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Positive Reflections messages from Awakening consciousness
Be The Giver In Your Relationships
Navigating through our relationships today, let us check if we are the givers of care, attention and forgiveness. Often we start as givers but gradually shift to the wanting side of things. Relationships are strong when we only give…and give. They become business when we expect a give-and-take. In your important relationships, do you see clear evidences where you have given more goodness than you have taken? Even if it’s one-sided, do you radiate selfless love, respect and care to the other person? If yes, your qualities are conducive to create lasting relationships. When we take care of ourselves emotionally and spiritually, we recognize our self-worth and discover an unending supply of inner treasures of happiness, peace and love. We will need nothing from others. We will have so much to give in terms of energy that we naturally radiate it to people. Relationships are about giving and not so much about receiving. We give right energies not because they need, but because giving feels good and giving is our nature. And when we radiate goodness, we are the first ones to receive our energy. We are emotionally powerful, self-sufficient and independent.
Remember that you are a loveful soul and the creator of your relationships. Caring for family, friends, colleagues, neighbors, society is your nature. Relationships are important for you, their happiness matters to you. Choose to be the giver in every relationship. Give love and acceptance and unconditionally be there for them. As you give and receive them you will become full of these qualities. So you don’t need them from anyone else. Do not need people to be your way, they can be their way. Do not think, hear or speak about weaknesses. Thank everyone who loves and supports you. Thank everyone who has not been right to you for giving you the opportunity to increase your patience, adjustment and tolerance. You need nothing. You only give in your relationships.
Relationships Are Built By Thoughts
Today we are doing quite a lot to keep loved ones happy. Despite expensive gifts, vacations, shopping and dining out frequently, our relationships are weakening. This is because relationships are built by our each and every thought for the other person, rather than words and behaviors. How do you assess the strength of a relationship? Is it by how the other person speaks to you, or how you respond, or how long you have been together for? The simplest way to assess is to take stock of your thinking patterns for each other. Our thoughts determine how we bond. Thinking right towards people is more important than speaking or behaving right. If we hold pain or anger about them in thoughts, and speak sweet words, conflicting energies radiate and weaken our connection. If we don’t pay attention, we judge or blame people unawares, and radiate negative energy. This is why we fail to develop good relationships with some of them despite external efforts to be nice. When we learn to focus on people’s goodness and think pure for them, we don’t need to worry about our words or behaviors with them – they will automatically be right. Remind yourself - I have perfect relationships. My every thought for people is a blessing for them.
Program your mind to create strong relationships on the basis of pure and respectful thoughts for people. Let your purity flow into all your relationships. When your interactions are based on thoughts of love and care, then your powers of tolerance, adjustment and compassion increase. Remind yourself - I am a pure being. I think good and bless everyone in my relationships.
Making The Earth Beautiful And Pure
The Earth is a sacred space given to us by nature to stay on and make beautiful at every step. We radiate the energy from our inner consciousness every second to this planet, on which life exists in its fullest beauty. The higher the quality of our thoughts and feelings, the more we contribute in donating positivity and purity to the Earth. Let us create a few affirmations and remember them again and again everyday for achieving this purpose -
1. I am a pure soul with a beautiful mind and heart ... I think nice and positive for myself and for everyone and everything around me ... My vibrations radiate to every element of nature, every life form and all plants and vegetation ... They all become filled with peace, love and happiness ...
2. I am a powerful soul filled with all spiritual powers ... I radiate strength to everything on Earth and revive its original richness ... Every flower blossoms, every animal feels fulfilled, all mountains and oceans overflow with abundance, every soil particle creates natural beauty ...
3. I connect with God, the spiritual seed of the World Tree ... He fills me with all His specialties ... I radiate all these specialties through my eyes to everything I see on Earth today ... I smile at the Earth and thank it ... The Earth smiles back at me and thanks me ...
4. I take every step on Earth today with a positive consciousness of care and concern ... My spiritual energy flows to Earth from my feet and feeds the Earth with spiritual sustenance and blessings ... The Earth revives again to become as clean, pure and beautiful as it was in the beginning ...
