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24 июля 2024 12:03

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So basically am a 22 m and im madly in love with my bestfriend and I've been in this state for over a year now and not being dramatic i cant take it anymore. So we met online and used to talk often for like couple of years and i knew i never had feelings like that then in fact me heading back and reading out old chats and i can see that she was making it known that she liked me and my stupid ass just joked around or didn't even realise it. But i had this cases in life where i was at my lowest low and she was there for me truly, the way she cared, the way she helped she basically just saved. Im not even kidding the now me would never be here if it was not for her and i am so thankful and grateful i had her then. Basically after all that i started having feelings for her like who wouldn't right but i was too scared to say smt cause i just thought i would lose what we had. So i didn't. I chose to believe its better to be there for her as a friend and help her through her struggles, be there for her when ever she needs me than try to pursue this and lose her. Cause i genuinely think that i can't live without her ngr ( maybe I've got attachment issues ) gn i dont even care. Bcha i bottled up my feelings like i always do and i dealt with it and it was all good gn the way i care for her ymr i dont even care if yall think this is dumb but i care for her more than i can care for my wellbeing, the way i feel safe around her ,the way she makes me feel when i hear her voice everytime🙆🏽‍♂ i just can't help it ina basically i just couldn't help it and i kinda tried to distance my self as much as i could cause i thought i could if i did that then the feelings would disappear but they didn't in fact she started being the only thing i think about and i can't even express it. I couldn't even think straight to the point where even friends started noticing. Bcha they convinced me to start meeting new people and that would help but it didn't. I met new people but whats the use. Infact i genuinely tried to push her away but that just made me realize that i couldn't and i just went running back to her. Its like I'm under her spell or smt cause all my thought are about her, all my feelings are for her , she gives me peace she is my peace , i am happy when i know that shes happy, im healthy when i see and know shes healthy, when things bother her they are all i think about. Like i said im at a point where i prioritize her everything before myself. Even when i think about her i think about what our future could be, i crave for her growth more than i do for my self ymr even the silly things when i say her name  smt just gets all over me even now im at peace thinking about her and wish she would just know, but i don't want to scare her 
i wish i was just the type of guys that could express his feelings bdnb , i just wish she could just get inside my head and see it all and i wish i could tell her but I'm really scared to even confront my feelings cause
A. What if she doesn't see me that way and im just her dear friend and i just make it weird and lose her
B. What if she says yes and my overthinking lunatic ass is too much for her and i just end up messing shit up like i would do anything for her but what if I'm in a wrong place in life to have her what if I'm too much to handle
C. What if i just scare her away with this feeling and end up losing her
Basically my mind just can't stop thinking and the only time i do is when im with her, when i talk to her and i just don't want to lose my peace (thats her btw).
But tbh i feel her slipping away and i know did that why i tried pushing her away im scared to lose her i really am. Im sure that i wont feel this type of way for anyone else ever again tbh while im writing this i just at a point where i can't even take it anymore and it feels like im suffocating. I sure hope venting here helps me not do smt rash and regret or even hate my self.

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24 июля 2024 12:03

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Hi y’all ummm I am F 18 next month and I don’t know what to do. My relationship is little complicated. I can’t really say girls and not quite nice to me. They’re all against me and I don’t know why. Bech this time this is some thing I have a man that sees me as a princess and he always told me, he forgot his Mother’s Death because I think I am lucky to have like this kind of guy and now I can have a problem I have a friend” boyfriend” we are just friends and he asked me to go out in my birthday. I’m confused this time. Should I tell my man or should I keep silent and just go out I need help

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24 июля 2024 12:03

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Heyy, okay so I'm 19F and I've never been into a relationship, never kissed a guy mnamn bcha there is this guy we met online ena mejemeriya lay we talked bedenb we've almost 1 aynet music taste so we kinda clicked
Since the day we met we talked like crazyyy for a month mnamn non stop aweran we used to talk on the phone for hours
Ena if he did stg wrong dewlolegn I'm sorry yilegnal...how can I make up to it mnamn eyale plus he communicates sooo well ena I really really liked him
Gn ahun lay we barely talk, he doesn't even reply to my texts ena mejemeriya I got worried smtg might have happened to him beye dewelku gn i'm alright ena i been working leza new alegn
Eshi beye lemetew mokerkugn gn eyebasebet meta💀
Keza I asked him be sne sreat chgru mn endehone he said tedebre new semonun ena sra beztobegn alegn
Endeza kalegn bhuala demo sweet sweet yehonu negeroch yenegregnena tnsh koyto yetefal
I'm so lostt gra gebagn
Alfelgm beye zm sel degmo he calls ena yikrta tefahhubesh mn honesh new zm yalshign yelegnal
I genuinely do not knoww what to do, am I being love bombed?
I'm too attached ena I'm concerned
HELP PLS!!
Demo he said I love youu be kum neger (it's probably a lie idk)
(he's 25 btw)

