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Hello everyone,
I never knew the overflow of the love and care I am giving would worry me or perhaps concerns me this much. Of course with coarse and unsettling path of becoming a flesh under a soil, i have burdens rather unfortunate happenings in my life that weighs me down. On top that ache I ask myself until darkness and silence becomes my dearest, will ever get delivered with or from the love i gave at least quarter of it to finally say I am OKAY. I am okay actually. Ironic! But I am in depth of whirls trying to find what’s going on. What did write man?😂 anyone self diagnosed ADHD painted as me? Let me know
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I’m an 18-year-old male in high school, and I need some perspective on a situation that’s been weighing on me. There’s a girl I’ve known for a while—we used to be close friends. At one point, we had an argument involving someone she was close to or her girl best friend that has smoking allegations, and that conflict slowly pushed us apart. Not long after, she got into a relationship with someone from our class, and I found out much later than everyone else. I realized then that I had deeper feelings for her than I admitted, and out of frustration and hurt, I cut contact.
This year, we ended up in the same class again, along with her girl best friend, her new hb At first, we didn’t speak at all, but recently she started talking to me again. That reopened feelings I thought I had moved past. Now I see her every day, we’re still connected on social media, and it’s becoming hard for me to focus on school or find emotional balance.
I was thinking of fully letting go creating distance so I can move on or risking shi and see where things could go. and I’d really appreciate some guidance. Thanks
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You might have thought that if you stopped finally chasing and focused on or "locking in" or "working on yourself," is the best response to a breakup, then you would finally attract instead of pursuing it like an efuye gella. And disappearing after you thought you get the hold of it.
Everyone tends to think like this after a major breakup.
You could attract the attention tho, but attracting love or finding that true unconditional love is far more complex, more innocent, and more pure than that.
ORRR option 2, you completely avoid love, by giving your self some cheap theories and mindsets, like love<money, or the hustle culture from the videos you saw on TikTok.
You try to drown out the obvious loneliness through work, by keeping yourself busy, and occupying your mind.
But, suddenly, it finds you on a random Tuesday night, as you stare at your ceiling, feeling that familiar pain in your heart that didn't heal after all.
This time, you can’t shake it off or you can’t just walk it off anymore.
That little hole from years ago has grown larger without you even noticing. You finally find yourself, your true self, alone on your bed, with no one to call and no one to text without feeling like a burden. You look at your contacts, filled with lifeless and meaningless names from work.
You've completely forgot what it means to be vulnerable, to love and, sadly, to be loved in return.
You don't have to chase love all the time but atleast you have to be open to it.
It may sound harsh, but you have to learn to be vulnerable.
Again.
Remember how romantic it is to be completely vulnerable, how amazing it is, to trust someone with your heart and hand it over.
It feels nuts. It also feels right at the same time.
We all need love.
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Hello guys so average f soon to be 26 recently I feel like I am not gonna find a real connection a real love a person who I can be myself without being judged I mean I want to be in a serious relationship I want to get married have my own family, the thing is I want someone stable who figure out his life and that can help me with becoming one( I can be a lot of help too but I don't want to be with someone who's in the same age as me cause I have been there) this means someone older than me. at the same time I'm afraid that I won't get the same energy passion or things to talk or do together but still I want someone around 30's. After my past relationships I only focused on my work, class mnamn so I was literally pushing people trying to reach me for many reasons. RN I want to be in something serious I want to be loved, seen, understood ik this is not the right place to write this but I have to let it out
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Hi guys im 27m im feeling so drained and lonely i hv never dated before so can u give me some advice
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If you bring someone into another person’s life and push them to be together because you believe it’s good for them then later realize that person is not who you thought they were hh there’s a serious lying and manipulation bro!!! what is the right thing to do???
