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Hey Unihorse 🦄
I am Kibreab
I need to vent
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AAU student, prolly gon be a 3rd year in 2017 ካልተጫርኩ 😂 (I'm not kidding tho)

So, picture this: I had a bestie for over eight years. We became super tight in grade nine, practically glued at the hip. In high school, we were so close that everyone thought we were dating. Spoiler alert: we weren't. I even had a secret relationship during high school but kept her in the dark about it. Fun times, right?

She was my go-to, my safe haven. I could tell her everything, and she did the same with me. But after our 12th exam, things got a bit rocky. We started doubting our friendship—because that's what every great friendship needs, a sprinkle of doubt.

Fast forward to university: same school, same campus. And just three days in, we had a massive fallout. Totally my fault. Cue the waterworks. I cried buckets because, you know, losing your closest friend of five years in a dramatic conflict is the best way to kick off freshman year.

We haven't spoken in a year. My classmates and people who had the same class as me in high school have been nagging me to make peace with her, but I’ve been stubbornly holding out because I'm convinced she’ll never see me the same way again. Plus, fixing things? Way too mainstream.

Now, my social life is non-existent. No friends, nada. I don’t think anyone could ever be like her again. My mom adored her, and her mom adored me. Her mom still calls me like everything is peachy, but she has no clue about the fallout. Classic.

So, here I am, debating whether to crawl back and try to be friends again or just find someone new in Addis who’s willing to be friends. Preferably a woman because, let’s face it, who else would tolerate this level of drama? Thoughts?

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Don't know when this will get approved but ya let's go

Eshi yalfut 5 ametat behiwete kebad ametat neberu bezu asalfyalew welaj motobgnal bezu neger.be Kise mnm alneberebgnm beteseben eje neber metebkew.bezi mehal demo feteregna alegn bezu amet abrew yehonku distance relationship new mulu genegnunetachen.ena yagatemugn negeroch betam lewtewgnal yederow abraw yehonechew lej aydelhum.acheyim eyalegnem bihon lerase birr magegnbet mengd fetryalew .bezu neger lay larg sel yadakmegnal beka berchi endemalet ayhonm new milew.mengrewn neger about my life melso enen lemegudat yetekmbtal.toxic behari aybetalew aywedgnem beka endaybal 5 amet koyen mn yebalal.ena ahun ende telat eyayewt new fail bareg bisekalgn chgr byagatmegn mnm alnagrm.ewnetun lemenagr ahuns ewedewalew enenja.becha endi mehonu normal aydelm aydel sewoch Gera selhbagn new.lelaw demo deep inside I feel yebetesebochen wers endemifelg kenega bemehon endet new matarat mechlew felagotu yehe kehone?

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Hey everyone,
So i got a question for you ladies…. bear with me …..this is not a thirst trap try to follow my drift until the end.

so here is my situation, been a player for quite a while and have dated alot even with people above my age. Have had a good sex review, dont have any problems with that whatsoever. I keep it clean never ended things in bad terms with anyone. spontaneous with words and with how i can make you nut, Ultimate fuck boy type .Tmi?

Might call me a modern day christian gray with out the helicopter lol

The reason I mentioned all this is so that you can picture what i have been like so that you can answer my question informed.

So these days ive wanting to settle down be there for someone have a conversation, know things about them leave my toxic shit behind and be a better partner, be understanding, intuitive so on and so forth but when ever im asked about my past and i talk about it ladies tend to get weird with me.

Girls get possessive, nagging, complaining all the time , starting a fight for no reason; while im just trying to be a better person. get accused of cheating, while still staying clear of that route. They dont introduce to friends and get all insecure and things end up blowing on my face. Thought i was supposed to be the toxic one.

My question is, is it too much for someone to know me like this and still have a healthy attitude about it?

Do i have to hide this about myself so you ladies wont feel insecure?

Are you guys sure when you say you like a guy with some experience or is it something you say but don’t actually mean?

