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How do you become a puzzle for her to solve?
1. Prioritize yourself. Work on yourself. Spend fun times enjoying hobbies and hanging out with your friends. Be a little selfish sometimes and learn to be happy alone.
2. Reduce the attention you give her. If you call her 4 times a day, make it 2, and call at random times. Intentionally miss her calls and return them hours later. Let her know you've got other things going on in your life.
3. Be mysterious. Men in love talk too much. About their goals and how different or exciting they are. All these makes you boring over time. Reserve and preserve those info. Talk less, and don't be an "open book" where she knows everything about you.
4. Keep options. Note, keep options here doesn't mean sleep around. No. But talk more with other women. Let her know she's not the only woman in your life. You're not doing it to make her jealous, but the bitter truth is that, women crave you more when other women are interested in spending time around you or having you. This step is very important and will change how she sees you, trust me.
5. Be disagreeable: When a man loves a woman, he doesn't want to do or say something to hurt her feelings. But those are the men who get jilted or cheated on the most.
When she realizes you're trying to please her, she sees you as weak. A man who has his own opinions and values, and won't bend them to make her happy; A man who is proud to say what he believes to be true (of course not including insults) and stick with it, whether she's happy with that or not; that is the man she gets "wet" for and madly in love with. He's so domineering without being intimidating that almost every woman automatically becomes submissive under his presence. It's not a talent. It's a skill and you can learn that too.
6. Give her space to miss you. Similar to #2 above, you need to force yourself to not be around her so much. You think it will keep your bond, but she'd be bored seeing you every time in no time. Get busy with life. Let her miss you sometimes.
7. Always keep improving. But do it in silence. Don't tell her you're registering for a gym. Go register, and let her find out herself by how much you've changed physically and mentally. Go do that thing you dream of and let her see the results herself. Every time she visits you, she must see something change in or around you.
8. Stop telling her "I love you". Stop telling her "you're my queen" and "you're beautiful" every damn time. She may be "your world" . She may be "the only woman in your life". Though that's crazy, but don't tell her about it. The more frequent these words are, the less value they carry over time. Let them be a "reward" to her. Once in a while, sparingly she does something you like, you say, "that's my cute princess". It does two things this way: encourages her to do more of that which she did and also she values those words because you don't throw them around easily.
9. Never argue with her. But never agree to everything too (#5). Arguing is an emotional thread, a game you can't win with her. Tell her your view and your thoughts and shut up. The more she knows you're into her, the more she'd intentionally cause stupid arguments to reaffirm your love for her. Women are weird, trust me.
10. Set boundaries and stick with them. Be very firm to let her know you love her but you love yourself more and won't tolerate everything she throws at you. If you don't pick calls after 10pm, she should not break it because you love her. If you don't entertain disrespect, she should not be excused from that.
I didn't intend writing a long post like this. But it's important to revisit these critical points once in a while when dealing with women in your life.
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Every day - you get two choices.
The choice between discomfort and monotony.
The choice between growth and mediocrity.
The choice between your dreams and comfort.
You either take the first route to go after our dreams - or medicate yourself with comfort at the price of living.
You think that everything that looks a bit difficult is something to run away from - it’s not.
It’s an opportunity for you to grow.
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how beautiful it is when you find someone who loves you the way you need to be loved.
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💯It Is Better To Be Hated For What You Are...than Loved For What You Are Not.
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The Sound of Silence
The sound of two people ignoring each other
The sound of no one being there for another
The sound of eerie nothingness engulfing the air
The sound of no one even bothering to care
The sound of wind blowing everything away
The sound of the pain you go through everyday
The sound of everything that is unknown
The sound of being completely alone
The sound of thinking quietly inside
The sound of being left behind
The sound of trying not to cry
The sound of wishing you could die
The sound of silence can't be heard
Just like the soft swift wings of a bird
The sound of silence can seem unreal
The sound of silence is something you feel
The sound of silence
Soft yet shrill
The sound of silence
I think Can kill
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Keep every stone they throw you. You got castles to build. 📚
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The Painful Truth!
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The best books on self-development and motivation :
1. Robert Kiyosaki "Rich Dad Poor Dad"
2. Mark Victor Hansen and Robert Allen Millionaire in a Minute. Direct path to wealth
3. John Kehoe "The subconscious mind can do anything"
4. Malcolm Gladwell “Geniuses and outsiders. Why is everything for some and nothing for others?
5. George Samuel Clason "The richest man in Babylon"
Anthony Robbins "Awaken the giant in you"
6. Stephen Covey "The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People"
7. Napoleon Hill "Think and Grow Rich"
8. Elena Svetlaya “Transformation. The path of the soul
9. Daniel Pink Drive: What Really Motivates Us
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No matter who you are, no matter what you did, no matter where you've come from, you can always change, become a better version of yourself.
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You’ll be hurt, you’ll be in pain. You’ll fall. That’s part of life. But as long as you get hold of yourself and get back up again, you’ll be fine. Don’t waste time. Don’t dwell too long on your mistakes. Learn from them and keep going. Life goes on.
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hey, since we don't get contact to ourselves, I don't know about your day, I don't know what you're going though, l miss the moment when you share everything about your life, I wish nothing but the best for you and please take good care of yourself.
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The older you get the more you will realise the importance of privacy of cultivating your circle & only letting certain people in. You can be honest, open & real and still understand that not everyone deserves a sit at your table.
