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I feel everything and nothing at the same time. Fear, loneliness, boredom, hate, sadness, even bits of happiness all mixed up. I don’t feel confident in myself, and sometimes I hate how I feel around certain people. የነበረኝ social intraction, even የሚያስደስተኝ ነገር የለም I’m tired, but I keep going. I don’t know what I need maybe just peace, maybe just a break from my own mind.
Just i need your advice/comment bro&sis
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Selam sewoch i'm M 18 ena grade 11 eski advice argugn tmhrt kejemerku jemro eskahun dres andm r/ship wst gebche alakm ena kehone gize jemro flagote kef eyale meta kegna batch ena guwadegnoche wst bzu sew r/ship wst nw ene gn wef.. yeset mekreb feracha mnamn mibal nger yelebgnm and sew lawra bil erasu ketewawekuat buhala mn ladrg mn lawra mnamn mibalut ngeroch nachew miyaschenkugn enji lela yelem. Eski meker stugn bekumneger ezi lay wesgnalw!
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Can someone have a crush for nine years straight, from fifth grade up to second year of university? My mind can’t forget him. I wish he were with me instead of her. There hasn’t been a single day when I didn’t think about him or stalk him. Please tell me, is this normal? We used to have a connection—it was a “right person, wrong time” kind of situation. He ended up with my best friend. Is there anyone who can relate to this?
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I still love her so much.... I can't get her out of my mind we broke up she tried to test me unknown number call me the girl asked my asked my IG I gave her she DM me... But the thing is I wondered who she is that's why I gave her and she talked me and she told me she got a crush on me from school stuff and I was like what I don't get noticed in school that much I'm not sociable guy I only have two mates no relation w gurl the next day I got there and she wasn't there even she came I was about tellin her I can't be w her uk my problem endzi aynt ngr leb bye alargwm js normal argew nw mayw w the girl she keep pushin me I kept the chat cool down and general I came and told my girl tf happend and guess what she told me she was testing me it was her cousin and then she insulted me and blocked me everywhere( I told u in short ) I was terrified cuz I grow up w lack of love... My father passed out when I was young my mother don't even have a time w me she's always yellin or smtn messin up w me ik y'all got no idea how love is worth for me it's a lot to me... Back to the topic after 2 months or smtn lelit 6:12 she texted me I was shocked my hands got cold my heart beating so fast we talked about how we missed each other mnamn stuff then misunderstood happen arge we pushed eachother bka akuahunacn dgami mnaweram anmeslm kza after a month endzi dgami she texted me I told her that I missed her so much endi eyaweran bka push eyetederargn 5 gize honen idk how yhone time ly I found us textin eachother and at the 5th time I thought maybe what if god's givin us a hint bye asbku .... I'm kinda calm guy jazz & blues fan when I listen those music memories hits so deep I tried to talk another girl snap, IG I can't do It I feel disgusted that's when I realised I can't be that kind of guy.. I didn't built for that I choose little circle, tears won't stop fallin down like every night but this doesn't mean I'm losing my balance I didn't lose hope about my life... I'm not stopping grindin I had a dream that I'll make them become real no joke w this.... Sometimes I wana do suicide but I don't Wana die at this situation I'll be glad if I do it after I make it winging the world I Wana die not bcuz of money or wealth I Wana die bcuz my soul didn't get what It need, I wana make it w her I don't want that emptiness... Sayin for ppls I build this alone nahh fuck It I want her by my side w every success now few days ago we stared talkin I'm trying to build real connection w her instead of saying believe me I'm trying to prove it... She's getting a scholarship and she said ezi endzi yark how could I believe u when am there it's 3 years course I don't wana say her trust me stuff I Wana show her ... And I'll wait for her w loyalty building what we need .... She tells me she still loves me... She missed me... The only thing that's holding her is trust issues nw we're planning to meet up ... Say smtn y'all
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Which one would u choose?
Your parents' happiness or your happiness?
