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Hello there! am 👩🦰 in here late 20's
So most of my dating time /experience wasn't good unfortunately ,
There is this routine , talking stage , flirting ,acting like couple , one person catchs feelings deeper ,mixed signal showing up out of nowhere , then hot and cold vibes dry txts pull away and ghosting and the end am so tired of this mariyamn
Mejmerya neger from my experience destroyed yetdergen sew mekebel life lay betam newe waga yemiyaskeflachu meknyatum unhealed selhonu ene fix adergewalew / adergatalew belachu yemtwetubet ye hiwot meskelel weste tegebuna meriw yetfachewal yenante halfint aydelm ensun madan or fix mareg yensu newe yerasachew halfint comfort enji yemer feker adelm yemifelgut time, edeme ena lebachun atsetwachew at the end of the day the r ungrateful brats yeah just like that they move on so fast cuz you did charity
Nxt when am in love i love with out conditions with out calculating (ma bad) , lemn endmigoda lengerachu poorly treat eytedergachu aytaychuhem cuz yenante lensu yalchu fiker enji lela dekamacw or red flags even walking red carpets atayum in this case they used you boundaries selmaynorachu mechwecha tehonalchu
Kehulum belay love bombing is the main thing to play in your mind they are invested at the beginning , the reassures , love showering , the attention in unbelievable beka lovey dovey once they got you hooked they became very busy ,also pull and push you , they think "i am the prize", they need space why because they don't get attention at home that much so they need more from so many ppls out there 🤷♀ (ምን ሆኛለሁ?) yemilewn book anebut its helps me a lot
You know guys in any life circumstances stay private, beka sewch selnante menmn bayku kamyakuwachu yemiyawekachu is too close target lemaderge enanten cause yenante ayent leb hulum sew yelwm , just bcuz you are nice person alem lenantem nice athonem yeah , victim mind nesh letelugh techalalchu nah am not life nat yastemarchign boundaries yelalachu ken , when you are doing thing too much you will hurt so much , mesmer atelfu , yeah be calculated person , selrasachu bezu kemawerat tekotebu , unhealed yehone mentality hone manenet yezachu ategbu mejemrya geze setu leraschu ena heal adergu self love kalchu lelwaen lemgudat atasebum btw sewoch lay yemtadergut negroch enanten enji yanen sew aygelstewm gen bemayakew balewalebet waga taskeflutalchu andadnde lelaw sew teru sew newe ene gena negn leza sew beku lemhon belachu betasbu ena ras wedad bathonu in the right way meyaz matchelubet kehone just let them go early please , let the right person treat them well
At the last , lebachun tebku not everyone deserve it , boundaries yenurachu , more focus on your self
Lebachun tebku Please
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Nafekegn
Ayehut ayegn gn alteyayenm
Af awutto biyaweragn mn endemlew alakm
Entarek bilegn wey kahun kahun atfchalew ykrta bilegn mn endemareg mawek efelgalew.... Lbe angetu sr gebto eskahun yatawun yenafekewun terenun eyemage wushk byee sksk bye saleks ysemagnal. Belela bekul demo aymroye ay tey batteyiw eskahun dresm betam endemtwejiw bisemashm gn esu lanchi yemihon sew aydelem beka erefi ylegnal.... Sew endet keand amet belay teleyayto koyto... Kal sayaweta sayawera amet alfot endet eskahun sayew endezih aynet smet ysemagnal... Mn aynet? Sayew asazenegn bzu chgr yeteshekeme ymeslal fitu betam yemskin honalech beka yasasal... Zmbye fegegtawun lemayet yahl ande heje yehone keld negrew keza kelbu sko esun ayche degmen bnleyay yshalal bye asebku. Jil negn aa? Guwadegnaye yhen btak betam tnadedbgnalech tesfa new yemtkortbgn mknyatum bzu leftalech besu mknyat amet menor endalchalku takalech enena esuwanm liyaleyayen ena betam yerejm amet guwadegnnetm liyafers neber... Gn mn largew eshi.... Betam nafkognal.... Betam asaznognal.... Akfewu hulum neger selam endemihon ejun yzhe bnegrew... Tkeshaye lay tenterso endedrow ema eyale chgrun binegregn bye asebku.. Gnko negeroch hulu ene endeteredahuwachew layhonu ychlalu betam destegna hono mnalbat demo lela setgam hono yhonal... Man yawukal lela behiwotu adis neger ynor yhonal.eshi ene slesu endezih masebe mn ybalal? Yemejemeriyaye slehonena yemechereshayem endihon yemfelgew sew sleneber new? Baygebawum biyatefam enenm erasunm bisebrm lemndnew eskahun slesu yemasbew? Yemaznlets? Edl mayaset shtet biseram lemndnew eskahun lbe lesu edl slemestet miyasbew? Mnagebagn slesu lemn? Lemn? LEMN??? Is this what we call loving someone so deep? Or WHAT?
