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رمادي تائه بين الأسود والأبيض، بين الضجيج والعزلة. - @lost24bot سايت - @bo9ssbot تواصل
But not all men seek rest and peace; some are born with the spirit of the storm in their blood.
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أكثر الطرق مشقة، هي تلك التي يقضيها المرء عائداً إلي نفسه .
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لو استطاع كل فرد منا اختيار مكان ولادته، بعض البلدان ستصبح فارغة تماماً .
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26 years and I’m already tired!
As if I was born during the Big Bang,
and that’s because my goal was—and still is—to live intensively,
to be extremist, a radical person who goes beyond limits,
who lives on the edges.
I don’t stand safe zones, gray areas, middle places.
I go first. I stand on the stage. I stay in the front.
I was born before the sunrise,
on a Saturday at 5 AM,
so I’m impatient, I’m cursed, I don’t wait—I conquer,
even death.
I’m certain that someday I’m going to approach it myself.
I make my own destiny.
I am the AUTHOR of my life.
Yet, I feel like I’ve lived enough.
I’m done with life.
It’s just too much burden now—
because I do it intensively.
I seize every moment of existence
as if I’m dying the next day.
The concept of “it could be the last time” stares at me wherever I look.
Therefore, I find myself doing things excessively,
as if it really is the last time.
When I love, I do it with all my heart, fully.
I don’t hate—I forget.
I don’t feel sad, mad, or bad—
I feel emptiness,
nothing,
just not in the mood.
If happy, I enjoy it with every cell of my body.
When making love, I do it with all my senses, heart, soul, and mind.
I don’t hold back even a single drop of sweat.
I treat my heart as a spoiled child,
where the only rule is: no rule at all.
Whatever, whichever I feel—I do it.
I act on it.
Luckily, my genes never build addiction.
I’ve never been addicted to anything in my life—
no alcohol, no drugs.
It’s just that my heart loves girls and gunpowder.
And that’s why nobody—including me—was ever able to handle my lifestyle.
During my last breakup she said,
“You have too much energy,”
followed by a deep sigh.
And that’s completely understandable.
Yet, I have no regrets.
Only experiences.
Since my childhood, I loved playing with fire.
I’m a high-testosterone man.
I have a close, intimate relationship with danger.
I just see opportunities
and feel pure joy
when others see risks.
That’s why my life is a series of
“Fuck, we only live once”
moments before making crazy decisions.
And that’s a curse no magic can unbind.
However, I believe I’m the luckiest man alive.
I feel I could walk on water
and my luck won’t let me down.
My secret is that to me,
Luck has feminine energy.
It serves you when you lead wildly.
Finally, I want to talk about my passion,
my therapy—and that is knowledge.
I’m literally obsessed with it.
I just believe that daily development is perfection.
Learning. Reading.
And this year I discovered a hidden superpower:
YouTube videos and podcasts.
I walk for hours listening to them.
I learn with no preference—
philosophy, culture, psychology, poetry, physics, law, biology—whatever.
Yet, the more I learn,
the less I know.
Sometimes I end up feeling meaningless,
frustrated.
Anyway, my wish is none.
I do have goals—
but I am happy and flexible.
Life is not worth making contracts with ourselves
and postponing happiness until some unknown time in the future,
under some perfect condition.
No. I am now—just for now—stoic.
I just feel peace and acceptance.
Karl Marx, a visionary, figured out that you can control a slave much better by convincing him he is an employee.
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الإنسان نتاج قراراته، ردود افعاله وليس ما يحدث له.
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تسمعُ نصائحَ عن التربيةِ تَوَدُّ لو سمعها أبواك، وتقرأ كتابًا عن الحبِّ تودُّ لو قرأه مَحبوبُك، وتطربُك أغنيةٌ عن الحنين تَوَدُّ لو أطربَتْ مُفارِقَك، وتقرأ عِبرَةً عن الأذيَّة توَدُّ لو قرأها مَنْ آذاك..
مسكينٌ ساذج؛ ينشدُ النجاةَ في الصُدَف، ويُعَوِّل على ذائقةِ الناس أنْ تنقذَه منهم.