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Hello 26f am in a very much bad situation here so z tng is i joined a firm a year ago amd there i met a guy n dated for few months n things didn't go well ended up wiz some dramas i was obssessed wiz him n chased him for months finally left all n moved on then i got promoted to HQ of z firm then i found him there we work on the same floor n was gonna relapse to my previous feelings for him but thank God i just got approached by a new guy he's so fine n my type aswell so we clicked n started talking n dated he also is on our floor z date was amazing i never connected wiz anyone this way specially on z 1st date then we were doing fine afterward he asked me how i knew the previous guy lekas zy r besties i didn't know n he doesn't know we dated but negrew date argnal eko belo ena the new guy cut everything off n left me now i have 2 telatoch in z same floor n zy are acting around me am getting mad n depressed aswell i don't have a bestie to talk to all my so called friends have moved on wiz zr life some married some to other city n some quarreled wiz now i don't know how to make new friends hula i go to office zn back to home no life, no chilling n amn't z type who have fun alone u know
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Hey
I am A 26 year old from Addis and i need help so bad and i don't know what to do
I need to find a wife as soon as possible.
My mom is sick and she have been begging me to bring a wife or a Girlfriend so she can meet here and i don't even have a girlfriend and i don't know what to do she is stressing me out saying she might pass away and ልሞት ነው
I am even thinking about just someone to show her ena i am stressed
What do you think i can do
Ill do anything
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I’ve been dating this guy for six months now. I like him but he’s been giving me mixed signals lately. When we’re together, everything is great we have a really good time. He tells me I’m pretty and says that he loves me. We also don’t argue much.
The problem is that sometimes he doesn’t call, and other times he doesn’t even answer when I call him. I understand that he’s busy I see how his phone rings nonstop when we’re together but I’m starting to get tired of this pattern. I don’t mind being the one who calls, but if I stop calling,reaches out a day later, and then ask me why I haven’t called and the cycle repeats.I’ve asked him why he does this, and he always apologizes and says he was busy or that he forgot. At this point, I’m tired and only want to understand why he is this way.
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I’m 26, and this is something I’ve been sitting with for a while. I’ve realized I have this pull toward being submissive—not in a shallow way, but in the sense of letting someone else lead, decide, and hold control. There’s something about that dynamic that completely unravels me in the best way.
I don’t even know how to explain it properly—just the idea of a calm, composed, dominant woman who knows exactly who she is.That kind of presence drives me crazy.
I guess this is me wondering out loud… do women like that actually exist here? Someone grounded, confident, dominant without being harsh. If you’re out there, I’m honestly just curious- are you here....
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I am funny for the people I get close . I am a completely different person for those I don't know well. As a result I get it hard to have a gf or fwb. I am interested into having one. But I would love to have a girl who would also be an fwb . But most of the girls take this as an insult. I would love to cuddle all day long with my fwb. I sometimes feel sad to live in our society because of this. Why do we consider it as a bad thing? Just wondering.
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24F.
First time venting here.
I'm actually scared that I'll never get married I've actually lost hope of ever trusting a man again trust me this didn't come out of nowhere I was actually the most trusting woman at one point in my life people specifically man can fuck that up but I don't wanna be like this help me find my genuine man again
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So the thing is betam stress eyarku nw about the future and the fact I got no one by my side ena enklfe ketegnahu istg it's been months I'm a uni student ena beka y'all know bezi seat a degree ain't shi specially the one I'm learning ion got wtetm bezalay degreew yetemeta neger nw eyetmarku ylehut bezalay kll new mmarew so I'm thinking of working but don't know what to so my plan is ezi AA eyesrahu lmar nw ena endew dnget miredagn sw kagegnehu bye mihonew aytawekm ena srawn endemnm bye efelgalhu gn lmar yasbekut tmrt kfya alw gn btam tnsh ena serche enkuan mmelsew mikefllgn sw kagegnehu bye nw I know it's nonsense ezi metsafe gn at least lmokr bye nw or sw mtaku kehone tebaberugn egzabhern ene srawn ketm serche kflalhu or something idk tebaberugn tnx
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Hey y'all,
Imagine you’re a religious girl dating a non-religious guy who genuinely loves you, and you’ve also had a toxic ex who was religious and treated you badly. Would it make sense to try to force this non-religious guy to be religious, knowing how badly it went last time?
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I always feel like I don’t belong to this generation, like I’m misplaced. If I ever get a chance to time travel or smth I'll do it without hesitation fr. At the same time, I appreciate it, I can’t imagine my life without technology and the skills and awareness I’ve gained through it.
