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I am 21M and i joined AASTU this year so here is the thing.
I moved here from Harar and i think i am the only one from there , am kind of sociable guy but currently i have no friend at all and this situation makes me frustrated and stressed but u know why i moved here ? just inorder to start new life which is surrounded by new people and new place . But still i didn't even try to get one friend and i am procrastinating my time and i haven't started learning yet. But when i see other people a lot of them gathered her from the same school or same place and that envys me . So guys if u have any idea that can help how can i survive this situation am all ears .
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M 23
I still miss you… even after everything. It’s stupid, I know. I keep replaying the good moments like maybe they’ll bring you back, but deep down I know it’s over. You’re not the same anymore or maybe you are, and I just kept seeing what I wanted to see. I tell myself to move on, but every time I try, it’s like my heart still reaches for you. I don’t want you back… but I still wish you’d come back.
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Hey everyone, I need to get something off my chest. I’m 30, living in the USA, got my bachelor’s, and I’m grinding through my master’s. Life’s busy, but I’m really feeling ready to start a relationship, you know? I’m hoping to meet someone special—someone tall, with long hair, well-educated, and who’s got a strong faith in God. It’s tough out there, though, balancing all this and trying to connect with the right person. Anyone else navigating the dating world or got advice on meeting someone who shares these values? Would love to hear your thoughts!
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Sup ppl 19m Protestant i got question like why do girls hate a person who cares for u and a person who loves u?
Its just i never been in relationship and i feel bad girls reject me i may not be attractive but everything i do i do it with all my heart i give everything even i sacrifice my happiness for someone but they dont get it all they say is im not interested and it rly kills me inside fr pls anyone say smthn do u go through the same situation ?
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Hey there 22m, is it normal to love an ex for years even tho she rejected me many times after the breakup she tells me she misses me but can't be with me, she has valid reason and i understand her but what is so wrong with me that i still love her, when i see her in campus i could feel that she's not okay and worry about her instead my life that's going downhill. She's a sweet person that has her own struggles and been through a lot and i wish things would have changed and i end up having her back and be the shoulder she cries on, i wanna go there ask her if she's okay and just talk to her but ik i have to give her the distance she wants. It just sucks
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Hey i am M 25 years old am Protestant ena i want serious relationship cause bezi generation Christian honachum alhonachum betam kebdual ena serious relationship yemetfelg ena i work i learn tekekelga ye geta sew yehonch bethon des yelegal
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Sup gang
I'm 21 and didn't experience sexualities before and there is a girl in my neighbour and she is like my sister for me and this week she start flirting and I do flirt well then she wants me to bang her like she start bagging mnamn then and I agree then I'm ABT to search couple house but my mind still doubt I need help fam
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Hey I am 21 M and the thing is I don't know how to properly talk to girl's I am introverted may I say I make things a rush if I try to talk to some girl I feel attached so quickly like after talking for 1 day and dream abt making love so quickly maybe this happen bcs of the porn I watched or the nights I gooned. when I was in highschool I had a girl that was interested in me she even talked to me first we had a feeling for each other and it even lasted for some months but I fumbled and lost her now she's even a model I regret losing her 😭😭I don't want to go back to her, sometimes I feel like I don't even know how to open up to someone even for friendly talk most of the girls I got crush on open a way for me but I don't know what to do at that moment I feel like i don't know the magic words pls help me especially girl's
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hey y'all anybody here who used to smoke weed like for 4 yr and get over it tell me how!!am gonna lose him otherwise plsss?
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Selam
Yehone lj ale ena he has his own company plus dgmo famous nw. Ena one day while I was scrolling on ig he texted me. I mean tg laym ig laym follow adrgewalw gn 1 kenm text yadrglegnal beye malasbw sew nw ena textun sekft it says "u r so cute" ewnt endet endedngtku & I thought his account hack endetdrg. Keza esu endhone lemaregagt degagm tykut ena erasu nw. Yan ken bezu aweran ena ketay ken yehone tyke tykut malet ke life experience tensto limlsw yemichlw aynt tyake gn his text was so dry beka may be bad mood west hono yihonal beye ketay ken lela tyake setykw his response was in the same way. Keza beka tewkut. Gn my question is sijmer rasu why did he talked to me? I mean what do men think when they do this kind of thing?
