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08 октября 2024 04:01

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please anbebachu comment what should i do...i'm 24F ena i have a bf huletachnm betam tamagn nen for our r/ship we've been together for 6 years grade 12 eyalew neber aberen yehonew ena ahun ke uni graduate adrgialew he is older than me be 8 amet ena sera neberew yanem malet new ena the problem is still financially secure aydelem yemiagegnewn birr beagbabu manage ayadergem yabaknal mnamn gn he told me we will have a better future bekerbu endi adergalew yerasen buisness own adergalew mnamn gn nothing happened temesasay new even loan alebet 1M akebabi ena after i graduated he proposed me ena i said yes it was 1 month after my grad keza after 2 week shemaglem telake betam yefetene neger neber esu betam eyaschenekegn sleneber tolo endihon enem mn mareg endeneberebgn rasu alawekum my fam tekeblewal gn bezum destegna aydelum enem i'm not happy betam eyechenekegn metual i feel like my life would be miserable with him ene bezu neger sacrifice eyadereku endiderglegn mfelegewn neger hulu eyetewku new abrew yehonkut gn  he didn't take care of me dero endemiaregew even for my birthday resahut mnamn yilegnal like dero gn midnight lay neber text miareglegn mnamn ene negn always surprise maregew gift mesetew one sided new bye endaltewew esu sle marriage new hule miaweraw ena our relationship boring honual bestekekl anaweram tolo entalalen mnamn beka feker mibalew neger bemehalachn teftoal ena ene first mastekakel yalebeten neger ena r/ship lay gize seten enastekakel sel eshi yelegnal gn ayadergm bezi hulu chaos this year endengaba yefelegal wesgne endaltewew yegodal beye eferalew lenem he is my first lela wend awrechem alawkem betam chenkognal  what should i do please i need help

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08 октября 2024 04:01

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Hey guys. I'm 18 M
And I've something to vent
I am kind of busy with AAU test, driving license, business I'm trying to create, side work... And all of that. Ena I was just going through my phone and realized I am in relationship and didn't talked for 4 days 😭keza text saregat tilant mnm almeselatim she hit me back. Yene tiyaqe I didn't had well relationship specially my past 4 ones ended because "ene betam tiru silehonku" 😂 ena I'm confused. Chat say bedenb we barely talk... Not to mention we private too. Ena should I get suspicious or get along with the flow, gira gebagn😂 normal nw?

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08 октября 2024 04:01

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I'm 18 f and currently am grade 12 ena sasatrew tariku I love someone deeply beka betam malet new ena ahun break adrgenal gn still betam new mwedew esu demo yerasun hiwet jemrual wedehuala memeles ayfelgm gn ene beyekenu yamegal stress Leben beka hasabe bemulu esu hone mn madreg endalebg idk but betam yamegal what my gonna do guys lemetew lemrsat bezu mokerku gn yeljnete new Gena kahunu endezi mehone Des aylm bezi sat gn beka ehe felge new mimeta neger aydelem betam gobez temari neberku gn in 11 betam lazy honkug esun lemastekakel ahun school keyrealew gn ahunm esun new masebew bezi keketelkug matric yekensbgal beza lay my health endet lehun yamegal 1 ken kayehut beka samntun Des yelegal ayamegm gn ahun mnteyayebet mnm gize yelem beka esun maybet to time yelem ena gays pls mkerug erdatachu yasfelgegal bcz enem tenayn efelgewalew matric endemetalgm efelegalew please help me

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08 октября 2024 04:00

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I’m 21M and just trying to find someone who matches my energy—someone a bit freaky and unafraid to be themselves. Dating feels like such a struggle right now! It seems like everyone’s either too vanilla or playing it safe, and I’m craving that spark. I want someone who can vibe with my adventurous side, share some wild experiences, and just let loose without holding back. Is it too much to ask for a connection that’s both fun and genuine? I just want to vibe with someone who gets it, where we can be both nasty and loving, exploring those wild moments together. Sometimes I wonder if I’m asking for the moon!