Lemndnew menfesu yedekeme meslo yetesemagn?
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I’m 30m, I’m struggling. and I’m deeply into some very specific kinks, including femdom/pleasure dom, ass eating, and piss mistress...
What makes this harder is that I’m planning to get married to my girlfriend. I care about her, and I don’t want to ruin her life or blindside her with something she never signed up for. I can’t talk to her about this, at least not right now, because it feels so far from who I am in our relationship.
I got in to this mainly because of my Ex years ago and whenever we are doing the did and I give her head she always peed (squirted or call it whatever you want) on/in my mouth, and I liked it and she did too and even tho she was super toxic I can't stop thinking about her (specially that part). And lately, I’ve been thinking about acting out these fantasies, but I don’t want to go the escort route, which leaves me feeling even more stuck.
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I am 🎭 Shadow
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I vowed to myself to never write here because I understood at one point to keep my thoughts in my head.
I don't know why I am writing this but I guess I can't be logical and self controlled enough to stop myself from spiraling.
I was glad when for sometime the bot stopped working because then I don't post it here when it gets out of hand.
When did the simple things get expensive?
When did inner peace become impossible to attain or the bar is so high ?
How can you stop wanting people to listen? For how long would one downplay all this?
Don't tell me everyone is suffering.
I know that. I have been told as such, but it doesn't make what I write less valid.
I am mad at myself for writing this, I am regretting it.
Just thought It would be great to let it off but ended up feeling worse
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Sometimes i want to run away,i really want that ,all dramatic things in my life ,all people,i lost my energy to wake up every day ,stress about the exam and GPA,study all day,expect someone again and again,feel unwanted,try to make everyone happy,being good girl to family,i am tird.sometimes i loss the purpose to live .no one understand except me and God.i really want to stop and take a breath,but that'll be my final step,we can't stop living until we die😔😔😔😔😔😔
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I am 🎭 Ice coffee ☕️
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I saw someone who I'm not friends with or been in relationship before, we were literally nothing and you might think we're strangers, you're kinda right. But we did it, I know that person body and they know mine , and it's so strange that I only know the name of this person, we both said hi and moved on. It's odd thing that to sleep with someone.
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Hey 20 male uni student
The thing is I'm getting bored of talking to people around me all the conversation is always simple and boring
I want to talk about history, movies, art , feminism and the patriarchy, music, pop culture but all my male friends talk about is sports(don't come at me on this i am a huge fan of sports but it's not what i want to talk all day) and the girls they slept with so anyone who is interested in talking more than simple things I would love if you could hit me up
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I am M
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Is it weird that I actually miss the effort?
I was sitting on my balcony tonight just watching the city lights, and it hit me how much I value the 'small' things that seem to be disappearing. I’m the kind of person who still believes in long, late-night talks that actually mean something, or remembering exactly how someone likes their coffee when they’ve had a bad day.
Lately, I’ve felt a bit out of place in a world that feels so rushed and temporary. I have all this care and loyalty to give, but nowhere to put it right now. It gets lonely being a 'deep thinker' in a surface-level world.
Just venting, I guess. I’m just looking for that one person who actually wants to be known, not just seen. If you’re feeling the same kind of 'quiet' tonight, I’d love to hear what’s on your mind. Maybe we don't have to be lonely at the same time.
