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Guys what does good friendships look like what are the things good friends do and what are the things they don't
What kind of stuff should we tolerate in the name of friendship

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This is a question for medical students or practicing physicians.

I'm not sure when it started, but I've been waking up every hour in the night feeling thirsty and peeing right away for quite some time. It doesn't get any better during the day. I can't even eat food without first drinking water.
The night is what bothers me the most. I can't sleep properly, and it's getting worse by the day. I remember a doctor telling me when I was ten or eleven to drink a lot of water because I have kidney disease.

So, any doctors, what advice can you give me, and do I need to go to the hospital? Or are there many people like me?

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I am heading to a near by grocery. I have never imagined my self going to a grocery to escape from my despair. Yet here am i at a grocery drinking. I am newbie drunk, alcohol isn't my thing but here i am holding it. 

I am passing through a lot. That is the shortest way of expressing my situation.  What are the things that made me say that, well, i am not in the mood to talk about that.


Rather let me say something about the realizations i discovered while dwelling in the trenches.

1 I used to say, why the fuck does anyone choose alcohol as a remedy for a problem.  That was me at my early 20's. Around my mid 20's i start comprehending, people rarely drink, overdrink for enjoyment, rathet alcohol is a painkiller, morphine for most. 

Until today, i have never turn my face to drinking when i become overwhelmed by life. Today, i practically experience drinking as a remedy for despair. 

I know it isn’t the right way of dealing with difficulties but here i am, here. I.   Am. 

2 I am not suicidal, i definitely know suicide isn't a solution to any problem. 

Second, i firmly believe  their is life after death, actually a better life. 
So i don’t want to buy a ticket for a double deaths at once with my own hand. 

I am not one of those people saying, why did he/she do that, he have a good family, she have this amount of money, he is good-looking and have a beautiful girlfriend, she has a good job bla bla, when i heard about someone committing suicide. 

I know people reach to the failing point of suicide, when they become unable to see the blessings in their life. Whether small or big. When they convince their self that what ever difficulty they are in seemed like it will stay forever. 

I feel a glimpse of that today. Still i am not yet reach "it is better to end it" but now i understand why people end it. 

They reach to a point they can't rationalize existence over death. 


I have other realizations but i don’t have the energy to write more. Am tired. I should better stop. 

It is a bad day not a bad life.

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heyy this is for grade 12 students (yetefetenachu) mn eyeserachu new? i am tired of searching for work besmam mnm sra yelem eko.yalanagerkut delala yelem gn nothing????‍♀️ ena it's only me or what???
beza lay bet mekemet selchtognal eski recommend me some movies, series, or fictions.


Thank you❤❤❤

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I wanna share u that what i can’t STOP doing. Ohhh God its killing me. Guy’s I can’t stop ???? musterbating my self… pls tell me smtng that gonna help me to drop it and don’t tell me it’s very bad thing coz i know its bad thing that’s y um sharing with u. Bzw I have never been with any girl and during this musterbation I finish it within a few second and this is also my another thing
Please help me up guy’s I don’t wanna live like this it’s disgusting
Help help pleseeeeeeee

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so if u were in my spot, what would you do?

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I lost both of my parents before highschool(almost 10 yrs ago) and you know, its impact is zget obviously. although I didn't let this happening affect most of the things I have(edu, career stuff), battling the depression is killing me. specially these days. whenever my friends talk about their parents or get a call from em, I get stricken by the fact that I ain't gonna get any chance to have a call with my parents, never ever. If I get a chance to visit some people at their homes and see their tight knit family, envy rushes into my brain. or even beal siders mnamn, memories of my fam having a good time crosses my mind and yaw I also don't forget that fact that I'm not gonna spend any other holiday with them in the future which kills me inside always.
እንደማንኛውም young adult, I have considered taking drugs and alcohol to patch up this depression of mine. but it's just a temporary solution and I don't wanna end up an addict እንቅርት ላይ ... endemibalew kemihon ....

