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10 октября 2024 04:01

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Hello people
Tenesh eylew I was raped by my uncle.
It's sad, it's painful, n I remember it like it happened yesterday. I've been trying to deal with it, but nobody knows except me. I didn't tell my mother because he's her brother, n she values him more than me. I haven't told my father either, because he lives abroad, and if I did, he'd strangle my uncle, which would cause even more problems😐.One thing that's really bothering me is that I remember the pain but I don't remember bleeding. If I had, they might have noticed and started asking questions. Now I'm worried am I still a virgin? I've never had intercourse with anyone and I don't plan to, but I can't settle with the thought that I might have lost my virginity to my uncle. It's been affecting my mental health because I'm highly sensitive and introverted. I can't maintain a connection with anyone I cut people off early.When I start talking to someone and they compliment me, I remember what my uncle used to say, and I distance myself.
Sometimes I wonder, what if I find someone I trust and I have to tell him that l've never had sex, but I'm not a virgin? It's hard because I've always wanted to marry someone special, clean, and trustworthy.


So, is it possible that I'm still a virgin? It's something that's really affecting my mentality and future. I know you might suggest going for a check-up but that’s a big nono coz of my traumatic effects.

#MentalIllness #Family #HealthComplications #SexualAssault
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10 октября 2024 04:01

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im 19 m and the thing is my gf don't want no have sex with me she always says that "it's not the right time"😳 and what makes me sad is that she is not even v😔 i really loves her so bad but i don't know why she don't understands me😞 i don't want to cheat on her but she always pushing me😒 and now i'm in this fucked up situation i don't know what to do please girls why are you like this😕? i only want response from you girls 🫵

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10 октября 2024 04:01

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Hey there am 22f I know it's a long story gn techegerulgn
Just for my girls pls pay attention and learn from me.
Beteley highschool & teenagers.
Look don't waste ur time for a guy. Ene 6 yrs yekoye relationship neberegn I tried to change him so much ene eskemawkew dres betam ywedegn nber even yale ene mnm nger mareg ayfelgm aychlmem nber..and sefer nen tewat sra abren enhedalen matam tetebabken abren enmelesalen.
He was my first for everything besu mknyat ke whole family gar yetetalahubetn gize mechem aresam. Yesefer sew everybody endemayhonegn sinegregn elih yazegn esum endezaw...keza efff yale fkr wst geban man yaskumen. Even sra serche tnsh birr enkuan sagegn lerase 1 socks enkuan algezam lesu nber hulunm nger maregew...betnsh betlku siyakorfegn benem yhun besu tfat rasew nberku eyalekesku ykrta yemteykew...guadegnochun enatun abatun amalaj yemalkew sew yelem nber.
Ke amlake gar rasu tetalchebetalew bcha mn lbelachu betammmm bzu neger asalfenal for 6 yrs.

Yehone time lay betammm selechegn ena I gave up beka keza zm slew zm alegn for 20 days malt nw. Beza mehal adis sew tewawekugn.
Keza yhen sisema jeles abede yaw deha yetalewn siyanesubet aywedm adel abede abede he through and broke his phone mnamn keza metagn for the first time. Yane endemayhonegn awekugn beka I said no.

Keza tewat mata malkes melemen amalaj melakm jemere...ene le 6 yrs yarekutn ena yasalefkutn skay esu le 10 days ayew keza hulunm nger akome beka he start a new life. Ena ahun yalesua menor alchlm esuam yale en menor atchlm malt jemrual. Look 3 wer alkoyem new relationship sijemr ena betam amogn sleneber dewelkulet ena teyekut.

He told me that ahun abraw yalechw lij kesu wchi wend atawkm ena ligodat endemayfelg esum esuan metew endemayfelg negeregn
I was like whaatttt ymrhn nw??? Cause yachi set ene neberku enem kesu wchi maninm alawkm ezi lay yalnegerkuachu bzuuuu negeroch hognalew slemafekrew bcha be 17 amete nber hulunm nger yasjemeregn.
Ena I was pregnant keza alkso tmhrtshn endtakuarchi alfelgm anchi bzu alama alesh mnamn blo even hospital alhedkum ebet wst bchayen lemanim salnager tesekayche nber abort yarekut lmot chaf dershe nber. Gn look ahun esu adis hiwot wst nw ene demo malshrew scar teshekme eskahun alehugn. Adis life lemejemr sasb rasu ahun lemyzew bf mn bye nw sle rase mnegrew endets ykebelegnal elalew. Beza lay yhen tarik endemaldegmew endet awkalew???