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08 октября 2024 04:00

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I used to be a smart student when i was in the beginning of high school because a certain family member used to help me and that family member went to the usa, we were close she was my friend i use to tell her every thing i was so depressed i didn't have good friends at my new school they use to talk to me until their friends come and they will leave me😂 so i used the phone she gave me to distract my self andit worked the moment i start watching movies on my phone my mind stop stressing it was my scapegoat and my grades drastically went bad i used to fight with my father all the time about it i always said tomorrow tomorrow i will start studying it didnt happen after that a few time passed then covid came it was a great time for me to just sit in my room distract myself instead of using it for good i wasted it then it was announced school was going to open at least my experience was much better my grades were still bad i daydream about the time i got the highest result  while the teacher was teaching now i stopped living in the moment,,and i lied to her(the said family member)about my grades i was ashamed of who i become anyways time passes matric came the test was at 5 kilo uni  it was an amazing time i had there watching so many beautiful girls brightend my mood i mean it was a memory especially the federals 😂 making us do exercise at night it was something.time passes maric result came i passed with an average result i was assigned in hawassa uni my mind was stressed by what if what if i had taken my life seriously i mean i am great full considering a lot of students failed during my fresh man year she told me she started a process for me to the usa you have no idea how happy i was, i had no option in scholarship because my transcript was bad so i imagned going to the usa it was going to be a fresh start it made me careless in my grades now i am a second year student with shit grade by the way the process failed i think God did that on purpose due to my lazyness to tech me please take my advice please dont waste your time even if you hate it study hard other wise you will end up like me depending on someone else and waiting for us process that faild all she said was' sorry good luck'
I felt suicidal
Dont pity me learn from me DEPEND ON NO ONE
THE ONLY THING THATS CERTAIN IS THE EFFORT YOU PUT TO YOURSEF AND YOUR BRAIN DONT PUT YOUR HOPES UP ON UNCERTAIN THINGS. i hope you boys and girls learn somethng lmk what you think.....

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08 октября 2024 04:00

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Okey I’m Almost 22 F ,I realized that I don’t like rich men or a guy who is better than me. I realized that even from high school till now I used to date guys that are not financially stable. I mean what’s the point of dating a rich guy there will not be any drama he will provide i do girlie duties but I love dating broke guys so that i can pay and feel inferior than them. I imagine Dating a broke guy changing his life have fun with him, and then go to the next guy. I don’t wanna settle for one guy for my whole life I get bored easily. So When i go deeper into myself and ask questions I got two insights the first one is maybe I grew up being too masculine or second maybe i have a very low self esteem that I can’t tolerate someone better than me. I just want to let out this… feel free to comment

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07 октября 2024 04:01

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Hello guys, endet nachu so it has been long since i vented but today i thought why not share my idea with u may be it might help. So i am a girl in her early twenties and i want to tell u guys hulachenm one way or another tegodtenal hulachenm sebeb benefeleg hiwoten endenetela miyareg shi mekenyatoch enagegnalen and one thing i want you all to know is we all got sth difficult we passed right? Yehe neger mayhon sew gar endaytelachu matat geziyawi new fr erasachun be tenegna sew kebebu kemalakew melak makew seytan mibalew be mekenyat new sew ayzuachu eyale kewedekachubet setenesu yetelachual hule geze kebetachu endethonu new mifelegew so don't drain your self fr rasachu lay seru first it is worth it

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07 октября 2024 04:01

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hey guys endat nachw
i'm 19 f
How can a person become a lover without being attracted by someone's appearance or height?
i have a bf . sebayu betam arif naw betam ynkbkbgnl gnnn , when we comes to the look 😭.nahh hell nahhh . he's not ugly but he's not handsome . he's height 😭.hes not short gn ene endmflgaw adelm.kumet tenshhhh naw mibltgn🥲.bcha attract ayargnm. online naw be tg naber yetwwknaw .gn bkaa endat larg guys pls i need help 😔.

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07 октября 2024 04:01

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Hello guys I'm 19F here's the thing I've met this guy on telegram ena he's cute ena eyaweran eyale bemahal mayhon ngr alegn like belgena ena keza ignore arekut ena 1 ken sanawera koyten benegataw hi alegn ena enem lemn endeza arek alkut ena sry betam blo aschenekegn ena he told me that he likes me ena ahun lay ykrta argelet eyaweran nw gn normal talk nw ena he's my type demo I don't know I'm confused mamakrew sw yelegnm I don't have bestfriend ena yenaten advice felgalew plss🙏🙏🙏🙏 ena be polite🙏

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07 октября 2024 04:01

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25F
Teyakew le wendoch new and i think most women will relate to this
Virginityachewn lose yaregu setochn with previous partners especially to those sincere ones after they break up and moved on to another life keza lela partner ga sijemru those new partners sex endiyaregu metasgededuachew lemenden new? There is a saying endewem bezu wendoch milut ‘Ande adergeshw yele there’s nothing to lose anymore eko’
So yehe neger hig new malet new? Can’t she refuse after then rasu not to have sex anymore unless she is married?
Coz you know wendoch endih balun kutr it will just increase the body counts for the woman
Asbachehutal andu ga sethon kezih befit argeshal eko silat eshi stl keza ezihgnaw ga workout bayareg demo the process yketalal
So what do you say

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07 октября 2024 04:01

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Hi everyone
I am 28 and married for 2 years, soon to be a mom.
My husband is a good person and I love him so much.
But in general I don't have a good outlook in marriage, I have seen married couples hating each other.
I am asking those of you who has been married for more than 10 years, is there a chance to love your partner after being together for so long? Please share your experience. And if you have any advice, please share. Thank you.

