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Soo this is for u , I know I don have the straight to actually send to this text but I just want u to know that even though we weren't actually in a #relationship I really had a gr8 4 months with u and I ll nvr find anyone that can be a gentleman like how u have been to me . U set such a high standard that nothing feels right or real after we stopped talking ,and I know it's for the best but I wished it didn't end this way , I know it was hard on u to continue through all the overthinking tumbling on u and I can't make u stay but u r my smile and I still want u in my life one way or another .
Thank u for building my confidence and self depreciation
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20 F, so I think I'm asexual and I'm just curious to see what strangers' response would be to something like this since y'all don't know me and so you're unbiased. If I tried to talk about this with someone who knows me they'll just start to question if I was faking it and stuff with my past ex bfs and then it'll be awkward when I try to explain why I get into sexual relationships when I'm asexual. It'll be even more awkward if I get into another relationship lol. Besides, no one I know in real life relates to this (at least not that I know of) If I talk to my religious friends about it they'll probably tell me I should pray about it and God wants us to be in a relationship and get married and start a family.. or maybe they'll tell me such a thing doesn't even exist and it's just a mental health issue therapy or prayer can fix, and if I talk to my non religious friends about it they'll just tell me it's okay you can live with it or they'll probably tell me I'll grow out of it or that I'll meet "the right one" some day and I'll be attracted to him. But I want someone who actually went through it to say that to me so that I can believe them. So I decided I'll just talk about it here in case I find someone else who's going through the same thing.
Ever since I became old enough to discover that I had no sex drive I've tried everything I could to 'fix' it or try to figure out if it's a psychological or physical issue. I've just never been sexually attracted to a man before to the point where I started to question if I'm a lesbian but then I figured out I'm not attracted to the same gender either (phew, what a relief, can't imagine being gay in a country like this let's be honest come on now) When I see hot guys I can recognize that they're hot but it just doesn't really register in my brain..?? I don't know how to explain it, it's like how you would admire a good painting. Like, you know it's gorgeous but you don't wanna fuck it right? (I sure hope not) jokes aside I just don't feel attracted to anyone ever, my most recent ex was honestly the most attractive guy I've ever met but even though I genuinely liked him I felt absolutely NOTHING when he touched me.
It doesn't matter if I'm sober or drunk/high I still don't feel anything. I have to fake moan and shit when I'm having sex (I know a lot of girls do that lol) It's not like I'm hating every second of it or can't stand it or anything but I just don't feel anything.. just emotionally and physically numb and like as if I'm not in my body.. I know this sort of disassociation occurs if you've been sexually abused in the past, but I've never been abused. When I was younger I thought I'd become 'normal' when I grow up, but nope nothing has changed. So I guess my question is will I have to live like this for the rest of my life or is there hope for me? Will I ever be able to have a healthy relationship with a man? And do you think it's best to be open about it to the person you're with and just explain that it's not their fault? Or just fake it for their sake? Anyone older than me who went through this, how did you deal with it?
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It's been a long time since I vented
Idk where to start fr but
I feel broken
I feel so lost
I'm a good listener but when I talk No one listen
Nobody ask me if I'm okay
I passed the hardest moment alone while everyone thought I was fine
I literally don't have anyone to talk about my feelings
I've never felt this alone in my life until this moment but just want to spill all my feelings n cry on their shoulder
I can't take it anymore It's just pain after pain n I'm exhausted honestly don't know how much further I can go
just feeling like my heads shutting down n my hearts slowly breaking
I'm tired to keep pretending that I'm okay when I'm not
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Hey everyone, I wanted to ask a few things, ene tnsh gra sletegabaw maybe someone here can help🤷🏾♀
Okay so I'm female, 22 years old and I've been in my "i don't have to be in a relationship with someone in order to be happy" mind and I was peaceful and very much happy which means all the crush I had on a guy and all my ex story and stuff were gone completely!!