My life has always been complicated, and lately it feels like it’s only getting more so. I keep a small circle, yet I’ve never really felt like I had my people. The ones I believed were there either disappeared or turned out not to be who I thought they were.
Today I lost one more too, and I don’t even know what I’m supposed to feel, relief, sadness, or grief. Maybe all of it at once.
As a generation, we’re struggling. It’s not even about perfection, it’s about remembering how to be human.
Screw it tho, life goes on.
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Hey, I'm 20 I need some advice MN mselachu that's my first relationship ena 8 werachin new gn am not feeling good bka his back history btam ydebral ke bzu setoch gar tarik alew mnamn my friends are ayhonshim esu eko eyalu bzu yngrugal bzly am 'v' esu gn adlm MN endeyazegn dmo alakm MN tlugnalachu keep up larg weys eski mkerugn ene mnm safe yhonku eymselegn adlem
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ezi hager gn manm sw sle mental health aychenekm malet nw!! kenun mulu tegteh stwl ke bet mewtat asteltoh ye mgb appetite tezegto eyaye depressed mehonhn enkon mayredalh mahbereseb wst nw yalenew ....lerasachn erasachn nen yalenew wegen😐 neka belu manm meto miredah yelem erashn chleh neka bel...weym degmo endi aynet huneta wst yalachu nu ena ennekaka
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Hey Endet nachu
24 F mn meselachu I Never be in relationships No kiss No sex No makeout Bzu wendoch ye fkr tyake yakerbulgnal gn mknyatun enem alawkem alkebelem Konjo,habtam ...mnm aynet sew ke guadegnet yalefe neger endinoren alfelgem some times tnsh interested yehonkubet sew kale enem esun sanawek disappear enhonalen mnm aynet trauma yelebgnm gn flirt siyadergu ydebregnal then etefalew mknyaten enem alawkewem bzu gize mknyatun lemawek emokralew gn lawk alchelem
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Sometimes I feel a quiet ache in my heart because I don’t have a female best friend someone I could love like a sister and share everything with. When people talk about their besties, how they stand by each other through every season of life, I feel jealous, not out of bitterness, but out of longing. I dream of having that one woman in my life who would be my maid of honor, who would come to my home when I’m struggling as a new wife, who would hold my hand through pregnancy, birth, and all the moments in between. It’s not about replacing family or marriage; it’s about wanting a soul-deep friendship a bestie who chooses me, stays, and grows with me through life.
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Hello guys so 27f lately am in need of a real connection uk like i wanna date but date to marry n continuously find myself attracted to guys at zir mid 30's ena i wanna experience those real dates where the guy were suit n z girl wear nice dress n candle night mnamn.. For the past few years i didn't even had an urge for marriage n relationship n even flirt i was experiencing life, class, work, family mnamn trying to stay strong n support but there should be someone whom u could be weak n feel z butterflies sm1 u could face z world wiz, cherish ur wins.....
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More often we suffer in our mind than in reality. It is a comfortable space where you experience suffering without actually getting in touch with reality. However, it can sometimes get out of hand. We assume, we don't want to ask, either in fear the answer is not what we like or not wanting to offend them. Today, I came across this though In my head, back in last year; something happened to me and it might be useful for you if you care enough to read it.
I had someone very close and thought I understood him. Not in a way like I know him well but in the way, I thought I saw him. I remember saying it is totally fine, I am like that too. But, I never asked why he was that way. It is not anything bad, just a minimal physical contact in public, he wanted. As the time went by and we met again, I found myself offended. Why would he not want to hug me you know? Is he embarrassed to be seen with me? Mine you, other than this, he was the most approachable and respectful person. Even in this case, he hugged me despite his discomfort. I never asked why,but had the nerve to be upset and act like I was normal. I did well but I never realized until late that I never truly understood. I assumed, proved my ideas with low self esteem I had at that time and done. I would say I am sorry to him, but it is late for that now. We moved past it, we see each other( not in the relationship kind but still) but it is in the back of my mind. How I was low-key not communicative, how I never asked but assumed. I got my lesson but in a hard way( let's spare the details.)
Anyways, if you have someone close, a partner or anyone, please communicate first hand in respectful way before you presume. It is destructive when the times passes and becomes resentment.
