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Hey people, help your sis out. Have been thinking of starting a cafe that is unique(Ethiopia wist yaltelemde) based on junk foods and sweets. Movie lay aytachu or real life lay wuchi aytachu wished endih aynet cafe bikefet blachu asbachu mtakut kale? Something unique in it's architectural structure or the menu they contain? what kind of junk food you know has not started in Ethiopia yet or bizu yaltesfafa but would be excited if there was? Give me ideas of such kind of foods to include in my cafe menu please🥺

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hey guys, I’m 20M and it sucks being 20 and never having a girlfriend. Everyone around me is dating, and I feel like I’m just stuck in the background. It’s not like I’m desperate, but it does get lonely, and sometimes I wonder if there’s something wrong with me. I know relationships aren’t everything, but it’d be nice to feel that connection for once. It just feels like I’m missing out, and it’s frustrating. I’ve been really curious about how people meet and connect with each other, especially when it comes to relationships. How did you guys meet your gf? Was it random, or did you do something specific to make it happen? I’m just trying to understand how this whole thing works, and it would be cool to hear your stories or any advice you might have for someone who's still figuring it out.

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20 yo female whom dropped out from campus 2 times because of the dreadful depression i was in. Now i really want to move on. I got a job this winter and gosh most people i meet are unbearable.not only that i am crying everyday. Oh man this life thing is not for the weak. No matter how hard i try or pretend like i don't care, i end up feeling...less. I need your help. Is there any way i can do a job from at home? I wanna homeschool myself and do online jobs at home and move out when i become 22. Is that even ethiopianly possible?

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Hi am 17 and am going to make it simple I feel so dumb does anyone have study tips plz I was searching and searching but all of them are not bad but if you were born smart it will help you (this are for getting better not starting ) but I was born dumb and different topic but for people who hear subliminal did it work for you (the body one ) plz tell me if you saw any change in your body an any tips to make it work better (like tips )

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Hey guys, so I'm seeing this girl we hang out once 2 weeks. I'm the one who always initiates meeting up, but she calls mnamn text first, but she never asks me to meet up unless I ask first. Now I wanted to experiment if she would want to first ask me to hang out but I'm also afraid we might never meet up, so what should I do, should I keep being the first to ask or try the experiment?

Or is it typical for a girl not to ask first

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Selam ሰዎች!

it's been a long time from my previous vent.

የዛሬው ምንድን ነው?! የከንፈር ወዳጅ አበጅቼ ነበር። የብዙ አመታት ትውውቅ ቢኖረንም ከተፈቃቀድን ገና ሶስት ወራችን ነው።

እና ያን ሁሉ ዘመን በስልክም አንዳንዴ በአካልም ስናወጋ ስቀርባት የመጀመሪያዋ እንደሆንኩና የወንድ ገላ እንደማታውቅ ደጋግማ ትነግረኝ ነበር።

እና ሰልስትና Room ይዘን መርፌና ክር ሆንን። ከሱ በፊት የማቅማማት አዝማሚያ ይታይባት ነበር። ከዛ ግን ፈቅዳ አደረግን።

ዳሩ ምንም ነገር የለም። ደሙን ተውትና ምንም የያዘኝ ነገር የለም። ሰተት ብዬ ነው የዘለኳት።

she acted as she is surprised that she isn't a virgin.

እኔ ባትሆንም ግድ አልነበረኝም። ግን ከዛ በኋላ ፀባይዋ ተቀያየረ። ነኝ ብላ ገገመች!

እና እንዲህ ያለ ነገር ይገጥም ይሆን እስኪ እናውጋበት።

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Hey you guys i want some advice on something i was in love with this girl like really in love and i was really supportive i did everything to make her feel special i though she was my soul mate we didn't date mnamn like we were never in a relationship but we used to talk the whole day talk about deep things and i was a simp for her I'm a really nice guy and i wanted her to love me for who i am but long story short she friend zoned me out and i regret being nice to her it really broke my heart this was about 5 month ago and never talked to any women since then and i ust met a girl and she's really hot and have a really lovable personality but I'm not over the first girl and i don't think I'll be able to love a girl like i did with her i like this girl and i don't wanna fumble but i Don't know if i should be nice to her to i tried to be nice ones and i regret it what do you guys think?