Girls plssss rasachun tebku listen to ur family mnm bihon enesu lik nachew...kbrachun tebku tetenkeku enesu mnm bihon menor ychlalu...mnm endaltefeter adis life jemrew le enante sihonu yeneberutn lezachgnawam yhonalu.
Enes ande alfebetalew biyans gn 1 teenage girl kadankugn bye nw

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10 октября 2024 04:01

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My message is for the 18-23 ladies here. Don't take any relationship you're in rn seriously because even if you can't see it now, you are not gonna get married to him because he isn't mature and stable enough and by the time he becomes enough you'll be too old for him. Only put your expectations on the adult ones if you have to. I'm telling you as a 24F, our generation Man will take longer than any other generations to figure out life.

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10 октября 2024 04:00

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እርዱኝ!
በህይወቴ ደስተኛ አይደለሁም። አሁን አንድ ቢሮ ውስጥ እየሰራሁ እገኛለሁ። ምንም እንኳን ከቤተሰቦቼ ቤት ወጥቼ ተከራይቼ ብኖርም ገቢው እንደምንም ይበቃል። አብራኝ የምትኖር ፍቅረኛ አለቺኝ። ባንክ ትሰራለች። ቢሆንም ግን ደስታ ያለማግኘቴ የመጀመሪያዋ ምክንያት እሷ ነች። አብረን መኖር ከጀመርንበት ጊዜ አንስቶ ምን ያህል ደስተኛ እንዳልሆነች ትነግረኛለች። ይህም የሆነው በቂ ገንዘብ ስለሌለንና በበቂ ሁኔታ እሷ የምትፈልጋቸውን ነገሮች ባለመደረጉ ምክንያት እንደሆነ ታነሳለች። እኔ ለኔ እንዲሁም ለሷ የቀረጽኩት የወደፊታችን ሁኔታ ውሃ እንደማያነሳ እና የትም እንደማያደርሰኝ ነገር ግን ብደርስ እንኳን (ስኬት ላይ ማለት ነው) በእርጅና ጊዜዬ እንደሆነ ትነግረኛለች በአንጻሩ እርሷ ደግሞ ይሄን እንደማትፈልገው እና ዛሬ ላይ መደሰት እንደምትፈልግ፣ ዛሬን መኖር እንጂ የወደፊቱን እያሰቡ መኖርን እንደማትፈልግ ትነግረኛለች። በቅርቡም ተለያይተን ከቤት ወጥታ ከሌላ ሰው ጋር ግንኙነት ጀምራ ነው በእናቷ አስታራቂነት አሁን በድጋሚ አብረን መኖር የጀመርነው። ይሁንና አሁንም ይህ ጥያቄዎቿ አልቆሙም ወደቤት ለመመለስ ተስማምታ ስንነጋገር አሁን ላይ መኖር ነው ነው የምፈልገው፣ አንተ ያሁን ፍላጎቶቼን አታሟላልኝም የሚለውን ትታ የወደፊታችንን አስባ አብረን እንደምንኖር ተስማምተን የነበረ ቢሆንም እየዋለ እያደረ ከምትናገራቸው አንዳንድ ቃላት የተነሳ ምንም እንዳልተሻሻለችና ለይስሙላ ብቻ ያንን እንዳለቺኝ እየተረዳሁ መጥቻለሁ።
ከእነዚህ ካልተወቻቸው ባህርያቶቿ በተጨማሪም አዳዲስ ጸባዮች ማለትም፡
1. እኔ በጠዋት ተነስቼ መንጎዳጎድ አልፈልግም፣ ከፈለክ ራስህ ተነስተህ ስራ፣
2. ሰራተኛ መቅጠር ትችላለህ፣
3. እኔ ስለቤት ውስጥ ነገሮች መጨነቅ አልፈልግም ወዘተ

