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18 апреля 2023 04:00

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Could be the best vent u will read today 👀
The most difficult age for any man/woman is between 24 and 29 years, the pressure to be something, to be someone is so immense. when you look around you, every one seems to be doing some thing for themselves,people seem to be living a life you only dream of.Sadly this is the age when most guys lose it,
the age when if not careful one is consumed by alcohol and drugs drugs because disappointments become too much and you find alternative ways to face reality.Worse is when a few people you studied with have been lucky enough to land on jobs, soon your circle of friends gets thinner- mostly they don't even cut you off but you be real with yourself off.Once in a while you will bump into your now well doing classmates they would offer you lunch, but not even eating meals at caffesserie will make you feel better about yourself, because in your mind you wish instead they would give you 20k and you sort your meal for the next five days.For Men the worst mistake you could ever do during this period is to try and date.let’s be honest There is nothing that a person going through such times can offer in terms of love.

This is the age when you learn a lot about life.
This stage teaches you a lot about perseverance,
about appreciating the small wins you have each
day, it teaches something about friendship, love,
career growth and personal responsibility.
....
Therefore dont lose hope because most of those
successful people you see around and adore
went through the same state,,,just keep on.
pushing....keep trying someday the door open our your time will come.write this not as person who is already successful but someone trying,doing the best he can.much love ❤️❤️❤️

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18 апреля 2023 04:00

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Ik y’all in this channel are just here to troll so I’m not addressing y’alls right now. So my question is ‘what is God to you? How do you associate him in your life, with people, with love, everyday things. What is that to you?

Sincerely a very curious mind.

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18 апреля 2023 04:00

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Hey guys, how you doing.
This isn't a vent, its a survey.
All the ladies here i want you to comment your ideal dude / lover.(be very specific?) It would also be nice if you would include your age when commenting.
Thanks!?

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18 апреля 2023 04:00

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Hey you guys I wanted to get it off my chest since I have no one to talk that I trust. So here is the thing that happened I been dating this guy for like 8 months now we were so happy and all but something was always shady and off with him but didn't cared that much cause I was happy and last month I missed my period so I did check and turns out I was pregnant I wasn't too happy or sad I felt normal and decided to tell him I called him ena he also said he wanted to tell me smtng we meet up then he was like "am leaving this country in a week" , betamm denegetikugn I was really shocked then he started telling me the thing I had never expected Mn bilegn tru " I'm married and I have two kids yane sintewawek there was a complication b/n Me and my wife ahun gn we manage to fix things for the sake of our kids . I'm so sorry yihen yakil gize kanchi ca eketilalew biye alasebikum " mnamn a whole bunch of crap mnm alalikum wetche wede bet metahu ena ahun lesum alinegerikut I don't know what the fuck am going to do I'm just 21 and in college genaaaa so ladies be wise don't be like me?

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18 апреля 2023 04:00

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Hey(M)...hope everyone is doing well let me make it short and not waste our time Been having rough days it would be nice to have someone to talk to and have a new friend If your interested you know what to do. Thank you for your time.

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18 апреля 2023 04:00

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Im a guy and my vent is for girls and pls try to answer honestly....can friends with benefit work in Ethiopia like with strange people's and just for hookups ?? I think since there wont be feeling with strange girl the sex will be rough and wild and like we see in movies and dream about ...so can that works like two people's argument for not sex but wild sex if u kjow what i mean like pleasurable and if they do tell me and what about safety since we wont know more about each other....thanks

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18 апреля 2023 04:00

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i just want to breath and actually feel like everything is ok

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17 апреля 2023 04:00

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Don’t wanna make this long, I’m 25 (M), I have been in a relationship for some years (don’t wanna mention), we loved each other so much but lately I feel like she doesn’t admire all the sex life we have, which really makes me insecure, I even think if she is meeting another guy or not (which I really doesn’t wanna even think for a sec), she isn’t that much curious about the sex we plan and so on. I wanted the thing to be clear up.

I don’t know any girl before her so I can’t make comparison and don’t know if I can continue with other girls either if she left me. The question is should I try some sexual relation with other girls?

FYI: I’m a little sex deprived!
Any one here?