I mean I can say I'm leading my life well at this point by working on my early career but still edu/career bcha life ayhonm. and family is the one that makes the picture of life perfect, which I don't have now. I'm wondering If i'm going to continue missing them for the rest of my life. is that the case though?

is there anyone who had gone through this?
so what do you guys suggest me to do at this point?
should I see a therapist? are they effective?

thanks for reading!

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Hi I'm Beth . I'm 23.
I need to vent.
I been having mixed feelings about my life recently and I want some outside perspective.
I have never had a serious relationship before. So I don't have any references points to compare.
I have loved people before but they always seem to back out some how, leaving me feeling a bit inadequate.
I find myself feeling more comfortable having relationships that are long distance. Idk if it's a ploy to not deal with any issues I have idk.
So now my brain is convinced that love doesn't exist and truly relationships don't work. At least for me.

Right now there is this guy I liked him years a go. But he ghosted me. So I thought it was unrequited.

He apologised and we friends again.
I like him and he likes me.
Idk how much of that I believe, but for the plot let's say I do ( I have intense trust issues , so I rather blindly believe than reason it out. BC it will take my whole brain space. I don't have a lot to work with)

But idk what's wrong with me, I don't feel like I'm myself. I feel like I been drain so much that I would let the other person do all the work.
Which I think is really evil.

But I keep feeling like I'm coming short. I used to be so bubbly and lively now I think I'm just dull. Idk if it's noticeable.
I used to give a shit and stuff

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I havent told my girlfriend I am actually rich. I make her pay half on the dates to see if she only wants me. She stresses about finding a job and I lied about my past to make her think I don't have money. I am going to tell her and take care of her after we marry but I want to know if she would break up with me for lying

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Am telling you this generation is the best, You are all amazing and wonderful, think about it out of all people we are here against all odds, come on now we don't know what tomorrow brings just to breath is a blessing, I have nothing but I don't care I have each and everyone of you to look admire experience life with, am just loving it all the taxi self, yeteleyaye sew mayet kmr hulachehum tamralachu des telalachu,
Am Glad I see all of you, hang in there Good Days are coming, I am coming

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hey everyone it's my first time here so try to go easy on me lol. Well, my problem is I never felt like I had someone to share my true feelings or stn like that. Thing is I look at my friends and say to myself "are they really gonna understand what I am feeling If I told them?". So the only thing I'm looking for is an understanding friend. Yeah you heard me right just a true friend! Please share your thoughts with me:)

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Here is the thing...i hate when smo disrepects me i mean just like evb does gn beka betam nw metelaw ena there was this guy 5 month mnamn nw menetewawekew ena disrespect eyaregegn even metew alfelekum ena one day yehone assignment neberen ena enesra tebablen bete ney belogn hedkugn and thennnn ezaa one thing lead to another keza he kissed me dengeche nbr because mitelagn nbr mimeslegn keza yaw eyale eyale we had sex!!! Keza buhala gn ene eyastelagn esu demo eyewededegn meta...alakm lmn endehone gn lela ken tegenagnten lendegmew senel i resisted keza gn beka ghost aderekut mnamn ena guadegnochu betam endetegoda negerugn ....ena idk what to do asteletognal mnamn ahun ena beka this is it thank you💀🫡

