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23 мая 2024 04:00

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Hey so these is z thing I had been in a relationship with this girl for 6 month and out of z blue she just end it like leleit 7 sat lay with a long text saying zat our timing isn't good for relationship......
Betcha she end it with out explain it so for like 8 month it was so hard for me to get over her and also I was hoping she would come back to me but she didn't and times goes buy and I started to get over her and tnx God I'm over it now but my loneliness is killing me right now plus I'm a relationship guy but know i feel alone I feel like my mind is slowly fading so what do u guys advice me??

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22 мая 2024 10:10

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Hello,

6 years ago, I was in a relationship with a cute shorty.

It was the first day of grade 12 and I was the nerd of our class, and I used to sit alone in the front sit😕 and at that same fucking day she broke up with her boy friend and asked me if we could sit together at my desk and I said okay.. ዛት ወዝ ዘ ቢጊኒንግ 😂...

We never went out on a date, but after some time every class period became our dating period and we paper chatted while class was on and we talked the whole lunch time and we disguised "going to our home" and "sunday's"😂😂 ብቻ ምን አለፋቹ በአንድ ቂጥ ልንፈሳ ትንሽ ነበር የቀረን 😂😂 የሚገርመው እኮ I was so shy and we never kissed,  hugged or cuddled. We just loved being around each other and talking about every possible thing.that's it.

we went through the whole year like this and after the matric exam, she took me to a cinema and we didn't even see the title of the movie..
It was empty and my first kiss happened there, we kissed for an hour.

I enjoyed the kiss, but I felt like we had sinned so I repented and I started to avoid her mnmn and one day I was watching a movie and I saw ፍናን and fell in love with her and I immediately broke up with the love of my life😂😂

oh, How dumb was I🤣.

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22 мая 2024 10:08

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Hey guys am 20f,its my 2nd time venting here so the problem is i want to love myself am not saying i hate my self but through hard time life processes i start losing interest on myself and i always feel tired.my life is hard since i was child i have a lot of problems to faced bcz of that i have high level of stress,depression due to that i even gain a lot of weight i even remembered one time i gained almost 6kg in a month and when u came to my love life thats another story but i have never been in any rship but there are guys who want to meet up, they told me they like me mnamen but before i even start dating or starting rships i want to love myself, be confident and make my mind clear so my question is how can i build my confidence,my self esteem,how to know my worth and love myself?

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22 мая 2024 10:08

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Am really tired of this fucking life l wish that if i have a brother or sister that i can go to When i feel sad and lonely but i don't have no one even a friend i really hate this life sometimes i think When i get home i will do something like try a new things something that can make money for me online but when i get home the only thing that came to my mind is killing my self or crying out loud....i try everything to make money but it's so hard the only thing i get is a pain on my back i can't stand for long time

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22 мая 2024 10:08

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Hi everyone so I want to tell you something and you tell me if I am being stupid or people are stupid so I am a Univeristy student and I have a teacher I mean he is young and he teached us one semester and then he stopped but he has an office and he still comes and recently we started hanging out together like he would tell me about his work and stuff and since he wasn’t teaching us it was cool and he would also help with my assignments and stuff and then we started going out for walks and I started going to his house and we are like friends and since we didn’t have a teacher he started teaching us again like last week and everyone is telling me that he is doing that to make me his gf or to sleep with me and that I am stupid to even think that he would be my friend like we never talk about weird stuff and if he wanted to do something he would’ve done it a long time ago I mean he had a lot of opportunities but he didn’t and like what do u guys think and I have a bf and he also thinks that he’s trying to do something and nowadays our fight is always because of him anywho what would you tell me?