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Hello,
I’m a university student and I have liked a guy for almost 2 years now. But the thing is I actually used to like him at first and was so heartbroken again and again because he would act like he likes me and pulls back. Anyways over time I realized I’m just infatuated because I know he doesn’t like me. I have never wanted to be in an actual relationship with him but I want him to like me. This is not a revenge plan thing I just want to be on the upper hand and he also needs to know how it feels. I need advice on how to get him to like me.
And I know he is attracted to me but I don’t want to do any sexual stuff to make him like me. Any advice will do.

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Hey am 23 M

In our family am the only one who joined university . That was strange for our family. And my family expected more from me but right now is not happening things going in the wrong way , the way i didn't expected those things . I was top student from grade 1-12 only Top 3 rank. But now something is wrong with my mind. I can't remained when i read after a few time 😔😔😢 Am really straggling with life so far . But currently i can't resist any more coz a lot of stuff is going on . Am just so tired guys😭😭😭

Am not happy with my the grade .
But my family assumed me like i was before
But am not😢😢

Here is what i need vent 2morrow am gonna take last warning ⚠️ test if fail that the university gonna .....me my family don't know anything i got a lof of add courses even i can't finish those courses within 6 year.

Am just thinking kill my self but how? am religious guy 😢😢😭
I know what Bible says about that.

I don't know what should i do😔🙏😭

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Hey guys, 21 M.
Normally people have their own personality. Andandu sew deg new andandu demo metfo sew new... Ena yaw ye sew bahri likeyerm ychlal. Lemsale deg yeneberew sewye yehone neger biyagatmew bahriw likeyer ychlal but it take time to change someone's personality. Gn ene endeza aydelehum.
If i want i can give my life for someone and if i want i can skin them alive. I have feeling for people but i can turn it off like a light bulb easily. I may hate something but i can love it too...
Tnsh ykebdal lemasredat enademo erashn eyatalelk new endatlugn yemtelawn neger endwedew aregewalew sil. Bekelalu I'm in control of my mind. And i can embodiment what ever personality i want.
As a kid i lived an odd life. Mrt life new yasalefkut abuse mnamn altederekum gn normal Ethiopian kasalefew life yleyal. And a lot of time i just fidget with my brain and experiment with my emotions. I love to read & explore anything about any topic. Before going out with my friends i build the scenario of what will happen and how they will react to the situation and it's goes as i planed always.
In my journey in life i think i lost my some part of me that make me a human or i think i reached new level idk.

Thanks for reading.
And sorry for my grammar.

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20F so i have a bf and it's been 2yrs and am scared about our relationship, He has anger issues and am not that comforting girl i am silent and it's sad ik but what do i do idk about comforting others we are so different he is good at comforting talking ena masamening and i am the opposite i don't like arguing i get so emotional and Alkasha i want to change it i want to be that women that "ልባም ሴት" i really loved him and i don't wanna loose him because of my problem.And he is addicted to masturbation it's like for 14 yrs ena esunim endiakom madreg efeligalehu i tried tsebel tsom mnamn but he can't like biakom le 2 eske 6 ken new keza chirash yakakisewal sexm adirgenal ena endiakom efeligalehu cause everything keza ga new mimeslegn minadedewum Rasun atleast daily yitamemal medhanit wesdo new miwulew beyekenu kesew ga mesrat betam eyekebedew new silemibesachi so i want advice idk what to do and he is so meskin demo ene ብልጥ bihon emikeyer ayinet sew new