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Hey chat, I’m 19 and the thing is… when I’m ovulating, my thoughts get crazy. I’m a virgin, but I still feel like I’m going insane. Is it just me, or do other girls feel the same?
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Hi there i really need to know what do u guys think about this.
The thing is bechalekut meten i want to be kind like sewoch bene mkenyat destega syhonu des yelegal .sew trum metfom side benorewm i always try to be good.hule kerase gar yemyatalag nger kewechi echo tru ngerochen eseralew as a normal gen weste yanen nger yemargew bemelash yehone nger felge or beka tekebayenet lemageget endehone enji yemer tru sew endalhonku tesemagal ena i hate this feeling .my question endet new be nesu lebe tru sew mehon yemechelew ?melash endemetebekb endysemag alfelegm please tell me guys🙏🙏
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Hiiii 😁 I need some help!
So I’m 21F and I’ve never dated anyone before. Not because I didn’t have chances trust me, I’ve had options but I’ve always had this very specific idea of the kind of man I want. And, well… none of the guys I’ve met so far have really met the mark.
Plus, my parents are strict strict 😅 so dating was never something I seriously thought about growing up.
But lately? I’ve been feeling the urge to at least try, you know, chat with a guy, maybe flirt a little, catch some butterflies, that whole cute vibe. The problem is… every time I start talking to someone, I overthink everything.
What I’m saying.
What he’s saying.
What he means when he says "lol" instead of "haha" 😩
I spiral until I’m mentally exhausted and just ghost like a raccoon avoiding confrontation.
But the truth is, I do want to experience it all. The butterflies. The late-night texts. The giddy giggles over someone calling me cute. 😭💕
So if anyone out there has any advice on how to stop self-sabotaging and start enjoying the ride… I’m all ears (and heart)! 🫶
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I am Nothing non!
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Hey all i'm 21 F
College diploma nursing student
Ena betam eyechenekegni menor eyastelagni nw
My life ke 4 amet wedih balew hassle bcha honual
Lamarr sayihon endtamakrugni nw yemetahut ........
So the thing is
Lebetachin mejemeriya lij negni Father be tmhrt guday betam yitebkegnial yitemamenbgnial cuz mtebek temarim neberku but, guess what.. what happened
i failed the Entrance exam After, that I was in deep stress and confusion
Keza bzum sayikoy Abaten masdestbet 1 yetesfa chilanchil bik ale
"Remedial" ene 2014 batch negni le Remedial 1st batch malet nw
Ena gibi hedkugni betam manbeb jemerku ke dorm cafe then class keza library ehud tewat betekristiyan keza dorm manbeb bcha neber sraye kerasem tret belay be fetari yalegni emnet betam tenkara neber yalemknyatma tesemto tayito mayitawek edl atametam yihe yante sra nw መድሐኒዓለም አምንሐለው elew neber Ergtegnam neberku endemalf even mn department endemgeba hulu eza yeneberu 2nd and 3rd year temariwochin amakrachew neber but guess what mn endetefetere Remedial Alalefkum 💔 Maryamn endet endekefagni 🥺 Beka Egziabher Amlak endemayifelgegni nw eyetesemagni yalew😞😔
Ahun lay 2 amet lihonew nw gn still beka lk adeleh
Guadegnoche hulu gibi nachew
Eyetemarku nw Egziabher yimesgen gn Father siyayegni yibesachal kremt kremt abro adegoche ke gibi simetu beka entnako metachi ye ekele lij le ereft ezih nw yalew ayeshi enesu yet endederesu anchis yet neshi eyale yawedadregnial ene mn ladrg eshi e yeakmen yahl mokerku ere teyi tsegurshin fchi sbal rasu koy yichin lchersna eyalku lerase gize slset anbbe kemechewn gize belay befetari temamgnem gn alhonelgnim
Ahun menor betam eyastelagni nw
Andand gize mnalbat yerase gebi binoregni at least ye tmhrt bet kerase mekfel bchil biye asbalew gn sra serche alawkm weto lemesratm mnnorbet akababi keketema rak yale slehone ayimechim
Online mesrat felgalew ena ebakachu Agzugni
Betesebochen balderslachewn at least yerasen wechi bemeshefen lagzachew
Atlefugni
Egziabher yakbrlgni
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Hey i am f 24 … lately i have realised that i am becoming someone i am not which is extremely introvert i barely go out its like everytime i go to work then to home home to work and i want to get out of this circle My friends dont go out aswell its like they really like being isolated and i am opposite. I am looking for a genuine friends that are outgoing and i can talk to about anything and do fun stuff like go to events and be adventurous ….. if u are down let me know in the comments
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Ok I have a question for the guy rly when u fine the one who u vibe with, had a strong conversation or connection while texting or talking by phone and when the time comes u ask her out on a date....... U had a great time but few minutes later u ghost her bc I been ghosted a lot idk why I didn't do anything but rly wth ur problems guys am not saying all but few............