እያለች ከምትናገራቸው ንግግሮች ውስጥ አዳዲስ እና ካሁነ በፊት ያልተለመዱ አይነት ጸባዮች አይቻለሁ። አሁን ላይ እሷ ስለመለያየት ሲነሳ፣ አንተ ከኔ ጋር ከተለያየህ ራሴን አጠፋለሁ፣ ወደ ቤተሰቦቼ ቤትም አልመለስም፣ ተነስቼ ብን ብዬ ነው የምጠፋው የሚሉ፣ “የእውነተኛ አፍቃሪ ፍርሃቶች” የሚመስሉ ነገር ግን ግልጽ ማስፈራሪያዎች የሆኑ መልእክቶችን ታስተላልፋለች።
እውነት እንነጋገር ከተባለ እኔ አሁን ከሷ ጋር ባለኝ ነገር ምንም ደስተኛ አይደለሁም። ለዚህ ደግሞ የተለያዩ ነገሮች እንደምክንያት ሊጠቀሱ ይችላሉ።
1. በግንኙነታችን ውስጥ በቂ ክብር ያገኘኡ አይመስለኝም፣
2. እኔ በማደርገው ነገር አትረካም፣ የተለያየ ጊዜ ሞክሬያለሁ ግን አልሆነልኝም፣ እንኳን በኔ ይቅርና በራሷ ህይወት ራሱ ደስተኛ አይደለችም። ለእያንዳንዱ በህይወቷ ውስጥ ላጋጠሟት ነገሮች እኔን ተጠያቂ ማድረግ ትፈልጋለች፣ አድርጋውማለች። ለምሳሌ ያህል የኔ ደሞዝ የቤት ኪራይ እየከፈለ፣ አስቤዛ እያሟላ፣ የቤት ውስጥ አብዛኛ ወጪዎችን እየሸፈነ የሚቀረው ደግሞ ለትራንስፖርት እና ለአንዳንድ ነገሮች እየዋለ ይገኛል፣ ነገር ግን ደርሳ ልደቴ በምፈልገው መልክ አልተከበረልኝም ወይም ስጦታ አልተገዛልኝም፣ ከሰው በታች አደረከኝ፣ መኖር አስጠልቶኛል እና የመሳሰሉትን አስጠሊታ ቃላትን ትናገረኛለች። ብዙውን ጊዜ አዝኜ ተወዋለሁ። እሷን እያፈቀርኳት ለመተው ባስብም ራሴን አጠፋለሁ በማለት በተለያዩ ጊዜያት ያስፈራራቺን በኔ ሰበብ እንዳትሆንብኝ ስል መልሼ ተወዋለሁ። እኔ ወደፊት slow growth ምፈልገው ማለትም ካሁን በኋላ ሁለትም ሶስትም አመት ሰርቼ በቂ ልምድ ካገኘሁ በኋላ የራሴን ቢሮ ከፍቼ ህይወት በምታሳልፈኝ ውጣ ውረድ ውስጥ አልፌ fulfilling የሆነ ህይወት መኖር ፈልጋለሁ። እሷ ባንጻሩ በአቋራጭ የሆነ ገንዘብ ማግኘት፣ ወይ ውጪ ሃገር ተሰዶ መንገላታት ወይ የሆነ ነገር ማድረግ፣ ካሁን በፊት ይህ የሷን የችኮላ ሃሳብ ሰምቼ ቢዝነስ ጀምሬ ከ200፣000 ብር በላይ ከስሬያለሁ። በድጋሚ እሷን ሰምቼ መክሰር አልፈልግም፣ አሁንም እሷ የኔ ሃሳብ ውሃ እንደማያነሳ እና የሷ ሃሳብ ደግሞ ትክክለኛ እንደሆነ ማሰብን ትመርጣለች። እኔ ብቻ ያም ሆነ ይህ ባለፉት አምስት አመታት ከሷ ጋር ያሳለፍኩትን በወረቀት ላይ ልገልብጠው ብል ወረቀት እና ጊዜ አይበቃኝም። በቃ ደስተኛ አይደለሁም, I don’t feel accepted, I don’t feel respected. ደስታዬን በግድ ደስተኛ ነኝ ብዬ በማመን ለማምጣት አልፈልግም። እርግጥ ነው አንዳንድ ቀናት ደስተኛ ሆኜ ከሷ ጋ የምውልባቸው ቀናት አሉ ነገር ግን እኔም እሷም እንደ አንድ አስተዋይ ሰው ተነጋግረን መንገዳችንን ብንለይ ሁለታችንም በፈለግንበት ብንጓዝ መቋሰሉም የሚያቆም ይመስለኛል።
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ምክራችሁን አጋሩኝ?

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09 октября 2024 04:00

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I am M 25, I have a problem of a big sexual desire of all sorts of things except gay shit! and I want to do many things with a girl around my age or women, and if I want to get a girl to have sex with me I can! but the main problem is aftet I talked to a girl and we decided to sleep together all those feelings go away and all I want to do is not do anything with her!!! just..my feeling disappear like they were not there! and am tired and confused of my quickly changing feelings or behaviour! so am asking for ur advice or help, what is going on and what is this pls help me!?!