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17 апреля 2023 04:00

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Heyy am 20f
Have u ever feel stack, miserable and useless in life. I haven't made any change for the past 3 years.i tried many thing really but trust me being poor girl plus being ugly suck you'll die alone.i stay in my bed 24/7 and now I don't see the point of life actually. i don't think we are created to eat and sleep. I know how my days will end before i start it .What makes me so anxious and useless is when i see my old friends online working and glowing day by day this always makes me sick not in jealousy way but i wish i was them or look like them life is unfair sometimes, pretty privilege is a real thing in order for u to survive. u have to be pretty, rich or find your path I don't think i will get that path in near future and now am tired of existing ik my families are tired of me too.i just wanna let this out thankyou❤️

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17 апреля 2023 04:00

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Hey I'm 20 m computer science student at AAU. I want to ask people who studied CS ,SE anything related. How did you study especially all the maths courses? Did you have side projects? If yes How did you manage to do that. How did you get consistent with programing? I want to get into data science/AI. What do you think based on Ethiopian demand? Any suggestions what I should focus on that worked for you.
Also how to get over imposter syndrome if you got tips
kinda all over the place but yeah any idea is welcomed thanks

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17 апреля 2023 04:00

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Love or Fear? I'm starting to have a difficult time if love is the answer for most situations. It confuses you, or at least it confuses me. I never understood what it meant / the definition is just too difficult to fathom.
I prefer fear, you can count on Fear. If people are afraid of you they won't dare go against your interests. Love has become an instrument, just some weapon in our arsenal. Fuck this world, Fuck people they don't deserve mercy.
I'm depressed I suppose

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17 апреля 2023 04:00

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I met her at highscool when I was grade 12 and she was g10, and from the moment I saw her, I knew there was something special about her. She had a warm smile, sparkling eye and kind heart. I asked her ig and started talking we became those people who chat 24/7 and walk past eachother when they meet in person. We stopped talking much and by the time i took matric she wasn't there anymore. I passed the exam and had to go to uni. We stopped talking before it began.

Then after 2 years now we started talking and I still found her interesting. We started talking more, and I find myself drawn to her even more. She is intelligent, funny, and have a unique perspective on life that I find refreshing. We share similar interests, and our conversations are always engaging.She have a gentle demeanor and a warm smile that make me feel at ease.

As we started talking, I learned that she have an autistic brother whom she cares for deeply. She spoke about him with such love and tenderness that it touched my heart. The way she treats and loves him besmab she's so special❤

Whenever someone calls we talk for hours and spend our time talking good things and nonsense at all. We talked about when we will be available for dating marriage and relationship at all. I told her long ago i had decided that I wouldn't start dating until I turned 24 . It was a decision based on my own values and beliefs. She totally agrees with my beliefs. And she said the same, that she won't date a person unless it's for marriage and can see a future with him.
We have told eachother that we like eachother that maybe we are meant to be together then there's our principle we knew that it would be unfair to both of us if If we pursued a relationship knowing that we couldn't commit to it fully.

We remained friends and continued to hang out. Our conversations are still engaging, and our time together is still enjoyable. Even though we couldn't date, we cherish our friendship and appreciate eachothers presence in life.

Sometimes personal decisions can prevent us from pursuing romantic relationships even if we like someone. It's important to be honest and communicate our feelings openly and respectfully. Even if we can't date, we can still cultivate meaningful friendships based on mutual respect and admiration. We don't know what the future hold for us!

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17 апреля 2023 04:00

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Hi am 23M unversity student at hawassa shebela neger negn ena beka the thing is am not interst in relationship malte beka fkr minamin yembal neger minem lehzegna alchalem eventhougn fkregna rasu heze alkem ena and and sile rase eyasebuk germ yalegnal what is the problem give me some advise

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17 апреля 2023 04:00

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Hey ...F 23 year let get the point
in reactly i watch poronography and masterbation ena edt adergi nw kezi neger mewetate yamechalwe?endaza kayhu bewala teru felling yelgime Please tell me guys how to stop is ...

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16 апреля 2023 15:36

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23f Am feeling like shit i know it’s holiday everyone is happy n celebrating holiday with their family but here i am alone depressed am just a failure Stuck here alone with no one by my side nothing to eat just sleeping n overthinking how disappointing i am but happy Easter to u all

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18 апреля 2023 04:00

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Hey m 24 , i never thought i would ven but here it goes so in short I'm a univ. student in SMU 4th year so the thing is there's this girl in our class lets call her D ,so i had a crush on her since 2nd year i could say i loved her as i saw her from time to time .....its l, 🤦‍♂ i know u might say 2 years and u did nothing but yea she's not very social and doesn't even use telegram, and I'm the complete opposite but when it comes to her i just freeze, and pls help me how i could talk to her i mean litrally im left with only saying it out of the blue and i know thats not gonna be right , sorry for some of the grammar, so help me out pls ?

