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Im a guy who is interested in the concept of outercourse. Its not exactly the opposite of intercourse (u can google it). it just seems like its a safer way to have fun and avoid STDs. The thing is i have this thing (u can call it phobia) for STDs...I just dont even want to imagine myself having that let alone going to the doctor to get it treated. Not to mention, some STDs stay in ur body forever. I know there are protections but none of them are 100%. I just wonder if the idea of outercourse is strange to u people. Ik many people like sex and others avoid sex altogether and whatever people choose is fine but what do people think about outercourse?

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Hey, so here's my thing.

I'm a senior developer for a firm based in Germany, and I work in their East African branch here in Addis.

For the last couple of months my team and I were working on a project (it's a website for a college in Europe), and one of the its features is a registeration form in which students put in their personal information.

It was all flawless, and we submitted it on time for the client to review. Two weeks later I received an email from my supervisor saying that the client loved it except one thing in the registration form.

What the client didn't like was there were only two options for the gender choosing menu. He even sent me 24 (I kid you not, TWENTY FOUR) other gender options.

So now I'm so conflicted. Of course I'm going to add all the options for now. But I aspire (and also have opportunities) to work abroad in the years to come. So is this going to be a constant problem? It's not just that I've a religion and a culture, but I couldn't help but feel like the fact that I added those options, may confuse and lead some early adolescent teenagers into unnecessary decisions.

Idk. Anyways anyone who had experienced similar problems, can you share your experience please (it'd be so helpful)

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I am such a pushover and cannot say 'no' to save my life (I mean, I can gather up all my courage and say no and present a strong stance once in a while but it can't persist- which I think leads to people thinking that I was not swrious when I said no to begin with). And now this is becoming such a problem in my dating life because who tf knew men were so persistent  and pushy ende!? Since I cant deal with men I usually resort to blocking them off the bat. But what about those I can't  escape from with just a block? Those that are friend's friends, those I'll  keep meeting for work mnamn. Uggghhh becha I'm  now in three relationships regardless of not wanting  any of them. The first guy: I love him and we've been friends for long but halfway through the dating I realized we're better off as friends. I told him that as seriously as I could in three separate settings and occasions but he just cried and said to give it a chance - which I ended up doing reluctantly. The second guy: this one is long distance so that's a little better but still... we have so many friends in common and I really thought I loved him until I knocked some sense into myself. This guy is 15 years older than me and is a divorcé (is that what you call men that are divorced?) with kids. Regardless of the feelings I have for him, he is not the kind of person I want to build a life with and I am sure of that.  Third guy: we went on a few dates over the last three years never getting any more serious than just "dating". We have, at different occasions, tried to make it a bit more serious but it has never worked. He has since resurfaced vowing to correct his ways. And I freaking went on that date with him.

I like all these three men. They are all very kind and loving. But I don't want to be in a relationship with any of them. I have told them all that I do not see a future with them but they keep persisting  and I cave in. Wtf.

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Can You Lie About Virginity?? 🙆🏻‍♂️

My ex and I dated for almost a year before things took a turn for the worse. Our relationship started out with a surprising and intimate first date at the cinema where she gave me a BJ without me even asking. We quickly progressed to having sex by our third date, despite not knowing much about each other. I was taken aback as she had claimed to be a virgin, and it seemed that way to me too. However, as time went on, our relationship seemed to be filled with constant arguments and lies. That's when i realized all the details i never paid attention too, when we had sex she was telling me it was painful but i haven't felt a barrier it slid in right away. And i also remembered it was the last day of her period and she was trying to hide her pad from me.
So i asked her to tell me about it. And she told me a story how she knew this older guy mnamn how she comforted him when he lost a child and one day betachew meto he fingered her and that's it. Just like that kante gar senaderg ale biye nbr alech. i don't care whether she was a v or not I only wanted her to be honest. This girl is a liar a huge one and i don't know what to believe virginity be finger yihedal? Demo yahula weshena pretending tekemus mndnew?

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Selam endet nachu zare bekenanet and tyake endtmelsulgn felgalew fkregna alegn ahun lay engaged negn gn tnsh koyten new lemegabat hasab yalen ena gn sex issue hunuwal betnshum bihon yemejemeriyaye new kesu befit lela sew alawkm ena sex madregm lemn endehone alawkm betam yasferagnal bzu gze bene frhat mikiniyat madreg alchalnm bezih mkniyat betam feelingun yegodahut yemeselegn new he's really a nice guy Beka enat it's ok new milegn ene gn Tru smet yetesemagn aydelem I don't know what to do pls erdugn specially doctoroch kalachihu or anyone ehen neger experience yalew pls erdugn chigr wst negn I don't want to lose him 🙏

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Is there some one who is suffering form craniofacial hyperhidrosis?
Can you suggest me places to get treatment or something.

