it
I have a good job and I live with my parents I have lots of responsibilities but I couldn’t focus on my job all I keep is crying and getting depressed(even at work) and I’m afraid of the future bc all I see was him please help your sister out

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03 March 2026 04:00

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21 m 🤞👀 Today we on winning timing no bad vibe allowed
Let's rank the elite feeling
1, solo date 👉 it's kind of fun b.c u can do what ever u want i mean
2, making money 🤝 bills scared of u
3 , the real connection when u think she might be the one 👉 can't relate yet
4, waking up energized 👉like god said i got u today
5, Walking home after confessing everything to ur priest, 🤝 soul light
Rank 1 -5  🙌for me 👉 5,2,(3)1,4,  (4th  is normal for me , God with us, obstacles look like jokes
To everybody out there i hope ur day hitting like payday with no bill attached
Sometimes 👇
I wish i had an ex just for premium hearbreak 💔 content 😅 or just to vent here about her 👀
  i am emotionally available the problem is there is no ex to cry about i am ready for the pain, but the pain is not ready for me, i wish i could cry about my X 💀in a way nobody has ever cried before, like poetic , historic, or or documentary level heartbreak , i saved the sad songs,  ALL i am missing is the ex 🙌.
Choose joy ur sadness is not even paying rent, be grateful for what u have b.c 1day we are all just going to log off & snore permanently 🗿.
I might be writing all this b.c the gym is closed so im lifting ideas instead of weight
👉smile a little  it's free demo it looks good on u 🦸‍♂️

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03 March 2026 04:00

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Hey guys I am 24 M lonely guy Sometimes I feel like I really need a true friend someone I can talk to about life, share ideas with, and grow together. Someone we can be honest with about work, family, and the challenges we face. Not just small talk, but real conversations. Solving problems together, motivating each other, and becoming better step by step.

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03 March 2026 04:00

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Hey guys,

I hv been with this girls like for almost 4 years. Our rln ship started when we were both in campus like we were on the same field same class.

I was so grateful to hv her🙏 like I can't breath without her mnamn neger ena with all the times we hv been together there were much lovely moments istG I did everything I can for her. Ena gbim lay kegbi behuala demo for a year and half I got a work tekerayehu mnamn ena arif gizem eyasalefn neber ena I make a big decision like I should hv to be self employed neger bye lerase ena wetahu kesra (the big reason is that I can't marry and live with her with net 25k ETB bye)

Ena mngenagnew like be samnt 2 or 3 times new yaw ken kdame new bedenb mngenagnew like le 2-3 hrs andlay enasalfalen mnamn arif momentoch andande demo betm eyetegenagnen malet new ... ena valentines day lay lngenagn ketero neberen ena kerech ena keza befit demo 3 kdamewoch altegenagnenm so 4th Saturday neber amemegn alechgn ena tkeralech ena i was disappointed mnamn alea kedmesh btenegrign yshal neber mnamn bye mknyatum eyetekeyerechbgn sleneber mnamn kezam befit mtfelgachewn negeroch hulu amualche eyetebekuat neber ena tnsh tenegagern mnam keza behuala beka betm eskngaba memtat endematfelg mnamn negerechgn yaw set lj wchi snagegnat new des milat mnamn gn fetari bemiyawkew ene s*x mnamn teykiyatm adrgenm anawkm yaw leloch staffoch neberu mnamn ena bemehal ene lekso yagatmegnna yekbr zemed eza neberku keza aweran mnam memtat endematfelg bet negerechgn matfelgiachew negeroch ykru gn ney alkuat wef alechgn ena esu bcha endiker new wey mtfelgiw alkuat awo alechgn yezan ken keza alaweranm tegnach ....