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09 октября 2024 04:00

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Oh hello, you're alive. Great, welcome to the world, have a seat because you can't walk yet. You're gonna spend the next few years in the psychedelic world of colors that make no sense but it's alright because you can pee yourself and somebody will probably sort it out for you but don't get used to it, soon they'll be expecting you to use the toilet, so make the most of it, and not long after that you have to go to a building where they'll make you learn stuff and prove you know it like times tables and the alphabet and whatnot. Maybe you still think you are the center of the world and you can probably get away with that for a while - some people do their entire lives - but eventually you're going to start pissing other kids off so you probably gonna have to learn some humility soon, too. Got it? Good, all right. Then you're gonna go to another building where the tests are a bit harder and the subjects are more intense. They try to teach you stuff like trigonometry and iambic pentameter without ever actually explaining what you can use it for but don't worry, just memorize it and spit it out and forget it the second you walk out of the exam hall. By now you're probably getting weird urges to do stuff to your classmates that you never really wanted to do before and now you're gonna have to play a game for the rest of your life where you really want this kind of closeness with people but sometimes not everybody feels mutually, so you're going to have to hide it. Welcome to the world of dating and body language and sex. Yeah, you're gonna like the last one, it's going to dictate your life and most of the films you watch and book you read for some time to come whether you realize it or not. Oh you're finished spitting out all that rote memorization well great let's go to university. You need to if you want to earn lots of money which is obviously very important because well, well it just is shut up! Look, everyone's happy when they're rich. Pick a subject, not the humanities you idiot, something real like law or maths. I didn't spent 18 years raising fucking philosophy major cogito ergo broke all the time. Oh you finished? Great, well it's off to the companies for you then. Tell them you're a people person and you have excellent organizational skills and you work well in a team. Don't mention your actual passions for landscape gardening or music, they don't give a shit. just come off as generic as possible, stick it out for about 30 years, you'll make good money in time. Only the sex thing is probably getting a little empty by now and you're craving some kind of actual connection with the opposite sex or same sex if that's your thing. Jesus, you thought getting people to take their clothes off is difficult, you try finding a partner to fall in love with. And even then, what if they get bored or you get bored or they go off with the milkman or something, well sorry you're just gonna have to risk it like everyone else. Like life, actually. Some people are dead by your age but you're not. No, you're still sad in a pit of your own mediocrity feeling dull and stepped on by life, standing on a rock that's spinning at 9,000 miles an hour around a gas giant in an infinite universe, a product of 13 billion years of cosmic evolution but no, no, definitely you carry on being bored and feeling like crap. And you now you feel worse because you know how great you should feel about everything, amazed and happy all the time and yet you still feel like shit. Well, that's biology. Well, maybe your friend's getting rich or getting married or getting pregnant or something and you're poor and single and maybe you don't want kids, it doesn't matter what Carl Sagan says, you don't feel any sense of wonder at all, you feel like shit, you don't want eloquent prose about how beautiful the cosmos is you want money to live comfortably or you want to be in love and maybe you want children.

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09 октября 2024 04:00

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I wanna ask you a question. If you were given a Power to end three things Once and for all, what would those three things be?

Let me tell you mine

1. Sexual assault ( includes all kinds of sexual violence against Women and children. Well men get assaulted a lot by men and sometimes by women too so, we would want to include those as well... unless we're thinking about Revenge.) I think sexual related violence against anyone is just the cruelest and nastiest thing anyone can do. Imagine if there was none of that, Lord, we would've exhaled.

2. Physical violence: the War, the fights( unless for sport purpose) the Abuse, the child labor and all. No body can attack nobody. Doesn't matter if he's your kid, doesn't matter if she's your wife. No one. No matter what your sacred script said.

3. The tendency to NOT want learn. Yeah I would eliminate the fuck outta that shit. It's the most unique feature we have that makes us different from the rest of the animal kingdom and here we are close minded. Learning, Then changing minds, listening, reasoning, Being open minded and many many More are The exact opposite of being Ignorant. And we need'em. I'd make everyone eager to Learn and want to progress. But then, What do you think would happen to Religion, tinkulna, witchcraft, Astrology and all of those nonsense that Basically rely on the believers To have " faith" and nothing more?

Your turn, Tell me.

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09 октября 2024 04:00

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I am 27 male lives in addis i always wonder how i would wright or basically vent my life or at-least a day in my life and the thoughts that tun through my head and my perception so here it goes , Today i sat on the edge of my bed, the shadows of evening creeping into my apartment. Despite the warmth of the setting sun, an icy loneliness enveloped me. Each day felt like an endless cycle of work and quiet evenings spent scrolling through social media, watching friends share moments i longed for—a comforting touch, a shared laugh. I often thought about what it would be like to have someone beside me, someone who could hold my hand and remind me of life’s joys. Yet, every attempt to connect seemed to fizzle out, leaving me feeling more isolated and adrift.

As weeks turned into months, i found myself lost in introspection. I wandered through crowded streets, feeling invisible among the throngs of people, each lost in their own worlds. The absence of a meaningful connection weighed on me, forcing me to confront the question of what truly mattered. I yearned for a partner who could be my rock, but every encounter felt fleeting, like whispers that faded before i could grasp their significance. In those quiet moments of longing, i began to understand that perhaps this is all that could be for me and I should ….