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24 июля 2024 04:00

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Hey I need to vent and I really don't know what to do M19 like I'm in a relationship and she is such a cute and nice person I waited alot to make her mine and now I'm losing interest and like she wants to get married with church and keep her virginity and shit like and I need sth to spice up the relationship like it's getting boring today today and I don't want to break up with her and I asked her what is the things we can do except sex(cuz she wants to get married by church) and she doesn't even want to make out and idk what to do like I need your help guys

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22 июля 2024 12:01

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22 июля 2024 04:00

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So the thing is I hate physical touch from guys, for some reason i feel like im doing something wrong to even be a little bit intimate( feels like a betrayal idk to who). So i met this guy and he's perfect and all and he's been my crush for a few months and when we talked mnamn, he exceeded my expectations betam he's humble, romantic, caring, nice, handsome, considerate, gentlemen and everything and he wants to get to know me but call it intuition, I feel like he's a really good person but it feels like he ain't mine( idk I'm not even sure anymore.)
I feel like the main reason we can't be together is ena I date to marry be tekelile nw magebat mifelew and I feel like he don't want that. He's not religious. Plus I don't just date, I'm afraid of intimacy from the wrong people( I'm afraid he might be the wrong guy). And he's the first person in years that I felt even a little bit safe and comfortable to talk to without feeling like I'm doing something wrong.
If he ain't the one, wede tesasate menged endalehede eferalew. I'm soo confused.
Sorry if I'm just blabbering, I don't even understand myself.

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22 июля 2024 04:00

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Hey guys I need to vent I’m here for ur real advice the thing issss…… I’m 19 yrs old F and I’m freshman student I have a lot of friends because of my sociable character I’m proud of it. In this yr I got many new friends, classmates and partners thennn I joined one of classmates group we called jema menamn betam arif guwadegnamachohe honene we have difference characters menamn yalen variety migerem bond feterelen 3 girls and 2 boys nene keza mehale ke Andu ga special connection alen like betam enetalalen enechekachekalen gn within 2 min meleyayet or mekuwarefe anecheleme degami enaweralen kesu ga sehone I enjoy everything yemer vibe selemenaderege yemeselegnale actually Esu Teneshe asechegari baheri alewu relatively but enae demo betammm asecehageri negne specially lemekerebewu sewu hulume Yehaenene accept aderegewu treat yadergugnale Esu gn mejemriya laye close esekemenehone betam care yaderege nebr keza Esu kene eyebase meta like enae honeku Esu mejemriya endemilemenegne eyelemeneku mawerawu bemayereba negr senetala keza every single thing lene meaning eyesetugne metu Esu ga yalewun negr gn maweke alechalkume Lemn ende guwadegna mehone alechalenem beye asebalhu gebi wust couple selemenemeselachewu bzuwochu bf yet newe menamn yelugnale even ye jemewu abalate lela negr ale belewu yamenalu enae ga Yehae negr sidegageme maseredat selechegne esunme endezihe endemilute Ik gn mn endemiyasebe Alawekeme senesebesebe enaen endmilugne tewadedalachihu menamn ayelutem ketebalem endekeled teseko yalefale before a days seneleyaye class cheresen yemer kefagne bye selewu Esu kelele adergo nebr enae mawerat yemefelegewu negr nebr selasekefahut selanadedekute sorry lelewu nebr Esu gn akefogne enegenagnalen belogne haedeke gera nebr yegebagne mn eyehone endale bzu wende guwadegnoche alugne bzuwochu ga enekerarebalen even Adisu jema wust lelagnawu leje ga betam close nene gn endesu ayent chemistry Yelenem plus demo jemawu wust enae ena Esu Becha menawekachewu yegara miseteroche alune Yehae negr mutual privacy endinoren seladerge I’m happy wanawu guday gn mn laderege kezihe behuwala demo class selaleke yemegenagnenet edelachine Teneshe nw I mean tedewawelen menamn anegenagneme because be bzu reason mehalachin yemeferarate ena kedemae aledeweleme ayent feeling tefeteruwle guysss mn laderege gera gebagne