On the next day sasbbet aderkuna searchm mnamn eyareku lemn set lj wend bet memtat endematfelg mnamn bye 'beka ykr anchi tbelchibgnalesh ykr atmchi' alkuat keza bekagn yegna rln alechgn malet mnamn bye awerahuat ena sijemr betesebm ayfelgum yegnan rln sewm amttew tewawkiyalew alechgn💔

Lbe sbrbr alech beka wendm alhonkum keza behuala ena lbe lay yalew fkrm kensual alechgn dngt alku mnamn mnareku mnamn slat kezih befitm sntala ene beka wey enleyay mnamn bye neber gn istG ke 1 ken belay aykoym egrua lay wedke ykrta teykiatalew ena yetechalegnn lemekas mokrialehu...ena leksom lay nebrku beka lemenkuat ewnet 'twejignalesh eko gn slat' alwedhm ke 1 side bcha ayhonm love alechgn 'eski maryamn bey' byat 'maryamn' alech beka enen aydelehum keza behuala

Sle tdar, sle lewt, manm bemehalachn manm endemaygeba betesebm bihon, sntm amet yfj lewtachn endemtebkegn kal yegebachlgn set ayy beka lelam sew astewawkewgnal alechgn (benesu fit enlewetalen bye tenagrialehu endatasafregn) yalechgn set endih alechgn beka 1 samnt mnamn lmena

Endngenagnm alfelgm yhenn tsom sle fkr mitasebbetm aydelem krstosn new maseb yalebn alechgn (krstos sle fkr sil aydel ende waga yekefeleln?) ena nsha abatem lawrachew ena eshi esachew endemilun enarg alkuat tesmamach awerahuachew mnamn yaw be EOTC yalewn eskemechereshaw hkta dres balna mist and lay lihonu endemigebachew beteseb mnm endemaymeleketew tdar lay negerugn negerkuat keza eshi gn enesun mesmat alebgn alechgn...

Ena beka be 1 ametm bihon tolo magbat new mfelgew alechgn keza biyans enawra sewyew eskimeta alkuat tesmamach gn ahun ene negn bzu text mlkewm 'ewedhalew' enkuan beygn slat alchlm alech😔

Ena ewnet ene yegna rln ezih ydersal bye beftsum behiwote asbe alawkm
-Sew hulu mikenabet neber benem ygerembgn neber hula endet endemwedat slemiyawku
-Yechalkutn hulu mokrialehu ewnet betechristian heje eyalekesku eskemetseley
-Ena yalefe case amtten endemannegager awrten neber gn esua 3 wer yemolawn case ametta ahun lemetaya sebeb aderegechw
-Ena bet slasgededugn endttelagn bye new yane lbe lay bota yelehm yalkuh alechgn
-Ftsum lela set honechbgn ena kenate belay wedshalew kemanm belay yalkuat set endih kalech kezih behuala ene mn madreg alebgn?

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03 March 2026 04:00

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I’ve been thinking about something lately and I wanted to hear men’s perspectives on it..

I’ve noticed that a lot of men seem emotionally under appreciated in everyday life. Like they rarely receive compliments, affirmations or emotional care unless they’re in a relationship.. and sometimes not even then. And when they do receive something small, it seems to mean a lot.

It honestly makes me sad to think that many men might be moving through life without feeling deeply seen or valued in that way.

I could be wrong, which is why i wanted to ask respectfully, what makes you personally feel loved, appreciated or emotionally safe? And as a woman, what are simple things i can do in my own relationships (romantic or not) to show care and respect that actually matter to you and that genuinely make a positive difference?

I’m asking from a place of care and curiosity, i want to understand better. I’d really appreciate honest perspectives.

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03 March 2026 04:00

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Confession #19093

Hi guys something has been bothering me so much lately, and it’s about sex. I’m male and I’m 19 years old. I’m Muslim, I’m a virgin and I’m quite religious. Ik ዝሙት or Zina is a huge sin but I’ve been struggling with it. Tbh not to flex or anything, if I wanted to lose my virginity I could. I have money and I’m quite good looking. But I’m scared of the haram. Ik I shouldn’t do it because it’s haram but lately my mind is telling me that’s it’s so normal, everyone has done it, they enjoyed it a lot, so why don’t you? It’s telling me that’s it’s common and it tells me that I should enjoy my time and the idea of sex is so appealing to me. I don’t want to date because it’s haram and I can’t marry because I’m still a child. I’ve been tempted since. Please help. I can’t control myself

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02 March 2026 04:00

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Hey, I just wanted someone to talk to because I’m at a very low point right now. Sometimes I feel like you’re the only person who has ever made me feel truly loved , no one before or after. First, thank you for being part of my life.