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18 апреля 2023 04:00

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This one is for people who have a good relationship with God how did you find him? I’ve been struggling my whole life and at this point I’m losing hope I tried every religion and most churches but I still don’t know God. So how did y’all find God?

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18 апреля 2023 04:00

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What's the best way to date or hookup with girls nowadays, especially for people who don't go out much

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18 апреля 2023 04:00

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those screens at meskel adebabay be giving me anjaitor disorder every time I pass by that after work, cause they are not in sync

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18 апреля 2023 04:00

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Quick reminder y'all
We don't know if today is our last day on this earth... Yea that's it
Do with this as you please

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18 апреля 2023 04:00

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Hi, just an opinion. Vents about LGBTQ has to banned from here. We’re actually normalizing this disgusting thing unawarely.
Ps. May allow the victims, not those preaching about it or thinks it’s modernization

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17 апреля 2023 04:00

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Am 20 M and like guys i feel like am getting through evt in ma life and doing evt well like ma job mnamn gn like i got one issue like am in a distance r/ship for the moment and like yk as a guy i need sm self satisfaction (sex) mnamn sm times gn I can’t hve sex with anyone couz as I mentioned am in relationship (distance relationship) so what i do is i masturbate couz it is the only thing tht got sex experience gn demo beka now I want to stop like fr guys I don’t want to sit and do this shit can u tell me sm of ur self experience abt quitting masturbation

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17 апреля 2023 04:00

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Hello my people so it's not a vent it's just a random thing. So this vent channal was the help full thing antil telegram update its self n this text reaction or those emoji come up when u click the text like people need your help n advice not ur reaction. .. like the fuck is ?,?,? if u don't have nothing to say just fking do something.... like know when you should use em for exampl i saw this vent the girl was talking about her bf ena they don't have same religion ena she wan stay strong n she don't wan loose him to ena in staid of helping here u guys are reacting dmo eko if it was the right emoji eko tru naw the fuck is ???hooo becha please let's be help full please
And another thing please people be nice to people n don't need to act like a bitch i mean in comment section yemetjajalu people stop please
Any way much love you all i learn a lot from you guys all just ??

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17 апреля 2023 04:00

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Hey am 19 M
Bzu setoch kostara neh ylugnal gn kostara adelehum ena relationship alwedm instead abro hangout madreg ymechegnal ena 1 partner endinoregn efelgalew

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17 апреля 2023 04:00

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so hi, um ive realized ive had this complex or idk how to describe it but , i lie to myself, and its tiring . id never be able to understand myself. for example, i felt hurt by what someone said to me but i blame myself for it as if it was my fault. “maybe bcs its true” and i never know if the emotions i feel, are real or for show because im at this one point where i think that all my crying is acting bcs i lie so much to other ppl too and i do sometimes think its really really fake but , even when im alone , i feel that way , but who am i trying to even show my tears too , im basically lying to my own face

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17 апреля 2023 04:00

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So im 28 female and I have a sister she is 23. And im here cause idk im worried sick abt her. We are very very close n I love her. Idk what happened to her. She was very outgoing,very smart,very active,had lots of friends, and to top it all of she is very very Beautiful. Every person that see her immidiately tell her why do u learn nursing maybe u should try modeling. She never took it seriously tho.
Things started changing abt two years ago when our brother died. She was very melancholic I mean they were the closest, they had two years gap, he was older yet they seemed like they came into this world together. It was hard on all of us. But it took her a long time to accept it.
And then she was back to being normal again, still socializing was rough cause well they used to do everything together. I cried behind doors too. But it was clear to everyone her sorrow was the biggest. I noticed she was still grieving... one time we were in this cafe n she was fine at the time n the waitress came took our ordors asked her tefteshal n she asked her why he didn't come? she cried a lot that day as we were going back home.
But then sth strange happened my mom told me she had a major panic attack n that strangers who found her in the streets called my mom keza yizat they came home.
After that day things got scary ....