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22 июля 2024 04:00

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Hi i need you guys help so my issue might sound a bit silly or childish gn chegeru lene telek hono seletayegn nw im a 25 year old female i have 3 bestfriends i have known them for 10 years grade 9 eyalen nw friends yehonew ena they dont really know who i really am malet eversince yane ketetewaweken jemero selerase real maneneten negeriyachew alakem lemesale they think i lied to them about my religion i told them i'm orthodox whem i'm really pente  i told them i have 4 sibling when i'm the only child i told them my family is rich when we're poor(not that poor) and if you asked me why did i lied i dont really know😭😭by the time selerase betam insecure yesemagn neber i just wanted them to accept me and the biggest issue is ebezin weshetoch lemeshefen lela wushet ewashalw lies over lies...lies over lies endezi eyale we lived for 10 years maybe yane lej selehonkugn nw gn ahun kadekugn behuala i really reeeaaallly REGRET it ena im scared to tell them the truth malet selemanenete menger aydelem yasferegn mewashete ena ya hulu wushet 10 years mekoyetu mn yelalu milew neger nw yasferegn..  what if they hate me? What if they broke up with me? What if endedero the same eye bayayugn ena because of this reason i was planning to leave the friendship without saying a word but at the same time i love them so so much ena i dont know what to do😭😭🙏 please help!!!

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22 июля 2024 04:00

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Things change, people change and you change! In a matter of a month theres so much growth.
What you feel now will be something you will laugh about later on.
It truly surprises me how much i change…so trust me when i say worry about what will matter in the long run not over some boy or girl….
20f

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06 июля 2024 04:00

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Do y’all believe in curses? I didn’t until very recently

Hi, I’m 19 years old Male.
When I was in grade 5, a girl asked me to be her boyfriend multiple times and I rejected her. I didn’t know any better and I still don’t understand how a child could understand and use these kinds of emotions at that age, I think I am emotionally immature and I rejected her in an awful way with out considering her feelings…and by that “rejection” I mean I didn’t give her a straight answer and just avoided her when ever she expressed her feelings. One day she cursed at me, she said “you will never find a girl that will love you, you are so shallow”(she said it in Amharic but I don’t like typing in Amharic) which to no surprise I didn’t care, I was in 5th grade, I didn’t know what all that meant, I still wonder if she did either.

Fast forward to the grade 7th, another girl had a crush on me…she was a friend of the first one, again I didn’t know any better so I avoided these things rather than give an answer

Again, fast forward to 9th grade where things got messy…the first girl had a girl best friend…at thing point you might have been able to guess what I’m about to say. Yes, she developed feelings for me, now that I understand it, she had feelings for me that were too deep…I didn’t deserve all that, I’m a shit head for all I know, I don’t have anything worth that. But for exactly 3 years, she been trying to talk to me, take me out, talk to me on Telegram, Instagram, Snap and Messages….I swear upon there is to swear on, of all those 3 years, I didn’t communicate with her for even 1 hour combined. She even gave me a present on Valentine’s Day which happened to be my birthday…I thought it was a happy birth day gift, I didn’t know any better. So, when she finally gave up she also cursed me like the first one, I said “okay” and went with my life.

Coming back to the present, there was this girl that I really liked and have been talking for 3 years…I wanted to ask her to be in a relationship with me but my views of “perfect relationships” didn’t go with the time I have, my confidence, my motives and my money. So, I didn’t want to blow it up so I postponed asking her, which in this time, she been with a few guys but all of them ended up hurting her bad. Now she is the “all guys are the same” if I tried to justify and say I’m not like them, wouldn’t that what anybody would say? So I just left her be. Then she started being very distant, never talk to me, and when we do, she is super dry. So I gave up on her, or so I thought. I couldn’t stay away from her, and with out realizing it, I’d find a way to text or call her, when I do, it’s the same dry and “leave me” energy. So I checked her Instagram following and realized she follows all these good looking, rich, successful, religious and better guys than me, I realized she had better options and I deleted all our chat, and stopped talking to her. Aaaand again, I found a way to talk to her, aand again same energy so I stopped…I’m sure I’ll find a reason to talk to her in the next two or three days lol


Forget being in a relationship, I had never loved or liked a girl like her in my life. But seems like the curse of the girls that cursed me really worked, I can’t get the girl I want.


What do y’all think?
Thanks!