And I knew what I want in a relationship. With that been said, here comes this guy I know for like 3 years and surprisingly he was my very first crush😂 and he changed in a good way, in to everything I want like literally......he started talking to me after a few months of not talking and it was a bit weird for me to talk in a love language and stuff, his point was he's looking to date someone, a wife type girl and thought of me smh😂😂
So my problem is that I do like him, but it's been so long since u loved someone or even liked someone and now I don't know how to do love stuff like ANYTHINGGG and I think it is starting to offend him a bit, I don't wanna lose him, but i wanna get better on loving someone again......I want y'all help on how to do so
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20 F. So I have this problem I get attached to things and can never let them go, I've been using the same plate and the same mug since I was a kid I can't imagine using a new one it's like they're part of me now, and a few days ago I found out my sister gave away my favorite doll to a guest that was in our house because his daughter asked him to buy a doll for her when he comes back and he was worried about it. I get it they did a nice thing and his daughter probably appreciated it but it was my property you know? It was mine and no one had the right to take it away without asking me. I've been attached to that doll since childhood it was the most precious thing I owned and I really really adored it I even named it Rapunzel (it was sarcastic lol the doll didn't have any hair so 8 year old me thought that was clever and funny) I've been thinking about that doll for the past two days and I can't stop obsessing over the fact that I'll never see it again, I've been trying to find it on the internet just to have it in my gallery but I can't find a picture of it anywhere. I know y'all are probably gonna say you're a grown ass woman get over it or you're laughing about how childish this is but that doll mattered to me okay? Help me I don't know why I get so attached to things, I wish I could get attached to people instead lol FML
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Hi 22 female I met this guy because of financial situation through my family he demanded we meet he is around his late 40's the first day he met me he started touching me and to be honest I couldn't do anything about it cause he has things he would help my family with then I accepted that I have to keep on seeing him inorder to help the family third time he met me he took me to a motel and done anything he wanted with me and told me to get dressed and took me home so now I'm thinking it's a cycle and he don't want to seen in public with Me he just wants to meet me and do whatever he wants with me I feel lonely I actually wanna be loved and I feel real stuck in situation I for real can't control and even though it's been a month he never took me out even for his coffe or to eat if I stop meeting him in private places things would turn bad for me and family and I honestly don't know what to do and I for sure don't want to be treated as a sex toy help!😢
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Hope someone can relate too.
Ive been single all my life..
Nobody has ever been interested in me. Ive never been asked out.
So now if someone shows interest in me i will think"whats wrong with them? Why would they be interested in me" then, them showing interest will be a red flag. And i will pull myself away.
I dont know what has happend to me through out my single life😕
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Hello, I am 22 f, I am a medical student and sometimes I feel like I am immersed tmhrtu lay and I have stopped growing on other aspect of my life...and sometimes I wonder if I had chosen another field life would have been so different and fruitful...esti dm me and share ur experiences guys
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Why do I attract cowards gn? Like they will always initiate things, even if I said I don't want to, they say they wanted be serious relationship, they're into me, they say they like and in love with me menamn blah blah, text me all day and night, call me everyday, send me gm texts and poems but as soon as I'm about to give them a chance they back out, like why?
They pull the 'slow fade' we are all adults, why can't you communicate where you want to be at in relationship or friendship? I can't believe this happened 3 times now, bitch ass niggas!!! They're such a wuss !!!
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Yooo I’m scared for this generation y’all what is going on with y’all… I used to think we are crazy but nah the small ones are getting worse. They are down baddd! You know what happened to my lil niece… she only 5 years old and she started acting weird in school and at home she cries for no reason and stopped playing , listening or talking to anyone. She only five!!!!!! When asked what’s up all she does is cry nonstop. Then she finally spilled the beans and told us why she is stressed out like this. She has an older sister like 2 years older than her and they go to the same school but different campuses. So one afternoon she went in the school to get her older sister. Then these older dudes prolly 7th or 8th graders told her that she is in the restroom… she believed and went straight to the rest room . and when she does ,those stupid horny ass animals grabbed her and tried to rape my little angel. Imagine that… she didn’t know what was going on .she tried to fight back because they were holding her really tight and even tore her underwear. she couldn’t even scream for a while either. But thanks to the almighty Lord ! He saved her when someone else entered the restroom . they let her go but threatened to kill her if she tells anyone about it . Imagine those are only like 11 or 12 year old boys how is this making any sense bruh? Poor little thing is the most sensitive kid you could ever imagine…One little ‘Boo’ will scare her to death imagine having to go through something like this… sheesh idk!! all i know is that I am so grateful that she is safer and healthy now. We took her to the docs and they said she only has some infections because of the pressure they put on her maybe they hit her or sth but it’s not that serious so we thank God for that. Now what is stressing me out is the fact that they are about to involve the police into this. Her mother is determined to do something about these boys. And idk if it’s a good idea or not. She can only remember 2 of their faces. I said we should find them and get their asses whooped cuz I’ve never actually seen justice being served in this country when it comes to sexual assault without proof. And those are technically little boys. Will doing any of this stuff help stop them from hurting others or will it make things even worse and just traumatise her even more.. idk . what y’all think we should do? Let me know down below!
