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06 октября 2024 18:27

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እሞታለሁ !
እገድላታለሁም!

2017 ሊገባ በዋዜማው እለት እንደማንኛውም ኢትዮጵያዊ የቤቱ የመጀመሪያ ሴት ልጅ የበአላት ስራ እየሰራሁኝ ነበረ..ብዙ ሀሳብ ግን አይምሮዬ ውስጥ ነበረ መኖር እንደነበረብኝ የኖርኩ አልመሰለኝም በብዙ አቅጣጫ እራሴን እየፈተሽኩኝ እየወደኩ ነበረ🤦‍♀
በጣም ብቁ የሆንኩበትን ነገር ፈልጌ አጣሁ good is enough የሚል አስተሳሰብ ሀሳቤን ወርሶታል መሰለኝ🙄 ነገሬ ሁሉ መሀል ሰፋሪነት ነበረ ..ጠላሁት!
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ከዛ የመጨረሻውን ሽንኩርት እየላጥኩኝ አብሬ እጄንም ላጥኩት (ያው እንደሚታወቀው የመጀመሪያ ልጆች የሙያ ችግር የለብንም አጋጣሚ ነው😁 አደል እንዴ?)
ደሜ🩸🩸 ፈሰሰ ነው የምላችሁ በጣም ወደ ውስጥ ነበረ ቢላው የገባው..በንጋታው ያው እቤት ለበአል ቤተሰብ ይመጣል እኔ ደሞ ቡና ሳፈላ በቃ🫠 ከሰል ሳቀጣጥል እሳቱ ሌላኛው ጣቴን አነደደው🤦‍♀
እስኪ ይሁን ብዬ ዶሮ ውስጥ የሚገባ እንቁላል ደሞ ስቶቭ ላይ ስለነበረ አውርጄ ውሃውን ሳፈስ የፈላው ውሃ እጄን😭
ብቻ አልተረፍኩም ነበረ😁

ምን ተመኘሁ ታድያ አሁን ለራሴ (ከምኞት ያለፈ ፅኑ መሻት)
- የማትረባዋን እኔን መግደል
- የማይጠቅም ስጋዊ ምኞቴን እያደሙ ከኔእነቴ መላጥ
- ይሄ ከንቱ ሀሳቤን ደሙን ማፍሰስ
ከእግዚአብሔር የሚያርቀኝን ሞኝነት በፈላ ውሃ መገሽለጥ
- አይኔ ቆብ አለው አይደል (eyelids) በቃ ክፉ አልይበት ልዝጋው
- እስኪ ይሄን ክፉ ልቤን አስተካክለው

አካሄዴ ስላላማረኝ ከክርስቶስ ጋር ተስማምቼ ስጋዬን ልገድል ወስኛለሁ
አየሁት እኮ የኔን ጉዞ 🙄
ምን ደሞ ኢትዮጵያዊ ሆኜ 70 ብደርስ ነው ለዚህች ኑሮ አንተን ከምበድል
ትሙት
ገድላታለሁ
ተቆጥቻት አለቅሳለሁ
እንግደላት እተባበርሃለሁ።

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06 октября 2024 04:00

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Hey everyone, 21M here. Back in 5th grade, almost every day my best friend and I played tag after school with four girls. They all liked him, but I felt invisible—never tagged, always walking home sad. This stuck with me, making me believe I was ugly. It was kinda trauma...

Fast forward to high school: girls started noticing me, and my confidence grew. I even got a girlfriend, but it was more about validation than love. After we broke up, I tried to ask out another girl who seemed interested, but she liked someone else.

In prep school, attention faded again, and my old insecurities resurfaced. When I hit university, girls noticed me once more, but after getting rejected by someone who seemed interested, my confidence took another hit. Recently, I asked my female best friend for feedback on my looks. She said I’m handsome but admires my personality more. While it was a nice compliment, it left me feeling insecure since she focused on personality instead of looks.

So once more searching for validation I was active on social media lately talking with so many girls and all of them was positive about my looks after sending them a picture.

Now the thing is, first of all I don't want you to think of me as a drama king or some one who dies for attention but this really is about mental health. I know this is not right and the fact that am still seeking validation is killing me inside and will definitely effect my life in the future.