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07 октября 2024 04:00

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Hii people endt nachu so im taking a course (psychiatry)in adissabeba university which isn’t my passion i only learn cause department esu seledersegn it’s not that much yetelemed department in ethiopia and kinda a nursing course new ena im venting here like betam stressed out eyadrku selhon cause im 2nd here student but im afaraid sweta bezi department sera balagegns beye cause the institution ethiopia west yalut tinsh nachew and hire moyadrgutem tinsh sew new so sweta sera fet bhons also my family kezi wetche mkmetemet ayent family aydelem yalugn so mn telugnalchu like deep inside me think like eskmemerek yhon nger figure out madreg endalbgn so give yall advice bezu filed tmere yet yet lesra chelalew and online sera endt meserat tchelalew

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07 октября 2024 04:00

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guys so heres the thing i need help understanding this one guy(especially wendoch ur opinions efelgalew) 😭basically there is this one guy at school ena yawekut last year addis school sjemr nebere.the thing is weve never had a conversation gn like he kind of knows i like him ena mejemerya lay like one of my friends was like laswerachu mnamn and stuff keza he said eshi mnamn keza like yezanu ken melso ay teyw alat enam keza buhala enem i was still obsessed ena hulem enteyay neber keza skl lizega tnsh samnt sikerew ig lay request aderegegn then ketezega buhala hi alegn keza i replied for a day seen lay ketewkut buhala then like hru blogn reply sareg seen lay tewegn bcha its like betam mixed signals ena i dont get it at all enante mn ymeslachuhal😂

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06 октября 2024 18:45

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I can't beka I tried too many times but I can't take it anymore sometimes I think about Killin my self gn I'm not bold enough to do it ...I don't even have the guts to kill my self...what have I done wrong eski ...is it rly so horrible that I could possibly go out and find happiness? ..who cursed me ? Lemndnew 1 neger enkuan maysakalgn? lemndnew enen lireda michl 1 sew yetefaw ..lemndnew endelelochu meshesha makurefya yelelegn ? Ene bemazene egziabher mn ytekemal? Mn bedelku ..enes ende lelochu mhret aygebagnm?? Mnale be 1 neger enkuan destegna bhon..lemndnew mnorew erasu...eski bmot mn lewt efetralew ..nores man alegn? Ye beteseb ye Hager ye mdritua shekm beshtet yetefeterku trf yemaltekm ena yemalreba sew negn
This is ridiculous

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06 октября 2024 18:27

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እሞታለሁ !
እገድላታለሁም!

2017 ሊገባ በዋዜማው እለት እንደማንኛውም ኢትዮጵያዊ የቤቱ የመጀመሪያ ሴት ልጅ የበአላት ስራ እየሰራሁኝ ነበረ..ብዙ ሀሳብ ግን አይምሮዬ ውስጥ ነበረ መኖር እንደነበረብኝ የኖርኩ አልመሰለኝም በብዙ አቅጣጫ እራሴን እየፈተሽኩኝ እየወደኩ ነበረ🤦‍♀
በጣም ብቁ የሆንኩበትን ነገር ፈልጌ አጣሁ good is enough የሚል አስተሳሰብ ሀሳቤን ወርሶታል መሰለኝ🙄 ነገሬ ሁሉ መሀል ሰፋሪነት ነበረ ..ጠላሁት!
መንፈሳዊ
academically
Mentally
ከዛ የመጨረሻውን ሽንኩርት እየላጥኩኝ አብሬ እጄንም ላጥኩት (ያው እንደሚታወቀው የመጀመሪያ ልጆች የሙያ ችግር የለብንም አጋጣሚ ነው😁 አደል እንዴ?)
ደሜ🩸🩸 ፈሰሰ ነው የምላችሁ በጣም ወደ ውስጥ ነበረ ቢላው የገባው..በንጋታው ያው እቤት ለበአል ቤተሰብ ይመጣል እኔ ደሞ ቡና ሳፈላ በቃ🫠 ከሰል ሳቀጣጥል እሳቱ ሌላኛው ጣቴን አነደደው🤦‍♀
እስኪ ይሁን ብዬ ዶሮ ውስጥ የሚገባ እንቁላል ደሞ ስቶቭ ላይ ስለነበረ አውርጄ ውሃውን ሳፈስ የፈላው ውሃ እጄን😭
ብቻ አልተረፍኩም ነበረ😁

ምን ተመኘሁ ታድያ አሁን ለራሴ (ከምኞት ያለፈ ፅኑ መሻት)
- የማትረባዋን እኔን መግደል
- የማይጠቅም ስጋዊ ምኞቴን እያደሙ ከኔእነቴ መላጥ
- ይሄ ከንቱ ሀሳቤን ደሙን ማፍሰስ
ከእግዚአብሔር የሚያርቀኝን ሞኝነት በፈላ ውሃ መገሽለጥ
- አይኔ ቆብ አለው አይደል (eyelids) በቃ ክፉ አልይበት ልዝጋው
- እስኪ ይሄን ክፉ ልቤን አስተካክለው