And please don’t be an ass

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22 мая 2024 10:08

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Hello everyone I've read a lot of vent and many people have horrible lives, they are hooked to drugs or alcohol, or have problems with their families, relationships, or social lives. Yes, we are all human have problems but the most important thing is how we deal with the problems we face. I've also been addicted for about nine months. Yes, it's a short time, but in those nine months, becha abesayen nw yebelhut😭 I hated myself so much and insulted myself constantly. yehone voice ale ,That voice told me that I was trash, that I wasn't worthy of friends, family, or even my own home, and even when I ate, that voice told me that this was more worthy than u don't wast the food yelegn nbr.I heard a voice say, "You can't be clean, why would you take a shower? ewnt yelegnm nbr You know you're trash, so don't wast the water." It was the devil speaking. ehe balege I promise that it's simple when you put it in writing at that moment I can't even explain it😭, when I glance in the mirror. Ye enaten geday yayew nw mimeselw I gave myself a very poor impression and was really nasty to myself. I blame myself for everything and I couldn't recognize my positive traits. I haven't attempted suicide temsegen gn asebebet nbr and one day simeregn I decided to tell my friend. He advised me to pray and gave me a lot of advice; he is church agelegay.He is really considerate. He doesn't judge me, I swear, and endemen I focus on praying continuously, yet I choose to ignore that voice when I try to pray yea it's not easy but it's possible . Ya asekeyami voice yemeta nbr. I don't give a damn about your religion. If you're a Christian, pray to God, and if you're a Muslim, pray to Allah. (I'm sorry atheist) God is always willing to listen, waiting to speak with you. He is trustworthy and powerful. If you're an addict, you can't survive without God; he is much stronger than us. Please don't let ehe balege devil win.
I rly love u all guys❤️🤗

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22 мая 2024 10:08

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I've been smoking weed for the past 6 years daily. I smoke it after work, and it helps me relax and fall asleep easily. However, I recently read an article about how marijuana affects sleep. It mentioned that marijuana prevents deep sleep, specifically REM sleep, which is why many marijuana smokers don't dream. I haven't had any dreams for the past 6 years. Thankfully, after all these years, I have made the decision to give up marijuana. Has marijuana ever prevented you from dreaming?

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22 мая 2024 10:08

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i never write such kinda thing am sad just listen me i want to be in a relationship so badly i want someone to love and I wanna be loved i am 21 and have never been in a relationship...there are no protestant guys that ik so I can never be in a relationship even if I want to but ofc i have been asked out so many times but it's always the wrong person... i don't even know why I am writing this ik I'll never get him here am just sad that's why am writing this.......i was even crying yesterday when i saw some couples they were so sweet getan.......why is it so hard to find the one tho.

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22 мая 2024 10:08

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Hey guys, I am almost 21 .. male , I need your help on this one .
So I have a girl best friend our friendship is good I enjoy spending time her and taking her .... Overall she's awesome and I love her as a friend of course .

But there's this problem recently her friend told me that she said she is in love with me , it's not like I didn't see that coming or it wasn't obvious but knowing that I couldn't love her the way she wants me to is killing me . She is convinced that I am in love with her, she calls me babe it bothers me of coarse but I don't want to hurt her feelings by telling her to not call like that. All of her are convinced that we're dating because of the way she talks about us , honestly I don't care about any of this I only care about her and her feelings...... Please what do I do ?

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21 мая 2024 16:41

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Hey guys, so I need some help😔. The thing is, I'm not sure how to explain it, but like three years ago I had sex for the first time. It was kinda rough and it hurt a lot, so we had to stop. I even bled a little. Since then I've been really scared of sex Then I had a boyfriend, and I really wanted to try again but i got so scared at the last moment that I froze up and couldn't go through with it. Now I'm too embarrassed to even date anyone because I'm afraid it'll happen again. Can you guys give me any tips or advice to get over this fear? Please don’t say negative things tho😭

