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I am feeling indifferent to most things. Just numb.
I would still choose that over chaos.
Have you ever been to place you feel you won't fit?
Yes I have had that. To escape the boredom, I did things I am not proud of. I met people out of it and regretted it.
No spontaneity
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I have lots of things to do,but my head feels heavy.

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21M
All vents here are about relationships and most of them are how do i do this how i do that type que
My question is why would you start a relationship if you are not ready for everything ?

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Hello, this is my first time venting. I am a 26 male who lives alone. i am very selfaware narcissist that struggle with a deep sense of detachment from people in general. over time, that detachment has grown into resentment toward everyone. i often feel ashamed of being born here in ethiopia and i don’t have close to none friends or family nearby, and my contact with anyone is minimal. despite that, I am generally liked at work. i know how to be socially functional i can say what people want to hear, smile when needed, and move fake.
i have only been in two serious relationships. i was able to make them work on the surface, but i was still i always prefer being alone and feel more at ease in isolation which am currently enjoying.
i carry a lot of anger, and it runs deep enough that people sometimes sense it without me saying anything. there are moments when others ask if I dislike them, even when I havent expressed it openly.
what I want most is to feel real fully present and alive being the hateful and prideful self. that desire sometimes gets tangled with a need for emotional control, and i am aware that this comes from unresolved pain. i get pleasure from expressing anger or pushing people away, even though I know it’s not healthy. i also struggle with intrusive and disturbing morbid fantasies that reflect this internal conflict, The hardest part is knowing that the things that make me feel real are rooted in pain, while healthier ways of feeling kinda far and that leaves me feeling trapped, exhausted, and deeply disconnected from myself and others but
what makes me grounded is talking to my self inside my head, dressing my self and buying my self nice shoes and watches. i often spend quality times watching tv series and i relate to dexter and joe from you. musically i prefer soft jazz while working or writing and my dream and goal in life is to own my own house far from civilization, eating what i grow and dying old on my porch watching a sunset.

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I’m an adult (10+ years older than my niece) and we live in the same house. My 17-year-old niece frequently makes jokes and comments that feel disrespectful toward me.
I’ve tried ignoring it, staying calm, and setting boundaries, but it keeps happening. When I bring it up to my mom, she usually minimizes it or defends my niece, which makes my niece feel untouchable.
Today I felt extremely angry because this has become a pattern, not a one-time thing. I don’t want to constantly argue, but I also don’t want to allow disrespect.
Important context: I’m already in the process of moving out , so this is temporary — but I still have to live here for now.
What’s the healthiest way to handle repeated disrespect from a teenager when the parent enables it? How do I protect my peace without escalating things?

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Call me the " messy gurl"
So here is a thing Im currently heading to 17 and yh ofc a highschool student. The thing is all people around me seek relationship 😭 the boy needs the beautiful and the sexy gurl and the gurl seeks a good hearted boy even knowing the relationship won't exist after 3 or 4 weeks. Ofc there are a worest times where I seek to have a bf like who can understand me. When boys try to reach me out on IG or other social media I always prefer to ignore them in real life but I need to have the true one not to be called she have a bf, not to kiss or any other staffs but the real one ik I won't never gate such kinda person gn bka you always imagine to have. And when other teens vent here and ask about alove in teens age the commentors say no just study well and this thing come later to love or to being loved, honestly I agree with it without and doubt I need to prioritize my study over man gn I don't have any friends to talk what I'm going through and I don't know what to say , anyone pls share what u blieve it's correct just ad ur lil sis .💕

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I'm F 19
I broke up with my boyfriend last year now I got him back and I feel bored soo what do I do?

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Come on guys we were just having fun we were kids we were teenagers and now suddenly graduated and life feels serious but it’s not too late to laugh to be creative to explore to live to chase dreams I used to think it was too late for me but now I’m only 23 and that’s nothing so much time ahead to make friends to meet amazing people to find a stable job to socialize to work on ur self to strengthen faith to fall in love to be creative to create things that make proud to find new hobbies to entertain myself to be happy to wake up and do something exciting and for my girlys habibiti it’s not too late to glow up to work on ur self to start a new business to feel beautiful again to accept ur body face everything can shine in ways never imagined love don't let anyone tells u when ur enough what ever u do  do it for ur self okay and for guys don’t make it only about work or stress can still laugh still enjoy life still push to grow stronger and better without losing joy life isn’t over just because grown up allowed to dream allowed to play allowed to fail allowed to get up again allowed to shine allowed to be ur self allowed to enjoy little things quiet moments big adventures allowed to glow to love to create to work on ur self inside and out don’t let anyone not even ur self make feel like it’s too late just getting started time to become everything want to build life want and be proud of every single day not too late for happiness for love for success for everything ✨🌸