I've seen so many helpful and genuine comments in most vents and I was wondering if you guys can help me too by giving me advice or your opinion.

And hey I appreciate you for reading😊. Damn that was long tho🙄

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06 октября 2024 04:00

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Hello I am 24M

I’ve kept this part of myself hidden for a long time, but I feel the need to be honest. I’m really drawn to femdom—being submissive, worshipping, and giving up control to a woman. It’s been a part of me since childhood, but I’ve struggled to share it in past relationships. I didn’t want to face judgment or rejection, so I stayed quiet. So I am doing this Vent to release some stress

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06 октября 2024 04:00

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So this is kinda a help call from a girl in uni the thing is am a 2nd year uni student in AAU and me and my family are facings a financial crisis and i really need a job ASAP and i dont know where to look and what to look for i mean since i have busy schedule with class its better if i get a job i can do sitting in my dorm.....
And what i want from u guys it to tell me the Jobs that u have been working or still working and getting paid for ...

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06 октября 2024 04:00

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21 M
I’ve had this question on my mind for a long time. I know it’s pretty common, especially with teenagers, but I don’t fully get why people start long-distance relationships when they live in the same city. I’ve seen a lot of people talking about it online, and it’s been bugging me for a while. I understand if people meet in real life first, then something happens—like moving away—that forces them into a long-distance situation. That makes sense. But what I don’t understand is why some people, who could easily meet up in real life, choose to start and maintain a long-distance relationship from the get-go.

It’s just strange to me. I mean, if you live in the same city, why not take the opportunity to meet in person? Maybe it’s just the way I think, but it feels a bit bizarre that people can meet online, fall in love, and be okay with not seeing each other, even though they’re close enough to do so. I don’t know, maybe I’m overthinking it, but it’s something I’ve always wondered about.

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06 октября 2024 04:00

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Hey I'm 24M....  guys I need to talk to something that bothers me a lot about me still not having a relationship even a kiss with someone, here is a thing... it's not like I don't have feelings or I'm not good looking...when I was in high school I had a crush with this girl since grade 12 , she was like my friend ..she is so smart and beautiful😑 well at least for me ...she was beautiful and I didn't have the time to tell her my feeling  cuz we were like in 12th grade end when the feelings for her turns into something real I hadn't got time to tell her at that time and we separate and went to different colleges .....even when i was in college and mate many friends I still was thinking about her and the time we spent when we are together as a friends ...I had that feeling for about 1 year in college and I got over it .....I think😑, ....after that they were many girls who ask me to be in relationship with them and had crush on me but every time they ask me this, I was not at same page they were , I don't know why but I was not interested ....now I finished college and I'm working but I  don't have girls like yemegenagenachew.... every time their is a girl who come to my life that way I keep push them away.....

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06 октября 2024 04:00

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There is this girl and she is so cute I'm really in love with her for almost 5year now back in school we used make an insane I contact alost every single day, I was really shy to ask her, even tho it's obvious she is interested tho ,she give me a lot of signs but I'm just to shy especially with her,one time she even try to talk to me about us and I started panicking and Walk away without saying anything,last year matrick Teleko eziw adiss abeba hone yetelayaye bota dersen keza kebezu geza behala 4kilo ayehwat ena I start fighting with my self to talk to her but then we make deep eye contact got to shy to make a move even though I know she is interested tho and now I haven't seen her for long time but can get her out of my mind I can't even be with other girl coz my heart is still with ,she is on My mind 24/7 I can't get out every time and remembers me of her
And now am living a life full of regret

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06 октября 2024 04:00

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Hey fam, am M24 kelejnet yeuedekubet case egre lay manekes ale ke surgery menamn behuala teshlognal gn manekes betam betam tenesh ale lene endelelaw aynet dream sayhon just wedefit lay beteseb yezo menor nw mefelgew ena anten aynet sw genzeb kelelw manm ayfelgm tebye ahun lay teru mibal lay negn i can travel anywhere, buy mefelgewn neger more than comfortable miyasble huneta dershalew esun lemagnet sel gn ahun relationship segeba and andu yeguadegnochua tesno nw abre keteramedku disrespected endehonech endisemat yadergalu and andu damo just let's talk live if we meet up sw yelelebet yelalu just for the money nw and teru agnche nabere gn comparability problem nabere we still friends gra gebtognal should i completely stop thinking i will someone some day and just be that dum i will use with my money guy (cause am getting out of options and it's making me feel separated) you can be as cruel as you just advice me