What is your take on this ?
How can i have a healthy relationship based on honesty without the side effects?
Am i too selfish to ask this
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I am 🎭 Wolelaw
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What is a standard for you guys?
I have dated a couple of girls in my past and everytime I called the quits. My friends follow up by saying I don't have standards and so on. Like most of the girls I dated are black and I am lighskin ena I don't mind lightskin girls too but I feel like they are my sister's or cousin😂. for that reason I mostly preferred black girls other than that gn I truly go for the Personality. Gn ahun yenesun perspective sreda ena connecting the dots girls with good personality might be mid and that's why they have good tsebay, it's to make up for it.

So, guys what should I do, what's is a good standard on a women. To be in a serious relationship with (22M)

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እሺ ትውልዴ አላችሁ?በቃ እንደዚህ ቅጥ አንባሩ የጠፋ ህይወት እንደ ቀልድ normex ነው ብለን መኖር መጀመራችን አይገርምም
እግዚአብሔር ይፈራል ተብሎ በሚዘመርበት ሀገር
ይሄ ሁሉ ጉድ ገና በ 20ዎቹ መጀመሪያ ላይ ተሸክመን እርጅናችንማ ምን እንደሚመስል አይገባኝም በርግጥ በዚህ አካሄዳችን ሸምግለን ትውልድ ለመምከር እንደማንበቃ የታወቀ ነው በቅጡ ለአንድ ለራሳችን የመሆን አቅምም የሌለን ከንቱ ሆነናል ምክንያቱም እግዚአብሔር የሌለው ማንነት የሞራል ህግም የለውምና..በጣም ነው የሞናሳዝነው የምናስጠላውም በትንጥ ነገር እራስን ማጥፋት ነው, porn ነው, እርካታ ሁሉ sex ውስጥ ያለ ነው የሚመስለን
እንዴት ነው የምናስጠላው?
ምንም አዲስ ነገር አይታየንም ከrelationship ውጪ?? ገና በ19 አመታችን 3ተኛ relationship ኧረ ምን አይነት የዘመን መጨረሻ ላይ ተፈጠርን...እንዴ እኛ ስፔሻል አይደለንም በቃ ምንም ነገር ያጋጥማል ማዘንም መከዳትም ማጣትም ትዳርም ፍቅረኛም ትልቅ ነገር አይደለም
ኧረ ትውልድዬ ወዴት ነው የምንደርሰው በዚህ አካሄድ?
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Hey just wan say stg for everyone who’s struggling no matter how messy our life is going no matter how crazy the shitty things come into our life no matter how hard it is to live our life still, those thing are not the reason for us to 'stop'.
because after all of that, we still totally deserve the happiness we still totally deserve the better days we still totally deserve the beautiful life so, no matter how rough our day is, let's stay alive let's stay alive and prove it to the world that we still deserve all the good things among all that shit
I love you guys stay awake 🤍

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Olla ladies and gentlemen's
So am going to hit 20's F in about a month and i feel like am too old and i haven't done nothing at all. All i remember is that i was 11 years old playin with my friends then boooom now am 20 idk how the time went. I can't say i did things that am proud of. Am currently learning law at uni about to be 3rd year and i broke up with my boyfriend 6 month ago and idk what's gonna happen in the next chapter of my life and i feel like am left of and haven't done nothing so ladiess what do you think i should be doin?? Am really getting stressed coz i hv to take my life seriously on my relationship and also financially. Give me any advice that helped you survive ur twenties.