To make the argument realistic, your parents have been there for u your whole life even though it's not always perfect, and the thought that their time is short and I want to be there for them until the end. I've come this far.
And on the other side there's me. My life. I have to build my future. I've worked really hard to get here.
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Yup, i know definitely knows that i will never be married! Fuck and that hurts. And i wanted that sweet arrogance of mine where i thought marriage was evil, where i could blame divorce rate, to avoid it 😭 how i wish it would engulf me. But here i am wallowing in this dark void of loneliness, and cold water of regret
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If this is hell, my punishment is worse than inferno.... to see my mom's excitement, the fucking ጉጉት thinking that ለወግ ለማዕረግ የምበቃ ...ahhh i can't even look in her eyes
It is not like i didn't put myself out there to find a guy.. i did but it won't be past to the talking stage or first dates የናንተም አባጣ ጎርባጣቹ በዛ ማርያምን! የኔም አቃቂር ማውጣት ቅጥ አጣ። i sometimes wish that i was Innocent, trusting, blind... ይሄንንስ አመል በምን እችለዋለው እያልኩኝ ከስንቱ እራኩኝ መሰላቹ!!
ግን ወንዶችዬ this is for you, i know your family, your peer, your past and future puts a lot of weight on your shoulders, the trials and errors the faliure.... you disguise many things, masking it up. Gn straight up once in a while, and enjoy life a little. Just be you. Because damn you creatures as something else በዛላይ ስታፈቅሩ and you expressing it is just a devine ማርያምን! ተፈቅሬ ምናምን አይደለም ግን በቃ ሲጥልብኝ እንደ መዝገብ ዱባለ ደቃቃ እንከን ላይ መመሰጥ ነው ስራዬ and i notice a lots of couple often....men are something ሲያፈቅሩ። እኔም በቅናት ድብን እያልኩ እመለከታለው ..... beka i really wanna say more but this is overwhelming as it is
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Which one would u choose?
Your parents' happiness or your happiness?
To make the argument realistic, your parents have been there for u your whole life even though it's not always perfect, and the thought that their time is short and I want to be there for them until the end. I've come this far.
And on the other side there's me. My life. I have to build my future. I've worked really hard to get here.
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I still love her so much.... I can't get her out of my mind we broke up she tried to test me unknown number call me the girl asked my asked my IG I gave her she DM me... But the thing is I wondered who she is that's why I gave her and she talked me and she told me she got a crush on me from school stuff and I was like what I don't get noticed in school that much I'm not sociable guy I only have two mates no relation w gurl the next day I got there and she wasn't there even she came I was about tellin her I can't be w her uk my problem endzi aynt ngr leb bye alargwm js normal argew nw mayw w the girl she keep pushin me I kept the chat cool down and general I came and told my girl tf happend and guess what she told me she was testing me it was her cousin and then she insulted me and blocked me everywhere( I told u in short ) I was terrified cuz I grow up w lack of love... My father passed out when I was young my mother don't even have a time w me she's always yellin or smtn messin up w me ik y'all got no idea how love is worth for me it's a lot to me... Back to the topic after 2 months or smtn lelit 6:12 she texted me I was shocked my hands got cold my heart beating so fast we talked about how we missed each other mnamn stuff then misunderstood happen arge we pushed eachother bka akuahunacn dgami mnaweram anmeslm kza after a month endzi dgami she texted me I told her that I missed her so much endi eyaweran bka push eyetederargn 5 gize honen idk how yhone time ly I found us textin eachother and at the 5th time I thought maybe what if god's givin us a hint bye asbku .... I'm kinda calm guy jazz & blues fan when I listen those music memories hits so deep I tried to talk another girl snap, IG I can't do It I feel disgusted that's when I realised I can't be that kind of guy.. I didn't built for that I choose little circle, tears won't stop fallin down like every night but this doesn't mean I'm losing my balance I didn't lose hope about my life... I'm not stopping grindin I had a dream that I'll make them become real no joke w this.... Sometimes I wana do suicide but I don't Wana die at this situation I'll be glad if I do it after I make it winging the world I Wana die not bcuz of money or wealth I Wana die bcuz my soul didn't get what It need, I wana make it w her I don't want that emptiness... Sayin for ppls I build this alone nahh fuck It I want her by my side w every success now few days ago we stared talkin I'm trying to build real connection w her instead of saying believe me I'm trying to prove it... She's getting a scholarship and she said ezi endzi yark how could I believe u when am there it's 3 years course I don't wana say her trust me stuff I Wana show her ... And I'll wait for her w loyalty building what we need .... She tells me she still loves me... She missed me... The only thing that's holding her is trust issues nw we're planning to meet up ... Say smtn y'all
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Can someone have a crush for nine years straight, from fifth grade up to second year of university? My mind can’t forget him. I wish he were with me instead of her. There hasn’t been a single day when I didn’t think about him or stalk him. Please tell me, is this normal? We used to have a connection—it was a “right person, wrong time” kind of situation. He ended up with my best friend. Is there anyone who can relate to this?