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21 мая 2024 16:40

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I'm 18 and a female. Currently I'm a senior abt to finish school and I wanted advice on smth from a person that didn't actually know me. The thing is, there was this dude last year(11th grade) that actually liked me and even though I didn't like him my friend "M" (let's call her that) convinced me to give him a try. So I said yes and things were fine until I felt weird abt dating this boy, like I wanted to be myself bc first of all we didn't talk at school cuz my friends and his friends made shit awkward and second of all, I wasn't rly attracted to him. I broke things off and after a day or two I wanted him back so I got back with him....Anyway that happened like 3 times I think( me breaking up with him and getting back at stuff). After our third break up, I started to like that dude very much. Like id go every length to talk to him, and do shit for him. The thing is my friend M and him are very close. I've known my friend since 8th gradeand she just met him that same year. I knew that dude back in 6th grade so whatever it is, I've known her for more than she's known him. After the school year ended I felt the dude attention and love for me retreating. I did my best to get it back to me. I even did things I wasn't comfortable to do like send pics at shit. The dude used to be out all day and text me around at 12am(6seat in ethiopia) saying he was busy the whole day and this is the only time he got to text me which obv I'm asleep at that time. Anyway I used to call M and ask her advice on what the he'll i should so with him and she used to tell me uk. We were friends....somehow they(M and the dude) used to meet up once a week at school to do this project and I didn't mind that at all bc comeon first of all, I trust my friend so much and second of all, What kind of jerk would go my his gf best friend while still dating her? Anyway After some time shit got worse. The dude turned his active status off on every app and he used to post shit on his story but not reply to my texts like that's how disrespectful that guy was. I broke up with him and then when school started again this year, I Noticed there smth going on bn the Two. When I broke up with the dude,I was jk abt being friends with benefits and shit as a FUCKING JK but some how she knew I said that to him like this dude be telling her all the shit we were talking abt. That just grossed me out. And then it didn't even take him a week to follow her around school like they were dating now. Imagine all the gossip I had to go through..."omg this girls bf is going for her best friend how fucked up is that" and that hurt me a lot uk. I still loved the dude and the reason why I broke up with him was cuz he wasn't acting right. But shit made sense After I saw them together. The dude was texting m the whole time while I was asking her what to do to get him to reply. The trust I had in her was so much that there was no way id expect them to get together after a fucking week my him broke up. I talked to her saying " hey m, I get that u guys are great friends but it bothers me to see u guys alone on halls and pls stop cuz ppl are talking abt it" and all she said was " the dude is a big part of my life and I don't want to stop talking to him bc it makes u uncomfortable, he asked me out yest and obv I said no but I still can't cut him off..."
Bro, ppl were telling me that they've seen them Making out and I still had trust in her thar I just believed what I said. Anyway let me go to the point. Rn, i have a very loving bf and although she thinks I have a bf now bc I'm trying to get back at her, Idc I love him so much. But when I see m and my ex together, it just bothers the shit out of me. She texted me a couple of weeks ago saying she needs to talk to me bc i just say hi to her when I see her at school and at her locker but that's it. She knows she did me very bad and bicha she texted me and when I got the notification, I deactivated my account.

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21 мая 2024 16:40

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Is it normal not to have a relationship in this age?
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21 мая 2024 16:40

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Hello guys...I am here for an advice.  I am 22 years old girl that lives in AA. I am also in college. I live with my parents so I live very comfortably. The thing is I feel like there is sth missing in my life and I am beginning to think its passion. I just have no deep interest in anything particular. Here is a thing i know my strengths like I am resilient and wont stop sth if I started and my weaknesses like I have a huge procrastination problem ,lazy and social media addict. I tried to find hobbies but nth is sticking up with me and I believe because I have no passion whatsoever. I get envious of people who do stuff they enjoy. I wanted to try modelling but i dont know how and where to begin . So Give me a suggestion and advise for my situation and how to get out of it.
It would be nice if you guys also know people who recruit for modelling cuz I really want to give it a shot. Thanks for your time

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21 мая 2024 16:40

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Hello
Some time ask how really God made this non sense world and blame us for the unconscious discussion of survival. Get fascinated my nothingness of thing because they don't have anything in it but also ask what is nothing ? Also everything? Not great fun of the relativistic ideology am naive enough to think that thing have answer . Work all days in a week with different companies because of inflation but know a day have face great problems burnout from all the work also have class . Monday to Sunday is like continues suffering on my way . Every time I think about suicide but fear that will not even give me peace that I want . My most fear is lossing it all even with all suffering losing is luxury. Now a day I start believing everybody have mental problem or just covering my illness. Starting my childhood spend most of my time with my self never trusted anybody also introvert not because I choose it because when I was child have to many responsibility I don't remember have time to play with my age group children that creat fear of not coping with my generation or other generation I don't fear people but don't want to be close may be my fear come from nothing to provide to that circle. I work hard in horrible environments because that make me to not expect anything as return . Sleepless days make me change my behavior to angry in real scenarios more humble human being but that character I think creat from seeking approval from my parent or society. This capitalist world is all about consuming .

