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Hey guys. Please explain this to me. And tell me who’s in the wrong. So I came to my mother to vent to her about smth that’s been bugging me. And guess what she ignored and didn’t listen. So I tried to get her attention and told her to listen. She told me I’m listening with my hears not my eyes. I told her : but still u aren’t paying attention there is a difference. When u keep on looking at ur phone and not showing any kind of interest means u aren’t listening stop gaslighting me. Then She started to tell me how in the past I didn’t listen to her when she wanted to speak about herself and shit. Like wtf am I dealing with a child or my mother?

She has to make everything about her. It’s either she’s going to cut me off and start speaking about herself or start this kinda of bullshit arguments

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Wtf is wrong with us like why r we all messed up bruh like we're all living the same life we're sad depressed lonley feeling useless like why what's with the generation am 20 and i have never done one single tekame ngr in my life whyyyyy istg am mad..am mad by myself am mad by the government(they dont even know what they're doing)....yetmeta mngest ytmeta hager yetmeta tewled am mad by this channel too idk why.....me being a girl rasu it makes me mad sometimes....ik eykbaterku endhone am sorry

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Hi everyone how u doing, so back in 2015 a really embarrassing thing happened to me at school fyi im a university student and our department have these courses that are practical like u literally go to fields, research, travel alot mnamn and we went on our first field trip it was for 15 days and we stayed on a public school so they gave us the girls one room and the boys another room wich is next to us, i was on my period and i have a heavy flow so on our 3rd day we finished our work and research for a day and went back to the place we were staying and i wanted to change my cloth my panties and stuff and i kinda got nervous changing in front of girls, so there was a spare room next to us so i grabbed my clothes my panties my pad and went there i thought i closed the door but actually i doesnt close i was in a rush so i took my clothes off and like the moment i took my clothes of 3 of my class mates just opened to door they were boys🙈 i was butt naked standing there i yelled at them they were in a shock and just left i was so embarrassed but thats not all on our last day we planned to have a party ezaw eyalen and the brought some drink the girls brought food mnamn we were getting ready and i was eating my dinner and they have started the party and my male frnds wanted me there and they were kinda wasted and the took me and i was kinda thirsty for water and asked them if they could take me to the girls room so we were going as i was saying they were kinda wasted and its dark so i couldnt see much so we pased the girls room and went straight to the boys room i opened the door and boom one of the boys that saw me naked was naked from the waist down changing his cloth i ran away quick, bdr be bdr ylal endezi nw
Anywho no onw has talked about it so thank God, love u guys😘

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Bro why is my cat so damn h0rni😭he was a good cat and now he found a female cat in our neighborhood and he just won't come back,all he does is chase her all day and all night😂if anyone has a cat here is this a phase for sometime or will this behavior continue and i will end up losing him 😭

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How do they do it ?
This over archivers ?
How do they ?
Where do they get the excitement and inspiration ?
How are they disciplined
I regret my teenage years , i don't want to regret my 20's

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I am a Guy in my early 30s. when I graduated like 10 years ago, it was tough to get a job (not like these days tho), so when I was 25 I started my company with 10k savings now I’ve around 20’staff but at the end of the day I always feel lonely. I work 70 hours a week and once I start a task I won’t stop . Any one has any advise how i can have a work life balance and meet people along the way as I am not getting any younger

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Emebeten I love LOVE.

I never succeeded in that department tho. That road of mine is Soo traumatizing. The ache my heart saw ever since I started dating it’s literal hell but never got afraid of loving again because if someone whom I love never wanted to stay in my life, ik that God is removing them so as they won't hold the line for someone who loves me back.