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Got a "date" with a girl, wouldn't call it a date we just meeting up to make out and fondle. The problem I've never direct my relationships to this kinda path, and am confused where to meet up or make a move any tips?
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Another update (last one) Y'all are sick of me by now but oh well I've gotten super helpful and genuine advice in the last two vents so I'm back again (thanks everyone who gave me advice the last two times btw, I appreciate you. Even the mean ones were helpful to me. I really can't talk to anyone in my life about this.)
To recap, last time I asked if it'd be best to end things completely or to stay friends with a fwb partner. And most of the responses were on the end things side which I also agree with so.. yeah it's over. When we were seeing each other most of our interactions was just me making lame jokes about how he's tryna act like a sugar daddy and stuff, or him complaining that I'm too cold and stuff like that.. we barely had personal conversations so I don't know how it's gonna be like to be friends with him. Would we even like each other as friends? To be honest I know more about him than he does about me, which still isn't that much tbh. Somebody suggested in the comments on my first vent that he's in love with me. Ain't no way because he doesn't even know me dude.. it was just a sexual relationship. He can't love me without even knowing me.
I don't think his request to stay friends is reasonable because are we supposed to get to know each other now as if nothing ever happened between us? I don't think we can. It's not fair for either of us, especially him. So yeah it's over we're done. And I'm done with all this casual relationship shit because it never seems to work out. I'm sick of hurting good guys who don't deserve it. It sucks that I'm not into 'bad boys'. What's all of it for anyway? I'm way happier alone. Thanks for reading byeee
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I am in a very difficult situation and I have no one to talk to. When I went into my thoughts, I saw a man six months ago, I was very happy, he worked in my area, then we talked, he showed me his office, I went to the office twice, then that day he took me out in a playful way and I told him I love you, then I cried, then he hugged me... he told me that he was going to leave the office, then he took the phone from the man. I accepted, texted him, he told me that we will see each other again, and since this is my first time, tell me what to do. Yemri betam depression wist lgeba new set lij approach madregwan ayiwedutm malet new wendoch be egziabher nigerugn min ladrg...Thank you.
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22M Ok this for girls, your man here needs your help, I need to learn how to have conversation with girls that is not boring ena will there be a girl would like to help. no pictures and name we can use nicknames if you want and I just genuinely want to improve my conversation skill with girls ena a woman who can teach me or practice with me how to talk funny random non relevant topics, help in practicing flirting and getting dates as a pure friend nothing more. It will be appreciated🙏,
I don't want to complain about girls all my life I just really want to improve myself and not be a police detective and ask police questions to girl on text all the time like what is your favorite food, color😂
A girl who has patient is preferable since I will be boring at first and it would be a great help ladies out there if your dude here improve his communication skill, you can be above my age I don't mind it.
Thanks in advance tho for the girls who will even think about helping but will not do it also😂😂😁
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AAU freshman temari negn ena my grade betam eyewerede new final endasebkut alserahum ena demo ezi betam competition ale ena yemfelgew field endemalgeba awkiyalehu ena ahun mn memar endalebgn alakm. My families betam new tru neger yemitebkutna betam eyasasebegn yalew neger esu new. I don't know what to do besmeab betam new eyetecheneku yalehut
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Hey everyone
For a person who'se been athletic for some of their lives I've hated my body for half of it. I just started to love myself just as it is ahun ahun ena sasbew befit the way I tried to change my body was always from perspective of the hate I have for it rather from love and from wanting to improve. I believe people should always strive for the best and not settle for something their heart is not content at and paint it as 'acceptance' ( IF YOU DON'T REALLY WANT IT) because no one is 'meant to' be a certain way it's just what u make of ur life. My BMI is 25 and for a female in her early 20s I feel like I should try and look and feel my age because this weight loss thing has taken a toll on me for long...I've tried strength training and it has worked before...but I couldn't maintain and gained back some of it....I've tried intermittent fasting and ADF also...it works like magic and ik how to do it hulunm...gn my problem is consistency.....so anyone with the same problem as mine...I need someone like me who really wants to make a change to keep eachother accountable and go on a health journey....start fasting and walking and all...hmu😁
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Im dying by overthinking i can't help my self i tried alot of thing to cope up with failed i need help especially who you been through like me Please tell me something to get settle for normal state
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Well fuck here it goes
I was in love once the break-up left me in a bad state and during that time me and my classmate got close, as a way for my break-up I used to call him whenever i get the urge to call my b.f after sometime the energy between my friend and I started to change. At some point I started to like him. But when i really thought about it, i felt like i would just ruin his life and whatever i was feeling would pass. He is a nerd and didn't have any experience. So, i was afraid i would be a distraction so i didn't do anything about what i felt. Then at one point Our friends started making fun of us, which made him stay further away. I do believe it's the best for both of us.
