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05 августа 2023 04:00

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I haven't vented in a while but here it goes. So I'm 25 M and ever since I can remember dating and women have always come easily to me. I'm not super attractive or anything but i think i have a lot of qualities most women find appealing. So naturally I've had a lot of rps but I've never been the "player" although most ppl think i am. I hear the rumours around campus and my guy frnds also assume a lot of things about me but anyone who's been with me will tell you that I'm a wholesome guy who values emotional connection more than sex. And after i got out of a 2yr rp with a truly amazing woman i was looking forward to what comes next as ik what i want now. Then I started going on a few dates to try and get back out there but i slipped up and let lust get in the way of a lot of connections i could have had. I don't regret it exactly cuz i was fully aware of what i was doing but in hindsight maybe i overindulged in that short amount of time but since the girls didn't mind just keeping things physical, I don't have any negative emotions associated with it. But after a while i stopped all of that i stopped going out all together cuz i needed to focus on other more important things in my life. Thats when i met someone. I could tell right away that there was smth bn us and before we knew it we got rly close. She opend up to me about how she has trouble trusting men and the one rp she had in the past started from frnds. So i decided to just be frnds with her for now but not even a week later we started hooking up. But I could tell that it was bothering her that she was hooking up with someone that she wasn't committed to so i told her about how i felt about her. And that i want us to be more than frnds, she flat out told me that she doesn't want anything complicated rn and that she wanted to remain frnds. Eventhough i was surprised that she said that i just accepted her terms. She also brought up my colorful past as to covince herself that it was me who wasnt ready for a rp. But I'm ready as I've always been. I just want somone who isn't afraid to feel smth, to fall for someone with no reservations. And I  realised that will never be her. So i told her i couldn't be her frnd and that i had enough frnds, she agreed and we went our separate ways. Then she reached out sometime later to aplogize for mistreating me the way she did and to tell me that she still wanted to be my frnd "for now" but after she acted so poorly in the past i don't think i can trust her with my feelings anymore. She's a kind and loving person but she's made me jump through so many hoops with me trying to prove myself to her it and feels like there will be more of that to come and I honestly think i deserve better that. So I've just decided to tell her no. Am i making a mistake?

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05 августа 2023 04:00

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Hey y all
This is for the boys in this channel.

Whats wrong with you specially in relationships you guys have to learn about giving a closure Just say to the girl you wanna broke up and you wanna also move on. Whats wrong with that.
Is it that much hard for you guys..
U give us mixed signals. When u r asked whats wrong with ya u guys say i was busy blah blah...but if you lose interest or no need even to explain just say i wanna broke up. Am not feeling this relation ship..its okay to lose interest...no one is gonna hold you and beg you to stay

But it is hurting us.. showing mixed signals,replying late, saying am busy.no one is busy for calling or texting if u really want..getting angry out of nowhere,being treated as a shit. We dont desreve it..
You guys have to believe in communication
Am not putting all the blame on you we also have bad sides am not trying to cover our sides.


but in that case

Silent treatment is dead try to communicate,talk what u feel.dont give us a hope which doesnt exisist
Am not generalizing. I know for a fact that there are guys who are really amaxzing am just talking. To those of you who does this
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05 августа 2023 04:00

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Ye addis ababa hizb gin lemndn nw yetegnaw kezi amerar mote ayshalewm gedayn megdel lemn kebedene dont call me raseist but ahun yalenbet sera bektay sikeyer ye oromo hizb amahara balargew wenjlo nw ahun sikeyer gin bzu debt oromo hizb lay yenoral yane mn liwetachew nw

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04 августа 2023 04:00

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I don't know how to start, Im M and i've been feeling suicidal for about two years now, it's been gradually getting worse throughout those 2 years. I feel alone both inside and outside my house. I live in a family of four, my father is extremely quiet and all we do is exchange hello's usually. He's turned extremely grumpy as he's gotten older,tinish neger new miyanadew and he has a rude tone when he speaks to everyone. He used to be the life of the house when we were kids, honestly the best dad I could've asked for gn nowadays I don't know what's wrong. sometimes i wonder if he feels the same way and is just hanging on for us. My mother always reminds me how much she loves me, and i love her too but it's hard to connect with her since we are so different. Not in a bad way different gn we are different, the generation gap shows. We have a normal mother son relationship and that's that. My older sister is the person i am the closest with, or i used to be at least. She has a nice personality and we are similar. We grew up doing most things together but now we're both getting older and she has her own life,jema and interests and it's hard to connect with her. Usually she's outside and when she's not out she's texting,calling etc. Yk when you try to talk to your older sibling and they're too busy on their phone they don't even listen to what you said😂, it's basically like that 24/7.I know she's not pushing me away on purpose but yea i can feel the distance grow.