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Sewoch am I the only onw who thinks this channel is increasingly being filled with drama? I don't know if it's just me being paranoid but many of these vents smell like a bait written to catfish ppl for our greedy selfs blindfolded by lust. This was supposed to be a place where ppl feel safe. And don't even get me started on the comments section. I don't lie even I feel the compulsion to reach out to a nice girl who shared her problems here ... but what I see with not so few ppl is outright greedy selfish behavior. I just wanted to say we're ugly. Thanks

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Hey am 26F I have a 2 years old relationship Ena ene endemifeligew ayhonilignim mnm support ayadergegnim endewim kismen nw misebrew like atakim atichiyim nw milegn
Sew fit respect yadergegnal Guadegnochun hulunim astewawkognal yiwedugnal enesum gn lene time yelewim mulu ken minigenagnibet ken kalhone le tinish dekika bilo enen magignet ayfeligim. sinitala yeteshale wend ga hiji nw milegn beza lay betam yikoral yakorfal ene yalkut yihun nw milew gn liyatagnim ayfeligim anchi bicha nesh yaleshign nw milegn hule yidewililignal saydewililign kerto ayawkim Demo my friends are getting married And I want it too gn financially stable silalhone esu ready aydelem ena old yehonku eyemeselegn nw is it normal or ? And sometimes I just want to end our relationship... what should i do

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Hi guys
So f19
Im feeling a bit guilty about this guy. Let me start form the beginning. So we met at school, we were really good friends I was good to him when he was going through a really hard breakup and he vented to me and I said call me anytime u feel alone and that's how we bonded. Mind u I said friends I had no other feelings for him and I made that clear. I even lied and said I liked some other dude and we kissed menam so he would know his place in my life. But then school ended and i got an amazing opportunity but I couldn't afford it so I told him since u can afford it why won't u try it. He said he would pay for the both of us I said no but then he got offended saying are we not friends. What are friends for menamn. So I said Okey and we went through it. I got encouraged enough to tell my parents bcuz the process was really working. And one day he called and told me he was in love with me and he don't want my answer bcuz he knows what it's gonna be so I gave no answer. Then we had a fight about me not giving him an answer. He gaslight me so had I had to apologize for not giving him an answer and I gave one. Which was no i don't have that kind of feelings for you I'm sorry, and if you wanna stop what ur doing for me you can stop. Then he said fine I don't want to lose our friendship. And I didn't wanna lose my process so i stayed friends with him. Mind u he gets mad if I don't pick up the phone menamn. Then he asked me for the second time and the third time and I said I have no feelings on both times. But on the 4th and the last time he made me feel like he was just paying so he could have me. I knew all along but he always denide it and said it's cuz i deserve it but this time I knew he was gonna stop and I couldn't disappoint my parents who were rotting for me so I said yes let's be together but then now I feel bad bcuz he thinks I love him but I'm gonna leave his ass as soon as I finish bcuz that mf blackmailed me in to a relationship. He taking about marriage menamn but I've nvr even let him hold my hand let alone think about marriage . I hate him for forcing me in to this when he knew I didn't want this. But now I kinda feel bad bcuz he really does love me and it's gonna break his heart when I leave him Becha ya thanks for reading I know it's long. And spear me if ur here to judge. But i would like to know what u guys think

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Hello im yared 24 . Its been 2 years, since I found out that I got Hiv 🙂‍↕️. Looking for some one in same road to talk to.