I never said “from now on I will be cold hearted bitch I will treat the next guy like shit before he treats me like shit” I mean nope I can’t let them win and change me. I came to this world with full of love and I will leave with the same energy. Bcha endeza new elachuwalew. Aight bye

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Hello,
So here is my story.
I have a best friend for almost 5 years we met in Aastu first year and we were inseparable, I dated a guy who was stupid enough to let me go ena it's been almost 4 years since I dated anyone. While I was dating this dude my best friend was always angry and so protective tho he had gf and broke up bc of how he treats me well + she is a cheater caught red-handed. It was obvious that there was some tension between us keza he went to India to study. Later COVID came up and mixed things upside down and my family member passed away. I wanted to go out of Addis and he finished everything and sent me to Europe.
Now I am a highly respected woman by my colleagues and my Ethiopian community here + getting 6 figures. I am still v and it is concerning my family & friends even tho I am 24 and my work is very demanding of attention and caring for the community and I love what I do and One day I will be president that's obvious 😂 so this past 4 years while he was outside of the country he dated 1 girl and he said it's weird I don't have any feeling for them and said okay. And he promised he would come to where I am and we will have a wonderful life together. Before 9 months ago my cousin told me he was talking to her snap pic the same one to both of us and it hurts so much. I remember I cried and was mad at her about why she hadn't told me earlier even tho she knew everything about us. I am not blaming her or him there is nothing official and he hasn't even told me he had feelings for me.

So April 1st is Fool Day and I texted him that I like him so much and he said he is so happy that I told him and he will come where I am and see where this thing goes and I told him it's April the fool and he got angry and just said okay leave it. But in the past years, there was flirting, him calling me bb, love & wifie, and constant texting of morning, and evening texts and calls. And I was tired of rejecting people so I have this ring and when anyone asks me I say it's from him and it was easy for me.

Lately, I gained weight and lost my self-confidence but he is the only one who calls me beautiful. So I need your advice now bc he is coming here to study on the same campus and I am so happy and so confused about what to do or what to be.

His family adores me and I support him with financially and literally everything. So please help me out to clear the air. He is genuine and kind but my sis doesn't like him don't know why maybe it's bc he tried to flirt with my cousin who is so hot.


So please I need your advice. What can I do?
Sorry for this long text it's my 5 years story 😊🥰

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Hello everyone 22 years female
There something scared me alot! The thing is my freind introduce me to her cousin and he live in USA then we get know each other and he is such a gentleman and have good job and income in USA and he asked me to marry him and i said oh woww thats so fast and he makes me do everything quickly mnamn then i tell my mom about him and she was really happy and excited she talk to him over a phone and she was really amazed and she agreed to the marriage and told our all our relatives she is over the moon since then he was so cold i dont know why he said he will come on septemeber and sent the shemegelena to my family and make nikkah cermoney and but he canceled the septemeber plan and make it on decemeber and im afraid what if he cancelled the wedding too 😭😭😭😭

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I am 23F I think i have a piece of advice for girls. look girls never ever let a man go who checks on you who cares for you and who looks for a reason to meet you because you will never find the same person but karma... i had a person whom i know like 3 yrs to now... he truly loves me and it really shows in his eyes but he doesn't often tell me he loves me but he usually tells me that through texts i think he is afraid of me in person we just talk normal things he is absolutely a good person with a limited past life he always tries to find ways to make me happy relentlessly for almost a year ... and he clearly told me that he loves me very much and wants a commited relationship and i don't think i am ready for that.. and apart from that there were pressures here and there to leave him who used to tell me he is not a good person and he wants to take advantage of me but he never asks me for sex or any physical touch he only kissed me on my cheeks.. I never saw anything bad on him and then i left him for someone who used to text me and abandoned the good guy after that incident i am sleepless i started to miss his moments the gifts he gave me and the like... and i called him to check on him but he don't answer my phone calls he doesn't reply my texts but i heard he's completely forgotten me ... i need him now so badly what shall I do?

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Egziabher Ymesgen, life been so smooth the past year and everything aligned pretty well. I own a business along with my father, and there’s no financial struggle that I’ve been facing for the past 3 years I’ve broken the cycle of being broke. Even though managing the place is a bit harder since I am new to this environment, but it’s okay it’s only a matter of time till I know the system. And I get constant support from my father so that alone helps me in so many ways.