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Hi, i am 25yo f. I am full time employee and cs extension student. I have a fiance(will be married next year) and he is not in AA. I love him selezi i don't have any friend cause when you have a friend you need to give some energy, time, money hasab lenesu like i am busy ena i don't want that slemnm maseb gn sometime kesnt ande when my bf is busy or weekend lay bchayen sehon mnale friend binoreg hangout yemadergew mnamn bye asbalew gn i like reading, watching movie ena besu gizeyen asalfalew.ena bemn mknyat endehone alakm kehone time jemro sew say balaye mnamn new malfew. Sra or tmrt kehone eseralew mnamn other kemnm setm wendm gar alaweram aldewawelm mnamn. Ena yesterday me and my fiance had a speech set friend binorsh tru new aynet esu yhonal sew endtrki myadergsh alegn. Ene demo i want the freedom ke lonlieness magejew plus i don't need to you are my friend alkut gn sew lyasfelgsh ychlal ene ruk at least kesnt andem bihon mtgenajiw alegn. Ene degmo ahun lay slalemedku meslegn guadegna magjet endet endalebgn alakm because i like the freedom i get from the loneliness ena wuste guadegna endinoregn ayfelgm. Gn wedefit social lifen affectyaderg ychlal bye feraw yhe bahriye. Can you guys guve your suggestion. Ena tru set guadegna magjet yemchlbet bzu energy time money maneneten mekeyer saynorbgn mchlbet means kalem please tell me. Thank you

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This days im giving up in life not cuz im losing smthn but cuz of im not anyone's type

I got good connection with ppl like im friendly guy everyone who approaches me becomes my friend cuz i have gd personality but no one sees me more than a friend cuz of my disability my disability is not that worse but its just dont walk normally
Im scared that I'll end up single i always wanted to have someone who loves me who puts effort on me the same way i put in them

Why dont u girls dont want a man with disability,
Pls answer me

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Hey guys, I’m a 22-year-old woman. I have a boyfriend whom I met at university last year. He has graduated and is now working. We have been together for almost one year, and before our relationship we were close friends for about one and a half years.
I love him deeply, and I feel like he loves me too. However, sometimes, without any warning, he disappears for one or even two weeks. During those times, I feel the worst emotions of my life. I feel drained, anxious, and like I’ve lost everything.
After one or two weeks, he comes back and acts as if nothing happened. He doesn’t apologize. When I confront him and ask why he does this to me, he says he was going through a lot of difficult situations. He works far away from me. When I ask why he didn’t communicate with me, he says he has no answer.
He has done this three times this year, and now he has disappeared again. I know he will come back and beg me. I have already told him twice that I want to break up, but he says he doesn’t want to lose me and promises he will never do it again—yet he keeps repeating the same behavior.
I love him very much, but I don’t know what to do. What would you advise me?

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Ene milachu setoch when do you start seeing a man as just a friend or like a brother koy....mejemria interested yehonachubetn sw.....and why ?? esti genuinely in detail melisulign

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I Couldn't hate you.. But I HATE LOVING YOU this much!
I hate you for making me misarable! and yeah ofcourse my dad also helped you with it by breaking his promises again and again... i can't hate him because he was my everything (maybe he is )and now? I hate myself instead!(for both of you)
he breaks me more than you do and still doing it everyday. You both played your part you sucker. Be Satisfied!

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I'm 19M and I have a gf who's 1 year younger and we've been together for 9 months now ,we love each other so much yet we always get in to fights and we argue over small things she's a kind person and she's known for being genuine and I don't think im a bad person but the thing is we couldn't understand each other I always tell her about my self and my insecurities and I tell her not to do things makes me mad yet she always do the exact thing I told her not to and when I get mad she always cry and tell me that she won't do it again and I'm trying to understand why she do that yet I couldn't find any logical answer and I always tend to give up on us but when I see her cry I change my mind and she do things behind me tho I told her not to hide anything from me so guys give any advice you have in mind.

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I'm 18 years old girl and currently a remedial student. I used to have good grades from elementary school through high school, but I unexpectedly failed the entrance exam. Since then, my family has changed completely. They found out that I didn't pass, and this has hurt me even more. Every day, they criticize me, and I don't know what to do about it.

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I’m a woman 25 yrs old with job
So lately I’ve been thinking to date cuz it’s the right time to get ready and know each other for marriage but the things I’ve been hearing is so scary mainly about cheating.
Like what’s goin on its that hard to stay loyal?
Every woman I’m friend with got cheated on and I’m really doubting if i give dating a chance.