አካሄዴ ስላላማረኝ ከክርስቶስ ጋር ተስማምቼ ስጋዬን ልገድል ወስኛለሁ
አየሁት እኮ የኔን ጉዞ 🙄
ምን ደሞ ኢትዮጵያዊ ሆኜ 70 ብደርስ ነው ለዚህች ኑሮ አንተን ከምበድል
ትሙት
ገድላታለሁ
ተቆጥቻት አለቅሳለሁ
እንግደላት እተባበርሃለሁ።

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08 октября 2024 04:01

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What's up my ppl
Its my 4th or 5 time venting here
Honestly i just wanted the vent not the mikir u get back on the comments

My life seems to be going down and down day by day
everything just falling apart
Im 19 now just finished 12th (rough year)
I got a messed up family
And now currently they are trying to admit me to a mental hospital
Like for real
Honestly im not scared or angry or ....
I aint feeling any thing
Seeing every thing fall apart made it easy on me
Endewum im actually questioning my sanity but its sad yemir 4 or 5 yrs ago i was living the life. Every thing just going up and up had friends was great in school i was a believer (not religious) but i used to believe that im God son and im favoured
Damn
Keza buhala all of a sudden boom 💥 it starts raining chigir in my life
My mother got sick (Cancer)
Started neglecting my classes
Tried acting like i got it all collected but it just made it worse
I started smoking (cigarettes)
Started avoiding my friend (honestly i wouldnt call them my friends they ran away as soon as they saw me fall apart)
Well 4 yrs later im at the peak of messed up
If ud see me on the road ud think i was raised In the streets
My face is all blackened
My hair is all grown up
My beard tangled

Bezih semon matric wutet i was hoping on that
At least matric kalefku id have a second chance to make it beye
I studied hard
I even asked The so called God for this just help me out for once
And ill keep pushing harder beye
I got 297
For 3 points wedeku
I felt like God was playing a cosmic jock in my life
I felt like when he saw me see my result he fell down from his glowy thrown loughing and slamming the ground
That was messed up
I really hated him infact
i hate him now if he actually exists
The part that hurts the most is the people i used to learn with dero hulum alfual
Literally hulum
Even the dumbest i used to know

I dont know what to do now
Its Been weeks ebet kuch kalku

Im proud to announce

🙌I GAVE UP🙌📢

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08 октября 2024 04:01

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Slam betseb 👋, I wanted to vent here because it's a safe space around here so my stressful story begun on January and got opportunity to change everything after 2+ years here is what happened I'm experienced trader after many failures and passing through valley of despair and got a good capital to trade with and in my head I got the feeling I made it and made the worst mistake of promising my family so many things and least did I know this promises got in my head put a lot of pressure and burden in me and I didn't perform the way I wanted plus after a while the company got insolvent and I got nothing even lost my initial capital because of this result my family thinks I'm in sort of pyramid schemes and my mental agony begun from that point I started to build my personal account in which by its own is another mountain to climb until this week I overheard my mother said something and that trigger something in me got tilted and lost 85% of my capital I have build since my fall and I'm here at the start of newyear my stress levels all time high I have nothing to do in my life because all I know is trading nothing else I have no friends to go out and talk to it feels like I hit rock bottom and lost at the same time at the age 26 pushing 30 and I look at my old friends from uni doing well and I'm here staying with my parents without any tangible results to show I know comparison is thief of joy but sometimes it gets in your head even if you try not to so I began to ask my self did I made the wrong decision pursuing this career path or I'm delusional and at my current state starting new things felt like I wasted many years of my life so no matter what I'm looking forward to hear your opinion and perspective

