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You are enough for the hearts that are meant to love you. You are enough for the life that is meant to be yours.

I know it is so easy to get caught in the trap of comparison, to hold your life up to all the thoughts you had about what it would be, and by when. But when you measure yourself by how well you did or didn’t follow a plan you had in your mind before you even really knew who you were or what you’d want, you begin to miss the point of being here, you begin to miss the point of being alive.

It is not about where you arrive, but who you become. How what calls you begins to stretch you open and how it asks you to face your shadows, and shine within them a light. There is no timeline upon which you must fit your self-actualization. There is no deadline for your joy. There is no point at which love will expire, no moment after which your destiny will no longer be yours.

What you learned in the detour became part of the path. What you found when you got lost shaped some integral part of who you now are. Rather than just imagining all the ways you haven’t lived up to what you one day thought you might be, imagine all the ways you’ve defied and exceeded even your wildest expectations. Consider all of the love you didn’t know you find, everything you learned about yourself, and about life. Think about the gift that resides within the precise moment you are at right now, and consider that maybe, that was the point of arriving here. That was the point all along.

You owe nothing to the person you once were — but you owe everything to the one you are becoming. You owe everything to the person you are right now.

Give yourself enough grace to let go of what you thought it would be, and see instead the ways in which life may have been trying to give you something greater than you’d ever choose for yourself.

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Hey can you tell me how can i stop being so pretentious lol. I read classics just to feel superior to ignorant imbeciles smh. My ego is through the roof like bro im that one person who randomly starts blabbering about Nietzsche and politics .And i mostly do it to people who i know wont understand me.to feel superior. im just too egotistic. ts holdng me back from actually beng enlightened. i ony consume things i already know.so can u give me ideas on how to be smart like not academic but likein general. humble me lmao im sick of myself. thank you.

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As I sit down to write this letter, my heart races with excitement and anticipation. I'm not quite sure where to begin, but I know that I want to let you know just how much you mean to me.

From the moment I met you, I felt a spark that I haven't been able to ignore. Your smile warmed my heart and your laugh filled me with joy. And every moment since then, I've found myself falling deeper and deeper in love with you.

There's something about the way you look at me that makes me feel like I'm the only person in the world. Your touch sends shivers down my spine, and I could listen to the sound of your voice for hours on end.

I cherish every moment we spend together, and I'm constantly amazed by your beauty, your intelligence, and your kind heart. You make me want to be a better person, to love more deeply and to live more fully.

I want to spend the rest of my life by your side, exploring the world together, sharing our dreams and goals, and supporting each other through the ups and downs of life.

So, my dear, I want you to know that I love you more than words can express. You are my soulmate, my partner, my best friend, and the love of my life. I promise to cherish you, to respect you, to support you, and to love you always.

#Relationship #Adult
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I want to ask advice of fellow skeptics, agnostics or atheists here, especially women...if there are any. So religious folk, this one isn't for you so scroll through.
how do you guys navigate the dating world in such a conservative community?
I'm 25F and through my experience i've learned that a free thinking woman isn't considered wifey material in this society, even by skeptic men. I've made my peace with it but that doesn't stop me from wanting to have a loving and caring partner that i can spend the rest of my life with.
Do you hide your beliefs when you start dating someone? Do you compromise? if so, how much? How can you tell who to not waste your time on?

#Relationship #Adult #Agitation
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I am Epic
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There has been a recent vent regarding that the administrators banning vents about LGBTQ .. This my own humble response

I believe in freedom of speech... personally...


Even if they just trolling,  or even if they actually mean it...
I dont think we can/should ban any one specific type of vent

Isn't this a place for venting whatever ppl want? I may be wrong..


Plus if we ban ppl from venting about LGBTQ cuz ppl dont believe in it or disagree with it, what next? Banning talking about drugs, smoking and alcohol? Banning talking about religion other than your own?

#LGBTQ+ ????‍????
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I'm glad im not achieving in this life because this life doesn't deserve to be taken seriously. I'm glad im not taking it seriously, I'm glad im not playing its game. This illusory bullshit, I'm glad I never gave a fuck. I mean I'm not a bad person doing bad things, actually quite good kid mostly listened to parents did what they wanted, but always gave little fucks. Because this life is bullshit, it doesn't deserve my all. I'm literally not mad now, things are going well in life for most part, but I'm just glad I never really cared about prosperity and all that illusory bullshit. I was right all along I believe. Thy giveth and thy taketh away as if you're a baby.