No one from the outside world has tried to get close to me. I also tried taking initiative and tried making friends gn that didn't work too. I spend all my time in university alone. You'd think that would make for better grades but no my mental health has deteriorated so much my grades have taken a nose dive. I think I'm just boring to be around or something. Everytime i think about doing it i think about my parents crying how they do in funerals and i could never do that to them.Today i was really thinking about suicide the whole day then i saw this tiktok where a mother was told her son died. The way she screamed sent chills down my spine, honestly i didn't know feeling pain to that extent was even possible. I really want to end it but can't. I feel trapped.

I just wanted to let this out it's been eating at me for a while now. Thank you to whoever created this platform.

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04 августа 2023 04:00

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Ene bcha negn mnm neger beka no reaction lemnm neger yehonkut 🙄Relationship,love mnamn stuff feel maladergew ene bcha negn koy?

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04 августа 2023 04:00

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Hello peps endet nachu? I'm in my late 20s and had best friends back in school but i think i acted so carless about the meet ups minamin so all the relations gets colder like they r still friend gin never meet up in almost 2-3yrs becha we called once in awhile for some info or littles helps but rn i need some new good friends who is around my age with diffrent background (i am in health field)who can motivate me to go out n chill, experience new things and do adventures and so many more but the thing is i don't know whr i could meet such a friend or whr to socialize yaw i get good advise from thats why i come running here

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04 августа 2023 04:00

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I just finished matric ena I don’t think wutet mimetalgn so birhanu nega endalew kehone degmo i cant even learn in college diploma mnamn ena these days I’m getting depressed betam like I’ve no idea mn endemadrg kezi buhala so do you guys have any idea lemarachew mechlachew courses and leserabachew mechlew bedenb😭 help ur sister out

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04 августа 2023 04:00

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Selam guys mn meselachu i broke up with my girlfriend friend two weeks ago cause she said we are toxic for each other because lately we were arguing a lot, ena we agreed to meet in a few days gn she said she doesn't want to get back together mndnew madreg yalebgn i'm confused

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04 августа 2023 04:00

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This for the woman out here what do you think these generation guys mind set is wrong they only think woman will fall for rich guy she loves money and do any thing for money more than 90 percent of boys thinks woman want money that don't you think you failed the boys proved your self like an objects ones they used you they will throw you away like any property purchased by money this is one of the reason why guys treat you like an object

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04 августа 2023 04:00

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Keep your heads up, ladies and gentlemen. Life can sometimes be challenging and overwhelming, but it's important to remember that you are strong and capable of overcoming any obstacles that come your way. Don't let setbacks or failures discourage you; instead, use them as opportunities for growth and learning. Stay positive, believe in yourself, and keep pushing forward. Remember that every day is a new chance to make progress and achieve your goals. So chin up, stay focused, and never lose sight of your potential. You've got this!

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03 августа 2023 09:16

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I am not trying to throw shade or disrespect anyone but y'all niggas in the comments who be saying "Ask for my ID"... There is smtg medical and psychological wrong with y'all. I mean I havent had time to read any vents but I had some time this morning while I was waiting for my friend to come, so I started catching up on all the vents I missed out on... (42 vents) and to my surprise, there is "ask for my ID" pretty much in 98% of the vents. Like I am a man too, I understand being lonely and trying to get girls but why y'all pulling the "ask for my ID" move💀..... Y'all 🥷 never cease to amaze me............. And here's a life tip I picked along my 19yrs of age...... Always approach a girl in person. Always approach her urself. When trying to get a girl it's 100% better to approach a girl when it's Saturday night and she's at the club l ( it's more likely u'll succeed)...... Don't be afraid of rejection, if she says YES then u got a new fuckdoll but if she says NO, then say "okay have a good evening" and approach another girl !! Simple. Whatever u do just approach a girl in person never social media, I think in social media they're more delusional than normal.