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21 мая 2024 16:40

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Hey I’m a girl and 19 years old unity new yemememarew Ena like I’m addicted to porn and masturbate istg like degme alaregm sin new beye aseb ena le 1 samnt techew the next week ejmeralew and my mind stalk with lesbians porn ena like mehone efelgalew kale les Lela porn alayem ena I wanna be bi endet laskumewwww yehen hassab??? Please

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22 мая 2024 16:02

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22 мая 2024 10:08

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Hi Everyone I need you to give me some advice, please I need it ...
So let me start here I have been in relationships for like about 3 years and he's my first and I dream a lots of things for future and then first year was good and it's kind of the relationship I wished for...after that year we always have argument..and trust issues comes out and a lots of some other things those all things comes from both of our faults but he always classified our faults as big fault and small one so because of this it did work out and we broke up and I begged him a lot to not let me go, But he did care he left me even though we broke up by his fault.At that time I lost my self and I've done a lots of things that I didn't imagine for ,I also try to kill my self more than one time and then I try to cover up my pieces and try to heal because it didn't change anything. Then He come back after 7 month and he said sorry for what he did he told me that he never want to lose me and I'm the kind of girl girl he had future with and no matter how he told me that he will going to marry me some day and he want to end up this things so at that time I'm so much in pain ,and I forget what he did to me and restart our relationship again but I don't trust him because of the past traumas,I felt like he's going to break me someday like that again and then because of these trust issues we have some arguments sometimes and he have bad friends who push he to do a lots of toxic things then I try to keep him and do a lots of things to keep him but he made a mistake again and constantly it hurts me and lose my self again and I tell him what he did to me and we broke up again then I felt guilty about it because I'm the one who pushed him even though that's his fault because I don't want to mean and sometimes when I missed him I don't know what I'm going to do I want to talk to him but he didn't want it he just only want to be FWB and I agreed with that thing to keep in touch with him but when I think like that l start hating my self then after sometimes I think about it And I don't know what to say to him I only want him to be real with me and if he wants me to be his future wife to wait him or if that's not what he thought to end up things ......so please guys help me what should I have to do should I wait him...? Or give up...
And Is this the right time to be in a new relationship?

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22 мая 2024 10:08

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It's my first time venting i saw people venting and finding solutions that's why i wanted some thoughts on this i met her at high school and we have been friends for almost 3 years and my homie and her get into a relationship i wasn't affected that much but they broke after a year then me and her got together as friends and then after another year they became together again and at that time i did have feelings for her now she is going to leave the country he will also leave after a couple of months so what do i have to do move on or hoping we will be together i want girls opinion what will you do if you were her?

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22 мая 2024 10:08

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I'm studying at a university and it's a distance program. I own a startup and it's going well. We have a good partner like in profile and those types of standards. Also, I work as a marketing specialist at a successful startup and I'm an intern there and learning a lot from the CEO also my mentor. Not only that I also know what to do and when to implement my plans because I'm a creative guy I also got into the second round of a startup competition and this project is different from the first start-up I'm working on. So I'm not earning money like salary and all that but in 2 months I'll have like a good salary because some NGOs are talking to me to hire me and all that. The thing is all this thing is happening and I'm proud, my parents are happy and I'm doing well. And I believe that even if I stopped doing all my plans and went at this pace I'll be a millionaire and have a comfortable life. And I want to get married young and have kids like the Amharic proverb “lej belejinet” The thing is I'm not trying hard to get a girl or that I'm just chilling and waiting while I work on my projects and life. But I want a girl who knows me at this stage of my life like who knows me from day one or someone who has a good business or tried something good and failed. I'm not attracted by looks and all that I just want a girl that's mature and helpful and that makes me go all the way up and I want her to achieve her dream too. I have female friends and they are good and support me. I'm not attracted to them but I know they kinda like me but they know that I'm not attracted to them. So can you guys tell me if things are going well in 2 or 3 months should I start dating and find a keeper or keep things as they are right now?