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23 F
So here is the thing! I had a relationship and we spend most of our times together so we don't really have to chat or talk on phone that much. Recently while i'm trying to get to know people I observed something about my self! The guys don't want to keep the conversation with me (over text) I know the problem is me because it is happening with multiple people. I know people see me as a very serious, conservative and such kind woman but I'm still wondering if there is something wrong with my chatting skill. Please drop some point.

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Hey I'm a girl here ik what ur gonna say it's a sin and we're in Ethiopia I clearly know that but I don't have a friend to tell this about u don't have to say anything I just want it out of me I'm lesbian so what we all have done sin I wanna date a girl I have dated guys before but I just find my self more attracted to girls but I don't know how to find a girl who's okay with this I'm surrounded by homophobic ppls I don't even know how I'm attracted to girls but I am trust me I try fighting it beka engdi this is who i am and also if u interested I am 😁

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I have some questions for the religious and I'll ask em from time to time in a thread of vents, here's 1 for now (for Christians); In Genesis when it's describing the order of creation plants are created before the sun so how do they live without a sunlight, and the Author also seems to think there was a light before the creation of the sun what source is that? and don't u say that source is god cus then every identity of ur god will crumble but if u think it is I'll tell u why It contradicts it

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I hate you!!!! I truly hate youuu when I am a loving person. Every day of my life seeing you makes me sickkkkkkk you have brought only pain and trauma for everyone not a single love i have for you. You are a disgrace and living with you makes my hatred even worse. I hate the women you have become i even hate to touch you the only reason i'm keeping this secret is to save my father from heartache

#Relationship #SexualAssault
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. Hey , so I’m 21 muslim girl
And I’m in collage and will graduate next year in sha allah so i recently got married and I don’t wanna get pregnant before my graduation so i want you guys to suggest me the best contraceptive with less side effects ( especially that doesn’t ruin my skin and doesn’t cause excessive weight gain ). If there is Any gynecologist or family planning related health care providers or people from experience here you’re warmly welcome 😊 thank you!

#Family #Relationship #Adult
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I'm 18F, a freshman. It got kinda hard being away from my hometown and I take long to adapt another environment and stuff. So after 2 weeks since I got to campus, things started to change. And there was some guy who asked for my number and we got together a few times. I'm not sure about his feelings like he told me he liked me but I still don't know if it's as a friend or not. And falling was not the plan, I can't afford dating rn. but if I spend more time with him I'm pretty sure I'm going to develop feelings for him. And I just got here. What do I do?

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The thing is i want say
Peoples who got a person by ur side be thankful for GOD
The one who chek up on u randomly who calls you just to hear your voice to be sure that you are okay and doesn't let you sleep with busy mind and bad mood be Thankful for God
Be thankful for getting obsessed person with you. Good peoples are gift from God gift for you whole prayer. keep them!
Trust me !you all are lucky

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hey everyone...i need answers on this, it's actually for the guys.
Is it a turn off when a girl looks too young? I mean I'm 23 but people tell me I look like a high school kid.

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Once i loved women  ...i have always thought them as A God given creations for the world specially for me ..and i wanted to have one of you as mine and to be forever with  but the thing is these creations are egoistic and full of them selves so as you show them how deep your love is then there ego gets high too and they think they are God (of love)well when it comes to them (Goddess ) so i loved one of them treated her like a widower dad who looks after his only daughter  but all that was just boosting her feminine urge to think there is no lover than her for me and she acted well bad so i had to call it quites but uk this love thing don't go away quick then i heard that she be telling her friends,  my friends  we was never together , and i was ntn to her now thats the real heartbreak for me so because of her i hated these creations of God  , i physically hated them so i started dating her sister  treated her like shit and she got hooked and i cheated on her with her best friend  then i broke up with her and the so cold first gf started calling me meet up and shit and i said okay so i got back with her sister and for a day and i was there with her  with her sissy and she was well trying to burn the place and shit and the sisters turned on eachother and i left them there fighting ...after having sometime to myself (5 days ) i started both sisters friend group  and well the thing i learned is girls betray there girls the time they think they got competition bro they even started telling me shit abt there other friends and i was havinggg blast since i never gor exclusive with non of them   i manipulated all of them in to think they have to be worthy to be my girl and they should have smtn more to offer than the other friend bro the amount of blow jobs and hand jobs i got in two weeks  , i have never seen girls give gifts and shit bcha i loved itt aygeltsewm now all i want is more more manipulation. More treating girls bad . More geting them hooked and imma have more as it should be  .....