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06 октября 2024 04:00

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Esti mela belugn sewoch mulu tariku adelem tsifew be mawrat rasu mechem ayalkim gn andi gadegnaye bleh le mtkerbat set ende sew hunehilat manm kemiredat belay even her bf kesu belay ante eyeteredahat kenega sithon selam misetat berasa andebet ende sew kisehegnal mitlegn yeneberechiw set endet new mnm salaregat kemeret tenesta hulunm ersaw ena kezih bohala anawra blo neger ale guys gra tegabahulachu 😏

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05 октября 2024 18:30

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Selam selam endet nacu
Am 23f
Men lelacu nw lemendenew gn babzagaw wendoc set sikerb le sex beca yehonew ene betam dekmogal yemikerbug wendoc hula endeza nacew mnm yeteleye masayacew bahri yelem gn mn endehone alakem embi selacew yerekugal yemeselegal salfeleg wede lela negerust eyegebaw nw😭 ena ena mknyatacu koy mndenw ligebag alcalew andand wendoc ebakacu negerug🙄

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05 октября 2024 06:02

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21F
I was here long times ago maybe 2 years mnamn ena randomly i got u guys back again I'm here to vent it's weird aydel😅I was one of those who says what the heck is wrong with this generation now I'm a victim I just want well explained and clarified answer enem betam achr tyake new mteykew how u guys are facing a broke up and move on like it's been 3 yrs since we broke up gn he still stuck on my mind I deleted his phone his photo I threw up his gifts on those 3 yrs I only saw him once gn I still miss him l still remember those days like happened yesterday(btw nothing happend without silly memories)demo for u guys it's easy to read it easy to hear easy to act like u feel me gnnnn I need someone who really knows it yemr yagatemew ena move on yarege sew perspective new yemfelgew even my closest ones doesn't know i still think about him everyone knows that I take a move gn nah I and only vent here stranger's know i hope u guys keep my secret🤭ena demo the most difficult thing is he is my first love I'm medical student but thanks to him I can't concentrate I can't give any guy a chance I can't get him out of my mind I really need ur help bezi keketelku ke gbi rasu mechare new

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05 октября 2024 06:02

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ADMIN PLEASE APPROVE
Guys what's the best possible way to commit a suicide..potassium cyanide sibal semchalew ..ebakachhu yet endemagegnew ngerugn ...I want to silently die ...I don't wanna live ..I don't belong here ..Slezi please erdugn ..yet new magegnew yihenn neger...
Weim demo mtakut menged kale ngerugn..BEKA Menor  alfelgm Biyans bememot enkuan beteseben merdat efelgalew ..tru edir ale bemote lij birr yagegnubetal ..
Ebakachhu mkr mnamn alfelgm beka mtakutn ngerugn betegnahubet new memot mfelgew please 😢😢
1 mulu berekina bteta tolo yigelegnal suffer salareg ??
berekina tetto yemote sew takalachu?I couldn't find the easiest way to commit suicide .I want a silent way .. mkr alfelgm I have already decided.be inbox menger kefelegachu @bereketbee

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05 октября 2024 06:00

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Hello guys,l need ur help in choosing my major I applied for AAU and am trying for scholars. So my dream is to be a business women or own personal brand and in the matter of that I wanna study business but my families tell me u have to choose something else since it might not work and that they want me to be like med student but they didn't push me ever but am afraid to Wht if I don’t get Wht I want or not able to do ntn on that cuz I heard many ppls are learning that and didn’t get in higher stages soo is studying business administration good plus if there are other majors that will help me Imk.