Taking Care Of Our Emotional And Physical Health With Spirituality (Part 1)
We are all human beings i.e. being or soul first, which is our spiritual identity. We play our role through our physical body i.e. we have a physical existence, which comes later. The physical body is made up of the 5 physical elements. That is why it is given the name human, which comes from the word humus or soil. As long as the soul remains in the body, because it is the prime mover or driver of the body, the body functions normally and the soul performs actions through it. Once the soul leaves the body, the body stops functioning normally and it comes to a standstill and all the different physical systems inside the body stop. So, the soul and body are deeply interconnected, and we need to take care of both of them to enjoy our lives to the fullest extent. Let us see 5 ways in this message, how we can do that -
Make An Affirmation For Your Good Health And Remember It Regularly
An affirmation is a set of positive lines which we remember and experience in our mind. Although affirmations can be different in different situations of life, an affirmation for good health should be focused on the well being of the soul as well as the body because both influence each other e.g. it could be - I am a peaceful, joyful and loveful soul … I radiate these qualities to my physical body … All illnesses are getting cured with these qualities … The body is experiencing positivity and good health … This affirmation should be remembered at least 10-15 times in the day at different times, including in the morning as soon as you wake up, in the day before eating and drinking anything and in the night before sleeping. When practiced consistently for a few days at a stretch, this will help the body heal itself and both the mind and body will start experiencing a well-being of high quality.
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The Inner Awakening Wave
Our beliefs either put us to sleep or cause us to remain awake. Even if are awake on a physical level, when we are asleep internally, without even realizing most of the time; we don't see others, situations and the world as a whole in their true light. We see, perceive and interpret reality incorrectly, which causes us pain. We perceive any sort of pain on the mental or emotional level to be normal and think that others and circumstances are responsible for the pain. All this, because of the incorrect beliefs that we carry inside us, the most important one being that we are physical bodies and not spiritual energies or souls. Only when the subtle pain becomes intolerable, do we look for a remedy for the same, or think we have to do something about it. Most of us go through life asleep and hence in pain. An inner awakening is one in which we realize the incorrect beliefs and are not scared to challenge them. Once we do that, our pain starts receding. We then very naturally look to wake up others, so that they are relieved from their pain.
The present time in the history of humanity is such that while the sleep of some souls is getting more and more sound and pain increases in the world, on the other hand, an inner awakening wave is taking many souls in its tide as more and more souls are waking up from their deep slumber and waking up others. This is the time when late night and early morning exist side by side. It is the same time, but late night for most and early morning, a time of getting up, for a few. This is happening due to a consciousness shift or shifting of beliefs inside many through spiritual knowledge. Such souls, whose number keeps increasing everyday, are experiencing more and more happiness in their lives. Both these groups of souls have similar circumstances and people in their life but the shifting or correction of beliefs inside the second group is causing souls in the group to remain stable amidst these circumstances, free from spiritual pain, depending on how much the shift is.
Creating A Positive Environment With Meditation
We are all spiritual energies or souls with thoughts and feelings, and we radiate vibrations to the environment. The quality of our vibrations depends on the quality of our thoughts and feelings. We create thousands of thoughts in a day and every thought carries a feeling with it. Some of these thoughts and feelings are beautiful, pure and positive and some are impure, negative and waste. All of these travel to the environment and touch other souls and physical nature. So, do we ever think about what we should do so that we purify our environment with our vibrations at every moment of our lives? Let us see 5 basic steps -
1. The original qualities of the soul are peace, joy, love, bliss, purity, power and wisdom. Let us create thoughts filled with the essence of these 7 qualities. They radiate the highest vibrations, which empower the environment.
2. Feel yourself as a soul and start seeing everyone as souls. The more you do that, the more your aura gets positively charged and your vibrations charge the environment with positivity, and it even gets purified.
3. Make every word and action of yours clean, sweet and full of contentment. By doing this, the energy of your positive consciousness touches others' consciousness and you as well as others feel these qualities within themselves. As a result, the environment gets filled with these qualities.
4. Respect for every soul and nature means that we take care that we do not give any soul and nature anything that they do not like. Taking care of the environment in different ways and spiritually sustaining it is very important.
5. Making world transformation an important aspect of our spiritual self-transformation journey is also very important. Meditation and meditative lifestyle should be full of giving and radiating what we take from God to others.
Experience The Joy Of Beautiful Parenting (Part 3)
The present generation of parents has access to a lot of information on the internet. As a result, we often feel the need to reach for every available information to help our children. In our effort to do our best for them, we forget that it’s important to accept our children as they are. There is a big difference between fear and instinct, and we must learn how to separate the two. Worry or fear doesn’t make one a better parent. To avoid making such mistakes, let’s remember that keeping ourselves confident, cheerful and happy is the key. Parents should also make time for the little things that benefit them spiritually. Parents must have faith in themselves, rediscover their own needs and take out time for things that give them inner fulfillment. This is because our spiritual development and inner goodness and contentment is continuously creating our children and their personalities.
