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Is it wrong of me to feel this way? Some of u might find this funny but,…
Me and my fiancé are getting married soon. He’s the sweetest, most humble and most matured guy. His family are mad mad rich, while I come from a middle class family. I’m a graduating student, and he’s currently running a business which his fam started. He don’t even act rich tho, he also doesn’t like to use his fam’s money most times. But they still force the money on him so he gets it one way or the other.
So apparently when we get married we’re moving into a big house provided by his family, with everything complete, and I take nothing to the house but my own self😂. My fam are about to retire and expect me to support them too in the future. I’ve never paid any kind of money for any occasion the whole relationship. The wedding is also probably going to be hosted by his fam. Now the problem is, I’m the kind of person who feels guilty not contributing to anything (financially), even on dates.😭 I’m eventually getting used to that, but this thing still bugs me . I’m not the kind of person that obsesses about wealth, but I just wish we were richer for this only reason

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Hi guys😊, I am a female in my mid 20’s, an orthodox christian, and i have never dated nor kissed a guy in my entire life. For the wild audience out here, this vent is not for you, just skip it without saying anything. So you may ask why haven’t you dated till now? A lot of reasons , but the main one is I don’t like to play around, and all the boys that are interested in me end up being nothing more because most expect sex if they are dating and they know that I won’t do that till marriage. Then they end up making me their sister or they just disappear. Also I don’t know how to play the game, i make the boys too comfortable with me so most of the time i think our relationship lacks spark. Don’t worry i am attractive 😁😁it is just that I don’t know how to flirt or make an eye contact, when they try to set the mood i just stay silent or just laugh it off. And some boys were really interested in me and tried to talk to me, i went out of my comfort zone and talk to them but after some time i will see some big red flag and then i run away.Anyways that is not why i am writing this today. I have always dreamed of making my husband my bestfriend before we start dating so that we got to know everything about eachother. I don’t care about spark that much that is why i make my guy friends comfortable, but they got too comfortable and show me affection and I mistakenly take that as a romantic interest in me , then I started to expect something and i will have this little crush on them, and then end up getting hurt when i know that was not their intention. Then I will just make them brothers cuz I have never felt the spark with them also , i just wanted to try dating them cuz they are nice for me and i have never loved someone and my little interest for them is enough to start dating in my perspective. But now I am getting old and i am feeling insecure, will i find love , will i atleast get to experience it once, is it worth the risk, is there really a man out there for me that i can love and he loves me back, i am getting hopeless the more i age, i have seen very religious people that are strictly celibate find love but I don’t know , i am getting hopeless every year. That is kinda depressing though. Any suggestions on how to cope up with this feeling will be appreciated, especially from who can relate to my story.

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I am 18 M and I enjoy spending time alone. As an introvert, I don't have many friends and prefer staying at home. i often spend my whole day watching movies,series and browsing social media. A I really have fun and joy in this but I recently begun to feel lonely and even experience suicidal thoughts (but I know I will never do it ). I struggle with talking to and interacting with other, and as I prepare to start university this year, I am concerned about how this might affect my social life and future experiences. I don't even know why I am talking this here but is there anyone who is experiencing this? and also if you don't I wanna hear some advices

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The vent is long, so I have broken it into two parts.

Part 1

I've had a realization that hits me hard: throughout my life, I've questioned why I'm different from most people. Sometimes I feel like an alien because my views about the world were different from those around me.

Why do I think Thanos from the Avengers movies was the hero?

Why am I attracted to promiscuous women?

Why do I disagree with religion?

Story time

I was born into a loving environment with all a child could ask for—love, support, and attention. In fifth grade, I made a friend , his name was Kibrom and he had three siblings. Each morning, he would take them to kindergarten near our school. One day, as we walked, one of his siblings started a fight, refusing to go with him. Kibrom dragged him along with force, and the next day, kibrom was in tears because his mother had punished him for "beating" his little brother, a lie his little brother had told. At that moment, I thought to myself, "I'm glad I'm an only child."

When I was in college, I saw "Avengers: Endgame," and it became one of my favorite movies. Thanos was one of the characters who made me like the movie, but sadly, he was defeated in the end.
In the film, Thanos said, "With this, I will reduce the population. Half of all living things will disappear. And the survivors will have a better chance to thrive." This statement sent an electric shock through my brain; I was fascinated by him.

Every relationship I had was with a promiscuous woman. I don’t know why, but those were the only women I wanted to be around. They gave me that exciting feeling in my stomach.

On the other hand, women who are seen as virgins turned me off so much that I started to question my mental health.


This week, while I was scrolling through TikTok, I saw a woman talking about why men are often attracted to pure or virgin women from an evolutionary perspective. She said, "Men might choose partners who seem 'pure' to ensure that the child is theirs. If a woman has had fewer sexual partners, it’s more likely that the child is biologically related to the man."