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Selam sewoch i'm M 18 ena grade 11 eski advice argugn tmhrt kejemerku jemro eskahun dres andm r/ship wst gebche alakm ena kehone gize jemro flagote kef eyale meta kegna batch ena guwadegnoche wst bzu sew r/ship wst nw ene gn wef.. yeset mekreb feracha mnamn mibal nger yelebgnm and sew lawra bil erasu ketewawekuat buhala mn ladrg mn lawra mnamn mibalut ngeroch nachew miyaschenkugn enji lela yelem. Eski meker stugn bekumneger ezi lay wesgnalw!
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I am 22m
Guys university ከገባሁ ጀምሮ ህይወት በጣም ከብዶኛል።
ጥሩ ውጤት አምጥቼ AAU ከገባሁ ሶስት አመት ሆኖኛል ግን በቃ የምፈልገውን ትምህርት ካለማግኘት ጀምሮ ነገሮች እየተበላሹብኝ ነው።
እንዲህ አይነት ነገር ሌሎች ሰዎችም ላይ happen የሚያደርጉ ናቸው ብዬ ረስቼ ሌላ ነገር ለማሳካት እና ነገሮችን ለማካካስ ስሞክር እሱም አይሳካም ከዛ እሱንም ትቼው ሌላ ነገር ስሞክር እሱም አይሳካም ።
በቃ maze ውስጥ መውጫ ለማግኘት እንደሚሮጥ ሰው ግን ሁሉም የተዘጋበት አይነት ሆኛለሁ ።
የሆነ አካል spirituality attack እያረገኝ እንደሆነ ነው የሚሰማኝ።
በየቀኑ በሚባል ደረጃ failure ያጋጥመኛል
ነገሮች የመሳካት 99% chance ካላቸው ባለችው አንድ percent fail አደርጋለሁ ።
እናቴ ቀን ከሌት ነው የምትፀልይልኝ ግን በቃ i kept failing again and again.
አሁን ነገሮች just መጥፎ አጋጣሚ ወይም ፈተና ብቻ አልመስል እያሉኝ ነው።
ተስፋ መቁረጥ አልፈልግም ግን የሆነ እርዳታ ያስፈልገኛል ።
መንፈሳዊ እርዳታ or something.
ንስሐ አባት መያዝ እፈልጋለሁ ። እንደነገርኳችሁ i am student እና በምን አይነት መንገድ ልይዝ እንደምችል አማክሩኝ።
And if there is other spiritual or psychological solution TELL ME!
እና አንድ story ልጨምር....
highschool እያለሁ ከሆነች ጥሩ ልጅ ጋር situationship ውስጥ ነበርኩኝ። አንድ bench ላይ እንቀመጥ ነበር፣ chat እናረግ ነበር ምናምን...
ብቻ ጥሩ classmate ነበርን።
but my mind was extremely stressed, maybe that's because it was my first time.