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03 августа 2023 04:00

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Hello fellas,,,

Nothing much to vent, but
Look who's single now. Only the loyal guys end up broken, left alone because of their loyalty to their relationship. 😢😢🥺

Unfair

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03 августа 2023 04:00

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Hi 21F
So am like that person who is always sarcastic,who ppl want to spend time with and staff ,but I also got a resting bitch face and tall so am not that easy to approach and all
The thing is am not happy don't get me wrong am thankfull for everything I have in life gn I don't think it's enough.
I really get suffocated when I think about my future,what if I don't make it,what if I won't live the life I want those things worry me,
Don't even start about dating guys irritat me I always attract troubled men so I just stoped doing that
And focused on my studies.
I also wanna leave to town but I can't know aka I don't live in Addis.
I also don't think my parents are happy with me
So my brain works 24hr and I still manage to look happy and I hate that .it's asf I wanna escape from this life like vanish or sth

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03 августа 2023 04:00

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I mate this guy at vent here four of five month ago, he vented about his  girlfriend at a time who was toxic, i kinda roasted him little bit and we hit it off. He asked for my identity and we started talking, mostly our conversation was about his girl. And i am 3 yrs older than him, long story short they broke it off. And we have been really close after that too. And i live alone so yehone ken bet meta we talked mnamn then all of the sudden i felt this attraction to him and we ended up having sex, it was weired sex mnamn anywho ever since we kinda kept doing it every now and then and we still maintained our friedship and our sex just keeps getting better and better each time. But still yene talak mehon mnamn and his freshly breakup makes me feel a bit guilty for enjoying his friendship and the sex.

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03 августа 2023 04:00

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So it started like normal internate surfing and then stumbled around some ad and it led me to those websites(u know) and personally I love to read so I was not much into the videos and I started reading erotic and related writings and stories. So one thing led to another and I find my self obsessed with bdsm stuff, the bad thing about bdsm is if u are drawn into it another type of sexual activity starts to become not enough and u start to feel some sort of way. At first I was even fighting with my self not to go there but i always failed and go to those stories and read more and more and more until I started to ask if there was anyone who is like minded and interested in this stuf, after a hard and long searching I find this girl and we did somethings but we didn't continue due to the distance between where we lived, then I find several other girls but most of them are into this lifestyle for money so I had to live them too. I'm not saying it's right or wrong but its hard to be into bdsm and live in Ethiopia. I'm starting to lose hope, I'm a male in his mid 20's and its frustrating because whenever I get into any relationship I always look for that and I will end it because they dont even know what bdsm is or are not interested so I eventually lose interest and end it.
Ufffff

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05 августа 2023 04:00

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Hi guys i am 24M years old and am univ student at (AAU) እና ዛሬ my first to vent እንዴት አድርጌ እንደምገልፀው አላውቅም😭😭 ምን መሰላችሁ አሁን ላይ በቃ life የሌለ ትርጉም አልባ ሆናብኛለች😢 አሁን ላይ እዚህ አለም ውስጥ ብቻየን ያለሁ እየመሰለኝ ነው, አሁን አሁን እንዳውም እዚህ አለም ላይ መኖሬ ስህተት እየመሰለኝ ነው, ምንም ሰው የለኝም( the one that who understand me ማለቴ ነው) best friend, girlfriend ምናምን እሚባሉት ነገሮች የሉኝም😢

በተለይ ደግሞ አሁን ላይ በጣም የሚያሳስበኝ ነገር ,የ girlfriend ነገር ነው, አብዛኛው ሰው ማለቴ የኔ ታናናሾች,ጓደኞች, እኩዮቼ etc ሁለም girlfriend አላቸው። እኔ ግን 24 አመት ሙሉ girlfriend ኖሮኝ አያውቅም😢( በዚህ እድሜዬ sex አድርጌ አላውቅም, አረ ጭራሽ kissing ራሱ እስካሁን ወፍ) እየቀለድኩ አይደለም ማሪያምን ውነቴን ነው። to be honest አይን አፋር ነገር ነኝ,ሴት ልጅ ማውራት አፈራለሁ, ግን በቃ ይሄ ነገር በጣም እያስጨነቀኝ ነው። አረ የኔ ነገር ስንቱ ተነግሮ ያልቃል( ማለቴ ህይወቴ ባዶነት እየተሰማኝ ነው, በጣም በብዙ ነገረር ተጨንቂያለሁ,)

in general, ማለት የምፈልገው ሰው እፈልጋለሁ የውስጤን ላወራው ምፈልገው ሰው( በተለይ female እህቶች ድረሱልኝ, አድኑኝ,ርዱኝ የምሬን ነው ከፍቶኛል😭 በተለይ ደግሞ AAU የሆናችሁ please) ስለአነበባችሁልኝ አመሰግናለሁ🙏🙏