That's when everything started to connect in my mind. I thought, "Hold on a minute. I don't want kids." At that moment, I realized that all the choices I made in my life were because of that reason. Even when I was a little boy, I noticed the privileges I had as an only child.
That's why deep down Thanos was my hero because our belief was the same.


In relationships, I was only attracted to promiscuous women because they reinforced a belief I wasn’t aware of at the time: "In this modern age, sex should only be used for intimacy and connection, not for procreation." Even though they might eventually want to become mothers , but at that moment, they were the definition of what a woman should be in my eyes.

And those women who are praised by everyone around them for being virgins often share an unshakable belief: "The sole purpose of being in a relationship is to have children." That belief really frustrates me.

Even when I go to church, most of the teachings are good for society, but there is one thing I don't agree with. I remember when the pastor was preaching and said, "ብዙ ተባዙ ምድርንም ሙሉዋት." In my thoughts, I said, "We've already done that". We became the most dominant species on Earth. We're at the top of the food chain. Not only that, but we dominate the Earth like no other species has, to the point where we have become a cancer to this world."

Part 2 coming soon

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Hey peoples im in late twenty women never be in relationship people don't believe me so my family wonder why didn't have bf getting a ring beka set lij mn maderg techealache did i do wrong or ene becha neg almost 30 honchu relationship yaljmerachu becha eski any advice

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Why can’t I relax in the process of this life thing?

Do you feel the same? Like, anxious all the time? Always at edge… always feeling like you are at turning point…

I hate it.. This is a rat race. I’m not employed, I have my owns startup but still I’m in rat race.

I used to think I have ADHD but now I don’t label myself in a category. Idk what I have but I take stimulants like Vyvanse. I pay more than 12k for just 30 pills.
This pills give me motivation. Idk why I have to rush but I rush to be successful.

I am almost 30yrs old dude, I have been told I’m handsome but my physical… I hate it, I’m borcham and my teeth needs an investment😂. It’s clear I don’t even take care of myself. The number of times I have started gym and stopped is limitless.

Why I am not happy in life? At least why can’t I enjoy the process? I know I will get there eventually.
People who makes a lot less than me looks happy and they have this energy to them but I’m always cold. Planning too much, stressing too much.

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Hey I'm f
So my story is when I was in high school I have a bf mnamn it's my first time having a bf like serious thing he is btam Tru sw kmr he loves me and I love him but like ye highschool nger all day and lay slnbrn I want a time with my friends mnamn bcha eyselchgn meta esu sayhon ale a situationoch and lay abro mwalu mnamn and I tell him I wanna break up
so many things happen mnamn I hurt him ik but enem endezaw nw ytegodahu I love him gn and lay snhon yane htsanentm slnbr slmayhon by tewukut and a year or two mnamn passed andande enaweraln engenagnaln and bota slme enor kza and university deresen
Ahunm and gbi nen and my friends mnamn ahunm ywodshal mnamn ylugnal ik yhone ngr ale maytfa bemgalachn ydewlelgnal asbo some reel he sent me mnamn gn dmo andande I think he hates me like endza lefto godchew mnamn by asbalhu bcha mn lelachew nw enem yhone smet algn altefam lesu ena may be ahun and lay bnhon yseral bye asbalhu I think we both grow mnamn ena ahun mn ladrg anything hasab kalachiw ....

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so the thing that i wanted to vent is a little complicated but i will try my best!
so I'm about to be 20 next month, and i mate some one a year ago and we get to start knowing each other by the time!
and the thing that makes it complicated is, she is 6 years older than me😩 and to be honest i love her and older girls are kinda my type  but not that old though 😒 and  i thought we were just a best friends, n she is rich and im not! so one day we meet like other day's and we were in her car and suddenly she kissed me, well i didn't hesitate to kiss her back at all, and she confess to me that she liked me the sexual way! and she said we "should have sex sometimes" and i lost my mind at that time and i reminded her that I'm young for her but she couldn't listen at all and we start to have sex by the time goes by and now im sick of this shit 🤧, and i told her that we should've stop and i told her that she should engage, and the worst part is she told me that she is thinking to marry me 🤦🏽‍♂️ well i love it but im a gbi temari and if my family find out whats gonna happen to me i cant even imagine so what I'm i going to say to her now im messed up!

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👋 hey am new here. am 28 M
Ye ene relationship tarik fwb yibezawal like just sex beka keza hulachinem wede rasachin hiwot esun kemelamede yetenesa rezem yale gize comited yehone relationship lay enkuan mekoyet kebedognal tileku yekoyenew only 6 month nw. Malet ye ene comited yehone relationship binoregn nw mefelegew gn suddenly endeza yihonal yalkut r/ship ayikoyim lemenden endehone alakem. Anyhow ende ene yasalefachehu sewoch Please help your guy help🙏🏾🙏🏾

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If you are a homophobic hypocrite, have your read.