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09 октября 2024 04:00

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I'm 23 M. Here is the thing, I've a girlfriend and it's been a couple years since we started dating. We love each other with no limits She would do anything for me. The problem is her family wants her to marry and they always try to introduce her with some rich man and ask her if she is interested in marrying but thanks to her she won't hesitate to reject and I was confident enough about not losing her. I am broke asf I don't even have a job but I always think that I would make it and have the dream life with her but now I start doubting myself what if I don't make it?! what if i am wasting her time?! I mean she could live a better life if she wouldn't choose me. She is the love of my life I really want to marry her but at the same time this doubt is making me think I'm just ruining her life. Im going crazy tell me what I should do?

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09 октября 2024 04:00

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Hey guys. I'm 18 M Living in AA. currently I'm in relationship and the things is she's older than me by 2 years almost. And I thought this was normal till I told to my friends about my relationship and they made a big deal out of it... Some of them didn't believed me And I said it's normal since we both love eachother. But sometimes I couldn't help but wonder, normal nw? 😭

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09 октября 2024 04:00

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Hi everyone I am 20 M, i was reading recent vents and I noticed one vent that relates to me but my story is kinda different, so I decided to vent and i hope you guys will give me mature answers.

So there is one girl... We have a friend in common she introduced her to me and at that time i had no feelings and my friend told me she had a boyfriend, soo we was just friends and through time we start getting closer and we used to talk alot of things, even when she have a problem with her bf & her family i have been there, and then i start getting butterflies she was soo fine for me idk why but alot of people told me she was not that beautiful but for me she was soo fine... 

Sooo, the story starts after she broke up with her bf, after that we were getting more closer we talk everyday, we talk on phone and she was giving me signs like she gets cute when we talk and i was getting too much comfortable, soo i decide to tell her my feeling but she just broke up with her bf so i decide to give her time and tell her when she heal... But at that short time she was flirting with one of my friend ( I'm not that much closer to the boy!) ik he knows her before me but i thought i was the boy that she wants! so they start dating..after 1 date she gets uncomfortable and they separate after while she told me they were dating and he wasn't giving her attention so she left... I got upset and ignored her for days and she was blowing my phone and after several days i talked to her and told her how I felt and she said she will lose some people and me b/c of it "if we broke up after that i will lose you as a friend so i just want you as a friend":she said, after we argue alot and we just stop talking. 

After while i heard she went to univ and 7 months passed by since we talked, but she was on my mind all that months, ( the craziest part is we didn't unfollow each other on ig, we used to view each others stories), So one day i decide to talk to her and i texted her and she just replied like nothing happened, and we continued talking....

After while she came back for break and i met her in person unexpectedly, we was talking about meeting when she got here but that was unexpected, i met her at my friends mom funeral ( the friend who was flirting with her ), it was the day after she land here so it was unexpected meeting, by that time i can't get enough space to talk to her, so after the funereal i texted her and we met, we talked and she was still gorgeous we had a good time. So we start talking like the old days, after while i told her we should met, there is something we need to talk so after while we met, we met at park so we can talk freely so we had a good time, and then i start talking about the fight we had back then and we talked alot, and i told her after all that time i stil got the feeling for her... 

She said " you're special to me, i have a few close friends and you're one of them, we have spent alot of things, you have been there when i need someone, you're the best person for me. But i have never seen you that way( in bf way ) soo we can't be together "  and she told me to move on!...so after this day we stop talking AGAIN! And I don't want to push it because of my ego ( self respect ), i don't want to embrace myself by pleasing someone who doesn't want me. 

So guys, the part that got me confused and questioning is that why does she gave me those signs, if i was the best person for her why don't she want me to be her bf, she always tells me she wants attention and i gave all the attention she needs, but she dumps me Why!? and why is she on my mind after all that shii !?

- Why should I do guys!?... I need your advice!

( And one important thing : is it a fault to respect myself and move without pushing even if i loved her??)

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08 октября 2024 18:46

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I'm the person that no one worries about because I always show up when they need me. I'm the person who says, "I got it," even when I really don't. But I always figure it out.

Everyone thinks I am strong and that I have it all together when I really just deal with things quietly because I don't want to burden others with my problems.

That's the thing about peoples who hasn't been loved much. They think about every kind gesture, the slightest touch of fingers, kind smiles, random acts of love. Intimacy in every small thing done.

I find love wherever I can because it was never given to me freely. I don't ask for love. I search for it everywhere.

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08 октября 2024 04:01

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Hi i'm 22 M
About 18 months ago i was talking to some girl ena when i told her i have feelings for her, she said she cant go out wiz me because shes seeing someone else so i moved on. But we've talking again this summer and shes telling me shes single and trying to give me signals. My old feelings are coming back to me and im afraid i might crash and burn again. Should i stop talking to her or try my luck again? Tell me ur opinion

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10 октября 2024 04:01

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So guys i  graduated from high school in Addis in 2016, and I've been feeling a bit lost when it comes to relationships. Everyone seems to think I'm a player, but that's totally not true... I've made a lot of great female friends, but I'm not sure if I'm just friend-zoning them or if they're friend-zoning me. 😕 It's been hard for me  to make the first move, which might be why people assume I'm already in a relationship. Because these girls think i have 1000 girls to talk to on social medias even in person.. they all think that i spent my night and day flirting  nd fucking with  girls but its far from reality😂.