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Guys, I’ve got a serious obsession with men who are 28 and 29 😫. Y'all don’t understand like, that deep voice, the full beard, the mature and understanding vibe hooff 😍. And don’t even get me started on the bossy but kind, protective, tall, big boy energy. It's so attractive, I can't even handle it. But here's the problem... I’m just 20 like, why am I out here engaging in this nonsense? Someone needs to come over and beat my a$$ because I need to focus on my education 😭. I mean, these guys are practically a walking distraction.How am I supposed to concentrate on studying when all I can think about is some grown man with his life together, out there being all tall and responsible Ugh 🤦🏽‍♀️

So yeah, someone please save me from myself because I need to focus before I end up with a degree in daydreaming instead of whatever I’m actually studying😂.

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Hi selam endet nachu ena ende hagerachn be amarga lamakrachu temari negn 12
Ena beteseboche yawetulgn debari sm slegn lalefut 14 ametat maletm ke kg jemro eskahun besme betam sew yashemakkegnal yskbgnal lesew smen menager mafer jemerku confidence atahu tmhrt bet begeban kutr erasachun astewawku sibal betam lbe ydenegt nber mknyatum sew yskbgnal yawm ye ketema lj hogne endezi aynet sm ykebdal ena erasen medebek jemerku high school sgebam endezaw hule mood yzubgnna yashemakkugnal hule ebete sgeba aleksalew smen maskeyer alchlm beteseboche ayfekdum hulem sew anchin yemeselech lj yhe sm aygebatm, hule kesew gar stewawek smen sisemu ykeldubgnal adis amet meto tmhrt bet sngeba hule aleksalew tedebke hulem temariw hulu smen eyetera yskbgnal ykeldbgnal yafezbgnal bezi aynet eskahun bf norogn ayawkm mknyatum tmhrt bet wst mikerbugn wendoch hulu mood lemiyazbachw kuch blew hulu ayawerugnm ena yegeza guadegnochem yashemakekugnal hulem snte erasen latefa mokrealew snte sew hulu smen sisema fitu kay sak aytefam  mn tmekrugnalachu ?

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Okay, I know this might sound a bit wild, and I can already hear the judgments, but I just have to share this. In a world that often feels so structured and predictable, there’s something incredibly thrilling about the idea of exploring deep, intimate connections in a public specificalky parks. The excitement of being in plain sight, yet lost in our own world, sends a rush of adrenaline through me.

Picture this: a sun-drenched park, the air filled with the scent of blooming flowers and the distant sound of laughter. I’m sitting on a bench, and there’s someone next to me who makes my heart race. Every stolen glance feels electric, and the tension between us is palpable. Just the thought of leaning in for a kiss ignites a fire within me, but it’s so much more than that.

What if someone sees us? The thrill of being caught adds an exhilarating layer to our connection. The idea of sneaking a kiss, then letting our hands wander, and doing more naught stuff sends shivers down my spine. The park is alive with movement, and yet, we’re in our own little bubble, where the world around us blurs into the background.

Imagine us slipping away to a secluded spot behind a cluster of trees, the dappled sunlight creating a warm glow around us. The moment we’re hidden from view, the air thickens with anticipation. Our lips meet, soft and hungry, but it quickly deepens into something more passionate. I can feel the heat radiating between us, a magnetic pull that makes it hard to think about anything but each other.

Every glance over our shoulders heightens the thrill. What if someone walks by? Just the thought sends a rush of adrenaline through me, making every touch feel more urgent, more alive. Our hands explore, fingers intertwining, and it’s intoxicating to know that we could be discovered at any moment. The risk only fuels the fire.

In that hidden corner of the park, we become lost in a whirlwind of desire. The thrill of being so close yet so exposed makes every kiss feel electric, every whisper a secret shared just between us. It’s a dance of passion and playfulness, where the world fades away, and all that matters is the heat building between us.