And i know that so cold friend group is member here and am pretty sure uk who i am ik its been like a month since i talked to each of you but i never stopped thinking bout you so you should give me a call specially naomi 

Fyi all this happened in a year now we 21 so many heads to get right 😂😂

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hey guys,i have a question ena its urgent!!beteley doctors betmelesulgn ena recommend metadergut negr binor i really appreciate...So the thing is me and ma gf had sex, then koyetn we ate enkulal yalew megeb,after that she took the postpill. ena the question is befit lay i've heard enkulal drug'n makshef endimchel or endaysera madreg akem endalew ena do u guys think it works for this pill too??.... cuz we ain't know shit,ena other selsu metawekutn negr or experience yalachu sewoch yehone negr belun
thanks

#HealthComplications #Relationship #Adult #Teen
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Have u ever felt like life is a prison or is it just me...i always  felt like i am in prison cuz I came here without my will and I couldn't leave it with my will...i don't want to be here but i am still HERE for god's sake! 😤

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I'm 24 f me and my bf start relationship before two month our relationship starts when l change my office bcoz there's a shortage of people in their office and start working in the office that he works he's on sick leave when he heard about l'm starting working there he send me text like hi how are you l'm so happy bcoz your my staff bla bla he know me before l know him too but we didn't talk each other and he started calling me text me alot we start met in person everything goes so fast he kissed me on the second date actually he's very good person very kind,supportive,protective and we started also talking about marriage in one month he told me about he want to marry me and also his family and friends also forced him to marry some one l thought most of his friends are married and he tells them about me they were so happy he tells to everybody about our relationship l met also his sister and his cousin l told him to stop talking about us bcoz it's only one month we need to know each other but he didn't listen me and suddenly l got his id guess what he's 40 that's why he want marriage like this l was shocked bcoz he don't seems like that he have good looking do exercise alot l convinced my self it's normal and age doesn't matter as long as he's good to me but it takes time to accept this and finally l accept it the main problem is we had sex 5 times until now but he's dick is very small we never do after second round he don't know any position with out missionary after the second round his dick also take like 30/ 40 minutes to start again it's so boring and l start losing feeling and l tell him like I'm not happy and want to sex more and he said are you serious we have sex why don't you like it l can't explain detail and l said just leave it we ended the conversation please guys help me do l continue this relationship

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Hello Gyus,
I am stressed out help me.
I've sent my vents here a couple of times and it was really helpful😊 n This one is not about me... I have an older brother who have a substance addiction (khat and cigarettes) he is 3 yrs older than me I am 23 now. Other than the addiction he is graduate but he ain't got no job and he constantly got in quarrels with our father n other family members except me and there and some bothering family issues even for me enkwan sus lalebet sew... Now a days I get very sad watching him leading this kind of life, he has developed almost all kinds of mentality (-ve)  that a drug addict might develop. He starts to care less abt him self n bla bla that makes me sick even when I am dressed nice and look what he is wearing it breaks me. I ve tried to talk him many times but eventually it doesn't work He says okay but.... What can I do? How can I help him? Is there anyone who have experienced this kind of thing?
Thank you!

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Hello guys i was scrolling on IG and i have seen quote that got me interested and says "Psychology says when you are ignored by someone you love or by someone your care about the reaction of the brain is the same like when you have physical pain" is that true guys

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Hey guys so good news is am about to graduate in 2 month,the bad news is even tho am so excited about it here is the thing there is this girl in our class that talks shit about me like idk what i did to her or what her problem is but every time we see each other she just likes to joke how am bad at everything and i need to just quit coz its a waste of time blah blah.... if she only said it once we might laugh about it and forget but whenever she gets the chance she makes me feel like am worthless and am starting to doubt my self and lose confidence... deep down ik am good at what i do even if there are some mistakes i make but rn idk what to even think about and my mind is telling me what if She is right ,and this is making me depressed