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Emmm am 22 f from HU Medicine student ena mndnew he was my best friend like betam close best friend betam minkebakebgn miwedegn enem bezaw lek betam new mewedew even kewchi yalu sewoch thought we were a couples endeza nw mimeslew ena he have girlfriend gn abzagnawn gize miyatefaw kene gar new hulachnm ye Adama ljoch nen ena ena esua ezaw adama nech ene ena esu hawassa nen ena abren ena takegnalech gn yalenn deep connection atawkm ena and ken abren adern ke esu gar( without sex) gen neck kiss ena hickey nebrw gen tnsh koyto we start to kissed each other ik lek endalhone gn maskom alchalkum keza tewat mnm endalteftere hendn beka tnsh benadedm esun metew alchalkum keza bewala gen dgame jemern mesasamun beka makom alchalnm we know eko abren lnhon endemanchl fkr mnamn edeleleln gen beka esum enen enem esun matat enferalen Eski and negr belugn mknyatum confused hognalew even mnseraw lek bayhonm enem esum lek endehonem nw mnasbew like tekekel endehonen ena mn yishalal
Without Any Judgement ‼️

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Hey. I'm a woman in my 20s and I'm feeling a bit down. I work as a digital marketer but I'm not satisfied with my job. I'm looking for a friend nearby who I can talk to. I live around Ayat.

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“Hi guys, I am 22 years old and I have a boyfriend. We have been together for almost 3 years. We love each other, but our relationship is not good. We argue a lot, mostly because of jealousy and something easy. We try to fix things and give each other time, but we keep arguing again and again.
Thinking about a breakup is very hard for both of us, and he doesn’t want to break up either. I am very tired and confused. I am scared to lose him and I fear I will never find someone who loves me like he does. But at the same time, we argue so much that it feels like we can’t make this relationship work.
What should I do

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Hey, so I know that I would make one lucky guy the happiest but I don't know why God keeps every possible way closed, for now. I trust His timing, even when it’s hard.

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ምን አይነት Relationship ውስጥ ሆናችሁ ታውቃላችሁ ወይም አይታችሁ? ዘግናኙን ልንገራችሁ - የሀይማኖት፣ የብሔር፣ የቦታ ልዩነት (ፕሮቴስታንት ሲዳማ አዲስ አበባ vs ኦርቶዶክስ ጉራጌ ሶዶ) wtf combo, ደግሞ ኮኔክሽኑ አይጣል ነው። 5 አመታት ቆየን በአካል ተለያይተን እንኳን ሳንለያይ። በደንብ አልተገናኘን ወይ አልተለያየን ተምች ህይወት I will give the full credit to ሰይጣን አቦ እናትህን ልይልህ

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Hey, I need to vent.
Sometimes I feel embarrassed to say this, but I want to be with a financially stable / rich woman. Not because I’m lazy or trying to use someone, but because I grew up with a lot of financial stress and instability, and I know how heavy that life can be.
I’m working hard on myself and my future, but the idea of building a life with someone who is already stable feels safe and peaceful to me. I don’t want luxury — I want security, calm, and less constant worry about money.
What I honestly don’t know is how someone like me would even meet a woman like that, especially in a respectful and serious way. Where do people with this kind of mindset usually meet? How do you approach without looking opportunistic or fake?
I know some people might find this boring or wrong. I’m just being honest about where my thoughts are right now.
Thanks for listening.

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Hay I'm 20F second year uni student ena men meselachu le brake bet gebeche neber ena brake sialk gibi memelesm hone bet mekret alfelgem bc bet kehonku  toxic  yehonu akstoch ena agotoch alugne😩 even gibi bemegbate yenadedalu 🙄 keza demo dorm demo lela tata 1 negeregna lij alech normal were setawera erasu ye demtsu tone ye neger new ena berasu energy negerochen emeleselatalehu keza testekakelalech gen ene negative energy mawtate mechot yenesagnal bezalay she's kof tatbo ciqa keza demo lela 2 lijoch alu anduan ende servant anduan endashangilit new metayat beka she is gatewet and kehulum belay lek endehonech new metasebew ena bezia lay I'm overthinker ena gera gebtognal  men laderg demo gibi mehede gideta new😭

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Hi guys am 21m and I feel loneliness like I don’t want go out side , depressed every day I don’t have job also broke like I don’t wanna be like this I see myself in top but I not doing nothing just big dreams that’s hard help me guys let’s be friends and share u r ideas 🙏

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Hellooo how ru all guys hoping that ur all good....I'm 23F I have a question for people who are in realtionships or have experiance betely for orthodox christians,is it possible to wait untill marriage to be intimate?(any kind) What if you make this decision later on and the person you are going to marry is not a deacon?how do you reach that understanding? What are some ways to spend time together while adhering to this decision? It feels quite challenging nowadays.