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22 мая 2024 10:08

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Hey y'all am 21F university student and am in the relationship like almost 2yrs so guys i have a question like when our relationship started its like we talk we kissed we walked around the streets we makeout and stuff mnamn ena bedenb megbabat sinjemir we stopped everything then we have sex Room hiden i give him my V keza beka when we get horney Room enyizalen keza tewat enmelesalen life goes on gn gbi wust mnim neger anadergim egnam be relationshipachinin menfesawi neger enchemirbet bilen church mehed mnamn jemerin esu yaw ye church sew new enenim bizu neger astemrognal ena gbi gubae wust sira asfetsami huno sileneber huletachinim metenkek jemerin misale miadergut sewoch endayayun chelema lay rasu ankemetim even Rejim Hug anadergim keza esum lela class jemro almechachilet sil tewew keza gn enem mezmur kefil eyehediku mezmur matnat jemeriku ye gbi gubaewu zemarim negn ena i feel bad tiru misale mehon malchil eyemeselegn eferalehu bicha the thing is my bf ga ene kezi behuala sex madreg alfelgim untill we married gn endet endemnegrew alawkm esu teykogn demo mnim neger embi alilewum ena eski mn yishalegnal Egziabher kefekede hasabachin be Kurban lemegabat new ene gn eskeza sex eyeaderegin endinkoy alifelgim

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22 мая 2024 10:08

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ፈጣሪ ግን ሄዋን አፕሉን endemtbela ayakm nbr እንዴ?
coz hulun yemiak kehone allready kemestetu befitko endemtbelaw yawkal
esun kalaweke degmo fetari slehulm ngr  yawkal lemalet endet ychalal? endemtbelaw kaweke degmo rasu nw be hewan asabo wede mdr yelaken malet nw??

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22 мая 2024 10:08

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Hello everyone  and i have a lot to vent about the thing is i used to be with this guy no strings attached type shit for over a year and we been on and off most of the time. I know he has no feelings for me but I kind off do i know nothing is gonna happen so i just let he smash when he wants and leave when he wants. I understand I got manipulated into this cause its crazy and im not that typa person.am 20 btw .and the thing is he always comes back in 2weeks~a month but this time i did a bad thing and i made him lose his job and stuff he was ok w it at first but now he completely disappeared and im worried. And i  think its time to get over it and for a new body .but idk how. At this point its not even love i have for him it is hate and i don’t wish any good things to happen to him but i would still let him smash and miss him too.

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22 мая 2024 10:08

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ok guys I need ur help there's a guy I met on IG frankly speaking lijun kawekut koychalw yaw be ig malet nw I saw him on his friend's story and I texted him he's such a gentle guy
mnmn lemawrat hula yaschegr nbr but lijitua ene honkuna begdm bihon endiyaweragn arekut😂 btw he's also attractive keza eyetegbaban mnmn metan ena flirt mareg mnmn tejemere kaza he wanted to have a date with me beakal gn I have a strict parents who doesn't let me to go outside without any specific reason ena bezi mknyat salagegnw kerehu gn bihonm let te ken nbr mnaweraw text salareglet mnmn kewalku enkuan endet yidebrew endenbr ena ene rasu betam nbr yetemechegn(kinda fall in love) i know it's not possible be text bcha but his personality 🥰 btw beand amet nw mibeltegn but his mindset astewaynetu beza lay he has never been in relationship bcha he is my type. chgru yejemerew eziga nw he left the country because of scholarship keza eza kehede bewhala endewm bednb enawera nbr mnmn gn kegize wede gize eyekezekeze metabgn he don't wanna text me he don't even reply to my message he isn't ghosting me better than that hule busy endehone yinegregnal mnmn keza endegena tift yilal and I just realized I'm in love with him u guys don't get it ahun ahun salweraw siker ende ebd yaregegn jemrual uni gbi wst wendoch liyawarugn mnmn yimokralu ena ene kesu wchi lela wend balay rasu destaye nw endet endemidebrugn bcha I can't focus on anything except him.is it normal guys? please someone explain?

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22 мая 2024 10:08

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Hey...22 F so here is the thing I do have perfect family perfect life I'm happy not that I'm rich mnamn gn I'm living happy I have good interaction with people, about to graduate law school with good grades achieve many things(not financially) but academically... mostly want to hang out indoors enjoy reading cooking sleeping movies I don't do drugs drink ....simple life my parents live for 24 yes peaceful, by loving and caring for each other and I grow up looking after them...and when it comes to relationship I get tired of constant lies and pretenders...why don't today's generation can't commit...why do they pretend...not the players one tho they do that to get into lady's pant it's known but those who are in relationship with a girl and who cheats.... nobody holds gun to your head eko... instead of cheating they can say that there r over with her and stop the relationship peaceful without lieing cheating and hurting the other...but not only saying only boys cheat I'm saying this for both boys and girls...where are the good guys r tho?