My vent is stop give a girl hope and love after ur going ghost her.
It may be cool for 7 but u look stupid....
Well I want to take this out my chest bc am not the only one confused here
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I am Plsoylcihpop
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Hey
I am A 26 year old from Addis and i need help so bad and i don't know what to do
I need to find a wife as soon as possible.
My mom is sick and she have been begging me to bring a wife or a Girlfriend so she can meet here and i don't even have a girlfriend and i don't know what to do she is stressing me out saying she might pass away and ልሞት ነው
I am even thinking about just someone to show her ena i am stressed
What do you think i can do
Ill do anything
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23F
For guys
I’ve been dating this guy for six months now. I like him but he’s been giving me mixed signals lately. When we’re together, everything is great we have a really good time. He tells me I’m pretty and says that he loves me. We also don’t argue much.
The problem is that sometimes he doesn’t call, and other times he doesn’t even answer when I call him. I understand that he’s busy I see how his phone rings nonstop when we’re together but I’m starting to get tired of this pattern. I don’t mind being the one who calls, but if I stop calling,reaches out a day later, and then ask me why I haven’t called and the cycle repeats.I’ve asked him why he does this, and he always apologizes and says he was busy or that he forgot. At this point, I’m tired and only want to understand why he is this way.
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I’m 26, and this is something I’ve been sitting with for a while. I’ve realized I have this pull toward being submissive—not in a shallow way, but in the sense of letting someone else lead, decide, and hold control. There’s something about that dynamic that completely unravels me in the best way.
I don’t even know how to explain it properly—just the idea of a calm, composed, dominant woman who knows exactly who she is.That kind of presence drives me crazy.
I guess this is me wondering out loud… do women like that actually exist here? Someone grounded, confident, dominant without being harsh. If you’re out there, I’m honestly just curious- are you here....
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I am funny for the people I get close . I am a completely different person for those I don't know well. As a result I get it hard to have a gf or fwb. I am interested into having one. But I would love to have a girl who would also be an fwb . But most of the girls take this as an insult. I would love to cuddle all day long with my fwb. I sometimes feel sad to live in our society because of this. Why do we consider it as a bad thing? Just wondering.
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24F.
First time venting here.
I'm actually scared that I'll never get married I've actually lost hope of ever trusting a man again trust me this didn't come out of nowhere I was actually the most trusting woman at one point in my life people specifically man can fuck that up but I don't wanna be like this help me find my genuine man again
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So the thing is betam stress eyarku nw about the future and the fact I got no one by my side ena enklfe ketegnahu istg it's been months I'm a uni student ena beka y'all know bezi seat a degree ain't shi specially the one I'm learning ion got wtetm bezalay degreew yetemeta neger nw eyetmarku ylehut bezalay kll new mmarew so I'm thinking of working but don't know what to so my plan is ezi AA eyesrahu lmar nw ena endew dnget miredagn sw kagegnehu bye mihonew aytawekm ena srawn endemnm bye efelgalhu gn lmar yasbekut tmrt kfya alw gn btam tnsh ena serche enkuan mmelsew mikefllgn sw kagegnehu bye nw I know it's nonsense ezi metsafe gn at least lmokr bye nw or sw mtaku kehone tebaberugn egzabhern ene srawn ketm serche kflalhu or something idk tebaberugn tnx
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Hey y'all,
Imagine you’re a religious girl dating a non-religious guy who genuinely loves you, and you’ve also had a toxic ex who was religious and treated you badly. Would it make sense to try to force this non-religious guy to be religious, knowing how badly it went last time?