My father, well he’s a good dad tbh buttttt he always makes a clumsy decision and it will always backfires to me. So our business is a PLC and the share are me, my dad and his wife (they became together last year) I used to know her long time ago and she is the kindest person ngl but lately we started spending time together on th workplace and no matter how sweet she is I always say energy never lies so something was off about her. And I tried to just ignore my subconscious mind and no matter how much I tried to be as positive as possible there’s this tiny voice inside me that tells me otherwise.

So fast forward she started to get involved in the work fully and we have our own tasks which aren’t related to eachother. She got confused at the first day and I get it she can ask how it will be done but she started asking questions FOLLOWED by scolding making everything my fault. I put a smile the whole day and managed to answer her questions but she can’t stop saying harsh words to me when my dad wasn’t around. I can’t help but laugh because my subconscious mind said “I fucking told you so”. And she was pissed and started saying you’re laughing at me bla bla and left the work making everything personal. And the next day she came I just smiled and hugged her, my dad was there and she told him that I laughed at her while she was lecturing me. My dad literally said “my daughter doesn’t need lecturing she’s mature enough and what were you expecting that she will cry?” And she got up and left again 🙂

She is the third wife of my father. There was mom, then another woman, then this woman and from my second stepmom never had this evil stepmom vibes she was an angel. And now I think I will get the evil stepmom vibes that I’ve been dodging my whole life. Kebad new bcha to work in this kinda environment. Half of me is telling me to get my share and leave to start a business alone and half of me is telling me that I shouldn’t be this weak and ignore her and work my way up.


Ufff it feels soooo good to write it.

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Ufff I'm tired of me for real
I hate the way I get attached with a person
Ik it will end up hurting my self but I can't stop it I can't stop being delusional ughhh😭
I'm starting to feel un worthy I don't know why I push peoples around me
I feel suffocated when I have too much person to text or something
I hate the way I'm always available even though they are not.
I'm feelings low this time ☹️😔
Demo eko I crave attention but when I get it, it stressed me again 😒😒

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I wanted to become so much as a kid. But I just want to see the world and die. This is the only thing that can motivate me to even wake up from bed in the morning. I don't think love exists. Since my mother passed all I wanted was a place to call my own, where I can feel I belong sth in common to have with my mother but 3 yrs passed and I am still lost. I am just L.O.S.T. she was supposed to guide me. Why lose sth after getting comfortable with its better to just live without sth instead. Too much pain too much to handle. I am going insane. Breaking down with every little reason I got. I think I am getting ready to give up on everything and go. Maybe this will put me at ease.

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The male species are the most interesting beings created. There are over hundred types of male species in this world. Through my 18 years of experience i only got to experience few of them and they all taught me one thing, Humbleness. There are millions of things I admire and love about them, I must say I love the male species… for instance I love the insecure ones cause they give me a good laugh and remind me of how far I’ve come from my past self and ohh I love the egoistic ones they remind me the feeling of pity and how better I am and the sensitive ones as well, good gracious how they love their own species, very remarkable how defensive they get when they feel the other species are better than them, they remind me of strength. Again I love men, and I love all of their characteristics, good or bad, they’re not perfect and the truth is, they will never be, but hey they’re trying, they tend to leap before the gun and yet because of your haste I have learned and I will always laugh and love you.

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So why is it that I am not filled with emotions malet it's not that I am empty it's just nothing is new and the earth is an old planet atleast when u compare it to a persons life expectancy ena people have been around for decades and everything has already been done and everything has already been said so when u sum it up "there is nothing new under the sun"
So my point is that it's all about u and ur challenges and how u cope with them, so fuck it ye lifen challenge endatsemut and i know u can win !

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Maybe u are asking how did i felt zis way, wzout even being together. But trust me ever since we started having conversation on TG I just feel like I knew u for a long and i got comfortable wz u, and maybe u know that too.

Please take care of your self and know that u ar always in my thoughts and in my heart.