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05 августа 2023 04:00

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I typically prefer not to discuss or vent about my problems, but lately I've been struggling with a lack of discipline. I find myself surrounded by individuals who either have a fraction of my potential or are much older and have already accomplished what I aspire to achieve. And mostly, there are times when I struggle to focus and be productive, often feeling satisfied with only a few hours of work when I could have done much more, meaning, I only use 5-6 hours of my day. This feeling of inferiority is really taking a toll on me, as my journey towards self-improvement is proving to be challenging. If there's someone out there who shares similar potential, or perhaps possesses better discipline and a desire to improve, please reach out. I am a 20-year-old female pursuing a major in software engineering, with other varied interests as well.

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04 августа 2023 04:01

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Hello guys.........well here is the thing i live with my sister she is 14 and im 20 i'm here to ask ya'll some advice cause idk what to do. so i think my sister is hitting puberty bc i see her like caring too much about her look, she tries to look like others and stuff which is so normal because yaw it's just nature i wont judge her at all.... but like there is some bad thing she does i mean her aura tells and she never gives me her phone plus i see her jerking off at night i mean her movement and stuff tells and its making me uncomfortable a lot becuse ik its not a healthy and moral thing to do. so what do ya'll think i should do shoulld i talk with her or its just a teenager thing and she will stop it eventually? im not judging her tho because i've also been there but it was just for short period of time i stopped it after reading some book that book taught me that i was in a wrong path my mind also wasnt good (ofc who feels good by doing such unhealthy thing) becha ive stopped it long long ago but now idk what to do chenkognal betam i dont want her to be someone who doesnt have a self control, i dont want her to be a bad person(im not saying people who does that are bad just saying someone who doesn't care about their inner peace) please tell me what i should do. im female btw

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04 августа 2023 04:00

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Uhmmm hey y’all how r u ?
Am good🙃idk how to explain the things that’s happening in my life😪am just tired of everything and everyone am not happy at all
Chnklate west bzu ngroch hasaboch alu lemenager sasbew gn ytefabgnal gn andegnaw mknyate rasen mekebel alchalkum uk kebad new esu betam kemnm belay sewoch kerbew sirkugn bka mimeslegn balegn look wym physical appearance new mimeslegn bzu ekuyochrn say kenesu yanesku meslo ysemagnal kenesu yetlyew yehone yegodelegn ngr yale yemeslegnal ik am not konjo wym dmo konjo akuam yalat set adlhum gn at least beka wellahi ene betam yewah negn sewn mekreb felgalew betam bezaw bemfelgew lk sew yrkegnal mnamn bzu ngroch yglougnal bka I don have a real friends … alawkm endzi lemn endasebku gn bechalkut meten takalachu le hulum tru lemehon mokralew le hulum desta mehonn felgalew lene gn endza mihonlgn yelem ene sfelg andm sew ke gone aynorlgnm yhe yaskefagnal betam yemr kremt lay destegna mehon meslogn neber gn alhonkum bekaa i mean 😪 eneko rasen merche altefeterkum aydel … bzu negrm adrgiyalew sewneten lemastekakel (am underweight)gn beka hulem besumknyat bully medereg selchgn wellahi bzu gize hakim bet mulu checkup adrgiyalew beshta kehone bye bezu gize slememot asbiyalew mokriyalewm wish I wasn’t like this sooo bzu lefelefku am so sorry🫶🏽
Sooo i just want a real bestie (am gonna be 17 bzignaw arb)
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04 августа 2023 04:00

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Hi,so I met this guy that I really liked about a year and we started talking and all and it was going well i knew our energies matched but after after sometime he just disappeared and didn't even tell me why he really lacks consistency and even though I know what made him like this it just really bugs me to see how he treats others with affection and care
and when I decide to forget about everything he just appears out of the blue and be the person I wanted him to be. He said he doesn't even know why he does it. The worst part is like he would be honest and tell me everything I wanna hear except he'll be under the influence of alcohol. Next thing I know he's back to being a ghost. I really don't know what to do because I really like him.