FYI I am not simping here just letting my thoughts and desire and I can’t help but wonder if there’s a girl out there who shares this same craving for excitement, someone who feels that rush of adrenaline at the thought of exploring that deep connection in a public park. Is there someone who would thrill at the idea of losing ourselves in each other, knowing that the world is just a heartbeat away?

Because when you’re wrapped up in a moment like that, with the thrill of being seen or caught just around the corner, it feels like pure magic. And I can’t help but want to explore that magic.

Anyways I am 24

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I might be over thinking but I need others opinion. We have been together for more than two years. We love each other and we also fight each other as normal couples. Recently I saw a chat between her and someone on instagram. Like 20 messages so far. I confirmed that they are not childhood friends or classmate or relatives. They just know by eyes in their home town. The chat so far was asking each other where they are currently stuffs. Her last text was "wat are u working on right now?" It has been a day since I saw the messages. I didnt say nothing so far. I just want to see further. At the same time I also wana confront her abt it now. What should I do please? Im I tripping?

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So basically there is this one guy we have been together for almost a year now ena the beginning was amazing and the relationship was not one sided but here is the thing we are not the same religion he is pente and I’m orthodox but that didn’t matter at the moment but after tsom things got different he started to act very strange I mean he still give me his time but yk it’s not the same then after a while gedeta move out madreg nebrbet to America personal reasons then our relationship got worse worse and nothing went like I want in my life too everything was wrong between my friends and my family everything and my friends don’t even like him and they were sure that he likes someone else and tht I have to leave him but I didn’t listen at all so it created distance and he showed me some signs that he is out of love too but I refused to accept then once he got there he changed on me the first day I was like damn then 2 months passed with the shittiest conversation and one day I tried to communicate beged keza he told me that he create a distance because b/c of the religion mnamn but he sweared that he loves me then my friends and my sister found out “smtg serious” they said that I have to get end it quickly I refused to believe once again I still thought he was innocent and he won’t do anything behind my back so I let everyone in my life left me EVERYONE but due to my mental health I told him let’s have a break but he literally joke on me and left me on delivered after that mind you I choosed him out of everyone and he sweared he loved me now he has disappeared WHY IS THISSSSS WTF IS HAPPENING???

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Hi guys 23 F
so me and my bestfriend grew up together we know eachother like forever. and we kinda got in different college ...she is a golddigger,below average looks wise......so she have this group of friends and one of them is sooooo good looking, rich so i started flirting with him over text and she knows,,,he is the kinda person who dont date but have sex with girls he likes. but i never will sleep with a boy to like me back sooooo when i told him that he changed a lot ,,,but my feeling for him keeps growing alot, and actually am not that kinda person who gets attached to ppl so it become hard for me why am i feeling this way for a duche bag, Fboy,,,its not like me i am quite preety tbh ,shapy, i am honest,playful but clever. i worked on myself for a long time to be who i am now. so back to the story, he couldnt let me go too..everytime i try to forget him and ignore him he texts me,,,,so we graduated and we say HI once a month now 😂😂😂 so story twist my childhood bestfriend likes him too ,i just found out recently ,she didnt even told me,,,and she knows i like him and was flirting with him this whole time,,like i said me and him barely talk now but its been years and i love him and we even madeout still we are not a thing,,,but my bestie and him knew eachother first and still now they talk as a friend but they talk serious shits on the phone for hours maybe he likes her back milew is killing me inside, because he never does with me . i couldnt even date other guys bc im in love obssessed with him,help me guys.