For no specific reason, I sometimes find myself staring at your Telegram pictures. I sliding through them and then just leave. I don’t text. I did once, and you didn’t respond. I’m not blaming you, why would you? It has been years.

What confuses me is that I’m still at the same place you left me, still wondering what was wrong with me and what I messed up, because the reason you gave never felt enough to ruin the relationship.

I’m not always thinking about you, but when I do, I spiral almost the whole night.

Anyway, I hope you’re living your best life 🤍

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02 March 2026 04:00

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Quick rant about my አልጋ struggles lmao. I'm a switch i like to be half half, most of the women i meet and be with are subs. And very few are doms nothing in between(aka my type).

My type is a women who likes to be picked up and be dominated but also sometimes will push me over to take over. That's very hot and powerful to me, But very hard to find.

What do you guys think, is there no ethiopian women like this?

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02 March 2026 04:00

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I just lost my sub a month ago yall and I'm still not over it.let me do this reddit style, I(25M) met, let's call her S(22F), a year ago almost and we agreed on everything we wanted to do and we became FWB fast.
We met up every week and it was fun you know, we fulfilled all of our desires and everytime we met we wont get back until both of us finish😂.

Anyways fast forward a year and now she is gone because she got a scholarship wch hager( be tru menged nw yetelyayenew). And i just miss being with someone who is so fun and free with me. I just like pleasing a women who knows what she wants, it is very hot. Hopefully i can eventually find someone similar or more fun

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02 March 2026 04:00

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25 M

Hey everyone! I want to vent here. I am a kind of person who actually tries to know everything and humbly
Speaking, I know alot about things, one thing I haven’t known much is relationship.

I have been obsessed with my works since I was 18, I made what a majority would say “ Made it level” and can honestly stop working for 10y and still live as I am living right now.

So 2 years back, I start experimenting what dating life means, I met a girl on TG, whom I instantly loved. We share same values, ideas, goals and general outlook in life. It felt like home, we spent nearly everyday talking together.

I honestly believed she was one of the best person for me, assumed she was securely attached and a loving person.

I am the kinda guy who truly loves his freedom and so is she, so it felt like I found the one and genuinely convinced I was gonna marry her.

After we passed the honey moon stage, 6 month or so, we started having issue, minor issues like she becoming bit distant and me wanting to connect with her more. I rationalized it by saying “since both of us are new to this, it’s okey.”

Then life continues, I was excessively feeling lonely, not being taken seriously and just not feeling loved.
I couldn’t bear it anymore and I told her, she says sorry at first but deep down she didn’t want to do anything, and I still didn’t know what I have done to felt like that

Few weeks ago, I ended the relationship! I was feeling more lonely than the time I was alone😂
I truly never got why I was feeling that way until I researched more on attachment theory, boy ohh boy I was living with professionals emotionally unavailable person.

You see, I first assumed she was securely attached aka a person whom can accept love and give love hence why I was putting alot of effort in the first place. But the girl were “A dissmissive avoidant”

I was feeling anxious when ever I tried to be emotional vulnerable with her, she always take a step back. Always making a small talks, always dismissing emotions.

I honestly put alot of effort into the relationship, tried to push her to be the best version of her self, when ever she needed me I was there but the vise versa wasn’t true and it honestly made me insane and couldn’t stop but think, why I am here


I might sound like an angel here but I was not, but the difference between me and her was , I was fighting to keep the relationship, she was almost waiting me at the door so that she can escape if things got worse and by worse me wanting to have an emotional closeness to here

I used think I was an avoidant until I met a real one lol.


So, my advise is, genuinely, never date an avoidant women. They will drive your life insane and honestly they don’t even care, I don’t believe the bullshit that deep down they care that fugazi, those people only care about their wellbeing and don’t care about you if you get hurt.

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02 March 2026 04:00

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I’m a female who graduated last year, and I’m working right now, but honestly, it doesn’t satisfy me. I’m grateful to have a job, but after some time, I’m not happy with it. I go to work, come home, and repeat the same cycle every day. It feels like I’m just surviving, not truly living.