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I'm struggling with something tonight and I need to get it off my chest.
My faith in Jesus is the most important thing in my life. It’s a real, living relationship that gives me hope and purpose. But right now, that very faith is causing a deep conflict inside me.
I feel this persistent, gentle nudge from the Holy Spirit—a tug on my heart to share about the hope I've found in Christ. And I keep ignoring it. I'm kicking myself for staying silent when I feel so strongly that I shouldn't.
It leaves me feeling guilty and frustrated with myself. I believe so completely that He is the path to salvation, but my fear of being awkward or saying the wrong thing keeps winning. I feel like I'm failing to live out what I believe.
This is my personal reminder that I need to be braver. I need to get more connected with my church community for support because trying to do this alone isn't working. I just feel a heavy weight about this tonight and needed to vent.
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So I'm a freshman at st.paul. And I saw a guy. He's taller than me, nice, ND the prettiest hands I have ever seen, I really like his complexion , he's playful but kora Yale at the same time .I felt so comfortable when he was talking to us.I saw him in church too and there's something graceful about him .I think he's in C1 , like the new batch cause I heard them complain about it . I don't know what to do , should I approach him. Is 3 years gap a lot for things to work out. Am I getting ahead of myself . Helpppp I can't believe I got emotionally involved this soon😭 .
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18f and i have a spicy movies addictions and weird fetishes girls in the same shoes i need your help
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You know… people always assume that if you don’t go to church, it’s because you don’t believe. Like you’ve turned your back on God or something. But that’s not it. That’s not me.
I do believe. I really do. I believe He’s real — that there’s something greater, something beyond all this mess we call life. I feel it sometimes… when it’s quiet, when things make too much sense to be random. I believe.
But belief and obedience — those are two different things.
And that’s where I stumble.
See, I’ve got questions. Big ones. Questions about His rules, His ways. About why things are the way they are. About how some of those commandments, those laws, they feel like they were written for a time and place that isn’t this one. And sometimes, they don’t make sense to me. Sometimes they feel… harsh. Or unfair.
So how do I walk into His house — sit in a pew, sing the songs, bow my head — when I know I don’t live by most of what’s written?
It feels wrong. It feels… disrespectful. Like I’d be pretending.
And if there’s one thing I don’t want to be with God, it’s fake.
It’s not that I’m rejecting Him. It’s that I don’t know how to approach Him when I’m this full of doubt.
When I’m this tangled up inside.
Maybe someday I’ll get there.
Maybe someday I’ll find peace with all the questions, or He’ll show me why the rules are the way they are.
But until then… I’d rather stay outside the church doors and be honest about where I stand, than walk in pretending I’m clean when I’m not.
I do believe.
I just… don’t understand.
And until I do, I’ll keep my distance — not out of rebellion, but out of respect.
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M 24
Some days I just feel tired. Not the kind of tired that sleep can fix I mean the kind that sits deep in your chest. I keep trying to be okay, to act like everything’s normal, but honestly… it’s exhausting pretending to be fine in a toxic cycle. You try to help people who only drain you, you try to stay loyal to people who wouldn’t think twice about leaving you. It’s like no matter how much peace I try to build, someone always finds a way to destroy it. I’m starting to realize maybe the problem isn’t them maybe it’s me for staying where I shouldn’t
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Hi I'm a high-school student here and I'm female
The thing is I've always been a top student always standing first whether from class or the whole grade but since 8th grade things have been declining my grades keep decreasing although I'm still a top student but I'm not the best as i used to be and I know it's okay as long as I'm getting the knowledge that I should be gaining and my family don't pressure me much they just tell me not to be lazy but this doesn't sit right with me I know it's my fault and my own lack of effort but I feel like I can't change it and I don't want to keep on going like this so what do you guys advice me to do
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Hello everyone I am 20F here is the thing I think I have an eating disorder I was fat before ena after many struggles I lost some weight ena ahun lay I hate food I mean beka and ngr kebelaw mewefr nw mimeslegn keza yechenkegnal and I always think that I am not enough pls if there’s anyone like me give me advice
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Hey guys 19 m grade 12 i got question like i never been in relationship i always wanted to experience it i asked some girls but they said no tbh i always do alot when i get to know to ppl and i always show my true color but they dont get it every person i talk and when i ask them their type its just im not even close to it
Fr this thing broke my mentality and i dont think I'll be in relationship even have my own family
How are you guys getting gf like how
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Hi Guys what's up.😊
I don't know how to start it ...