I had been as straight as a wooden ruler up until I met her. The girl who turned my life upside down, the girl who made me discover parts of me that I never knew existed.

I grew up in the Christian tradition, and considered homosexuality to be the greatest sin. I despised homosexuals. I thought "How can a girl fall for another? In what fucked up universe can this happen?"

Then there she was, a miracle of a human: a person with the purest heart I ever encountered.

Before I tell you about her, let me tell you a bit about myself. I am a beautiful, intelligent, artistic girl any man would die to date, and no lie, I have dated some men before I met her.

When I was in thos3 relationships I was loyal as fuck. I never even replied to normal texts from other men, but there was this thing that made me leave these relationships after sometime, the men will start sexualising me, and I would lose interest 100%. Irreversible loss of interest.

I never had sex before, and I am still a virgin. Never done drugs, never done anything illegal, well that is except one illegal thing.

I fell head over heels for her. Illegal as fuck.

She is different from anyone I ever met. The way she loved her ex, made me think
"If a gay person can love this intensely, as selflessly as one could, how can this be sin? I mean I never seen no straight person love someone as much as she loved her ex, who is a girl by the way."

The more we got close, the beauty of her heart mesmerized me, በዚህ ሰው በሰው ህይወት ላይ በሚጨክንበት ጊዜ she cared about animal life, and animals loved her back.

I discovered that she was a lesbian, እና instead of judging her I tried to see things from her perspective. ሳላስበው ለማንም boyfriendኤ ተስቤ ከማውቀው በላይ ሳበችኝ።

I knew in my heart that if someone fired a bullet at her, I would without hesitation jump in to save her. የኔ ሆነችም አልሆነችም ወደድኳት።

"አንቺን መውደድ ማለት ምን ማለት እንደሆነ አውቃለሁ። አንቺን መውደድ ማለት suicide ነው። አንቺን መውደድ ማለት its being up for ለ15 አመት እስራት with delight። አንቺን መውደድ ማለት it is walking straight to a living hell ግን አንቺን ባለመውደድ ውስጥ ያለውን heaven አልፈልገውም።"

የምሬን ነበር። ህይወት ያለፍቅር ትርጉም የለውም። ፍቅር ደሞ ለምንወድደው ለዚያ ሰው ህይወትንም ቢሆን አለመሰሰት ነው። እወዳታለሁ።

አንድም ቀን ጉንጯን እንጂ ሌላ ቦታ አልሳምኳትም። አንድም ቀን ያልሆነ አነካክ አልነካኋትም። እሷ ለኔ sexual ስሜቴን ማስተንፈሻ አይደለችምም አልነበረችምም። ያለsex አብሬያት አመታት መኖር እችላለሁ። እየወደድኳት ሁሌ በፈንታዋ ለመሞት ዝግጁ እንደሆንኩ።

ከሷ ጋር ያሳለፍኩት 1 ወር ከሌሎች ወንዶች ፍቅረኞቼ ጋር ካሳለፍኳቸው አመታት በአዕላፍ እጥፍ ይበልጣል። ከእነርሱም ጋር ቢሆን ግን ምንም አይነት sexual relationship አልነበረኝም። ገላዬ crave አድርጓቸው አያውቅም።

እሷን ግን ገላዬ crave አድርጓት ያውቃልኮ። እጄን ስትይዘኝኮ ልቤ ለሴኮንዶች መምታት ያቆመበት ብዙ instanceኦች አሉ። ሰው መለመን የማልችልበት ሴት እሷንኮ እያነባሁ ለምኛታለሁ። እንድትኖርልኝ በህይወት ተስፋ እንዳትቆርጥ ለምኛታለሁ።

ይሄ ሀጥያት ሊሆን አይችልም። እኔ እሷን እሷ ደሞ exዋን የምትወድበት ፍቅር ሀጥያት ሊሆን አይችልም። ሀጥያትኮ የሚወለደው ከራስ ወዳድነት ነው። እኔም እሷን ስወዳት ራሴን ትቼ ነው ፥ እሷም ደሞ exዋን ስትወድዳት ራሷን ትታ ነው።

አሁን ተለያይተናል አዎን። ግን ህይወቴ እንደነበር አይደለም። ከሷ በኋላ የሷን ያህል ሌላን ሰው መውደድም አልቻልኩም። Actually ለሷ ያለኝ ስሜት እንደማይደገም I knew it from the start.