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Hey I'm 20 F living with my grandmother ena ke 7 grade jemro guadgnay nbrch she's not only ma friend she's ma sister ena mnm negr yaleswa alagm nbr entrance teftenen gibi alhednm eziw unity university temzegbn keza party megbat jemren sigara maches mekam mtetat jemren keza lifachn kn bekn endeza hon endekeld nbr yejmrnew keza yehon seat lay sanaches mewal eyakaten meta birr eyatan bcha bizu negr eyhonen ena susachen ke akmachen belay Hon memot esknmegn ders office tekrayten nbr keleloch lijoch ga mekamiya mnamn teblo bf nbregn almost 4 years lihonen nw ena endezi aynet negr wust endalgeba bezu leftobegnal bcha even cheat argbet nbr ena endegbaw rasu ayakm nbr ena betam nbr treat miyargegn mnam mechersha lay nw yawkew negroch kakme belay sihonu ena bcha eyamshn nbr mengebaw keza yehon kn amshten sengeba wendmua metuat fitwa belzo metach teyayzn hedn wedbet memels alfelgm lchign ezaw office adrn selkachenen shetenew letosn kn endihonen beln nbr keza fam beybotaw eyteflgn nbr ena bcha tegnen. esua wed diredewa lakuat ezaw classwan ketelch ene ena ayate sefr keyern. Rejm gize ke rase ga alnbrkum abje nbr nw mibalew tsebel gebaw, ena yesranachewn faul fam awk fkregnaye awk even awko rasu lene kebad benberew time abrogn nbr eyandandun kn abrogn nw yasalefew bertat eyhonegn bezu struggle alefku keza kebet endalota tekelkye wed 6 wer bet nbrku Yan hula alfe classm akumeyalew bet bech mewal hone seraye ena selk testegn finally ig lay awrahut ena endedro mawrat jemrn ena ene selk yalnbregn time ke fekregnaye ga Tawra ene endiyagenagnen selelmnkut lene belo nbr mawrat yejmrew ena tekerarbew nbr negr ena yengregn nbr endemiyawru selk keyazku behula yetosn kn endemiyawru negrchign keza awrtew endemayaku nw metonew ene ga sendewawl balsh denanew awrten anakm nbr metelgn ynbrew ena esu demo endemiyawru even miyawrutn hula yengregn yasayegn nbr ena yedbregn nbr balmenagerwa lene bezu nger eywashechgn memtat jemrch des may akerareb eykerbchew endehon bcha eytawkegn nbr esu bcha endalat matat endematfelg negr nbr metawraw tsebayewam endebefitu alehon eyalegn meta yehon mawratm ateflgem keza yehon kn ke diro abrewn mikmu lijoch ig lay text lekolegn asayehuat keza awriw alechign metelegnen mesmat selfelku Lela acc besu sem kefche endesu hogne rasen mawrat jemrku selkelat esua endmteflg setmeta mekamunm machesunm hulunm ngr makom endematefelg nw awerarwa ena ezam ke wendoch ga endemtota setmeta endedro endenhon nw felagotwa normal endehon eyasamnchign negr nw endegna sus benjemr ngr... ke fekregnaye ga makom endalebegn nw metmekregn yenbrew bcha ene yane yasalefkuten life akalew wedewala memels alifeligem esua mnm alonchm even class alakomchem ene gn still ye famn emet erasu alagnhum ena hulum bezuriyaye yal sw mifelgew wedhuala endalmels ena yetshal negr lay endeders nw ena esua Yan hula yasalefkutn endedegmew eytemgnchelegn nw ena ahun lay sasbew endedro bihon eshi elalt endenbr nw mnm ngr berase alargm nbr even melbsew erasu esua nbr metmertelgn yalchegen nbr eshi melew esua metelgn lk nw bye nbr masbew ena bcha yhon bezu ngr lay esua nbrch metosnelgn ena eytesmagn yalew lene wedketen endemtefelg ena ke fekregnayen endemtefelgew nw ena kederom jemro ene enji esua guadgnaye endalnbrch nw misemagn ena mn maderg endalbegn mnm alakm hasab setugn🙏

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I'm here more to ask for advice rather than to vent so the thing is I'm a 20 year old Christian who tries to be as christian as possible UK, so ever since i was like 12 or 13 i had this urge to be in a relationship like a serious relationship where we could Grow together which seems unrealistic these days but when ever i get closer to women it's either we end up Hooking up(making out since I'm a Christian I'm not referring to sex, which is a huge thing for me) for a day and then go our separate ways or they get too attached Early or we end up not meeting up and sexting sending nudes et-cetera over social media and i end things there cause it feels wrong. and the problem is like if get close to women like in the right way i end up being disliked or sthn cause i tend to be old fashioned in a biblical way but if i approach women in a sexual way uk flirting and et cetera it takes me 2- 3 days to be with that girl and I'm not looking for girl you know I'm looking for a women real mature christian one who loves Christ You know and how can i fix this like what can i do to gain a real woman in the right old fashioned way cause I'm tired of the bullshit where it's just about sex no if we're having sex where having it the right way and where "love" is mutual.

so ladies what do i do any advice??