The issue is now a year later, where we are no longer close friends i just can't stop feeling jealous. I am great at keeping my distance, didn't show any of what I'm feeling.
Ps. He liked me. We both have reasons for not being honest about it.
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It has been a few weeks since we talked. The reason why we argued was he wasn't giving me enough attention and time like he used to. He blames it on him being busy bla bla but i still think he could make some time for us. The thing i can never forget from the day we fought was he told me i come after his family. For over 4 years i thought i was part of him, his family. I consider him my family while clearly he doesn't. I've been looking at my call log and i saw how our talks got shorter. We don't text like we used to, talk on the phone like we used to. We used to talk for like an hour or so but now the max is 2 minutes. I can't help but see how his interest is declining. When i decide and try to move on he won't let go. He starts acting right. But now it's causing me pain. So would you guys think i should fight for this relationship or let go?
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ቀዝቃዛው የሻወር ውሃ ከዶርማችን ፊትለፊት ካለው ክፍል ኩልል ባለ ድምጽ ሲወርድ ይሰማል። በጎን የሚያልፉ ተማሪዎችን ሹክሹክታ እየሰማሁ ወድያ ወዲህ እገላበጣለሁ። ዶርም ቁጥር 214 ከላይኛው አልጋ ላይ ፣ የሊቀ መዘምራን ቴዎድሮስ ዮሴፍን "እኔ አንተ ቤት የምቆም ሰው አይደለሁም" የሚለውን መዝሙር ከፍቼ... የሁዋሊት በትውስታ ሃሳብ ሞገድ ሄድኩ።
ዩኒቨርሲቲ ከገባሁ እንደዘበት 4 አመት ሆነኝ። አቤት ግዜ... እንዴት ነው የሚሮጠው በማርያም። በእነዚህ አመታት ውስጥ እኔና ፈጣሪ ብቻ የምናውቃቸውን ወጀቦች አልፌ ይሔው ልመረቅ ወራት ምናልባትም አንድ አመት ይቀረኛል። ዩኒቨርሲቲ ሳልገባ በፊት የነበረኝ የውስጥ ሰላም ፣ ከፈጣሪ ጋር የነበረኝ ህብረት፣ ለራሴ የነበረኝ self-esteem ብቻ ብዙ ነገር... ጊቢ ከገባው ቡሃላ ሳይታወቀኝ እንደጉም ብን ብሎ ጠፍቶ ራሴን በብቸኝነት ባህር በትካዜ ብርድልብስ ውስጥ ላኖረው በቃሁ። በዚህም አልበቃ በሎ በተደጋጋሚ ራስን በማጥፋት ሃሳብ ተውጥሬ ከአንዴም ሁለቴ ሙከራ ያደረኩበትና ፈጣሪ ግን እንድሞት ስላልፈቀደ የዛሬን ንጋት እንዳይ ለምክንያት አድኖኛል።
"ጸሎቴ ቢሆን ለወረት
ጎዶሎ ቢሆን የኔምነት
ባረከኝ እኔን ከሰማይ
በደል ክፋቴንም ሳታይ"
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... መዝሙሩ እንደቀጠለ ነው። እርሱ ፈጣሪ እኔን የረዳበትንና ያዳነበትን መንገድ መለስ ብዬ ሳየው በጣም ግርም ድንቅ ይለኛል። "ይታደሉት እንጂ አይታገሉት" እንዲሉ፣ በራሴ ሃሳብና እቅድ ለመመራት የሄድኩበት ርቀት ለኔ ከጭንቀት ውጪ ምኑንም አላተረፈልኝም ነበር። የማወራውን ሰው በእጅጉ በፈለግኩበት ሰዐት psychiatrist አልቀረኝ ፣ ካህን አልቀረኝ ፣ ፓስተር አልቀረኝ... ብቻ ሁሉም እኔን ለመርዳትም ሆነ እህ ብሎ ለማድመጥ አልቻሉም። የማደርገው ነገር ቢጠፋኝ ስቅስቅ ብዬ በማልቀስ ወደ ፈጣሪዬ ጮህኩ። እሱም በወቅቱ ሊውጠኝ ከነበረው የሞት ጥላ አዳነኝ።
ቤተሰቤ ከኔ ብዙ ነገር መጠበቁ ይበልጡኑ ፍርሃትንና ጭንቀትን በውስጤ አሳደረ። ያም ሆነ ይህ ግን እርሱ ጥሎ አልጣለኝም። አሁንም ቢሆን ጥሩ የሚባል cgpa አለኝ።
አሁን ለምኖረው ህይወት ክብሩን መውሰድ ያለበት እሱ ያዳነኝ ፈጣሪዬ ነው።
በተመሳሳይ መንገድ ላይ እያለፋቹ ያላችሁ እሀት ወንድሞቼ ፣ እግዚያብሄር እኔን በፈተና መሃል እንዳጸናኝ እናንተንም ያጽናቹ።
ዛሬ ነገ ሳትሉ ከፈጣሪያቹ ጋር እርቅን አውርዱ፣ ህብረታችሁንም አጠንክሩ፣ የሱ ሰላም እንዲወርሳቹ ራሳችሁን ክፍት አርጉ።
ፈጣሪ አብዝቶ ሃገራችንን እና ህዝቦቿዋን ይባርክልን.