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06 июля 2024 04:00

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23M Hey folks I vent to u about relationships I'm the kind of person who advises people on their relationships and they are really open to me I advise both men and women and I see that the advice works and helps improve their lives Now I'm like a relationship guru for my circle in campuses and among friends The problem is I've been single by choice my whole life and sometimes I wonder why they tell me I can't help them just vent to me I start telling people not to talk to me about relationships but then I see some people getting into real trouble and I feel compelled to offer advice Some of my friends are really curious about my relationship status and some even try to find someone for me some of them ask me "Please tell me who she is I know you're not single" I'm single they don't believe me I'm really comfortable being single (close Door policy) all year but then I try to open the door a bit and I realize I don't know many things about what I like and how love works How do you know the person to start a relationship with? That was my q
Thank you🙏 people God bless 🙌you and stay safe🤞

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06 июля 2024 04:00

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I'm a male, 24 never thought I would vent here but here I'm 😊. Can u really be in love with some one u was once in a long distance relationship with?? 😏 And u only met in person twice and didn't even kiss or make out 😭. We started talking on tg grade 12 entrance lenfeten akababi then mawerat jemeren betam tegbaban becha sanawekew feker jemrenal. Then gizew derese ena gibi geban besmam abren endidersen yaladerekut tselot yaltesalkut selet aleberem. Gen alhonem ene addis deresegn esua Gondar. Beselk hule mata rejem sat enaweralen endewem fekrachin betam chemere.besmam specially corona time ema beka we was madly in love. Wedefit tegabten keza 5 lij endemnweled Hulu tesmamten already sem rasu awetenlachew nbr 🤣. Keza after two years or maybe more I guess out of no where she told me ahun yalenen ngr meketel endematfelg. I was devastated mamen alchalkum because I liked her for real. I begged her menamn she said embi betam derek nat. Keza we continued as a friend which was so hard for me but did it anyways. We was taking bla bla stuff and one day I replied to her text after a week b/c I was taking my final exam then after I replied she ignored my text and the trend we have before was ene esua zem setel degami text Leke or dewye mn honesh nw zem metyew beye teykat nbr yane gen idk why zem setel zem alku enem months passed keza zem tebablen no phone call no text beka zem for almost a year I guess. Keza new year derese ena I decided to call her mata lemeznanat seweta mok silegn 😊. Tinish teteche mok belogn sedewlelat betam nbr Des milat hulum misemagnen ngr selemnegrat. keza pagume 4 final exam lefeten chekuye sehed selken tesereku 😭😭. Sadly yesew selk bekale meyaz alchelem🤣 beka I lost her phone number saldewel kerew bezaw teresasten keren migremew eko santela sankeyayem endi aderek endi adergesh sanbabal beka endiw endekeld teleyayen. Kesua buhala I focused on my education I graduated with a good grade and i now work for a bank 😭😭. Stable yehone job alegn but my love life kesua buhala campus rasu setoch sikerbugn rekachew nbr ahun sera lay rasu bezu set yemetewawek agatami alegn gen beka idk wtf happened to me maybe I'm still in love with her idk😏. Ahun idk yet endalech rasu alakem maybe she's married. Anyways my B yene nafkot I'm kind of missing u lately ena where tf are u. Ik it has been a while but Semonun idk why betam nw yenafekshign😊

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06 июля 2024 04:00

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Hello
So as any body here I keep reading this vents and I'm like do we not live in Ethiopia like r u kidding me do we not have "habesha" parents like how are y'all acting so ፈረንጀኛ I mean sexual ነገር ላይ struggle ማድረግ ከወጣት or ከሰው expect የሚደረግ ነው።But that's not the case what I read here is on anthore level. Y'all accepted lust, sex before marriage, making out .... So brother /sister what are u complaining about u have lost the concept of right and wrong u want making out but not sex, u want sex but not relationship, u want the relationship but u don't know what to do cause ur partner wants sex like what the hell r u doing with a person who wants u before marriage😭.I'm not only confused do people no longer believe in God or is he just some one u go to on ur spare time or when things go south like seriously. Guys I know some of u out here are really looking for solutions even though I believe Jesus is the only and best permanent solution let me say somethings about what I observed, some of u want good but ur just not in the right group or environment ማለቴ u want to be a better person and everyrhing spiritually, financially ,mentally or in general the best version of yourself(which is with Jesus BTW) ena u have this people around u that prioritize lust,sin, laziness,toxic mindset on dating ,on friendship and etc... so even if u don't believe on this things ur going to attract those type of people cause of the people around u and u will find urself changing before u even know it so I say look at ur situation if u think u can help this people like genuinely if ur strong enough good luck but still have other friends that have goals that align with yours on the other hand if ur changing,making bad decision, attracting the type of people u don't want its not because every body is bad or rude bla bla bla its cause you're with the wrong people and they will pull u to where they are or in this case u will walk blindly to where they are so I say 🏃‍♂🏃‍♀ run!!