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I know this isn't right but ofx I cant say it for anyone so I better just vent it out
Matric tefetgnye yechereskugn negn and spending my summer vacation
Am jealous of my friends....not that jealous....I mean I wish I have things like them....
Like their families are surprising them with surprise parties for graduation senior highschool and other stuff....I wish if my family does the same.....I want to feel that good feeling of uk the surprise stuff or gifts
Am happy and grateful for my life. Its just idk but when my friends send me vids and pics of the surprise parties and gifts they got I say in myself I wish I have someone who can just give me gift without telling me bla bla....bicha ofc I wont say this to anyone but i am feeling it so bad

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Hello there fellas I'm 21m, 3rd yr student at aau. the thing that zare mnegrachu like i consider my self as who has self cautious, like hulem one step ahead...mnamn gn in reality i have done things that still embraced my self becha weird yehonu wsanewochn, hurting my self idk why am doing this, bcha batekalayu at the end erasen megzat(lost control over my self)endemalchl ysemagal. Bcha guys let me vent about smt that enem melsun yalagegewet and need all of your help on this, the thing is am shy naturally and bcha bzu gize i put my self in places where i can't handle like betext awerana in person sihone edenegtalew, then there is this girl from my section and she was kind of my crush bcha what i know at that time is she was also in to me like eso neberech push mtaregeg even tho ene befam ena kegize behola when i try to make my move all of the sudden she dumped me, i didn't even ask her why she was being like this.but migermeg when ever sntelalef we both feel that we haven't finished. But know i feel like i have been may be cursed or idk mtwedegen lij alfelgshim alkot, then a girl from my high school dumped me also then this happens...what am i supposed to do koy.
I have alot to vent i didn't even tell you guys my half story, bcha eski what is ur view ngerug.

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Hi,

Straight to the point.

I feel like I might be a covert narcissist.

Will I ever get better?
Should I not get into commitment? Since all I hear is narcissists destroy another person I might do the same who knows?
I have observed that I do have weird tendencies.

Can I get better?
If not what happens to me?
If I really am a narcissist, am I supposed to kill myself? I don't really know.

I'm only now realizing I might have been a narcissist and I had no idea. I'm not sure but what if I am?

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See amma a twenty year old college student but I haven't been able to actually fit in because of my clothes and stuff everyone seems to have a better hairdo or outfit than me,my friend once called me bututam and that actually hurt I never thought I would be this kinda person like when I was in highschool I was bullied and my crush liked my best friend mnamn so I convinced myself that my college life was gonna be better but here I am feeling insecure af malet even if I suspect someone has a crush on me mnamn I just look at myself and say who the hell would have a crush on this... and this thought is actually killing me malet I expected a better life and it got crushed completely at first I thought I was gonna go abroad that was my biggest dream gn altesakam but then I got into a uni here in this country but am struggling to fit in and have self confidence.

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I rly don't feel anything sometimes, it's like I have became this heartless person. But the other minute I'm feeling everything and being sensitive. Some nights I'm so happy and the other I can't even breath. Is it cuz I have been though some staff or is it my age I'm too sensitive and everything hurts me, and don't know my emotion, i rly rly don't know when I'm happy or sad. And I'm rly dependent on ppl my whole mood everything I'm doing, I feel like I'm living to please ppl.

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I am 24 F and bekirbu ke bf ga kelebet asren shmageley telkuwal so we have been waiting to have our time for so long so yesterday I went to his house and we tried but I've never done it and it was so hard it is betam painful he loves me so much so when I say it hurts he didn't wanna do it like that he talks me through it yalewen ngr for the first time painful lihon endemichil mnamn  gn betam nbr miyamew fr I don't know endet leloch swoch handle miyadergut so I tried to talk it out with my married friends they say Yan yahel painful endalnebere lenesu Ena medical student friend alechigne when I ask her she told me mnem mayamewem sw endale Ena it is better demo Lela hakim mnamn for more info endawera gn  before I do that I just wanna know endezih aynet ngr yagatemachu kalachu Ena if it is easy just share me you're experience and how to solve it kelal kehone hospital mnamn kemil

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20F so i have a bf and it's been 2yrs and am scared about our relationship, He has anger issues and am not that comforting girl i am silent and it's sad ik but what do i do idk about comforting others we are so different he is good at comforting talking ena masamening and i am the opposite i don't like arguing i get so emotional and Alkasha i want to change it i want to be that women that "ልባም ሴት" i really loved him and i don't wanna loose him because of my problem