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Mn honesh endehon, mn atfche endehon ... Alawqm.
Gn andi yemawkew neger betam tru guadegnamoch honen neber. Koy sew anchim mafkeru hatiyat newn? Yaw Fikir enkua yhun ketebale malet new.
Degmo Afekrishalew bye yemenagerun dfret atiche sayhon beka I just wanted to settle things down and keep on sure ma feelings. I thought I owe our friendship more than my feelings.
Yemr you played me. I didn't. I didn't see ur this stubbornness of letting down the good things and qualities you have. You are such a hypercrite.
I won't never blame ma self anymore. I just tried all ma best to give us a second chance based on your terms. I let down my muscline pride and ego and I told you again and again that I won't expect you to love me back and I just want the pure friendship company.
You could've told me if u got another reasons. Ena degmo we're people and instinctually we care more to those who seems to have worth for us and seems to show unconditional care for us. That's just what happened between you and me. We ain't even know each other face to face, its just the personality of u I imagined in my mind created this thing.
While I tried all ma ass hard, u just got so ignorant and blind-sceptic to the company we've created. I can't even believe that you cleared the chat history we had so far and blocked me without even saying a proper good bye. I just waited for about a month and checked over ur tg whether u unblocked me or not.
I wish we didn't tear apart like this. Gn if this is the thing I only struggle for, I'm about to say this and probably if you ever see this vent, I probably wanna tell you that with all due respect I have for you, I now think you don't deserve me. And I'm just proud of myself for being such a creature who seeks for forgiveness evenif ain't get the point where i get wrong.
Goodbye my good old friend.
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Girls I need help 24m never been in a relationship. So all my friends that are girls say to me you are going to be really amazing in relationship, but they never go for me. I mean what is happening what do they mean by that. I mean am not insecure or something but I want to make money.
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I am an adult ena ye university temari negn tigray region, ena ahun lay mnm aynet sra yhun tmrt yelem ena. bebzat wetatu twlid enem chemro virtual eyetechawetn new mnwlew ena.. Zare gn ejig menekat yelelebet birr yelela sew birr wesje tebelahugn around 23,000 birr ena besamnt wust memeles alebgn ena mn madreg alebgn esti amakrugn kahun behuala virtual bet megbat bechrash alfelgm.