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21 мая 2024 16:40

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Hey,
I never told this to anyone and it's my biggest insecurity. I'm 21F HU
The story goes like this, i met this guy in my second year and he is such a nice guy at first place, for someone with restrict parents joining university and getting that huge freedom was like reaching my goal at that time.
We started dating, on our 3rd date we kissed and after that we always kiss in every chance we got. But it was only a kiss, he always wants to touch my body but i stop him always.
One day, i told him that i'm about to withdrew because i can't get the department i wanted and we decided to met once for the last time before i left hawassa.
We met at z park and we kissed and he touched my body and he took a picture of me while kissing my body(but i didn't know)...after i left hawassa about 2months he asked me to send pictures and i sent him normal pictures but what he wanted was a nude picture of me , and i said no, then guess what? He sent me the picture of us while we saw kissing my body on the park. My brain stopped working, and i begged him to delete the pictures and he said he will delete the pictures if that made me feel bad, but i don't think he deleted them all.
Since we can't trust each other anymore we broke up, and never talked again for whole one year.

I really feel insecured when ever someone tries to approach me.
It's been 1 year but,i can't forget that and when ever i think about him i feel nerves and it feels like something that has happened yesterday.

I don't know how to heal my self from this, i feel like i  let'd him to destroy me.
I don't know how to move on.
I don't know what to do with my life.
I can't trust any other person at this moment.

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21 мая 2024 16:40

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Question for my ladies here, Are any of you down for FWB arrangements by choice? Like willingly looking for it? I mean I thought it was only mens' interest and benefit. If so, how do you typically feel afterwards is it easy to remain unattached, or do things end amicably? Also how does it end? To those advising against it, thank you for your input. I'm just curious to hear about people's experiences and emotions.

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21 мая 2024 16:40

Hey Unihorse 🦄
I am 🎭 hym
I need to vent
so hey everyone
i just wanna say st
this is for women that say they are ready for emotional intelligence men
if your asking for that you gotta come with the same level of emotional intelligence as well
let me tell ya what i heard
emotional intelligence comes with before we even get into this conversation.
"were talking about wanting your men who is tolerant,who regulates his emotions,who also know how to manage your emotions But ur also now how to navigate his sensitivities and everything else when it comes to that but u have to consider that emotionally intelligent man is good at cutting people off when he sees that your sensitivities bring to much reactivity.
when he sees that you can not regulate your emotions, when he sees that you have a low tolerance, this type of man that u are asking for is a man who will walk you out the door in a heartbeat if he feels like you are disrupting his peace.
because there's a lot comes with emotional intelligence.
that comes with a number of factors .
so if you are a women who nows that even tough you may be sensetive to certain things like criticism ,rejection because your not always gonna be accepted.
sometimes he's gonna be accepted ,sometimes he's gonna bounce back and sometimes he's gonna say i don't agree with your opinion , sometimes he's gonna say that i don't like those thoughts , sometimes he's gonna say that i don't like the way you talk to me.
if your not ready for that
don't be asking for intelligent man!.
hope this helps girls byiiii😊

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21 мая 2024 16:40

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i am 21 female and I had actually written a vent before how a boy tried to make me sin masquerading it as love. how he almost forced me into sexual stuff before I declined. I just wanted to say to everyone who had assured me that it was the right choice that I left a thank you and that I did know it was actually wrong in my faith to sin like that. God puts no hirerarchy on no other sin except this. I just was surprised a person could tell you one thing and they could be the total opposite. I believe it was for my character development that God put me through this. I have healed and have no scars except lessons from him. I am also happy I got out easily. He has tried to come back and apologize and ask to be friends and I have forgiven what he did but I have politely declined his suggestion. I am doing great thanks to y'all kind words and assertiveness. :)