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Hello there! am 👩🦰 in here late 20's
So most of my dating time /experience wasn't good unfortunately ,
There is this routine , talking stage , flirting ,acting like couple , one person catchs feelings deeper ,mixed signal showing up out of nowhere , then hot and cold vibes dry txts pull away and ghosting and the end am so tired of this mariyamn
Mejmerya neger from my experience destroyed yetdergen sew mekebel life lay betam newe waga yemiyaskeflachu meknyatum unhealed selhonu ene fix adergewalew / adergatalew belachu yemtwetubet ye hiwot meskelel weste tegebuna meriw yetfachewal yenante halfint aydelm ensun madan or fix mareg yensu newe yerasachew halfint comfort enji yemer feker adelm yemifelgut time, edeme ena lebachun atsetwachew at the end of the day the r ungrateful brats yeah just like that they move on so fast cuz you did charity
Nxt when am in love i love with out conditions with out calculating (ma bad) , lemn endmigoda lengerachu poorly treat eytedergachu aytaychuhem cuz yenante lensu yalchu fiker enji lela dekamacw or red flags even walking red carpets atayum in this case they used you boundaries selmaynorachu mechwecha tehonalchu
Kehulum belay love bombing is the main thing to play in your mind they are invested at the beginning , the reassures , love showering , the attention in unbelievable beka lovey dovey once they got you hooked they became very busy ,also pull and push you , they think "i am the prize", they need space why because they don't get attention at home that much so they need more from so many ppls out there 🤷♀ (ምን ሆኛለሁ?) yemilewn book anebut its helps me a lot
You know guys in any life circumstances stay private, beka sewch selnante menmn bayku kamyakuwachu yemiyawekachu is too close target lemaderge enanten cause yenante ayent leb hulum sew yelwm , just bcuz you are nice person alem lenantem nice athonem yeah , victim mind nesh letelugh techalalchu nah am not life nat yastemarchign boundaries yelalachu ken , when you are doing thing too much you will hurt so much , mesmer atelfu , yeah be calculated person , selrasachu bezu kemawerat tekotebu , unhealed yehone mentality hone manenet yezachu ategbu mejemrya geze setu leraschu ena heal adergu self love kalchu lelwaen lemgudat atasebum btw sewoch lay yemtadergut negroch enanten enji yanen sew aygelstewm gen bemayakew balewalebet waga taskeflutalchu andadnde lelaw sew teru sew newe ene gena negn leza sew beku lemhon belachu betasbu ena ras wedad bathonu in the right way meyaz matchelubet kehone just let them go early please , let the right person treat them well
At the last , lebachun tebku not everyone deserve it , boundaries yenurachu , more focus on your self
Lebachun tebku Please
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Nafekegn
Ayehut ayegn gn alteyayenm
Af awutto biyaweragn mn endemlew alakm
Entarek bilegn wey kahun kahun atfchalew ykrta bilegn mn endemareg mawek efelgalew.... Lbe angetu sr gebto eskahun yatawun yenafekewun terenun eyemage wushk byee sksk bye saleks ysemagnal. Belela bekul demo aymroye ay tey batteyiw eskahun dresm betam endemtwejiw bisemashm gn esu lanchi yemihon sew aydelem beka erefi ylegnal.... Sew endet keand amet belay teleyayto koyto... Kal sayaweta sayawera amet alfot endet eskahun sayew endezih aynet smet ysemagnal... Mn aynet? Sayew asazenegn bzu chgr yeteshekeme ymeslal fitu betam yemskin honalech beka yasasal... Zmbye fegegtawun lemayet yahl ande heje yehone keld negrew keza kelbu sko esun ayche degmen bnleyay yshalal bye asebku. Jil negn aa? Guwadegnaye yhen btak betam tnadedbgnalech tesfa new yemtkortbgn mknyatum bzu leftalech besu mknyat amet menor endalchalku takalech enena esuwanm liyaleyayen ena betam yerejm amet guwadegnnetm liyafers neber... Gn mn largew eshi.... Betam nafkognal.... Betam asaznognal.... Akfewu hulum neger selam endemihon ejun yzhe bnegrew... Tkeshaye lay tenterso endedrow ema eyale chgrun binegregn bye asebku.. Gnko negeroch hulu ene endeteredahuwachew layhonu ychlalu betam destegna hono mnalbat demo lela setgam hono yhonal... Man yawukal lela behiwotu adis neger ynor yhonal.eshi ene slesu endezih masebe mn ybalal? Yemejemeriyaye slehonena yemechereshayem endihon yemfelgew sew sleneber new? Baygebawum biyatefam enenm erasunm bisebrm lemndnew eskahun slesu yemasbew? Yemaznlets? Edl mayaset shtet biseram lemndnew eskahun lbe lesu edl slemestet miyasbew? Mnagebagn slesu lemn? Lemn? LEMN??? Is this what we call loving someone so deep? Or WHAT?