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05 октября 2024 04:00

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ያደኩት በ ቤተክርስቲያን ስርአት ነው ቤተክርስቲያን ውስጥ ፍቅረኛዬ ኖሮኝ አያውቅም ክብሬን tebkyalew ማግባት mfelgat ሴት እንደ እኔ መሆን አለባት ብዬ አስባለው ከድሮም expectation ነበረኝ አሁን እና አንድ ልጅ tetewawkn አብረን ሆንን 3 ዓመታችን ምንም አድርገን አናውቅም ከ ትዳር በፊት ግን ከኔ በፊት ፍቅረኛ ነበራት እሷም ድንግል ናት ምንም አድርጋ አታውቅም ግን እንደ ፍቅረኛ yaweru እና ይገናኙ ነበር አልፎ አልፎ ይሄ ነገር አይምሮዬን ይረብሸኛል lwedat ስሞክር ሙሉ ፍቅሬን መስጠት አልቻልኩም ከኔ በፊት ምትወደው ሰው እንደነበር ሳስብ ያመኛል ምክንያቱም የመጀመሪያ መሆን አለበት የሚል አመለካከት አለኝ ለኔ yemejrya ናት ከሷ በፊት ምንም ፍቅረኛዬ alnbrgnm ከልቤ lwedat አልቻልኩም እንዲ kemnor እሷን ለመተው አሰብኩ እኔም ይሄን እያሰብኩ ከምሰቃይ ብዬ...... ግራ ገብቶኛል

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05 октября 2024 04:00

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Hey so i just got ghosted by my fwb, and i wld like to know why. We met around two years ago in a subreddit and we hit it off at first i only saw her as a close friend even a sister but as time went by she started being touchy mnamn and i tot it was normal since that's what girls do with their close friends...until one day we were drunk ena she asked me if i ever had sex, i told her the truth that i hadnt, she said that we can do it if i wanted(mind u she was a lot drunker than me) i really wanted to do it algebachum mostly because i was drunk but i contolled myself and said i was waiting for someone special and then she offered head, i said yes thinking it wouldnt be bad but god was i wrong from that day on i was hooked...we started a mutual fwb thing where we met once or twice a week ena it was going good, really good not only did i like her pleasing me but seeing her being so satisfied also was amazing but last time we met she asked me if i found someone special ena i said no keza beka she ghosted me....switched of her sim mnamn Thing is we never had sx we just did snuggles and makekouts and occasionally head
I refrained from sx because im technically still a virgin and likei said i want my first time to be with someone special but she still ghosted me even after telling me i got her off more than anybody she slept with so idk why she ghosted. Any thoughts?

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06 октября 2024 18:19

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I dont get why most ppl disagree with me but I'm tired of adults' n teens stance on what love is—a paradoxical mess, calling these dopamine spikes n oxytocin releases that give u mood swings n attachment for a period that won't last, n ur labeling that as love. Like let's not fool ourselves, do u rly believe our parents are still crazy abt each other as they first met? Even if, for the sake of argument, isn't it the dumbest way to catch a feeling? Most people ending up depressed, others breaking up and let children take the beat to grow up without a full family. Some take it far n commit suicide, all because ppl can't learn to mask these stupid emotions, instead letting it drive us just cos we enjoy the intoxication of it. I'd rather choose to snort cocaine n go on my day if love's abt feelings.

If it's abt marriage, marry not cos of emotions towards someone, but let it be out of the choice of character u want in a person, cos it's not abt marrying the person u love that matters, it's loving the person u marry. The most u can get of these senseless feelings is prolly a wild moment of ecstasy, n it still wouldn't be the most sensible thing to do if it isn't with ur spouse. Ofc you have heard the term "the marriage bed should be kept pure." Oftentimes, ppl fall in love with their imaginations—the image of the person they have in mind, n not the person themselves. That's why they rush to decisions n fuck up. Hope u learn stn here. Don't get me wrong, spending time with the opposite sex is a great way to live, but not as lovers, not friends—just strangers with memories

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06 октября 2024 04:00

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Ion really got friends so fuck it

Okay guys i finally found love wth.. like shii this gurl got me tweaking fr, a nigga out here sending love TikToks nd shi... Bruh what on earth is this? Bro like it's fuckin wild... I just smoked my last blunt and promised not to touch anything as long as i got her... Damn like she makes me wanna be a better person nd shi, i used to despise the world but now I'm glad i met her here. Bro she's so amazing what the fuck, flowers grow where ever she walks yk... It's overwhelming

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06 октября 2024 04:00

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Hey people.. So straight to the point..
Im 20.. My big brother is a diakon.. he is only a year older than me and we share the same room.. last month when i woke up in the middle of the night my brother was on my bed touching me "down there". He even put his finger in just a little over my underwear. He was also touching his own "down there" and it took a disgustingly long time. I was shocked and I didnt react at all.I just pretended to be asleep. So next morning I told my mom about it. I was scared she wouldnt believe but she did. And she cried a lot. But you know what she said after she finished crying? ድቁናው እንዴት ሊሆን ነው..