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We met the boy on social media. on the date app. we used to talk a lot. He's Very nice, humble, real person, he has the kind of personality I want.He used to call me. But he still wants us to think like normal frds. Then When he talks to me, when I meet you, this is how I hug you, this is how I kiss you . Again, he doesn't want a date. I liked him very much.. everything is the way I want. we talk everyday. he used to call me. but he still wants us to think like normal frds. Then I was very angry. when I thought why would he run away and zegahute.I decided not to talk to him. One day he talked to me and I was out having fun with my friends. he said come out then he kissed me in the car. I was very happy when I thought that we would just go on a date.endatasebiwu alegn be religious coz we talked a lot would be hard for us and I agreed. Keza one night I was having fun with my friends and I called him. he doesn't pick up often, kezan I was taking a room. that night he came to see me. we had sex... we talked a lot and i was happy. ..after all I understood that our religion won't keep us together, and I hung up on him. He wanted to talk to me, but I couldn't talk to him, then he agreed to the situation and said ok, then ቆጨኝ sawera ayaweragnim.i was hurt so much that I left him.after sm monthes i started talking him He told me that he was going to marry. I gave up hope then i kept quiet After a long time, he talked to me one night. How can I talk to him? I gave him a normal answer. After that day, I tried to talk to him, but he didn't talk, and I kept silent .I'm starting to miss him again...but I don't want to be disturbed, what should I do?...

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I lost my mother 6 months ago and on the day she died she was @ hospital her breath stops while i was feeding her with NG tube (through nose) and to be specific i couldn't forget every seconds of this time whenever i start to do smt this bad thing comes on my mind making me depressed ...anyone there who passed through the same thing eski share me how u could get over with this type of thing?

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I was using a carrot as a dildo and accidentally shoved it in my ass and now I can't get it out, every online tip tells me to just go to the hospital but I live in a very homophobic third world country and there aren't many explanations for this, what am I supposed to do now?

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What am I ?
What is happening ?
Why am i not normal ?
why is it that i don't know about myself ?
Am i even real ? How sure can i be ?
Why is past so vague ?
I don't remember much about it
What is it that i don't have but others do have ?
How do i know that ?
I have only one plan , if i keep going on like this I will fail
I didn't succeed last time as the way i wanted
I never reached my destination i was always "almost there" but not really there ?
Why am i not disciplined
Why am i so shy , yet so brave ?
Why do boys freak me out ?
Why am i not an achiever ? But I sacrificed it all for what ? To be an average ?
I stayed home when others were having fun outside (not really because i wanted to study more but because i was shy) but i stayed home and i studied , i didn't sleep and i studied (and sometimes i watch lots of Gilmore girls ) but i worked
And i do love myself , but i am tired of being average
Why is it that i don't get excited for things
Why is that ?
I am almost 20 years and don't tell me i am young , just don't because i am not
Who knows of the future huh ?
I want more
More than what i am
I know i am capable but i keep letting my laziness get in
I know i did succeed on certain things and oh i am so proud of myself thanks to God
But i want more of it
And less of madness and confusion and misery

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Hello,So my bf is a Muslim am a Christian we became together almost a month but we know each other for years.we know everything about eachother.I was so hesitant to be together mainly because of religion and distance relationship but just started to see things.He on the other hand is doing a lot of things to be with me, asked me to marry him and us to live together.I found out one day that he texted a girl telling her he doesn't have a gf,had lunch with her and drop her off to her house.So I stopped everything thing with him.but he didn't even consider it as cheating cause it's allowed to have other wives as a Muslim and it was the first day he talked to her.after that he promised that he will only be with me.but I just couldn't believe him and don't think he even love me.I have 2 questions.1.Muslim women, would you allow your man to have other wives and how do you really feel about it?2.christians I know it's not allowed to be with non Christian but can anyone site where in the bible,I just need to make a decision

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Have you ever felt suffocated??? Like a compression in your heart...you hate it when people start having a conversation with you so you try not to be rude. Alawkm beka gra gbt blognal maryamn😥😢😢😢 mn lbelachu I have thousand of things to worry about ena beka I feel the weight in my shoulders, I try to distract my self gin hule ayseram yejemerkutn sira sichers keza tnishye gize enkuan sagegn bufffffffff my mind starts to go everywhere.