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Hey
I need your advice guys there's a guy (he's my ex) he have a gf and sometimes we talk like any other person and he want to do stuffs with me I want that too but as I told u he have a gf and I don't wanna mess up his life and now we're not good...I mean last week we were gonna meet up at the afternoon I canceled the plan at last min what should I do I want him and he want me too but he don't wanna end up with his gf ...I don't want that too ....so confused rn😅

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I see a lot of u guys in here struggling with porn and masturbation. Ik its hard but the desire is much harder when ure lonely. Most of us are too lazy to go through dating and all the other requirements of a normal relationship so we just sit at home and do that shit. But quitting is easier when u have someone u can do that stuff with. So get out there, meet other people, be open about what u want and see what happens. We all have needs. Habesha girls are mostly not open to sex but trust me there are other ways to get eachother off. And as long as u can satisfy her, she will satisfy you. Just be honest with her and tell her what u want. Whats the harm?...u will both benefit. Then u can focus on other things like ur job or school. Just a thought.

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I wish you could see how worthy you are.

I promise you that there are people out there who will understand the language of your heart and what you have been through and they will show you so much patience and understanding while you heal. I promise you that your feelings, your anxiety, and your trauma are not a burden to the ones who love you and I promise you that you are capable of giving and receiving love despite it all.

I wish you could see just how worthy you are of good things, of genuine love, of deep connections, of happiness. I wish you could escape your mind for just one moment and see everything you deserve, because once you see it, once you feel it, you can't deny that it's real. You are worth so much more than the way you've been made to feel in the past, and your past experiences do not define your future or your ability to be loved the right way, to be loved at all. I hope + you find it in yourself to open up your heart again, just a little more each day, and let a little bit of love back in. I hope that in doing so you begin to see all the things that are meant for you finding their way to you, and I hope you acknowledge that you are worthy of it all.

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I'm the kind of person that takes awhile to love but when i do i love so hard unfortunately that ended up in heartbreak.everyone heals differently.for me, i don't just get over love that easily.I think i finally feel like I'm at a point where im starting to become truly happy.i still have a long way to go but i've also come so far.what helped me the most was i stopped asking "why me?" and started asking ''what am i going to turn this pain into to better my life''?
Getting your heartbroken is no joke.it will consume you if u let it,trust me.i wouldn't wish that pain on anyone,even someone im not on good terms with.if you're going through it am so sorry, and ik it doesn't seem like it rn but you will be okay i promise.keep going no matter how long it takes ,no matter how hard it takes.there is no time limit to how long you can heart.❤egziabher ale..

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Am scared to have a relationship with a guy , i will be 21 on July and i have never even done my first kiss..it not because am scared if he hurt me maybe little but the mean reason is i hear so much stories and their is no trust , sometimes there will be no love they will just play this mind game

I only want to be in a relationship with someone who i can trust fully and love him with all my heart and i also want him to do the same

Also is it normal to think to be with only one person and wish him to be your last like having family with him thing like that

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Hey y’all I’m 20f and I’m 2nd year software engineering student and I’m here to ask if there is any software engineering student or related fields like comp or.. so my question is how do you guys manage your TIME. Me for instance I spend the whole day watching movies or doing some bullshit things menamn ena same circle everyday. I always wish to be a good programmer but I’m not working on that. Imagine being so sleepy and dream to be a good programmer in short I’m a dreamy person
Btw I’m a kinda quick-witted student so if you guys መተባበር me I’ll be a good programmer ena dmo fetari yekeflachehual

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Wsp baes
18 F on my last vent y’all told me to tell my dad how much I love him before I loose him the problem is I’m not that kind of person I don’t show love and affection because I never received it that way even tho I try I feel like it’s fake and awkward gn I love him so much yesterday beal neber ena me and my mom was getting ready to go to my aunts keza beg yzo meta ena I want to spend fasika with y’all ale keza ahun eko lnota new mnamn snlew bet yelelat Wef hogne kerewa blo hod bases endetttt end asazenkegn yene abat🥺ene ewnet abron binor des ylegn neber gn metet siteta lela sew new mihonew (abisho) eski help me out please

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How to add a comment and view comments of a vent

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I'm 22f and my bf 31 new ena esu ahun layi wede tedar enedengeba yifelgal ene demo ahun layi lemagbat zegeju ayidelewum yerase yehone neger sayinoregn magbat alfelgm ena mn larg ahun magebat alfelgem belew lela neger enedayaseb beye ferahu ena mn enedemareg alakm mn teshalegn esti hasabachun lesema

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