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08 октября 2024 04:01

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Tariku mijmrew K2 amet befit 12class eyalew nw ena kesuga sw nbr yastewawken first enbi alflgm alkuat then buhala lay besu gfit mawrat jmren l tdar mthonwn set eyflge  endehone ena bzu menzazat endemayfleg askdemo ngrognal ena anchi demo ene mflgew aynet set nesh tbyalew alegn.yan seat ene mnm ltedar mnm flagot ylgnm nbr mnam esu serategna nw gbi eskehed dres normal nbr mnaweraw keza buhala gn betam tmechachen lene first relation nw esu gn kezi befit relation baybalem tekit setochn endawera ngrognal ena gbi eyalehu almost hule malet yechalal ene nbrku maweraw koyto nw mimlsew ene demo mnm aymeslgnm nbr sera ybezabet slnbr leza nw elalew andande siyanadegn gn snegrew esh mokralew ylal gn wef then text mulu matefabet gze ale yane demo ynadedal esu like ende hsan mn asdletesh mnamn ylal mnamn ena demo yhen ngr lastewaweqchn lij negrowatal keza esuam dwela atdlechi mnamn tlegnalech  mnamn... bnegrachn lay beakal tegenagnten anawqem gn gbi khedku buhala lesu felling ynoregn jmer enam yne family betam strict nachew ena wde bet lmles sel kahun buhala endemalaweraw ngerkut esu gn simechesh awrign betam new makbresh hasabshen ekbelalew akebralew mnamn ngr alegn esh alkut betam nw des yalegn then bet khedku buhala and ken hi alkut aweran mnamn keza mawrat jmren endedero mnamn ena mesfrtesh mndnw? Becha bzu ktedarga miyayaz were yteykegn nbr ena ene demo yane masbew endewedegn ena ltedar endemretegn eytesemagn meta ena betam wededkut mnamn kezam 1ken kalayhush ale tegenagnten ayegn mnamn kezam mawrat ktlen mnamn ena ene beqa 1 1 ngertaoch eyanadedugn metu keza tnesh snagrew ene chekchek alwdem malet jmre then ene demo betam endanadedgn slewedekut nw enji kesuga mnm miyakogn ngr ylm coz ene endmflgew treat slmayaregegn ngrkut then ykrta alegn esum endemiwedegn ngregn gn slezi ahun maseb alflgm mnamn ale esh bye zm alkut keza endedero honen then yhone gze tefabegn yane le sera field weto slnbr ferahuna bzu dwelkulet ayanesam txt aregku aymlsem keza koyto beqa ybeqan kahun buhala anawra alegn lmen alkut lj nesh bedme bzu lyunet ale mnamn alegn betam kefagn eskelelit8seat enklf enbi alegn malkes rasu kbdegn lben betam nw yamemew then yane ytesemagen hulu be 3paragraph melku safkulet tg lay then tewat aytot sorry endezi alasebkutm nbr alegn beqa keza ene betam yewah negn ahunm endnktel teyekut esh ale then yhone gze lay ke le sister hulunm ngerkuat keza lesu ngerkut then enakom byesh nbr alegn betam tenadedku sedebkut keza block aregkut then ke koye buhala sawetaw esu block argognal then be WhatsApp heje sorry alkut esh alegn then freind enhun mnamn alegn honen gn be3ken sasbew dbregn mhon endemalchel ngerkut then lmn endemalet mnamn ale then tesmama keza akomen ene betam new masbew wedejew nbr lman lenager ferahu malkes hula alchalkum beqa mn honsh bebal mn elalew bye zm alku tnesh mersat meregagt jmerku keza k TG block anesa then storyen kaye alfo alfo dehnenetun teykewalew esu gn mnm aylm yane demo ene endeadis kesuga mhon emegnalew asebalew keza yhe ngr lne tru endalhone asbe beqa story endayay bekteta ngrkut esh alena block argegn enem aregkut then weratoch alefu ke snt gze buhala yastewaweqechn lij anagrechegnena ngerkuat endeteleyayen  lmn stelegn edmena lij nesh astesasebachen yeleyal endalegn ngerkuat then eski esun teykina milshen tnegrignalesh alkuat esh alechegn yane ene esu yalakat meslogn degami tesfa aregku  keza liyageba endehone sefi bet endetekeraye mnamn guadegnaw ngregn keza kahun buhala btykew waga ylwm alechegn esh tyew alkut endeadis  kefagn bmechew ymilew grmegn endeza kalechegn ke 2ken buhala esu k block awetagn ene ayche zm alku alawetahutm ena awtechew ltykew asebkugn wys beqa ykrebegn plz ngerugn eski mn atefaw?mejmeriyam esu alwdedegnm nbr?😥esh ahun mn larg mkrugn?

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08 октября 2024 04:00

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Girls, I need some help here.
Been single all my life, never approached a girl with the intention of flirting. I think I'm too old to never experience a kiss or at least be in one of this elementary/high-school relationship or any 2-week telegram relationship. ሴት ጀንጅኜ አላቅም. I was about to write how I got here starting from elementary but it'd be a 30' read so let's skip to uni.
At freshman year it seemed like everyone came here(campus) to get a gf than to learn. Everyone was hitting on girls, "cooking" in their dms like it's their day time job. The boys usually delete the rejections so you wouldn't know how may girls they've tried but a girl which was mid( I hope you don't take this rude) showed me her dms and told me that she's sick of boys nagging her and that she ignores them. I was shocked when I saw almost 100 "Hi"s. Btw it was weird coz we've talked no more than 5 minutes before. Anyways the boys think I'm a wannabe sigma also heard the girls saying I'm ጉረኛ but none of that is true. My friends usually tell me that I'm missing the signs. But I'm not sure about those signs and even if I am, I don't know what to do next. I don't want to be that weirdo coz I've seen what some of the boys were "cooking" and it feels like the girls are just being nice and trying not to make the remainder of their years awkward coz they're classmates. It sometimes works with consistency but it doesn't feel right to me.
Two things are holding me back
1. Being the weirdo I mentioned above and creeping out a girl who was having a good day
2. What comes with relationship from what I see like calling each other with cringe names, less privacy, the drama... but I'll with this one. I just need some help with the first one.
So girls, how can I identify the signs? And after being sure with that, what's the next step?
I need everyone's perspective 🙏