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Might be a long post so bear with me. Imma keep this anonymous, despite being certain pretty much anyone who knows me would pin the post to myself. Imma conceal my identity either way to distant myself from you creeps and stalkers tho. I have noticed a certain trend as of late. A rise in the number of non believers and agnostics seems to have peaked in the past few years in mama Ethiopia. If you asked fellow religious teachers of any faith, they almost certainly accredit it to the "devilish" nature of the West, and how it bestowed on us a form of thinking that is not our own. In this day and age, coming out as a non believer or even a skeptic to your close ones might seem like the most difficult task imaginable, especially if your upbringing involves your being FORCED to be taken to your place of worship every fucking Sunday morning despite your best attempts otherwise. Which is sth everyone, including myself can relate to. But as you grow older and older, ridding yourself of all the stuff that's been fed to your once naive mind, you start to realize that maybe, just maybe, that life of faith and religion isn't for you. Maybe, just maybe, there is no heaven or hell. And even if u happen to be mistaken you don't care enough to lead your life in such a way that would end you in your desired destination, but rather lead it with regards to your own principles and morals, but not in hopes that doing things X Y Z would help you inherit the kingdom of heaven or what not. You just try to live your life to the fullest, knowing there is no higher being judging your every step as if he has nothing better to do. Like forgive me here, but if you had all the powers that God is presumed to have, would you really bore yourself with all the petty shit humans do everyday? Or would you perhaps create more universes and have by colliding the stars and all that shit. I digress????????. Coming back to topic, the problem with our society is that we like to shame anyone who does not blend in with the crowd. We have this sheep mentality where you're either with us or against us. We are not open to having controversial conversations regarding anything, and if we have that one outside the box thinker friend who brings up these topics, we are so scared of bursting our bubbling and expanding our comfort zones that we immediately shame him/her for thinking differently and almost immediately force him/her to STFU. Becha I'm sorry if this offends some people as I'm sure it might. All comments are welcome and will love to laugh my ass off with your mean ass comments that will surely tell me I'm destined for eternal fire???? and stoning or what not.

TL;DR society is changing, accept it and let's all move forward by easing down on the judgment bemariam

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yehe vent nw? ay gn new. vent new.
bestemejemria for the ones that are depressed welahi lek nachu. lek nen. koy i dnt even know tf life is yet year on year it keeps demanding more and more of me, of us. this fucking non sense is the literal entire purpose of my existence and i dnt even understand it besrat. eyew lekolapes eymokerku aydelem gn ymr is this not utter non sense? i fucking hate my family but i love nothing more than them they r the base reason i am not killing myself, they r the base of everything that's fucked up about me but they deserve so much more out of me coz they gave me almost their all(to the best of their fucked upness allows at least.) i gotta work to support my life but my life is shit... then ppl tell u working more fixes it but then living magically becomes this impossible hill when u work harder and tf would i trust u to even be working this hard you lot said the same thing about school and the dumbest thing i will ever do for 20 years is school. and don't get me started on people only thing i will say is the world needs so much more suicide bombers. becha life rasu becomes so tasteless and senseless as the days  add on gn every one acting like maturity is the shit(i am everyone too). ene mn eyalku endehone hula alakem. gn don't kill ur self, beka tengatetut beka. dnt kill ur self in ur twenties or 30s save the shit for ur 40s coz idk but things seems to fall into some rhythm by then n if it is still non sense fuck it go out with a literal bang (also dnt kill urself if u dnt have a gun or can shot urself, ik this will make sense for sm of  u out there). but i won't kill my self in my forties either coz i will probably have kids by then n for sm reason we dnt want those to suffer but come on every one is already suffering n there r these little fucks that jst shit, eat n laugh n those we think life n ppl should go soft n easy on? balance this shit out enji. ukw we should shot kids coz if u r a manager n the company(life) is going to shit, shouldn't u start firing from the recent hires? okay i'm kidding.... i think.