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04 августа 2023 04:00

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Kind of my experience and how some decisions changed my life. (28M, btw).

So, freshman year of college. I was in Bahirdar University (I'm originally from Addis). My first semester was kinda difficult. I studied all day, I didn't have any friends, also, the courses were not easy. One of my courses was Applied Mathematics One, and to this day, I remember its final exam as one of the most difficult exams I've ever had to face. I was very angry atm, because I practically spent my entire fresh man semester studying for this course, and the highest grade I could get based on the exam was a C.

So after the exam, which coincidentally was the last of the exams, my dormmates convinced me to go out with them, and we went to a local liquor house. And there were like 4 of us, 2 guys I didn't know, and 2 girls who were friends of one of my dormmates. Anyways, we started drinking, and as the night progressed I got shitfaced. I was mixing ጠጅ and አረቄ and doing shots and stuff. (For context, I had never had even a sip of an alcoholic drink before that night in my life). I ended up talking shit and insulting my friends, wanting to fight other guys in the store, dancing horrendously, and of course vomiting. And most of that was caught by camera. The next day, while I was in a wrecking hangover, I regarded the previous night as my worst decision ever, and vowed to never be that drunk ever again.

I spent the entirety of the next week trying to find who had my actions on camera and begging (sometimes even bribing) them to delete it. One of which were the one of the girls that night (a friend of my friend's), so I got her phone, asked her to delete it, and after 2 weeks of texting and begging her to delete it, she did. A semester later I went to the technology campus to study Computer Science, and she went to another campus to study Architecture.

Fast forward 6 years, two of my friends and I decided to open a software company, and I was tasked to find an affordable interior design firm to do our main office. We were interested in two companies, one of whom sent the girl as their rep. I instantly recognized her in the meeting, but decided to keep my mouth shut. After the meeting she asked me "Do I know you from ካቴ?", she thought she knew me from Cathedral high school. I then told her the story, she remembered, we laughed about it.

Long story short, her firm ended up losing the bid, but the other company went on to rip us off, we decided to go back to her firm, I contacted her, we started meeting on a regular basis, and two years later, I proposed to her last Sunday, and SHE SAID YES.

What I am trying to say is that even decisions that you consider to be "the worst in your life" may lead you to the best things you could ever imagine. Our tiny minds cannot comprehend the extent of how mysterious everything is. Therefore, do not stress over every decision; do what makes you happy. And...yeah...SHE SAID YES.

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04 августа 2023 04:00

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Do you think day dreaming is normal? I do it a lot like it's my life I have my own story my own character, people and when ever I feel sad my brain will immediately starts to think about these fake world and fake stories where me is the main character I tried to stop it but I can't is there anyone who is relatable? And is this a sin? (Am Orthodox btw)

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04 августа 2023 04:00

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I always used to move by a bus anywhere i want እና ባለፈው there were two couples who stand beside me ena i was hearing what they were talking 🙈 the girl is so smart i mean she is beautiful outside and the words that came out of her give a sign that she is a silent and a religious person typically ምንም የማታውቅ የቤት ልጅ but provided with what a guy wants from a girl...idk may be she is acting to look like a cool girl gn it is not my first time to see these type of girls so what i want to ask is for those of you who have these type of girl ከየት አባታችሁ ነው የምታገኛቸው 🤔

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04 августа 2023 04:00

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Hello guys its k and am 22 m,
So lets get to the point for the past Months i had some problems in my uni to the point where I dropped out so I was thinking of restarting in private college while working. But I don't why im really confused i feel like am too old menamn . if any one who is or was in the Same situation as me please do share ur thoughts

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03 августа 2023 17:06

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Hi
I’m 28M and I would like to consider myself as high value man. But I’m not happy. I feel like I need someone. These datings and shallow relationships don’t help, they feel like a work, not right.
Here are the qualities I want from a girl. doing this will help me to know what I want gn if you saw her by any chance let me know.

- I need someone who is happy and cheerful. Maybe she could be hurt from the inside, it’s okay, that’s what I’m here for. but from outside I need someone with full of laughter 😂
- I don’t care how old she is as long as she is above 21.
- Beautiful! no doubt, I deserve beautiful girl.