I also don’t have real friends. I’m around coworkers, but it’s not the kind of connection where I can truly share my thoughts, dreams, or struggles. I miss having genuine connections — people I can laugh with, grow with, and be myself around.

Sometimes I feel stuck. Like life is moving, but I’m not really moving with it. I want more — more purpose, more growth, more real connection. I just don’t know where to start.

What would you do if you were me?

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01 March 2026 04:00

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Guys hear me out fr. It was a lovely day. I slept 8 hours. My Stomach was filled. My colon was empty. My heart was beating. Batekalay, your girl was happy. Whyyyy in the hell on this beautiful day I mentioned the idea of feminism to my guy friend and he fought me with his life saying we don’t need feminism since all people are mistreated in life??? He said we should advocate for everyone because we are human beings. He said word by word "feminism saying girls are being treated unfairly makes it sound like men are treated fairly”. Excuseeee meeeee??! He had the audacity to tell me, as women have it unfair in life, men also have it the same. And guess his example?? Men also lose job opportunities because beautiful ladies get hired instead of men. He also said men don’t cry about Equality when they are sent to wars!! I meannnn I still would like to think he was rage baiting me but he was deadass. I thought we had this conversation before but apparently not. Now i hate the sight and sound of him. I feel lied. Like I don’t know who this person is. I keep thinking wasn’t he a nice person? Yall this is a friend of 6 years!!😭😭 i believe in staying friends with different standards but this is just not! Doesn’t this say sth about him as a person? I just don’t like to do anything with him and I am just creating distance. Now he thinks I have never valued our friendship and I am just dropping it easy just because we have different opinion. But I believe this is just more than opinion. I am just here looking for validation my lovelies 😭 am I being dramatic? Isn’t this really disturbing to think about sijemer? Would you keep this person as a friend? Ene I can’t see him the same anymore.

And you, if you see this, hope you reflect on what you said.

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04 March 2026 04:00

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What I saved in my note today
3/3/2026
I’m 30 F
In case if I die just if some checks out my notes here is what I’m feeling
- I’m completely dies inside -ve % of hopes to live in
- my prayer is “God please let me die “
The smile you see? Fake.
The way I walk? Fake.
If I’m dating, working out, chilling, saving money, or working hard — it’s all fake.

I feel like I don’t want to live anymore.

Yesterday my sisters friends told me, “They’re waiting for you to get married. Why are you wasting time?” I’m the oldest daughter, 30 and single. And somehow it feels like I’m delaying there life because I’m not married yet. That broke something in me.
- you know the main reason why I was here is my ex boyfriend Sami … if die please tell him that “ you already kill me before a years ago so መቃብሬ ላይ እንዳትመጣ”
- while I’m writing this I’m crying btw and I don’t have any one else to share my feelings … I don’t want to
- if one family member got this not …. Please don’t get bother if I die … I want it that’s why I gone
…. Bye….👋

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04 March 2026 04:00

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Hey guys so here's the problem I can't tell if my bf actually loves me cause we keep fight but it just feels like he never tries to make an effort when It comes to words he's the one talking but to show action and do what he said it's always just like a lie idk to be honest ik he loves me but not enough to show effort I'm trying so hard to make this work but idk no matter what I do we always argue about something we broke up many times but we always got back together which is really frustrating,but it's just like he never gives a dam about my feelings when he does some dumb shit and I don't know really it's just one minute he's all loving but when I ask him to change for us he makes it sound like I asked him to conquer the a planet for me 😭I know leaving is my best option but I don't know it's just really hard