Finally at the end of the year i ended up the situation without saying a word.
And i know she had questions on that, but i couldn't explain .
Now it's been more than 4 years . But i used to see her in my dream almost everyday.
ከዛ ከቅርብ ጊዜ ወዲህ ነገሮች እየተበላሹብኝ ሲመጡ ከ አንድ ሶስት ወር በፊት mother በቄስ ላፀልይልህ ብላኝ እቤት መተው ከፀለዩልኝ በኋላ በህልምህ የምትታይህ ሴት አለች ወይ ብለው ጠየቁኝ ። i was so confused and as the conversation was with my parents i said No....
As i know she was the most decent and humble person i ever know... ግን ለምን እንደዛ ብለው እንደጠየቁኝ እንዲሁም አለመናገሬ ችግር ይፍጠር አይፍጠር ምንም አላውቅም ....
እና if you have any supportive idea drop it🙏
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He’s good-looking, but not in a perfect way. There’s something like life reached him early and left him a little numb. He’s a med-school student, yet he fails academically not because he can’t understand, but because he never learned how to study. Now he’s stuck in years he should have passed, and it looks like carelessness. I don’t think he doesn’t care. I think he fell behind and learned to pretend he didn’t mind.
Some days he dresses beautifully clean, intentional. Other days, he barely cares. We see each other often in the college. He’s surrounded by people, laughter, noise, yet I notice how often he ends up alone, sitting quietly somewhere, an introverted extrovert.
He listens in a way that makes others feel seen, yet he seems uninterested in staying close to anyone. He talks easily with others, but never with me. Sometimes he greets me warmly, sometimes he walks past as if I don’t exist. That inconsistency hurts more than rejection ever could.
He’s not the type to approach easily. I see how long he stays quiet, how often he disappears into his thoughts. Maybe failing broke something inside him. Maybe he’s afraid too.
So how do you reach someone who looks at you but doesn't talk to you?
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My mom wants to divorce my father.
So, my mom married my father because she needed a financial help. She was alone and my dad had his own business. But my dad loves her.
Growing up, we lived a good life. We eat whatever we want, go wherever we want. My parents were extravagant. But in the last 10 years we lost everything.
My father ended up bankrupt and all of his businesses were closed. Then we start to struggle. He is hard working person and again started to make money but unfortunately someone set him up and he got arrested for something he didn't do. Then he spent all of his saving paying for lawyers and bribing officials to free him. Again we lost everything.
My parents had a lot of hopes that their kids will one day graduate and start to make a lot of money. That also failed. My mom started to gave up.
I have an older brother who is not mentally okay. His not እብድ mnamn but he's still not okay. Now she want to send him to institutions like መቄዶንያ and divorce my father. She's making some money and she don't want to share it with us.
Mind you she's in her 50's and want to live my father because he's no longer "rich". She even tried to sneak behind everyone and marry another man who is rich.
She randomly leave the house and call us to say "i will not come today, I'll sleep at my friends house" or she disappears for a long time.
I don't care about her. I actually believe we'll all find peace if she leaves us but I'm worried about my families future. My father is a very good man. Everyone feels bad for him. He will not hesitate to give his life for us but my mom...
I blame Christ for choosing the best mom in the world for himself but he gave me this miserable women for me.
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Hey guys I'm actually here because I need some tips of study, I'm 5th year pharmacy college student n you know almost exit is nearest so give me tips to study and pass the exam n the other thing is do you think that I'll really know the drugs, medicine......well and work on pharmacy as everyone I'm really frightened
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I am 28 male and I have never beeen in a relationship ...help me out😭
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I was in my early twenties, living in Ethiopia, when I fell in love. The timing was cruel. Just as we started dating, my boyfriend left to USA, What followed were two agonizing and hard years of a long distance relationship filled with late night calls, tears, and a bond that somehow grew stronger across oceans.