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03 августа 2023 04:00

Hey Unihorse 🦄
I am Sultan..
I need to vent
It not even a vent it's like an opinion ..there is somethings that I just witnessed in this world and one that really stuck with me is like the ability to read people propley can be a blessing and sometimes a curse like knowing true intention of people has really messed up the relation I have with them and there is nothing that I can do everything is just the way it supposed to be we suffer cause we imagined different..

Thanks for reading 👍

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03 августа 2023 04:00

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Im a guy who is interested in the concept of outercourse. Its not exactly the opposite of intercourse (u can google it). it just seems like its a safer way to have fun and avoid STDs. The thing is i have this thing (u can call it phobia) for STDs...I just dont even want to imagine myself having that let alone going to the doctor to get it treated. Not to mention, some STDs stay in ur body forever. I know there are protections but none of them are 100%. I just wonder if the idea of outercourse is strange to u people. Ik many people like sex and others avoid sex altogether and whatever people choose is fine but what do people think about outercourse?

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03 августа 2023 04:00

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Hey, so here's my thing.

I'm a senior developer for a firm based in Germany, and I work in their East African branch here in Addis.

For the last couple of months my team and I were working on a project (it's a website for a college in Europe), and one of the its features is a registeration form in which students put in their personal information.

It was all flawless, and we submitted it on time for the client to review. Two weeks later I received an email from my supervisor saying that the client loved it except one thing in the registration form.

What the client didn't like was there were only two options for the gender choosing menu. He even sent me 24 (I kid you not, TWENTY FOUR) other gender options.

So now I'm so conflicted. Of course I'm going to add all the options for now. But I aspire (and also have opportunities) to work abroad in the years to come. So is this going to be a constant problem? It's not just that I've a religion and a culture, but I couldn't help but feel like the fact that I added those options, may confuse and lead some early adolescent teenagers into unnecessary decisions.

Idk. Anyways anyone who had experienced similar problems, can you share your experience please (it'd be so helpful)

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03 августа 2023 04:00

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24f
I am such a pushover and cannot say 'no' to save my life (I mean, I can gather up all my courage and say no and present a strong stance once in a while but it can't persist- which I think leads to people thinking that I was not swrious when I said no to begin with). And now this is becoming such a problem in my dating life because who tf knew men were so persistent  and pushy ende!? Since I cant deal with men I usually resort to blocking them off the bat. But what about those I can't  escape from with just a block? Those that are friend's friends, those I'll  keep meeting for work mnamn. Uggghhh becha I'm  now in three relationships regardless of not wanting  any of them. The first guy: I love him and we've been friends for long but halfway through the dating I realized we're better off as friends. I told him that as seriously as I could in three separate settings and occasions but he just cried and said to give it a chance - which I ended up doing reluctantly. The second guy: this one is long distance so that's a little better but still... we have so many friends in common and I really thought I loved him until I knocked some sense into myself. This guy is 15 years older than me and is a divorcé (is that what you call men that are divorced?) with kids. Regardless of the feelings I have for him, he is not the kind of person I want to build a life with and I am sure of that.  Third guy: we went on a few dates over the last three years never getting any more serious than just "dating". We have, at different occasions, tried to make it a bit more serious but it has never worked. He has since resurfaced vowing to correct his ways. And I freaking went on that date with him.

I like all these three men. They are all very kind and loving. But I don't want to be in a relationship with any of them. I have told them all that I do not see a future with them but they keep persisting  and I cave in. Wtf.

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03 августа 2023 04:00

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Can You Lie About Virginity?? 🙆🏻‍♂️

My ex and I dated for almost a year before things took a turn for the worse. Our relationship started out with a surprising and intimate first date at the cinema where she gave me a BJ without me even asking. We quickly progressed to having sex by our third date, despite not knowing much about each other. I was taken aback as she had claimed to be a virgin, and it seemed that way to me too. However, as time went on, our relationship seemed to be filled with constant arguments and lies. That's when i realized all the details i never paid attention too, when we had sex she was telling me it was painful but i haven't felt a barrier it slid in right away. And i also remembered it was the last day of her period and she was trying to hide her pad from me.
So i asked her to tell me about it. And she told me a story how she knew this older guy mnamn how she comforted him when he lost a child and one day betachew meto he fingered her and that's it. Just like that kante gar senaderg ale biye nbr alech. i don't care whether she was a v or not I only wanted her to be honest. This girl is a liar a huge one and i don't know what to believe virginity be finger yihedal? Demo yahula weshena pretending tekemus mndnew?

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