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21 мая 2024 16:40

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I am a guy
And what follows is a bunch of words which mean nothing to some and something to others. Am I the only one who feels painfully alone? I have always had the feeling. I always thought that I had no one and the sad part is that I genuinely have no friends and dating always ends up with the phrase ohh I like you as a friend. Tbh I don't blame them cause I never even show the slightest affection. I feel numb. I hide my true self with numerous jokes. Jokes after jokes after jokes. And leave home with that gnawing loneliness. Maybe it's because I fear rejection. But yet again my state attracts rejection and fuels the cycle of utter despair. I don't know what this vent is anymore. A cry for help? A blowing off of steam?
I wish I genuinely had the courage to get out of my despair. I sometimes lose myself in an imaginative excursion where I was just a normal guy you know. Where I had friends I can hang out with. People I can talk about deep conversations with. People I can plan my day with.
I am way inside my head aren't I? Just be loose you might say with the shallow depth of understanding of the human condition you have. With our culture of neglecting and pushing aside people with mental health problems I genuinely have no hope for my case or the cases of others. I don't know if me willing to be good would help. I don't know if I would ever find a person I would feel comfortable with. Life is getting fucked up second by second. There is Nothing I am looking forward to in life. The reasons for being alive for me are dwindling one by one. I don't know. I really don't know.
I am a medical student btw. Fueling the stereotype I know. But I wish the stress was the reason. I wish it was the case that I am having it hard to cope with studies. My family life tho is a mess. My social life nonexistent and my personal life filled with the feelings I told you above. Additionally well I am non religious. Which adds yet more fuel. I would be really grateful if anyone who identifies with the jumble of words above talk with me. I genuinely want to be better and I think this is is an important step to take.
If you are still reading thanks for hanging around.

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06 мая 2024 17:56

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ፍቅር ነው ማለት ይቻላል? በርግጥ ሥራ ካልገባ ይጨንቀኛል, ከሁሉም እሱን ነው ምግባባው, ሌልቹን ሴቶች ስቆ ሲያወራቸው እበሳጫለው, ስያቅፈኝ ሲስመኝ ደሲለኛል, እና ፍቅር ነው? አሳሳሙ አስተቃቀፉ አነካኩ ከአንድ ባለትዳር እንደማይጠበቅ አውቃለው ትክክል እንዳልሆነም አውቃለው ግን በቃ አላስቆመውም እና ይሄ ጤንነት ነው? እሱስ ምን አስቦ ነው ጠዋት ካልገባው ይደውላል ስንት ሰዓት እንደምመጣ ይጠይቀኛል ስመጣ አስተቃቀፉ አሳሳሙ ይለያል ይሄ መስሪያ ቤት ያላንቺ ባዶ ነው ይለኛል ምንም ማድረግ እንደምችል ከልቡ ይነግረኛል ሁሉም ሴቶች ቢደመሩ አንድ እኔን እንደማይሆኑ ይነግረኛል ወንዶች መተው ሲሄዱ ቆይ ምን አስነክተሽው ነው ያፈዘዝሸው ይለኛል ስራ እየሰራ በመሃል መቶ አዋርቶኝ ይሄዳል ምሳ አብረን እንበላለን እኔና እሱ ብቻ. አጠገቡ ካለው ይስመኛል አንገቴን ይስመኛል ፀጉሬን ይስመኛል ሲፈልገው ይነክሰኛል በቃ ምን ልበላችሁ ምን እንደሚያረግ ግራ ይገባዋል. ሥራ ከሌለው ቁጭ ብሎ ፎቶ ሲያነሳኝ ነው ሚውለው. እና ይሄ ምንድነው? እሚገርመው በጣም ታላቄ ነው እንደው ወደድኩት ለማለት እንኩአን ምንም የኔ type የምለው ነገር የለውምኮ ግን በቃ specialነት እንዲሰማኝ ያረገኛል.
ባለፈው በቃ ከነገ ጀምሮ ማማት ነው አትስመኝም አልኩት አንቺን ሳልስምሽ አንድ ሳምንት አልችልም አለኝ ከዛ ማታ ላይ እሺ ለሳምንት የሚሆን ልሳምሽ አለኝ እና አንገቴን ጉንጨን ፀጉሬን መሳም ጀመረ ከዛ እንደውም ከንፈርሽን ካልሳምኩሽ አለኝ አይሆንም አልኩት ታግሎኝ ሳመኝ ከዛ ምንም እንዳልተፈጠረ ሳምንቱ አለፈ እኔ ላብድ ነው መቼም ባለትዳር ማማገጥ አልፈልግም መቼም ግን ደሞ ከዚ መራቅም አልችልም. ስራዬን ልተወው እንዴ?????😔😔😔

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