When it comes to our own health, we must remember that we should practice what we preach, and care for ourselves like we do for the health of our children. Parents should also remember that they are also managing the relationship with each other along with the one they have with their own children. While taking care of children, these fragile bonds can shatter under stress. As parents, the best thing we can give to our children is to respect the differences in opinion between each other and love and care for each other. A good relationship of trust and goodwill between parents does half the work of creating a beautiful child, with an all-round development. Lastly, we must remember that parenthood is like a conversation that lasts a lifetime. There are so many things we want to teach our children, so many things we can learn from them and so many new life experiences to be felt together. So with our children … we should keep it open … we should keep it honest. And experience the joy of beautiful parenting
Experience The Joy Of Beautiful Parenting (Part 2)
Children should also be made to experience the closeness with nature at a tender age, so that they can observe life in a very basic way. When we look around the people we know, we see people from all kinds of different backgrounds who followed various different paths through life. They all ended up as wonderful and knowledgeful people, fulfilled in different ways and to different extents. Similarly, we should let our children have the same freedom to create their own path through life. Children should also be taught to question everything, but not with a sense of suspicion. They should also be taught to trust naturally. Love, openness and meditativeness, as virtues in parents, can give powerful vibrations to children, to help them enrich their inner potential.
Also, children must learn to take matters of physical and mental health seriously. They should learn to cherish their minds and bodies and to take responsibility for maintaining them. How they see their every personal action is related to how they treat the external environment. The role of a parent, therefore, becomes of a coach, giving everything they can, to help them off the field, so that they can run the best race possible. As a parent, it’s hard not to feel sometimes, as though you are being assessed along with your children. Therefore at times we make decisions based on how it makes us look, rather than how it makes our children feel, which is wrong and we should take care that it does not happen.
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Experience The Joy Of Beautiful Parenting (Part 1)
When we have a child, a pure soul, we make a choice to live our life in the form of a beautiful, complete family, which we had the privilege to create consciously. Children are tender souls with pure consciousness. As parents, we often feel the need to know the right ways of nurturing them, so that they grow into good natured human beings. When we navigate the unfamiliar waters of parenthood, most of us will face challenges of different kinds. In those moments, it is important to remain sure of oneself and in touch with your own intuitions. It is a myth, especially among new parents, that being a parent comes naturally. Love and care may come on their own to most of us, but the two are not synonymous with being a good parent. It is only a part of what it takes to bring up children, and definitely not enough on their own.
Firstly, it’s important to release the feeling of attachment and ownership over children. We should try to build a relationship of liberation, where we look at them as just another soul, with their own past karmas. We should also understand that having children is a privilege and it’s our role to protect them from wrong influence, but also, in that process, we do not inculcate a sense of fear in them, which will make them shy from seeking help in future life situations. Drawing the line between instilling caution and creating unnecessary fear is an art. As a parent, it’s also very important to create involvement with children. Building a loving and supportive environment helps them experience life, where they can learn the significance of giving in relationships. As conscious and responsible beings, parents need to be equally joyful, for the benefit of their child and to fill them with the same energy. This creates the necessary ambience for nurturing children positively, and helps them in navigating life effortlessly.
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Strengthening Your Shield Of Positivity
We are all going through turbulent times and life throws at us arrows of different negative situations again and again. We all carry a shield of positivity, which we use to protect ourselves from these different negative situations. Sometimes our shield is not strong enough and some arrows in the battlefield of life hit us hard and we get emotionally wounded as a result. Let us explore in this message how do we make our shield of positivity stronger -
1. Always keep one positive thought of spiritual wisdom in your consciousness in the entire day. An empty mind weakens our shield of positivity.
2. Keep God's company with you at every step. God is an Ocean of peace, joy, love, bliss, purity, power and truth. These virtues will make your shield of positivity stronger.
3. Apply the full stop when challenged by difficult situations. Don't create a large number of negative and waste thoughts and magnify the situation.
4. Tell yourself worry is a negative energy. By worrying, the negative arrows that life is throwing at you, will take advantage of you and hit you hard.
5. Keep yourself busy when there is a negative situation. The more you do that, the more your soul power will not get wasted and you will remain strong.
6. Emerge the power to face inside you. Remember the battle can only be won when you don't give up. This will attract solutions and take you to safety where the arrows can no longer hit you.
7. Giving is a beautiful art of performing positive and pure actions. By sharing qualities and powers with others, we send our arrows of positivity in the battlefield of life and they will bring the negative arrows down.
8. Practice the art of introversion. Just like the tortoise goes inside its shell, detach yourself from your sense organs and feel your inner being and your shield will protect you well.