After two years, he returned to Ethiopia. Not to visit, but to marry me. We kept it a secret from our families and started the immigration process. But the journey was far from smooth. The U.S. immigration office demanded documents we didn’t have, questioning the genuineness of our marriage. 7 months after he went back the stress cracked him. One day, he said he couldn’t handle it anymore and wanted to break up.
I thought my world had ended. I can’t even put into words how hard that time was, but 6 months later, he called, saying he wanted me back even though nothing has changed on the immigration process. But before I could celebrate, he confessed during our time apart, he drowned himself in alcohol, weed , and slept with another woman once under all these influences . My heart sank. Yet, despite the betrayal, I still loved him. I said yes.
But we were never the same. The fights became frequent, the connection faded. Then, a twist of fate , our marriage appeal was accepted. He called me, crying. We had won the battle, but deep inside, I felt numb. Something had changed in me. A month before my flight to the U.S., I made the hardest decision of my life. I ended things.
He didn’t understand. I couldn’t explain so I chose to ghost him. I just knew I couldn’t pretend to love him the way I used to. I told him I wouldn’t use the green card not after all the pain. But he insisted, saying he would give it to me regardless.
Two years have passed and I’m still in Ethiopia . He’s the only man I’ve ever known till this day. He’s reached out countless times in these two years , even sent a spiritual father from the states to convince me. Still, I’ve kept my distance. Yet here I am, torn. He’s still offering me the green card with no strings attached. He also told me that he has given up and doesn’t even want to get back even if I say yes after all of this .
Now, I’m left with these three choices:
1. Accept the green card and move to the States, start a new life.
2. Decline it, and stay in Ethiopia, even if it means giving up opportunities.
3. Accept it, but find a way to repay him , maybe help his brother or family members move to the states in the future using the green card.
this choice is eating me alive and I wanted to know what people would do if they were in my shoes.
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I grew up without my father and mother — not because they passed away, but because they abandoned me. Since the age of three, my world was my grandmother. She was the only place where I felt safe, loved, and seen. But ten years ago, she left this world too, and since then, I’ve been carrying life on my own shoulders.
Today, I am 28 years old. I work in a private company and I earn a good salary. From the outside, it looks like I am doing fine. But inside, there is a deep emptiness that money cannot fill. I am still single, and I don’t know how to get close to women. I don’t know how to build friendships or open my heart to people. Sometimes I feel like I missed learning something very basic about being human.
Loneliness has become a constant companion in my life. I am tired of it. I long for just one person — someone I can talk to freely, someone I can share my happiness with, my sadness, my fears, my small victories, and my bad days. I want connection. I want to feel understood. I want to feel that I matter to someone.
But no matter how much I want it, I don’t know how to make it happen. And that hurts the most.
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Hey guys 20f 3y in college am I the only one who doesn't hv a friend who match my energy ymr finding same ppl like me is getting so heavy js to hv a person you can talk freely who are actual open minded fr to have that type of ppl around you is js blessing if you're interested in psychology,
feminism , musics movies,dark humor let's hit up ty💋
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Yup, i know definitely knows that i will never be married! Fuck and that hurts. And i wanted that sweet arrogance of mine where i thought marriage was evil, where i could blame divorce rate, to avoid it 😭 how i wish it would engulf me. But here i am wallowing in this dark void of loneliness, and cold water of regret
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If this is hell, my punishment is worse than inferno.... to see my mom's excitement, the fucking ጉጉት thinking that ለወግ ለማዕረግ የምበቃ ...ahhh i can't even look in her eyes
It is not like i didn't put myself out there to find a guy.. i did but it won't be past to the talking stage or first dates የናንተም አባጣ ጎርባጣቹ በዛ ማርያምን! የኔም አቃቂር ማውጣት ቅጥ አጣ። i sometimes wish that i was Innocent, trusting, blind... ይሄንንስ አመል በምን እችለዋለው እያልኩኝ ከስንቱ እራኩኝ መሰላቹ!!