Please help me! Bezi menged yalefachu kalachu mkrachu legsulgn... chnklate lay yemimeta solution ke hager meseded bcha new
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Henock where do I begin you’re the most sweetest person I’ve ever met I know you’ll be reading this I used to be one of those people that doesn’t believe in love at first sight gelemele minamin gin you’re sth else the first day we met chaos gin i loved every part of it the way you looked at me the way you hold my hands everything was magical about that day I didn’t wanna say goodbye mecheresha lay then days go by I know I’m not online bizu gize gin I miss you every second of the day babe sitelegn lebe terkek yilal does that make sense demo eko yemigermew we only met twice 2nd date was just perfect I had fun betam thank you for existing thank you for not judging me thank you for being you min endemeleh alakem just don’t change please be you
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I'm sure I'm not the first person to say this. But have y'all thought about how insignificant our love life is. Don't get me wrong I have been in relationships, I still wonder who my future husband is gonna be, I daydream of the way I'm gonna meet him bla bla. But I also feel there's so much life to live for than occupying our head with these stuff. I don't know about you guys but me and my friends alwaysss talk about boys, and I always find myself being tired from that conversation yet I don't stop engaging. Sometimes I feel so lonely and sad when I get back home without meeting him. Where are you though future husband 😂
We(single people who are waiting for the one and date to marry) should focus more on ourselves because we would have found them if it was time. And there are far more important things we should figure out before meeting them..... For example I haven't moved on from the past relationship I had and I believe I will find my man after I finally make peace with my past and move on with a full inner peace and forgiveness . I also have lots of work to do on myself (I intend to become a calm and collected person and I'm far far from it, building my confidence, being disciplined, confident....)
This journey feels lonely af. But I believe it's worth it.
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Me f1....
I just wanna say i love human beings like ya'll are like a little koala and red pandas so squishy and cute 🥹 also weak like an egg but ones ya'll grow you're cute as a new born chicken. Ily all😍
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Something I realized and thought might help you guys, especially the guys in a relationship.
So you know when you are talking with your girlfriend or with a group of people, your gf included, and you say things starting with the phrase, 'setoch eko..', 'women are...'? usually followed by criticism of some sort? Know that your girlfriend is probably going to take it personally. I know, I know, you didn't mean her, or maybe you did, and it probably holds true for most of the women population but your girlfriend is going too feel like you are talking about HER. She is not going to think of herself as an exception. Just keep that in your mind before making that comment next time, okay? Toodles
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Always beleived in holding things to myself cause i think ppl have enough on their minds already and no use in sharing.
Came from a family of high expectations. Currently in college full of stress and stuff...i lost my dad 3 years ago due to sth which o know I'm partly responsible for. while no one in my family sees it that way... I've been blaming my self ever since. I've been mwssed up ever since mentally. Well been having family issues even before my dad passed away and been pulling away ever since... since all this started, found it hard to connect with ppl on a deeper level i dunno why. Sometimes i don't even wanna bother trying to know someone i like. I often try to find the easy way out of things like school, family and other responsibilities. I feel like I'm friends with all but not a good friend with none if you know what i mean....
Just wanted to put this out there and anyone passing thru the same stuff, yaw advice mnamn kalachu esti let me know.....Thanks my ppl.
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This is more of a question than a vent.
What does being smart mean to you? Is it having academic success? Is it knowing about a lot of things? Is it knowing a lot about a specific thing? Is it having social intelligence, like having great interpersonal relationships, solving conflicts efficiently, communicating well?
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I write poems when things feel heavy. I revert to music and art to lose myself and my issues in a space less... personal. But sometimes, the galaxy within my skin is too big for any space in the Universe.
Excuse my straightforwardness, but I have never vented before and I don't want to bore you.
I'm 20 and a guy. Like most young people, I have dreams, but I don't know what to do. I know what I want, but to execute it... it's another beast.
My issue is that I have a lot of responsibilities that I have stopped living for myself. Work, college and chores exhaust the life out of me. I managed it. For 3 years. I had balanced all three along with some passion projects. But I have felt my energy draining for a long time and I'm at 0 now. I still work, but my grades, social life and personality are taking a hit.
I know dreams don't make my bed. I know I harvest today's efforts tomorrow. Despite that, I can't plant seeds anymore. What should I do? Take a break and set myself back from my peers? Abandon my passion and risk a regretful future? Be selfish and drop my responsibilities?
What do you think?
Thank you.
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