and those in relationship and are unhappy, WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCK ARE YOU DOING!? you didn't birth this fuck and you got in this shit so it takes u away from the literal bullshit life is n sm how u r dealing with even more stupidity? what breed of foolishness IZ ZIZ? Just leave bitch .... LEAVE

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It's been such a long time since I vented. I haven't seen this page in such a long time that when I opened the page I found a vent back dated to Nov, 2022. I had a spare time this past week related to the holiday so I decided to go through the vents. I am just here share a 3 year worth of my life, if it helps. It's been almost 3 years since I graduated. I was a pretty average student in my class. But when I graduated I expected everything to work in my favor. Tbh I was one of the lucky ones, I landed my first job 2 months after my graduation. The pay was actually great, but the job didn't give me any satisfaction. I felt like I was doing so little for a pay so much. This went on for about 8 months. And my contract with the company ended. I had no income coming in. I had some money saved up so that kept me afloat. But it didn't last. Me losing my job and having no income, was problem on top of another problem. And I was fresh into a relationship. So, that made things so hard. I managed to land quick cash for some work here and there but it was never enough. Wuu gn wende lij honachu kisachu aygudel. Endet endemicheneke, I used to tell my girl that I was sick or busy at home so I wouldn't meet with no cash. But she was the most supportive person I could have ever asked for. She also had her own job so she always offered to pay for our dates but my masculine side would never accept it. To the point I didn't have money even for a bus. There were days I walked home. I was raised to be very independent, didn't ask my parents for any money since I was a 6 grader. Used to do assignments and help my classmates cheat to earn money. It helped me buy all the things I wanted back then. So me accepting help was like a huge downgrade. Or so, I thought. Me not being able to lean on her became one of our biggest fights in the relationship. So, I decided to give it a try, and she really appreciated it. We were really serious about our relationship and we had a clear path mapped out for how we wanted to lead our life together and get married. But it all seemed so dark at the time, I couldn't see any hope for our relationship. I was discouraged by the answers I received from my 'rage applying' for jobs. That I felt like that was it for me. Nothing better in life for me to do. (This was a year and 3 months after I lost my job) I remember this vividly, I sat her down and told her that I don't deserve her and that we should stop our relationship and not waste her time on me because I couldn't provide for myself let alone providing for her and our future family. She just stood there looking at me, waiting if I was going to change my mind. But I wasn't. So, she told me that us separating wasn't even in the cards for us. She boldly told me this is going to pass. A month from that day, I landed a job in an international organization, with an amazing pay and a job worth the satisfaction. Been working there for about a year now. I am currently involved in many career growing projects and feel like I am on the right track. I wouldn't have done it without her. I guess this is mostly an appreciation vent for her. She has kept me well above the waters. Hoping to get married soon. So, yeah I have learned that when you get tested the most, know that blessing are around the corner. God has his ways. And last but not least always stick by the people that stick by you at your lowest. Thanks for reading it through.

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Dear men and women, I am 27M and this is from my experience. I was super player and my body counts are a lot, including three some. (2F and me). but now I am lonely person. When I tell my past story for a girl she reject me quickly but I need real relationship that is why I tell my truth.

Anyway When someone has been through wrong relationships and hurt, it will affect their love life. They may become reserved and become scared to commit fully. They will start to see everyone as the same.

If your partner has been through a rough past, please understand them, show them that you are different. Don't be harsh but allow them to take baby steps until they are back to their feet again. They don't wanna make you pay for the action of their ex but it is hard to just commit again and trust so fast.

Love conquers a multitude and if someone is loved truly, they give up their secrets and return the love. Be patient with your partner.

To your continuous growth and wellness.