Lemndnew menfesu yedekeme meslo yetesemagn?
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I’m 30m, I’m struggling. and I’m deeply into some very specific kinks, including femdom/pleasure dom, ass eating, and piss mistress...
What makes this harder is that I’m planning to get married to my girlfriend. I care about her, and I don’t want to ruin her life or blindside her with something she never signed up for. I can’t talk to her about this, at least not right now, because it feels so far from who I am in our relationship.
I got in to this mainly because of my Ex years ago and whenever we are doing the did and I give her head she always peed (squirted or call it whatever you want) on/in my mouth, and I liked it and she did too and even tho she was super toxic I can't stop thinking about her (specially that part). And lately, I’ve been thinking about acting out these fantasies, but I don’t want to go the escort route, which leaves me feeling even more stuck.
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I vowed to myself to never write here because I understood at one point to keep my thoughts in my head.
I don't know why I am writing this but I guess I can't be logical and self controlled enough to stop myself from spiraling.
I was glad when for sometime the bot stopped working because then I don't post it here when it gets out of hand.
When did the simple things get expensive?
When did inner peace become impossible to attain or the bar is so high ?
How can you stop wanting people to listen? For how long would one downplay all this?
Don't tell me everyone is suffering.
I know that. I have been told as such, but it doesn't make what I write less valid.
I am mad at myself for writing this, I am regretting it.
Just thought It would be great to let it off but ended up feeling worse
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Sometimes i want to run away,i really want that ,all dramatic things in my life ,all people,i lost my energy to wake up every day ,stress about the exam and GPA,study all day,expect someone again and again,feel unwanted,try to make everyone happy,being good girl to family,i am tird.sometimes i loss the purpose to live .no one understand except me and God.i really want to stop and take a breath,but that'll be my final step,we can't stop living until we die😔😔😔😔😔😔
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I am 🎭 Ice coffee ☕️
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I saw someone who I'm not friends with or been in relationship before, we were literally nothing and you might think we're strangers, you're kinda right. But we did it, I know that person body and they know mine , and it's so strange that I only know the name of this person, we both said hi and moved on. It's odd thing that to sleep with someone.
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Hey 20 male uni student
The thing is I'm getting bored of talking to people around me all the conversation is always simple and boring
I want to talk about history, movies, art , feminism and the patriarchy, music, pop culture but all my male friends talk about is sports(don't come at me on this i am a huge fan of sports but it's not what i want to talk all day) and the girls they slept with so anyone who is interested in talking more than simple things I would love if you could hit me up
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Is it weird that I actually miss the effort?
I was sitting on my balcony tonight just watching the city lights, and it hit me how much I value the 'small' things that seem to be disappearing. I’m the kind of person who still believes in long, late-night talks that actually mean something, or remembering exactly how someone likes their coffee when they’ve had a bad day.
Lately, I’ve felt a bit out of place in a world that feels so rushed and temporary. I have all this care and loyalty to give, but nowhere to put it right now. It gets lonely being a 'deep thinker' in a surface-level world.
Just venting, I guess. I’m just looking for that one person who actually wants to be known, not just seen. If you’re feeling the same kind of 'quiet' tonight, I’d love to hear what’s on your mind. Maybe we don't have to be lonely at the same time.
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Hey chat, I’m 19 and the thing is… when I’m ovulating, my thoughts get crazy. I’m a virgin, but I still feel like I’m going insane. Is it just me, or do other girls feel the same?
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