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I always feel like I don’t belong to this generation, like I’m misplaced. If I ever get a chance to time travel or smth I'll do it without hesitation fr. At the same time, I appreciate it, I can’t imagine my life without technology and the skills and awareness I’ve gained through it.
My life has always been complicated, and lately it feels like it’s only getting more so. I keep a small circle, yet I’ve never really felt like I had my people. The ones I believed were there either disappeared or turned out not to be who I thought they were.
Today I lost one more too, and I don’t even know what I’m supposed to feel, relief, sadness, or grief. Maybe all of it at once.
As a generation, we’re struggling. It’s not even about perfection, it’s about remembering how to be human.
Screw it tho, life goes on.
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22M
Am i alone feeling this way
I like to see myself as a guy with specific tastes and in the age of tik tok i feel like i am the only person who doesnt use it.
also the field i chose to work on is game development and it is only beginning in this country. i am hoping the early bird gets the worm(like zero women in it).
but while focusing my time to accomplish this dream. i havent focused on my dating life ever since i had a big breakup almost 3 yrs ago and now i couldnt find a girl as nerdy as i am to have a date with.
i want to date someone close to my job cuz i like to be in relationships where we can work and make worlds.
any advices on reviving my dating life
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Idk why i really like older women around 30 - 40 but am 23 and i have some experience at most 3 or 4 baddies.
Is this normal guys??
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23M.
First time venting here.
I’m a 4th-year university student, so let me get straight to it: I’ve got a crush on a girl in my class.
We mostly talk on Telegram about school stuff, but I struggle to move the conversation beyond academics. Since we’re classmates, we see each other a lot—she even sits with me sometimes because we share another course in a different class. Still, it feels like I don’t really have a reason to talk to her unless it’s about school.
I’m honestly tired of coming up with random or forced academic topics just to slide into her DMs. I think I’ve gotten a bit attached—her replies affect my mood more than they should, for better or worse. What’s confusing is that this doesn’t happen with other people. I know some of this probably looks foolish, but I still reach out because I enjoy it when she responds positively.
I try to add humor sometimes. Occasionally she matches the energy, but other times the conversation feels dry. I worry that if I shift the topic too much, she’ll realize I like her, and I don’t know how to handle that without making things awkward. I’m also pretty introverted, and it’s hard to repeat in person what I say over text. Because of that, I end up playing the “class nerd” who mostly sticks to academic talk.
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I'm 20 M, am kinda handsome guy and some girls want to flirt with me but idk how to flirt and i use to be a pornography n masturbation addict and a guy wants to experience sex like a lot and for the past like 3/4 weeks i was flirting with a girl, she got interest on me and the day before yesterday she was showing me her new dress in a video call ena asytagn chersa kemisun stawelkew i saw her boobs and it feel like she do it on purpose after that my mind kept sayin i should try my luck..but the thing is am broke and can't take her out for dinner or sth but she lives alone but there is a tekeray on their gibi and her unc use to sleep there sometimes and ik that she can't invite me to her home(she invited me last eve but i was busy i didn't saw her text) so guys what do u think should i do
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24M, so here’s the thing I’m into BDSM but I have only met 2 girls who knew what they were doing as a sub. I have been looking for a girl who knows what he talks about when the topic of Bdsm comes up; I don’t want casual fwb type of thing but a girl who is into the same thing I’m into and is ready to be in a committed relationship But damn it is tough out there and the amount of vanilla girls cosplaying to be sub is just crazy at this point I think I should just suppress my choice and settle for a vanilla girl cause it’s starting to look like a lost cause
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The Story Goes Like This I am obsessed with this dude and I feel like he has attachment avoidant issues and also emotionally a little bit immature and I have diagnosed myself with anxious attachment issues so you can see how well we fit together and I'm the only person hurting in this Dynamics. since freshman year I've been obsessed with this guy and he never wanted a relationship with me. mind you, he is my first kiss my first everything but he hurt me so bad he disrespected me. when we do spend time together though it is very genuine and romantic so I always hold on to those memories whenever he does me wrong but after freshman year it was just too much so I couldn't handle it I ghosted him and then my grandma died when I was in third year of