Its like looking for a good Christian girl or boy at the club. So please for ur sake choose ur people wisely.

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06 июля 2024 04:00

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How am I venting 2 times in a week wow it's insanity.

Bacheru my bf of 3 years yerket fekr neber for the 2 year setbkew neber eneyalehubet endimeta.i sacrificed a lot to wait for him ezi hogne so then every time he says emetalew but makes up an excuse.but he promises every time but doesn't do it and I'm hurt.and now when he says he will comei told him not to come because of me but to come if u want.he said he wants to and be with me here and guess what now that the time is here he makes up excuse saying our country is in ruiens and we should both go some where else and not be here...I really can't understand why he is doing this and I'm not sure if I want to flee the country with him since he always changes his mind what if he leaves me there...I'm confused every one very confused.

1.i leave him and start a new life if so for girls are there really guys out there that are good people

2. if not leaving what do I do

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05 июля 2024 04:00

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Let me start from the begining i was a girl who had a big dream like any other teenage በትምህርቴም ሰቃይ እና ጎበዝ ነበርኩ
almost ke 1 eske 12 class bememarebet gize 1ndgna or 2tegna derejaa alatam neber then university gebaw electrical engineering dersogn the first year my grade was 3.5 and was good then after 2nd year my entire life changed gradually i start hating my departement i start losing interest in it which cause my grade to downfall slowly to the point my grade be 2.8 and after i finish second year i start another department በextention class jemerkugn soo the load chemerebegn በmn melku bitilu degmo ande local temari neberku which mean beteseb gar hongne neber university mimarew ena uk beteseb gar kaleh degmo that much manbeb its hard plus i start another departemnt as i told u before becha my 3rd year was nightmare for me blc i got warning in my grade ena bemechersha amet lay in my 3rd year acadamical dismissal tebeye ተጫርኩኝ and at that moment i was in distress and cried soo much cuz this is new for me but i still didnt lose hope kemiketelut bach'oche gar temarkugn and i was in good state and then exit exam mibalew shit meta.... in my first exit exam i fail when my entire class pass ...again i wait and take the second exit exam on tir lay again i fail i become trumatized soo much to the extent i dream on it and cry usually when i remember it
Then for 3rd time i take re exit exam 2 week ago and all student were working together and to be honest i got answers in the middle of exam soo i write it and i was happy and in good condition when i get out of the exam...... i was having hope but idk what happen the departement annouce to take another re exam the following next day soo i go to take the exam and guess what this time i didnt get any aswer so i sit there and read the questions carefully i spent 2 hours and half and then i get out gn i wish if i stayed little bit cuz after kewetaw buhala melss meto temari hula tekorarejoo seru becha yalefe neger alefe result meta i got 48 and i fail for 3RD TIME i am in huge pain and i am amazed fr and ask my self like this question
did any one cursed me?
What did i do to be in this condition?
why me? I never tell anyone my pain even my bestie i just hide it but today i want it to share it with strangers

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24 июля 2024 12:03

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I never thought i'd fall for anybody , i've never been in relationships or noting close to being a relationship , but one day i found a girl and we got to know each other , went on a few dates , i knew it wont last but still our connection went deeper and deeper , eventual we fall for eachother , i mean i can be sure for my self , anyway after that we both knew it wont last so we talked about it and we ended it there , b/c it would be harder to end it as we spent more and more time together .
Moral of the story , if u're not dating to marry dont get attached
And dont think u're dating to marry if you are 19-23 i think its to young
Well thats it

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24 июля 2024 12:03

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Hi unihorse please hide my identity i'm 19 m and i'm here today cause i have a problem that i can't solve. my problem is that i'm addicted to "mastebation" i don't know if there is someone who's strugling with this shit but if is there you knew how bad is this so we should stop this shit before it is too late. so if there is a girl who's strugling with this shit who wants to fuck just let me know maybe we can work something out together.