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Hey guys i'm shure gna wnd ng endalkug skip nw mtargut but for the ones who are reading this is it just me or dating lwnd lj btam kbad ngr nw like i want some girl who just can be there for me Alea is that even too much to ask i tried bzu ngr but it didn't work alea bka mnm ngr lisakaleg alchalem ik bzu good girls alu who just feels the same way that i do so is there anything i can do like to be with just that one good girl idk yt endalech i tried dating apps mnamn but i couldn't find any the only girls who talk to me are like for sure tawkuachewalachu enza be gold membership mnamn honh gba kza ye personality training ensthalen mnamn eyalu miazgug nachew 😂 bcha idk maybe mtawkut dna ngr kale pls share argulg tnx😁

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I met her in my first year of high school. She was new, and she was different. and she made me feel like I could be myself around her. We started hanging out, and we quickly became friends. One day, we were hanging out at her house, and we started kissing. It was amazing. We had so much chemistry, and we both felt a connection that we had never felt with anyone else before. We started a FWB relationship. We were both clear that we didn't want a serious relationship, but we wanted to be able to have sex and be intimate with someone we trusted. It was great at first. We had a lot of fun together, and we were both really happy. But then, things started to get complicated
Eventually, the tension became too much, and we broke up. It was a painful experience.

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Years passed since we breakup n am still thinkin bout him wondering if he do too i know i broke his heart n i regret that and cant even forget a single word he said,before i was hiding by music now themselves music started blaming me i tried and tired so many times to start a new life but i actually cant.before i give up i tried and tried and tried until i no longer can try again.I'm wishing i die and end it but i actually cant do that too i be crying every 2am n never seen happiness since he left me he tho i played him but i actually dont.... I'm  a high school student btw, forget About this utopia is dropped btw which track y'all rockin with?

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My best friend who i rly like the most don't like it when i get attention from guys ..it happened alot and she is making it so obvious this days kinda hard to ignore atp.. and she is not lesbo or anything she is also beautiful so my question is how can i make her stop?

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Its a question..


Is there a problem in dating a guy who is younger than the girl? I've never really thought about it cause i didn't think that it was going to happen to me. But recently i met  a  guy who is like half a year Younger than me.
We are in the beginning of our relationship and  friends are making it a great deal about the age difference. He is a student (but he works too) and I've finished school and im currently working.
my mom doesn't know but i am sure she won't approve cause esua lene mtasbew sew financially betaaam stable yehonen sew new. And i see stg in him that i don't see in most guys whom are older than him.

I am not going to stop the relationship because of this(we're both eachothers first btw). But i just wanted to know what y'all think about this. And especially those who are in the same position as me, please do share your experience?

Thanks😊❤️

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So idk from where to start gn ..I’m a 22 year old female just so you know ..it has been 6 years since I know him in general but only 3 years in relationship


long story short my ex is my best friend now like he tells me everything like all about his girls mnamn yehone seat lay I was good like mnm aymeslgnm nber sinegeregn nowadays gn I’m having a lot of dreams about him ena feelingu degami meta out of nowhere well actually it’s not out of nowhere like tetalten betetareken kutir bdenb close eyehonin metan ena fikre chemere and egna setoch tnsh nger hope yisetenal y’all know ena we have that attachment Honestly I’ve been struggling lately I’ll pray hulem lene mayhon kehone endirikegn or demo libe dendino lela sew bdenb endikerb but mnm mels alagegnhum eskahun I know god has his timing gn Betam bemehal tegodaw I don’t even have someone to talk to bezalay to be honest I’ve been dating a lot like I really tried but andandochu berasachew gize yihedalu andandochu demo they want sex tolo bilew ena Beka etefalew I can’t give them bdendb kalawekuachew mnamn or if we’re not married haymanoten Betam akebralew and ewedalew

Our relationship now is getting deeper because he already meet my family now but I didn’t answer their questions tho like when they ask me if he is my bf or not ..he’s matured enough to know what he’s doing fyi and just so you know I know he have feelings for me but idk what he wants in life and idk if I deserve him or not ..he’s reasons of our breakup was that he want us to work together and that he wants me to be successful so our relationship will affect that so that we can be just friends kindda bullshit! ..but lol we’re not working a shit it’s just only we both will be there whenever needed and stuff like that but one last thing trust me when I said I am the best gf I’ve been treating him very good since day one even when is hurting me zor biye alksalew enji mnm alilewm nber

So please help me idk what to do should I tell him what I’m feeling ahun? Weyis Friendshipun lasbelit huletum migodugn yimeslgnal gn please give me your honest opinion thank you !