ስሰናበታት I was hoping normal life እንዲኖራት። Because አሁንም ቢሆን በዚህ loving someone of the same sex እንደ ሰይጣንነት በሚታይበት አለምና ሀገር ውስጥ gay ሆና እንድትኖር አልፈልግም።

"የሆነ ጊዜ አግብተሽ ወልደሽም ደሞኮ እንገናኛለን። ለልጆችሽ ጥሩ አክስት እሆናለሁ። በዚህ ህይወት የተመተረልን እጣፈንታ ይህ ነው።" ብያት ነበር ከመለያየታችን በፊት።

"አንቺስ?" አለችኝ።

እኔማ ህይወቴኮ እሷ ነች። ያለፈውን የህይወቴን ምዕራፍ ከድና አሻገተችውና አዲሱን ምዕራፍ በማይጠፋ የፍቅር ብዕር ፃፈችው። እሷ የነገሰችበትን ምዕራፍ።

ከሷ በኋላ ማንም ቢመጣ እንዳይደርስባት።

ምክንያቱም ከሷ ወዲህ አልቻልኩም። ንፁህ ልቧ የቀደሰውን የልቧን መቅደስ ሌላ አግብቼ ላረክሰው አልችልም። ያልተነካ ገላዬም የሷ እንደሆን እድሜልኬን ይኖራል።

Relationship ውስጥ ለመግባትም አልጋበዝም appetiteኤ መንምኗል። የቀለበት ጣቴም የሷ ብቻ ነው። ምንም ያልታሰረበት ግን forbidden ፍቅር የተጠመጠመበት ጣት።

ከ5ዐ አመት በኋላ ይሄን ባዶ ጣቴን ታየው ይሆናል። ልጆቿ "አያቴ" ይሉኝ ይሆናል። ውበቴ በሷ ትዝታ ሲረግፍ እድሜ ሲገፍፈው ታይ ይሆናል። ወይ አታይም ይሆናል።

ወይ የምንገናኘው በሌላ አለም ይሆናል። እወዳታለሁ።

የመውደዴ ዋጋ ሞት ቢሆንም። መውገሪያ ድንጋይ የተሸከሙ ሀጥዐን ሊወግሩኝ እንደከበቡኝ እንዲሁ እወዳታለሁ።

የኔ ባትሆንም እወዳታለሁ። ባልደውልልላትም እወዳታለሁ። እንደጠላኋት ባስመስልም እወዳታለሁ። ንፁህ ነፍስ ስላላትም እወዳታለሁ።

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Hello guys I want to talk ahun selalhubet hueta mnamn so mn meselachu I am the most be family expect metedregewa lij Ena mn meselachu ahun electromechanical engineering temari negn Ena bzaw lek wediyaw Sera mageget albebge to help family Ena ahun be electromechanical engineering temerke sewta be mn mn field lay Sera lagege echelalew eski metawku kehone help ur girl

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Hello everyone , im 22 M soon to be 23 and im a muslim, i’ve read everyone else’s vent for a while now but i never thought o would vent too but here it goes, so my problem is relationships i mean i really want one i mean the meaningful and long lasting one but recently I just starting to open up to people and communicate enji i use to be a big introvert but despite there being a lot of girls with a genuinely good heart who wants a lasting love most or almost all of the wont date a poor guy and ik not poor poor but like I can’t always take her out i mean ik I’ll have a great carrer and make something out my self in the future but now i just don’t have the means and that scared the hell out of me cause ik I’ll be messed up if i like someone and she lives me cause of that and even if she stays ik I’ll be disappointed that I can’t give her what she needs rn but despite all that i still feel like theres aomeone out there who can understand me, i just really wanna know the hard truth should i just stop and focus on my carrer and start dating in my late 20’s or early30’s or should i be open and tryy best to find the perfect women ( i like dark skin girls btw )

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I'm F and sasatrew tariku I love someone deeply beka betam malet new ena ahun break adrgenal gn still betam new mwedew esu demo yerasun hiwet jemrual wedehuala memeles ayfelgm gn ene beyekenu yamegal stress Leben beka hasabe bemulu esu hone mn madreg endalebg idk but betam yamegal what my gonna do guys lemetew lemrsat bezu mokerku gn yeljnete new Gena kahunu endezi mehone Des aylm bezi sat gn beka ehe felge new mimeta neger aydelem betam gobez temari neberku gn betam lazy honkug gn ahunm esun new masebew bezi keketelkug memote new beza lay my health endet lehun yamegal 1 ken kayehut beka samntun Des yelegal ayamegm gn ahun mnteyayebet mnm gize yelem beka esun maybet to time yelem beza lay ahun mental illness agatmogal gdeta siyameg sew efelgalew lesu negerkut gn mnm alalegm mnm wesheten meslot yehonal mknyatum mnm lagegew selalchalku text aderekulet doctor amakerku bezihu keketelkug medhanit mejemer alebg eyebasebg meseleg esu gn wedehuala memeles ayfelgm and gize betam amemeg keza lagegew smokr alchalkum slk ayanesam beza lay text aymelesm erasen matfat alfelgm gn betàm amemeg keza mokerkut egziabher selalfekede emebete selalech enem behiwet alehu ehen yahl new yesnelbona amakari mnamn ahun lmokr new betam kebad new betam ena gays pls mkerug erdatachu yasfelgegal bcz enem tenayn efelgewalew guadegam yelegm please help me