This is my story keteweledku jemro I used to have milde stuttering and this thing affecting my entire personality ,I am losing many things because of it .like I am a person who u might like me if u have me in ur group but sometimes I don't think people really value me .
Myself confidence is becoming so small , I try to work on it like for a long time I have tried everting I can . I work out even people think I am very confidence and nonchalant but when there is presentation or group talk I am very nervous because of it . I am very clever student like in my high school my Entrance was 624 and I was the top of my school but this whole hard work after joining AAU is seeming vain .
Imagine u have a big superpower but u can not talk about it and people think u are like some psycho or weak just because u can not talk perfectly as them .I have never been in a relationship not because no one is interested in me but I am so much insecure about this thing "stuttering "😔.
Girls seems to interest in me but when they know that I am stutter they run away .
I often think of killing myself ,I used to be religious but currently I don't even go to church .my communication with my Lord has been ceased.😔
So if there are people who are struggling the same problem Please help me even if u used to be I need ur help too😊
Thanks
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Hey guys my question is simple and short
I have been struggling with this thing for a lot of years and still I can't get rid of it .
Personally I am a very caring person for my personal hygiene like I get showered regularly and wear as clean as possible stuff
But this shit (Halitosis) bad breath I can't avoid it guys
Like I brush my teeth daily and even I talked with dental doctors and they washed my teeth ( even they were saying your teeth is clean and you're not needed to wash it at clinic ) and they gave me Hydrogen peroxide to use as toothpaste but no change 😭
I'm orthodox and is there anyone has avoided it after you had affected by it
Give me advice related to religion or anything you know , your brother suffering here 😢
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Hey 22f ye gbi temari i am struggling bcos of genzeb betam ymr and this bot sra felgulgn mnamn sl decline eyaderegebgn new yematreba bcha even for kbat and modes bcha ahunma tesfa eyekoretku new tutor mnamn endatlu everything new yemokerkut maybe edle new meselegn aysakalgnm beka besmam bcha help me pls pls guys
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Have any of you lost someone one might be your mom or dad , someone you can’t imagine losing…. How did you handle it
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i have a situation ship with a complicated boy ena he's so complicated i was trying to be close with him malte esun lemkereb fr he's so caring lene malte i thought at first everything for lust mesloghi neber gen ke gize hedet bewhala zem beye saywe he cares about me kefu neger endarge ayfelgem even some addictions menamne eraso he smokes cigarettes gen when it's comes to me cigarettes endeneka ayefelgem becha a lot of caring ena he tolds me about he's childhood trauma about he's family about he's dreams menamne ena inside him he's really hurt ena i really want to heal him we hangout together bezo gize gen with mutual friends new not bechachenen ena demo he lives like telke sew he's not a social meder person a call person menamne beka he uses his phone for only for transfer menamne ena be selke anweram last saturday we're together menamne ande bota lay keza ye ahne areb menamne neger sanasbwe yhone bota ayhote ena he's with he's friends gen there was a girl koche bela aberachwe ena betam dengeto salayhwe with his friends kes belo weta ena i don't think he's cheating menamne gen the gurl ke enso gar endhonche aklalwe keza bwhala they stop hanging out with us menamne zem alkon for like 3 days menamne and still now there is a lot shittt explain yalarkote selizzz gudaye gen ahne be defenawe what should i do about the situation????
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I'm a 20 year old gurl ena I've seen from 1 experience that dating is actually very traumatizing. You might think that it was childs play but i was really committed and it broke me when it ended. And maybe I'm the problem or the timing wasn't right or generally we're doomed as a generation but i really want to be a mother and a very loving wife in the future. I want to build a house that's more than walls and roof...i want to build a home. I want to show someone's son what being loved as unconditional as possible is. I want to be a resting place for my partners heart, i want to be the reason he runs back home as early as he could, i want to be comfort. But genuinely i have my own issues i have to solve to get there but even if i do, i don't think there will be anyone to reciprocate what i am willing to offer.