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24 июля 2024 04:00

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what if  when u see people on the road u say ወይኔ ደስ ሲሉ ክርስቶስ የሞተላቸው ብትይ/ብትል። አስበከዋል ህይወት እንዴት ደስ እንደሚል። አጉል ሃይማኖተኛ ላረግህ አይደለም ግን ፣ ሰውን ከምንም ነገር ደርሰህ ስትጠላ አንተም ውስጥህ የሚሰማህ ሁሉም እንደሚጠላህ ቤተሰብህ እንደማይወድህ ነው። even ፍቅረኛ ብትኖርህ ጓደኞች ቢኖሩህ ተጠራጣሪ ትሆናለህ።
እግዚአብሄር ለምን ይሆን ጉንዳን፣ አይጥ፣ ቅማል... የፈጠረው ብለህ አስበህ ታውቃለህ? ለምን ይመስልሃል። idea የሚፈጠር ጠፍቶበት ይመስልሃል? በጭራሽ።

what if ዛፍ መንገድ ላይ ስታይ ደርሰህ ወይኔ ደስ ሲል የምትል ቢሆን
what if ሁሉንም ፍጥረት ስታይ ምን ሲል ፈጠረው ከማለት እግዚአብሄር አሰራሩ ግሩም ነው ብለህ ውስጥህ በድስታና በመገረም ቢረሰርስ። አስበከዋል? 
u dont need to be a religious person to do this. u dont need to pray, u dont need to read bible,u dont need to do anything related to chrstianity or የምትከተለውን እምነት።
it is just life style. u can choose to be angry when u see people that u know or u dont know or u can choose to change your sight and be happy when u see everyone.
ሰውን ሁሉ ስታይ አጭር፣ ወፍራም ፣ መልኳ የማያምር የሚያምር ሳትል judge ሳታረግ መንገድ ላይ ለ 30 ደቂቃ አሳልፍ። experiment እራስህ ላይ ስራ። ሰው አስቀይሞህ፣ ጎድቶህ ሊሆን ይችላል ። ግን maturity ማለት ይህ ነው። በሰው condition ላይ ያልተመሰረተ ፍቅር።

social anxiety ነበረብኝ ለብዙ አመታት። ሁሌ በሰው መካከል ስሆን judge የተደረኩ ይመስለኝ ነበር። ከጓደኞቼም ሆነ የብቻዬን ስሆን በጣም observer ነኝ። ሰው ያላየውን or ሊያየው የሚከብደውን አያለው። ከዛም እናገራለው። ሰው ላይ ሙድ እይዛለው። አቃቂር አወጣለው። ጓደኞቼን ሰው እየተረብኩ አስቃለው። ለራሴ ግን ደስታ አልነበረኝም።

then የሆነ ቀን ወደ ግቢ ልሄድ ከቤት ወጥቼ በጣም anxiety አስቸገረኝ። ሰው ቀና ብዬ ማየት እስኪከብደኝ ድረስ። የማረገውን ሳጣ ፀልዬ የማላውቀውን ፀለይኩ። እግዚአብሄር ሆን ይቅር በለኝ። አንተን ባልተከተልኩበት እያልኩ ታክሲ ውስጥ ንስሃ ገባው።
የሚገርመው ወድያው ማልቀስ ጀመርኩ ፣ ውስጤ በሰው judge ከመደረግ ስሜት ቀስ በቀስ ሲላቀቅ ይታወቀኝ ጀመር። በዚህም እግዚአብሄር ይቅር እንዳለኝ አወኩ😊።

ከዛ በታክሲው መስኮት ሰዎችን ሳይ እንዴት ደስ እንደሚሉ ጌታን። መንገድ ላይ ሰውን እያየው enjoy ማድረግ ጀመርኩ። ወይኔ ክርስቶስ የሞተላቸው እንደኔ ሃጢያታቸው ይቅር የተባለላቸው ማለት ጀመርኩ። በአንዴው ሰው ላይ አቃቂር ከማውጣት በአንዴው ሁሉንም አይነት ሰው ሳይ አምላክን ማመስገን ጀመርኩ። ዛፉ እያየው እግዚአብሄርን ማመስገን ጀመርኩ😊 ። እና ያንን ቀን መቼም experiance አድርጌው የማላውቀውን ነፃነት or freedom አየሁ።

በጊዜው ምን እየተፈጠረ እንደነበር አልገባኝም።እናም ግቢ ስደርስ ወደ ቀድሞው ማንነቴ ተመለስኩ🙆‍♂። ለቀጣዩ ተጨማሪ 3 አመታት ሰው ላይ observe አረጋለው በሚል ሰበብ ሙድ ስይዝ እኔም በተራዬ በ social anxiety ስሰቃይ ኖርኩ።