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08 октября 2024 04:00

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hello everyone this is the second time I'm venting. honestly, I'm not here to here for help more like to just get it out. so the thing is about my sis. She just doesn't want anything. I mean she doesn't want to talk she pushes me out not just me but the whole thing I understand her job is exhausting she works with family I used to work there they are sooooo mean but im always with her at least i try im not holding it against her like im not like them or some shit like to see me different none of that. i just want her to comfort i know she's suffering with all of the things honestly i don't even know what to do or what to think. im moving out in a month or so. some part of me think she'll have some kind of relief the other says i just want to be there for here. im atheist if there is any creature or force out there i just want help her give her whatever she need and to tell here ill always be here for her. she is literally my other half seeing her closed or shut down makes hate this world. anyway ik it's cheesy and dramatic for most of you but i just don't know where to turn to. obviously finance is one of the first cause of sadness most of us know that, ik that trust me im not from money, but an absolute horror comes from your loved once what they do and don't affect your entire being i just wish i can suck all of her problems and sadness. ik i wrote it as if she is being difficult and im the good guy but no if you actually met her you'll know she's cool and im the bitch trust me on this one😅 ik all of us face problems of our own but just want to late it out. thank you all try to enjoy every happiness u got in every second you don't know when you'll lose it and there is always a chance you will lose it

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07 октября 2024 04:01

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Hello 👋
Currently working in the bank industry. 3rd year is coming soon and I hate the job it's consuming me every day I lost motivation and the pressure I want to quit it now but I just can't It's already too late to even get a job in other industry am just lost for words to describe the mess am going BC of this job anyone out there who's feeling the same lately ?

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07 октября 2024 04:01

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Hey guys I’m 19f and I will go to uni soon so my question is are you guys happy uni bmhedachu wys aydelachum I’m so confused should I go or not my dad said don’t go let’s start business here and my mom wants me to go and became lawyer what should I do

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07 октября 2024 04:01

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I need ur advice guys so am a 18 F and am a 12 grader Actually yehen hasab sanesa setlew almost a year honotal mn meselachu, So am in 12 grade ryt and there is matric which I didn't even start getting ready for and I don't even know where to start from (please if u guys have any tips share🙏)And what I am think is to go abroad and study there malte there's a place where I can go ye matric result mnamn sayasfelgn malet nw but the problem is enkuwan wechi hager lehed eziw defer suke enkuwan mehed alchelem and also I feel like am running away from a problem and if I stay I feel like I'll fail the matric too which nobody expects from me
Please u guys tell me what to do

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07 октября 2024 04:01

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Hello

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I recently celebrated 23 feels like am aging I don't time flies I guess. I have been feeling somewhat sad not depressed sometimes suicidal 🙃 but I know this shall pass i felt like this before too and it passed i might do it the third time yk the third time is the charm i guess that's the saying i just kidding why would i take this beauty called life i want to be with her at the same not she's just like a beautiful woman with wondering eyes she wants you but also devil wants her too lust wants her greed wants her hate wants her you get where i am going with this I guess if you don't feel free too ask me in the comments without further yapping I want to ask you what is the meaning of living its not for sure God bc u know he's waiting for me to come to him but what am suppose to do while you know he's waiting maybe start a family have kids there's the financial part on this to make clear I dropped out of college I thought I was too smart for the system(still is says my alter ego) been working some jobs made quite a bit of money first rule of money i have learned keep while you have it now i am dead broke living with my parents watch Netflix all day and night also addicted to mastrubating and cigs feeling a little bit fuck everything but also crippling anxiety at the same time some people might your living with your parents under a roof being fed thats not the problem for right now I am a very ambitious dude very competitive some would say a bit handsome too but me being at my parents doing nothing i like to read some times although despite everything all the love I get from my siblings and parents I still want to leave them my mom would never recover if i do it i don't think i am going to do it if i wanted how i do it look my self with charcoal gas shot my self jump from a building why why should i stay or leave; i started saying fuck it stopped taking care of my self let my hair my beard loose wearing the cloth for weeks not sleeping for day or two stopped caring about dating just letting loose maybe thats why but i feel home here i feel this is me maybe i am meant to be a loser who mastrubates and writes senseless thing about himself.
If feels good letting it out man went at it just bboooofff. I hope some of you might think of me as weak you should I deserve it i hope some of you got advice for me too thank you for your time if i conquer my demons and the world i am happy to look back at this and feel embarrassed some time in the future til then feeling like is fairly enough.

Thank you god for everything you have done and given me all the blessings all love i get from my family thank you for everything i hope you are leading to your path making closer to you i hope thats true what it isn't will.....