Maybe is just naivety cuz I'm young and you might think i haven't seen as much but as to what i have, i am very close to loosing hope and just sticking to celibacy for the future.
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Im a shy kinda guy (introvert), my family and my community thinks that im good kid with good manners but i masturbet alot and i see prostitutes. I don't know how to talk girls romantically ,,, i just think fucking them,,,, nowadays im starting to think that girls don't like sex ,,,,they just wanna have family kids and bla bla
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Heyy endet nachu
I'm here for an advice. soon to be a freshman University student.so yk uni life kebad nw it comes with a lot of struggle with everything ena set ena Gena fresh endemehone beza ly highschool eyalewem ke bet malweta ke class bet sometimes church endemihed sw everything adiss nw mihonebegn like my age weta beye zore be rase negerochen adrege mnamn aladekum always sw ale ena ya demo bechayen mehonen endefera argogal uni demo don't always come with good genuine friends so I have to face being alone ena MN temekerugalachu
I've already set my mind ke bzu metefo negeroch le merak, fellow ly endegeba ena wanegaw enen yegodagn betam expect madrege nw last year eyalew bezi mekiniyat I lost a friends at the end of the year. I just said you didn't treat me well And ignoring me from others and also disrespecting me because selemalekota mnm sele malel and when they apologize I smile and tewewalew beka and they are like (the two girls,the other 2 was so good still ) it's not our duty or responsibility mnamn ngr alugn ena block remove follower mnamn aregu the one clearly I don't want you to my friend anymore alech the other removed me silently after that attitude enaaaa yehe agatami because of expecting MN yahel suffer endareku ena le maytekemugn sewoch gd lemayesetachew ppl's sechenek salakes ende nbr realize aregiyalew and no one is permanent so gibi demo kezi yebesal ik
ena MN temekerugalachu
Cause experience'u kalew sw mesemat it's better beye sele maseb
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Hey all!
I hope everybody is doing good.
I know there will be insluts coming and all but I have a question in case there is another person experiencing the same shit. I just started dating, we clicked off and the connection is going fine. The problem is I get horny whenever we meet up and that is kind of painful around my groin since it stays that way for so long. How do I resist it? Is it just me or what? I don't even have an interest on physical connections let alone become horny. I have never been in a relationship before and for your information, I am past my mid 20s. Genuine suggestions would be appreciated.
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So its been 4 ½ years since we been together. The past 2½ years feel so faded.
It all started fading when his grandma got sick and died suddenly and that hit him so hard, she raised him like an egg and he was devastated. But I was there for him you know he knew he could depend on me somehow and we were getting through it. Right after her death, his dad was told he had tumor in his brain. The tension was high and then the surgery was a total mess and his dad suffered the consequences! The pain he went through the hospital and stuff it was a painful journey and that wasn't enough after 2 years of suffering God decided to take him.
Then my baby was left all alone with all the questions, with all the guilt with all the fake smiles. The day his dad died, that's the day I lost my baby! Everything became meaningless for him! He just couldn't see anything beyond! I try to make him smile or try to make him forget it for a while but nothing works and now? It has gotten worse, all he enjoys is going out and drinking his guts out! And I'm here just sitting doing nothing!
He then told me that what he is going through is messing with his head and that is disappointing me and he hates to see me go through all the shitty things he puts me through and he hates to see me cry but in reality he is dead inside! And it hurts me to see the spark in eyes gone! He doesn't care about anything in life no more and he pushes me hard as well but I don't take it personally because what he went through is something I always tell him he is strong for but it's still hard for him and to see my King hurting hurts even more! And when I feel like he needs something in his life I don't even ask, I just go get it you know. And me being very understanding with him made him want to be better for me you know and I suggested maybe I could give him some space you know if having me gave you pressure of not being good enough for you then maybe we could try to give you space you know but in reality I hate breathing without him and I cry and cry! If tears were to be sold, I would have made millions by now! I cry for him! I pray him! I cry praying for him! I cry for his spark! I hate to see him empty like this, he is the superhero that everyone depends on, the one comforting everyone, the one who is like a shield for everyone but when everyone is gone, he is my baby! It hurts to see him cry, and I don't know what to do genuinely I feel like I'm losing him!
So should give him space or should I cling to him?
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