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It's important to give yourself more time
To get more done, you don't need to rush. The faster we move towards the goal, the further it is from us - these ancient eastern wisdoms also apply to modern life. In a constant race, we do not notice the impending disaster, which stress inevitably leads to. We completely devote our lives to someone or something, while our own lives pass by. Stopping, relaxing, spending time alone with yourself - this means opening the doors to the present and future.
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For her to fear "losing you", you have to become a "puzzle for her to solve".
Women don't value what they haven't laboured for. Our moms love us because they laboured through pain to have us.
It's sad but when your love comes too easily, when you do all the work, when she realizes you are very much into her, she will take your love for granted. It's natural human nature, but women take it to a different level.
But when you're just too complex and mysterious, she now has to spend time figuring you out. You become a challenge and she needs to prove if she can solve you or not.
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The Rules for Being Human
Every human being is a problem in search of a solution.
~Ashley Montagu
1. You will receive a body.
You may like it or hate it, but it will be yours for the entire period of this time around.
2. You will learn lessons.
You are enrolled in a full-time informal school called Life.
Each day in this school you will have the opportunity to learn lessons. You may like the lessons or think them irrelevant and stupid.
3. There are no mistakes, only lessons.
Growth is a process of trial and error: Experimentation. The “failed” experiments are as much a part of the process as the experiment that ultimately “works.”
4. A lesson is repeated until learned.
A lesson will be presented to you in various forms until you have learned it. When you have learned it, you can then go on to the next lesson.5. Learning lessons does not end.
There is no part of life that does not contain its lessons. If you are alive, there are lessons to be learned.
“6There” is no better than “here.”
When your “there” has become a “here,” you will simply obtain another “there” that will again look better than “here.”
7. Others are merely mirrors of you.
You cannot love or hate something about another person unless it reflects something you love or hate about yourself.
8. What you make of your life is up to you.
You have all the tools and resources you need. What you do with them is up to you. The choice is yours.
9. Your answers lie inside you.
The answers to Life’s questions lie inside you. All you need to do is look, listen and trust.
10. You will forget all this
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Seven Dangers
to Human Virtue -
1. Wealth without work
2. Pleasure without consclence
3. Knowledge without character
4. Business without ethics
6. Sclence without humanity
6. Religion without sacrifice
7. Politics without principle
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Distance really gives you some clarity on how you feel about people.📚
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Make moves in silence.
Make the results talk for themselves.
Let others brag about you behind your back.
It helps you accomplish 2 things:
1) You appear humble for not bragging about yourself.
2) Your achievements seem much more prestigious when they are bragged about by others.
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HOW TO BE ALWAYS HAPPY IN LIFE. READ THESE AWESOME LIFE TIPS.
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1. Always remember that there is nobody on this earth that does not have problems. You are not the only one that has problems.
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2. Challenges are part of life. It is only a dead man who has no challenges.
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3. no problem has no solution. There are solutions to the pains you are going through.
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4. The way you picture yourself in your mind can affect your happiness. Picture yourself as a valuable and beautiful person. Avoid low self-esteem and inferiority complex.
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5. Do not mind about what people say about you. Some people are sadists. They can just say something just to make you feel sad.
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6. Make friends with reasonable people who make you happy. Do not make friends with people who make jest of you or laugh at you over your challenges.
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7. In your leisure time, keep yourself busy with your favourite hobbies like sports, games, watching movies, surfing the internet, playing computer games, etc.
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8. Do not allow anyone to intimidate you with money and material things. A poor man today can become rich tomorrow. Change is constant.
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9. No matter what you are going through today, do not give up. As long as there is life, there is hope.
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10. Be very prayerful. Pray without ceasing. Prayer is a catalyst that can speed up your blessings to come to you on time.
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11. Be courageous to go for what you want. Life is all about risk. If you don't take a risk, you will not get the desires of your heart.
Never change your originality for the sake of others. Because no one can play your role better than you.
You are the best. So be yourself...
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Never let hard times break you. Be strengthened by the adverse circumstances you are going through and allow yourself to gain from these experiences.
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You're allowed to change your mind about the people and things you want in life. You're allowed to adjust your values and preferences as you get older and wiser. You're allowed to evolve and be a different person today than you were yesterday.
This is your life!
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You will survive and you will find purpose in the chaos. Just don't forget that moving on doesn't mean letting go.
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Let's accept that the biggest wounds and pains are always inflicted by the people in your life, those who are very important to you, friends, those who know you well, strangers and people on the street who don't know you don't know what your weak point is, only the people in your life can give you the worst blow. Hit me, people change as fast as electricity and wind, so fast that you can't even glance at your watch, so don't trust easily, whether it's a two-day-old person or a one-year-old person, don't tell him everything, he might be stabbed in the back one day.
let him dig into your waist and give you a big blow, make friends with someone who is honest and your support, you will be by his side every moment and he will be by your side every moment, not these self-seeking people who will change color like a rainbow in four days, these people are only looking for a place If it is beneficial for them, if it falls apart, they will make a beam so that you will be left with a world of bad feelings and regrets.
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Life will get a whole lot better when you figure out who deserves an explanation, who deserves one answer and who deserves absolutely nothing.
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"Somebody is in the hospital
right now begging God for the opportunity you have.
Don't you dare go to bed depressed. Count your blessings
and shake it off."
-Paul Walker