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Hi sewoch edet nachu i need ke lb yehone mkr ena mndnw meselachu  ene ye natural temari neg enam gbi fresh gebi neg gn beka basb basb filled mn memret endalebg alawekum maletm bahun gize arif ye hone filled mn edehone gra gebag enam ezi wst senioroch kalachu hasabachun ngerug pls edatalfug lelaw degmo be ahun gze gbi ke gebu be hola wede social maskeyer ychalal wey ? Maskeyerus arif hasab nw milewnm abrachu ngerug

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23f guys I wanna ask u something is it okay to have a chubby 😺 for normal weight lalat set??? cuz im insecure about it when I think about having sex 
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Yk before I started talking about my issues I wanna let you know I was porn addict for many years and fapping for 2 or 3 yrs so ahun am clean like over 1 month Ena no temptation mnamen like everything is gone fetari ymesgen tegelageyalew gn my problem mndenew ik it's weird gn yhun after I stopped malet new after 2 weeks be ewnet new melachu the Erection out of nowhere it'll come and won't go away like I was minding my business I wasn't thinking about it gn it'll come eshi esun tewut keza on the third week I started having a pain bzum adelem gn it keeps coming and after I pee mnamen Ena it was familiar the feeling yeredagnal if anyone was addicted to this ena it was like when i ejaculated keza yetefal beye neber altefam yehone gize lay say there was some semens Ena ewneten new beka I was shocked Ena that pain kale ik there'll be some leakage kezi befit malet new when j was actively doin that thing endi aynet neger yelem idk why this shit is still following me ewnet I'm tired of it lela demo my body becomes sensitive to girls touch like a little hand hold kehone my private part start erecting Ena idk why this is happening to me Ena endi sil yesemawet sew yelem Ena it's so annoying beka if anyone who had related story please share ur experience and thanks ezi deres lanebebachu😁

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Hello everyone, 20F here.
I'm here to ask yall something. As a woman in Ethiopia everyone expects you to keep your virgininity till marriage. My mom always says "The man you will marry will have less respect for you if you are not a virgin". But I am having difficulties controlling my lust and hornyness. I really don't wanna be a virgin anymore. I want to be able to have sex anytime I want.But just because I'm a virgin and I'm afraid of what will happen to me if I'm not, I can't do the deed. I even fantasie about it every day😭.I read too many books so I know lots of stuff (too fucking much). And i think life is too short not to fuck your boyfriend and get eaten out. 😭

So ladies who married your your current husband without being a virgin,what happened to you? Did your husband lose respect for you? Does it come up in arguments? Should I not care about being a virgin?

PS. I can smell the hate comments from a mile away lmao😭

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Part 2

Even though we see signs of overpopulation all around us, we choose to ignore them.

Do you know that our natural resources water, fuel, and food are depleting faster than they can regenerate?

Do you know that the soil is turning into desert because of the overuse of fertilizers?

This is due to the high demand for food caused by overpopulation. Experts estimate that if we continue on this path, within 60 years, we will face significant food shortages around the world, leading to extreme hunger.

Do you know that overpopulation can increase competition for resources, leading to conflicts, crime, and social unrest among different groups and countries?

Do you know that a high population rate can lead to a high unemployment rate?

This leads to the poor becoming poorer and the rich becoming richer. If there are many job seekers but few jobs, the rich or business owners use this to their advantage by making employees work long hours and paying minimum wages. If the employees complain, they can be fired because there are others who are desperate for a job.

Do you know that overcrowded schools can lower the quality of education, resulting in poorer reading and writing skills, a decreased ability to adapt, and worse educational outcomes?

Do you know that crowded living conditions can cause diseases to spread, raise stress levels, and reduce overall quality of life?

Do you know that land is often cleared for farming or building cities to support a high population, which leads to the loss of forests and worsens climate change?

Even tho we're seeing all these signs, most of you still follow the old ways.

And for those of you who consider yourselves religious and cultured, before you type any hateful words, just know it’s not my problem if you can’t accept new information and adapt.

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I am 17 years old, sorry for the other story, and I have a boyfriend, I love him very much, and he loves me, but our religion is different, he told me before that he will not change his religion, and I will not change. Guys help.me

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Hey, im 19F 2nd yr college student. I'll get straight to the point: I don't have the money to pay my tuition fees. And the payment got beyond what my mom can afford. My life has been simply going to class and then immediately back home.
Everyone else is working and learning at the same time, at least not depending on their family. Meanwhile, I'm just sitting and not doing anything. I don't know where to begin, I'm clueless. My mom doesn't have a job, which means Soon, I'll have to drop out and we'll both might even face hunger. And the thought of this is killing me I feel useless, both for myself and for my mom.
Please, if there's anyone who genuinely can help, guide me or show me the way, I would be grateful. I'm willing to work at anything. Tnx if u make it through here.