I couldnt say anything.. I just sat there and listened to her talk about how to make this matter not affect his dikuna.. and then I left and cried alone..
now FOR THE LAST WHOLE MONTH TO THIS DAY both my mom and dad  እየመከሩኝ እና እየተቆጡኝ ነው to keep talking to him, to act as before.. they are saying that it is my fault that his behavior is changing. Im sick of it. And my dear brother? He doesnt even know that I told them becuz they never said a single thing to him. They said that Its not good for his mental health if he knows that they know..

AND WE STILL USE THE SAME ROOM!!!!

Its getting suffocating here.. but I cant move out or anything. Im a medical student at yegil collage so I have to live with them at least for the next 5 years

Please tell me what to do 🙏🙏

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06 октября 2024 04:00

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Hey I just had a question for the ladies.
How important is height when you are dating guy because I am 1.70cm good looking and lean but I am so insecure about my height I will do anything to add even 5cm.
Because the things I see is that if you are not above 1.80 you are not even datable
Let me now girls how much is too short and also am I cooked

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06 октября 2024 04:00

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Hello guys I'm M 25 y/o

There's this girl which is obv mt gf and we have been together for about 2 and a half years now and she is 24y/o. Before we started dating, we were friends plus neighbors, and after a long time in the friend zone, we realized we had feelings for each other and then we started dating aftera while. I remember endwm ye ehite serg lay nbr yefkr tiyake yakerbklat. Fortunately the first year of our relationship was great, especially since it was our first for both of us. She's amazing—wife material, cares about our future, and isn’t caught up in social media . Plus, she's absolutely beautiful and she loves every piece of me.

But there's one thing that bothers me: she's very private and doesn't really open up about her life. I often find out things after they've already happened, which makes me feel disconnected and I know she loves me, but she doesn't show it much—she rarely says "I love you" back or shows affection. This lack of communication, especially when we're apart, makes things tough. Our phone calls can feel awkward, and I struggle with how different we are as person...betam yetelyaye alem sewoch nen. Even the way we grew up was different, mnm comen ngr yelenm ena yihe demo ene lay betam chigr eyftr nw yihen ngr kalatestekakel endet adrige endmiktl alawkim so I want to make things right, but I’m unsure how to handle these differences. Any advice ls?????

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06 октября 2024 04:00

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someone get sex out of my mind please???????????? not totally out but i know what i mean....u know it started so small with just watching sex scenes then to amateur then the stepsis then hard core and now im scared one day ill watch something i wont recover from...and i have already seen things that are hard to forget...i dont want to sexualize every pretty girl isee,,,but they be soooooo cute and when i see them im like i bet her feet taste like cherries, and i dont even know what cherries taste like. i know im fucked up but sometimes i try to convince myself its just romantic,,,anywho i hope this made sense, i dont even know why im writing this people have real issues and im here bitching about non sense.

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06 октября 2024 04:00

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I deeply believe we (humans) aren't made for whatever the fuck this is. We flesh, blood, and spirit animals are far extraordinary. Just lift you hand and look at it then look around you. Is this what the universe hold for us? Think about it. Staring on screen till you lose sense of time. I know we're born to be consumers. divide by race, religion, and class. If we only knew, we are nothing in this void. Because we are walking ego we think the universe revolves around us. We are complex things. Yes things. The universe has more adventures than living like this. I can't call this living but rather surviving. who's going to rescue us.... from whom?