To be real, I've made some mistakes in the past , like cheating on some of my girlfriends multiple times,   It's been a tough lesson to learn, and I'm worried it might happen again. 😓I like a bit of dark humor, and I think that might affect how people see me too... some dark jokes thats how i entertain my self

I took a test to get into AAU and I'm waiting for the  results. Any advice on how to navigate this whole relationship thing would be really helpful!!!!

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10 октября 2024 04:01

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ok hi everyone i'm 18m almost 19 after 4 months but i don't look like 18 yo i have beard and i do workout and my phisique dosen't looks like 18 yo phiisque the thing is every girl i met thinks that i'm 22 or 23 yo and the real problem is that i started to seep with a girls who's in thire 20s a year ago i convinced them that i loved them and after a week leter i convinced them to sleep with me and it becomes my addiction belive it or not i gived them a ring for 4 of them but the shit is i have no feeling for any of them it becomes my addiction and now days i'm strugling from it i really hates it and my body count belive me you don't wanna know i know it seams a joke but i swear to god i'm not joking please if anyone who suffered from this shit i need your oppinion please don't judge me i know i'm a bad pereson

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10 октября 2024 04:01

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Hey am 20M
 am here for the first time ena I juss want to get some answer or advice from girls that  interested one. Ena wede tiyakeye sigeba by the way I am first year student at UV ena when I was 17
I sarted to notice some changes ena demo eskahun dress ligebagn yalchale and neger ale esum some girls in my school or some where bcha they always stare at me and they always make eye contact with me but I dont give it fuck at that time cause am not mature enough to realise that and I thought it like they were having fun on me  gin ahun lay endalkuachu gbi wist yalu andand  ye class setoch even senior set temariwoch do the the same shit  beqa my prblm is that wht the fuck they are thinking cause am not attractive as much neither am not ugly as fuck bcha gin they make eye contact beqa enenjaa bchaa      ena setoch I need ur help pls.  One day I juss asked some of my friends and they told me that  "go and talk to them cause they maybe want to talk to u"but I dont think so, even if I wanted to talk I couldn't because am an Introvert so I cant. So I ask u Girls pls help me malet beqa mikniyatun maweq felgalew I mean wht is the point on that ena  lemin endeza endemiyaregu and what should I do abt that  thank you.

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10 октября 2024 04:00

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Hey guys.

17m high school, grade 11.

since i was a kid i thought i was special, በቃ i thought በሆነ ቦታ ትልቅ ቦታ እንደምደርስ።  so ገና ልጅ እያለሁ በሁሉ ነገር ተጋ ነበር። first it was football, i am very passionate about it, i thought i will made it to international stage, then i realized it's silly dream, like i was very good but players even better than me የትም አልደረሱም so ተውኩት። them i became religious ከዛ i was really passionate about it, i used to write songs ግን ማንም አያቅም። so again, i thought i would become a gosple singer, then shit happened i read other science and philosophical books and videos then boom i left the church to be agnostic, so at the time i stopped believing in fate but yet i though i would become a scientist.

so now, years passed, i have been in a lot of depression and anxiety, i have maladaptive daydream in which i daydream about being someone else, so that is triggering me to be s singer but now it's secular.

right now, i am in 11th grade, i am decent in class so i believe i would pass entrance exam.

I don't have a passion i can dedicate my life to, it's funny given all this shit but i want some purpose, i want to be mattered, so what to do? what is good for me?

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10 октября 2024 04:00

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Hi I am 26 Male, Ladies and Gentlemen, please help ! l the story might be a bit long but help your brother out.

I feel very unhappy with my current situation, even though I have a job and live independently. I have a girlfriend named R, we are together nearly for 5 years, but she is the main source of my dissatisfaction. She often complains and says she’s not happy with me because I can’t meet her financial needs. While she wants to enjoy life in the moment, I’m more focused on building a stable future.

I’ve had multiple arguments with her about money, and her attitude is emotionally draining me. Even though we’ve talked and agreed to stay together and work on things, nothing seems to change. She keeps demanding things I can’t afford, which only adds to my stress.

She also criticizes me for not being able to provide for her the way she expects. She complains about how I celebrate occasions or contribute to the household, making me feel unappreciated. I fear that if I leave her, as she often threatens to harm herself or pressures me emotionally when I bring up the idea of breaking up, which makes it really hard for me to leave.