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Hi am f 19 ye uvi temari ena here is the thing...when I was 12 yehone lij text lake ena I hate chatting n talking..i prefer be akal mawrat ena tolo text almelesm wey kekenat bewala mnamn nw ik he was trying to flirt ena r/ship selemalfelg manm wend seyaweragn bro mnamn eyalku wey text tolo balememels endayanagrugn areg nbr gn this dude bezi tsebaye almost daily text Eyelake beka friends honen ena I thought I got a good friend malet normal besti gar endemeweraw nbr menaweraw keza everyday selemenawera enem gm ena gn text metebek jemerku becha yemeslgn yaw ke besti gar bezu setaweri yalw attachment yetefetre meslogn mnm almeslgnm nbr keza he asked me mnamn ena i said no keza eyafekerkush friends mehone lene yekebdegnal belo mawrat enakum alegn ene demo ok mnam beye eresechw nbr gn hule tewat senesa tele gebche text metbek jemrku matam endeza that's when i know i fucked up....keza ke entrance bewhala ig lay text lakelgn ena tru huneta lay alnebrkum ena degemen mawrat jemeren keza ahun uvi eskengeba mawrat keteln he is betam gerami sw gn he is pagan with pente fam ena am orth ena I was trying to tell my mind r/ship enkwan megbat betasbe he must be ortho ena he is not seleza lela ngr lalmaseb mokerku keza degmo teyekegn gn i said i will never marry ( betam nw marriagem r/shipm meferaw ) ena degmen mawrat akomen ena andande couple say gerami couple nbr menhonw eyalku asb nbr keza gebi kegeban bewhalam ande uni dersen angenagnm keza 2 weeks befit he told me ke lebu mawtat endalchalgn mnamn ena I said am dating smo keza block me keahun bewhala endanawra belo mawrat akomen gn ahun betam eyasebkut nw ledewelelt wey text larg elalw gn demo he is betam nice ena introvert person ena eyetesemagn yalw just attachment issue hono r/ship gebche lejun begodaws beye eyasebku nbr ena attachment issue wey love mehonun endt meleyet echelalw

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Is everyone here a twenty something with relationship problems or are there any mature members who have kids? If there are, I could use your thoughts. I have one kid and I have been trying to have another one for like a year. But nothing happened yet. And I can’t help but it but feel kind of annoyed and anxious because we know we can get pregnant and I don’t know what is taking so long. Some part of me thinks maybe it is for the best because we have the most comfortable life just as things are but the other part wants a sibling for my son. Anyway if anyone of you went through the same thing or if there is anybody that was an only child… just say something to quite the argument in my head. Thanks!

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Hi 21F
So am like that person who is always sarcastic,who ppl want to spend time with and staff ,but I also got a resting bitch face and tall so am not that easy to approach and all
The thing is am not happy don't get me wrong am thankfull for everything I have in life gn I don't think it's enough.
I really get suffocated when I think about my future,what if I don't make it,what if I won't live the life I want those things worry me,
Don't even start about dating guys irritat me I always attract troubled men so I just stoped doing that
And focused on my studies.
I also wanna leave to town but I can't know aka I don't live in Addis.
I also don't think my parents are happy with me
So my brain works 24hr and I still manage to look happy and I hate that .it's asf I wanna escape from this life like vanish or sth

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I mate this guy at vent here four of five month ago, he vented about his  girlfriend at a time who was toxic, i kinda roasted him little bit and we hit it off. He asked for my identity and we started talking, mostly our conversation was about his girl. And i am 3 yrs older than him, long story short they broke it off. And we have been really close after that too. And i live alone so yehone ken bet meta we talked mnamn then all of the sudden i felt this attraction to him and we ended up having sex, it was weired sex mnamn anywho ever since we kinda kept doing it every now and then and we still maintained our friedship and our sex just keeps getting better and better each time. But still yene talak mehon mnamn and his freshly breakup makes me feel a bit guilty for enjoying his friendship and the sex.

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So it started like normal internate surfing and then stumbled around some ad and it led me to those websites(u know) and personally I love to read so I was not much into the videos and I started reading erotic and related writings and stories. So one thing led to another and I find my self obsessed with bdsm stuff, the bad thing about bdsm is if u are drawn into it another type of sexual activity starts to become not enough and u start to feel some sort of way. At first I was even fighting with my self not to go there but i always failed and go to those stories and read more and more and more until I started to ask if there was anyone who is like minded and interested in this stuf, after a hard and long searching I find this girl and we did somethings but we didn't continue due to the distance between where we lived, then I find several other girls but most of them are into this lifestyle for money so I had to live them too. I'm not saying it's right or wrong but its hard to be into bdsm and live in Ethiopia. I'm starting to lose hope, I'm a male in his mid 20's and its frustrating because whenever I get into any relationship I always look for that and I will end it because they dont even know what bdsm is or are not interested so I eventually lose interest and end it.
Ufffff

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Am just confused and it feels good to ask strangers for advice uk😁 the thing is i had bf 1 year ago and he is my 1st so i tried to be the perfect gf thinking he is the one lol😂 specially since i read a lot of romantic books but it didn't work he wasn't committed so i left and now i fond my self not interested in dating i mean i reject and ignore men's that show interest. mostly bof there age am interest in older men's but zn i don't want to date forever really and i know am not in no hurry to stress about it(am 20 so now i have to work on myself and i am) but i think he makes me hate men's and the dating staff and smt i wonder if i ever love a man and talk to him feely without felling insecure do u guys think am stressing for nothing and have to wait or am ruined?