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Eskahun benbergn ye fkr life 2 bf nberugn gn ye ewnt fkr sayhon just mewaded nber. Ahun lay gn lemjemeriya gize kelbe yafkerkut boyfriend alegn betam enfakeralen gn chigeru.  kene befit keneberchew ex-gf ga le 4 amet abrew nberu Ena break up kadergu 2 amet alfual. Befit lay just friends eyalen esuan lalmatat Belo bizu kebad ngeroch endaderge enesu bayfelgun be family mknyat endetelyayu ngerogn nber gn yezane mnm feeling selalnbergn gd alsetgnm nber gn ahun lay dnget selsu masb jemerku 4 amet malet kelal aydelm.lene date bemadrg rejmu gize 6 wer new. gn 4 amet  betam commitment yenberew relationship endnbere megemet aykebdm.Ena ahunm dres esuan endmiwdat yisemaganal. Yehenen hasab makom alchalkum  Bezi meknyat hulem kesu reassurance etebkalehu. Salasbew ke esu ex ga rasen compare maderg eyjemerku new.

What should I do? Please help me

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መጽሐፍ ለሁሉ ጊዜ አለው እንዳለ የእግዚአብሔርን ጊዜ እንደመጠበቅ ያለ ታላቅ ነገር የለም።
እግዚአብሔር ለሁላችንም የልመናችንንም ሆነ የበለጠውን ሊሰጠን የወሰነበት ጊዜ አለው። የለመንነውን ሊሰጠን የዘገየ የሚመስለን እኛ ለመቀበል የተዘጋጀን ስላልሆንን ለመቀበል የምንችልበትን አቅም እስክናዳብር እየታገሰን ነው። እኛ ከእግዚአብሔር ብዙ ነገርን ስንፈልግ እርሱ ከእኛ አንድ ነገርን ብቻ ይፈልጋልና። . . . . . . . .  ከሰሞኑ ፍቅረኛ የለኝምና የሚያዳምጠኝ የሚንከባከበኝ የሚወደኝ ከጎኔ አለ የምለው ሰው እፈልጋለው የሚሉ አይነት ዘይት ያላቸውን ጽሑፎችን ተመልክቼ ነበር ። ሁሉም ሰዋዊ ነው። ተፈጥሮአዊ ነው። መወደድ መከበር መደመጥ የመሳሰሉት ነገሮችን የማይሻ አንድም ፍጥረት የለም። ቅዱሳኑ እንኳ በሰው ዘንድ የተጠሉት በእግዚአብሔር ዘንድ ለመወደድ ነው። በሰው ዘንድ የተናቁት በእግዚአብሔር ዘንድ ለመክበር ነው። በሰው ዘንድ አንደበታቸውን የሰበሰቡት በእግዚአብሔር ዘንድ ለመደመጥ ነው።ስለዚኽ መወደድን መከበርን መደመጥን መፈለግ በራሱ ተፈጥሮአዊ ነው። መፈለጋችን ስህተት ፍለጋችንም ስሁት አያስብለንም። ነገር ግን እኛ በሰዎች ዘንድ የምንፈልጋቸውን ነገሮች ለሰዎች ለመስጠት እስካልፈቀድን እና ዝግጁ እስካልሆንን ድረስ ፍላጎታችን ራስ ወዳድ የሚያስብለን ነው። . . . . . .እኛ ከሌሎች ዘንድ የምንፈልገውን እንዲሁ እኛም ደግሞ ለሌሎች እንስጥ። ምላሹ ምንም ይሁን ምን የምናጣው አንዳች ነገር የለም።