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I really don't know from where to start exactly but guys bare with me I need to let this out so I am in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend now for more than 3 years he is literally all that I could have asked for in the most perfect way we obviously had ups and downs and we separated a lot but always found a way to get back to each other and now our relationship is at it's best phase but I'm sitting here and feeling numb asf well our relationship wasn't this good at the beginnings it was full of chaos my boyfriend used to be an addict but that didn't have anything to do with our relationship because he used to do that because his mad at his family and stuff so whenever he hears that his mom and dad fought or when he found out that his sister tried to sucide or when he lost his best friend(rip)... these are like the few reasons he had but the list keeps going on anyways this was never a problem until one day he fought with a guy who tried to rape one of his friends at campus and he ended up in prison because that guy has it's own surroundings around there and we all know how things happen around our country anyways my boyfriend was in need for money to get out of there so I sold my phone and a pair of gold necklace that I had to get him out but I never told him that I told him that I had some savings and after some months he gave me the money back and I wasted it anyways this money problems kept happening repeatedly like he would ask me to lend him to pay his debts and stuff and I was literally selling everything that I had until there was nothing left so I started stealing at my campus I started selling phones of people around me to help him that it became kind of a habit so even after he stopped asking me for money and he started making himself better I got addicted so whenever I wanted to buy something or just needed some money I will steal and get myself what I want anyways everything was going well until we separated the last time which was for almost 6 months and I was still in campus and about to graduate until I did what I did again and got caught for the first time and for some reasons I didn't deny anything I just went to prison and stayed for a week probably and that's when my life went down the hill I got out of there by money but still couldn't take my degree and I'm sinking in debt until now and my family knew about this literally everyone in campus knew about this so my family hates me and I have no friends at all and people from campus calls me all the time asking for their money and I can't even get a job because I don't have a degree God I thought of suiciding a lot but couldn't risk living in hell in both lives anyways I guess that's the reason I got back with my boyfriend when he talked to me after that because he was my only scape from everything and I wanted to tell him everything but I'm afraid that he will leave me too after he knows this now I don't even know what to do with my life I'm really not feeling good mentally so if anyone could give me some helpful advices to get out of the situation I'm in right now I would be so grateful and thanks for baring with me

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I dont know what we are, she is my what? A friend(nope because we are too close to be friends) a bestfriend( maybe, but bestfriends dont lie about relationship and dating) lovers( no we both show mixed signals). i have never been in relationship and i have never loved someone i taught i was invincible for love and i taught i wouldn't spend a dime on a girl(i spend it all on her now), when i think she's into me and try to move forward she ignore me for days act a bit disconnected, when i think we're just friends i am overthinking it she will be the cutest creature, she be inviting me in her private life(no boundaries), asks how i am doing, acts intrested to me infront of my friends and collagues, if we are just friends why would she be comfortable to tell me she is on her period, why would she act cool when i touch her hips(with my outer hand), why would she look fine when i hold her waist infront of her bestfriend or in her hood infront of the guys that like her and die to be with her.
By the way not only her but my insecurities are killing me she's a total 10 and flirty i am quite, introverted, and dont look cool, she herself came into my life and she make me real man with responsibility(because she like when i handle things for her) but her flirty and extroverted, partying bhaviour brewed insecurity inside my quite ass.

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Hello hello. Well I don't know where to start. And that's why I should start from the beginning


I have parental issues. Yeah, that covers my childhood. My school life was a bit below average and I can say that about my college life as well but I am in 4th year so there's a chance it might get better. But yeah everything I know about life is boring and lifeless. Nothing exciting. Maybe that's because I lie( I lie to keep myself interesting even though in reality I live a very dull life ). Or Maybe it's because I'm poor 9 times out of 10( it's not as bad as it sounds, but in reality, there were times where I had to walk from school because I didn't have enough cash and I had too much pride to ask my friends. I'd never ask my friends). Maybe, Maybe it's because I don't know

I'm 20. I turn 21 on Dec 1st and for the past 6 months I have been dreading that day. That's because in all my life, whenever I pictured a 21 year old version of me, that guy was buff, purposeful, maybe had a girlfriend. But mostly, Mostly, MOSTLY, That Guy was Happy. And I'm telling you now, I'm 9 days away and I Do not feel happy. On the contrary I feel like shit. I feel like life has nothing to offer me. I know that. I've known that since I saw my dad with his other wife and his other kids. What I'm really feeling these days is that I Have Nothing To Offer Life Anymore. There. I Said It. I thought I'd feel better when I write it down but I'm just looking at the words and all that's happening is it's breaking my heart more.