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06 октября 2024 04:00

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I'm F n almost 21
So what I wanna say is afalgugn nw😭..so back in I think 2015EC when i was in grade 12 n bout to take entrance examination (we were the first bach to be in the new education curriculum only bout 3.5% of us passed the exam) this detail might be important so there was this group on tg for grade 12 studs n I was in it, Sothis one night this dude texted me yawhe was in the same group too, so we clicked almost immediately n our energy y'all it matched like crazy, n I'm usually not one to talk to random ppl in my DM I just ignore it but for some reason with this dude it felt diff n somehow very good, n guys he's so cute as hell like???? N he's really good at keeping a Convo going.... anyway fast-forward to the end of that year after the examination my phone got stolen n I couldn't get the sim card back so like I tried to find him online but I couldn't find him n the worst thing is the only thing I know bout this dude is that he's name is ADAM n he's a social science student...guys I really tried a lot to find him...I dug soooooo many groups but ah nope he's nowhere to be found..so ADAM if ur seeing this🤞🏾 lemme know ur alive okie

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05 октября 2024 18:38

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Hey yall

I am a female porn addict. I started watching porn 5 years ago and I've been hooked ever since. It started easy with "Normal" porn but last year I started watching trans porn and the guilt and shame I'm feeling is killing me. Sometimes while I watch the videos I ask myself am I even horny or am I just a depressed fuck who doesn't have any source of dopamine other than porn. I'm really a fucking loser cause even rn while I write this there is a trans porn opened in my tab. Anyways guys just pray for me and people like me cause after all all we need is a prayer.

Thanks for reading.

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05 октября 2024 06:03

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I know as people get older they start losing their looks but doesn't that happen after like your 30s or 40s. Does that happen while you're just 20? Call me guregna for sharing but yeah All my life I've been VERY pretty. I would always get compliments anywhere I go. And yeah I am gonna say it, pretty privilege is so very true. It just makes life a little bit easier. But after turning 19/20 things haven't been the same.  And as much as I like that now nobody bothers me as I walk on the streets but I can't help but wonder what happened to me? And if am like this now, what will I become in the future.
I don't wear any make-up(nothing at all)never have, I don't get my hair or my nails done, I don't have nice clothes,I don't exercise.. I know what you are gonna say "why don't you put on more effort?" I wish I could but I don't have neither the money nor the time for all that. Not doing anything was enough until 2 years ago when I joined medschool. I literally sometimes don't even have time to shower or brush my teeth. I look in the mirror and I couldn't even recognize myself. I feel like I aged alot in 2 years. I look like a beat-up mom of 4 trying to get by. The stress I endure everytime an exam is approaching makes me question my life decisions. And on top of that I have no money to save my life. I tried doing part-time jobs but if there are any medstudents here you know that's practically impossible. And I try to tell myself it's just for a bit it's only till I graduate but who am I kidding? With a doctor's salary I will never be able to even stand on my 2 feet not alone take care of myself like the pretty girls I see living their pretty lives. It's not just about being pretty, but the things I get told sometimes by old acquaintances and the looks I get when I meet some old Freinds or some family members or sometimes I hear some guys talking about how they always see me wearing the same cloth again and again and again. Like why can't they just leave me alone.i know am literally wearing the same pair of shoes&clothes from many years ago. But just let me be. And it is really affecting my self esteem that whenever I see people I know I literally hide. My parents don't know about these stuff since my mom doesn't have that much and well my dad doesn't really like giving money. It's a very tiring process to ask him for money even for when I get sick and wanna pay for my medicines. We look rich on the outside but nobody really knows how poor we are. And am tired am reaalllyyyy tired of this. I wanna drop out and learn sth else. But I Don know what I'd learn, and the years I've spent here will be wasted. On top of that Idk what my parents would say when I'd tell them am gonna drop out of med since you know it's the dream of every parent to see their kid become a doctor. But I can't keep on going like this either what shall I do?

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05 октября 2024 06:02

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I'm 19M I am here for some advice. so I have been dating this girl for a while about 8 months. She is 18 a very good girl, God fearing, beautiful, respectful, u name it. she is a very serious christian well she has been for the last like year and a half. Everything is cool now. The thing is yeah she had a shitty past. It all started when she had some family member touch her in all the wrong places at a young age(I would kill that nigga if i could). After that, she got hypersexual and got with a whole bunch of guys. She is a virgin don't get me wrong but u get what am saying. About a year and a half ago, her whole lifestyle changed, she started to be more serious with church and God and all. I have no complaints about how she is now but her past intimidates me. I'm asking for advice here cuz I don't want to be ratting her out to my friends or anyone I know. What should I do? I love her and I want sumn serious with her but i'm kinda scared what do y'all say ?