ግን ወንዶችዬ this is for you, i know your family, your peer, your past and future puts a lot of weight on your shoulders, the trials and errors the faliure.... you disguise many things, masking it up. Gn straight up once in a while, and enjoy life a little. Just be you. Because damn you creatures as something else በዛላይ ስታፈቅሩ and you expressing it is just a devine ማርያምን! ተፈቅሬ ምናምን አይደለም ግን በቃ ሲጥልብኝ እንደ መዝገብ ዱባለ ደቃቃ እንከን ላይ መመሰጥ ነው ስራዬ and i notice a lots of couple often....men are something ሲያፈቅሩ። እኔም በቅናት ድብን እያልኩ እመለከታለው ..... beka i really wanna say more but this is overwhelming as it is
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I still love her so much.... I can't get her out of my mind we broke up she tried to test me unknown number call me the girl asked my asked my IG I gave her she DM me... But the thing is I wondered who she is that's why I gave her and she talked me and she told me she got a crush on me from school stuff and I was like what I don't get noticed in school that much I'm not sociable guy I only have two mates no relation w gurl the next day I got there and she wasn't there even she came I was about tellin her I can't be w her uk my problem endzi aynt ngr leb bye alargwm js normal argew nw mayw w the girl she keep pushin me I kept the chat cool down and general I came and told my girl tf happend and guess what she told me she was testing me it was her cousin and then she insulted me and blocked me everywhere( I told u in short ) I was terrified cuz I grow up w lack of love... My father passed out when I was young my mother don't even have a time w me she's always yellin or smtn messin up w me ik y'all got no idea how love is worth for me it's a lot to me... Back to the topic after 2 months or smtn lelit 6:12 she texted me I was shocked my hands got cold my heart beating so fast we talked about how we missed each other mnamn stuff then misunderstood happen arge we pushed eachother bka akuahunacn dgami mnaweram anmeslm kza after a month endzi dgami she texted me I told her that I missed her so much endi eyaweran bka push eyetederargn 5 gize honen idk how yhone time ly I found us textin eachother and at the 5th time I thought maybe what if god's givin us a hint bye asbku .... I'm kinda calm guy jazz & blues fan when I listen those music memories hits so deep I tried to talk another girl snap, IG I can't do It I feel disgusted that's when I realised I can't be that kind of guy.. I didn't built for that I choose little circle, tears won't stop fallin down like every night but this doesn't mean I'm losing my balance I didn't lose hope about my life... I'm not stopping grindin I had a dream that I'll make them become real no joke w this.... Sometimes I wana do suicide but I don't Wana die at this situation I'll be glad if I do it after I make it winging the world I Wana die not bcuz of money or wealth I Wana die bcuz my soul didn't get what It need, I wana make it w her I don't want that emptiness... Sayin for ppls I build this alone nahh fuck It I want her by my side w every success now few days ago we stared talkin I'm trying to build real connection w her instead of saying believe me I'm trying to prove it... She's getting a scholarship and she said ezi endzi yark how could I believe u when am there it's 3 years course I don't wana say her trust me stuff I Wana show her ... And I'll wait for her w loyalty building what we need .... She tells me she still loves me... She missed me... The only thing that's holding her is trust issues nw we're planning to meet up ... Say smtn y'all
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Which one would u choose?
Your parents' happiness or your happiness?
To make the argument realistic, your parents have been there for u your whole life even though it's not always perfect, and the thought that their time is short and I want to be there for them until the end. I've come this far.
And on the other side there's me. My life. I have to build my future. I've worked really hard to get here.
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I am 🎭 Starlight
I need to vent
Yup, i know definitely knows that i will never be married! Fuck and that hurts. And i wanted that sweet arrogance of mine where i thought marriage was evil, where i could blame divorce rate, to avoid it 😭 how i wish it would engulf me. But here i am wallowing in this dark void of loneliness, and cold water of regret
.
.
.