But yeah, I don't know. I don't know what the purpose of this vent is. But I just feel lost. Maybe someone who relates to this, someone who's been in similar situations could offer a bit of advice.

Maybe let's make the question a bit more clear -

Does life get better when you don't have nothing in this world?

Did life get better for you ?
Did you get rich? Did you get happy? Did you find purpose or a reason to live? If so , what is it and how did it happen?

Thanks in advance.

P. S I'm a Male

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im lonely. idk if there's smth wrong with me or what. in highschool, i made close friends but they always choose other ppl, i was just part of a big friendship group. in uni, i haven't been able to make friends that u hangout with outside of uni, and i want that. even with online friendships, ive never been able to stick to one group. either the group fell out or i felt unwanted and not including me so i just leave. even in highschool, my "friends" used to make plans abt going out after school and never inviting me. 🙃 and everytime i just see friendship groups hanging out, that feeling of loneliness just comes back. so i found books and those r now my friends. there's also this guy who likes me and wants to meet me but im tired of all this so im going to self sobatage.

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19 M first year student, and i got good grades, i think i can keep it that way,
But what ma question is that, after graduation what is going to happen, like get a job maybe then rent a house then live like that? Prolly yea,
But i wanna be rich, and im not feeling like the degree or a job can do that,
Guys who graduated say smthin, what happens after graduation??

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Hi everyone,
I met this guy at an event and we’ve been talking / calling and seeing each other now. He keeps telling me how he loves me and asked me whether if I do. Yet I’ve told him I can’t answer that question right now as it is too early. He has been also telling me that God willing he wants to get married to me and have kids. Mind you I do feel the same way but I am scared to express that as it feels too early to do so. While this thing is long distance I really don’t know what to do? Do you think I shall wait a couple of months and express how I feel or just do it now? I need your advices????????????

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Hey mn meselachuh sewoch iam from very strict family yemewedachew sewoch lene care endelelachew nw misemagn they don't give a shit about my feelings ena afer zat betam eyetekeyerku metaw mannm alsemam even my father ena mothern mesmat akomku before 2 or 3 months salasfekd kebet alwetam nbr ahun gn enkuwan lasfeked tewat wetche mata nw megebaw bcoz i think they don't care about my feeling the only thing they care about is my future they don't understand the concept of living today i wanna live today ...... lelagnaw demo be relationship bekul yalegn amelekaket completely nw yetekeyerew i just stop chasing love that doesn't choose me ....... also i stoped beliving no body tg lay mawerawn sew yehone yaltemechegn or des yalalegn ngr kale maskeyem jemrialew ....... am thinking about the past ena am regretting for saying nothing for those who deserve a punch ....... ena what do u say about these new behavior ....... should i continue like these or should i stop it ......am i being rude...

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Hi fellas, I think i need some advice, i'm gonna turn 21 next week plus im gonna graduate from uni by the end of this year, the problem is i don't think i'm mature enough for the ups and downs of this world, i mean i've been into many shit for the last consecutive years relationship wise and other but i think i've done everything in a very childish way, i couldn't care enough for everything that's been happening, my pov for this world is nothing like others and the problem is its not changing either, i couldn't learn from my past mistakes and im scared cause shit is getting real and everything about my life is gonna change in about  8 or 9 months. I'm constantly panicking about what my future is gonna be like. I really can use some advise.

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Hey 19 M
So i got a question ...ik this is a usual boring teenager vent about relationships and shit but bare with me so lately alot of people are telling me i have low testosterone because im not hitting on girls and just obssessed with sex .... ik everyone got their own thing going and thats fine by me but me personally i dont worship the floor on which women walk on hell no my friends always thing about sex and only that and i admit thats a part of relationships but i told them i dont like this girl in our class who is hot but just a boring horrible girl with a sucky personality ill admit she got the looks though so they kept saying am not a man and i got low testosterone ????...but is it true am truly curious ik this isnt the norm for most men so does it actually mean am not acting like how a man should and should i become like them to be manly and shit like that?...