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I’m writing this, to people for who are in there late teen to early twenties…..those who learned fantasy high-school or even elementary schools that grow up with a high expectations in life….. but most of our childhood school friends are in US or Europe learning in fantasy or even acceptable college that would be make them someone someday. But us who didn’t make the cut now we’re stuck in here godforsaken shit hole of a country….. with hundreds and hundreds of idiots to deal with on a daily basis.
We can’t travel cause we have Ethiopian passport, we can’t get a job that pays an agreeable salary that can help you live a decent life, not a fancy one but decent life, you can’t get access to anything , you can’t start a business with out dealing with same old nuances bullshit of the Ethiopian Bureaucracy, …….,. How many of you are depressed beyond repercussion because we’re born in here and feel like a trapped rat who can’t go out…. Waiting to die slowly ….. I would like to share how your feeling and hear if anyone on say something about it …..

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So I'm coming here again to give y'all some context about my last vent. Some of you said that I'm too young or either I'm on that teenager phase but that's not the case. See I came from parents that don't love each other and an abusive father who beats me whenever he feels like it. He came home drunk? He beats me screams at me. He came home after argument? All the anger is let out on me. And this was since I hit teen. But he never dared to touch my mom but one day he slapped her across her face which I was like this shit is done for like I didn't have a single peace in my life like I grew to hate him and hate him but he thinks I hate him bc my mom has more money?? getan he gets mad when ever my mom gets me expensive gifts ( in his eyes they're) and he thinks that the cause for our family downfall like uhhh don't you see the problem is you? When the Police were called bc u won't stop beating me for no reason? Yeah that affected me so much and ik it will affect me in the future too even now that my parents are divorced I still am living with that trauma having no one else to tell to. I want to tell my mom but yk she is now living her life and me telling her I still am depressed would make her feel like she failed so I kinda don't show her how bad it is. She knows tho. And here is my dad calling me everyday bugging my ass and saying shit like "you're my daughter you won't go far for me" oh honey I would deny u like. Yeah anyways apart from that is my social skills and how I don't feel any connections with my friends or any person (I live in my head ig) even I laugh with them and all then phew immediately I'm dissociating and thinking only if my father wasn't an asshole I would have very different view in life and some small trauma response that I see on myself wouldn't be there if it wasn't for the life he given me it's so bad that I go to the school bathroom so one one can see me cry or so they don't think I'm boring always being inside my head. and my whole family hate each other bc of the divorce so I really got no one I cry myself to sleep, I disassociate and whatnot. And yeah I was a this huge believer of God and I think my prayer have been answered when I prayed for their divorce and I was happy and was going around telling ppl how his grace is huge and all but now I don't have spark anymore. Also I'm so self conscious about my appearance my friends comment on it as jock but now they said it too many times I'm literally getting conscious bout it. But ik I won't heal every time that I think I'm fine after some time I hit rock bottom so one thing I didn't try is a therapist maybe I give it a try and see what happens and if not God knows

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I oscillate between normal interactions and sudden withdrawal, which strains my ability to maintain friendships...I often find myself dwarfed by those perceived as more affluent or educated, triggering deep-seated feelings of inferiority and insignificance... n again my persistent failures n loss of faith in my religion have cast a shadow over my life, leaving me purposeless
...sometimes death feels like an escape to this never ending turmoil...
Why do god, with his infinite wisdom n love, let people get mentally tortured like this...