I’m focused on growing slowly and building my own business in the near future, while her priority is making fast money, even if it means cutting corners. This difference in our goals and values is adding even more pressure on our relationship.

She doesn't want to sit and talk as she considers herself, "she is always right"

what to do?

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09 октября 2024 04:00

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Hey I'm 19F
I don't know how to start writing this coz I don't have a specific topic. I'm just worried for myself. Everytime I think about my future I jus can't see it. It is jus dark and my biggest fear In life is ending up alone
People my age have dated a lot and had relationships mnamn but I'm here sitting at home always never have plans to go out. No one ever seemed interested in me. No one ever approaches my. I cut off my friends after high-school I jus feel lonely and I really don't wanna live with this feeling anymore. Death seems a good way out and I'm not even scared of unaliving myself I jus want to give myself a chance jus a bit more does that make sense?

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09 октября 2024 04:00

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I haven't seen darkness for the 3 months because it was summer just continuous day light, now it's fall and soon winter where there will be 3 months of continuous darkness without a daylight. Where I live that's how the weather is, sounds ugly but the concept of balance gave it the small beauty it got. Balance as in the awareness that daylight is coming when you're in dark and the desire to fully enjoy your daylights cause of the knowledge that darker days are ahead. And This had me writing this late night.

It'll happen some day. either the good or the unpleasant ones. You'll witness your long time prayer being answered, you'll eventually get over that relationship that has been degrading your Soul, you'll get the degree you studied for, secure that job you fought for, or you'll wake up one day and run in to an engagement photo of a girl you've always loved , reach to a realization that all the hard studies were for nothing or when you thought you moved on for years and you feel all the feelings coming back just because you ran Into the person in the streets, or you'll get the money you've always wanted but you don't even have real friends to spend it with. Or some other things , you name them ..

Life ain't only winning, it isn't just loosing either but equilibrium is the beauty of it. Robert frost once quoted "In three words I can sum up everything I've learned about life: it goes on" but in this dynamic nature of life It is beautiful to have flaws covered with the good qualities you got. Or some losses hindered by the wins. But the real beauty of the rest of your life lies with in what you'll do when the equilibrium is disturbed, when you're in a constant loss or have no idea what's happening in your life, or when you're lucky enough and everything is going well. That's when you calibrate the rest of your life with but still don't forget to live stressing on how to live after on 3 words indeed sum up life; it goes on.

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09 октября 2024 04:00

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Hello guys endet nachu I am going to join the university pretty soon ena I really wanna have the best time there so please share ur experiences and useful advices for ur sister pls

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09 октября 2024 04:00

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It’s been like 6 months since I lost contact with her. I loved her so much. I used to call and text her every day. She was so nice to me, and once I called her, she didn’t even want to hang up the phone. But she never called or texted me first. I’m not the ‘call me first’ type, but it kept happening for months. She expected me to make a move every time. Since she didn’t show me enough attention, I stopped calling and texting her first. And guess what? She didn’t call me either 😂. Now I’m missing her. How can I contact her? Isn’t it weird to text or call her after all these months? 🤦

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09 октября 2024 04:00

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F almost 20 I don’t even know why I am writing this but here we go I have been through a lot since I was a kid my mom passed away and I have a bad relationship with my dad I was alone all through my childhood I didn’t get to be teenager I didn’t go to school but it’s for the best because my siblings are living that life now that makes me happy. and i have it all now, I own a business and it’s doing well I helped my siblings and they are living a good life in another country 🇺🇸 now I have a few friends and family around me and everyone talks about how strong I am bla bla bla but I am not happy i worked so hard for this life but I’m not happy I feel numb I hate talking with ppl or going out and Idk keman gar sleze ende mawera my friends are busy with their stuff and fam garem mawerat alchalkum and my bf all he talk about is sex I don’t even think he loves me I’m just lost I miss my mom I wish I can talk her or just hug her I wish I can just die and be with her I just don’t want to be strong anymore I want to cry out loud and tell someone how hurt I am how down I am feeling I just want to cry once. Am I being dramatic?