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07 октября 2024 04:01

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Yo, so listen up, back in high school, there was this girl, right?  At first, I wasn't really feelin' her, ya know?  But then she started talkin' late at night(like sexting ), and she was all about gettin' freaky.  We texted all night long,  like, every night.  Then, she was all, "Let's do this in person."  But I was like, "Nah, fam, I'm not into that."  I mean, even if she had the bomb .com body, I just wasn't feelin' it. 
  lemme be real, it ain't because I'm some insecure , okay? I got it all, like, the whole package. But like, I'm just not feeling it right now, you know? Not the time for that kind of thing.
So, I told her straight up, and we just moved on, you know? Now we're both doing our own thing. I'm in college, third year, and I've got a good side hustle going. And, honestly, the whole thing with her, like the texting and all that? It's become super addictive. Now I'm doing the same thing with other girls, and when they want to meet up, I just ghost them.  is it just me or am I straight up weird?

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07 октября 2024 04:00

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Greetings to u all,M24

I really regret starting a relationship with her coz she cheated on me and she told me it's happend bc of childhood trauma and she was so much in hurt and became miserable so i forgive her and we moved on but eventually my feeling started to decrease and now i don't wanna be with her at all and if i say let's break up she will kill herself bc she almost done it more than twice when we were in harsh argument. I stopped calling texting treating her hoping that her love would decrease but it doesn't work and idk what to do, i feel like I'm trapped.

I want to ask u all
Do u have any worst regret in ur life?

And which one is worse to love or to be loved?

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07 октября 2024 04:00

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I dont get why most ppl disagree with me but I'm tired of adults' n teens' stance on what love is—a paradoxical mess, calling these dopamine spikes n oxytocin releases that give u mood swings n attachment for a period that won't last, n ur labeling that as love. Like let's not fool ourselves, do u rly believe our parents are still crazy abt each other as they first met? Even if, for the sake of argument, isn't it the dumbest way to catch a feeling? Most people ending up depressed, others breaking up and let children take the beat to grow up without a full family. Some take it far n commit suicide, all because ppl can't learn to mask these stupid emotions, instead letting it drive us just cos we enjoy the intoxication of it. I'd rather choose to snort cocaine n go on my day if love's abt feelings.

If it's abt marriage, marry not cos of emotions towards someone, but let it be out of the choice of character u want in a person, cos it's not abt marrying the person u love that matters, it's loving the person u marry. The most u can get of these senseless feelings is prolly a wild moment of ecstasy, n it still wouldn't be the most sensible thing to do if it isn't with ur spouse. Ofc you have heard the term "the marriage bed should be kept pure." Oftentimes, ppl fall in love with their imaginations—the image of the person they have in mind, n not the person themselves. That's why they rush to decisions n fuck up. Hope u learn stn here. Don't get me wrong, spending time with the opposite sex is a great way to live, but not as lovers, not friends—just strangers with memories

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07 октября 2024 04:00

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Hi I need to vent 21 f and please don't come asking for my id cause that is not going to happen cause am not looking for your attention I just need your advice yall ..so I am a girl who is kind, loving educated I will say am some how smart and a little bit dumb 😁 , am very shy , doesnt party or sleep around and I think am pretty I have a good body too people tell me that so I am guessing , I am a chrstian who fears God and try to live a life that God will be proud of so to get to the point I have never had a boyfriend and I want one but I don't know how to talk to boys it is always awkward and boys who are approach me are mostly orthodox or Muslim and I can't date or marry outside of my religion and boys in my religion don't ask me out I wonder why bicha I don't know I need some advice just say something help me out