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Hello I think am pregnant my period late honual like for a week ena my boos betam eyamemegn new ena gn if am pregnant I can't keep the baby because am virgin and I just can't keep it ena anyone hospital yemiawk kale abort lemadreg in Addis with affordable price pls help me out

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Hi folks have my greeting
I am 22m and i came here just to say like am feeling nothing lately I mean am not depressed like I used to be but when I tried to feel myself am not even feeling human anymore and it been normalized in me for long years almost 5 years and I haven't felt nothing real for this years because I have been in war half of it and seriously I overcome the insanity and painful depression that I tot I couldn't survive
without anyone knowing by myself and when I look back I have survived and battled strongly and am proud of myself cause I have made it Alive myself rn and things are different but it's not completely gone
that's the depression bad side you can win it but it won't leave you whatever you did whoever you are and whatever you have successed that's what most ppl question when celebrities and rich ppl commit suicide because the demon you have to fought is unexplainable and who survived of it is real heroes ik there are a lot who made it silently and I hope you will keep going ❤️
But the time, the possession the energy and the opportunities we waste is also more painful while we battle the darkness
and when I come to mine after i make it out my deconstruction era am feeling so gone am losing sense of self and I don't even know what I been feeling till I came here to vent am feeling like am just existing
And I been waiting for to long to change my spot to start over my life with ppl idk because I feel drained around me and I know them and they know me even on the era of my pain and I have lost sense around it and it senseless to begin again here
And am exhausted and feeling hollow and stuck am also tired of waiting for that place called somewhere where I meet new ppl and feel alive it's been while since I felt it's called love and peace
I am not depressed but am tired of where I am and am also Afraid to not lose myself again and slow down and idk how to ask my family for support because they see me stronger they don't even have a hint what I've been feeling and they don't even care what am saying
What shall I do guys?

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Well, it was a normal day. I was heading to campus. My hair was up, the typical messy bun. I had a casual outfit on, a black cargo pants with a baggie hoodie. I got in the first taxi. Then the ረዳት came and opened the front door for me telling the next lady trying to get in ሰው አለ. I thought to myself "pretty privilege". The taxi started moving. I had my airpods on solely for the purpose of avoiding talking to people, I enjoy listening to music tho.

Meanwhile the taxi driver made some comments about me something like የቃላት ለከፋ I just shoulder shrugged and ignored him. It was obvious that I wasn't interested and disgusted by the way he approached me.

There was this girl sitting right next to me. Probably around the age of 28. በየመሀሉ ገልመጥ ለማድረግ ትሞክር ነበር. After some time he grabbed my thigh. I was shook not knowing what to do. እጁን በእጄ ገፋ አድርጌ. I kept minding my own business. He didn't stop. And I just sat there hopelessly hating myself because I found it hard to stand up for myself. This was probably happening for the 500th time in my life. ሴትዮዋም sat there አልሰማውም ብላ.

It wasn't my first time being assaulted. I faced many incidents like this since I was 4. But this is my reaction almost every time. Just standing or sitting there with zero power to defend myself. I just keep my mouth shut even after it happens.

But I kept thinking, what if the girl next to me was some women's rights activist. What if she was one of the feminists I scroll down on TikTok thinking they're just trying to destroy our tradition? Would I have felt helpless? Would the guy have been held accountable for what he did?

Many of us despise feminists for every religious and traditional reasons. But they are indeed being a voice for voiceless people like myself.

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Why is it so hard to find a mature friend?someone who knows boundaries and respect but have place for fun, not in a twisted way tho.
Everyone this days have a victim mindset…its never ‘lets grow together’
im so tired of it. I just want someone who wants to improve themselves while balancing a happy life! Is it too much to ask for? I mean every single person i met, on their 20’s are so fked. No future… just a dream with no action… for most reading is boring and clubbing all night makes you cool n shi,not saying parties ain’t fun…in fact i enjoy it but everything have their own limits.
The victim mindset tho…
For God's sake, a relationship ending is not the end of the world!!! Nor is a break of friendship!!