አሁን social anxiety የለብኝም ሰው ላይም አልፈርድም። ለቆኝ የሄደው ሰው ላይ መፍረድ ሳቆም ነው።
በግሌ ሰው ሊያስከፋኝ ይችላል። ሰው ላይ ላዝን እችላለው። ነገር ግን መንገድ ላይ ስወጣ በማየው ነገር ሁሉ፣ ሰውን፣ እንስሳውን ፣ ሃብታሙን ድሃውን ሁሉንም ሳይ judge አላረግም። በቃ በውስጤ ደስታ ብቻ ነው የሚሰማኝ። ብዙ ደስ የማያሰኙ ነገሮች በህይወቴ ውስጥ አሉ። ከማንም በላይ ሰውንም ፈጣሪንም እንድወቅስ የሚያስደርጉ።
but i know one thing. life is better without anxiety

እንዳይፈረድብህ፣ አንተም በወንድምህ ላይ አትፍረድ

“በወንድምህም ዓይን ያለውን ጉድፍ ስለምን ታያለህ፥ በዓይንህ ግን ያለውን ምሰሶ ስለ ምን አትመለከትም?”
  — ማቴዎስ 7፥3

እና ቤተሰብ ምን ልላቹ ፈልጌ ነው በ social anxiety, anxiety ውስጥ ያላቹ ሰዎች በሰው መካከል ስትሆኑ ሰው የሚስቅባቹ የሚመስላቹ፣ በተራቹ እናንተም በልባቹ ውስጥም ይሁን በቃል ሰው ላይ የምትፈርዱ ሰዎች ፣ ከዚ ነገር መውጫው ይሄ ነው። በእናንተ ላይ እንዲሆን የማትፈልጉትን ሰው ላይ ባለማረግ።
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22 июля 2024 04:00

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Hello there
I'm 22m lives in addis
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22 июля 2024 04:00

Hey Unihorse 🦄
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So far in my small town adventures, I've managed to make a few friends. A few more than the one guy I already know.

I've admired how open I've become to the concept of friendship, human connection and human mediocrity. I assume it came from the strong feeling I had that I had failed the standards I had set for myself and was seeking redemption among regular human beings, just as my unfortunate self, to feel less burdened and hopes of finding the courage to love myself again.

My search for a redeeming character didn't go for long as I had found the perfect candidate to latch on and observe as part of me healed from watching their pathetic attempts to win life.
Erased, they call him. He's the one friend I mentioned earlier that I knew from before, before I met the others.
Erased is different, he wasn't like any of the guys or girls or any human being I've ever met. His every word and action are so pathetic and evident of what he's thinking, u can't help but either laugh at his feeble naive attempts or find urself despretly wanting to help him experience what's he's so clumsily trying to attempt. What makes it all so beautiful, healing and provocative is the sheer will he has to get something done.
Once he sets his mind to something, despite the time it will take, be it days, weeks, months and even years, Erased will just keep moving forward until what he's finished on what he set his mind on.
I find myself intoxicated by his unwavering human spirit that refuses to back down from getting what it wants but I also find myself being offended by the unbreakable determination he has. A determination so strong it could forget that I even existed.

Somehow that draws me closer to him more and more. I decided a little while over 2 years ago that I'd never approach a person as a savior, as I well intendedly could if I wanted to. As a famous civil rights leader said, "I don't need the white man to save me, I've endured his salvation long enough". That's why I chose a path where I'd get him to see my value in his life.

which then propelled me in to a state where I'm constantly trying to prove myself worthy to him. We both are yet to know why my worth would matter to him but he never fails in casually reminding me he sees me as his close friend and that he values my presence in his life.
I was a man on a quest of redemption but being with him feels like there was no need for redemption all along.
While I should have been moving on to what I have to do, after finding the healing I so desperately wanted. I found myself greedily hanging around in hopes of getting more from him. More of that peace, that conviction, his humor, his smile, his ethics... I wanted his humanity.

In comparison, I resemble more of a monster compared to the sheer humanity he has on display. I wanted to vulnerable as he was and still be okay with it.

I've vented enough about this for one day, my mind seems to have wondered off to another place for now.

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22 июля 2024 04:00

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Been like 2 months since we broke up ( i broke up with him because of my personal issues) but I cant move on and I still think about him every single day. I dont want to unlove him but also the strangest thing is that I dont want to get back with him too. I just want to live loving him forever without being together. Is this normal??