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09 октября 2024 04:00

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So i am 24 years old and  i graduated last year(2016). The thing is after the graduation, my close friends from campus have ignored me completely ena i am lonely now. Enesu yidewawelu yihonal gn beka kenesu gar kaweraw its been 3 or 4 months. I don't want to call them because they are so self centered ke dirom jemro. Beza lay i am fucking depressed sra alagegnehum eskahun ena like bet mewal ligelegne new. Gn all i want to vent out is i need a friend whom i can talk to, may be meet up. Beka religious endihon miyaregegne yemr gedam enid milegne sew new mifelgew. I don't care set bithonim yemr since i have no Gf bicha someone to talk to. God knows when gn i need someone to talk to ,someone who is real not fake.  Thank u in advance

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09 октября 2024 04:00

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Hmmm..it is my first time actually to vent and am here to tell something to my bros in here. Am someone who is been raised in one of very small towns in Ethiopia and i was this guy who is good at education because there is no other choice other than that. But i started watching porn when i was 12 and i have stopped watching it very recently, so the thing is now am uv student and  i have realized that watching porn and masturbating takes away masculinity, after stopped masturbating and watching porn in many places i go i see women staring at me sexually, even women i consider out of my league totally. I mean if you are someone really struggling with this shit nigga you need to stop in anyway you find because that is when u start realizing women are so easy to attract. And also for men chasing women please stop chasing women and start chasing your dreams, remember women are distraction. The rule is don't chase but attract. Be masculine my friend😎. and i will continue to tell the things i have experienced after stopping porn and masturbation if you liked this vent

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09 октября 2024 04:00

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Hey y'all,

So today I had somewhat of an annoying day and it got me thinking like am I the only person who feels every single habesha person has some some sort of undiagnosed mental problems? Lately I've been overthinking a lot and everyone around me, everyone I interact with at work even my friends are like that, and I'm not saying that I'm perfect but at least I'm aware of myself and I try to work on my weaknesses but most people are unaware of what is healthy and what's not. I feel like if we (habesha people) were all to be given a proper psychological assessment almost all of us would be diagnosed with multiple mental health problems. Anyway please people do some self reflection on your own behaviours rather than causing people unnecessary headaches

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08 октября 2024 18:43

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How do you cope up with the sudden, and unexpected death of a loved one???? Like, how do you stop the urge to go there to their room to see if they're there? I can't. I'm fucking losing my mind.

I lost my dad a month ago. Car accident. Sudden death. I didn't even get to see his face for one last time, that's how horrible the accident was. I don't know my mom. He raised me by himself. I'm his only child. Literally he was my world. I was and still am occupied with him. He was the best disciplinarian. He taught me manners. He thought me how to be a man. He gave me pocket money when he didn't have some for him. I got one of the best educations in the city while he was just a public servant driving an old car. Words lose their meanings when I start to describe how good of a father he was.

Even recently, even though I'd graduated and I've had a job for like 3 months, he couldn't spend 3 hours without talking to me. Every lunch hour the "have you eaten?" phone calls... Every evening the "በጊዜ ግባ አታምሽ" phone calls... Every Sunday morning playing chess... Every arsenal match we used to see together.... I was his life. I was the centre of his existence as he was mine. And now, he's left me in this cold, cruel, empty world.

The first days/weeks were fine. Handling the funeral, and the people kept me occupied enough not to think about him. But then as the days progressed, it became evident why I needed him in my life. I can't keep focus on my work checking if I have a missed call from him. I can't go into the house without going to his room hoping that he's there (only a cold cold room awaits). I wake up from my sleep again and again thinking I heard him calling my name. People.... I'm losing my mind.

How...just tell me how to cope?

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08 октября 2024 04:01

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Listen... I love my best friend so much. PLATONIC friendship guys don't let your mind wander off. We have been best friends for about 2 years now. But we don't look like we have only 2 years of friendship. The connection between us feels as if we were friends in all our past lives(the purpose of this sentence is solely to magnify my point. Don't come at me😂) and now... something happened. See, we always talked about applying for jobs at two places we have always wanted to work for. And when the job opportunity opens for one of the two, we were going to apply together because that's all what we have been talking about. But something personal happened, and I couldn't apply. Yk, I could have fixed that and still applied, but...due to personal reasons and my family being hesitant about the job, I talked myself out of it. Even tho my bestie was alwayssss adamant about me applying. And I missed the opportunity. A few weeks later, the other position we wanted opened, and we both started prepping our application. But yesterday, the first job I told you about... they accepted her. And don't get me wrong, I was really happy for her. But I was still jealous... there was this lingering feeling of...what ifs and...now I'm too down to apply for the second one.

And we always talk things like this out, yk? She is always open, and I am too. We talk about every single lingering emotion between us no matter what and resolve matters asap(and surprisingly, the most challenging fight we went through is over artists😂). we generally have a really mature yet childish friendship

But...for some reason I'm scared to tell her about this one. This is the first time I have seen her genuinely happy about something. She is so proud of herself for this achievement. And... I don't want to ruin that for her. And I also can't stop feeling this way. I tried, but...it has been on my mind since I heard the news. Tomorrow, we are going to meet to review our application one last time before submission, and...i haven't added a single thing since yesterday because of that... and she will definitely know something is wrong with me if she sees the state im in rn( because guys, u have no idea how much i wanted the first job. The second one has always been an option to me. I was confident i would get the first one, but i failed... and im so sad about it) What should I do?

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