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So lately ive been having this feeling of not having a purpose, feeling of being a burden , im feeling like im the dead fish that goes with the flow and i cant stop thinking about it. Maybe its cause i over think alot like alot but idk, im a 22m and a uni student i thought i had my shit figured out and thought i was ready for everything but lately it all went sideways. I was the type of guy that enjoys spending time with my thoughts sort alike they were my safe peaceful space but lately im scared just to be alone with my thoughts and its bad i notice my self trying to do some time consuming stuff to trick my thoughts but that's not helping. And i was just hoping if someone could relate and hoping for an advice i guess 🙇🏽‍♂

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Hello..my lost young people! Something inside me told me to vent while I was reading the 19 year old girl’s vent. She was sayin she’s lost, she couldn’t find an answer for her questions. like why this generation seeks lust over love……Girls wake up! The world is in your hand. Stop wearing clothes the world wants but you, stop hanging out with people the world follows but you, stop being what the world wants you to be but your parents!! The world is lying but not your parents!! be intentional! Know what to spend your gold time on..you are loosing your self while trying to fulfill the world. The picture you post on social media is not exactly what you are but what your follower wants to see. Stop being fool and work on your mind over you look!!if it’s all for men’s believe me The man you attract physically will leave you when seeing how unattractive you are mentally! So please wake up

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Hey people,
I've been feeling down for a little while now and I just thought maybe talking about it might help.
I feel abandoned by everyone, I feel like everyone's turned their back on me. Even my own family doesn't care about me. And I don't even feel like God is on my side anymore. I don't know what I have done to displease God so much that he forsaken me. It's almost starting to feel like a pattern, he gives me hope with one hand and takes it away with the other, I don't want this to sound like a complaint but I'm genuinely lost here. Sometimes I just think about my childhood how things were much simpler but then again my childhood wasn't that exciting either but still things were much easier when I kid. The last few years of my life doesn't even feel real, I lost so many people, I realized some harsh truths and turns out I never really had anyone care about me genuinely. Anyway I don't want bother you with irrelevant details. I just want to say if you have real people in your life appreciate them there aren't many of them left.

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Why is everything so sexual with men these days? Why can't you control your desires and get to know someone for who they really are before making things sexual? Genuine relationships aren’t built on lust. If you’re not ready for a real relationship, you should only talk to women who feel the same. I am so tired of men approaching me and claiming they want a real relationship, only to reveal their true intentions of seeking something sexual after just a few hours or days.Don’t deceive real women with lies.

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So the thing is, my father recently got sick(cancer), ena becha i don't know what to do the world has a thing of taking the ones u love those people u consider pure it messes with u .I don't even see in what sense this judgment is fair. Maybe he is overdue his time of rule to make such an absurd judgment . Maybe he should step down from his throne .

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Hey guys.
So how do u make relationships last?
(from ur experiences)
For me its like chasing a cloud…tnsh lemlmo siderq ayewalehu, nothing i can do about it.
Whats ur secret?
is it keeping promises? is it personality? is it luck?
those who have figured it out melsulgn, mndnew mistrachu?

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This is lolo 20yo F and uni student I am stuck in this circle of life that doesn't end spinning. which made me so tired and fucked up in life . I feel like I am loosing everything bit by bit and Everything I touch is screwed 💀 . Yeah and I can't help it especially when it comes to consistency and doing sth . I really worry about my future life and see notin and I mean notin
I start a task and can't keep up with it lemsale for hundreds of times I started working out and once I start to get in shape and feel healthy and deciplined I will quit it and feel like it's useless and when it comes to academic things I know that I have potential to do anything but now I am drained and can't do anything about it . I am so desperate of making my dad proud and I want to be in a political position in the future which I know that I could make a huge difference in it what do u guys advice me ?

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I worked with this guy for over a year and we went out of town for a meeting and stayed five days together. We had never been close before, but at that time there were no other people we knew so we spent the five days together. We talked stuff and I encountered similarities in many things.. what a coincidence.😊 we got back in town when the meeting was over n life continued as it was before.. nothing strange happened.. but one day I was busy in my office working and I saw him looking through the window n we had a brief lock of eyes.. I suddenly stopped looking at him and tried to figure out what just happened. I felt a strange feeling that took my breath away. I thought my heart stopped beating for a while and felt lightheaded.. I never felt like this before n I never had problems looking into people's eyes when talking before, but from that day on I couldn't.. he is now working in another town n has been months since then.. we only talked once on the phone n texted once on something he could help me with and that is all. I couldn't know what to name it.. those of u who had experiences like this please share n tell me how it turned out to be😄

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Hey, wts up people, I am a 25 M. I am venting here cause I want to hear other perspectives, especially those with a good relationship status with women andwomen ofc. Here is my situation.