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04 March 2026 04:00

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Okay, so I don’t even know where to start, but let’s try.
As you know, 20 is the time for exploration and finding yourself. And me? Your girl is exploring in every way I can. I don’t even know what I’m doing with my life, and it’s genuinely scary not having everything planned out when your peers seem to have their futures and even their wants figured out.
I mean, I’m on the fence about most things. For example, I don’t even know what I’m going to do after finishing my degree. I know I will find a job, but I’m not sure which sector I want to work in with my degree, or if I want to go to grad school to specialize. I feel lost. I have a good GPA, so I think I will be fine.
Another thing is relationships. I think I’m beautiful. I’ve been asked out before and even had talking stages, but nothing serious. After I joined uni, this more or less stopped. Maybe it’s because I have a resting mean face and a very small, limited friend group of just two or three people around me other than my dorm mates. Even though I’m finding comfort in being alone, I sometimes crave the closeness you can have with a partner and want someone who can witness my life beside me.
So I feel like I want a boyfriend, especially when I see couples I think are great or when I feel lonely. But I also know this might be an illusion my mind is creating, and that I would probably wilt in a relationship. I want to date to marry, which is okay, but marriage feels scary when I think about everything that comes with it — like children, pregnancy, and even sex.
I feel like sex would be painful. I also fear pregnancy. It’s a painful experience, and I don’t think I would be able to give birth without feeling resentful of my choices. I want to work and have my own money, and that’s where some of my resentment might come from. If I have a child, I would want to raise them during their first few years because I feel like I have to sacrifice as much as possible so they can grow up healthy.
I don’t think I would be able to trust another person in today’s time, with all the news I hear. I also don’t think I could deal with a child having a meltdown after slaving away the whole day. All of this makes marriage feel almost impossible for me, because I would need a partner who is mature, can communicate, takes responsibility, does half the chores at home, and is able to take care of children.
I think that’s hard to find in Habesha men because, from what I’ve seen, many men want a woman who works both inside and outside the home. Even if they say they’ll do half at the start, they might become hands-off over time. I don’t think I would be able to just accept that and continue with my life without crashing out, saying hurtful things, and damaging bridges.
I’m not saying I’m perfect, which is why I feel like I might end up lonely, trying to perfect myself before getting into a relationship.
So, guys, I don’t know what I’m going to do. I don’t think life will be as planned or as perfect as I want it to be, but a girl can dream.
My problem is that I want both extreme sides of the spectrum at the same time, and I can’t decide. Is there anyone else who feels the same, or am I on my own in this?

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04 March 2026 04:00

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I don’t know how to start believing compliments when my boyfriend gives them to me. I always think he’s trying to manipulate me, and it makes me feel really unloved.

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03 March 2026 04:00

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I just want someone to talk to. I am in a deep sadness and loneliness. I couldn’t stop crying since now my head is hurting so bad

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03 March 2026 04:00

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Male here just It’s exhausting having to give a ten-minute defense speech every time I suggest an anime movie. “No, really, it’s not what you think.”
I just want to find a girl who actually gets it. Someone who’ll cry during Grave of the Fireflies without me having to justify why we’re watching a “cartoon.” Someone who’ll appreciate the surreal beauty of a Satoshi Kon film without checking her phone.
I’m not asking for an expert. Just someone who sees it as art, not a niche hobby I have to apologize for.
Where are you hiding? I have a whole list of masterpieces saved, and I’m tired of watching them alone.

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03 March 2026 04:00

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03 March 2026 04:00

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Yoo guys
I'm struggling on bed.
Sometimes i can't ejaculate no matter how much i try.
It's becoming just an exercise.
I think i have a problem. Imagine doing it for 50 mins and not cuming once..
Is there medication or something for this kinda shit?
Help your homies out.

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02 March 2026 04:00

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Hey f18 Whenever i start a romantic rship with someone their life starts being a literal hell idk how i can explain it but everything starts going wrong. the first 2 months are usually alright but after that i don't know what happens. I'm not saying this based on one experience.. it's every single time.

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02 March 2026 04:00

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Just one question how do u get over a boy while still talking to him ? how do I get mutual feeling as friends we dated for like a year but i don't know didn't work out but it's complicated so how ?...

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02 March 2026 04:00

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Quickly i wanted to vent about how i met a sub girl on a website called fetlife. She was into pet play, and punishments. And i kinda got too into it and traumatized her(her words😭). It wasnt even bad i only spanked her which she asked for but like i said i was to into it and went a bit hard and made her cry.

And i do feel bad because i didnt stop(bc our agreement was dont stop until i use the safe word). Bcha endet atakomim saleks bla she got mad and blocked me. I really dont know what to say.

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02 March 2026 04:00

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What's up guys, I'm so tired of women who arent adventurous in bed. I'm always trying to convince them to have fun and at the end of it all they are happier for it but it is back to square one the next time. TBH i dont even blame women, it's the fear the society has put on them. Even in an FWB they are always scared and shy, it is getting very tiring.