University and he came to console me I saw him again it was very overwhelming and it just stirred up all this memories. He did try to reach out in those time I ghosted him so I talked with my friend and decided to call him. the night that I called him he was very surprised and he treated me so well we talked for 2hours I told him I missed him he said "I missed you I'm sorry" you know and I felt very happy to hear that and things escalated we met up we made out and stuff like that but you see he is always hot and cold so still he hasn't changed much even though he is way nicer than he used to be anyway the point is that I know he still doesn't want relationship with me I know maybe he thinks I'm a horny mistake but because of the feelings I have for him I decided to have sex with him. Look I know what you guys are going to say." you are a fool" "you r value less "whatever but listen I am obsessed with him I have never felt this way for anyone. that boy made me cry for him I have a soft spot for him and I know that I would never feel this way for any man in my life so yes he didn't deserve it but I deserved to have sex with him. I sat down and decided to do this with him because I know that I would never feel this way for any man in my life, so if not him then with who? you know I don't want to regret not doing it. But like I said I feel like he is thinking that he finally took something away from me. Well he kind of ghosted me and now is Back to being a little bit cold like I said I expected this to happen so I'm not surprised or I'm not regretting things regardless you still feel sad even though you know what's going to happen. And for future references I didn't bleed and it didn't hurt as much as the media portrayed it honestly speaking it was kind of a little bit uncomfortable at first when he tried to penetrate me but then after that it was all cool and I think not a lot of women know this but almost like 60% of women don't bleed for their first time you can check the statistics anyway because of this he didn't believe that I was a virgin and it really hurts me when he asked if I've done this before honestly speaking I kind of cried well he said sorry for asking that question but I feel like the reason why he asked me is because after we did that he expected I would be all over him begging him and calling 24/7 but I didn't do that. I kept to myself. And whenever I asked him about the day we finally did the deed he says you have a nice body and it felt good.
his answers were all shallow and it hurt because my answers were very relative and emotional I said I liked it because it was you I liked kissing you because I wanted to be as close as humanly possible to you so as you can see there was a mismatch here he didn't meet me to the depth I wanted.For the longest time I questioned myself image I thought that there was something wrong with me that I'm not enough for him that I have to change something but now I see that it's not me if someone is not ready there's nothing that you can do to make them ready
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I need to vent
I’m 17, in Grade 11. I don’t know where to start, but I really want a solution from you guys.
When I was in Grade 9, someone said something that I still can’t get out of my mind. I was a fresh student in high school. I wanted to talk to someone and be friends with him. So I told his friend about it. The person I wanted to be friends with was an old student, and his friend was a new student like me.
That day, his friend and I were walking home together, talking about him. Then he said, “You’re fine, but only your nose…” He didn’t finish the sentence. I was like, “Huh? My nose?” Then he continued talking about something else. I didn’t care that much at the time, but that night I started rethinking why he said that.
I looked in the mirror and started wondering what was wrong with my nose. I said to myself, “So he meant my nose is big, and he might not like me because of my looks?” Suddenly, my nose looked bigger to me, and it felt like everyone else had small noses. I had never really noticed my nose before, but now my side profile looked bad to me.
After that, I became really insecure about my face. I literally disappear when people talk about facial features. I don’t know what to call my nose—Greek or hooked—but having that plus crooked teeth feels like it doesn’t go together. I hate it when someone I want to be friends with sits beside me. I hate my side profile. Even my best friends, who I would die for, started using bullying words.
I went through Grades 9 and 10 like that. Then I changed schools for Grade 11. I thought my insecurities would fade away, but in my new school, during the first week, friends I met there also said my nose was ugly. Forget boys—even girls laughing at me was hell. Like, damn, can’t I even have best friends?
Please help me. I’ve lost all my confidence. This isn’t about anyone else; it’s about me. I want the biggest glow-up. I want to get braces, because I feel like if my teeth are straight, my nose will look okay. If you know any dental clinics with lower prices, please tell me the address and price (if you know). And if you have tips to make my nose look smaller or to improve my side profile, please help me.
Thank you.
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