If this is hell, my punishment is worse than inferno.... to see my mom's excitement, the fucking ጉጉት thinking that ለወግ ለማዕረግ የምበቃ ...ahhh i can't even look in her eyes
It is not like i didn't put myself out there to find a guy.. i did but it won't be past to the talking stage or first dates የናንተም አባጣ ጎርባጣቹ በዛ ማርያምን! የኔም አቃቂር ማውጣት ቅጥ አጣ። i sometimes wish that i was Innocent, trusting, blind... ይሄንንስ አመል በምን እችለዋለው እያልኩኝ ከስንቱ እራኩኝ መሰላቹ!!
ግን ወንዶችዬ this is for you, i know your family, your peer, your past and future puts a lot of weight on your shoulders, the trials and errors the faliure.... you disguise many things, masking it up. Gn straight up once in a while, and enjoy life a little. Just be you. Because damn you creatures as something else በዛላይ ስታፈቅሩ and you expressing it is just a devine ማርያምን! ተፈቅሬ ምናምን አይደለም ግን በቃ ሲጥልብኝ እንደ መዝገብ ዱባለ ደቃቃ እንከን ላይ መመሰጥ ነው ስራዬ and i notice a lots of couple often....men are something ሲያፈቅሩ። እኔም በቅናት ድብን እያልኩ እመለከታለው ..... beka i really wanna say more but this is overwhelming as it is
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Hey guys 20f 3y in college am I the only one who doesn't hv a friend who match my energy ymr finding same ppl like me is getting so heavy js to hv a person you can talk freely who are actual open minded fr to have that type of ppl around you is js blessing if you're interested in psychology,
feminism , musics movies,dark humor let's hit up ty💋
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I grew up without my father and mother — not because they passed away, but because they abandoned me. Since the age of three, my world was my grandmother. She was the only place where I felt safe, loved, and seen. But ten years ago, she left this world too, and since then, I’ve been carrying life on my own shoulders.
Today, I am 28 years old. I work in a private company and I earn a good salary. From the outside, it looks like I am doing fine. But inside, there is a deep emptiness that money cannot fill. I am still single, and I don’t know how to get close to women. I don’t know how to build friendships or open my heart to people. Sometimes I feel like I missed learning something very basic about being human.
Loneliness has become a constant companion in my life. I am tired of it. I long for just one person — someone I can talk to freely, someone I can share my happiness with, my sadness, my fears, my small victories, and my bad days. I want connection. I want to feel understood. I want to feel that I matter to someone.
But no matter how much I want it, I don’t know how to make it happen. And that hurts the most.
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The thing is i have been in long relation about 6 years ke 12 grade jemren we went the same university and we used to have agood time at campus most students know us as acouple if we have free time we spend it together we met every day but she was taking information science ene degmo engineering ena with the previous carriculum she only spent 3 years in campus but mine was 5 years so she graduated first and moved out first but after that it wasn't easy for us we started fighting. She trust people easly and when some one approach her she don't see their bad intention specially when men try getting close to her pretending to be a friend, but with other intentions she don't see the danger i saw that and told her but she usually end up in bad situations (not too bad) and came to me and she used to tell me every thing but one day luck was not by her side she was raped by some guy close to her sister at her sisters home then he disappeared we can't find him. at that time she wasn't good mentally i was by her side and through time we get back to normal. Afetr i gratuated from campus i started to see her old character she didn't take her lesson because of her work type she met different peoples. for the second time she started falling for their trap but the good thing she used to tell me everything so i saved her many times and one day i want to give her agood lesson so i told her i don't like these behavior so we need to take abreak i know she love me and she was not happy we fighted for 2 month and she started drinking every day one day she cheated on me and i found out and it was not athing i can forgive so we break up and i moved on but she didn't. I blocked her number but she keep calling with different numbers she begged me and said she is willing to do any thing to get back but i just can't accept it so i said no. After that, I heard that she started falling deeper, with different men approaching her and using her. She still hasn’t completely left me either, she always asks me to talk to her only. She said she feel some relief when she talk to me. I’m not someone who forgets favor She was there for me during my weak times. Even if she has done bad things, I have a sister I don’t want her to be hurt. but I want to start a new life without talking to her anymore. I also don’t want her to have hope for something that won’t happen just because I talk to her. at the same time, seeing her trying to talk to me every day not giving up and suffer and watching her life fall apart hurts me deeply inside but I don’t want the new person who comes into my life to be troubled by this situation.