My mom told me I should move back to comfort her n I did.
She tries to leave the house mata lay yehone time I heard her getting ready to go out. I asked her where are u going. She said idk but I feel lonely... i wanna go outside, im safocated i want to take a walk I told her its late n we would get mugged its not safe to walk at that hour she started breaking down so I had no choice but to say okay.
Keza beka It got worse she wont talk normally, she would scream so loud, going crazy
We contacted a therapist after a one scary night, she said she doesn't wanna live anymore... she said she wanted to go to where he was, she said she saw him in her dreams telling her to come to him. That night seeing my mom crying her eyes out and then watching my sister as she frantically walk around the house screaming.. throwing stuff, crying in between was the scariest thing ive ever seen in my life.

Now she is taking meds, but its just not her anymore she isn't excited abt anything at all. she gets up eats then sleep. she had withdrawn from school BTW. She doesn't leave the house unless in a car cause she tries to get her self in an accident becha God idk its been hell but at least she is calm now with the meds, i think the meds that she is taking is adkami ngr so she wont think... depressed endathon enklfam yaregal so she sleeps betam bzu hours per day tsebel soon tegemralech
What should I do to help her esti
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17 апреля 2023 04:00

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Well 18m here.It's been a while since I've written here. I've been good. I was somehow was able to pass matric and enter one of the better universities that my country's able to offer me considering the result I got. So I guess I'm grateful. Its been five months since then and well I'm not sure how to describe how I'm feeling. Ever since I got into uni my self proclaimed depression has been getting worse. Mood swings are a regular and some really messed up tendencies hit every now and then. Sometimes I wonder if the unhappiness I'm feeling is genuine or something I fabricated to get attention. I have my reasons for it. Everyone has one for whatever they're trying to justify too. I was always a weird kid. Never could fit in well at school. The guilt for things I did and my closeted self crushing on guys in my class(the fact that I'm casual about it tells me how far gone I am) combined with my obvious lack of good genetics always kept me from getting along with others no matter how much I tried. I was quite the narcissist at some point because I thought I was smart and I was on the opposite side of the spectrum after getting a reality check. I've been bullied here and there ,called names and even beat up for my stupidity and almost "seta set bahri". Now thankfully all of that has passed and I got a brand new chance to rekindle whatever I lost with society and God. But as usual I find ways to fuck everything up. My addictions are still have prevalence in my day to day activities. Everything is supposed to be great now but my inability to move on keeps preventing me from being a better person everyday. I remember shit that my family did to me and what I did to them all the time. My intrusive thoughts sometimes get  the best of me and I almost go ahead with my disgusting fantasies. I'm afraid of hurting the people next to me. I'm still the weirdo in class never quite able to fit in and I'm still unable to do the things I wanna do in life. I still haven't given God any special time out of the guilt I feel . How do you break the cycle of being a never disappointment to everyone you know?

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17 апреля 2023 04:00

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Hi
I've a question for muslim sisters especially for those who r strictly religious u know like those who put on burqa or niqab(the untouchables)...so the question is how y'all sister want ur love story to be on this life like i dont think y'all just want to jump in to arranged marriage and life ur live as it goes...am not saying have a relationship neither or smt like that but would u be open to  interact if a brother approaches u(in HALAL way) or would u just ignore him and Meh!...sooo to conclude this the question am asking is as a majority of u all sisters do u think its CORRECT (btw i myself <a guy> escaped arranged marriage thing cuz i passed the entrance exam and got to college on time engi i would be on my home chillin by now)....as me i dont want that to happen so leave ur opinion about all this.