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It is like we are close as we have been acting like everything a human could be we were like friends, then she want is to have lunch togther so she brought her friend(b/c it was her first) then we plot a business and started working on  it, we went to church & cinema togther, and she daid i am only one she got so i was there form her, when she is so sick mnamn, she said she put me on her CV reference mentioning i will stay longer in her life, all her friends know me, she even bought me gifts, most confusing thing is she acts like she is my girlfriend she lies to me when she go out to clubs(she dont want me to judge her) she give me excuses when she had dates(she knows i have no right to get mad) she even get jealous and goes quite when i talk to girls even her bestfriend, everyone who thissaw her told me she likes m, but this time, after we had  no label for more than a year and half when she introduce me to her female bestfriend she says i am her besst friend(in different tone) i was mad because i loved her this whole time plus this whole mixed signals, but next day she said i should complement her more when she show me her hair or nail or makeup, like damn why would she expect me to complement her beauty, buy her ring & cosmetics, get her to fancy lunch dates if she consider me as her Bestfriend(she said it this one time in two years) or why wouldn't she tell me dates she go on or why would she justify every guy who called her when i am with her is i am just her bestfriend, i really need to figure this out

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Hey 24M so It all starts when i found out my ex Is a toxic manipulative two faced girl who is desperate for any male attention.And its really pissing me of cause she was exactly the type of girl I was trying to avoid my whole entire life and I still ended up with a 2 year relationship with her.I started dating after a while but sadly I couldn't find the sexual tension I was used to back then.Im honestly losing hope in relationships cause women are all either anxious or depressed that everyone has some baggage to put on the table when intimacy is introduced.Do u guys think I should consider having a no strings attached type of relationship cause that's becoming a logical option now a days.

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Where to start...i've been suicidal since I was nine and it's fucking exhausting. I just want to not exist all the time some days it gets easier but fuck it suck betam, I want to jump off a building but I can never do that to my family my beautiful mom and my loving big sister I can't do that to them.. I used to be fat when I was 13 14 yo, I was fat and I told myself if I get in shape I won't feel this way so I got in shape by the time I was 17 I had a six pack, but I didn't feel any better...

so I said it must be love and there was this girl I was into for as long as I can remember but she didn't feel the same way and it couldn't happen between us, and I thought to myself my love life is the reason I feel depressed and suicidal because of the girl that didn’t like me back, but then in college I was with a couple different girls that made me see what I want out a relationship and a lover. And I got the love I wanted from my last girlfriend in college, we had good times but after graduation things didn't workout shit got too hard to maintain and I broke up with her but she was cool with it she understood, and i got over her. So it wasn't my love life and the girl that didn't like me back that caused these thoughts, my high-school crush was long forgotten.

So after graduation I got a job that doesn't pay enough and moved out on my own people told me my salary was good but life in Addis is tough. I did my job paid rent and smoked weed that became my life, money was hard to manage and like every person I thought if I had more money I would be happy and then I sobered up quit the weed and focused and tried to do some extra work and switch to a better job...and after trying a bunch of different things I switched jobs to a high paying job but still I just keep staying up till 3am think i wish i never existed.....I wonder what it would be like to have kids tho especially a daughter...some day so being a parent is a small glimps of light i see, but right know it's just difficult....If you made it this far thank you for reading, I just needed to let it out.