You might call it I have an ego or ignorance or even lack of confidence,but for me I see it as I have a self respect that I couldn't compromise myself to get someone so I've never dated anyone in ma life to this day, these days am starting to see that I have to do it eventually cause all of my friends have experianced this and by the looks of it here am way too late not for me but still that's how it is.

It have never crossed my mind that I have to chase women or think about that stuff because I got a life Ihave to worry about I live alone my family is capable but am living in my own they can help me if I need it ofc so till recently all I think about is. My carrier,

so ladies or guys who married or at the brink of marriage am I on the right track

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*I realized it’s a long vent after I finished writing and summarizing it, I started writing it at 12:39AM and finished at 1:10AM. You have no reason or responsibility to read all this bull crap but it might benefit your view of things.

As I’m writing this, it’s exactly 12:39AM and I have had a huge stress for about three years now.

Hey, I’m 19 years old guy and I will be a third year university student after two month. Although my age compared to my current educational level may make me appear some sort of genius but I’m not, I’m the furthest person from it.

I read this quote on a book that said “if you have a problem, chances are that someone in the past had them or/and someone in the future will have them” so here is goes.

Point of the matter is, I will be graduating in less than 2 years with a computer science degree. Now a little background on my family, I have an older brother and older sister. My brother, who is the eldest, was seen as a sort of prodigy because he was smart and curious from an early age, but unfortunately he fell into addiction in university but thank God he has recovered fully. Although he is working “not hard but smart” (as he defines it) he is a good for nothing at the moment. My sister is a house wife with a VERY loving family again thanks to God. My parents are what you would call incompatible. All of us think of our mothers as they are the strongest humans out there and I am here to tell you that they are, but unfortunately to my mother she had married what you would call “የዋህ” and my father has been dragging her from her success because he is a fool (not intentionally) now my mom is jobless and my father makes quite literally no profit what’s so ever so we are living from my mom’s savings and that won’t help us last long. I have no grandparents, no inheritance, no land, no cousins, no aunts or uncles, I have nobody except my siblings and parents. Now I’ve told you that my brother is jobless, my sister is jobless, my mother is jobless and my father is a fool who can’t survive in this world. Like I said, I will be graduating soon and I feel like all the burden is on my shoulder with nothing or no one to help me in any way, my parents will get too old to work soon and somebody has to look after them and that somebody isn’t my sister, brother, or anybody. Unfortunately for me I have no skills what’s so ever, I was (not to exaggerate) a prodigy of football and drawing until I was 16 years old which is when I got to 11 grade and I was forced to only focus on studies (which did not do me well or most people) (side note, if you ever have a child please help them grow their talents rather than put me in front of a book 24/7). Since nobody gonna know my identity, might as well tell y’all that I have been thinking about suicide since the age is 16 and the only reason I hadn’t done it till this day is because I know my mother couldn’t handle it and I would gladly go through the worst pain imaginable just to spare her some moment of peace let alone being alive. Now, don’t get me wrong there is nothing that my parents didn’t provide for me but I’m too scared of this burden that I will most probably have to endure pretty soon.

So when you write a comment try to see this from my perspective not from yours. And please, spare me from the “find God” advices, all I need right now isn’t a happy life, health, fame or power. I just need money to make the rest of my mom’s life as joyful as possible, I’d gladly trade my soul to the devil if he came and offer it just to see her relaxed for a moment.

If you made it this far, I’m really thankful because even if you don’t know it or feel it, you have helped me with my problem through only reading it. Thanks!

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