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So am 20f and nobody I liked has ever liked me back they either like my best friend (imagine how much that hurts) or just a random girl from school but not me and I just don't understand why this keeps on happening to me I mean why can't I be like the others and why can't my crush like me back....the ones that ask me out are the ppl I don't have a crush on and I really wish my crush liked me back just this once I mean why oh why😭😥

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am 22M ,Two years ago, she suddenly came into my life and became my good friend. We became close and she gave me the place she never gave to any other man. I found the full femininity from her that I never got from anyone. I was sure that she was mine, so I didn't want anything to do with her.I just started waiting for the day to say I love you. Suddenly, the boy who was bothering her before came back into her life and then because she wasn't his he got into a bad addiction and if she doesn't agree with him now he told her that he will kill himself because she is very sensitive and compassionate to people so she promised him that she would give him a chance to save him. and I told her that I love her But now she has a promise with him, she doesn't want to lose me, on the other side she doesn't want to hurt him, and she suffered in the middle of the house, and I love her more than I can tell. what do you advice me Guys

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Am 28 M
I've been thinking about how to share this part of myself, and it feels both liberating and a bit nerve-wracking. I want to admit that I really enjoy pegging. It's something that I find both exhilarating and deeply intimate. The experience taps into a different dynamic of power and vulnerability that I crave.
At first, I wasn’t sure how to process it, but over time, I’ve realized that it’s okay to explore what feels good for me. It’s an experience that has helped me understand myself better, allowing me to embrace different sides of my sexuality in a healthy, trusting space.
I know it’s not something everyone will understand, but I’m okay with that. What matters is being honest with myself and embracing what feels right for me, without shame or fear of judgment

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Oh, Sweet sweet honeymoon phase...

The things I’d sacrifice to experience again, for a day, my early days with her.

She seemed perfect. Our conversations - natural. Her smile - perfect. The thoughts of her filled my mind. We clicked. We fell for each other. I probably did more so.

I read this somewhere - “He fell first, She fell harder. He got bored, She got hurt.”

Soon after the early days, some things started to become evident. First, the victim mentality. The “በፍቅር የተጎዳሁ ሰው ነኝ” mentality. The “No matter what happens between us, I’ll end up getting hurt more, I am a victim of love” mentality. It was there after every call I couldn’t answer, and after every text I replied for late. I hated it. But there were still feelings.

Then came the suffocation. Talking about marriage after like a month of dating. I didn’t personally have a problem with it if it weren’t for the constant seeking of words of reaffirmation. I had to say things like “I want to get married to you”, and “I will spend my whole with you” every now and then. The questions… “how much do you love me”, “in how many years are we going to get married”… All of them. It felt like I was being suffocated. I couldn’t have plans that didn’t include her. Out of the city for two weeks for work? Forget it. Can't talk to her for half a day because of work? She's hurt and now is crying. I was occupied with her, her friends, and her family, almost running out of things to call mine. I felt like I had to spend every waking minute with her. Being with her was supposed to be easy, it became the most difficult thing. I needed a break, I needed to breath.

I broke up with her. I tried to be gentle. I clearly told her that I’m no way near the level of commitment she wants, and the more our relationship lasts, the more she’ll get hurt. I told her that my intention was never to hurt her. She couldn’t believe what I was saying. I’m not exaggerating when I say she begged me to stay. Sadly, my mind was made up.

Now, I hear from her friend she’s an absolute mess despite it being weeks since our break up. She told me that she’s basically depressed, she doesn’t go out of the house unless absolutely necessary. She doesn't talk to most of her friends, to the point where even her family is worried.

I really am sorry. Hurting her was never my intention. How can I make her feel that this was not how it was supposed to be. I couldn’t help but feel, if I hadn’t initiated this whole thing, she wouldn’t have ended up like this.

I just feel bad.

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