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So I’m a 20 yr old college student. I have been in a few r/ships before and I also have experienced heart break, I think. But I’m really at this point in my life where I want a long term r/ship. Not just fun and games but sth that I know will last. I want someone to talk to when I’m feeling down. I want someone who can rely on me and trust me and love me and all that stuff. I get really jealous watching people who’re in love. But the problem is I have a very specific type. Ik this might sound stupid but being a good guy won’t cut it for me. I have to be able to laugh at his jokes and he has to be able to laugh at mine. I want him to get me when I say stuff. I want him to have a goal in mind and strive to achieve that goal. I want him to be intelligent and witty and for him to take care of himself. I want him to care about himself. I want him to always aim to better himself both physically and mentally. There’re a lot of other things that I want him to be but the problem is I don’t think I’ll find that guy. And if I do, what if I push him away?? I feel hopeful whenever I hear people’s love stories but sometimes I feel like I won’t find my true love and the happy ending I’ve always wished for. And I wonder, should I lower my standards? Maybe I have to tbh

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i am 19M and i had a girl friend that i loved so much but we’re not together anymore we broke up last month like we almost been together for one year, before her i had never been in r/ship she was my first love,kiss everything i really loved her and she also did yk she was so sweet cute and really cared for me she always cries when smth bad happens to me, we imagined our future together our kids the way we live mnamn bicha the thing was she has strict parents so we don’t really meet usually and from the start when we meet gn when i try to kiss her she always make reason not to kiss me i thought it cuz she’s shy mnamn neber even it took us 2 month to kiss at first but still she tell me on text that she also wan kiss but when we meet wef like she turn her face around mnamn and keza when she gets home she says sorry there were peoples staring when literally noone is looking bicha we continue like that for 11 month we also do somestuff like fringer i even give her head but she refushed to give me she said she dont like dick even she dont want to see it ion why yk she only rub it twice le morale like everytime we do this things i feel like im frocing her beka ena i also ask her once to have sex w me but she said no alregm before marriage mnanm and i was like ok ify mnanm tbh i was also cool w that ena im still a virgin bicha last month we start argue a lot likes every week neber yemntalaw ene demo i thought our honeymoon phase ended and this the time we stick together no matter how hard its get yk if you love them you’ll stay but i tried betam but fr she blame me for everything and the day we broke she be like you always hurt me always make me cry even though its her fault ena beka i told her i can’t take it anymore if im hurting you eko we shouldn’t be together we should break up she said ok fine meche atagegnenm mnanm keza we broke up and since then can’t stop thinking about her she always on my mind ena to get distracted i started talking to other girls and i met this girl and we are dating and even kissed like in a week but when i kiss her i felt very guilty kmr idk why gn cheat yareku yemeselegn and this girl demo she told me that she love me and she never loved anyone like me and ion wan hurt demo she remind me of her(my ex) like the way they talk mnamn ena idk what to do i still love her should i call her or was it a toxic r/ship??

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Hey everyone, Here is the thing.. I'm a 23-year-old guy who lives in Addis. i think am good at meeting girls and getting their numbers. But here's the thing that often trips me up: when it comes time to make that call, I find myself having nothing to say in a convo. It makes me wonder why I took their numbers in the first place. I genuinely like girls, and I must say that even regular Ethiopian girls have beauty that is greater than the models from other countries.

However, I often struggle with finding the right things to talk about. What I truly desire is to spend quality time together, whether it's sharing a delicious meal or enjoying a movie, without the constant pressure of feeling like I have to say something cool. I have the time to create wonderful experiences, and I believe that a true connection can be built by simply enjoying each other's company, even without the need for non-stop conversation.