Wellahu a'alem...becha peace out

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17 апреля 2023 04:00

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It took me forever to finally let the water run down my body. I cried bending over, sobbing, clenching my attempt to silence my cry wasted in vain. All I see was you, stranger; stranger as the sky, all I see on a loop was what you did today, how you planned and execute it. Minutes passed and with the reasons I don't  know, my sobbing subsides.
     I straightened up, first washing my hair, taking my time... and over think how today unfolded. This eve was something especial to me, and you knew that ...that was why you where here early.I saw you and her whispering... you fussed around, bossed around, eat breakfast, and you went about your boring holiday tale for a millionth time. We all work toghter (not you tho) we were still together(even tho you want to shatter us like a glass). I went about my chores and she  called me asking me to go through  her phone and blast some music 😂 she never ever do that, unless there is something she wants to show me, something that would break my heart a little. And a fool that I am, went on about it. And what did I see? Right after to phone unlocked, your fucking text....a holiday gift package. I got a blind eye and pretended  like i didn't  see anything. When you were at the door, bidding  good bye...you and her alone...I heard you say sth. You turned and saw me, searching for a broken face and a broken heart... but all I gave you was a smile a cold one. You either can't read smiles or I am good at not slipping my emotions. You thought that some gift package  would hurt me, lucky for you it did...little gestures you showed to her and not me.... is not that much, but it cuts deep
    As i was scrubbing every inch of my body, the shoulder you patted, the hand you shaked, the forehead  you kissed.... all I could think was, the expectation when you eyed me, the malice in your eyes, the anger and the hate you have for me. You act like a father figure in front of my mom .... how the hell did you do that?
    As the dirt and the sweat of the day got washed away, as I got to cool all i could think was why, why, why being this much of a snake rather than come out straight  with your hate and be done with it? and it hit me ...you are scared of me!... no, no you are scared of my father, my fucking dead father and his dead legacy, it hit me again, harder this time. He took home the woman you love as a wife,  was a lot mature than you ever could be, with little empire, this got me to laugh, loud and till I got a tummy ache, till both tears, laughter chock me. A big man as you fearing the dead. You saw him in me!!

And it hit me again sadder, and dull this time ...not the why but the end result from your pov... you wanted me out, out of your life so that you could have them for yourself, to play the role of a father and a husband😁 and I got on your way. Flash back after flashback... all my darker times, all my wrong detours, and how you played them against me...we can go in detail but, that is where the devil is, already let loose a little bit of it.
  But I will tell you one thing, I will be here, I will be here for every father's  day to thank you and hug you and wish you a long live, I would be here for your happiness, and your sorrow, I would always hear you tales and you boasting ..always smiling upon  you. I want you at my wedding, at my second graduation, when I got hired for the first time, when I get promoted...all in my life.
    All this not because I see you as a father figure, or not because I forgive and forget. Hehe but only i want my little sister, even if you turn her dark with your whispers, I fucking raised her. And to always see that fear in your face, that I am able to remind you of him... oh, I will always be here, I won't  even lift  a finger to try and get rid of you. Because I want you here too 🙂

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16 апреля 2023 12:01

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Hello.

So I'm an adult female in my late 20's.

My grandparents live with us. Honestly, taking care of them is not easy for me at all. My health Constitution isn't all great but I don't try to show, though I get tired easily.

So, the thing is my mother doesn't interact much with grandma and grandpa, so to me its like me and my brother is taking care of them. I will always try my best to provide care and help but at times I'm not feeling well and can't really be available all the time. Just when that day comes or that week comes when I'm not there for them (I'll speak only for myself) all I've done goes to vain, I become the bad guy.

Then when I do things for them again, it feels like I'm doing it out of obligation not love which makes it harder to cater to their needs.

It has happened over many years, now I don't do much really. Give medicine, take food to her room, if necessary make her bed others do it now.

See? I don't do much but I'm still overwhelmed and exhausted when I've to deal with them.

I hate myself for it, it feels like I'm a very bad person because I don't take care of them but at the same time I'm so scared of this responsibility. Because I feel it's very tiresome and people are always looking for ways to make it known to us that we don't take care of them enough.

I really wonder if other children took them in, would the situation be different? Would they take better care of them?

A helper has been bought for them now but a part of me feels so guilty. I feel like I'm not doing anything for them what little I did will be taken over by the helper, I won't have much to do. Obviously now it'll give me the opportunity to just sit next to them otherwise it would always be for work.

I have studies to do, I have goals to meet, I am so lost this guilt is consuming me. I'm not sure what to do about it. How to deal with it.


I understand all the stuff like I'm lucky I've grandparents, I should cherish them and all. But so much has happened over years that even if they genuinely say something it also sounds traumatizing. It always sounds not enough. I don't know what to do :(

I really understand they are old, old people are similar to children, difficult to deal with I know but still it weighs heavy on me. My health is not allowing me to do much, (yeah it is not viewed positively if I've poor health) and not to mention my mental health, it is only recently that I've started to act like an alive human being otherwise I was as good as a dead person running around.

What do I do :(

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