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Hey am 20M
 am here for the first time ena I juss want to get some answer or advice from girls that  interested one. Ena wede tiyakeye sigeba by the way I am first year student at UV ena when I was 17
I sarted to notice some changes ena demo eskahun dress ligebagn yalchale and neger ale esum some girls in my school or some where bcha they always make eye contact with me but I dont give it fuck Why they are doin this and I thought it like they were having fun on me  gin ahun lay endalkuachu gbi wist yalu andand  ye class setoch even senior set temariwoch do the the same shit  beqa my prblm is that wht the fuck they are thinking cause am not attractive as much neither am not ugly as fuck bcha gin they make eye contact beqa enenjaa bchaa      ena setoch I need ur help pls.  One day I juss asked some of my friends and they told me that  "go and talk to them cause they maybe want to talk to u"but I dont think so, even if I want to talk I couldn't because am an Introvert so I cant. So I ask u Girls pls help me malet beqa mikniyatun maweq felgalew I mean wht is the point there ena  lemin endeza endemiyaregu and what should I do abt that  thank you.

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Listen this is for women I really don't think you understand how hard a man's life is like you don't get it we have to be perfect at almost everything like we have to be handsome, rich and alot plus we can't cry because if we do we're considered not a strong man and ladies you don't understand us we go through alot but we can't do anything about it...

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So here is my story I had a bf so he always talke about Sex and after two years of on and off relationship he played a game on me he make me to think he love bicha he lied me a lot of things then we slept together I give him my virginity because at that time I was so depressed and lonely at that time the only thing I left was him after that day I felt guilty but I don’t wanna disapointed him after that day when we meet he told me he want to be friends with benefit because we have different religion he is Muslim and I’m orthodox the he told me he want married a girl Muslim and pure he doesn’t even care about my feelings before we sleep together he told me that he care ,loves me and he gonna be with me some bulishits and lies me about so many things so I was thinking he or me are gonna change our religion and be together so guys I need ur help I’m so depressed when I think about him and trying to kill my self even sometimes I want to kill him so bad he make my life miserable sometimes I think who is gonna married a girl she is not virgin he lives his life pice fully but I’m crying all of times inside and out I want you help what should do my life to past this pain?and I have this dude we were in relationship when I was 11 and telyayen gn he called all the time and he went me back and I afraid to tell him I’m not virgin what should I do I really got confused?

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እዚህ homophobic የሆናችሁ ሁሉ ደሞ ልባችሁ ቢፈተሽ አዳፋ ፥ ነፍሳችሁ ቢመዘን የሩዝ ቅንጣትን ያህል የማይመዝን ትሆናላችሁ ይሄኔ።

ግን እኔ የምወዳትን የኔን ሴት። ለእንሰሳና ለነፍሳት እንኳ ልቧ የሚሳሳውን ንፁህ አፍቃሪ ሴት ብታገኟት ልትወግሯት ድንጋይ ማፈላለጋችሁም አይቀርም።

በነፍስ ንፅህና ግን ትበልጣቹሀለች። በልብ ቅንነት ግን አትደርሱባትም። ግን ወጋሪዎቹ እናንተ ተወጋሪዋ እሷ ናት።

"እሷ ሌላ ሴት እየወደደች እንዴት እንደዚህ ያለገደብ ትወጃታለሽ?" የምትሉም ካላችሁ ደሞ
ፍቅር ስለመሰጠት ነው። መሰጠት ደሞ ተቀባይ እንጂ ሰጪ አያሻም።

አሁንደሞ ከመሀላችሁ አንድ ሰው
"አዪዪዪ ሰይጣን አይናቸውን አውሮታል። እያታለላቸው ነው።" ይል ይሆናል።

ሰይጣን ሰውን አውሮ 'ነፍሰ በላ' ያደርጋል እንጂ አውሮ 'ለሰው ሟች አፍቃሪ' አያደርግም።

እናንተ የሰው ደም የጠማችሁ ፈራጆች ፥ በጌታ ፊት እንደፃዲቅ ሌሎችን ለመውገር ድንጋይ ይዛችሁ የቆማችሁትን ግን ታውሯቹሀል። የታወራችሁት ደሞ ፍቅር ከሚባል ተዐምር ነው። እድሜ ልካችሁን ራሳችሁን ብቻ እየወደዳችሁ ለመኖር ተረግማቹሀል።