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Hey guys 20f  nege and a college student a fresh malte new ena becha mariman lately I am feeling like I am heading into the depression path that once took ,and I don't want to go down that road again cuz I usually do bad things ,try things malte attempt menamn and all this shit because of my horrible father shit he is died now but I feel like growing up seeing my mom in pain, crying almost every  goddamm day is just too much pain for a child in my opinion and it is the worst thing that child could face i can tell you that much becha I am in college and shit got worse for me malte financially we are broke like for real malte new maraimn I can't ask my mama she got nothing le taxi bro for a freaking taxi eytawe new. (BTW wtf taxi eko ride honeben bey kenu eycmeru )becha enja mariman alkem I am i am in college now bro you dont know how much stress i in, .
you cant even imagine how the so called "zemed" both my moms and my dads are stan besmam they can help me out eko but choose not to. I have tried or begged to get jobs and stuff none worked my school schedules dont match up with my work so I can't work ena i want to stop school and work my ass off and help my mama but i dont have a clear vision for my future so i cant stop school u know. Becha i am stressing the fuck out i zone out in school thinking about my life but i do study at home which works for me i believe the saying i am just surviving not living is describing me write now and i dont enjoy life i swear i get angry very easily, i pretty much hate myself, but you i got to push it through for my mama so men large my people

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Hello guys, please tell me how do i know she have feelings for me, the thing is we knew eachother from kindergarten, after years apart i met her two yrs ago and we're too close now, she want me to act like her boyfriend i already knew almost all of her friends, i'm the one she call when she is sick and want home treatment or go to hospital, she want me to go register her in college, she want me to treat her when she's on her period, she want us to go Seychelles for vacation, she have plan for what we work after 2 years, she used to want buy us property in both our names , and all my friends and every people saw her  say she's in love with me, to be honest i love her & she became my softspot but when i saw this and try to show her my feelings i notice she only text 'hyy' to checkup on me when i reply she dont text back, she call me when she thinks i get mad at her, the reason she give me is she meet me everyday in person(actually she live around my office so she always say hi and talks 5 min everytime she pass by) but i am kinda need reassurance every second, and most of all she talks to other guys on phone and go on dates sometimes but she dont want me to know like she knows i care, the thing is i am introverted insecure not cool looking plus not rich guy and she is a total 10/10 extroverted, go out to clubs, and all the guys around her are riches & diaspora, do you blame me if i'm insecure & what do you suggest me Please

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Hey everyone

I just wanna share something if it's helpful to anyone so i saw a reel balefo let and it said "there is no woman who needs protection, just stop attacking them" and one thing i noticed is that ik great men exist in this world (still can't find them tho) but this world is just more fucked up for women than men. Ik y'all r gonna say men go to war and work in dangerous jobs etc and i respect y'all for it but i said this because today i hear about many women being harassed and no one does anything about it, it's just considered normal at this point but today was my turn i guess and to tell yall the truth harassment is just common in our society but this one just made my mind dizzy. I was sitting in front of the weyala and next to me was a man around his 40 or 50. He was thalking racist shit like politics etc and i was just minding my own business and all of a sudden that man slapped me on the face and normally i would just insult the shit outta them but GUESS WHAT HE IS A ቄስ... So i felt horrible. At first he kinda touched my boobs but i think it was accidental but the wtf was the slap for man! And he calls himself kes? I hear many shits about them like drinking and being greedy etc but this was just a new discovery. I like my religion very much and when i see any type of ቄስ i use to bow down from respect but even the type of people that are considered to be Gods people can be so racist and pathetic idk who to trust anymore man. Atleast set bethon betmetagnm it'll be fair fight but yemr the more i start to experience life the more i lose hope in men( i might be unlucky but still). Ik the good ones are out there but still idc anymore. So i just wanna say girls be careful please u don't know what type of situations u might get in. I'm sure y'all think that this might be not that serious but i just wanna tell y'all that no matter how perfect someone seems u wouldn't know what their intentions in real life and in dating too. Mine is not that big of a deal but there are many girls who get touched, sexualized on public without their consent and raped too. And this is NOT about religion, i still love and respect kes and my religion

Take care and if u have a younger sister please try to know what's happening around her surrounding and if u got no dad, brother and a boyfriend like me the i hope God protects u at all cost😊

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Hello there am a guy in the mid 20's recently i got diagnosed with this rare disease ena suicidal thoughts eyemetabegn new please help how to get rid of this suicidal thoughts thank you in advance.

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