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Death changes everything, time changes nothing even if am 23 and 5 yrs have passed i still miss the sound of Your voice, the wisdom in your advice, the stories of your life and everything You had.....so no,time changes nothing i still miss u a little louder as i did the day u died
May allah grant You jennah mom

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ere admins approve this befeterachu!!

Isn't it weird whenever you think of someone and they appear out of no where?😭
what really got me is that I actually don't even know this person. But again they're not a complete stranger to me either cuz we were in the same class in 1st grade, however I've never seen this person again untill I got to 11th grade when randomly popped in my head then boom I saw them the next day at the most random place everrr(hospital) but never again after that till freshman year here in AAU. It was a random night but I had an exam the next day and that person came to my mind again and I was like "it'd be funny if I see them later and GUESS WHAT?? yup!! I went and was studying till a group of friends came in &that person was one of them and we saw eachother across the tables that was that until yesterday I was having a terrible day and had a fight with someone so I was trying to distract myself and think abt something and that person popped in my mind but I was sure I'll never see them cuz they changed campus after fresh year. BUT that's what I thought cuz I was going home after I was done with my exam today and guess who I saw at Megenagna wede 6k taxi gar??THE SAME PERSON WHO APPEARS ONCE A YEAR like what's happeningggg like it okay if it was random but why does this person always pop in my head a day before I see themmm???🫠

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I don’t know if this even belongs here, but I just need to get this off my chest. Lately I’ve been thinking about how so many guys, especially Christian men around my age, end up scrambling for groomsmen when they finally get engaged. Like… you spend your 20s building your faith, working on yourself, trying to stay on the right path, and somehow still end up isolated when it comes to those big life moments.

It’s been bothering me more than it probably should, but it’s made me wonder if anyone else (born-again Christian men, 25–30) ever feels this weird gap in brotherhood? I keep catching myself wishing there was some kind of group where we actually committed to walking with each other long-term—like literally agreeing to be each other’s future groomsmen so no one ends up alone on their big day.


Maybe it sounds silly, I don’t know. I’m not even in a relationship right now, so it’s not like I’m trying to recruit a wedding party or anything 😅 and honestly you probably shouldn’t be in one either if you’re considering something this goofy with me.


I just… yeah. I guess I’m venting about wanting real, dependable Christian brotherhood. Does this resonate with anyone else?

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20M I only get hard to porn... Ttied to have sex couple of times but I was soft as a mf... Tried to warm up with touching myself but no... I only can get it up to porn... What should i do

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So my story starts in my teenage years when i was in high school… literally everyone i meet would have a crush on me, or flirts with me! Everybody even in my family say i’m a flirt but that’s just my personality i just have a welcoming face and smile. Even when i was in high school some of my teachers would ask me to take me out on dates, or for my number and stuff.. i used to be afraid of saying ‘no!’ And so everything has continued till this day where I’m married and with two beautiful little kids. So I married this person who i was so in love with at first.. then got to break up for a year and half then rekindled things and got back together only then to get married. After we got back together we didn’t we took no time to talk about what broke us apart or how we reconnected again.. we just jumped into the marriage and our first born. But right after few months everything becomes upside down! We’re always arguing, hurting each other, disrespecting each other, and so on… i still continue to be in the marriage for my kid’s sake! But i keep thinking my first born needs to have a sibling from the same parents who’s going to stick together through everything! So i decided to have our second child. Still fighting over nonsense things, disrespecting each other and not to even try understanding! And love slowly fading away from us! I got so tired! I spent most of my days crying plus being with the kids is another level of pain and stress! I left everything to keep my marriage! He doesn’t even see that. Till this day, every guy i meet, every guy that takes a look at me will eventually have something for me( i mean like from biggest government officials to investors, artists and EVERYONE)! I quit my dream job because it had become too tiring and stressful for me to cope up with these guys and my marriage! I might enjoy the attention but it was too much! And about my husband, he slowly started understanding everything i was saying after a really long time! But right now there are people who understands me, mentally, physically and emotionally more and i get attached to them easily but never does anything inappropriate but i’d say cheating is not only physical…..
This is just the highlight of my story but what would you do if you were in my place?

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Hi zare lawerachu yefelekut bezu gize sesekayebet yekoyehut cheger new mn meselachu bezu gize relation west egeba ena kezan ke tewesenu werat buhala.setochu tetewegn yehedalu meknyatachewen seteyek emilugn demo kante energy gar meketel alchilem yekebdal yelalu koy mn larg esti lenesu sel metamenen lakum lenesu sel tenkere mesraten lakum lenege tedar felagi mehonen lakum esti mn telalacu ere gera gebet eyalegn new yemer hywete tergum alba eyehonebegn techegereyalew erdugn eski.

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