So what is your advice.
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Let me get this straight . I'm horny most of the time , but betam set amartalew , even if it's just for sex . Bzu gize setoch hint setewgn enkuan kaltemechugn ghost adergachewalew . And I masturbate a lot when my horny side clicks, which I regret very. I'm uni student but Ena lemiyawkegn sew betam ቁጥብ negn . I'm just a mixture of different behaviors. I'm freaky and polite , introvert and extrovert at the same time. It depends on the person I'm with . I'm planning to get fwb , I don't know is it's the right decision or not . But I think it's good to get who matches my energy, vibe and to have fun with . It's not just about having sex , cause sex is meaningless if the vibe and attraction isn't there .
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25M here and this is a PSA for women for both experienced and inexperienced women(but especially for inexperienced women), if you are planning on doing initimate things with someone please get your hygiene to the max, and ik there are gonna be many women on here who are gonna see this as an attack(it definitely isnt), i love women and that's one of the reasons I'm writing this. It is a definite turn off for us during intimacy when everytime we breathe we smell something ungodly down there, And i believe that's bad for both parties. This has been a problem for me for the longest time and ik many other men agree too. Especially men like me who love the women body, who get infatuated by it and worship it. If she is clean down there i love going down on a woman and loving every inch of her body. But if she smells down there i swear i be having the most existential experience ever, i be sitting there thinking what am i doing with my life💀.so please for your own and ur mans sake check down there before meeting up
Anyways this isnt to start a gender war, and before you say "men are dirtier, why not talk about them". I have two answers for this
First We dont have the same parts, our part is an external organ and yours is an open organ so ya not even close
Second reason is idc about the men, it doesnt affect me one bit🤷🏽♂, i keep my own hygiene and that's what matter to me. So if you are a women with bad experience with men please let us know what we can correct
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Am i the only one facing an ungodly amount of problems i never thought i would face in my last year of uni
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Hy guys i am 24 F
I dont have friends for the moment and i am looking for someone i can talk to hang out with do some fun stuff and explore new things in life together so if u are looking for a friend aswell let me know the comments.
Thanks 🙏
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I need someone to clarify the truth for me. It's like when you're in that situation you're not gonna see what's happening.. you will get confused and might build a wrong perception of that situation.
Here is the thing. I'm in a relationship. College couple, power couple, Rich yearning man with a Beautiful smart gurl. IT IS A POWER COUPLE IG. ( you need to know the truth that's it didn't mean to brag uk) anyways the thing is he's not handsome. He provides everything for me like everything. He loves me and do stuff Balabla . I'm kinda his first. For me he is not. I kinda tried arranged marriage shi( 10 yrs gap between us 💀). It didn't work out. I got hurt and I found my bf. He helped me through alot. But he is so childish or sth idk let's say the one who always wanna get what he wanted. Doesn't read his surrounding, he sometimes get affectionate when I'm with my friends. He loves me so fckn much. But he is catholic also his dad and his mom is ortho just like me.
I tried many times to get out of this but he always keeps me. He knows how to treat me. He even told me that he will change his religion but his mom is ortho uk.
Now ik I'm sensitive when it comes to him. But I don't think I'm in love uk. It's not like " omg I wanna see my baby or I miss my baby.... " I don't actually like I'm in love.
I never wanted to have a partner same age as me. I feel like they are immature. I believe in age gaps. I want handsome and mature guy. That's all.
It's been 1 and 3 months since we got together. Those all time I tried to leave without hurting him but I couldn't. What shall I do?
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