I just wanna find a women who is confident about what she wants and wants to experience and have fun in this short life. I dont know if i can find that yet.

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02 March 2026 04:00

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Okay okay yall. First of all, the comment section was baffling. I was expecting some backlash regarding the way I handled it, but never expected to see comments full of insults because I said women and men are OBVIOUSLY not treated the same way.
Couldn’t reply to you all because really, there is no point in replying to a bunch of non sense.
Two or three men who gave respectful thoughts, you are true men! Bless your soul.

So sons of ladies, who were disrespectful in the comments, I am writing this vent to understand your stan. You can provide a valid logical point why you were so against feminism because I rly want to know if this coming out of hate for women or the ideology itself. Actually let me rephrase my question. Are you against the ideology of feminism or you don’t entirely believe in supporting and giving equal opportunities to women? When we say equal, we are not talking about sex equality, it is gender equality so don’t drag the biological differences. I want to clarify and stress enough, we are not talking about modern feminists (maybe let me say misandrists) where they are hating on men generally and degrading them. I don’t believe in that. We have amazing fathers, brothers, uncles, friends and husbands. We are talking about the original feminism where it says, let’s empower women, let them pursue their passion, let’s create a safe environment for women, lets protect and advocate for women who are raped, killed and assaulted by men. And all men who are part of women’s misfortune, they should be well punished and pay for their mistake.
So are you against this idea because this is what’s feminism all about? If so, we failed as a society and it is sad we all are breathing the same air as you.

I am genuinely asking out of curiosity. Since you all thought feminists are dumb and illogical, and most of you actually provided insults(which shows you have no opinion btw) and no logical points, be the bigger person and put your argument in a respectful manner.

PS: For some of you who tried to challenge me with "men don’t have it easy” please save yourself from embarrassment and hide in your coccon. Don’t even dare compare your mistreatment in life with women's abuse, death, rape, trauma caused by men. Your own species! Keep your misogynistic ass to yourself. So yeah please be my guest and let us understand eachother well.

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02 March 2026 04:00

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Hey
There is a girl who really loves me and i don't know what to do.
I mean I know that she loves me, not only because she told me. Also how she treats me too.
She washes my dirty clothes even my legs. She always treats me like I am special but i can't say i feel the same about her. Of course i like her and i like to be around her but i don't think about her when i think about my future. And i feel really bad about it.
What should I do?

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01 March 2026 04:00

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Hey guys please I need your comment.  23 F I’m a final year university student 4 months left and honestly I feel lost. I don’t like my major, my campus, or even my neighborhood.and sometimes I feel like I worked so hard in something I don’t even love.
Recently I’ve also been seeing my parents struggle financially and with their health, and it’s been heavy on me. I feel like I need to do something, like I can’t just sit and wait anymore.
Growing up, my parents were always very serious about education, especially my dad. I remember when  relatives and friends  told him I was beautiful, he responded that beauty isn’t important, only the brain matters. And yeah at home what you get compliments at is about being smart not looks. That stayed with me. I was raised to focus only on academics.
Now at this age, when people compliment me, I don’t feel much from it, like shut up who cares. And I love learning like I learned something in every sector idk what i really want in life. I am good at everything I learned except my major 😁 and i thougt about freelancing stuffs after i graduate because my degree is time and energy demanding.
Recently, we were watching this beautiful social media girl Instagram video in class, and I talked about the beauty of this girl and stuff and they said  “Why don’t you start? You’re more than her ko stuff.” I laughed at first, but they were serious, and it made me think. I am tired of the academics way like am failing when I try something  and I am watching people's having it all by trying this and you know I want it too I want to provide for my family. but still idk am afraid

I actually love taking photos. I even have a nick name for this😂” I know I’m camera-friendly. But I feel like if I ever start something like content creation or modeling advertising stuff, I would need to move to Addis. I don’t want to be seen doing it in this city. I don't feel safe
I’m confused. I dont even know how to start. How is the market in this path? And Should I focus on finishing my degree, or should I start side hustles now? What would you advise?

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