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22 июля 2024 04:00

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19 F
I don’t really be puttin' myself out there in public most the time, and when I reach the stage, for some reason, I be runnin' outta things to say. like, when I was in uni, I knew the answers and could handle the work, but soon as the teacher told me to go to the blackboard, my mind just went blank. I might even be wonderin' why I was even there in the first place and what the heck I be doin'.
so the real issue is, I got a bunch of important interviews comin' up, and Idk if this thing is gon happen again. I need to find a way to get outta this, or maybe there's some kinda med I can take during those times to help.
If there's any health professionals here, I really need y'all's help.

fyi I ain’t f and 19 thank you

admin, please approve this real quick, 'cause them days are approachin' fast.

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22 июля 2024 04:00

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I just needed a place to share my thoughts and say how deeply I miss my best friend. We've had some issues that have created distance between us, and we're not as close as we once were. Although we still have small interactions since we in the same class but it's not the same. She was the one person I could always rely on, the one I could confide in about my feelings and everything happening in my life. These days, I don't have anyone I can share everything with, and that makes me really sad. But if you read this, I want you to know that I truly, deeply miss you and our friendship. I miss the way we used to be, and I hope we can find a way to reconnect. h,xoxo

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06 июля 2024 04:00

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Hey so don’t judge me I can’t find this on Google so the thing is I had sex with these guy and I took post pill even tho it was with condom and then after that my period was so irregular it will come every two week mnamn and after that I had sex again while I was on my period with condom and after 2 weeks my period came again and it was only 2 days and it was so light almost none and now my period is not coming at all it’s been like 2 weeks and I’m so afraid that I might be pregnant and Google say a pregnant women may spot blood too if anyone know about this please help me

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06 июля 2024 04:00

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Guys....I sincerely ask you to give me advice on how to kill myself.....any idea on a drug or a method that can do that .....I have been trying to hang myself,but, it doesn't seem to work ......I would really appreciate it if you can point out any drug that can do that most efficiently

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06 июля 2024 04:00

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This vent is for
1)my ex who left me alone hopeless even tho i was there for her in tough times

2) those neighbours and relatives who try to flex on my mom and dad about ur life situation

3)those who made me feel i am good for nothing in times i was practically tired of life

4)those who hated me for no reason

5)those who betrayed me

6)those girls who rejected me

MAY GOD BLESS YOU ....YOU MADE ME THE MAN I AM NOW!! YOU FUELED THE PROCESS!!

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06 июля 2024 04:00

Hey Unihorse 🦄
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I need ur opinion/experiance especially from the guys with similar experiance.

Im a male in twenties i have a gf same age. Let me cut to the point "i love my girl but im not physically attracted to her and she is way out of my type" ik ik its fucked up. Ik The r/ship shouldn't have happened if i am thinking like this ik. But i thought her personality matters more and i should give us a chance. but now i don't know if im on the right path.
Don't get me wrong im treating her good im providing everything she requires, im not using her or anything (we don't have sex or i don't demand any physical stuff from her)
I respect her, i love her personality i respect everything she does.
The only issue i have is her physical appearance and its bothering me more and more. every friend i Introduce her to trys to show me that she ain't good enough. ppls are giving me comments and shi. im also starting to reconsider everything.
Idk Its getting worse and worse and rn im even starting to get ashamed to be seen with her in public. But she have no clue.
Ik she doesn't deserve this and ik there are so many better men than me who would welcome and accept her fully.

Thats why i wanted to hear ur thoughts. go easy on me please

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05 июля 2024 04:00

Hey Unihorse 🦄
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I need to vent
I am exhausted. I feel like shit and I fear I will never amount to anything. I am on break from uni now but not doing anything is making me so anxious. But I also don't do anything about it. I wanna be productive. I have also not been happy in a very long time. Idk what I am supposed to do. The expectations people have for me is suffocating and I can barely breathe. I can barely even live. I am always imagining myself graduating and then not having a good job and disappointing the family. Anyway all this to say how do I stop feeling this depressed and how do I start acting on my fears instead of just wallowing in it. I truly think I might end it all at this rate. I can not breathe.

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05 июля 2024 04:00

Hey Unihorse 🦄
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Hello everyone i wanted to vent.
Ok, i am guy i am 28. Tho the thing is i have never been in a proper relationship...and i feel so alone and unloved.start to feel like why? Why like this..honestly i gave up on such a thing ...relationship ..people are attracted to someone who talks to much and hurts them in the end....whatever
My question is ...is this normal not be in relationship until this age?

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