"If you don't believe in freedom of speech for people you disagree with, you don't believe in freedom of speech at all."
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Agency > intelligence
Agency, as a personality trait, refers to an individual's capacity to take initiative, make decisions, and exert control over their actions and environment. It’s about being proactive rather than reactive—someone with high agency doesn’t just let life happen to them; they shape it. Think of it as a blend of self-efficacy, determination, and a sense of ownership over one’s path.
People with strong agency tend to set goals and pursue them with confidence, even in the face of obstacles. They’re the type to say, “I’ll figure it out,” and then actually do it. On the flip side, someone low in agency might feel more like a passenger in their own life, waiting for external forces—like luck, other people, or circumstances—to dictate what happens next.
It’s not quite the same as assertiveness or ambition, though it can overlap. Agency is quieter, more internal—it’s the belief that you *can* act, paired with the will to follow through. Psychologists often tie it to concepts like locus of control: high-agency folks lean toward an internal locus, feeling they steer their fate, while low-agency folks might lean external, seeing life as something that happens *to* them.
خمس دول انهارت في منطقتنا، ومع ذلك لم تتأثر أسعار الطاقة أو يتضرر الاقتصاد العالمي، انهارت هذه الدول دون أن يشعر العالم أنه خسر شيئا، ولكن حين تعرضت دولة واحدة - أوكرانيا - لخطر الانهيار تأثرت أسعار المواد الغذائية بشدة في كل مكان، هذا ما يحدث حين تكون مجرد هامش للحضارة المعاصرة.
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Out of the crooked timber of humanity, nothing straight will ever be made.
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"No success in the professional realm can compensate for failure in the home." - A wise friend.
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The measure of wealth is freedom.
The measure of health is lightness.
The measure of intellect is judgment.
The measure of wisdom is silence.
The measure of love is peace.
كرة القدم مضحكة. تسمع رجلاً بلا طعام في منزله يقول: "اشترينا اللاعب الفلاني مقابل 70 مليون دولار ."
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بأمانة واحد من أفضل الكُتب التي قرأتها، جاء في وقت كنت أحتاج له بشدة، اجاب عن أسئلة كثيرة كانت تجول في خاطري، أنصح بقراءته وخصوصا من بعد الصفحة المائة، لان الكتاب يُقرأ أجزاءً ويقرأ ككل.
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بطولة الإنسان في هذه المرحلة، أن يبقى حيًّا، وشريفًا، وألّا يفقد عقله.
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لإنقاذ رجل يغرق ، لا يكفي أن تمد إليه يدك - من الضروري أن يمد يده إليك أيضًا .
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وانت يابني إذا داهمتك الهموم داهمتك وحدك ، وإذا أصابك الألم أصابك وحدك ، وإذا تعثرت تعثرت وحدك ، فلماذا تجعل لرضا الناس وسخطهم في قلبك نصيبا ؟!
والناس لا يقبلوك إلا ناجحًا متميزًا ، فإن أنت اهتززت تركوك وحدك ، وإن أنت سقطت ، وجدت نفسك وحدك ، فلماذا تعلق قلبك بقبولهم ورفضهم إذن ؟!
وانت في النهاية ستواجه الحياة وحدك ، وعندما تتركها سيتركونك وحدك .
الأوطان لا يبنيها رجلٌ واحدٌ ، وﻻ حفنةُ رجالٍ مهما بلغ منهم الإلهام والعبقرية ، ولكن يبنيها مئات الآﻻف من الرجال والنساء ، ناسٌ أحرارٌ فى وطن حرّ ، كلٌّ يعطي على طريقته وقدر استطاعته.
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تصنعون من الحمقى قادة، ثم تسألون من أين أتى الخراب
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Based on my personal experience in life so far, I’ve come to the conclusion that anything that releases dopamine is addictive—no matter how hard or weird it is.
It could be physical activities like weightlifting or walking, or mental activities like reading and learning.
Therefore, we just need to reprogram our reward system to form new habits. At first, walking 10 km a day might feel difficult, but eventually, one would feel empty if they couldn’t reach that number.