የማይማግጥብሽ የሚታመንልሽ ወንድ ስትፈልጊ ቀድሞ ለፈጣሪሽ ታመኚ። የምታከብርህ ሴት ስትሻ ቀድሞ በልጅነት ያከበረኽን አምላክ አክብረው። እንደ ራሱ የሚወድሽን ባል ስትመኚ ቀድሞ አንቺ ነፍስሽን ወደጂያት። ዝቅ ብላ እግርህን የምታጥብህን ሚስት ስትመኝ ቀድሞ አንተ ራስህን ካስቀመጥክበት የልዕልና ማማ ውረድ። . . . . . . . . ይኽ ካልሆነ አንቺ እንዲኖርሽ የምትፈልጊው አይነት ፍቅረኛ አንተም የምትመኛት አይነት ሴት በሕይወት ውስጥ ድንገት ቢገለጡ መገለጣቸውን አልያም መቸርህን የምትረዳበት አቅም ስለሌለህ ወይ ታስቀይማታለህ አልያም ታጣታለህ አንቺም እህቴ እንደዛው። በዘመናችን በፍቅረኛ ላይ መማገጥ ቀለል ተደርጎ የተያዘበት አልያም መለያየት የበዛበት እንዲሆን ከአደረገው ዋነኛው ምክንያት አንዱ አቅምን አለማወቅ ነው ። ለመቀበል የተዘጋጀ ለመስጠትም የበቃ አቅም ማጣታችን አልያም ለመስጠት እና ለመቀበል የሚያስችል አቅም እንዲኖረን ከቀድሞ ራሳችን ላይ አለመስራታችን ልባችን እንዲሰበር አልያም የሌሎች ሰዎችን ልብ እንድንሰብር ምክንያት ሆኖኗል። ያገኘን የተቀበልን መስሎን እንኳ እያጣጣምነው የቆየነው ፍቅር ለፍሬ ሳይበቃ መሰላቸት ያኮላሸዋል። ምክንያቱም ፍቅራችን ከቀድሞ መልካም መሬት ላይ ያልተዘራ ነውና። መልካም መሬት ወንድ ብቻ አልያም ሴት ብቻ ልትሆን አይገባም ሁለቱም ጾታ እንጂ በዚኽ መልካም መሬት አንዱ ኮትኳች አንዱ አራሚ አንዱ ተካይ አንዱ ነቃይ በመሆን ፍቅራቸውን ለፍሬ ሊያበቁ ይገባል። . . . . .ስለዚኽ የቆምንበትን እየመረመርን እኛ እንደምንፈልገው አይነት ሰው እኛው ከቀድሞ እየሆንን የፈጣሪን ደግሞ እንጠብቅ። በአጭሩ ልተንፍስ ብዬ ነው። ደህና ክረሙልኝ።

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Hey guys this thing started in like 5 months ago I think? Or it could even be a year honestly I don't even know Ena the thing is wer ke wer my period is drastically eyetefa nw likeee it is very concerning me and when I ask my mom she told me it is normal but I don't think so like dero the first day I will bleed normally malet Biyans yeza Ken I will change my pad three times gin yesterday my period came Ena believe it or not eskahun the amount of blood wouldn't even be half of the capacity the pad can hold it is very concerninggggggg like I heard from someone they had to get surgery because the blood was stuck there and I don't want that 😃😃 like👀👀👀 concerning nwww. Ena betcha if there is a doc here pls tell me if this is normal or not and if I actually need help. 😀 thank you🙃

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Mine it's more like a question than a vent so listen up, my question mostly goes to the students who had taken matric exam in the last 2 years(but I'm also interested in hearing from others) also from those who have been good in there education back in schoos but now are in different aspects of life. I had taken the exam this year I mean the 2015 one but the exam was too bad for me even I heard the same from most of students. so I have no hope at scoring the expected point to pass. then I finished the senior things and started spending the whole time in my home worrying about what am I going to do next, lying on bed the whole day it sucks especially when u have the potential and energy to do something else so am asking u guys what's ur plan I understand that not everyone may prioritize their matric points, and some of you might not be concerned about your academic journey. but here I spent most of my time studying as hard as I can but this government fucked up if you r gonna say don't blame the government I do I do blame. cuz things weren't like this in previous years it was easy even it was so easier just to take 2 grades test than taking a test from the goddamn 4 years. The part that makes pain is not just about failing it's about the family who sacrifice a lot of things thinking like u r going to make them proud plus if u were one of the top students the expectation is way too much. Even me I had  dreamed like graduating and bring some educational things in my story. I had planned to try scholarship but it's like a complicated thing and I feel like I can't do it on my own. I've heard that some agencies charfe an average 100k, if I were having that money it was easier to start some kind of business. I would greatly appreciate hearing about how you have managed similar challenges and how you are planning to move forward. If we set aside the educational aspect and don't have financial resources to start a business, what alternative paths can we explore? I'm eager to gather ideas and advice from all of you who have experience or insights to share.

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