ምክንያቱም የምታዩትን ወንድማችሁን እየጠላችሁ የማታዩትን እግዚሀርን እንደምትወድዱ የምትማማሉ ግብዞች ናችሁ።

አሁንም ክርስቶስን እንደሰቀላችሁት እውነትን ፍቅርንና ፍትህን ትሰቅላላችሁ።

እኔ ግን ብሞትም ሀጥዕ እንጂ ግብዝ ሆኜ አልሞትም።

አዎን እወዳታለሁ። አሁንም ፥ ወደፊትም ፥ አግብታም ፥ ወልዳም ፥ ሳልነካት ፥ ሳልስማት ፥ የኔ ሳትሆን ፥ እስክሞትላት ድረስ አፈቅራታለሁ። ልፈርድባት በሄደኩበት መንገድ ንፅህና በሚሉት ፍርድ ፈርዳብኛለችና ዘልዐለም ለልቧ ልቤን እገብራለሁ።

ይሄም የሚጎረብጠው ይኖራል። ልግድልሽ የሚልም አይጠፋም። ብትገድሉኝም ፍቅር አይሞትም። ብትገድሉኝም እውነት መነገሩን ደሞ አይተውም።

በእናንተ homophobic hypocriteኦች ምክንያትነት ብዙ ባለንፁህ ልብ teenኦችን አጥተናል። ብዙዎችን ወደ suicide ገፍታቹሀል። እጃችሁ በንፁሀን ደም ተጨማልቋል።

ይህን piece የምጥፈው ምዕሉውን የLGBTQ+ን community ወክዬ አይደለም። ነገር ግን በcommunityው ውስጥ ያሉትን ሰው ሰው የሚሸትቱ መልካም ነፍሶች ነው። አራዊታዊ ባህርይ ይዘው በዚህ community ውስጥ ለተሰገሰጉት ግን
"ሰው የሚሞትለትን ነገር ከመረጠም አይቀር መልካሙን ቢመርጥ አይሻልም ወይ?" ለማለት እወዳለሁ።

በተረፈም ግን በዚህ community ላላችሁና በኢትዮጲያ ላላችሁም ሁሉ stay safe እና suicideን ማሰላሰል ተዉና ወደ እግዚሀር ለምኑ።

የhypocriteኦች እግዜር ሌላ ነው። እውነተኛውና ፍቅር የሆነው እግዜር ግን አይጠላችሁም። ብርሀኑ በብርሀናችሁ ይታይ። መልካም ሰዎች ሁኑ። ፍቅር ግን በምንም ሚዛን ሀጥያት ሊሆን አይችልም ከlust ግን ተከልከሉ። ከዚህም ከዚያም አትጋደሙ። ፍቅር ያነፃችኋልና ፥ ምኞት ግን ያሳድፋቹሀል።

ፍቅር መንገዳችንን ያብራልን። የምትኖሩለት እውነት ብቻ ሳይሆን የምትሞቱለትም እውነት ይኑራችሁ።

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Suicidal queer people ካላችሁ reach out to me. Death is not the way out. Especially teens. እባካችሁን አትሙቱብን።

"Love was the law, and religion was taught."

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hey Guys am 23 F ,Yene Chigir mn meselachu i met a guy almost 5 months ago and we saw each other for like 3 months ,he  was the dream guy and i was in love with him ,after sometimes nw girlfriend enalewb yenegeregn ,still gin engenagn nbr silesua miyaweragn ngr hulu chigir nbr endemileyayyu nbr masbew ,how stupid am i ………bicha negerochun realise sareg i ended things with him ahun chigre min meselachu lela sewn mekreb alchalkum i dated another guy tiru sew tiru future linoren yichil nbr gn sismegn enkua yann nw mastawsew yefelege nice bihonlgn endesu lihonlgn alchalem beka  .manm endesu lihonlgn alchalem ena guys how can i move on i just want to have that kind of connection with another man

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Hi everyone I am 20 M, i was reading recent vents and I noticed one vent that relates to me but my story is kinda different, so I decided to vent and i hope you guys will give me mature answers.

So there is one girl... We have a friend in common she introduced her to me and at that time i had no feelings and my friend told me she had a boyfriend, soo we was just friends and through time we start getting closer and we used to talk alot of things, even when she have a problem with her bf & her family i have been there, and then i start getting butterflies she was soo fine for me idk why but alot of people told me she was not that beautiful but for me she was soo fine... 

Sooo, the story starts after she broke up with her bf, after that we were getting more closer we talk everyday, we talk on phone and she was giving me signs like she gets cute when we talk and i was getting too much comfortable, soo i decide to tell her my feeling but she just broke up with her bf so i decide to give her time and tell her when she heal... But at that short time she was flirting with one of my friend ( I'm not that much closer to the boy!) ik he knows her before me but i thought i was the boy that she wants! so they start dating..after 1 date she gets uncomfortable and they separate after while she told me they were dating and he wasn't giving her attention so she left... I got upset and ignored her for days and she was blowing my phone and after several days i talked to her and told her how I felt and she said she will lose some people and me b/c of it "if we broke up after that i will lose you as a friend so i just want you as a friend":she said, after we argue alot and we just stop talking. 

After while i heard she went to univ and 7 months passed by since we talked, but she was on my mind all that months, ( the craziest part is we didn't unfollow each other on instagram, we used to view each others stories), So one day i decide to talk to her and i texted her and she just replied like nothing happened, and we continued talking....