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06 октября 2024 18:28

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Mn bye endmjmer alawqem

Tariku mijmrew K2 amet befit 12class eyalew nw ena kesuga sw nbr yastewawken first enbi alflgm alkuat then buhala lay besu gfit mawrat jmren l tdar mthonwn set eyflge  endehone ena bzu menzazat endemayfleg askdemo ngrognal ena anchi demo ene mflgew aynet set nesh tbyalew alegn.yan seat ene mnm ltedar mnm flagot ylgnm nbr mnam esu serategna nw gbi eskehed dres normal nbr mnaweraw keza buhala gn betam tmechachen lene first relation nw esu gn kezi befit relation baybalem tekit setochn endawera ngrognal ena gbi eyalehu almost hule malet yechalal ene nbrku maweraw koyto nw mimlsew ene demo mnm aymeslgnm nbr sera ybezabet slnbr leza nw elalew andande siyanadegn gn snegrew esh mokralew ylal gn wef then text mulu matefabet gze ale yane demo ynadedal esu like ende hsan mn asdletesh mnamn ylal mnamn ena demo yhen ngr lastewaweqchn lij negrowatal keza esuam dwela atdlechi mnamn tlegnalech  mnamn... bnegrachn lay beakal tegenagnten anawqem gn gbi khedku buhala lesu felling ynoregn jmer enam yne family betam strict nachew ena wde bet lmles sel kahun buhala endemalaweraw ngerkut esu gn simechesh awrign betam new makbresh hasabshen ekbelalew akebralew mnamn ngr alegn esh alkut betam nw des yalegn then bet khedku buhala and ken hi alkut aweran mnamn keza mawrat jmren endedero mnamn ena mesfrtesh mndnw? Becha bzu ktedarga miyayaz were yteykegn nbr ena ene demo yane masbew endewedegn ena ltedar endemretegn eytesemagn meta ena betam wededkut mnamn kezam 1ken kalayhush ale tegenagnten ayegn mnamn kezam mawrat ktlen mnamn ena ene beqa 1 1 ngertaoch eyanadedugn metu keza tnesh snagrew ene chekchek alwdem malet jmre then ene demo betam endanadedgn slewedekut nw enji kesuga mnm miyakogn ngr ylm coz ene endmflgew treat slmayaregegn ngrkut then ykrta alegn esum endemiwedegn ngregn gn slezi ahun maseb alflgm mnamn ale esh bye zm alkut keza endedero honen then yhone gze tefabegn yane le sera field weto slnbr ferahuna bzu dwelkulet ayanesam txt aregku aymlsem keza koyto beqa ybeqan kahun buhala anawra alegn lmen alkut lj nesh bedme bzu lyunet ale mnamn alegn betam kefagn eskelelit8seat enklf enbi alegn malkes rasu kbdegn lben betam nw yamemew then yane ytesemagen hulu be 3paragraph melku safkulet tg lay then tewat aytot sorry endezi alasebkutm nbr alegn beqa keza ene betam yewah negn ahunm endnktel teyekut esh ale then yhone gze lay ke le sister hulunm ngerkuat keza lesu ngerkut then enakom byesh nbr alegn betam tenadedku sedebkut keza block aregkut then ke koye buhala sawetaw esu block argognal then be WhatsApp heje sorry alkut esh alegn then freind enhun mnamn alegn honen gn be3ken sasbew dbregn mhon endemalchel ngerkut then lmn endemalet mnamn ale then tesmama keza akomen ene betam new masbew wedejew nbr lman lenager ferahu malkes hula alchalkum beqa mn honsh bebal mn elalew bye zm alku tnesh mersat meregagt jmerku keza k TG block anesa then storyen kaye alfo alfo dehnenetun teykewalew esu gn mnm aylm yane demo ene endeadis kesuga mhon emegnalew asebalew keza yhe ngr lne tru endalhone asbe beqa story endayay bekteta ngrkut esh alena block argegn enem aregkut then weratoch alefu ke snt gze buhala yastewaweqechn lij anagrechegnena ngerkuat endeteleyayen  lmn stelegn edmena lij nesh astesasebachen yeleyal endalegn ngerkuat then eski esun teykina milshen tnegrignalesh alkuat esh alechegn yane ene esu yalakat meslogn degami tesfa aregku  keza liyageba endehone sefi bet endetekeraye mnamn guadegnaw ngregn keza kahun buhala btykew waga ylwm alechegn esh tyew alkut endeadis  kefagn bmechew ymilew grmegn endeza kalechegn ke 2ken buhala esu k block awetagn ene ayche zm alku alawetahutm ena awtechew ltykew asebkugn wys beqa ykrebegn plz ngerugn eski mn atefaw?mejmeriyam esu alwdedegnm nbr?😥esh ahun mn larg mkrugn?

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06 октября 2024 18:19

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I dont get why most ppl disagree with me but I'm tired of adults' n teens stance on what love is—a paradoxical mess, calling these dopamine spikes n oxytocin releases that give u mood swings n attachment for a period that won't last, n ur labeling that as love. Like let's not fool ourselves, do u rly believe our parents are still crazy abt each other as they first met? Even if, for the sake of argument, isn't it the dumbest way to catch a feeling? Most people ending up depressed, others breaking up and let children take the beat to grow up without a full family. Some take it far n commit suicide, all because ppl can't learn to mask these stupid emotions, instead letting it drive us just cos we enjoy the intoxication of it. I'd rather choose to snort cocaine n go on my day if love's abt feelings.

If it's abt marriage, marry not cos of emotions towards someone, but let it be out of the choice of character u want in a person, cos it's not abt marrying the person u love that matters, it's loving the person u marry. The most u can get of these senseless feelings is prolly a wild moment of ecstasy, n it still wouldn't be the most sensible thing to do if it isn't with ur spouse. Ofc you have heard the term "the marriage bed should be kept pure." Oftentimes, ppl fall in love with their imaginations—the image of the person they have in mind, n not the person themselves. That's why they rush to decisions n fuck up. Hope u learn stn here. Don't get me wrong, spending time with the opposite sex is a great way to live, but not as lovers, not friends—just strangers with memories

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