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Lollll isn’t it funny? It is yeah .
Isn’t it funny that all men are manipulative?
Don’t ever say that they’re not the same there’s this good guys out there nahhhhh go and get your good guy for you I’m fucking tired of you all lies and bullshit. I don’t know why they’ll never grow. They’re childish and bullshit .

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So, how are you guys

I wanted to vent about my problems and stuff. But when I think deeply about this, gratitude struck me. I mean what are we honestly complaining about?

Some girls? Relationship? Finance?...this kinda stuff is part of human endeavor. What did you expect?
Every girl you see will fall in love with you for who you are bla bla? You want people to take you seriously when you have no leverage, nothing to offer.

It's just the fact that we're alive and experiencing those traumas is GOOD. Imagine a life without hardship, we would have no vulnerability, no story to tell.

So whatever pain you're going through at the mome, realize you'll die someday, leaving everything behind
Isn't that a relief?
So why whine all the time. Why not just live.

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Hi guys I'm 20 m I hv a gf and she started working night shift in club she a dancer I told her not to work as bf but she went behind me and started working I asking her choose me or the work she choose the work

We hv been together for 1 year and when we started dating we were really good we used to call each other day and night

But not its been a month she started work the club thing and we barely talk

What should I do I can't move on bc I really love her but she is hurting me asf

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24 female...Wanted to know are there muslim girls here who think they're late to get married and jst get anxiety sometimes

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Hey guys i just wanted some advices from y'all like i need help to get over shit so quick cause i got my heart broken n i don't know what to do I'm being like smoking my pain out i need some thing or advice make me get tf out of this trap idk if I'll be alive bezi keketelku

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Question For ወንዶች

Why do y'all hate virgin girls?
Hate is a strong word, prefer yematedergut bemilew ykeyerlgn..

Why tho?

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Imma share something that has frequently happened to me.

So im a girl. And when a guy talks to me i respond (either through text or in person).
Thats all i do, "respond". Unless they get disrespective ofc.
But they all say woww you're too nice or thank you for not being like the other girls, and so many more.
And I'm like what did i do? All i did was respond to what they say or ask.

Ena girls what do you say im genuinely curious.

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Hello
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I don't get it why people in this channel ridicule when someone talks about short-term relationships or fwb. I mean it's not your place to talk shit about that person. It's your right to express your opinions by saying how bad it's for that person but insulting or making other remarks as if you are better is laughable. Even if you don't do this fwb thing in other part of your life you have faults of your own. So let's just be civil in how we express our opinions. Making those kind of remarks when some girl express her past or present sexual experience or when even guys talk about how much they are in to sex & fwb isn't correct. Just express ur ideas as a grow up or shut up please. Tnx

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Hey guys so I'm about to vent about my cat(pls don't judge me), he's an orange sweet boy. Yesterday he went out into the neighborhood and normally he knows not to stay late,he knows his time. So I thought it was one of those days and kept waiting for him until midnight but he still didn't show up. Finally it was morning and I heard him meowing so I ran and opened for him, I couldn't hold my tears when I saw him. He's basically drenched in mud, thorns and mind you it was raining the whole night so he was really drenched. on top of that he was limping and when I picked him up to see his legs the right side was totally broken and dangling! I couldn't take it I cried till I got a headache, I didn't think in a million years that I would be attached to an animal like this. After that I washed him and I gave him some samba(lungs), I contacted a veteran and he's gonna see him tomorrow morning. Anyone seeing this pls pray for my sweet boy he gets well soon and please don't call me spoilt for caring for an animal

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Was in r/s for 4 yrs tho it had tnansh breakups in it,3 years without seeing each other (bcha online). During this time she loved me the most, she'd do anything for me. She loved me more than anyone. Idk how to explain it but she truely loved me so much. Me was not that much in love with her, i was the reason for the breakups i mentioned above and she was the reason for us to get back (getting back is her thing). And the 1 year we loved each othr more for the first 6 month aaaaand at the beginingof the second 6 month things changed idk what rly caused that but....she started to idk unlove me or sth and i was insane when i realize that coz i was unlike her, i was loving her more and more. At the end of the year we broke up she totally got over me and here i am after six month missing her the exact same way i do before.its hard guys...it's rly hard betam ena what shall i do?

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And... he got married
just like that

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