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05 октября 2024 06:02

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22 M here and i just wanted to write my thoughts, well to start with i am a normal dude with a normal life ( a little bit to the boring side ) i been single my whole life and a master at talking stages and they always seem to fall apart either i lose interest or they lose interest...it never works out .....I just want a genuine love but its kinda hard to find one so i just don't rush things and be patient till everything sort its self out hoping time changes things , compared to other vents my problem is kinda mid i know but you know you just gotta blow some steam sometimes , its not like i have close friends to vent to but yeah 10k strangers seems fine to vent to

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05 октября 2024 05:59

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Hey people, my boyfriend is an amazing guy, he takes care of me well, loves, and adores me. But he told me in the past he went to sex workers a couple of times. I thought I could forgive and forget since it happened a long time ago, at least 10 years before he met me, but I couldn’t. He is an amazing person but his past mistakes make me doubt everything, if you know him you would never think he even think of this kind of things, but he did and I can’t manage to believe in his morals and principles now. I mean if he can bend them once what’s gonna stop him from bending them again. So guys please tell me what I should do? I mean we are set to marry and I am still not over this
One side of me says: if he is just a horny man and let his dick make him do this, who knows in the future he might do it again so just leave now.
The other side says: we all make mistakes and bend our principles in so many ways and that shouldn’t mean he doesn’t deserve love and respect so leave the past in the past and enjoy his present self and have faith in him.

I am so in love with him and he is perfect in every way but this has been the biggest problem in our relationship because I keep bringing it up and he always end up crying. I hate making him hate himself and feel shitty but I keep asking but WHY? Once okay but how did you do it again and again? At least 7/8 times he said so
Backstory he never had a girlfriend before me and he never thought he will have one because nobody liked him back so all his sexual encounters were with them and he also attempted suicide when he was 18 but he survived. This happened after that so I feel bad, also nobody knows about this except me, he was completely honest with me and confessed all his sins so he could get some salvation and love despite it all but I am giving him hell. Sorry about my scattered thoughts and please no he is a man he needs sex nonsense!

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05 октября 2024 04:00

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Hey guys it’s a girl here.
so here’s the thing, I’ve been with this guy for about 2 years now and he’s really nice and handsome too. I always get compliments from my friends and anyone who knows him that my boyfriend is so handsome and he is so polite and all the nice stuff people say. Buttttt, whenever people talk about marriage they say that men should be the ones who love the women more right ? But sometimes he makes me feel like I’m putting more effort than him, he has never planned a date only I do. And he barely initiates meeting although we live like a couple of blocks away from each other. And he’s always complaining about work or studies whenever I do. and if I stop like calling him or initiating, he calls and asks whats wrong with me. And I always tell him if I match his effort level we wouldn’t even be in a relationship. And we’ve fought over this a million times and the last time he cried on his knees and said he will change and make efforts in the relationship and he will never disappoint me because he doesn’t want to be with anyone else but me. And since then he does some things that look like effort but are not he’s like let’s go here and doesn’t make the time for it 🤷‍♀️ and I know u guys can be like maybe he’s busy. Noooooo I work more and have very much harder studies than he does. But I still make time. And every one else around me sees that he loves me more cuz he treats me like a princess in public. But is it worth it? pushing forward with a man who doesn’t even plan a date ? How is gonna plan our life together? I’m just so confused and do men ever change ? Or do women just eventually start getting used to it ?

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04 октября 2024 04:00

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So here is my my vent am guy 4 th yr uv student who has a lot of insecurity like i havnt got freinds also gf am so communicable but i coudnt handle feeling like i coundnt manage things like beinn cool in exciting moments and am so open and i have no border suddenly i hv no freind either how could u manage ur self in sensetive moment like erasken maskber or ksew ga yalekn nger mekoteb ykebdgnal thast why relation lay predictable negn so tolo eselchalew meslgn sensetive selhonku enageralew weym sew askeymalew to be the one who loved by alot of person esum nger albegn becha after i joined uv i didnt met new girl endewm vent seyargu am so excited and happy fr them like i think dating smo could change ur skin like spiritual neger ale adel snake endmikeyerw beye amnalew ena lost of interest , consistency matat eygetemgn new everything lay my life is so predictable andande ko adis sew metewawek megodatu medestu gives u healin like hiwot erasu boring yhonal yalesu its matter of transition so my point is ahun lalewbet huneta mknyat yhonal mn marg albegn fr am getting exhausted

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