After while she came back for break and i met her in person unexpectedly, we was talking about meeting when she got here but that was unexpected, i met her at my friends mom funeral ( the friend who was flirting with her ), it was the day after she land here so it was unexpected meeting, by that time i can't get enough space to talk to her, so after the funereal i texted her and we met, we talked and she was still gorgeous we had a good time. So we start talking like the old days, after while i told her we should met, there is something we need to talk so after while we met, we met at park so we can talk freely so we had a good time, and then i start talking about the fight we had back then and we talked alot, and i told her after all that time i stil got the feeling for her... 

She said " you're special to me, i have a few close friends and you're one of them, we have spent alot of things, you have been there when i need someone, you're the best person for me. But i have never seen you that way( in bf way ) soo we can't be together "  and she told me to move on!...so after this day we stop talking AGAIN! And I don't want to push it because of my ego ( self respect ), i don't want to embrace myself by pleasing someone who doesn't want me. 

So guys, the part that got me confused and questioning is that why does she gave me those signs, if i was the best person for her why don't she want me to be her bf, she always tells me she wants attention and i gave all the attention she needs, but she dumps me Why!? and why is she on my mind after all that shii !?

- Why should I do guys!?... I need your advice!

( And one important thing : is it a fault to respect myself and move without pushing even if i loved her??)

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My first vent

A male raised in rural area with truama, being bitten everyday even they did satan related thing to me and even i did that forcefully. I don't mention full of it. I hate my background i am now graduated from aau recently. now i am well paid i earn am >100k(no secret be programmer a lot around me earn >200k) but i amn't interested in anything at all i am shy to talk girl even i don't have close friend to talk.
Just am doing now bc i have to help my sister, my family and my twin sisters.i started not believing in God through things happened to me when i was child. Honestly i hate him i prefer to go hell whatever it have why that to me? I was innocent child to do this thing at all when i think my sisters and brothers are living there i feel bad guys.

feeling depressed i feel insecurities fear sometimes hopeless i wish if i had someone who listen me when i talk .


But i feel okay when i saw where i was i have been through lot of problems but i don't see those problem as problem i saw challenge who had more than me. when i see back i came lot of way. When i was university i didn't have shoes,i finished my whole university stay with 1 tshirt but it was okay.

i see something in my future i will do something impactfull before i die
please religious guy don't refer your bible i don't believe in it anymore.

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Hey guys 20M ...ena I'm in a weird situation rn ... look I used to talk to this girl back in high-school (10th eyalew) ena I kinda liked her then Iknew rship endematfelg so I beged stopped having feelings ....then we continued being friends then we started opening to each other ngr.i used to get jealous lela wend setanesa mnamn then yhone seat lay astelachiny like alea mnm ngr feel.madreg aqomku .then 11sengeba dgami tarekn ena negeratochn astekakeln nd bff ngr honen...then I started meteratering my self if I love her or not ...walk enewta malet jemerku jus to see what I feel when I'm with her alea.nd guess what I feel notin mnm fkr new maysemany alwedatm ngr gn lela wend setanesa ebesachalew ...so wtfs wrong with me? ....

Pls be kind

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As I scrolled through my phone one evening, my heart raced—what I saw shook me to my core: my friends, brave yet vulnerable, sharing nude pictures and videos like they were just another trend. I first spotted it on a Habeshan website (habeshanx .com), I stumbled upon a conversation in our group chat. Some girls were laughing about how they sent a “hot” video to their boyfriends. They seemed so carefree, but I couldn’t shake the feeling of concern. I wondered, do they realize the risks? What if those videos ended up in the wrong hands? Or worse, what if they regret it later?
In our culture, respect and dignity hold significant value. I remember my grandmother telling me stories of strong women who upheld their honor. I can’t help but feel that we are drifting away from those values. I want to understand why so many of my peers feel the need to share such personal things. Is it about acceptance? Are they looking for validation?
I decided to talk to some friends about it. During a heart-to-heart, I voiced my worries. “What happens when the moment passes?” I asked. They listened, and to my surprise, many shared my concerns. They talked about the pressure to fit in and how social media makes everything feel so public. It was comforting to know I wasn’t alone in my feelings.
I realized that we need to have these conversations openly. It’s important for us to support one another and remind ourselves of our worth beyond our appearances. I hope that together we can create an environment where we value ourselves and each other, and where we think twice before hitting send.
In a world where everything feels so fast-paced and accessible, let’s not forget who we are and where we come from. We can celebrate our beauty and strength without compromising our dignity. After all, being a young woman in our country means carrying a legacy of resilience. Let’s choose wisely and uplift each other, always.

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I found out my gf cheated on me by kissing another dude so am about to dump here but before that should i fuck her or not cause i can't decide on it boys help on this .

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