5 New Year Resolutions For The Year 2026
1. Let me experience the beauty of myself, every person around me and nature. Let me affirm to myself everyday in this year - I am a very special soul, filled with many specialties and qualities, everyone I meet is also beautiful and special and I am thankful to nature which has blessed me with its purity and beauty.
2. Let me remember only the good scenes of the past year and love them and enjoy them at every moment in the coming year. Let me experience always - I am very stable and powerful and life is beautiful at every step. Negative scenes are teachers for me and make me powerful, I accept them with ease and gratitude.
3. Let every interaction with everyone in this year be filled with positivity, harmony and purpose. Gift everyone with peace, love, joy, strength and enthusiasm. Let your face and actions reveal goodness and perfection to everyone and bring them closer to you spiritually and make all your relationships beautiful.
4. Let the coming year end without any whys, how's, when's and what's in situations. When the whys come, say fly in joy. When the how's come, say God knows best. When the when's come, say at the right time in the right way. When the what's come, say there is benefit which will be revealed soon.
5. Make God your best friend in this year. Everyday experience all relationships with Him. Talk to Him everyday in your thoughts - I am the luckiest soul in the world who has God as His mother, father, teacher, guru and companion. I will colour every scene of the New Year with His love and remembrance.
#IAM
Don’t Search For Happiness Create It
Many of us complicate happiness, so it seems like a temporary emotion. To earn money, food, car, possessions or position, we need to do something. But we apply the same equation that something is to be done to earn happiness. So, we either wait for it, search for it, chase it, look to buy it, demand it, postpone it, or tie it to an accomplishment. So as a society we have become wealthy and successful today but not happy.
Truth is that happiness can be created right where we are. It is with us and within us. There is nothing to do, we just need to be happy, moment after moment.
Can we be happy always? It is our choice. Happiness does not mean we deny the existence of negativity that may come to us from outside sources and our relationships. At the same time let us remember that situations or people in our lives are not here to steal our happiness. They are playing their role. They do challenge us at times but at all other times it is we who hold the self back from being happy.
Happiness is not just about a mood or feeling, it equips us with the power to cross any challenge that comes in our way. It causes our mind, intellect and body to function out of calmness, wisdom and optimism. So, problems do not cause us suffering. Instead, we will learn and grow from the experiences.
Happy people make other people happy. But often we become so focused on our goals that we forget to enjoy the process of getting there. Even if we do not perform a wrong karma, our happiness starts reducing because we lose touch with our core qualities like contentment or lightness. This affects our work, health and relationships.
Let us put happiness on top of our priority list, which means we promise to take responsibility for it. When we are happy, everyone around us gets a share in it – we give a gift to the world which makes the world beautiful.
Don’t Withdraw From People Over Differences
A huge reason for relationships being fragile, is that we are becoming increasingly selective about the people we want to be with. If someone’s behavior feels uncomfortable, we are withdrawing instead of adjusting or helping them. This habit blocks our love, sharing and caring.
Not too long ago, we had a culture of joint families, with 20-25 members across three to four generations living under one roof and getting along. When differences in our natures, values and habits came up, we adapted. Today, we tend to withdraw from people, over minor differences.
Meditate and study spiritual knowledge daily to empower yourself and increase self-respect. By doing that, accepting others and adapting to different personalities becomes easy.
When someone’s behaviour is uncomfortable, understand their nature and the pain behind their act. People do not intentionally want to hurt or manipulate you. They are victims of their habits, perceptions and beliefs. Understanding is empathy.
Even if you create hurt, counsel your mind – It is their nature. What is natural for me, is right now difficult for them. I delete the past. I heal them and our relationship. This is compassion.
With empathy and compassion, you create pure thoughts for them. There will be no margin for withdrawing. You will make every effort to accept and be with them.
Seeking Perfection In Other People?
Be it your spouse, child, friends or office colleagues, we want people around us to be perfect, that too according to our own definitions of perfection.
In all our relationships, we create a pre-conceived mental image of how the other person should be. We want them to be perfect according to our standards of perfection.
There are three images to people: First, you create an image of how someone should be. Then you meet that person and perceive them through your nature. That is the second image you create. Third is who they are. All these three images can be extremely different from each other.
You can never really know anyone too well because you will know them only through the filter of your perception. You simply cannot see them from another point of view. So do not judge or criticize them.
Everyone is perfect the way they are, with their own set of qualities, habits, attitudes and personality traits. Your definition of rights and wrongs cannot match with theirs. Your idea of perfection is just your benchmark, based on your qualities and perceptions.
Whenever you expect perfection from others, pause and step back. Remind yourself that you have no control over other people’s behaviours. Instead of expecting perfection from them, focus on thinking perfectly about them.